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good morning Dwayne
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here um Dry Creek rangler
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School few years ago I was working for a
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guy uh as a equin Vette Tech on the
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racetracks in
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Florida um we were taking care of horses
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in three different racehorse barns we
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had over 400 horses that we were looking
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after for the
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season these horses were standard breads
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they were Trotters that pull the two-
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wheed
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suis and not as high strung and jacked
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up
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and um as a as a thoroughbred would be
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but still race horses
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still you know in that
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genre and I was out of one day on the
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backside of
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somewhere and somebody let one of them
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Colts get
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out and they're overfed too much
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alphaalpha too much grain in my opinion
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they're not worked enough and so man
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when they when they escape they're
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just they're they're going whoopy
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they're they're they're not easy to
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catch sometimes and
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uh this we were in a part of Okala out
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there so there were highways and there
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were not fences all the way around this
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Ranch and so when one of them horses got
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loose the ever it would be all Hands-On
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deck and there were half a dozen people
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grabbed halters and took off after that
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horse and uh and I picked up a halter
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and I just they everybody took off
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running and I watch that horse his
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head's up and his Tail's up in the air
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and he's just moving around and his eyes
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are wide and he's blowing
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and and you know everybody's all Energi
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up and they're after him and he and I
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see which way he's coming around so I
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just calmly walk out in the field where
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he's at and he comes about halfway
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across that field
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and he sees me and he
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stops and so I'm just walking calmly so
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I just stop and I just
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take two steps
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back I just back
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up and just stand there and look at
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him and he looked at me for a second and
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he put his head down walked the rest way
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across that
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pasture and walked up to me and I calmly
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just caught him and there were were and
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it was all good um I have found over the
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years that anytime things are getting a
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little bit out of hand with
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horses um probably the first thing you
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need to do is whatever it is you're
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doing you need to
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stop and you just need to take a step
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back
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um I posted a post on Instagram I don't
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know two or three days ago if you're
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driving your truck on ice and your tires
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break traction take your foot off the
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gas now after several years in Alaska
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and driving in Wyoming and and uh you
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know all over the
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place what people what
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people get in trouble from on ice is
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when they start sliding they start
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slipping they hit that
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gas or even worse they hit the brakes
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when what you need to do is you need to
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let off the gas as long as the situation
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allows it let off the gas let off the
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brakes and
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just let things run their natural
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course and let things all of the
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pressure that's being exerted on the
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situation is just making the situation
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worse so just let off back up and chill
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and get things back under control
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now there's
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a a movement
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today in this circle of
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men's um bit of Breeze out there I had
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cracked the door and it's blowing open
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and I think we'll be all right I don't
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think it's too disturbing in this circle
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of wisdom and men's betterment and
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helping young men and whatnot um and
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it's I I've watched it and it's gotten
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to the point that I I don't agree with
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it I think it's creating in some
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situations uh more problems than it's
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solving
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and and that's his hustle hustle
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culture if things aren't going the way
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they should be going you need to hit it
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harder you need to spend more time you
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can sleep when you're dead you know you
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you've got this and you need to be
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working out or you need to be making
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sales calls or you need to be slamming
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and going and you need to be and a lot
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of guys they're they're in life your
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wheels have broken traction and you're
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just spinning and you got somebody on
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the sideline yelling at you um go harder
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go harder well that's wrong all right
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you you've got a a young wild
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horse metaphorically speaking that has
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broken loose in your life and everybody
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has snatched up halters and they're
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running after it as hard as they can and
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they're just saying go harder go harder
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go harder and it's wrong it's not
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Wise It's not
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wise all right um I mean if you stop
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some of the stuff if you actually just
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stop and think about it it's just
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positively
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ludicrous
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okay but everybody needs to make a mark
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all these guys they need to make a mark
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so they need to come up with something
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the other others don't have they're like
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look we've got this we have this new
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insight we've got this this is this is
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my deal and I have the answer for you so
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if you want to make a lot of money what
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you got to do is you got to have sixpack
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abs or I'm GNA fire you I'm GNA kick you
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out how many of the smartest men on this
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planet how many of the richest men on
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this planet have sixpack
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ABS it has nothing to do with the
