Real Families: Progressive Education for Gender Diversity

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Sintesi

TLDRThe video examines the societal attitudes towards gender roles as perceived by young children, highlighting that despite living in a seemingly equal society, children still internalize strong beliefs about the differences between boys and girls. The narrative follows a primary school experiment aimed at challenging these stereotypes and fostering an environment where both genders can thrive equally. The program incorporates testing of children's self-esteem, emotional vocabulary, and occupational aspirations, revealing significant gender disparities. Through classroom interventions and exposure to diverse role models, the initiative aims to reshape children's understanding of gender capabilities, ultimately seeking to build confidence and equal opportunities for all students.

Punti di forza

  • πŸ‘¦πŸ‘§ Children as young as seven perceive boys and girls as fundamentally different.
  • πŸ“‰ Girls often underestimate their abilities compared to boys who overestimate theirs.
  • 🏫 Classroom interventions can challenge existing gender stereotypes.
  • πŸ€” Societal influences play a significant role in shaping children's beliefs about gender.
  • πŸ‘©β€πŸ« Role models help children envision diverse career paths irrespective of gender.

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  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    In a society claiming gender equality, children as young as seven perceive inherent differences between boys and girls, believing these distinctions impact their future roles in work and family life. The misconception that boys are naturally more successful than girls is challenged, as the speaker argues these differences stem more from societal expectations than biology.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Provoking children's thoughts on gender perspectives, the need for changing toilet practices signals the intention to alter self-perceptions and aspirations. Each child should be allowed to pursue their interests without gender bias, though the path to achieving this change is acknowledged to be challenging.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Lanes End Primary School's head teacher emphasizes gender equality as a foundational principle, yet preconceived notions still pervade children's thoughts on gender roles. Efforts to redefine these preconceived ideas through education become a focal point, questioning the effectiveness of current measures in achieving true equality.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    The session with Professor Gina Ripon reveals minimal anatomical differences between male and female brains, suggesting that socialization rather than biology shapes children's understanding of gender roles. The transformative nature of the brain supports the argument for a societal overhaul in how we present gender to children.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    With research confirming that rigid beliefs about gender emerge around age seven, interventions are planned to address children's differing self-views based on gender. A control group will also be used to measure the effect of these initiatives over a term.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    Testing children's self-perceptions further uncovers alarming trends. Girls underestimate their abilities and self-worth, while boys struggle to express their emotions beyond anger. The differences observed prompt concern for the implications these results may hold for future generations.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:35:00

    Classroom interventions are designed to foster an environment that emphasizes equality and collective empowerment. Creating a culture where both boys and girls are encouraged and expected to collaborate, children will begin to challenge their existing understanding of gender norms.

  • 00:35:00 - 00:40:00

    Pivotal discussions lead to reflections on teachers' language that reinforces differences rather than promotes equality. A strategy employed revolves around actively changing the language used in the classroom to ensure a more inclusive environment for all students.

  • 00:40:00 - 00:45:00

    Changing children's preconceived notions about gender roles in careers is tackled by exposing them to role models across a spectrum of professions. The children's fixed perceptions begin to shift as they interact with professionals challenging traditional gender-based employment stereotypes.

  • 00:45:00 - 00:53:40

    To address the gender gap in STEM fields, activities centered around spatial awareness and other hands-on exercises highlight that with practice, girls can excel in traditionally male domains. Thus, fostering confidence and inclusion among both genders is crucial for their future.

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Video Domande e Risposte

  • What is the main theme of the video?

    The video addresses the development of gender roles and perceptions of equality among children.

  • How do children perceive gender differences?

    Children as young as seven perceive boys and girls as fundamentally different, linking certain traits and roles exclusively to one gender.

  • What interventions were used in the classroom?

    Interventions included changing classroom language, introducing role models, and engaging students in activities that challenge gender stereotypes.

  • What did the testing reveal about children's self-esteem?

    The testing revealed that girls significantly underestimate their abilities compared to boys, who often overestimate them.

  • How does societal influence affect children's views on gender?

    Society's messages and stereotypes contribute to entrenched beliefs about gender roles, impacting children's self-perception and aspirations.

