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these are five brutal truths for Boomers
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and gen aers that unfortunately are true
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and I'm here in New York City and the
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saying here is if you can make it here
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you can make it anywhere and that's true
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for New York City but you know what it's
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also true for us right the world can be
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a brutal place and and so truth number
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one is we're on our own the calvary is
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not coming to save us if we want to have
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a a secure future if we want to be able
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to retire and do the things that we want
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to do unfortunately we need to make that
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happen ourselves it's us and it's our
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family and back in the day in my
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father's
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generation many people had defined
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benefit plans they had pensions for most
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of us for most Boomers and for most gen
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xers those days are behind us so we need
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to make some hard choices along the way
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way in order to be able to to provide
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for ourselves in the future okay brutal
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truth number number two is time is not
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on our side right the the youngest
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boomers are turning 60 the oldest gen
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xers are are 59 right now and time is
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slipping away and time can be our best
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friend when we're when we're in our late
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teens or early to late 20s right because
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we have 40 years we have 30 years until
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we're going to retire but most boomers
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are going to be retiring in the next 5
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to seven years and most gen xers are
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starting to reach that phase again so
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unfortunately brutal truth number two is
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time is not on our side number three is
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just the importance of living below our
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means you know it's it's nice to make a
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nice salary um and I'm going to talk
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about that soon but it's super important
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no matter how much we make to live below
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our means now it doesn't mean we can't
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go on vacation we can't do nice things
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like this we can't take the the Big Bus
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tour right um but it does mean that we
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need to look at how we're spending our
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money and be sure that we're spending
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our money in a way that that's bringing
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us joy as opposed to trying to oppress
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somebody else so many people's futures
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have been derailed and and it's not
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going to be as bright as it could have
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been because they were worried about
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keeping up with the Joneses as they got
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raises they let lifestyle creep come in
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and so if if you're suffering from that
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it's never too late to change it's never
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too late to look and say what are the
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things that really bring me joy in life
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and focus on those and spend our money
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that way as opposed to looking the right
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way to impress the right people there's
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a saying that you know a lot of
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Americans and unfortunately Boomers and
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gen xers are guilty of this you know a a
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lot of folks are borrowing money to buy
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stuff that we really don't need or want
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in order to impress people that you know
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frankly aren't that important in our
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lives okay brutal truth number four is
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it doesn't matter how much we earn it
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matters how much that we save there's
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been multiple studies that have shown
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that about half of all people in the
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United States that make a
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$100,000 a year or more in the United
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States unfortunately don't save a dime
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and you know part of the problem is a
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lot of those people making $100,000 a
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year salaries are living in places that
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are expensive to live so we do what we
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can but if you're making a nice salary
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if you're not living in a place that's
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crazy expensive to live like here in New
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York City you know do what you can to to
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set aside money frankly I would much
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rather make $50,000 a year and be saving
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5 or $110,000 a year then making
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$100,000 a year and not saving anything
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and and I'm kind of an outlier on this
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many of my viewers might feel this way
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as well but you know part of my measure
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of was this a successful year one of
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them it's not the only measure I want to
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enjoy the journey but one of the
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measures is was I able to put aside some
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money so that future asso future me will
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have a more secure life and if I'm not
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doing that you know if I'm not saving
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anything frankly I'd rather you know
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just travel and and pick up side jobs
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along the way in order to make ends me
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to have that Adventure I like to travel
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internationally I have met people that
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are able to keep their expenses low um
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but really one of my goals is to save
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something every year except you know now
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I'm in retirement so one of my
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challenges is to not save money but
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that's the subject for another video
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okay brutal truth number I believe is
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four brutal truth number four is asset
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allocation is it it asset allocation is
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incredibly more important than picking
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tomorrow's hot stock you know most of us
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unfortunately don't have the skill set
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to pick tomorrow's hot stock we might we
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might get lucky but you know what all of
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us have the skill set to figure out what
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our asset allocation would be either on
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our own or with a professional's help I
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should mention none of what I'm sharing
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in today's video is financial advice I
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don't know your situation
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so I can't give Financial advice but
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most of us have the ability either on
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our own or by hiring a professional to
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come up with an asset allocation that we
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can stick to in good times and bad times
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and it's not sexy it's not fun but it is
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a brutal truth that your asset
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allocation is much more likely to help
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you reach your long-term investment
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goals than than you know trying to pick
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the best stock
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okay the next one and this is a brutal
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truth and this is a critically important
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truth and that is it's important to
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invest in our health as well as our
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wealth so you can have all the money in
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the world but you know this is this is
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the home this is the body that you know
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it's the only one that we have and and
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so do what we can to take care of it to
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invest both the time and the money uh to
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work out to try to eat as healthfully as
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as as we can um because I can tell you
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some of the richest people in the world
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for instance Warren Buffett uh who's
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who's Worth close to a hundred billion
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dollar I'm sure he would trade all but
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maybe a billion of that uh to swap
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places with most of us if we're in our
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50s 60s or even 70s because Warren
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Buffett is is now in his '90s and Warren
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has one of the greatest Gifts of all
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time
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which is he loves his job right and he
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skips to work every day but you know
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what 80 90% of Warren Buffett's net
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worth came after he was 65 years old and
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that gets back to that earlier brutal
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truth that time is so important time is
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important in order to reach our
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financial goals so um those are some
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things to think about and then I also
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think it's important it's not just the
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destination it's not just trading off um
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today's adventures and today's fund to
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have a stronger and a more secure
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financial future it's also about
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enjoying the journey and that's why I
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made this video up here eight things to
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stop doing in our 50s and 60s in order
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to enjoy our journey more thanks for
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watching this video and I'll see you in
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that one bye-bye