To any young guy who's never had a gf and just wants to feel loved...

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NelUFgiC1PA

Zusammenfassung

TLDRIn this reflective video, Jack shares his experiences with anxiety, self-image, and the unexpected attention he received from girls after a viral video. He discusses a moment in class that triggered his anxiety and how he sought advice from ChatGPT to cope with his feelings. Jack explores the complexities of intimacy and the feelings of shame and guilt that arose from his actions. He emphasizes the importance of self-respect and personal growth during the single phase of life, encouraging viewers to embrace their youth and focus on becoming the best version of themselves. Ultimately, he conveys that craving love is a normal human experience and that one should choose partners out of desire rather than desperation.

Mitbringsel

  • 😟 Jack struggles with anxiety and self-image.
  • 💬 He seeks advice from ChatGPT after a triggering moment in class.
  • 📈 A viral video brings unexpected attention from girls.
  • 😔 Feelings of shame and guilt arise from his actions.
  • ❤️ Craving love is a normal human experience.
  • 🧘‍♂️ Emphasizes the importance of self-respect.
  • 🌱 Encourages personal growth during the single phase.
  • ⏳ Reminds viewers that they are still young.
  • 💑 Advises to choose partners out of desire, not desperation.
  • ✨ Embrace the single phase and its benefits.

Zeitleiste

  • 00:00:00 - 00:08:02

    The speaker reflects on a moment in high school when a classmate made a joke about his anxiety, leading him to seek advice from ChatGPT. This experience triggered a wave of emotions and a craving for intimacy, coinciding with newfound attention from females after a viral video. Despite the excitement, he struggled with feelings of shame and guilt, realizing that his interactions were driven by lust rather than genuine connection. After graduating, he fell back into a rut, craving love and acceptance, but ultimately accepted that it's normal to desire love. He emphasizes the importance of self-respect and personal growth, encouraging viewers to embrace their single life and focus on becoming the best version of themselves without acting out of desperation.

Mind Map

Video-Fragen und Antworten

  • What did Jack experience in class that triggered his anxiety?

    Jack was asked for advice about blushing, which is one of his biggest insecurities.

  • How did Jack respond to the girl's question in class?

    He looked out the window and said nothing due to his anxiety.

  • What did Jack do after feeling anxious about the situation?

    He logged onto his computer and asked ChatGPT for advice on how to handle such situations.

  • What influx of attention did Jack receive after a viral video?

    He received many direct messages from girls on Instagram, which was a new experience for him.

  • What feelings did Jack experience after receiving attention from girls?

    He felt shame and guilt, leading him to romanticize futures with girls he knew weren't right for him.

  • What realization did Jack come to about love and being single?

    He accepted that craving love is normal and emphasized the importance of self-respect and personal growth.

  • What advice does Jack give about relationships?

    He advises to choose a partner out of desire, not desperation, and to respect oneself during the process of personal growth.

  • What does Jack say about the rush to find a partner?

    He reminds viewers that they are still young and should focus on becoming the best version of themselves.

  • What does Jack suggest about enjoying single life?

    He encourages embracing the single phase and recognizing its benefits.

  • What is the overall message of Jack's video?

    The importance of self-respect, personal growth, and the normalcy of craving love.

