Michael Singer - Love is Your Natural State - Let Go of What's Blocking It
摘要
TLDRIn hierdie video word bespreek hoe mense die konsep van geestelike groei verkeerd verstaan. Dit word gesê dat ware geestelike groei gaan oor die prysgee van blokkades eerder as om iets te verkry. Hierdie blokkades verhoed ons van om innerlike vreugde en liefde ten volle te ervaar. Geestelike tegnieke gaan nie oor die verkryging van verligting of geluk nie, maar oor die loslating van wat ons beperk en versmoor. Die spreker stel dat alles waarna ons soek reeds binne ons is en dat ons eers moet erken dat blokkasies ons vermoë om werklik te leef verhinder. Deur die bestanddele wat ons siek maak te herken en los te maak, kan ons ware geestelike welstand bereik, net soos om op te hou om iets te eet wat ons nie goed laat voel nie. Ons geluk is afhanklik van ons vermoë om ons binne-toestande te ontdoen van blokkasies eerder as om uiterlike toestande te manipuleer. As ons blokkasies verwyder, sal ons natuurlik die vreugde en liefde ervaar wat altyd in ons was, en sal ons in staat wees om werklik vry en gelukkig te leef.
心得
- 🧘♂️ Geestelike groei beteken om los te laat, nie om te verkry nie.
- 🌟 Alles waarna jy op soek is, is reeds binne-in jou.
- 🚫 Blokkasies veroorsaak dat ons ons innerlike vreugde en liefde blokkeer.
- 🔑 Jou natuurlike staat is ekstrem gelukkig en liefheg.
- 🎨 Ervarings moet op 'n primêre vlak gevoel word, sonder storings.
- 🛠️ Blokkasies word gevorm deur ervarings wat ons afweer.
- 💡 Geestelike werk is om jouself te bevry van selfopgelegde beperkings.
- 🌊 Laat dinge natuurlik deur jou beweeg, sonder om te klem.
- 🕊️ Hoe meer ontspanne jy is, hoe makliker om blokkasies te laat gaan.
- 🎶 'Let it be' - los dinge en gevoelens toe om deur te beweeg.
时间轴
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Die spreker ondersoek die idee dat geestelike groei nie noodwendig lank en moeilik hoef te wees nie. Mense gebruik dikwels geestelike tegnieke om iets spesifieks te verkry, maar ware geestelike tegnieke gaan oor die aflegging van dinge, nie die verkryging daarvan nie. Hierdie blokkades verhoed mense om die innerlike kwaliteite soos geluk en vreugde te ervaar.
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Die spreker vergelyk geestelike blokkades met 'n dam wat 'n rivier blokkeer. Soos die stroom verhoed word om natuurlik te vloei, verhoed innerlike blokkades dat liefde en vreugde natuurlik ervaar word. Deur die blokkades te verwyder, vloei liefde natuurlik sonder moeite.
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Mense het 'n neiging om te beperk watter ervarings hulle gelukkig maak, soos om net goed te voel wanneer hulle sekere dinge of mense het. Sodra hierdie beperkende blokkades afgebreek word, ontdek mense dat die liefde en vreugde altyd binne-in hulle was, nie afhanklik van eksterne faktore nie.
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Ware geestelike groei beteken om op te hou om na eksterne dinge te soek wat 'n tydelike neutralisering van blokkades bied en eerder die blokkades self te verwyder. Wanneer dinge nie verloop soos verwag nie, sal vreugde nie voortduur nie.
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Wanneer dinge nie verloop soos ons wil nie, is die natuurlike reaksie om ontsteld of teleurgesteld te wees. Hierdie reaksies is bevraagdebaar, want die werklikheid is dat ons eie blokkades hierdie gevoelens veroorsaak – 'n self-vervullende profesie.
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Die ware probleem is nie om dinge te kry wat ons gelukkig maak nie, maar om te verstaan hoe ons self ons geluk blokkeer deur verwagtinge en voorwaardes op eie geluk te plaas. Solank die blokkasies daar is, kan ware geluk nie ervaar word nie.
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Om blokkades te verstaan en te verwyder is die sleutel tot geestelike bevryding. Dit is nie die gebeurtenisse self wat negatiewe gevoelens veroorsaak nie, maar eerder die manier waarop ons op hulle reageer en hulle ons interne ruimtes toelaat om te beïnvloed.
