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you thought you were going to be
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together forever with your ex and yet
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here you are broken up
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however you still feel like you're meant
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to be maybe you feel that your ex is
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your soulmate are there any signs that
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you and your ex are meant to be why yes
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there are and I'm about to give you
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eight of them so stay tuned hi this is
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Luchia with the Art of Love i'm a dating
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and relationship expert specializing in
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helping you get your ex back or to get
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over your ex and welcome back my
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book okay let's get right into it i'm
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sure you want to know so number one is
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that your breakup was amicable and
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peaceful yes it is possible i know hard
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to believe there wasn't a lot of damage
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done after the relationship so you
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haven't or they haven't burned the
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bridge forever now keep in mind that
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sometimes if a breakup is amicable and
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peaceful it may be because one of the
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parties has a very low interest level so
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if they're not that attracted they're
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not going to have a negative reaction to
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the breakup or make a big deal out of
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being dumped or being the dumper so you
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need to ask yourself was there enough
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attraction in the relationship or was
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the breakup peaceful peaceful because
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your ex didn't really care or maybe
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because you don't really
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care the second sign is that the reason
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for the breakup was
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timing maybe they just got out of a
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long-term relationship or marriage and
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often someone like that wants to be free
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for a period of time they either want to
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be alone and not deal with any
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relationship or they just want to date
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around even if they have a great
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relationship with you i know it sucks
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because you didn't do anything wrong and
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the relationship was great and it's only
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because of timing and one of my clients
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is actually going through this right now
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and I constantly have to talk her down
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off the ledge to make sure she doesn't
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reach out and disrespect herself however
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if your bond was strong have faith that
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once they've dated around they will
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realize that you were the best
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choice the third sign is that your
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families like each other you were all
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very close and it was like you were
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married just without the ring and this
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is really helpful because it's difficult
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to have a relationship if their family
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doesn't like you or your family doesn't
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like them or both families don't like
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each other when you marry someone you're
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also marrying into their family people
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forget that they think well I just love
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him and who cares about the family well
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they're going to be
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around and you know that's why we have
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terms like sister-in-law brother-in-law
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etc their family becomes your family
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your family becomes their family the
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marriage doesn't exist in a
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vacuum so if both families like each
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other it's possible that their family
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will encourage them to patch things up
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and get back together with you they'll
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be rooting for you yay the next sign is
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that there's mutual respect appreciation
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and understanding you have good
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communication
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you can have a calm respectful
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conversation you're not afraid to
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discuss the breakup and you may even
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laugh about
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it so for the most part the relationship
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was peaceful so you may be asking well
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if their relationship was that good why
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is there a breakup good great question
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the breakup may have been because of
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circumstances or timing as I mentioned
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earlier
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and these are the most frustrating
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breakups
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because you didn't do anything wrong
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however if the relationship was really
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good as time goes by and the
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circumstances or timing changes there's
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a very good chance you can get back
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together the next sign is just for women
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and this is that you had to break up
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with your ex because he didn't want to
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get married yes I know sometimes it's
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vice versa but trust me we all know
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usually it's the guy that's reluctant to
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get married and the woman who has to
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quote unquote insist which is actually
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rather ironic because data has shown
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that actually men benefit more from
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marriage than women and men who are
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married are happier and live longer but
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that's a whole other discussion so
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anyways um yes many people who are
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actually now happily
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married broke up before they got married
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and then obviously got back together two
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of my very good girlfriends had that
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happen and they're still married decades
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later and even my sister and she has a
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great marriage i've never seen them
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argue or fight and they're still very
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polite with each other saying thank you
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and
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please
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and as I said this often happens before
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the guy finally wakes up and goes "Oh my
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god what did I
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do i just lost the best person ever i I
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need to get them back i'm being an idiot
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for not wanting to commit." So if a
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woman respects herself she's not going
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to wait around pushing for a commitment
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she's going to have to leave and get on
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with her
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life and hope that the guy realizes that
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she is the best person for him and then
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he'll come back and voila you'll be
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getting
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married the next sign
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is you were the best version of yourself
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with them and they were the best version
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of themselves with you
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it felt right when you were together and
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you felt that you could take on the
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world being together made each of your
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lives better you were excited about what
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the future held for you as a couple you
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both had never felt this way about
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another person time would stop when you
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were together and you wouldn't even
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realize that hours and hours had gone by
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you could be totally yourself without
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fear of being judged if this was your
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relationship there's a very good chance
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that you and your ex were meant to
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be now sometimes people break up for
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petty reasons or
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misunderstandings one of my clients his
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wife wanted a divorce and it was for
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very petty reason which I can't go into
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and she was going to move on with the
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divorce until I came on the scene and
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did my thing with my
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client and guess what they're not
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getting divorced
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so sometimes it takes the person
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realizing that you know what this is
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stupid like why did I break up with that
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person it was for a dumb reason there
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was really no reason to break up it's
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just my ego so if that's your situation
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and the relationship was really good
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other than that issue then again another
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sign you and your ex are meant to be
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and then the last one is that your ex
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had mental health issues like depression
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and they were possibly on
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medication and people aren't themselves
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when they're depressed and often the
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medication that people take for
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depression can alter their personality
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and make them more
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apathetic and this may have caused them
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to break up with you so if they go off
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the medication or
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they go off the medication and their
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depression goes away another
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way then there's a good chance that they
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will realize the breakup was a mistake
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and actually one of my clients went
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through this with with her ex and once
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he got off the medication he was himself
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again and they got back together so I'm
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now going to hear from you do any of
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these eight signs apply to your
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situation and which one or which ones
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and in the meantime if you would like my
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help to get your ex back you can contact
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me at the
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arttooflove.net/coaching and we will
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