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    we live in a country where men and women
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    are meant to be equal same pay same
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    careers same opportunities but children
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    as young as seven think that boys and
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    girls are fundamentally different
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    I think boys and women and girls men are
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    like being in church I would describe
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    the girl as being pretty and that these
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    differences will define the lives they
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    live as adults if the woman has a child
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    the men have to go to work and earn some
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    money
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    no no more successful because they could
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    have more harder job I don't believe
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    that biology alone can explain these
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    differences I think the answer lies in
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    the society we live in
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    [Music]
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    what if they called you all sweetpea
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    [Music]
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    gender neutral you've got to start going
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    to the same toilet I can change the way
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    they think about themselves everyone can
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    have a chance to do what they like and
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    the way they think about their future I
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    do not like reading but I like being in
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    that book and if I can do that perhaps
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    there's a chance of making their adult
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    lives really equal made to be underpaid
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    would you address your daughter in that
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    it kind of makes something that seems so
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    innocent not really that innocent after
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    all but
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    isn't going to be easy I want it to go
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    back to porzingis I didn't think I could
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    do it at first what we're trying to do
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    could actually be very difficult I think
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    in struggle every child deserves the
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    same opportunities in life but unless we
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    stop treating our boys and girls
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    differently that simply isn't going to
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    happen
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    [Music]
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    this is lanes n primary school on the
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    Isle of Wight you please line up ready
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    for assembly a local school with a good
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    academic record run by head teacher
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    Caroline sighs good morning
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    300 boys and girls ranging in age from 5
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    Tula Graham Andre teaches one of the two
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    year three classes right
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    how could you describe the gladiator
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    Andre 23 2008 and night hello everyone
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    the same time that the UK was drafting
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    the Equality Act the most comprehensive
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    legislation anywhere in the world
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    against sex discrimination these
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    children have lived their entire lives
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    in a world that says it once men and
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    women to be treated the same get things
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    written down but is that how things
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    really are
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    come on and give it a go love mazie what
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    we're doing now is you just come in with
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    sending me gladiators so we're
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    describing what we're seeing it seems to
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    me that's how they will see themselves
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    now let's see finger space is of course
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    my love we always need finger spaces we
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    treat them the same
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    maybe we can transform their views
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    [Music]
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    future might hold them so what do you
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    the children in grams class think about
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    how different or similar they are
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    amenable cuz they're stronger and they
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    got more jobs I think I would describe
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    the girl as pretty lipstick dresses love
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    hearts football I think strong is a
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    boiler because they can fight lots of
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    people right tell me who's more
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    important girls voice
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    morally i boys save and I protect girls
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    I think no no more
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    because they could have more harder job
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    and no more I think men are better like
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    being in charge I think boys are
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    cleverer than girls because they don't
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    they get into president easily than they
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    Louise I think from the moment they're
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    born they are aware of gender those
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    children are becoming that mindset that
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    this is what they are the boys will play
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    football there the girls will do drawing
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    an art they would tell me what jobs they
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    can or can't do so it's very much that
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    they've still got very set views on what
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    is acceptable for their gender Shh
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    why smiley that we need to be quiet
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    everyone
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    it's common sense that there are basic
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    biological differences between the sexes
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    but do these differences explain the way
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    the children think
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    to find out I've come to see Professor
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    Gina Ripon one of the country's leading
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    experts in neuro imaging to see if
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    there's something about how the
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    children's brains work that could
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    explain it what the difference is
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    between boys and girls brains
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    anatomically $64,000 question
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    structurally there appears to be very
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    very few differences which is quite a
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    surprise to a lot of people who have
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    assumed for hundreds of years that males
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    and females are different because their
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    brains are different so you couldn't
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    look at a brain scan and say oh that's
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    brain scan of a male or a brain scan of
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    a female that really doesn't explain why
