How To Approach ANY GIRL in Public And Hold A Conversation!!(INFIELD)

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEdK20WIHw8

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TLDRIn this video, the presenter teaches men how to confidently approach women in various situations, focusing on overcoming anxiety and maintaining a natural conversation. He breaks down the approach into three phases: introduction (where you make a casual introduction without compliments), conversation (emphasizing listening and engaging meaningfully), and conclusion (asking for a date rather than a number). The key takeaway is to maintain confidence, have standards, and ensure there is mutual interest before moving forward, helping viewers to avoid common pitfalls in dating interactions.

Takeaways

  • 👋 Start conversations with a casual introduction.
  • 🎧 Listen more than you talk to show confidence.
  • 🚫 Avoid starting with compliments to maintain power.
  • 📅 Always ask for a date before gathering contact info.
  • 💬 Engage in natural conversation without memorizing scripts.
  • 🔄 Walk away if she's not showing interest.
  • 🔍 Vet her interest during the conversation.
  • 📸 Use Instagram as leverage for initial contacts.
  • 🏃‍♂️ Don’t waste time on conversations that lack interest.
  • 🔥 Prioritize your time and energies wisely in dating.

Garis waktu

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    Bismar introduces himself to Susie and expresses his desire to teach viewers how to confidently approach women and hold conversations to get their desired outcome, such as getting a date or phone number.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Bismar converses with a woman about her background in jewelry selling, her reasons for moving to Miami from New York, and her experience in the city. He encourages viewers to engage with women in a genuine way without feeling scripted or anxious.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Bismar meets another woman named Susie, who is visiting from Utah. They discuss her job at a pharmacy, her travels, and the purpose of her visit to Miami, as well as the normalcy of enjoying time alone while also suggesting they hang out.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:21:50

    The video moves to Bismar explaining his approach to speaking with women, emphasizing three phases: introduction, conversation, and conclusion. He stresses the importance of confidence, genuine interest, and not being overly eager to get contact information without first establishing a connection.

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Video Tanya Jawab

  • What are the three phases of approaching women?

    The three phases are introduction, conversation, and conclusion.

  • Should I start a conversation with a compliment?

    No, it's better to focus on an interesting observation instead of leading with a compliment.

  • How can I build confidence when approaching women?

    Understand your own value and lead the conversation naturally without memorizing content.

  • What should I do if the woman doesn't show interest?

    If she's not interested, it's fine to walk away from the conversation.

  • Is it better to ask for a number or a date directly?

    Always ask for a date first before accepting contact information.

  • How important is it to listen during the conversation?

    Listening is critical as it shows confidence and interest in the woman.

