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so it's easy to get stuck in your head
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and wonder if you're actually an
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attractive guy or not but it's important
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to understand that we often view
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ourselves as being less attractive than
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how other people perceive us so in this
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video I'm going to go over some signs
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that let you know from an outside
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perspective that you are more handsome
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and attractive than you realize number
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one unattractive girls always hit on you
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now have you ever noticed that the girls
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that are the most aggressive with the
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signals they send and straight up
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hitting on you are always the ones that
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you don't want it's like the male
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version of cat calling you get these
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women that you have no interest in yet
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they will damn near throw themselves at
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you and say all kinds of out- of Pocket
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things to try and get with you they send
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the heart eyes on your Instagram story
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they always go out of their way to spark
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up a conversation and make some super
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bold flirtatious comment or say
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something awkward and they won't
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hesitate to do this in front of other
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women as a way to compete with them or
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sabotage you or just to try and steal
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the show to get some attention from you
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even if that means negative attention
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these women can get on your nerves at
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times and actually be problematic in
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some scenarios but it's a sign that
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you're handsome and attractive man
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because at the end of the day even
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though they're unattractive to you
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they're still women and if some women
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think you're attractive you can bet that
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there's many more that do too and the
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most attractive women will try to act
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like you don't exist a lot of the time
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because they view it as feeding your ego
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and the last thing they want to do is
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give you validation and feed the ego
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that they think you have a lot of them
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will also believe it's just beneath them
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to show you any interest so they'll play
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games so all in all if you're ever
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confused that why the girls you're not
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into are the ones that hit on you and
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the ones you're actually into who don't
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just know that you're an attractive guy
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to both groups of women it's just that
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the unattractive ones are louder about
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it number two married women hit on you
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now another interesting group is married
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women and I remember about five or six
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years ago now A friend of mine had a
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sister that would always throw these
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little flirtatious comments here and
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there or give me certain looks even
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though she was married but one night
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specifically she decided to crank that
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flame all the way up to 10 and we were
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at a party and I went outside to talk to
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some friends that were out there having
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a drink and she came out and pulled me
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to the side and just straight up up said
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that if she wasn't married she'd get
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with me right then and there and I was
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like damn this woman has a husband who's
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probably 50 ft away from us inside this
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house and she's saying all this stuff
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now she was obviously very bold with
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what she said but the bigger Point here
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is that you'll sometimes get married
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women flirting with you verbally and
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with their expressions but not
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necessarily intending to act on it all
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the way to the physical and you don't
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want them to act on it anyway leave that
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drama for someone else to mess with and
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another example of this was with a gym
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friend of mine a while back this married
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woman would always come in and smile at
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him make small talk and eventually even
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exchange Instagrams with him she
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wouldn't hesitate to react to his
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Instagram stories or leave little
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innocent comments but she never
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escalated it to the physical she just
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found him attractive and like the
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attention the point here is that married
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women will sometimes be bolder than
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single women because they draw this
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imaginary boundary in their mind of
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being able to push the flirting far but
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not too far because at the end of the
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day they have a man at home so they
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don't have anything to lose by flirting
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at a distance and risking rejection and
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some of you might be saying well she
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risked losing her man at home but the
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mindset is well if he doesn't find out
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no harm no foul right it's a messed up
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way of thinking but the lack of respect
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by some of these married women has them
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doing things like that and sometimes
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that boundary they draw in their head is
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outright disrespectful as hell to their
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husband and other times it's these
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seemingly innocent comments or actions
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that can be denied and played off as
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them just being friendly because they'll
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usually hide behind that Shield of oh
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well I was I was just being friendly if
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you call them out on it or if someone
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else does but the thing is that you know
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better and I know better and you know
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when a married woman has giv you that
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energy and it's just another sign that
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you're an attractive man number three
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your friends catch girls looking as you
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pass by another thing about women is
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that they are highly aware of their
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surroundings and social situations but
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many guys simply aren't and I've been
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guilty of not noticing certain girls
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around me in the past as well but if
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you're a handsome guy you will have
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friends both male and female catching
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girls giving you looks and glances