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    boys and girls might behave differently
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    then if you say the structure of the
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    brains are that there's no
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    differentiation between the structure
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    well the other thing that we now know
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    about is that the brain is very very
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    plastic moldable changeable that
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    something isn't necessarily fixed and
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    invariant which is what was all sought
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    about the brain what we now know is
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    brain development is very much entangled
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    with society experiences upbringing and
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    the differences we're seeing and not
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    because they were determined at the
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    moment of conception it's because this
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    hungry brain arrives in the world and
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    the world is instantly plunging it into
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    a tsunami of pink and blue and I think
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    we have not been aware too recently of
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    how big that influence is if Gina's
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    right the differences between boys and
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    girls aren't set in stone
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    they're there because their experiences
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    have taught them different skills and
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    mental attitudes did you find people on
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    your phone in Texas I haven't got a SIM
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    card or any credit okay which means I
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    should be able to reduce the differences
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    between the boys and girls in grams
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    class of 70 watts mutant boys to do
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    research at Stanford University has said
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    that 7 is a key age for children because
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    it's at this point that they are
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    beginning to have fixed ideas about the
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    differences between a man and a women
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    excellent and well we'll just share
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    yours but not so fixed they can't still
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    be changed 5 and to there'd be quite
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    loud
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    think about the patterns in the twos and
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    the fives times tables Riley so I've
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    asked dr. Stella Mavs Ravelli
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    from the psychometric lab University
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    College London to run a series of tests
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    to gather some data measuring these
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    differences I am a scientist I work with
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    children and adults and I help them
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    learn a little bit more about themselves
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    and you will be helping us learn a lot
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    more about children your age these tests
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    will look at the differences between the
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    boys and girls when it comes to one is
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    only men - is only women 3 is postmen
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    women so these are jobs ok their levels
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    of self-esteem how clever they think
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    they are known as perceived intelligence
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    we have to write we have no idea
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    their understanding and levels of
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    empathy if my mother is happy I also
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    feel happy assertiveness and how good
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    they are resisting impulses to act a
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    trait that has linked an aggression bad
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    behavior and lying you will be allowed
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    to eat one sweet but then you've got to
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    leave the rest until the end of the day
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    right we need to get back on with our
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    mass and how much vocabulary they have
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    to describe their emotions excited
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    joyful smiley funny joyful fun family
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    love it's light enjoyable I don't know
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    can't think of any I can't think beneath
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    gram also scored each of the children
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    four levels of classroom behavior
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    hyperactivity and poor conduct thank you
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    so much you've done amazingly well
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    Stella has sent me the results of the
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    week of tests and and they are shocking
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    I'm seeing here evidence that the girls
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    significantly underestimate how clever
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    they are and have less self-esteem and
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    self-confidence and the boys can't seem
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    to express their emotions except anger
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    which is really disturbing and the girls
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    and seemed to use words such as ugly
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    lipstick pretty soul or everything to do
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    with looks to describe themselves I'm
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    disappointed by these results Gina has
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    told me that boys and girls brains are
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    the same so there's absolutely no
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    biological reason why the results should
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    be like this
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    what is really worrying is that lanes
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    end is a school like any other in the
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    country so if these results are true for
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    them then they're probably true for
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    every other class in every other school
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    [Music]
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    so I'm heading back to the Isle of Wight
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    where for the next five weeks I'm going
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    to stage a number of classroom
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    interventions does it remind you of
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    Maisie what does it remind you of love
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    these are designed to tackle the
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    differences I've seen in the boys and
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    girls in our series of tests and change
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    them when dr. Steiner retest the
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    children at the end of the term on the
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    cou sit properly please anvil Oh Cara
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    love what does the love remind you of
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    and to ensure that any changes that take
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    place are down to my interventions we're
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    going to use the other year three class
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    as a control group they will be tested
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    at the beginning and at the end but
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    apart from that they'll have a term but
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    before I do anything I want to talk to
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    Brad to find out if what he knows about
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    the children he ties up with what I
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    found so this is a really interesting
