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Hello peachies, welcome
back to dear peachie.
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Do you have a friend who always looks expensive,
and seems to radiate elegance and composure,
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giving off an impression of effortless
grace and poise in everything they do?
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While some might attribute this to wealth,
we assure you, you don't need to spend a
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fortune to appear refined and classy.
We are not talking expensive like you’ve spent
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loads of money on designer branded pieces,
and put them obviously on display. Instead,
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looking expensive is about confidence,
consideration, care and elegance.
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It's more of the energy of how you want to
present yourself to the world. This includes
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many facets of grooming, style and how you
carry yourself, and combining all these
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elements together to create this elevated
version of yourself that you're confident
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to present to the world. This could apply to
your personal life, work, dating and more.
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So today we would like to share some tips on how
you can level up your game without breaking the
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bank, all of which you can start adopting today!
These tips will help you leave a confident,
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polished, and poised impression in
your social interactions.
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We’re going to discuss everything from beauty
to mindset and everything related. First
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things first, you need to get the basics
right, starting with your foundations.
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Before you think about what to wear, it’s
essential to make sure you’re well groomed
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and polished. Looking expensive means having
a healthy, radiant complexion, which includes
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good skin, hair, teeth, and nails.
Clear, radiant skin improves your complexion
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and shows that you take good care of yourself.
It is so important to have a good skincare routine
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that agrees with you.This doesn’t mean spending
a fortune on skincare products, but finding
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what works for you and committing to it.
Drinking plenty of water, eating a healthy diet,
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exercising regularly, and getting adequate
sleep and rest can naturally enhance your
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facial complexion, giving you a healthy glow
from within. Wear sunscreen and stick to a
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skincare routine that suits your skin
type. If you have skin issues, don’t
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hesitate to seek advice from a dermatologist.
Good skin provides you a good and solid base for
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putting your makeup onto. Keep your eyebrows and
facial hair well-groomed, and don't forget about
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the skin on your body. Exfoliate and moisturise
regularly, to achieve an overall polished look
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like you're taking great care of yourself.
Clear, healthy, and radiant skin, paired with a
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well-nourished and well-rested complexion, makes
you look more attractive and sophisticated.
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When it comes to makeup, a simple everyday
makeup style that suits your features is key.
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To look expensive, keep your makeup clean
and polished. A light layer of foundation
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that matches your skin tone, along with subtle
makeup, creates a timeless look. Aim for a pretty,
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prepped, and polished appearance without
going over the top. A rich girl’s makeup
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look is almost minimalistic.
Following on from skincare and makeup, next
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up would be hair care. Healthy hair is expensive
hair. It’s hard to pull off that expensive look if
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your hair is brittle and damaged. Healthy hair has
a natural sheen that exudes sophistication.
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While you don’t have to stop dyeing your hair,
maintaining shiny, healthy locks can give you a
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naturally elegant and polished appearance. Just
like skincare, you’ve got to understand your
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hair to make it look expensive on a budget.
If you’re unsure how to take care of your hair,
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don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Check out our
recent video on haircare to help you achieve that
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lustrous look. The link is right up here.
Aside from maintaining healthy hair, there
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are key qualities to consider when changing your
hair color. Investing in your hair color can give
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you a totally different look, but only if done
correctly. Knowing what makes a good hair color
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is essential. Here are six basic principles every
hair color should meet to look luxurious.
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Expensive hair color looks natural and
believable, as if it could be your natural hair
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color. It should appear to grow out of your head
without any intervention from a colorist.
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Avoid One-Dimensional Color. High-quality
hair color contains multiple shades blended
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together for a multidimensional effect that
isn't a solid, one-color mass. This creates
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a more natural and luxurious look.
Luxurious hair color incorporates a mix
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of different shades, known as highlights
and lowlights, that are woven together.
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This prevents any single shade from standing
out too much, adding depth and preventing the
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color from washing out your skin tone.
Expensive-looking hair color features brighter
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strands around the face and darker shades in
the back, mimicking natural hair color patterns,
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even for natural blondes who often
have darker hair at the nape.
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The richest-looking hair color doesn't stray
too far from your natural hair color. A good
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rule of thumb is to stay within three shades
of your original color, enhancing rather than
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completely changing your true beauty.