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    my name is bismar what's your name B my
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    name is Susie Susie we should hang out
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    yeah okay I'm G get your number this is
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    how you approach women in this video I'm
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    going to teach you exactly how to
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    approach any woman in any situation and
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    hold a conversation with her to get the
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    outcome that you want whether that be to
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    take on a date or to get her number the
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    reason I'm making this video is because
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    a lot of guys struggle with having the
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    confidence to know what to say how to
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    lead a conversation
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    how to transition how to get the date
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    you have a lot of anxiety when you talk
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    to women you're unsure about yourself
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    and you're trying to follow scripts and
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    it makes you look more unconfident and
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    more scripted so stay tuned for the
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    entire video listen to how I approach
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    women and then I'll explain why I
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    approach them that way coming up good
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    nice to meet you B well you you say
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    you're working here right yeah uhuh how
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    long you been doing this um I've been
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    doing this since August of 2020 okay so
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    we what made you get into the jewelry
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    selling business so I actually used to
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    live in New York and I had a corporate
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    job in in Manhattan there's like a lot
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    of like upand cominging designers and I
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    was always in the fashion industry I
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    interned for Versace so I would always
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    just be curious and I would be like okay
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    how like how are people doing this there
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    would be a lot of Street feds in New
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    York there's like a lot of them and I
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    finally went up to someone and I'm like
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    how are you here like what did you do to
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    be here and she's like all you have to
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    do is get your street vendor license and
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    then find vendors and you can res
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    and I looked into it and that's how I
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    did it what made you move from New York
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    to here though the weather I love the
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    weather oh okay so how long you been in
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    Miami I've been here since 2017 okay and
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    you prefer it more than New York I love
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    the weather here I love New York when it
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    comes to business New York is like
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    somewhere where you're going to grow
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    faster um but I really just love the
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    weather I'm all about the weather and
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    like work life balance and I feel like
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    Miami can have so much fun so yeah but I
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    think eventually I might have to go back
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    just because business was faster in New
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    York okay so I'm somebody new here um
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    I'm just trying to figure out what to do
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    for fun like what since you've been here
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    so so long what do you usually do for
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    fun but what do you like to do for fun
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    I'm more of the adventure type right I
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    like to do um just fun activities stuff
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    like stuff that involves me being
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    physical right yeah I mean I don't know
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    I'm so boring like I like to go to the
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    beach um I would say I don't even know I
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    you know when I first moved here I
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    joined like the app like I went on
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    Bumble for like Bumble BFF and I met a
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    whole bunch of people there and then we
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    just like different things um but I mean
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    I feel like Miami you can be like all
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    kinds of like active I'm just really
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    boring I literally just like going to my
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    pool I have my pool in my building but I
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    go to the beach a lot okay I used to
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    bike ride but then I realized Brickle is
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    not like safe to bike ride because I was
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    runan over by a car once oh wow and I
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    was like okay it's not like the same you