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Om deur geestelike blokkades te werk, begin met die aanspreek van klein dinge wat 'n reaksie in ons veroorsaak. Deur hierdie kleiner dinge deur te werk, berei ons voor op groter uitdagings, wat uiteindelik lewensbevrydend is.
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Met voortdurende oefening kan mense groter uitdagings hanteer. Namate hulle leer om te ontspan en oor te gee, word hulle geleidelik vryer en ervaar hulle die natuurlike vloei van liefde en vreugde wat in hulle was.
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Die afbreek van geestelike blokkades lei tot 'n natuurlike vloei van vreugde en liefde. Hierdie vloei is konstant en kan nie weggeneem word nie, net geblokkeer. Ware geestelike vrede kom wanneer hierdie vloei ongestoord kan voortgaan.
思维导图
常见问题
Wat is die grootste hindernis vir geestelike groei?
Die grootste hindernis is dat mense probeer om iets te verkry, eerder as om los te laat wat hulle terughou.
Hoe kan iemand geestelike blokkasies oorkom?
Deur bewus te wees van hierdie blokkasies en toe te laat dat hulle oplos deur nie-koppel en innerlike loslaat.
Is geestelike groei moeilik?
Dit word as moeilik beskou omdat mense verkeerdelik glo dat hulle iets moet verkry eerder as om blokkasies te laat gaan.
Wat het die spreker te sê oor vreugde en liefde?
Vreugde en liefde is innerlike kwaliteite wat natuurlik binne ons bestaan, en word net geblokkeer deur ons eie geestelike blokkades.
Wat is die rol van God in hierdie bespreking?
Volgens die spreker is God en geestelike groei nie direk met blokkasies verbind nie. Fokus eers op blokkasies te verwyder en ware geestelike belewing sal volg.
Hoe beïnvloed ons blokkasies ons daaglikse lewe?
Blokkasies verhoed dat ons innerlike vreugde en liefde ervaar, en ons is geneig om uiterlike gebeure te blameer vir ons gebrek aan geluk.
Kan ons ooit heeltemal van blokkasies ontslae raak?
Ja, ons kan. Dit vereis egter gedurige bewustheid en gewilligheid om nie vas te hou aan negatiewe ervarings nie.
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- 00:00:13and is very
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- 00:01:28something that's making you sick sick or
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- 00:01:33and you're trying to find something that
- 00:01:35will make you well while you're doing
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- 00:01:46realize I don't need to find something
- 00:01:49that will make me well I need to stop
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- 00:01:56do that we're always looking for
- 00:01:59something we always think there's
- 00:02:00something to
- 00:02:01get what you realize when you go deeply
- 00:02:05is that everything you're looking for is
- 00:02:07inside yourself and that's not some
- 00:02:09platitude literally if you're looking
- 00:02:12for Joy it's inside if you're looking
- 00:02:14for love it's inside if you're looking
- 00:02:16for meaning to your life it's inside if
- 00:02:18you're looking for inspiration it's
- 00:02:19inside if you're looking for enthusiasm
- 00:02:21it's inside these are all inner
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- 00:02:27because you don't have them but because
- 00:02:30you have blocked them which is
- 00:02:32equivalent to eating food that makes you
- 00:02:34sick you don't feel healthy not because
- 00:02:37you're not healthy or not because you're
- 00:02:39not doing something to make yourself
- 00:02:41healthy you're not healthy because
- 00:02:42you're making yourself sick by eating
- 00:02:44what you're eating if you have blockages
- 00:02:47inside yourself they block your love
- 00:02:51they block your inspiration they block
- 00:02:53your happiness they block feeling deep
- 00:02:56connected meaning to life they block you
- 00:02:59that's why we call call them
- 00:03:00blockages if you have those blockages
- 00:03:03inside then you don't feel well why
- 00:03:06because you have blocked the part of you
- 00:03:08that makes you feel well just the same
- 00:03:10as when you eat food that makes you sick
- 00:03:12it doesn't mean you're
- 00:03:13sick intrinsically you're healthy but by
- 00:03:17eating food that makes you sick your
- 00:03:19healthiness is pushed to the background
- 00:03:21and your sickness is brought to the
- 00:03:23foreground is the exact same thing with