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across the room and especially when you
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pass by as I've discussed in other
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videos before as a handsome and
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attractive guy you are intimidating to
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women and they will outright admit this
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if you ask some of them so because of
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this the most attractive women will
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often not give you any signals at all
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and instead just glance or stare at you
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as you pass by or check you out from a
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distance this can obviously be hard to
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notice if your back is to them or you're
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paying attention to something else but
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people around you will catch it and
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especially other women it's like the
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classic scenario where you walk into a
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room with a girl and she mentions that
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some other girl is giving her a dirty
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look and you're like what girl I I don't
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even know who you're talking about I
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didn't notice this girl at all where is
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she and I experienced this myself last
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year when I was at a crowded bar with a
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group one night and a girl I know said
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that this other girl at the end of the
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bar kept staring at me but I didn't even
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notice she was there until she pointed
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her out but according to my friend that
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girl kept looking over my way all night
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and I had no idea sometimes it's easier
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for us to spot signals for other people
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than it is to spot them for ourselves so
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pay attention to the feedback your
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friends give you if they're mentioning
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girls glancing or staring then don't
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second can guess it you're getting that
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attention for a reason number four guys
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make comments now this next one comes
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from our side of the field but dudes
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around you will make comments if you're
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an attractive guy and I don't just mean
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gay guys although that's absolutely a
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sign too if you get that kind of energy
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if gay men are hitting on you you're
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definitely attractive to women as well
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but straight guys will even say things
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like oh what's up pretty boy okay GQ all
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right slick I see you stud you know
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stuff like that and here's the thing men
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have eyes just like women do and we know
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when a guy is good-looking just like we
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know when a girl is good-looking and
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ain't rocket science so if you're
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getting comments like this you can be
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sure that women are thinking the same
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thing another one is if guys say things
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like what's up boss hey boss if you're
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getting that type of treatment
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repeatedly it means you have a presence
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about you that is masculine and you
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don't look like some lame dude it's
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indicative of you having an aura about
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you that is attractive to women so don't
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ignore the positive comments or the
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trolling comments that you get from guys
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because there's elements of Truth to
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them they know what's up just like women
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do number five people say that you
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remind them of someone who is famous
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another aspect to pay attention to is
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the comparisons you get to other people
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and especially celebrities and before I
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description below if someone says you
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remind them of a certain actor singer or
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whoever that's often a sign that you're
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an attractive man even if the comparison
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is someone that you find to be kind of a
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weird one or a celebrity that you don't
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find that attractive it's still means
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that people are recognizing you in
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comparison to a notable figure and on
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average notable figures are usually held
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in high regard and it goes without
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saying that if you don't find the
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comparison to be attractive it doesn't
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mean that other people don't generally
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speaking famous and notable comparisons
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are a good thing and a strong indicator
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that you're a handsome and attractive
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guy number six compliments on
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non-physical traits now this one can be
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sneaky if you don't understand the
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bigger picture of what's going on you
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have to be able to read between the
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lines and that's when women complements
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you on non-physical traits like your
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voice your laugh the way you dress or
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the way you carry yourself things like
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that and here's the thing to understand
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and really drill into your head women do
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not give free attention but men give
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free attention to women all the time it
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doesn't matter if a girl has 20
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followers on Instagram and post a thirst
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trap there will be some dude who's
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sliding into her DMS or leaving a
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comment or if a girl is looking cute
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walking down the street you can bet that
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someone is going to say something but
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this doesn't apply in Reverse for men
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and attractive women do not usually give
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out attention just for fun so if girls
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go out of their way to comment on some
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of your non-physical traits in a
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positive way the bigger message there is
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that you're an attractive guy in general
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guys will straight up tell a woman she's
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beautiful but women won't comment on
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your looks outright a lot of the time
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even though they think you're a handsome
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guy they don't always show their hand
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that easily and you'll have to
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understand what's being said without it
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being said it's one of those things
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where if you know you know now you want
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to make sure that you're taking care of
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the basics to keep yourself looking
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handsome and attractive so make sure to
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check out this video next where I go
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over some of my favorite tips to keep
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you looking your absolute best and I
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will see you in the next one