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    know it's not safe but um downtown has
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    like
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    the what is it like the Bayside Park and
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    stuff go to like the Muscle Beach and
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    South Beach yeah I've been there yeah
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    I've been but I don't want to just do
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    that obviously yeah I mean if you want
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    to go out at night like what do you you
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    want to do things during the day or at
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    night more during the day I'm not a club
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    person yeah there used to be like the
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    warf but the warf is not around anymore
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    I would say like Windwood maybe what
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    clubs do you go to like have you been to
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    any clubs here that you could recommend
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    yeah I mean um I like 11 obviously I
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    like space okay uh what else there's
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    Maran have you been to Maran Mar it's
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    like a dinner SL um
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    like Club so it's nice to go for dinner
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    CU it's like a like an event that they
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    do okay there's barro in South Beach
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    that I really like my favorite ones um I
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    really like Miami in the summer more
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    than in the winter and the summer I mean
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    still hot though I know but you can have
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    so much more fun in the in the summer
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    because you'll see like a lot of people
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    will invite you to their Yachts just
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    like guys and girls so guys and girls
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    get invited on Yachts I don't know about
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    that opportunity in Miami I don't know
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    about that my brother was here cuz I
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    fractured my my ankle once so my brother
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    had to like like work my business and um
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    it was just so nice because he's from
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    New York and Pennsylvania and girls and
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    just people are just not as friendly
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    they're just like a little bit more cold
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    so when he was here he grew so much
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    personally and stuff so it was cool
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    because there's e CL like in the summer
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    it's just everyone's going out
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    everyone's inviting you everyone you'll
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    meet so many people with Vats people
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    that just want to like just have a boat
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    party no one's really doing that during
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    this time so I got you so that's fun
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    there's High Beach which is a pool party
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    party and there's Strawberry Moon which
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    are pool parties those are a lot of fine
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    okay what was your name again Kesley
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    Kesley yeah I'm bismar nice to meet you
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    nice to meet you well I got to get going
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    thank you my name is bismar what's your
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    name my name is Susie
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    Susie where you from nice to meet you
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    well I'm from Utah I'm just visiting
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    Utah we're watching in Miami just
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    visiting I have some time off you know
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    my head lots of stress so lot of stress
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    so Miami is a place of distress oh yeah
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    100% how long are you here for about 4
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    days more ah you came by yourself yes to
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    Miami that's crazy did oh wow I
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    sometime okay so what do you do for like
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    a living yeah I work at a pharmacy right
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    now okay a pharmacy tech so yeah I
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    that's not where I want to stay but I
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    don't know what I want to do so been
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    thinking about that a lot
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    recently where else have you been inide
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    of
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    Miami uh let's see call Colorado Las
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    Vegas Vermont but I think that's about
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    it you're a travel girl takes a lot of
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    confidence to go to a new city yeah I in
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    Miami ah you've been here with friends
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    before or by yourself with friends okay
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    usually this is my first time goinging
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    out by myself actually okay so what have
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    you done that was exciting this
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    time well like I said I don't really
