Romance and being Romantic will not make her like you MORE!!

00:11:04
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Zusammenfassung

TLDRIn this video, dating coach Christine explains that romantic gestures, while nice, typically do not increase a woman's attraction. She stresses that if a woman is initially attracted to a man, romantic gestures may be appreciated but will not enhance her feelings. Instead, Christine suggests that being laid-back and making a woman laugh creates a stronger attraction. She advises men to focus on fun experiences and to delay romantic gestures until they are in a committed relationship. Romantic gestures can come across as insincere or manipulative if not genuine. Ultimately, building positive associations through laughter is key to fostering a woman's attraction.

Mitbringsel

  • 💖 Romance is nice but doesn't increase attraction.
  • 😄 Focus on making her laugh for better attraction.
  • 🎉 Keep dates fun and casual instead of overly romantic.
  • 🕐 Save grand romantic gestures for committed relationships.
  • 💡 Women prefer to feel good around you over gifts.
  • 🍃 Simple outings help gauge mutual interest efficiently.
  • ⏳ Delay expensive gestures until in a relationship.
  • 🧘‍♂️ Authenticity is more attractive than calculated romance.
  • 📜 Romantic comedies can mislead your expectations.
  • 🔑 The key to attraction is fostering positive feelings.

Zeitleiste

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    Christine emphasizes that romantic gestures do not significantly increase a woman's attraction in you. While nice gestures like flowers can be appreciated if she is already attracted to you, using romance as a tactic to gain her affection is often perceived as insincere or as an attempt to bribe her. Authenticity in your intentions is crucial; romance should come from genuine feelings rather than as a strategy for dating success.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:11:04

    Instead of focusing on romance, Christine suggests that creating a fun and relaxed environment, where laughter and enjoyment are prioritized, is far more effective in attracting a woman. Women tend to respond better to positive experiences and connections rather than grand romantic gestures, which they may find too intense or too soon in the dating process. Keeping it simple and focusing on shared laughter can lead to a deeper attraction over time.

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Video-Fragen und Antworten

  • Does romance increase a woman's attraction?

    No, romance does not typically raise a woman's attraction. It can be seen as a nice gesture but not as a means to gain her affection.

  • What should I focus on to attract a woman?

    Focus on having fun and making her laugh rather than overly romantic gestures.

  • When is it appropriate to use romantic gestures?

    Romantic gestures are more appropriate once you're in a committed relationship, like when she's your girlfriend or wife.

  • How can I create a fun experience on a date?

    Try to engage in activities that encourage laughter and enjoyment, like casual walks or simple outings.

  • Are romantic gestures a part of my personality?

    Most romantic gestures are learned behaviors rather than intrinsic parts of your personality.

  • What does a woman really want from a dating experience?

    Women generally want to feel good and have positive experiences, often associated with laughter and enjoyment.

  • How should I approach dating women?

    Keep things simple and focus on fun, rather than trying to impress with expensive gifts or grand gestures.

  • How do I know if I should invest in a romantic gesture?

    Wait until you are exclusive or in a committed relationship before investing in romantic gestures.

  • What should I do if a date isn't going well?

    Choose simple dates like a walk or casual drink where you can easily leave if the vibe isn't right.

  • Can humor be more attractive than romance?

    Yes, creating a positive atmosphere through humor and laughter can be more effective in attracting a woman.

