The Moment That Changed My Life || My first TEDTalk || Surbhi Sikri

00:05:16
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QGDW07ALksk

摘要

TLDRIn her speech, Sui Sikri, an entrepreneur and poet, explores the concept of 'catalyst for change.' She reflects on her childhood, marked by frequent relocations due to her father's banking career, which taught her adaptability and the importance of providing comfort to others. Using a metaphor of two islands, she illustrates the pursuit of dreams despite uncertainty. Sui emphasizes that surrendering to the process and being action-driven, rather than result-oriented, is essential for embracing change and personal growth.

心得

  • 🌊 Change is the only constant in life.
  • 🏝️ Embrace the discomfort of change as a catalyst for growth.
  • 🤝 Personal experiences shape our ability to connect with others.
  • 🌈 Pursue your dreams even when visibility is low.
  • 💪 Surrender to the process of change.
  • 🚀 Focus on actions rather than results.
  • 🌱 Adaptability is key to navigating life's transitions.
  • 💭 Let go of negativity to reach your goals.
  • 🌟 Every challenge can lead to personal development.
  • 🗣️ Create a safe space for others to share their feelings.

时间轴

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:16

    Sui Sikri, an entrepreneur and content creator, discusses the theme of 'catalyst for change.' She reflects on her life experiences, particularly her childhood of constant relocation due to her father's banking career, which taught her the challenges of adjustment and the desire for stability. A friend's comment about her ability to provide a safe space for others leads her to realize that her struggles have shaped her into a supportive friend. She shares a metaphor about two islands, illustrating the need to overcome fear and uncertainty to pursue dreams. Sikri emphasizes the importance of surrendering to the process of change rather than being consumed by it, advocating for action-driven rather than result-oriented approaches to facilitate personal growth and transformation.

思维导图

视频问答

  • What is the main theme of Sui Sikri's speech?

    The main theme is 'catalyst for change,' focusing on how change shapes our lives.

  • What personal experiences does Sui share?

    She shares her experiences of moving frequently during childhood due to her father's job.

  • How does Sui describe change?

    She describes change as inevitable and a catalyst for personal growth.

  • What metaphor does Sui use to illustrate her point?

    She uses the metaphor of two islands to represent comfort and the pursuit of dreams.

  • What does Sui suggest is necessary to embrace change?

    She suggests surrendering to the process and being action-driven.

  • What lesson does Sui learn from her childhood experiences?

    She learns that her experiences have made her a better friend and a more adaptable person.

  • How does Sui suggest we deal with uncertainty?

    She suggests that we should dive into our thoughts and not let temporary fog obscure our goals.

  • What is the significance of the 'lushy Green Island' in her story?

    It represents the dreams and goals that are attainable despite current challenges.

  • What does Sui mean by 'surrender to the process'?

    It means accepting the journey of change without being overly focused on the end result.

  • What is the overall message of Sui's speech?

    The overall message is to embrace change as a catalyst for personal growth and to take action despite uncertainties.

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    Hi how are you all doing I am sui sikri
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    I am an entrepreneur a content creator
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    and a poet they say when I first heard
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    that the topic for today is catalyst for
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    change the very first thing that came in
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    my head was anything that flows with
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    change is creation because change is the
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    only constant change is inevitable
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    change messes with our story it picks us
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    up from a position and puts us in a
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    place where we are both comfortable and
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    not that is change and I believe change
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    is the Catalyst for
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    change I had a long speech ready with
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    two pages but one of my friends said
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    something to me today and I just
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    crumbled that page and threw it away
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    like I'm going to stand here and I'll
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    just flow with the conversation now
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    before I tell you what my friend said
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    let me give you a backstory I come from
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    a very small town Hisar harana all my
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    childhood my father has been getting
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    promoted because he was a banker and we
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    were getting transferred to new places
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    Agra chandar Punjab everywhere I have
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    been all my childhood it was new place
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    new school new friends new people around
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    me which sounds so much fun but it was
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    not because every single time we used to
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    move to a new new place came adjustment
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    I had to adjust with people I had to
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    adjust with the school's cabus sometimes
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    I was in cbsc and then I was in ICC I
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    had to adjust with everything and above
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    all I'm the elder daughter of the family
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    my brother was in the same school every
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    single time he used to mess up teachers
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    were like s come here we need to talk to
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    you all of it happening I've always
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    craved for roots I've always wanted
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    stability in my life and I did not like
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    at
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    all now cut to what my friend said to me
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    today she said so you give me a safe
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    space a comfortable space where I can
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    sit and talk to you you're a great
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    friend that's when I understood that
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    everything I've been going through has
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    made me a person where I can give
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    Comfort space to people around and I can
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    make friends all that while I had these
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    questions why am I supposed to go
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    through all of this why am I responsible
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    for my dad's career anyways I'm a kid
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    I'm not supposed to be moving
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    spaces but now I have answer of all the
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    wise because today I'm a great friend
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    everything who I am today is because of
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    the changes that have been happening in
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    my life that one story I'm going to
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    share it with you all today imagine this
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    is your Island this is a small beautiful
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    Green Island you live on and across
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    ocean there's another lushy Green Island
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    you see every single day you come to
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    beach to probably collect shells you see
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    that beautiful island one day you
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    realize that your island is all rotten
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    it's it's dtin and if you stay here on
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    this island you might die as well the
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    only way to get out of that island is to
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    swim across that ocean and reach that
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    another lushy Island you have been
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    seeing every single day the day you are
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    ready to dive in clouds come and the
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    visibility of the island is zero you
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    cannot see that island now there are
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    questions in your head should I go
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    should I swim should I not because I
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    cannot see that Island what should I do
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    should I dive in there or no but I have
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    a question weren't you seeing that
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    Island every single
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    day just because your vision is foggy
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    right now just because you're not able
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    to see that Island right now doesn't
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    mean that it does not exist your dreams
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    your goals everything is there you just
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    have to cross that stream of ocean just
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    have to go deep dive into the ocean of
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    your thoughts because every single time
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    to reach somewhere you have to let go of
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    the negativity that is within you this
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    story has helped me come out of all the
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    changes that has been happening in my
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    life and get this perspective get this
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    perspective of changing with the process
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    and not getting consumed in it I think
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    that is exactly what a catalyst would do
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    now there's going to be another question
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    how do we do
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    that how do we not get consumed by the
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    process how we stop that Rush of emotion
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    that is coming in our head that we are
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    feeling in our heart the only way out
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    is to surrender to surrender to the
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    process yeah to let that sink in to let
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    everything come come to you let your
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    fear go away let you not be result
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    oriented and only action driven that is
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    exactly how we can bring
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    change thank you so much
标签
  • change
  • catalyst
  • personal growth
  • adaptability
  • metaphor
  • surrender
  • action-driven
  • uncertainty
  • comfort
  • dreams