Just like what we've said just now, A glossy,
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shiny finish is just as important as the
color itself. For hair color to look rich,
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it needs a healthy shine that gives it a
three-dimensional effect.
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Moving right down your body, let’s touch on nails.
They may be small but they make a big impact.
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Dirty and chipped nails can ruin your
look, but don’t be pressured to get a
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manicure and pedicure every time.
Just keep your nails clean and buffed.
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Trim your fingernails and toenails every two to
three weeks. After you shower, rub a towel on your
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cuticles and moisturise with cuticle oil.
If you do go for manicures or pedicures,
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choose shades that harmonise with your skin
tone. Peach, milk, sand, pale pink, and beige
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shades emphasise natural beauty. Opt for short
tips, they’re classy, chic, easy to maintain,
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and blend well with your look. Longer nails
can be harder to upkeep and chip easily,
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which might affect your polished appearance,
but the choice is entirely up to you.
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Dental care makes you look expensive. A
white, sparkling set of teeth reflects
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excellent self-care and attention-to-detail.
Healthy teeth are radiant, polished, bright,
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and naturally white. On the other hand,
poorly maintained teeth can be chipped,
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dull, and stained, giving off a
less polished impression.
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Here’s how to achieve that million-dollar
smile with these good dental habits:
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Brush your teeth at least twice a day.
Floss every day to keep your gums healthy.
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Use mouth rinse to keep your breath fresh.
Visit your dentist regularly for check-ups
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and professional cleanings.
Drink a glass of water after
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meals to wash away potential stains.
Limit your intake of coffee and tea.
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Cut down on sugary or acidic foods.
Quit smoking for better
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oral health and overall wellness.
By following these tips, you can ensure
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your smile looks radiant and well-maintained,
enhancing your overall appearance.
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First of all, If you want to look expensive
and put together, you don’t need to have
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the budget to match it. However you do need
to spend a little bit of time curating the
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perfect wardrobe that will compliment you.
Many people get caught up in following trends or
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wearing what others suggest, thinking that's the
key to looking expensive, chic and polished. But
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dressing ‘expensively’ relies on one’s budget
less than you might think. Sure, you might not
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be able to splurge on that designer handbag right
now, but looking polished isn't about flaunting as
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many logos as possible in an outfit. In fact,
the most expensive-looking outfits often have
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no visible labels at all.
Go for Quality, Not Brands
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Choose pieces within your budget and prioritise
quality over quantity. Invest in timeless pieces
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made from natural fabrics like cotton, linen,
wool, silk, and cashmere. Stick to classic,
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neutral colours that never go out of style. Avoid
trendy, flashy pieces that will quickly date your
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look. Opt for high-quality, well-made items that
can be mixed and matched to provide a timeless
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base for your wardrobe. Don’t be afraid to
add pops of colour or unique accessories
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to make your look your own.You can also
experiment with different textures,
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like a wool blazer or a silk scarf, to add
interest and depth to your outfits. The key
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is to balance classic pieces with personal style
so you look timeless but not outdated.
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Fit is everything when it comes to looking
polished. Tailored pieces are perhaps the
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easiest way to elevate your wardrobe. If
your clothes don’t fit well, you won’t look
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put-together. So find a tailor who can make
sure all your clothes fit perfectly.
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Your clothes need some ‘grooming’ and maintenance
too. Pay attention to details like loose threads,
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wrinkles, lint, or stains. Ensure your
clothes are ironed or steamed to release
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any wrinkles. Regardless of the price range,
wrinkle-free clothes always look better.
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A lint roller is your best friend, especially
for dark-coloured clothes that easily show dust
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and hair. Running a lint roller over your
clothes makes your look more presentable.
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A stain pen comes in handy for quickly
fixing accidental stains.
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In addition to personal care, which we
discussed earlier, taking care of your
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personal items is equally important for
creating a polished and expensive look.
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Look at your phone case now. Is it yellowed
or dirty? Are there fingerprints or smudges
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on your phone screen? Or glasses? Are
there stains on your shoes or bags?
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Keeping these everyday items clean is a simple yet
effective way to maintain a polished appearance.
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It shows that you pay attention to details
and take care of your belongings, leaving a
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lasting impression of sophistication.