- 00:03:25these
- 00:03:26blockages if you don't have blockages
- 00:03:30I can't even talk about it nor could you
- 00:03:33you would be too blissed out you would
- 00:03:36be too
- 00:03:37ecstatic that is what Buddha achieved
- 00:03:41and called Nirvana a state of no
- 00:03:43blockages that is what Christ meant when
- 00:03:46he said you must die to be reborn die of
- 00:03:49the part of you that is made of these
- 00:03:52blockages in order to awaken and
- 00:03:55experience the Ecstasy that's inside of
- 00:03:57you the joy that's inside of you the
- 00:03:59well-being that's inside of you so
- 00:04:02that's the starting point of a spiritual
- 00:04:04discussion not God not Enlightenment not
- 00:04:09you know attracting to yourself what you
- 00:04:11want or any of this sort of thing it is
- 00:04:13about understanding that there is a
- 00:04:16state within your being which is your
- 00:04:18natural state which is so high you'd
- 00:04:21have to learn how to handle it it's that
- 00:04:23simple the blockages are holding you
- 00:04:27down do not spend the rest of your life
- 00:04:30as you have spent it so far trying to
- 00:04:33find things from outside that you can
- 00:04:36bring in that compensate for your
- 00:04:39blockages if you don't feel love it is
- 00:04:42not because you haven't found someone to
- 00:04:44love it is not because you're not worthy
- 00:04:46of love it is not because you're not
- 00:04:48capable of love it is because you have
- 00:04:50blocked the love if you block a dam you
- 00:04:53Dam up a river it doesn't flow
- 00:04:56Downstream that's not CU there's
- 00:04:58something wrong with a river and not
- 00:04:59because there's something wrong with
- 00:05:00Downstream it's because you damn the
- 00:05:02water up if you block your energy flow
- 00:05:05inside you will not feel love you will
- 00:05:09not feel Joy you will not feel light and
- 00:05:11happiness and enthusiasm and so on why
- 00:05:15because you block those flows just like
- 00:05:18you block the flow of water so the
- 00:05:20answer is not to do something even
- 00:05:23though it's blocked so that periodically
- 00:05:26you can sneak a little water behind the
- 00:05:28dam right have to go there and struggle
- 00:05:31and get a bucket and bring it down and
- 00:05:33throw it down there I'm doing good right
- 00:05:35and you're manag because you're strong
- 00:05:36and you're worked out and you got a big
- 00:05:38bucket you're better than the guy next
- 00:05:40door you're able to run around the dam
- 00:05:42fill up your bucket run down and pour it
- 00:05:44Downstream you get a little water aren't
- 00:05:46you proud of yourself no that's
- 00:05:49absolutely ridiculous if you want water
- 00:05:51remove the dam so basically this
- 00:05:55Foundation of understanding is what
- 00:05:57people don't have about spirituality
- 00:06:00there is nothing to get there's nothing
- 00:06:03to do it's all about undoing and losing
- 00:06:07the
- 00:06:08blockages so basically there are times
- 00:06:13in which you prove what I'm teaching you
- 00:06:16have felt love inside you have felt Joy
- 00:06:19inside you have felt enthusiasm and
- 00:06:22passion for things inside you don't feel
- 00:06:24it all the time in fact you feel it very
- 00:06:27rarely why things have to be a certain
- 00:06:30way in order for you to feel love don't
- 00:06:33they the person has to be dressed right
- 00:06:35and have to be talking to you right has
- 00:06:36to be the right location and everything
- 00:06:39has to be just right doesn't it for you
- 00:06:40to feel love if anything goes wrong
- 00:06:42about that stuff even in the most
- 00:06:44perfect situation with the perfect
- 00:06:46person if they just say one thing wrong
- 00:06:49like if they call you George and your
- 00:06:50name is Frank kind of loses the moment I
- 00:06:54mean it's just one word all of a sudden
- 00:06:56the love is gone same thing with
- 00:06:58enthusiasm if you're all excited about
- 00:07:00your job and you can't wait to get back
- 00:07:02to work on what you're working on and
- 00:07:05then somebody criticizes you somebody
- 00:07:08complains about what you did or somebody
- 00:07:10takes your parking space that was put
- 00:07:12aside for you as Employee of the Month
- 00:07:14all of a sudden you're not so enthused
- 00:07:16anymore anything that doesn't match what