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    thing I think something called perceived
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    intelligence by okay so there was a
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    little test an object was to ask them
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    what score they thought they would get
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    it as high as yeah and overall many many
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    more girls underestimated what they
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    would achieve higher boys and actually
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    three times as many boys overestimated
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    what they were jeev well when compared
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    to the girls half girls underestimate
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    their ability and boys overestimate and
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    in fact one of the girls
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    Lexie there yes it means showing against
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    three out of ten is old nine out of ten
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    Wow
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    ditto for grace and Tiffany there I
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    definitely think that's something that
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    we do see within class that the boys
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    actually have this greater belief in
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    their own abilities and will the girl
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    seem to be a bit more quiet about it all
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    and see that Tiffany Grace and Lexi I
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    can see they're girls actually there are
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    quite low on confidence grace came to us
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    from a different school and she was
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    really low on confidence especially when
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    it came to things like maths the most
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    telling for me personally was the
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    emotional vocab and so it gave them
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    a word when you ask them to give a
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    number of words associated to one okay
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    and across all of these emotions they
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    are one the girls scored more flowers
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    and they're a new one they didn't school
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    Morin was so angry Wow
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    so boys had more words to describe angry
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    that yells but already at this point
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    something's happen somewhere that girls
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    can express their emotions much more and
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    you see that in class yeah we do
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    actually it's harder for the boys to
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    express their feelings
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    you can ask them they they get angry
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    sometimes and you can say to them why is
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    it you are angry and they're not happy
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    it's just time I'm just an angry it
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    wasn't just differences in intelligence
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    or emotion that were revealed in our
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    testing the self-esteem and 50% of the
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    boys describe themselves as the best but
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    only 10% of the girls with one girl
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    describing herself as ugly girls also
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    had no scores for self-confidence
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    while boys struggled with empathy it was
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    a shock looking at some of the data and
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    the assessment that would claim that
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    there are some quite big challenges
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    there for the children especially girls
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    that underestimated their own ability
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    and also there's complete biased views
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    about what boys are expected to do and
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    what girls are expected to do and I'd
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    really like to change that that's the
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    only thing I'm really nervous about
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    actually do this and nothing happens
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    because I really want there to be a
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    difference
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    the first thing I want to do is address
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    the differences that the children told
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    me about themselves
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    so like wherever they look I want them
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    to be faced with things that highlight
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    their similarities and not their
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    difference not knock Sondre hello Janet
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    how are you all do you know what we're
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    up to
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    right what we're gonna do is we're gonna
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    try and change the classroom we're gonna
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    ensure that the boys and girls are
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    treated equally because you can all do
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    as well as each other so here we've got
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    some boards which you're all going to
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    help put up it says that boys are strong
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    but so a go it's not putting some stuff
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    up then yeah you could put on the table
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    it doesn't have to stay there forever it
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    could change every week where's the best
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    place to put this sign so that people
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    see it these signs have been written to
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    challenge when the children
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    selves have told me about how they view
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    boys goats
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    where do you think it would have the
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    best impact what you'll say jzuk it cuz
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    that you agree girls are clever this one
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    looks like it's just a few words on the
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    walls but it's about more than that it's
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    about the language the climate the
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    environment in which the children find
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    themselves they're now receiving lots
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    and lots and lots of small messages
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    together the some of which has far
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    greater than their parts and it's
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    telling them boys and girls are equal
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    they're in there for many hours a day
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    most of the days a week so it's a big
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    thing the biggest influence in the
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    classroom is great oh it's a new joy
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    Beauty guys I will just find out from
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    head teacher missus I see how she thinks
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    he does at treating the children the
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    same mr. Andre is a great teacher but
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    his biggest strength is his relationship
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    with the children he knows those
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    children really well however when we
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    were doing observations when he was
  • 00:16:37
    asking questions and gathering answers
  • 00:16:39
    often would ask more boys than girls why
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    do you think fellas and this is what we
  • 00:16:45
    had picked up in observations with him
  • 00:16:47