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  • 00:00:00
    So about 6 months ago, I am still in
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    high school at this point. I'm sitting
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    in class and somehow the conversation
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    turns to me. The teacher starts talking
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    about me in my
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    videos and a girl from across the class,
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    she yells out to me and she asks me,
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    "Jack, do you have any advice for my
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    face going red?" And I know she's taking
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    the piss
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    because her friends are laughing, she's
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    laughing, and everyone knows this is one
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    of my biggest insecurities cuz I can't
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    control it. My face just goes red when I
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    get extremely anxious and I'm an
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    extremely anxious person at heart.
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    Always have been since I was, you know,
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    10, 11 years old. So, what do I do in
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    that situation? I'm meant to be the dude
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    who makes these types of videos. I'm
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    meant to be the strong do. But I wasn't
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    that in that in in that situation. I
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    just looked out the window and said
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    nothing cuz my anxiety took over. So, I
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    remember getting home that night and
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    logging onto me computer and asking chat
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    GPT, "What is the best thing I could
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    have done in a situation like this? How
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    can I learn from it?" But because it
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    gave me such a good response cuz chat
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    JBT is like a self-confirmation bias, I
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    started asking it more and more and more
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    deeper questions. Questions you should
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    probably ask in therapy or some [ __ ] I
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    don't know, maybe that's just me, but
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    I'm sure someone can relate to me out
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    there with that.
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    So because I'm expressing these emotions
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    that have been bottled up for a
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    while, that feeling that that crave for
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    intimacy is very intense. It's like all
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    my emotions have been amplified. And
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    intimacy, the the sexual desire is the
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    strongest desire in the body. It makes
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    sense.
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    And coincidentally, at this time, I had
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    a video go pretty viral that was
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    targeted for males and females.
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    So, I think 13 13 million females saw
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    that video. So, I had a lot of females
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    on Instagram DM me. I've never gotten
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    this before. I've never got this influx
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    of female attention ever in my
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    life. So, it takes me over. Yeah,
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    there's plenty of, you know, very
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    attractive women who reached out and
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    lust took over again. And I relapsed, I
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    think, like every day for a week. Not to
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    pornography cuz I don't watch that
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    anymore, but just still things I think I
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    shouldn't have
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    [Music]
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    done. And to combat this shame and
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    guilt, cuz it was heavy feelings of
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    shame and guilt. It was, it was
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    heavy. I start talking to these girls
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    more.
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    I
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    start romanticizing a future about them
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    because I'm a very romantic type of
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    person. That's just who I
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    am. I can't I start I start, you know,
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    [ __ ] imagining futures with girls who
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    I'm not who I know aren't for me because
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    I was desperate. I was I'd never really
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    gotten this feeling before ever. It was
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    something really new and exciting to me.
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    But I knew at the back of my mind the
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    majority of these girls I was talking to
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    were just
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    bored. They weren't actually interested
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    in me. I wasn't actually interested in
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    them. It was more of a lust instead of
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    love. I was just desperate. And that is
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    disrespectful to myself and that is
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    disrespectful to the ideal woman who I
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    genuinely admire. And I knew that it was
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    just clouded by lust at that time. So I
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    made that video. I fell back into Last
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    Again, boys, which is pretty popular.
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    Has nearly like a million views nearly.
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    Um, which is crazy for something like
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    that. I got out of the
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    rut. I locked in. Exams were coming up,
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    so I really needed to. And I graduated
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    high school. And I couldn't wait to get
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    out. Yeah. To experience, find my
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    people, connect with people who, you
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    know, I can I can emotionally relate to.
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    But I fell back into the rut
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    again because all I was doing was
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    [ __ ] the only time I'd go outside was
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    to make a
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    video. I'd just be inside like reading.
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    I would train at home. I would plan
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    videos at home. That's all I
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    do. So
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    that feeling for love came up again. I
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    craved it again just like I did around 6
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    months ago. heavy. I Every single human
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    craves love. Every single one of them.
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    And they always do cuz it's human
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    nature. We can't combat the feeling.
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    Everyone craves it. So I accepted
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    it. I accepted to myself that love is a
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    beautiful thing. Always will be. It just
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    depends on how you respond to it. And I
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    think I responded to it in a good way. I
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    accepted
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    it. I
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    did. It is so normal to crave love.
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    you you know if you're watching this
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    video, you've probably been single your
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    whole
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    life. It's
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    normal. And you're not alone. There is
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    so many people because of social media
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    and
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    [ __ ] There are so many people in your
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    position. 100%. I am. I had a girlfriend
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    at 12 years old. I don't count that.
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    I've never had a
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    girlfriend. I'm not ashamed to admit
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    that. I'm 19. I'm still a young. Like,
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    why are you in such a rush?
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    You are still so
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    young. And I speak to myself. I'm
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    speaking to myself here, but I'm
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    speaking to you as
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    well. This is literally the worst
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    version of yourself that there will ever
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    be. You are only going to get better and
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    better and better and
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    better. Now, assuming that you get
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    better every
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    day, what's the
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    rush? I'm not telling you this because
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    you want to hear it. I'm telling you
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    this because you need to hear it. Just
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    like you were when you were a kid. All
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    you wanted to be was an
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    adult. When you became an adult, you
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    realized the problems of becoming an
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    adult. And then when you became an
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    adult, all you can think about was the
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    pleasures of being a kid because you
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    forgot about the problems of being a
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    kid. Even though as a kid, all you
  • 00:06:16
    thought about was the problems of being
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    a kid. And it's exactly the same with
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    single life, especially as a young man.
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    But it's probably the same for
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    women. It's all you think about is a
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    negative.
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    And it's not like when you do get with
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    someone, you're not going to enjoy it.
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    And all you all you want to be is a kid
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    again. All you want to be is single
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    again. No, probably not. Assuming it's a
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    person that you are genuinely compatible
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    with. But
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    you maybe I'm coping, but I I really
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    don't think I am. I am going to regret
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    if I don't do this. I am going to regret
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    not spending single life to its fullest.
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    110%. Because there's benefits to
  • 00:07:00
    both. What's up, bro? How's it going?
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    Oh, [ __ ] I didn't recognize you.
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    [ __ ] hell. No, it's a good view,
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    though. So, I'm like, [ __ ] it. I'll get
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    a video. But, um, how you guys going?
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    But, as I was saying, I just came across
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    a couple of mates from
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    school. Enjoy this
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    [ __ ] Enjoy it, bro.
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    Fall in love with the process of
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    becoming the man that attracts your
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    ideal. Fall in love with it cuz you will
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    miss it one day 100%. There'll be parts
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    of it that you
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    miss. Put some respect on yourself,
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    bro. Respect your time. Respect your
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    energy. Transmute that feeling into what
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    you know is best. Don't act out of
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    desperation. Choose a girl because you
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    can, not because you need to. I hope you
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    enjoyed this video. I kind of lost me
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    flow there, but I hope it's valuable.
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    All right, much love, bro. And I will
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    catch you in the next one.
Tags
  • anxiety
  • self-image
  • intimacy
  • personal growth
  • self-respect
  • love
  • single life
  • youth
  • relationships
  • viral video