- 00:07:19you want makes you not feel Joy not feel
- 00:07:23love not F enthusiasm now if you're
- 00:07:26silly which we all are all of us you
- 00:07:29will think that when something happens
- 00:07:32the way you want and you feel Joy and
- 00:07:35enthusiasm and when things don't happen
- 00:07:37the way you want and you don't feel Joy
- 00:07:39and enthusiasm you think that's proving
- 00:07:41the philosophy that the only way you can
- 00:07:44feel Joy and enthusiasm and love is to
- 00:07:46get what you want that is what's called
- 00:07:48a self-fulfilling prophecy if you say to
- 00:07:50yourself I will be happy if she loves
- 00:07:54me that's one person out of let's see
- 00:07:57there's seven billion people on the
- 00:07:58Earth and half of them are women has
- 00:07:59three and a half billion or men
- 00:08:01whichever way you want to look at it so
- 00:08:02now there's one person that can make you
- 00:08:04happy and three and a half billion can't
- 00:08:07you did that if you had said I think she
- 00:08:09make me happy then that would make you
- 00:08:10happy it's whatever you set up in your
- 00:08:14mind in your inner state if it happens
- 00:08:18outside and it matches what you
- 00:08:21said there's a neutralization that takes
- 00:08:24place all of a sudden the blockages that
- 00:08:27you built inside yourself how do I say
- 00:08:30it's so funny the very Act of saying if
- 00:08:33she loves me I'll be happy is a
- 00:08:36blockage that's a blockage if I get that
- 00:08:39job I'll be so infused that's a blockage
- 00:08:43what you did was block your ability to
- 00:08:45be enthused about every other job you
- 00:08:47blocked your ability to be enthused
- 00:08:49about every relationship you limited it
- 00:08:52to what it is within your mind that you
- 00:08:55decided might make you happy if you
- 00:08:58decide that you need something to make
- 00:09:00you happy you're not happy you can't
- 00:09:03feel happiness because you decided I
- 00:09:06can't you decided things have to be a
- 00:09:08certain way for me to be happy and we're
- 00:09:09going talk about how you built those
- 00:09:10blockages in a minute because it's very
- 00:09:12important to understand they got built
- 00:09:13to understand how to get rid of them but
- 00:09:15I want you to understand that the things
- 00:09:17that you now say will make you happy and
- 00:09:19then claim you're right because they do
- 00:09:21that is the biggest trap that could ever
- 00:09:23exist it is because you are limiting
- 00:09:26yourself to those things and then when
- 00:09:28they happen neutralize that limitation
- 00:09:31even if you think about them happening
- 00:09:33you get excited don't you you get
- 00:09:35enthused you feel love if you think
- 00:09:37about something that you want to happen
- 00:09:39that's because you are neutralizing the
- 00:09:41blockage that blockage if you sit there
- 00:09:44and think no one could love me no I
- 00:09:46can't no I'm not the kind of person they
- 00:09:47can love I never find true love okay
- 00:09:49good that's a nice blockage that's like
- 00:09:51eating bad food as we talked about the
- 00:09:53star with you're now eating bad stuff
- 00:09:55inside yourself then you wonder why you
- 00:09:57don't feel well if then then something
- 00:10:00happens outside of you where someone
- 00:10:02manages to neutralize that blockage that
- 00:10:05you're doing to continue my analogy if
- 00:10:07all of a sudden somebody comes up and
- 00:10:09grabs the food out of your mouth that's
- 00:10:12going to make you sick you sit there and
- 00:10:14say he healed me he's a psychic healer
- 00:10:18oh my God I was so sick before I met him
- 00:10:21OMG that is what you're doing with
- 00:10:24everything you are sitting there making
- 00:10:26yourself sick with these blockages but
- 00:10:28saying if everything will go that
- 00:10:30matches the blockages the way I want
- 00:10:33then I'll be okay and then when
- 00:10:35something happens that seems to match
- 00:10:37the blockage seems to match what you
- 00:10:39want you open you stop saying no one can
- 00:10:43love me it seems like maybe he can I
- 00:10:45believed him the way he said it was so
- 00:10:47sincere it made me cry I felt such love
- 00:10:50the love is inside of you it was always
- 00:10:53inside of you it will never not be