    so yeah really important to see if we
  • 00:16:50
    could change mr. Andre and ensure that
  • 00:16:52
    his children were getting an equal sort
  • 00:16:55
    of experience in his classroom I've got
  • 00:16:58
    an idea that I think will do just that
  • 00:17:00
    what do you think this might be what is
  • 00:17:02
    it say on there grace what is it failing
  • 00:17:06
    they're lazy Orien one of the most
  • 00:17:10
    telling findings in the testing was the
  • 00:17:12
    girls low levels of academic
  • 00:17:13
    self-confidence got your names on it
  • 00:17:16
    which is partly expressed in the
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    confidence that they have to speak up in
  • 00:17:20
    class we know that you might be skewed
  • 00:17:23
    toward letting one of the kids answer a
  • 00:17:25
    question if they're noise you're allowed
  • 00:17:27
    so this is a way of making it entirely
  • 00:17:29
    fair and straight down to chance
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    say Roth Ely do you think this is a good
  • 00:17:36
    idea yeah you think it's a good idea and
  • 00:17:42
    we are going out actually now for a bit
  • 00:17:44
    of an early break lily and today it's a
  • 00:17:48
    night there's little point in doing all
  • 00:17:51
    I can to even out differences when every
  • 00:17:54
    time Graham opens his mouth he uses
  • 00:17:56
    names that massively reinforced the idea
  • 00:17:58
    that boys and girls are different
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    [Music]
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    have you ever noticed that mr. Andre
  • 00:18:07
    calls you boys mate or fella Suzie oh so
  • 00:18:14
    it's made only for men okay what about
  • 00:18:17
    this what if mr. Andre called you all
  • 00:18:19
    sweetpea from those reactions it's clear
  • 00:18:32
    that this kind of language has power so
  • 00:18:36
    I want to challenge Graham on his use of
  • 00:18:38
    love and mate we count through one of
  • 00:18:42
    your morning sessions but number times
  • 00:18:43
    you call the girls love my earthly
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    darling is weepy yeah it was a hundred
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    and forty a guy yeah and Manny the boys
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    you call the boys make Ladd fella or sir
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    I it was 47 okay you know I'm so I'm
  • 00:18:57
    really aware that I do this it's also
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    the fact that you do tend to endear
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    yourself to the girls twice as much as
  • 00:19:04
    the boys right crumbs that's a line it's
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    it's sort of ingrained it's something I
  • 00:19:08
    do so I find it really hard not to do
  • 00:19:11
    it's all too easy to laugh this off as
  • 00:19:14
    not really matter in but constant
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    reminders of difference sink in and have
  • 00:19:20
    a lasting effect on the children I've
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    got an idea for a way the children
  • 00:19:25
    themselves can help Graham change his
  • 00:19:27
    ways
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    what do you think you might be here we
  • 00:19:33
    go so we've noticed that mr. Andre likes
  • 00:19:38
    to call some of you love and sweetpea
  • 00:19:41
    and some of you mate and fella we're
  • 00:19:43
    gonna put this up and every time you
  • 00:19:46
    hear him say love or May or sweet pea or
  • 00:19:49
    fella or my darling you can put a sad
  • 00:19:51
    face next to whichever one that he's
  • 00:19:54
    said what do you think about that
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    well you've got to be honest with this
  • 00:19:59
    you have to be honest if I stand any
  • 00:20:02
    chance of effective change then
  • 00:20:04
    everything that marks the children our
  • 00:20:06
    plan is different based solely on being
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    a boy or a girl
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    who needs to be gotten rid of and
  • 00:20:11
    nothing will do that more than pet names
  • 00:20:15
    so yeah you've seen the small things
  • 00:20:17
    that we've put up all around the room
  • 00:20:18
    and how we're going to change the words
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    we use so the small beginning but this
  • 00:20:23
    is your new classroom what do you think
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    this is just a beginning Ronnie what
  • 00:20:30
    there's a bit an interesting day today
  • 00:20:32
    we've Javid coming in I'm a little bit
  • 00:20:34
    worried about the board at the back of
  • 00:20:35
    the classroom I think because the kids
  • 00:20:37
    are part of that too they're going to
  • 00:20:38
    keep an eye on me and help me to to do
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    that and I know it's for the greater
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    good I know it's it's it will have an
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    impact on the children which is like
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    dinner's Louie you know yourself a form
  • 00:20:53
    of food Thank You Riley
  • 00:20:54
    I look forward to seeing him it's a new
  • 00:20:57
    day and lanes end primers and already
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    Graham is struggling with the pet names
  • 00:21:08
    it was about two minutes Lilly won it
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    sworn in it was a real accident as well
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    let's see you right there love let's see
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    it's much harder
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    although to be fair I do honestly think
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    T's not too bad I would have by now
  • 00:21:28
    looking at 23 children I would have
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    called each one of them a term of
  • 00:21:32
    endearment I think at least once this
  • 00:21:33
    morning so twos not too bad but it's
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    still not correct it's really really
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    really hard I really have to think about
  • 00:21:38
    what I'm doing so wrong answers I'm a
  • 00:21:40
    cure for assemblies and pick a ball out
  • 00:21:42
    and this person will be the longing
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    leader we could have a different person
  • 00:21:45
    each day you can wait what Bella
  • 00:21:50
    it's an encouraging first step to see
  • 00:21:53
    the children and crayon being challenged
  • 00:21:55
    by the changes I've made in the
  • 00:21:57
    classroom
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    but next I want to tackle one of the
  • 00:22:01
    questions that all children have an
  • 00:22:03
    answer for and I go up I want to be home
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    you know one driver when they grow up I
  • 00:22:09
    want to be a pop star because of that
  • 00:22:11
    reason I start to be a or EF pilot um to
  • 00:22:17
    be a teacher as part of our testing the
  • 00:22:21
    children were given a long list of jobs
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    these range from one set of
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    traditionally thought of as either
  • 00:22:26
    female or male like babysitter and
  • 00:22:29
    plumber to less obvious ones like baker
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    or dentist
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    we then asked which jobs a woman would
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    do I think a hairdresser a babysitter
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    and a nail designer and which would a
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    man do football Preston SP um tennis
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    people captain please what was
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    shocking was just how certain they were
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    that these jobs were only for men or
  • 00:23:03
    women and I think a hairdresser is a
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    girl top because it's a girl dog
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    I think a firefighter is for a boy
  • 00:23:16
    because they need to hold up big ladders
  • 00:23:20
    and more a really heavy boys are can
  • 00:23:24
    only be police officers because they're
  • 00:23:26
    faster so they can catch the wall boys
  • 00:23:28
    if before us a nurse
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    being a boy it kind of sounds a bit
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    weird and it would kind of look a bit
  • 00:23:37
    weird as well on one level this sounds
  • 00:23:41
    like harmless kids talk but at just
  • 00:23:43
    seven years old there is no doubt in
  • 00:23:45
    their minds some jobs men do and some
  • 00:23:48
    women do and that is limiting what year
  • 00:23:53
    three switch-like stand up I want to try
  • 00:23:56
    and show them that it doesn't
  • 00:23:56
    necessarily have to be that way
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    here we go I'm going to show you this
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    and on this hour four jobs over here
  • 00:24:05
    there's a ballet dancer a magician the
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    makeup artist and a mechanic what I want
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    you kids to do is to get as creative as
  • 00:24:13
    possible drawing their body draw in
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    their arms
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    imagine what tools they might need
  • 00:24:17
    imagine what color hair they've got what
  • 00:24:19
    clothes they'd wear but I also want you
  • 00:24:21
    to do one thing which is really
  • 00:24:22
    important I want you to give them a name
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    ready
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    we want to make a naked you can do that
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    how many mechanics you know that work