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equation it has nothing to do with it
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now there is something to be said for
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not being lazy something to be said to
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help those who are just can't drag
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themselves up out of the swamp all right
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I understand that but we have to be
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balanced and listen the answer is not
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always go
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harder going hard might be what caused
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you to lose Traction in the first
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place a lot of times too much speed on
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ice too much speed in the course of a
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change direction a change of Direction
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that's what will cause you to spin
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out sometimes the answer
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is take a step
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back take your foot off the
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gas take your foot off The
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Brak stop in the pasture and take a step
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back away from that horse that's running
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from everybody who's saying go harder go
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harder go harder and they're running
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away from it and sometimes the things
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that is eluding you in life are eluding
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you in life because you go harder
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because you're saying go harder that's
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answer that's what I need to do I need
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to run harder I need to hustle I need to
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hustle I need to
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hustle
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well sometimes it's like
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fishing sometimes it's like
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fishing the more you get out there and
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splash around and
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move and create chaos the less fish
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you're going to
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catch the thing about hunting is you get
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up in that tree stand or you get in that
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blind or you get in that Thicket and you
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be
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still and you be quiet there's a time
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for spotting and
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stalking but there's also a time for
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just being still and for
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glassing and for figuring things
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out and so I just want to encourage you
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fellas today who are out there killing
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yourself because some wannabe on the
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internet has come up with a new thing
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and says look not only do you have to
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learn this and not only do you have to
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make a living and not only do you have
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to take care of the family that you
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already have and not only do you have to
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pay off your credit cards and pay off
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your deals and pay off your car but dang
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it you got to get a sixpack Ab too or
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otherwise you're a complete absolute
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failure in
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life set that stuff down and walk away
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walk away take your foot off the gas now
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there's a time to put your foot on the
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gas but I guess
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that's I guess that's what wisdom is
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isn't
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it wisdom is knowing when to speed
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up wisdom is knowing when to slow
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down wisdom is knowing when to get out
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there and lay a hold on something and
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get a job done wisdom is knowing when to
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stop and sit down and have a cup of
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coffee and a cigar and to think and to
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contemplate I've said this before
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Abraham Lincoln said if he was given
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four hours to chop down a tree with an
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axe he'd spend three of those hours
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sharpening the
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axe well if you're in running all the
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time next thing next thing next thing
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next thing next
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thing until you get 6 hours sleep and
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the rest of time your feet Hit the Floor
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you're going when are you sharpening
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your ax
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when are you stopping and sitting down
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and looking down the road and seeing
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which way that road goes and seeing
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where it might end
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up there's no one answer for
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everything and I hate to see these guys
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that are charging you money so they can
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kill you
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these men are not wise they might be
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wealthy and they might have sixpack abs
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but they don't walk in your shoes and
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they are not wise
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hustling is not always the answer and
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wisdom is no
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difference if I have a choice of whether
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you are going to be
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successful by this world's
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standards or you are going to be at
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peace and
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wise I'd rather you be at peace and wise
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all right so I just want to encourage
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you this morning um I had a young man I
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had a young man come up to me in Texas 3
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or 4 weeks ago when I was down there um
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he recognized me and he asked me he he
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said can you I'm doing this and I'm
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doing that I'm doing this and I'm just
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so can you give me any advice I said how
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old are you I think he said he was 23 or
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24 I said do you have a job he said yes
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I I have a
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job and uh I said you're working he said
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yes are you're learning he said yeah I
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said my advice to you is just
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chill you'll never be 24 again
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you will never be
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24
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again work your job be a responsible
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adult learn grow and
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mature but
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chill
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chill all right
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um You need to start asking
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yourself in life when things come up is
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this
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wise is this
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wise not is it
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smart because what is smart is not
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always what is
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wise wisdom is what you do with what is
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Smart all
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right
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so I don't know I don't know about this
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hustle business take your foot off the
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gas take a step back back away from that
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runaway
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coal and see if maybe you don't get a
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little further a little faster with a
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little less
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anxiety might work out better for you
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all right wish you guys have hope you
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guys have a good day and uh we'll catch
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you next time