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    have any crazy plans we're just trying
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    to relax and think so ah you relax and
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    think from Utah that's
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    crazy just life I guess right you have
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    to get away from where you usually are
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    change your season is the ice cream good
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    it's that's helping you
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    relax yes it is actually that's dope
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    okay so what are you doing later today
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    uh nothing just probably going to go and
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    eat somewhere by yourself that's a
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    pretty boring life supposed to do
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    because I'm by myself I'm not supposed
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    to do anything no I'm I think you can
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    have a good time it's just it's kind of
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    lonely don't you think B can get yeah
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    yeah uh I'm I don't know I have a good
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    time with myself I guess I make myself
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    off it's a little crazy but I think I'm
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    funny you okay so okay I won't keep it
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    too long I got to get going but um Susie
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    right okay we should hang out I'm done
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    yeah I'm in town four more days don't
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    got a lot going on so okay I'm going get
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    your number okay cool yes you're going
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    to have a typ CU
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    cover 385 I'm I'm going to shoot your
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    text all right well nice meeting all
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    right by ladies how you guys doing today
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    good how are you how are you I'm great
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    what's your name Steph and Rano okay
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    where you guys from London London yeah
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    we brought you in Miami holiday holiday
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    yeah holiday free holiday to the holiday
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    yeah ah how you guys liking it it's good
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    it's fun yeah it it's really fun what
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    have you dancing for nothing nothing
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    yall at the beach now it's beautiful no
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    we've been at the beach we've been
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    eating all the food I went jet skiing we
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    went
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    skin like that how long you guys here
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    for till tomorrow yeah only 3 days what
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    it's a pre holiday yeah we're going to
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    so y'all flew like 8 hours away to spend
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    we going Miami I
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    mean Jamaica Jamaica ah so how long yall
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    on vacation for 10 days 10 days okay
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    where else yall going aside from Jamaica
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    say that you know annual leave is only a
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    time out you only got so many days off
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    okay we got to go back to F so I don't
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    know much about London girls like what
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    fill me in what what do what what don't
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    I know what do you want to know tell me
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    the best the best what what about London
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    girls is different I'm glad there's not
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    that much there's not much have you guys
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    experienced American guys you American
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    guys are l so sorry from what we've
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    experienced here I like the way that
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    American guys are more
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    forward American guys are like they're
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    down to be obsessed with their babes
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    London guys are always like oh that's b
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    g bro that's n like going to do
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    that yeah they'll be like I love that
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    girl I'm here how y experienc that that
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    quickly they y be no but they just like
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    they'll come up to you and be like oh my
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    God you're so beautiful you would never
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    hear that in London like they'll just be
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    like oh like can I shout to you
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    like they would never be like they never
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    approach you properly gotcha okay what
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    do you guys what are you doing may today
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    you're going out uh I think so yeah yeah
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    where you going exchange exchange change
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    you got I'm guessing you guys got
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    invited there
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    yeah no that's that's what they normally
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    do out here where's the place to be I
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    not really a club guy as you can see I'm