To create a polished impression, it's essential
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to smell good all day. Basic personal care
and hygiene are crucial—wear clean clothes,
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shower daily, use deodorant or fragrance, and opt
for scented personal care products like shampoos,
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conditioners, body oils, or lotions.
When it comes to fragrance, scents that smell
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expensive are usually fresh and natural, not
too heavy, sweet, or powdery. Your fragrance
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shouldn't announce your arrival or fill
the entire room. It should be subtle,
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noticeable only to those who come close.
You don't have to spend a fortune on good
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perfumes that smell expensive, though
high-end perfumes can be pricey. Look for
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deals at your favourite department stores
and save up for something you love.
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Discovering your signature scent that reflects
your personality and taste is another exciting
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area to explore. If you're interested in
learning more about finding the perfect
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fragrance, let us know in the comments, and
we might post a video on the topic!
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Maintaining a good posture is a simple yet
powerful way to be more expensive-looking. The way
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you carry yourself affects how people respond to
you and, at least as important, how you feel about
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yourself. When you stand tall and don't slouch
when you sit, you appear more confident.
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Let us do spot check: are you slouching
while watching this video? Sit up straight
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and hold your chin up! If you have a habit of
slouching, try doing some exercises to improve
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your posture. If you would like to know about
more tips on improving your overall posture
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to elevate your look, we have a video on that
topic too. If you haven't watched it already,
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please give it a watch!
Cultivating an elegant posture
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allows your clothes to sit better, and makes
your frame appear slender and more elongated,
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you’ll feel more confident, empowered and
motivated. With an elegant posture, you’ll
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certainly exude more grace and poise.
Our body language can speak volumes without a
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single word. Regardless of how expensive your
clothing or accessories may be, if you don't
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feel confident and comfortable in them, the look
will fall flat. Confidence comes from within and
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cannot be bought or worn. Here are two key points
to help you nail the sophisticated aura.
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First, reduce fidgeting. Nervous habits can
make you seem uneasy and less confident. If
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you find yourself unsure of where to place your
hands or where to look in important situations,
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try folding your hands in front of
you and maintaining eye contact with
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the person you're speaking to. This will help
you appear more composed and confident.
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Second, make eye contact. Looking people in
the eye when you speak shows confidence and
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builds trust. Whether you're shy or
socially anxious, making eye contact
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communicates sincerity and a solid connection.
In social settings, a firm handshake and a
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steady gaze are crucial. Avoid looking away or
appearing uncertain, as this can make you seem
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less confident and assertive.
What we say often reflects who we are,
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so it's time for a little speech makeover
to present ourselves better to others.
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First, speak slowly. Ever felt like your words
were playing a game of tag during a speech or
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conversation? Speaking too quickly can make you
seem anxious, like you're trying to outrun your
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own thoughts. Practice speaking slowly and
deliberately. This not only makes you appear
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more confident and composed but also gives
you time to think before you speak. Plus,
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a calm and assured tone is always attractive.
Your tone and manner of speaking significantly
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impact your demeanor. Speaking hastily can
make you seem like a squirrel on caffeine,
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while a lack of energy might make you sound like
you're narrating a documentary on watching paint
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dry. Aim for a calm, steady tone, especially
in public or professional settings. Lowering
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your voice slightly can enhance your credibility
and make you seem more composed and persuasive.
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Stay calm and avoid raising your voice when
you’re upset. Learn to speak calmly and evenly,
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even if someone is pushing your buttons. After
all, who needs a loud argument when you can have
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a cool and collected conversation?
Good courtesy and etiquette are essential
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parts of projecting an expensive persona.
Start by expressing gratitude and politeness
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regularly. A simple "thank you" goes a long way.
It's a small gesture that reflects respect and
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appreciation. Plus, it makes you seem
like a genuinely nice person—which,
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let's be honest, is always in style.
Dressing appropriately for the occasion
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is another key. Choose clothes that fit the
event or setting. For example, wear formal
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attire to a wedding or business attire for a job
interview. Consider the weather, time of day,
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and cultural norms. By dressing appropriately,
you show respect for the occasion and the people
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around you. It's also a great way to avoid any
awkward fashion faux pas, as nobody wants to
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be the one in shorts at a black-tie event!