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    naked okay
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    the jobs I've chosen aren't really the
  • 00:24:40
    important part I'm not trying to turn
  • 00:24:43
    all the girls into want to be magicians
  • 00:24:44
    but what I do want to do is to explore
  • 00:24:47
    the kind of region
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    they show in our testing so you're
  • 00:24:51
    thinking about who might do this job yes
  • 00:24:54
    a girl okay permanent normal jobs like
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    their makeup office would normally be a
  • 00:25:04
    girl and a car mechanic would normally
  • 00:25:07
    be a boy your magician is a mr. see
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    what's in here
  • 00:25:11
    mr. bubble my car mechanic I might call
  • 00:25:16
    a diamond see she's a ballerina because
  • 00:25:23
    they don't you get an ad my little
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    office is a woman she's gonna have a
  • 00:25:30
    mirror and lipstick because it's makeup
  • 00:25:32
    and lipsticks makeup and if they have
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    mirrors for me yeah it's basically a
  • 00:25:37
    woman because it's a Newton eight one
  • 00:25:39
    month and a ballet dancer it's called
  • 00:25:41
    and liquors lots and lots and lots of
  • 00:25:44
    ballet dancers and girls it's surprising
  • 00:25:47
    how fix the children's ideas are almost
  • 00:25:50
    without exception the mechanics and
  • 00:25:52
    magicians and Men and the makeup artists
  • 00:25:54
    and dancers winning
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    but there is absolutely no reason why
  • 00:25:59
    that should be so I want to show them an
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    alternative
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    [Applause]
  • 00:26:08
    are we ready come in come in come in
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    look what your hands to your mouths are
  • 00:26:14
    so you were drawing for people earlier
  • 00:26:17
    weren't you why don't introduce
  • 00:26:21
    ourselves and we'll find out
  • 00:26:22
    I'll ask my name's Rob and I'm a makeup
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    artist I'm Andrea and I'm a car mechanic
  • 00:26:28
    hello my name is Dane and I'm a dancer
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    hello I'm Karina and I'm a magician come
  • 00:26:37
    for me come on right right
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    five ladies would you like to come with
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    me so my name's Rob and I work on films
  • 00:26:58
    like Star Wars and Avengers yeah eating
  • 00:27:02
    role models can be hugely influential
  • 00:27:05
    turn
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    like this or something they see and go
  • 00:27:10
    very good very good because what we
  • 00:27:13
    learn in them is more likely to change
  • 00:27:15
    our behaviors and beliefs it's part of
  • 00:27:20
    the exhaust and what it does is it
  • 00:27:22
    collects all the nasty suit is it really
  • 00:27:25
    really hot it gets incredibly hot you
  • 00:27:28
    guys ever met a few mellow mechanic yeah
  • 00:27:30
    where have you met one select see if you
  • 00:27:35
    enjoyed meeting the mechanic yeah I
  • 00:27:37
    think that it's really cool that it's a
  • 00:27:40
    girl okay so sometimes you have to paint
  • 00:27:43
    a little background someone in the in
  • 00:27:44
    the film might happen that I get punched
  • 00:27:46
    in the face I like it
  • 00:27:56
    a boy get the chance to be makeup art
  • 00:27:59
    it's not always a girl looks sort isn't
  • 00:28:02
    it sticking with me and he's been the
  • 00:28:11
    coolest person you've met I scouted the
  • 00:28:14
    dance of the guys I don't know why I
  • 00:28:17
    just like it
  • 00:28:19
    I think there everyone jobs because
  • 00:28:21
    everyone can have attached a chance to
  • 00:28:24
    do what they like
  • 00:28:27
    this was not a hard thing to do to get
  • 00:28:30
    some people in the room and show the
  • 00:28:32
    children but there's an alternative to
  • 00:28:34
    what they think as the inevitable path
  • 00:28:36
    for men and men while making them face
  • 00:28:40
    their own assumptions we've made a
  • 00:28:41
    lasting change all high five level yeah
  • 00:28:47
    it would be easy for schools to do
  • 00:28:50
    something like this but they aren't and
  • 00:28:52
    that means another generation of
  • 00:28:55
    children growing up with fixed and
  • 00:28:57
    limiting ideas about what they can
  • 00:28:59
    achieve so what do we need to say to all
  • 00:29:01
    these wonderful people to come and see
  • 00:29:02
    yourself I do apologize to some of your
  • 00:29:10
    children what's happened to them after
  • 00:29:11
    noon I don't know but I they have lots
  • 00:29:14
    of things that we can tell you about
  • 00:29:16
    states are amazing today did your
  • 00:29:22
    [Music]
  • 00:29:29
    fundamental make it makeup artists which
  • 00:29:32
    done this surprised yeah I think if we
  • 00:29:36
    did if we did the same activity that we
  • 00:29:38
    did earlier again tomorrow then you'll
  • 00:29:41
    get probably a whole different set of
  • 00:29:43
    pictures on those bodies I'm sure you
  • 00:29:46
    would actually think this is dis could
  • 00:29:47
    be a step in the right direction of the
  • 00:29:50
    change in their views while changing the
  • 00:29:58
    children's perceptions is a start I
  • 00:30:00
    think it's just one part of the problem
  • 00:30:03
    in our testing the girls scored 30%
  • 00:30:07
    lower than the boys in self-confidence
  • 00:30:09
    in maths 2 4 6 8 the ability to process
  • 00:30:19
    and understand numbers shapes and how
  • 00:30:21
    objects fit together known as spatial
  • 00:30:23
    awareness is key to success in a number
  • 00:30:26
    of traditionally male-dominated
  • 00:30:27
    professions according to the Office of
  • 00:30:33
    National Statistics less than 10% of
  • 00:30:36
    Engineers and 20% of architects are
  • 00:30:39
    women I want to know why it is that men
  • 00:30:43
    dominates when it comes to spatial
  • 00:30:45
    awareness people are very interested in
  • 00:30:47
    the fact that on average girls tend to
  • 00:30:51
    do worse on on what we call spatial
  • 00:30:53
    tasks and seems to be very much a
  • 00:30:56
    function of encouraging boys or boys
  • 00:30:59
    having more experience with visual
  • 00:31:00
    spatial skills they've got their head
  • 00:31:02
    stuck in a Lego instruction book for
  • 00:31:04
    example so people have looked at whether
  • 00:31:06
    or not you could improve performance by
  • 00:31:09
    training so these are scans of girls who
  • 00:31:12
    had opportunity to play Tetris
  • 00:31:14
    intensively for 3 months what they found
  • 00:31:17
    was that their spatial skills improved
  • 00:31:19
    and actually there were structures in
  • 00:31:22
    the brain which changed so it's
  • 00:31:24
    physically changed it's going thicker to
  • 00:31:29
    put it in simple terms so a male child
  • 00:31:32
    might be much more encouraged to play
  • 00:31:34
    with games that are to do with spatial
  • 00:31:38
    awareness so the brain is rehearsed and
  • 00:31:40
    practiced that that develops more and
  • 00:31:43
    it's actually the child becomes better
  • 00:31:45
    at it and we know that if your practice
  • 00:31:46
    makes perfect yet speak
  • 00:31:48
    and also if you're better at something
  • 00:31:49
    you enjoy doing it more
  • 00:31:51
    [Music]
  • 00:31:58
    Gina has given me an idea of how I can
  • 00:32:00
    brain train my class to even out these
  • 00:32:03
    differences and build their confidence
  • 00:32:05
    in their abilities that affects subjects
  • 00:32:08
    like maths and science special ability
  • 00:32:11
    is a key component in the STEM subjects
  • 00:32:14
    of thus others of science technology
  • 00:32:15
    engineering and maths and those subjects
  • 00:32:18
    are crucial for future careers
  • 00:32:20
    potentially in engineering architecture
  • 00:32:22
    even surgery okay kids what we're trying
  • 00:32:25
    to show today is to see if any of you
  • 00:32:27
    are better than the others at spatial
  • 00:32:30
    awareness being able to look at physical
  • 00:32:32
    objects and seeing how they relate to
  • 00:32:35
    each other and mr. landreaux and I are
  • 00:32:37
    gonna have a quick test now hang on here
  • 00:32:41
    we go
  • 00:32:42
    look at this big colorful Straits again
  • 00:32:45
    right this is a tangram puzzle mr. Andre
  • 00:32:49
    and eyes task is to make this shape out
  • 00:32:52
    of these all right so should we go for
  • 00:32:55
    the ends first one in tangram puzzles
  • 00:32:59
    use seven geometric shapes that can be
  • 00:33:02
    arranged into various complex patterns a
  • 00:33:05
    green triangle that needs to go to be
  • 00:33:08
    good at it you need to be able to
  • 00:33:10
    manipulate shapes understanding how they
  • 00:33:12
    fit together and how they change new
  • 00:33:15
    flip or rotate them well that's a thing
  • 00:33:19
    isn't it it's gonna go this trains the
  • 00:33:22
    temporal lobes of the brain that are
  • 00:33:24
    responsible for processing shapes just
  • 00:33:26
    leaves teamwork teamwork now
  • 00:33:34
    you're each going to get one and you're
  • 00:33:37
    going to practice right now with one
  • 00:33:39
    particular shape okay this is the shape
  • 00:33:42
    I'd like you to make you've got it in
  • 00:33:44
    front of you what is it remind you of a
  • 00:33:46
    sailboat where you go
  • 00:33:54
    [Music]
  • 00:33:59
    I've given the children ten minutes to
  • 00:34:01
    try and reproduce the shape that looks
  • 00:34:03
    like a ship if you're a boy who's been
  • 00:34:06
    playing with Lego or minecraft his whole
  • 00:34:08
    life you're much more likely to be
  • 00:34:10
    better at this type of task and more
  • 00:34:13
    confident in it and have confidence in
  • 00:34:16
    those subjects like maths and physics it
  • 00:34:19
    looks like the boys have done it before
  • 00:34:20
    so is it that they're more practice that
  • 00:34:22
    it more rehearsed and the point of this
  • 00:34:24
    is to give them all an even playing
  • 00:34:26
    field in terms of rehearsal practice and
  • 00:34:29
    exercising that part of the brain comes
  • 00:34:48
