HOW To VIBE with WOMEN emotionally via words by speaking NONSENSE to gain her ATTRACTION

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TLDRThe speaker shares insights on improving social skills with women through casual and playful conversation, using a personal anecdote about talking extensively about oatmeal during a date. He argues for not taking oneself seriously and for focusing on simple observations to create a relaxed atmosphere. Instead of seeking deep intellectual connection, he encourages viewers to maintain a sense of mystery and engage women by keeping the conversation light and non-serious. He further critiques the idea of reading certain books for dating advice, stressing the importance of being grounded and confident in oneself.

Takeaways

  • 🚀 Focus on simple topics like food or nature to create conversation.
  • 🎤 Talk 15-25% slower for a calming effect.
  • 💬 Maintain a sense of mystery and intrigue in conversations.
  • 📚 Avoid reading books like '50 Shades of Grey' to improve dating skills.
  • 😌 Don't take yourself too seriously during conversations.
  • 👀 Observe your environment to keep discussions engaging.
  • 🥳 Remember to enjoy the moment without pressure.
  • 🌳 Embrace a child-like mindset, focusing on simple pleasures.
  • 🌞 Use descriptive language to share your experiences.
  • 👨‍🌾 Ground yourself in your personality when engaging with women.

Garis waktu

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    The speaker discusses a humorous experience on a date where they talked extensively about oatmeal with peanut butter and honey, highlighting the importance of staying in a positive vibe when socializing. They respond to a viewer's question about learning to speak nonsensically, emphasizing that diving deep into complex subjects like '50 Shades of Gray' isn't beneficial for social skills. Instead, they advocate for simplicity in conversation, maintaining a sense of mystery and intrigue to attract women. They stress the importance of speaking at a relaxed pace, focusing on mundane yet descriptive topics, and not taking oneself too seriously. The speaker encourages viewers to embrace a childlike perspective, allowing for a carefree and engaging interaction, which helps to connect with women without undue pressure.

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Video Tanya Jawab

  • How can I learn to talk nonsense like the speaker?

    Focus on being descriptive about simple things around you, and don't take yourself too seriously.

  • Is reading '50 Shades of Grey' helpful for improving conversation skills?

    No, it could distract from improving social skills as it focuses more on lust.

  • What is the key to creating intrigue during a conversation?

    Maintain a sense of mystery by not over-sharing personal details.

  • How should I pace my speech when talking to women?

    Aim to talk 15-25% slower to create a calming and engaging effect.

  • What should I focus on during a date?

    Talk about the environment, your observations, and maintain a relaxed vibe.