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    like into fitness so I don't really go
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    out anyway I got to get going it was
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    nice talking to Y nice talking to what
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    is y'
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    Instagrams
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    okay it was nice talking to you same to
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    you your name is what NAA okay where you
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    from from Miami really how long you wait
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    most people are not from here from here
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    you grew up in Miami yeah okay I just
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    moved out here like two months ago uh
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    Louisiana so what do you do I'm a LIF
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    guard you a lifu guard that's
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    interesting where do you do life God at
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    uh the hotel is right there cinam so you
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    like in school what yeah going to going
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    to college you're in college right now
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    I'm going to college okay where you
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    going to study biology biology what made
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    you pick that because only be plastic
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    surgeon so plastic surgeon yeah that
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    sounds kind of
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    complicated it is what made you pick
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    that I like making people feel beautiful
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    okay that plastic surgery I want to do I
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    want to do reconstructive plastic
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    surgery okay so like Sting into a car
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    accident and they go to the hospital and
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    they get surgery there like I would fix
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    whatever they did St plastic surgery m
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    helping them stay alive
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    but helping them stay alive yeah okay Oh
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    you mean like people who go through like
  • 00:10:36
    adverse situations oh okay that's
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    interesting so what do you do for
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    fun eat sleep explore eat sleep that's
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    what you're doing in the mall today
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    you're just walking around I'm on my
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    break right now so so what would you
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    recommend for somebody who's new here or
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    just wants to do something fun
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    um I don't know M me isn't that fun what
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    yes it is it's not it depends on what
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    you what you consider fun
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    though I feel like everything is the
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    same it's different versions of the same
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    thing really
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    so I like to like explore new things
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    restaurants and stuff like that I think
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    Miami has a lot of that and you don't
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    think so the restaurants are overrated
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    and expensive really well it's probably
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    because you're a little you on the
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    younger side so
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    it so what do you do for
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    fun outside from
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    lifeguard I just hang out with you hang
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    out with what hang out with my twin okay
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    that's what's up go out yesterday we
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    were in today before we were in Midtown
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    okay okay well that makes a lot of sense
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    it was nice getting to know you um maybe
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    we should hang out sometime another day
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    uh do you have like I'm I'm going to
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    give you what's your number I'm going to
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    get your number cool yeah nice to meet
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    nice to meet you all right I'm going let
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    you keep going have a good day you too
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    all right bye okay so you've seen the
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    approaches now I'm going to explain to
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    you exactly how you should approach
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    women and the best framework in
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    approaching women so I look at
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    approaching women in three specific
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    stages the introduction phase the
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    conversation phase and the conclusion
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    phase so what is the introduction phase
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    when you're going up to a girl the only
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    thing that you should be saying is
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    excuse me hey my name is so and so or
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    even better you go and you say Hey you
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    seem interesting I noticed you so I came
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    up and introduced myself hey Samantha
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    you seem interesting I came up and
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    introduced myself my name is so and so