    off there's a couple actually
  • 00:35:02
    Tiffany's really struggles I think you
  • 00:35:05
    know 15 minutes a day 10 minutes today
  • 00:35:08
    not long after the school day could
  • 00:35:10
    really help exercise fish and get them
  • 00:35:12
    all up as well you know we just fall
  • 00:35:15
    into your numeracy types moving
  • 00:35:17
    brilliant brilliant
  • 00:35:19
    there's clearly a huge gap between boys
  • 00:35:21
    and girls which I hope this intervention
  • 00:35:24
    will go some way to blows
  • 00:35:30
    the brains class isn't unique it's
  • 00:35:33
    worrying to think that the difference
  • 00:35:35
    I've seen here you could well be found
  • 00:35:37
    in other classrooms in the country and I
  • 00:35:43
    don't think people are doing enough
  • 00:35:45
    leaving generation after generation of
  • 00:35:48
    little girls excluded from future
  • 00:35:50
    careers that require a militants in STEM
  • 00:35:52
    subjects it is five to three million a
  • 00:36:01
    car off you go to gamestop rest of you
  • 00:36:03
    and go home it's easy to think that boys
  • 00:36:10
    are just better when it comes to
  • 00:36:12
    developing their spatial awareness
  • 00:36:14
    skills the girls don't like playing in
  • 00:36:20
    that kind of way they naturally
  • 00:36:22
    preferred dolls to boys toys
  • 00:36:25
    [Music]
  • 00:36:27
    I want to put that to the test because
  • 00:36:29
    I'm pretty sure that that idea is
  • 00:36:31
    rubbish toys are just toys so I'm going
  • 00:36:40
    to conduct an experiment something a
  • 00:36:42
    little unorthodox I've gathered some
  • 00:36:45
    babies and swap their clothes for the
  • 00:36:49
    next couple of hours
  • 00:36:51
    Marnie becomes Oliver and Edward becomes
  • 00:36:55
    Sophie because I want to see the kinds
  • 00:36:57
    of behaviors and assumptions adult
  • 00:36:59
    volunteers make when they think they're
  • 00:37:01
    playing with a little boy or girl even
  • 00:37:03
    when they're not look at this look at
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    this do like a doll a look of the dollar
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    you're a good little girl I give Sophie
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    look what does this say
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    sweet dreams sweet dreams oh and what's
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    this but this Sophie
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    what startling is the assumption that
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    because Edward is dressed as a girl the
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    adult thinks he wants to play with the
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    soft toy
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    meow-meow oh not the toys that encourage
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    understanding shapes were being
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    physically confident she thinks she had
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    any favorite yes I do I think she liked
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    that pink dolly the best if I were to
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    tell you actually that Sophie is Edward
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    ahh
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    does that change anything I maybe
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    thought oh this is a little girl so I
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    have to give a little girl things you
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    made the choice for this and yes to play
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    with that doll yeah so what I'm saying
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    is when when adults choose the for the
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    children how they play what with what
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    long they're gonna have then they're
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    gonna end up there yes what do you want
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    to play with Jessie my robot
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    Alisha's maybe chances are cool in
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    handling the child
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    fellow what's this one ah what's that
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    one - it's a road what about this one
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    you like that one what does this one do
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    okay whatever you've gone for you could
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    say boy toys possibly possibly in my
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    subconscious but it's it's me I was just
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    going for what was around me but I
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    smoked my subconscious was automatically
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    playing a trick on me that if I tell you
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    that he is actually a girl really yes
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    oh wow that's really interesting
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    I suppose it's because of the stereotype
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    and then that changed your behavior
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    towards the child it's it and your
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    behavior was generative so how does that
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    make you feel like you changed your
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    behavior really shocking because you
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    know children today we're trying to
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    teach children that you can be what you
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    want to be but yet we're still forcing
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    an identity on a child this identity
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    based on how we think a child should act
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    isn't harmless it has much deeper and
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    longer lasting consequences than
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    choosing which toy to play with
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    gender differences in emotional health
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    so here it says women with anxiety
  • 00:40:06
    disorders are more likely to internalize
  • 00:40:08
    which results in typically loan enlist
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    withdrawal and depression men on the
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    other hand are more likely to
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    externalize which leads to aggression
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    impulsive behavior coercive and
  • 00:40:19
    non-compliant behavior there's an
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    article on men natural born criminals
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    the prison numbers don't lie say less
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    than five percent of the country's
  • 00:40:28
    prison population is female people who
  • 00:40:30
    research masculinity in prisons men
  • 00:40:32
    don't cry men take it on the chin you
  • 00:40:34
    can't be soft simply being born a boy
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    means you're much more likely to end up
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    in prison but they're much more likely
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    to earn more than a girl the gender pay
  • 00:40:44
    gap there are less women
  • 00:40:46
    full-stop at in the top 100 companies as
  • 00:40:49
    bosses and there are men called John the
  • 00:40:52
    sum of all of these statistics others
  • 00:40:55
    potential for that to be really quite
  • 00:40:57
    sinister or insidious if you don't stop
  • 00:41:00
    to think about why
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    [Music]
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    these statistics have really brought it
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    home to me that some children across the
  • 00:41:08
    country have a difficult and uncertain
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    adult life because of what we tell them
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    it means to be a man or a woman
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    [Music]
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    so let's go do the boat and you've got
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    to choose a hundred-word challenge to be
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    honest I'm really proud of what I've
  • 00:41:31
    done so far just to have this numbers
  • 00:41:33
    good gram might be feeling positive but
  • 00:41:37
    I'm keen two weeks into my time at
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    Lane's end to hear what changes he's
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    seeing in the children you think they've
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    noticed some changes yeah I do think
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    they've definitely noticed changes
  • 00:41:48
    they're taking on board they are making
  • 00:41:51
    links between you know these positive
  • 00:41:53
    signs and things that we're saying in
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    the classroom I think what will be
  • 00:41:56
    interesting to see it the end to see how
  • 00:41:58
    much they've changed in a relatively
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    short space of time has there been any
  • 00:42:02
    resistance from one or two of them not
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    with anything we've done yet I want to
  • 00:42:16
    challenge another of the areas from our
  • 00:42:18
    testing what the children think about
  • 00:42:21
    strength I'm going to say some words
  • 00:42:26
    yeah and I want you to save they're a
  • 00:42:29