Putting away your phone during social interactions
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is crucial. When you're in a social setting, be
fully present and engaged with the people around
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you. By putting away your phone, you signal
that you are giving your full attention to
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the conversation. This shows that you value
the person and the interaction, and that
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you're not easily distracted by your phone.
Finally, listen actively and engage in thoughtful
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conversation. Pay attention, ask questions,
and show genuine interest. Not only does this
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make you a more enjoyable conversationalist, but
it also helps you come across as thoughtful and
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intelligent. And who doesn't want to be seen as
the suave, sophisticated one in the room?
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Having education and taste is essential. Education
is not just about attending prestigious schools
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or earning degrees, but rather about keeping an
open mind and being curious about the world around
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us.Taste, on the other hand, involves having a
refined sense of style, art, music, and design.
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It’s about having an eye for quality and beauty
and appreciating the finer things in life.
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Here are some ways to
cultivate education and taste:
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Read widely, by exploring
books on a variety of topics.
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Visit cultural venues, by spending time in
museums, galleries, and at cultural events.
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Expand your musical horizons,
by listening to various music
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genres and attending concerts and shows.
Travel, by exploring different countries and
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immersing yourself in their local cultures.
Explore cuisines, by trying new foods and
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learning about food and wine pairings.
You might think some of these activities might
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require some spending. However, the easiest and
most affordable way to develop your taste and
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education is through reading. Develop a reading
habit and dive into books on a wide variety of
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topics, including science, history, literature,
art, and philosophy. As an old Chinese saying
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goes, "A mind enriched with knowledge exudes a
natural grace". Reading enhances your demeanor by
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enriching your thoughts and perspectives.
Reading allows you to focus and engage deeply
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with the material, fostering a sense of calm
and intellectual growth that short videos
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can't provide. Books offer a rich, unprocessed
experience, enabling you to stimulate your own
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thoughts and opinions rather than relying
on someone else's interpretations.
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Cultivating education and taste takes
time and effort, but it’s a worthwhile
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investment for creating a fulfilling
life. Remember, true wealth comes from
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a rich inner self, which reflects outwardly
in our appearance and demeanour.
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Lastly, let’s talk about how to not
only look expensive but also feel it,
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because ultimately, mindset is key.
First, Confidence is one of the most luxurious
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things you can wear, and it doesn’t cost a thing.
It's a cliché, but confidence truly is the best
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accessory. No matter what you're wearing, if
you feel good in it, you'll look good too.
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Even the most expensive clothes or accessories
won’t look right if you’re not confident and
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comfortable in them. Confidence comes
from within and can’t be bought.
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How you carry yourself is just as important as the
clothes you wear, so stand tall, make eye contact,
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and exude your confidence. When you feel good in
your own skin, it shows in everything you do.
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Second, never idolise any inanimate object
or brand. Our generation is more susceptible
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to materialistic worship than ever. For
example, think about the rivalry between
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Apple fans and Samsung fans.
It's normal to have preferences,
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but they shouldn’t become a form of
worship or identity. You can admire
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the spiritual or intellectual qualities in
people, but not the material objects.
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Investing too much emotional energy into a
brand or product indicates an attachment and
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an inner void. Once you understand this, all
big brands like Chanel, Dior and Lamborghini
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will lose their undue significance.
This realisation allows you to view material
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possessions more objectively and see people’s
true qualities beyond their material wealth.
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You'll also shed the insecurity of feeling
underdressed for certain occasions.
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True elegance lies in letting
go of the obsession with luxury
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items and nourishing your inner self.
Looking expensive isn’t always about money; it’s
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about how you care for and nurture yourself. It’s
about trusting and looking after yourself.
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It is often a concept used for
marketing products nowadays,
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but what’s more important is self-acceptance and
having your own values and perspectives.
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While following these tips can bring a sense
of refinement and elegance, it's important to
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keep in mind that these are simply tips
to help achieve a fulfilling life.
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By prioritising your own happiness
and staying true to yourself,
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you can create a life that reflects your
unique personality and values.
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A person who lives authentically
and holds strong personal beliefs
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is truly captivating and elegant!
We hope you enjoy this content.
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So what’s your favourite
take away from this video?
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Comment down below to let us know!
Thank you so much for watching!
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We will see you in the next video!
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