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    that I went on and I talked about my
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    have oatmeal and I put peanut butter and
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    honey in it okay and I talked about the
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    oatmeal the peanut butter and the honey
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    with the honey it's so good I always do
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    too much honey because then it's like
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    tummy and how before I work out I like
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    and the point that I was trying to
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    making and the point that I was trying
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    to make is how to stay in the right Vibe
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    and in the right flow so we have a
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    question from our subscriber and he goes
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    hey
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    Casey how do I learn to speak nonsense
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    like the oatmeal and the peanut butter
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    story is reading some books like 50
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    Shades of Gray a good way to start
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    question mark very descriptive just like
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    you were in the story guess using
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    qualifiers adverbs are required I don't
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    general as you're socializing with the
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    ladies the more she's going to go I
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    really like him
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    okay anyways thanks for the example
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    probably on my way to success you are on
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    your way to success now we are going to
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    Shades of Gray a good way to start
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    movie number two your brain is going to
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    be so focused on going to the bedroom
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    and lust that your social skills are
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    three in order to get to that level of
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    intimacy with a woman on 50 Shades gray
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    there is a buildup and a progression you
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    today's video I'm going to explain how
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    to be the absolute Grandmaster with
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    social skills how to be the absolute
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    Grandmaster with speaking to women and
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    virtually how to talk about yourself
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    24/7 so you give off the vibe that it is
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    all about you she is entering into your
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    world you are the center of attention
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    you are the man that she wants to be
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    with and who she wants to associate with
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    I'm going to show you how to talk all
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    about you without telling her anything
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    about you personally and this is the
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    biggest secret because 99% of you when
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    you are on these dates you run your
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    mouth far too much and then you know
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    what happens you're sitting there
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    wondering what happened here's what
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    happened you are no longer a
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    mystery you have no longer sparked her
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    curiosity and her Intrigue and it is a
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    chapter book or a novel that she
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    finished far too quickly and she is on
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    to the next novel this is what majority
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    that we covered the 50 Shades of Gray
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    stuff let's actually dissect this line
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    by line hey Casey how do I learn to
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    speak the nonsense like the peanut
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    butter and the oatmeal Story how do you
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    speak the nonsense the first thing you
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    have to do is you have to deprogram your
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    brain from all of the useless
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    information that you learned you have to
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    understand that life is simple look at
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    the trees look at the colors talk about
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    the Vibrance of the
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    colors breathe talk about the air talk
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    about the atmosphere talk about things
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    you like okay I'm going to be getting as
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    descriptive as I can with this but let
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    me give you an example the peanut butter
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    and the oatmeal store the reason why I'm
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    talking about this is because she got an
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    Insight that had personality but she
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    didn't actually know anything about me
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    by the end of the day did she know
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    anything about my hobbies my interests
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    what I do for a living why I do what I
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    do no none of that because that logical
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    in-depth conversation is what destroys
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    her attraction to keep the mystery you
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    need to make sure she feels comfortable
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    the first thing you do when you are
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    speaking to women is you talk
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    slower okay so far since I've moved I've
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    been on a few dates on two of them so
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    far I have been called dramatic on both
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    of them even though I wasn't saying
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    anything that provoked drama why would
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    that be as I speak slower when I'm on a
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    date I aim to talk anywhere from 15 to
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    25% slower why because I want her to
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    feel almost intoxicated or drunk on the
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    words the words are the only thing that
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    penetrates a woman's Soul the words are
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    the only thing that penetrates her
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    feminine emotion the first key okay here
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    is how you learn to talk the verbal
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    nonsense I'm going to tell you two
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    things as to how I do this the first key
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    with this verbally is you need to not
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    take yourself so seriously how do you
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    not take yourself so seriously by not
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    trying to over qualify to the woman how
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    do you not over qualify to the woman you
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    do not feel the need to prove anything
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    to her while you're there on that date
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    so what do I do I talk about the
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    sun I talk about how nice the sun feels
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    if I'm outside okay I'm going to talk
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    about the trees I'm going to talk about
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    the food okay when I was on a date I had
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    a server the server came and gave me
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    this big long 2-minute shiel on all
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    these different crisscross mix matched
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    dinner combinations it was so long
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    winded by the time he left I just smiled
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    I went like that by
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    go too many
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    words one sentence like that too many
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    words she starts giggling she starts
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    laughing because it was so naal on it
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    was so centered she could tell that it
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    worked this is definitely some Nuance to
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    this but here's the the way I do this
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    okay I believe that God made man and
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    woman like peanut butter and jelly so if
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    God made man and woman like peanut
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    butter and jelly what does that
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    mean that means he made man and woman to
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    go together in an easy fashion this
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    doesn't have to be hard you don't have
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    to do jumping jacks to prove yourself to
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    her you don't have to do handstands or
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    back flips you don't have to be a
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    professional NASCAR driver you don't
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    have to be CEO of a Fortune 500 company
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    you don't have to do any of that you
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    don't have to even typically have looks
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    about your status but you have to know
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    how to be a man to be a man when you're
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    with a woman means that you have a
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    calming energy that is grounded in who
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    you are okay some call that
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    stoicism some call that masculine energy
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    some call that masculine frame use
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    whatever word that you need to solve
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    that problem for
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    yourself but if you believe that your
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    dating life should be easy and you
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    believe that the vibe should be
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    effortless you sit there with that girl
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    and you talk about the things that are
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    around you you talk about Mother Nature
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    you talk about the colors you talk about
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    the things you like if I notice
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    something about her as she speaking I
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    will call that out okay you can talk
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    about why she painted her fingernails
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    that way why you like the fingernails
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    that way why things you like about women
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    things you things personality traits you
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    don't like by the end of it she feels a
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    depth that you have
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    character so when people are actively
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    trying to qualify women you have to
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    understand you end up doing these things
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    naturally when you just are in this
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    chilled relaxed state so to conclude
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    your question my friend how do you get
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    better at talking nonsense I want you to
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    imagine that you are a child again with
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    absolutely zero
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    responsibilities what does the child do
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    the child eats the child
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    sleeps the child shits the child will
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    occasionally throw a temp temper tantrum
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    if needed the child is ruthlessly
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    demanding in the things that he wants
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    and that he likes in that moment the
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    child will walk down the street and he
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    goes trees look at the
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    trees the child will walk down the
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    street and goes ice cream I want ice
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    cream I want chocolate ice
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    cream when you stop feeling the need to
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    go deep when you stop feeling the need
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    to prove yourself when you stop feeling
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    the need to have everything have deep
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    intellectual meaning there's so much
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    talk that so much heavy energy whether
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    that be purpose or direction or having
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    meaningful conversations or having
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    chemistry I don't believe that life was
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    meant to be that stressful and I also
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    don't believe life was meant to be that
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    deep this excess knowledge and this
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    excess information is what keeps you
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    stuck it's what keeps you in your head
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    when you Vibe and chill the [ __ ] out and
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    you tell yourself none of this [ __ ]
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    matters that is when you finally come
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    across as a strong grounded stoic
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    masculine man without trying like you
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    have not a care in the world like you
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    have no anxiety in the world world and
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    like you're completely free to be who
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    you are and who you'd like to be that my
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    friend is how you get better at talking
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    nonsense to connect on the right vibe in
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    the right wavelength with women if you
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