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can you buckle up I'm going to smoke
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this fat cigar and then I'm going to go
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on a fat hike
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now this is going to be such a great
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video everybody needs to buckle up okay
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because I got a email in my inbox and
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the subject line was the oatmeal story
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hm what would be the oatmeal story a day
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or two I had a video you know actually
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I'll screenshot the clip or I'll put the
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clip in so that way you can see it I
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talked about hul what I did on a date
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was I talked about the oatmeal there was
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once I talked like I'm dead serious when
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I when I tell you this there was a date
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that I went on and I talked about my
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like sometimes throughout the week I
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have oatmeal and I put peanut butter and
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honey in it okay and I talked about the
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oatmeal the peanut butter and the honey
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for probably like 30 minutes and I sit
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there and I say things like God I just
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love it when the peanut butter mixes
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with the honey it's so good I always do
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too much honey because then it's like
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sugar overload and then when I do all
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the sugar overload I just feel so good
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and then it's like a snack and then it's
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almost kind of like I'm eating dessert
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and the dessert just feels so good in my
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tummy and how before I work out I like
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the oatmeal and then I put the honey in
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it and the peanut butter and oh it's so
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full and I giv I love it and blah blah
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and the point that I was trying to
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making and the point that I was trying
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to make is how to stay in the right Vibe
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and in the right flow so we have a
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question from our subscriber and he goes
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hey
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Casey how do I learn to speak nonsense
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like the oatmeal and the peanut butter
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story is reading some books like 50
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Shades of Gray a good way to start
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question mark very descriptive just like
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you were in the story guess using
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qualifiers adverbs are required I don't
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even know what an adverb means that's
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high IQ I do not believe in high IQ or
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low IQ I literally believe in no IQ the
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stupider you are when you talk in
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general as you're socializing with the
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ladies the more she's going to go I
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really like him
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okay anyways thanks for the example
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probably on my way to success you are on
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your way to success now we are going to
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take each of these line by line okay but
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I'm going to hammer out the middle of
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this first is reading some books like 50
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Shades of Gray a good way to start
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absolutely not number one that is a
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movie number two your brain is going to
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be so focused on going to the bedroom
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and lust that your social skills are
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going to totally get destroyed number
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three in order to get to that level of
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intimacy with a woman on 50 Shades gray
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there is a buildup and a progression you
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cannot just go from Zer to 100 in
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today's video I'm going to explain how
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to be the absolute Grandmaster with
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social skills how to be the absolute
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Grandmaster with speaking to women and
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virtually how to talk about yourself
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24/7 so you give off the vibe that it is
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all about you she is entering into your
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world you are the center of attention
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you are the man that she wants to be
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with and who she wants to associate with
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I'm going to show you how to talk all
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about you without telling her anything
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about you personally and this is the
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biggest secret because 99% of you when
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you are on these dates you run your
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mouth far too much and then you know
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what happens you're sitting there
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wondering what happened here's what
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happened you are no longer a
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mystery you have no longer sparked her
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curiosity and her Intrigue and it is a
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chapter book or a novel that she
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finished far too quickly and she is on
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to the next novel this is what majority
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of men are running into all right now
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that we covered the 50 Shades of Gray
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stuff let's actually dissect this line
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by line hey Casey how do I learn to
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speak the nonsense like the peanut
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butter and the oatmeal Story how do you
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speak the nonsense the first thing you
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have to do is you have to deprogram your
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brain from all of the useless
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information that you learned you have to
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understand that life is simple look at
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the trees look at the colors talk about
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the Vibrance of the
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colors breathe talk about the air talk
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about the atmosphere talk about things
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you like okay I'm going to be getting as
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descriptive as I can with this but let
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me give you an example the peanut butter
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and the oatmeal store the reason why I'm
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talking about this is because she got an
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Insight that had personality but she
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didn't actually know anything about me
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by the end of the day did she know
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anything about my hobbies my interests
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what I do for a living why I do what I
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do no none of that because that logical
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in-depth conversation is what destroys
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her attraction to keep the mystery you
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need to make sure she feels comfortable
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the first thing you do when you are
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speaking to women is you talk
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slower okay so far since I've moved I've