- 00:10:55inside of you it has nothing to do with
- 00:10:57him and I mean nothing to do with him it
- 00:11:01has to do with the fact that you block
- 00:11:03the flow of the love and then somehow he
- 00:11:05or she behaved in a way that matched
- 00:11:09you're allowing the blockages to
- 00:11:11neutralize neutralize your blockage it's
- 00:11:13really what it is neutralize your
- 00:11:14blockage blowing my ear I'll follow you
- 00:11:16anywhere criticize me I'm out of here
- 00:11:18it's because you have these blockages
- 00:11:21inside when something allows the energy
- 00:11:25to go past the blockage when there's a
- 00:11:26leak in the dam and that happens because
- 00:11:29things can neutralize your blockages
- 00:11:32temporarily people who feel terrible
- 00:11:34they had a terrible traumatic experience
- 00:11:36they can't get over it they go on the
- 00:11:38web and they blog about it with other
- 00:11:40people that had similar experiences not
- 00:11:43knocking it just pay attention does it
- 00:11:45work of course it does of course it does
- 00:11:49is it healthy no it reinforces the
- 00:11:52blockage but does it feel better
- 00:11:54temporarily yes why because you have
- 00:11:57suppressed this blockage you have press
- 00:11:59that situation therefore it's blocking
- 00:12:01your whole energy flow now you are
- 00:12:03letting some of it come back up by
- 00:12:06talking blogging doing different things
- 00:12:08and when the blockage releases some the
- 00:12:10energy comes up from behind it and
- 00:12:12literally people get addicted to
- 00:12:14blogging they get addicted to C they're
- 00:12:16saying the only way I can feel okay is
- 00:12:18when I'm on this blog talking to these
- 00:12:20people because they understand me and I
- 00:12:23can't tell them they're wrong they're
- 00:12:24right that is the only way you can feel
- 00:12:27okay given the situation you've created
- 00:12:30given the blockages you have given the
- 00:12:32way you're dealing with yourself that's
- 00:12:33like sitting there saying I'm in love
- 00:12:35with this person and they left me I'll
- 00:12:37never feel love again I don't even want
- 00:12:40to never could my heart open again this
- 00:12:42person holds the key to my those are not
- 00:12:44romantic things to say those are
- 00:12:46terrible things to say there is no key
- 00:12:49to your heart except you put it there
- 00:12:52you put a gate on your heart and said
- 00:12:54the only one who can open it is her or
- 00:12:56him what happens if they leave you what
- 00:12:58happens if they die what happens if they
- 00:12:59get in a bad mood well I guess my
- 00:13:01heart's closed you don't understand you
- 00:13:03did that there's no gate on your heart
- 00:13:06there's no key to your
- 00:13:08heart the love is natural inside of you
- 00:13:11it is spontaneous it is always there
- 00:13:13just like the flow of the water before
- 00:13:16it was damned is always there it took
- 00:13:17care of itself but if you Dam it now you
- 00:13:20need to do things to get water so you
- 00:13:22have blocked stressing then I'll talk
- 00:13:25about them this thing about these
- 00:13:27blockages spirituality is is about your
- 00:13:29blockages it's not about God it's not
- 00:13:31about relationships it's not about money
- 00:13:34it's not about doing good works NOP
- 00:13:36those things will happen naturally once
- 00:13:39you're unblocked we'll get there but if
- 00:13:41you're doing something even though
- 00:13:44you're blocked to try and make it look
- 00:13:46spiritual trying to be spiritual that's
- 00:13:48as far as you're going you'll feel that
- 00:13:50I'm spiritual because other people said
- 00:13:52I am oh my God you helped everybody
- 00:13:55you're so beautiful and look at how
- 00:13:57everyone rejects this other person and
- 00:13:59you're so kind to them oh that's really
- 00:14:01beautiful and feels good until they stop
- 00:14:04saying it or until they say it to
- 00:14:06somebody else the exact same thing it
- 00:14:08don't feel so special or until the
- 00:14:10person who you helped got in a bad mood
- 00:14:12and started tell everybody that you were
- 00:14:14taking advantage of them and and you're
- 00:14:16terrible you're just you're living a
- 00:14:19losing life that's a losing life the
- 00:14:22only way to actually be spiritual is to
- 00:14:25remove the blockages that are blocking