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    hi guys my name is Christine and I'm a
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    dating relationship and personal
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    development coach and today I'm talking
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    about romance and being romantic will
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    not make her like you more okay so
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    romance is nice but it rarely raises a
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    woman's attraction in you now the key
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    word there is raises a woman's
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    attraction in you if a woman is
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    attracted to you and you do something
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    romantic for her
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    that's usually quite a nice gesture and
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    she'll usually quite like it but it will
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    not raise her attraction in you it will
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    not make her like you more more often
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    than not she'll just see it as a very
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    nice gesture okay so this is why it's
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    not a good idea to try and use romance
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    as a way to get a woman to like you more
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    okay it's a nice thing to do it's a nice
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    gesture but if you're doing it to get it
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    to like you more then you're not going
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    to okay because first of all if you are
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    doing it right to make her like you more
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    more than likely she's going to know
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    that she's going to know that this is
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    some kind
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    of trick or bribe to get her to like you
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    more and she's going to see that a mile
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    mile away where whereas if it was just
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    like a kind gesture from your heart and
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    it's something that you authentically
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    wanted to do and you had no alterior
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    motive and you let's say for example
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    that you bought her flowers and you just
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    wanted to do that because that's just
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    what you felt compelled to do and it
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    wasn't because you was trying to get her
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    to like you more then she's going to see
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    it as a nice gesture and she's going to
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    be able to tell the authenticity of it
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    okay but more than likely a woman will
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    know if you're doing something because
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    you're trying to get her to like you
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    more she's going to see it as a bribe
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    she's going to see it as a bribe for a
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    relationship or a bribe for sex she's
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    going to see it as a bribe that's what
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    she's going to see it and it's going to
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    make you look creepy it's going to make
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    you not look attractive so if you are
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    going to do something romantic make sure
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    that you check yourself right check your
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    intentions am I doing this to get her to
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    like me more or am I doing this because
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    I really want her to um cuz I just
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    really wanted to because I just felt
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    compelled to do
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    it so being romantic is not going to
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    make a woman like you more okay so what
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    it what does make a woman like you more
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    then okay
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    usually in in just in a nutshell a woman
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    will will naturally like you more if
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    you're a lot more laidback back so
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    you're not doing overly romantic
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    gestures all the time um and you just
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    instead just focus on making her laugh
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    and having a good time when you're out
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    together if you just focus on that and
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    just getting her to laugh uh creating a
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    fun experience for you both because of
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    course you've got to have a good time as
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    well hopefully you know you start dating
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    woman who can make you laugh as well and
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    just enjoying each other and just
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    enjoying the the getting to know each
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    other if you just focus on that and not
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    focusing on buying flowers expensive
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    gifts and trinkets then you're going to
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    have a way easier time of dating women
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    and it's it's going to be it's kind of
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    like a bit of a paradox and or a um sort
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    of like an opposite kind of thing where
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    it's so like the the less you
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    try as in like especially in terms of
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    romantic gestures the less romantic you
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    are and the more you focus actually on
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    fun and laughter um the more likely it
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    is that you're actually going to get the
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    romance that you want the more likely
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    that she's going to fall in love with
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    you a lot quicker right cuz if you are
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    giving out romantic gestures Like Love
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    Letters
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    flowers um telling her how you feel
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    about her too soon these things are
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    going to put blocks in your way whereas
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    if you only just focus on having a laugh
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    having a good time having fun getting
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    her to laugh um getting her to talk
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    about things she likes to talk about
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    then you're going to have a way better
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    time of it it's going to be so much more
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    easier for you okay and dating would you
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    just be so much more easier for you
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    so just just keep it simple for yourself
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    and just focus on making her laugh and
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    having a good time that just that that's
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    it that's all you need to do that's all
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    you really need to do to get a woman's
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    attraction to raise um you don't have to
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    do anything else cuz women are more
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    focused on how you make them
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    feel
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    um they don't think logically when it
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    comes to romance um they think of okay
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    he made me laugh I feel good when I'm
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    around him CU he makes me laugh laugh
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    and that usually raises her attraction
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    in you because it makes her feel good
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    she likes to hang around with you
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    because you make her laugh it's simple
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    right it's a very simple formula right
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    the more positive feeling she Associates
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    to you like laughter for example that's
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    a huge one the best one the the more
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    likely she's going to want to stay
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    around you and hang around
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    you but things like
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    romance those things can feel quite
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    serious to a woman right those things
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    can feel quite like a very serious
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    emotion um and can elicit serious
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    emotions right cuz romance is quite like
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    I'm doing this gesture for you and it's
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    a very Grand gesture it's not very fun
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    it's not very light-hearted it's a very
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    romantic intense emotion when you do a
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    romantic gesture and she might not be
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    just she might not be ready for those
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    kind of gestures yet so it's better to
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    just keep things simple and just focus
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    on fun focus on laughter focus on having
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    a good
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    time now I don't want you to be fooled
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    into thinking that being romantic is a
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    part of your personality CU you might be
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    thinking right now well being romantic
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    is just who I am it's just it's just the
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    kind of guy that I am more likely it's
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    not because romance and those romantic