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    look at the verbiage here interesting
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    not that I'm interested we ain't [ __ ]
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    leading with validation you should never
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    go up to a girl and the first thing you
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    say is I think think you're hot I came
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    up to you cuz I think you're beautiful
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    you put yourself in a weaker position
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    the woman already know you're interested
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    that's why I say you seem interesting
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    the conversation is going to let me know
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    if I am interested in you this intro is
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    going to make or break how the
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    interaction goes gar [ __ ] T you you
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    go up to these [ __ ] girls you listen
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    to these [ __ ] gurus on the internet
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    telling you go leave with a compliment
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    get the [ __ ] out of here the girl
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    already knows that you're attracted to
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    her when you go up to her you don't have
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    to you don't have to lead with that
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    because now she knows that she has the
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    upper hand I don't know if I want to
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    take you out I have to see if this
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    conversation goes the way I want before
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    I can invite you to be a part of my life
  • 00:13:47
    I know what the [ __ ] I bring to the
  • 00:13:48
    table look at me young handsome
  • 00:13:51
    successful I know what the [ __ ] I bring
  • 00:13:52
    to the table even if you don't have
  • 00:13:54
    those kind of accolades have some
  • 00:13:55
    [ __ ] self-belief I ain't juggling
  • 00:13:58
    balls in front of your damn face to get
  • 00:14:00
    you on a [ __ ] date if I don't like
  • 00:14:02
    you in this conversation we don't got
  • 00:14:03
    nothing to talk about so I need you guys
  • 00:14:06
    to have outcome Independence at any
  • 00:14:09
    moment you have the free will to walk
  • 00:14:11
    away and say this is not the girl I want
  • 00:14:12
    to go out with you should not already be
  • 00:14:14
    sold on who she is just because she got
  • 00:14:16
    a fat ass in the pretty face have more
  • 00:14:19
    [ __ ] standards man that's why I don't
  • 00:14:21
    want you to leave with compliments I
  • 00:14:23
    don't know if I like you sure you look
  • 00:14:25
    good what else I look good too I know
  • 00:14:28
    your life is going to get better by
  • 00:14:29
    [ __ ] with me I'm trying to see how my
  • 00:14:31
    life is going to improve by [ __ ] with
  • 00:14:32
    you I know I'm the man I know I got to
  • 00:14:34
    come up here and make the approach I
  • 00:14:35
    know it's my job but you got to show me
  • 00:14:38
    why I got to take you out why I should
  • 00:14:40
    take you out if you don't have that
  • 00:14:42
    mindset you're going to get crushed bro
  • 00:14:43
    you're going to always have anxiety
  • 00:14:45
    you're going to always feel unsure about
  • 00:14:47
    yourself I ain't no [ __ ] way I'm
  • 00:14:48
    unsure about myself talking to no damn
  • 00:14:50
    girl I have approached hundreds of girls
  • 00:14:52
    even when I was just starting out she's
  • 00:14:54
    just a woman humanize her she's not some
  • 00:14:56
    perfect [ __ ] being she's not a
  • 00:14:58
    unicorn
  • 00:14:59
    she shits and pools just like you and if
  • 00:15:01
    you a man you a leader you're a provider
  • 00:15:03
    this chick is she be she'll be proven to
  • 00:15:05
    you why she you should provide for her I
  • 00:15:08
    ain't letting you be a part of my I
  • 00:15:09
    ain't begging you to be a part of my
  • 00:15:10
    life so I can [ __ ] provide it's
  • 00:15:12
    insane guys so that's the introduction
  • 00:15:15
    hey I noticed you you seem interesting
  • 00:15:17
    so I came up to introduce myself my name
  • 00:15:19
    is FedEx phis now the conversation phase
  • 00:15:21
    of this is you're simply going to ask
  • 00:15:24
    her questions about who she is you can
  • 00:15:27
    pick the environment what she's doing
  • 00:15:29
    like whatever it is something simple I
  • 00:15:31
    don't want you to memorize anything and
  • 00:15:33
    then you just ask her followup questions
  • 00:15:35
    from her responses you should be doing
  • 00:15:37
    more listening than talking when you're
  • 00:15:39
    approaching girls that makes you sound
  • 00:15:42
    confident when
  • 00:15:45
    you when you're talking so much you seem
  • 00:15:48
    like you're anxious it seems scripted
  • 00:15:51
    when you're trying to say the right
  • 00:15:53
    things it seems
  • 00:15:55
    scripted scripted looks unconfident cuz
  • 00:15:58
    you can't can't just go up to her and be
  • 00:15:59
    a normal human being women would rather
  • 00:16:01
    you not memorize anything just speak to
  • 00:16:04
    her like she's a normal person she would
  • 00:16:05
    be more attracted to you that way then
  • 00:16:07
    you having a [ __ ] script in your head
  • 00:16:09
    so you should be doing more listening
  • 00:16:11
    than you are talking does she live in
  • 00:16:13
    this city access she's from around here
  • 00:16:15
    ask her what she does when the an she
  • 00:16:18
    gives you you follow up on those things
  • 00:16:20
    that makes you seem more in the moment
  • 00:16:22
    that makes you seem like a great
  • 00:16:23
    listener that makes you seem like a
  • 00:16:25
    confident man now I want to see if she's
  • 00:16:28
    asking me questions about myself is she
  • 00:16:30
    interested in me cuz it ain't it ain't
  • 00:16:32
    enough for me just to be interested in
  • 00:16:33
    her does she ask me any questions back
  • 00:16:36
    does she ask me what I do what's the
  • 00:16:38
    point of me going out with a girl that
  • 00:16:39
    doesn't ask me anything about me you
  • 00:16:42
    talking to these girls they giving you
  • 00:16:43
    onew answers they closed body language
  • 00:16:46
    they're not interested they're giving
  • 00:16:47
    you clear signs of disinterest I walk
  • 00:16:49
    away at any moment you feel like the
  • 00:16:51
    girl is not interested in you like
  • 00:16:53
    you're forcing the conversation like you
  • 00:16:55
    having a [ __ ] Soliloquy like you're
  • 00:16:57
    talking to your damn self have a nice
  • 00:17:00
    day this is how you [ __ ] approach
  • 00:17:02
    women [ __ ] all this [ __ ] you heard
  • 00:17:04
    on the [ __ ] internet anything else
  • 00:17:05
    you're doing that is that isn't this