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been on a few dates on two of them so
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far I have been called dramatic on both
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of them even though I wasn't saying
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anything that provoked drama why would
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that be as I speak slower when I'm on a
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date I aim to talk anywhere from 15 to
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25% slower why because I want her to
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feel almost intoxicated or drunk on the
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words the words are the only thing that
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penetrates a woman's Soul the words are
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the only thing that penetrates her
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feminine emotion the first key okay here
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is how you learn to talk the verbal
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nonsense I'm going to tell you two
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things as to how I do this the first key
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with this verbally is you need to not
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take yourself so seriously how do you
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not take yourself so seriously by not
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trying to over qualify to the woman how
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do you not over qualify to the woman you
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do not feel the need to prove anything
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to her while you're there on that date
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so what do I do I talk about the
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sun I talk about how nice the sun feels
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if I'm outside okay I'm going to talk
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about the trees I'm going to talk about
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the food okay when I was on a date I had
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a server the server came and gave me
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this big long 2-minute shiel on all
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these different crisscross mix matched
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dinner combinations it was so long
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winded by the time he left I just smiled
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I went like that by
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go too many
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words one sentence like that too many
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words she starts giggling she starts
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laughing because it was so naal on it
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was so centered she could tell that it
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worked this is definitely some Nuance to
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this but here's the the way I do this
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okay I believe that God made man and
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woman like peanut butter and jelly so if
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God made man and woman like peanut
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butter and jelly what does that
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mean that means he made man and woman to
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go together in an easy fashion this
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doesn't have to be hard you don't have
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to do jumping jacks to prove yourself to
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her you don't have to do handstands or
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back flips you don't have to be a
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professional NASCAR driver you don't
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have to be CEO of a Fortune 500 company
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you don't have to do any of that you
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don't have to even typically have looks
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about your status but you have to know
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how to be a man to be a man when you're
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with a woman means that you have a
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calming energy that is grounded in who
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you are okay some call that
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stoicism some call that masculine energy
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some call that masculine frame use
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whatever word that you need to solve
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that problem for
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yourself but if you believe that your
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dating life should be easy and you
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believe that the vibe should be
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effortless you sit there with that girl
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and you talk about the things that are
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around you you talk about Mother Nature
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you talk about the colors you talk about
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the things you like if I notice
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something about her as she speaking I
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will call that out okay you can talk
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about why she painted her fingernails
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that way why you like the fingernails
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that way why things you like about women
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things you things personality traits you
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don't like by the end of it she feels a
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depth that you have
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character so when people are actively
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trying to qualify women you have to
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understand you end up doing these things
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naturally when you just are in this
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chilled relaxed state so to conclude
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your question my friend how do you get
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better at talking nonsense I want you to
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imagine that you are a child again with
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absolutely zero
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responsibilities what does the child do
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the child eats the child
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sleeps the child shits the child will
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occasionally throw a temp temper tantrum
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if needed the child is ruthlessly
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demanding in the things that he wants
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and that he likes in that moment the
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child will walk down the street and he
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goes trees look at the
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trees the child will walk down the
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street and goes ice cream I want ice
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cream I want chocolate ice
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cream when you stop feeling the need to
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go deep when you stop feeling the need
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to prove yourself when you stop feeling
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the need to have everything have deep
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intellectual meaning there's so much
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talk that so much heavy energy whether
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that be purpose or direction or having
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meaningful conversations or having
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chemistry I don't believe that life was
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meant to be that stressful and I also
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don't believe life was meant to be that
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deep this excess knowledge and this
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excess information is what keeps you
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stuck it's what keeps you in your head
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when you Vibe and chill the [ __ ] out and
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you tell yourself none of this [ __ ]
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matters that is when you finally come
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across as a strong grounded stoic
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masculine man without trying like you
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have not a care in the world like you
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have no anxiety in the world world and
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like you're completely free to be who
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you are and who you'd like to be that my
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friend is how you get better at talking
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nonsense to connect on the right vibe in
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the right wavelength with women if you
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