    boy or a girl word strong boy weak woman
  • 00:42:39
    go strong important lesson because
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    they're stronger than girls boys boys
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    because they run round more boys because
  • 00:42:51
    they go to the gym more
  • 00:42:52
    I think strong is a boy but because
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    normally boys have finished your muscles
  • 00:42:57
    if user can't row strongest person he's
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    a boy in the children's minds there is
  • 00:43:03
    no doubt boys are stronger they've got
  • 00:43:06
    bigger muscles girls are comparable
  • 00:43:08
    anyway as a doctor I've got an
  • 00:43:10
    understanding of our bodies how we grow
  • 00:43:12
    how we change and what I know is that
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    there's actually no difference in muscle
  • 00:43:16
    mass and strength between boys and girls
  • 00:43:19
    right up until the age of puberty but
  • 00:43:22
    strength isn't just about biology our
  • 00:43:25
    testing showed that the boys had limited
  • 00:43:28
    vocabulary around expressing their
  • 00:43:30
    emotions that they linked being strong
  • 00:43:33
    with not showing how they felt do you
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    cry no but I do get angry and what you
  • 00:43:40
    do what happens when you get angry I try
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    to break my bed and I break when I go do
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    you cry yeah I think girls cry more
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    because because boys are stronger and
  • 00:43:54
    they they can hold their - sir what
  • 00:43:59
    about crying do you cry no is it okay
  • 00:44:03
    for boys to cry no stop these children
  • 00:44:09
    have such different ideas when it comes
  • 00:44:11
    to strength and there really is no
  • 00:44:13
    reason for it I want them to understand
  • 00:44:16
    just how similar they are in terms of
  • 00:44:19
    physical strength even if that forces
  • 00:44:21
    the boys to challenge the belief that
  • 00:44:23
    they will always come out as a strongest
  • 00:44:26
    so I've built a little surprise for them
  • 00:44:29
    on their playing fields let's march all
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    right come around here okay kids now
  • 00:44:39
    we're gonna test your strength
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    listen but before we get to doing that
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    you've got one minute now I want you all
  • 00:44:52
    to line yourselves up from strongest to
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    weakest go
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    everyone's running to the left so I want
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    to see a line ID says he's in the middle
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    why do you think you're the strongest
  • 00:45:17
    I'm rolling boys we're not fighting 20
  • 00:45:24
    there's been a bundle for who's the
  • 00:45:25
    strongest a little little scuffle for
  • 00:45:29
    the boys they're trying to put
  • 00:45:30
    themselves in the strongest position no
  • 00:45:32
    compromising but there's it's certainly
  • 00:45:35
    a preponderance for boys at the
  • 00:45:37
    strongest end and most of the weaker end
  • 00:45:40
    knowing that these children are more or
  • 00:45:42
    less equal when it comes to their
  • 00:45:44
    biology this isn't really about strength
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    right thank you very much for doing that
  • 00:45:48
    now come back together I believe it's
  • 00:45:52
    about the children's self confidence
  • 00:45:54
    levels of self-esteem so I'm gonna ask
  • 00:45:57
    each one of you to tell mr. Andre and I
  • 00:46:00
    what you think you're actually going to
  • 00:46:03
    score Ronnie what do you think you'll
  • 00:46:04
    score 10 our tests showed that the girls
  • 00:46:09
    massively underestimated what they
  • 00:46:11
    thought they could achieve really you
  • 00:46:14
    think you'll score high okay Tiffany
  • 00:46:17
    what you think you might score fine with
  • 00:46:21
    a simple demonstration of how strong
  • 00:46:22
    they really
  • 00:46:23
    I can challenge that and hopefully
  • 00:46:26
    improve their levels of confidence Lexi
  • 00:46:30
    I think I'll score five what you think
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    you'll score Bradley nine Riley what you
  • 00:46:36
    think you'll score ten great the bow
  • 00:46:39
    okay quite high predictions there yes
  • 00:46:42
    now kids thank you for doing that one by
  • 00:46:45
    one you're now going to come up and test
  • 00:46:48
    your strength they will each have three
  • 00:46:51
    attempts to ring the bell
  • 00:46:52
    what happens if we miss the button if
  • 00:46:54
    you miss the button that's it you just
  • 00:46:56
    have a bit simmer yeah absolutely Lily
  • 00:46:58
    okay Orion choose your weapon Thor's
  • 00:47:02
    hammer
  • 00:47:02
    so he goes each and eye coordination
  • 00:47:05
    concentrate to go Bella yeah give it a
  • 00:47:27
    good effort
  • 00:47:28
    Oh
  • 00:47:34
    see if you gotta go come on Lexi Lexi
  • 00:47:38
    estimated that she would scored just
  • 00:47:40
    five out of ten
  • 00:47:43
    you can do it Lexi because you're happy
  • 00:48:09
    why why are you happy then Lexi so
  • 00:48:14
    didn't think I could do it at first yeah
  • 00:48:16
    and you're really happy because you did
  • 00:48:18
    we're really happy because you did - is
  • 00:48:20
    it happy tears that's the right now we
  • 00:48:23
    don't know that like this
  • 00:48:24
    that's brilliant Lexi next up Riley he
  • 00:48:33
    has predicted hitting the belt and
  • 00:48:34
    getting a maximum when we tested the
  • 00:49:02
    boys 63 percent of them had problems
  • 00:49:05
    dealing with their emotions including
  • 00:49:07
    Riley why do you think that why are you
  • 00:49:12
    kicking the hey what do you think you're
  • 00:49:17
    gonna get a chance if you do it again at
  • 00:49:19
    the end of course you are yes why do you
  • 00:49:24
    think it didn't work no it doesn't
  • 00:49:29
    matter it's all about trying isn't it
  • 00:49:35
    aren't even happy that your friends did
  • 00:49:38
    well why not see you're quite
  • 00:49:44
    competitive on you so listen when you
  • 00:49:46
    throw yourself on the mud like that
  • 00:49:48
    what's that achieving
  • 00:49:52
    why'd you have that reaction Riley it
  • 00:50:00
    was overconfident and of course he got
  • 00:50:02
    upset on to the whole class not scoring
  • 00:50:04
    anything he doesn't use words to
  • 00:50:07
    describe negative emotions and that's
  • 00:50:10
    quite telling right what do we see here
  • 00:50:15
    look at Grace she thought she would get
  • 00:50:16
    sick she got ten Cara thought she would
  • 00:50:19
    get six she got ten Ronnie Bradley
  • 00:50:22
    Lily Lexi down here Lexi five so many of
  • 00:50:27
    you goes in what I want to tell you is
  • 00:50:29
    this at your age
  • 00:50:30
    boys and girls have exactly the same
  • 00:50:33
    strength as long as that's a good point
  • 00:50:37
    Cara so you're the same size as another
  • 00:50:39
    boy or girl your muscles are exactly as
  • 00:50:42
    strong as each other so what do thinking
  • 00:50:44
    about that boys and girls are as strong
  • 00:50:46
    as each other not a surprise and good
  • 00:50:51
    for them to see the boys having
  • 00:50:53
    confidence in themselves that estimating
  • 00:50:55
    they'll score highly but with the girls
  • 00:50:57
    why do they underestimate themselves six
  • 00:50:59
    of the girls thought they'd score six
  • 00:51:01
    points or less in fact five of them then
  • 00:51:04
    scored 10 so they are achieving what the
  • 00:51:07
    boys can achieve they can they're seeing
  • 00:51:09
    that they can do that but they don't
  • 00:51:10
    have the belief in themselves in the
  • 00:51:12
    first place and hopefully all that we're
  • 00:51:14
    doing is going to change that
  • 00:51:17
    I can't get it I thought I was gonna get
  • 00:51:20
    a five and Dara's happy crying because I
  • 00:51:25
    will attend I feel really happy and
  • 00:51:29
    proud of myself I think that boys
  • 00:51:33
    stronger than girls because everyone
  • 00:51:36
    just said that but no I think that girls
  • 00:51:39
    and boys can be strong seeing the girls
  • 00:51:42
    actually coming up and achieving as good
  • 00:51:45
    as good if not better most of them are
  • 00:51:47
    far better but I think actually that's
  • 00:51:49
    probably instilled in them that
  • 00:51:51
    confidence so actually to see that that
  • 00:51:54
    change and I think it is a real change
  • 00:51:57
    it is it's exciting today ryley I think
  • 00:52:07
    you can yeah do you know what the first
  • 00:52:09
    time you do it if you miss take your
  • 00:52:11
    time okay and be positive you can do it
  • 00:52:17
    although Lexi's had a really nice little
  • 00:52:19
    breakthrough this represents a big
  • 00:52:22
    setback for Riley and there are 23
  • 00:52:24
    children in the class I've been here two
  • 00:52:27
    weeks three weeks I'm worried that all
  • 00:52:30
    I've done is upset a load of kids and
  • 00:52:32
    none of this is having the slightest
  • 00:52:33
    effect
  • 00:52:35
    I've realized just how entrenched these
  • 00:52:37
    differences are for boys and girls and
  • 00:52:39
    that interventions in the classroom
  • 00:52:42
    aren't going to be enough
  • 00:52:46
    next time did you like being a girly
  • 00:52:49
    girl I take the fight home to the
  • 00:52:52
    parents because it's all very pink and
  • 00:52:54
    girly Wow challenging them yes I'm
  • 00:52:57
    afraid that has to go and the children
  • 00:52:59
    II said look mom I've got hanging gun
  • 00:53:02
    you can't take this one off me if I have
  • 00:53:07
    succeeded I wanted to go back to poison
  • 00:53:09
    dose with my class of gender neutral
  • 00:53:12
    seven words Chinese gets its monsters a
  • 00:53:15
    girl
  • 00:53:26
    you
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  • gender equality
  • children's perceptions
  • gender roles
  • self-esteem
  • classroom interventions
  • societal influence
  • educational experiments
  • emotional vocabulary
  • role models
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