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    gestures are things that you've learned
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    and observed over
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    time okay they're things that you've
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    learned and observed they're not part of
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    your personality and they are not part
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    of who you
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    are okay now it may be the case that you
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    have grandparents and you thought and
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    and you perhaps you observed your
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    grandfather bringing your grandmother
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    flowers and she loved them right again
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    it probably didn't raise her attraction
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    in your grandfather she saw it as a nice
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    gesture and because she was already in
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    love with him cuz more than likely than
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    not they were already married you know
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    it she saw it as a nice gesture and she
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    probably loved it cuz it was it was
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    something thoughtful that he had done
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    but again they were already married they
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    were already in something committed it's
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    not going to it's so it's not a good
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    idea to do these things these romantic
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    gestures like bringing flowers gifts
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    with a woman you're just dating because
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    you're only just dating she's not in
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    love with you yet right she's not your
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    girlfriend she's not your
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    wife so another you CU again with the
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    big romantic gestures these are things
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    that you've probably also observed in
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    movies in those big romantic comedies
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    right and romantic comedies are a really
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    bad way to learn about love and learn
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    how to about learn about attracting
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    women um because it's usually a false
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    reality because and you've probably
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    experienced this yourself as well if
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    you've if you've done things like right
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    along long love letter to a crush how
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    did that work out did she fall in love
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    with you did she become your
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    girlfriend are you are you still
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    together are you in a romantic
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    relationship with them still are you
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    married
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    now
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    yeah it's just not the way that women
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    respond to attraction it's not going to
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    make like I said it's not going to make
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    her like you more so it's always the
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    best to just remove the romantic
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    gestures when you're just dating wait
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    for her to become your girlfriend or
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    your wife CU it matters more to women
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    then cuz it show it doesn't raise her
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    attraction but it shows that you care it
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    shows to her that you're thoughtful and
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    that's why she likes it she doesn't
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    think oh right great he brought me
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    flowers oh my God he looks so hot with
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    those bunch of flowers I want to jump
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    his bones right that's not what's going
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    to make her attracted to you and raise
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    her attraction level she's just going to
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    see it as a knce
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    gesture okay so leave those things aside
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    of course you can do those things those
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    things aren't bad to do they like I said
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    it's a nice gesture and it shows that
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    you're thoughtful but it's better to do
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    that with a woman who is already your
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    girlfriend or already your wife so just
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    hold off until she is just hold off
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    until you guys are exclusive and then
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    you can buy her something nice for a
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    birthday or Valentine's Day or on an
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    anniversary do a nice romantic gesture
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    then right and but with the women you're
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    just dating who are who who are not your
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    girlfriend you're not in committed with
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    them yet you're still getting to know
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    them and you're still in the getting to
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    know each other process just hold off
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    just wait just wait okay because it
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    might not work out anyway and then maybe
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    you would have wasted a lot of money on
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    a girl that it just didn't work out with
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    so that if you've bought like a you know
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    like a bunch of flowers for like £50 you
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    know that's a waste of money cuz that
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    with that girl it didn't go very far
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    with her so just hold off keep you keep
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    your change keep your money money to
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    yourself right just pay out you know
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    things like maybe when you go out on
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    dates you know but a lot of the time
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    these days women are okay to pay as well
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    um it just depends on what you want and
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    of course you know when you go on a
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    first date you don't even have to do
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    anything where you spend money when I
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    first met my wife we didn't spend any
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    money at all I didn't spend any money
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    she didn't spend any money we just met
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    out and went for a walk that's what we
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    did we didn't do anything big we just
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    went out for for a walk and just got to
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    got we just did laps around the park and
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    got to know each other that way and
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    that's a really great way as well and
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    also if but if you let's say you live in
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    a city you don't live near any nice
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    Parks then just meet for a drink so you
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    know and arrive early P pay for your
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    drink and you know if you want to you
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    can pay for hers but more than likely
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    she can pay for her own or maybe she you
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    wait for her to get there early so she's
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    already bought her drink or I don't know
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    whatever you want to do but again you're
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    not going to be paying loads of money to
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    when if you just meet out for a drink
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    and also if you just meet out for a walk
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    or a drink if you don't like the woman
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    you could easily leave after half an
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    hour if you can tell
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    that you guys aren't um vibing right but
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    if you are then you can extend the date
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    and do something else and do something
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    different and get to know each other
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    more um but it's always a good idea to
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    just do something simple that where you
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    could easily leave cuz you know it you
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    may not like her or you can tell maybe
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    that she doesn't like you and she's not
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    that into you so that may be your reason
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    to leave as well so don't focus on being
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    romantic wait for her to be your
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    girlfriend or your wife then do things
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    that are more romantic and um yeah just
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    focus focus on laughter just focus on
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    making her laugh give her the gift of
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    laughter instead and that can actually
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    be the most romantic thing you can ever
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    give a woman to uplift her and make her
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    smile okay so thank you so much for
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    watching if You' like to get in touch me
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    reader um and I shall talk to you again
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    very soon goodbye
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