  • 00:17:07
    you're setting yourself up to when you
  • 00:17:09
    get this girl's number when you stay in
  • 00:17:11
    the [ __ ] set when you just go
  • 00:17:13
    approach you you're practicing bad
  • 00:17:16
    habits you're practicing taking a weaker
  • 00:17:19
    position and I don't want you to do that
  • 00:17:21
    I want you to practice taking having
  • 00:17:22
    leverage I want you to practice inviting
  • 00:17:24
    women that you actually want to see
  • 00:17:26
    again on a date I'm perfectly fine with
  • 00:17:29
    you walking away from a conversation
  • 00:17:31
    because the girl is showing signs of not
  • 00:17:33
    being interested and you saving your
  • 00:17:34
    time then for you to be getting a girl's
  • 00:17:37
    number who's going to flake on you
  • 00:17:38
    regardless who's going to give you one
  • 00:17:40
    word answers who's going to not show up
  • 00:17:42
    on a date I don't want my guys to get
  • 00:17:44
    their time wased this is the [ __ ]
  • 00:17:45
    best way to approach women if she's
  • 00:17:47
    interested in you if she's asking you
  • 00:17:49
    questions back perfect now I'm going to
  • 00:17:51
    invite you to do something a part of my
  • 00:17:53
    life so the end part of this the
  • 00:17:55
    conclusion part of this we should hang
  • 00:17:56
    out we should do this not what's your
  • 00:17:59
    number first you never accept the number
  • 00:18:02
    without a date you never take her
  • 00:18:05
    Snapchat her Instagram her social media
  • 00:18:08
    without her agreeing to a date I'm
  • 00:18:10
    asking for social media cuz my Instagram
  • 00:18:12
    gives me leverage that's an interest
  • 00:18:13
    amplifier right when girls see my
  • 00:18:15
    Instagram they are more intrigued if you
  • 00:18:17
    don't have a good Instagram you take the
  • 00:18:18
    number you're still working on that but
  • 00:18:20
    you don't get the contact information
  • 00:18:22
    whatsoever unless she's agreed to hang
  • 00:18:24
    out with you this saves you so much
  • 00:18:27
    [ __ ] okay tell you all the [ __ ]
  • 00:18:29
    I see on the internet telling girl guys
  • 00:18:31
    to go yeah just get the number like
  • 00:18:33
    numbers in the [ __ ] accomplishment
  • 00:18:35
    these girls get their number to
  • 00:18:36
    everybody they don't give a [ __ ] you
  • 00:18:37
    message her she ain't going to respond
  • 00:18:39
    what the [ __ ] is a number numbers don't
  • 00:18:40
    mean [ __ ] getting her Instagram doesn't
  • 00:18:42
    mean [ __ ] unless that's what you want
  • 00:18:45
    because it makes you look better but if
  • 00:18:47
    she's if you ask her for her number and
  • 00:18:49
    she gives you her Instagram you tell her
  • 00:18:50
    have a nice day she's not interested she
  • 00:18:53
    wants you to be one of her followers if
  • 00:18:55
    you got a fire Instagram and you you
  • 00:18:57
    know that your Instagram
  • 00:18:58
    is how you communicate with women cuz I
  • 00:19:00
    don't even I barely give girls my
  • 00:19:01
    numbers because my Instagram is so fire
  • 00:19:04
    that I mean that's how that's how I talk
  • 00:19:06
    to the majority of girls I talk to 99%
  • 00:19:09
    of girls don't even get my number only
  • 00:19:11
    girls that have my number are girls I'm
  • 00:19:12
    seeing for a while because I have the
  • 00:19:15
    upper hand I'm the one with leverage
  • 00:19:16
    here all right if you don't have that
  • 00:19:18
    kind of Instagram no problem you get the
  • 00:19:20
    number but you don't accept the number
  • 00:19:22
    without a date you know why that's that
  • 00:19:24
    makes your life easy so when you reach
  • 00:19:26
    out to her guess what y'all talking
  • 00:19:27
    about
  • 00:19:29
    the date that y'all agreed to in person
  • 00:19:31
    not chitchatting about [ __ ] nothing
  • 00:19:33
    not you playing the long game trying to
  • 00:19:36
    eventually get on the date and she's
  • 00:19:37
    wasting your [ __ ] time that's what
  • 00:19:39
    happens 99% of the time you accept the
  • 00:19:42
    number you accept the Instagram and then
  • 00:19:44
    now you got to beg her you got to damn
  • 00:19:45
    near beg the girl to go on a date you
  • 00:19:47
    like bro you gave me your contact
  • 00:19:49
    information she don't give a [ __ ] women
  • 00:19:51
    to give you their contact information
  • 00:19:52
    and don't give a [ __ ] contact
  • 00:19:54
    information doesn't mean [ __ ] if she
  • 00:19:55
    doesn't agree to a date I've had girls
  • 00:19:57
    where I have a good conversation with
  • 00:19:59
    then I go to ask them out guys and they
  • 00:20:00
    be like oh well I have a boyfriend I'm
  • 00:20:03
    like [ __ ] the beta bitching me wants to
  • 00:20:06
    still accept her number the better
  • 00:20:08
    bitching me still wants to get her
  • 00:20:10
    Instagram because I had a good
  • 00:20:11
    conversation conversation don't mean
  • 00:20:13
    [ __ ] something call fallacy states that
  • 00:20:15
    people tend to not let go of an
  • 00:20:17
    investment because they've invested so
  • 00:20:19
    you've invested in the interaction you
  • 00:20:21
    want to leave with something don't have
  • 00:20:23
    that mindset it'll it it'll lead you to
  • 00:20:25
    more frustration with women it'll lead
  • 00:20:27
    you to more heart break women cuz you be
  • 00:20:29
    getting these girls numbers that you
  • 00:20:30
    might have a good conversation with and
  • 00:20:32
    they'll waste your [ __ ] time if she
  • 00:20:34
    doesn't agree to a date I don't get her
  • 00:20:35
    contact information if I invite her to
  • 00:20:38
    come be a part of my life and she says
  • 00:20:39
    anything but yes have a nice day this is
  • 00:20:43
    how you approach women ain't no
  • 00:20:45
    [ __ ] way you can convince me
  • 00:20:47
    that there's a better framework out
  • 00:20:49
    there on how to approach them to where
  • 00:20:51
    you're not looking weak you're vetting
  • 00:20:53
    the girl in the process you you coming
  • 00:20:55
    across as confident and not scripted
  • 00:20:58
    and you're not leaving the [ __ ]
  • 00:21:00
    interaction with just the [ __ ] the
  • 00:21:04
    digits that don't mean [ __ ] and you're
  • 00:21:06
    not spending a long a long time doing
  • 00:21:07
    you're not spending 5 minutes talking to
  • 00:21:09
    the girl 30 minutes talking to the girl
  • 00:21:10
    I want to approaching to be a part of
  • 00:21:12
    your life not some [ __ ] big ass event
  • 00:21:14
    that you got to go take out time and go
  • 00:21:16
    run through the mall and go waste the
  • 00:21:18
    [ __ ] time I want my guys to have [ __ ]
  • 00:21:20
    going on the majority of my guys I know
  • 00:21:21
    you guys are hardworking you're working
  • 00:21:23
    on your business you got [ __ ] to do you
  • 00:21:24
    don't got [ __ ] time to be running
  • 00:21:26
    across town trying to approach chicks
  • 00:21:28
    you got [ __ ] to do so this is how you
  • 00:21:30
    approach women if you're a busy man that
  • 00:21:32
    got other things going on in your life
  • 00:21:34
    that don't have time to be wasting
  • 00:21:35
    running run running across town trying
  • 00:21:37
    to chase girls you make approaching a
  • 00:21:39
    part of your life and this is how you
  • 00:21:41
    approach women guys if you guys enjoyed
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