- 00:14:27the flow of your spirit not about
- 00:14:30getting things that neutralize them
- 00:14:33because that will never last first of
- 00:14:35all let's just admit we're playing that
- 00:14:37game right I'm not okay what do I need
- 00:14:39in order to be okay I'm not okay what do
- 00:14:42I need to make sure it doesn't happen so
- 00:14:43I get worse that's my bottom line of how
- 00:14:46we are all living our lives I'm not okay
- 00:14:49what do I need to make happen or do so
- 00:14:51that I can be okay I'm not okay what I
- 00:14:54have to make sure it doesn't happen so I
- 00:14:55don't get worse and that's why there's
- 00:14:58tension that's why there's anx anxiety
- 00:14:59and that's why life
- 00:15:01seems it's tough right life is heavy
- 00:15:04because you're busy doing that and the
- 00:15:06only time you ever feel Joy and love and
- 00:15:09enthusiasm is when it works is when you
- 00:15:11get what it is you said you wanted or
- 00:15:13you feel relief if you don't have to go
- 00:15:15through what you didn't want that
- 00:15:18duality of getting and losing and
- 00:15:21protecting and all that it's a losing
- 00:15:24game if you spend all your effort to try
- 00:15:26and get one moment to be the way want it
- 00:15:30there are lots of other moments that
- 00:15:31going to happen what are you going to do
- 00:15:33you can't control every moment it
- 00:15:35doesn't work it's not going to happen
- 00:15:38life is going to unfold and if you
- 00:15:40struggle with it to try to make it
- 00:15:42neutralize or plate your blockages you
- 00:15:45got a job that's 24 by7 you have trouble
- 00:15:48sleeping and your anxiety and you got to
- 00:15:50worry about it first of all it's
- 00:15:52difficult for people to decide what it
- 00:15:54is that they want to happen so that
- 00:15:56they'll be okay do I want to get married
- 00:15:58should I married him should I marry her
- 00:15:59should I take my vacation for that's
- 00:16:01what people say to me a lot of times I
- 00:16:03have trouble making decisions of course
- 00:16:05you do of course you do because the
- 00:16:08decision you're trying to make is what
- 00:16:10will make me happy you're not trying to
- 00:16:12decide should I move to New York should
- 00:16:14I get married now you're trying to
- 00:16:16decide what will make me happy when the
- 00:16:18truth of the matter is how do you know
- 00:16:20you haven't been happy enough to know
- 00:16:22and if you have been if you say no I was
- 00:16:24seven years ago oh my God that you don't
- 00:16:26know what happened to me then what
- 00:16:27you're going to try and do is recreate
- 00:16:29the same situation that you had before
- 00:16:31CU it's the only thing you know about
- 00:16:33happiness how does the person who lived
- 00:16:35Downstream and never saw the river flow
- 00:16:38by itself the Stream flow by itself
- 00:16:39before it was blocked how does that
- 00:16:41person know how to get water they don't
- 00:16:43even know what's going on all they know
- 00:16:45is about the bucket running around
- 00:16:47getting a bucket and pouring it back in
- 00:16:49versus if you remove the blockage
- 00:16:51there's a natural flow of water we are
- 00:16:53so far away from ourselves from truth
- 00:16:56that the best we can do is to try to
- 00:16:58make us up in our minds what we think
- 00:17:00will make us happy and we have a lot of
- 00:17:01trouble doing that then we have to
- 00:17:04decide how to try to make it happen
- 00:17:06because we're not stupid it's not going
- 00:17:07to happen by itself and all of a sudden
- 00:17:09we're anxious trying to figure out what
- 00:17:11we want or what we don't want we're
- 00:17:12anxious trying to make it happen and
- 00:17:14then we get upset when it doesn't we get
- 00:17:15jealous when somebody else gets it what
- 00:17:18I just describe to you as a human being
- 00:17:19isn't it that's how they live their
- 00:17:21lives you don't have to live like that
- 00:17:24there is a complete other way of living
- 00:17:26your life and it is not difficult and it
- 00:17:29doesn't take time like I said what it
- 00:17:32takes is understanding I have blocked my
- 00:17:35energy flow I need to remove these
- 00:17:38blockages and I'm telling you it's that
- 00:17:40simple you don't need to know anything
- 00:17:42else I have blocked this energy flow and
- 00:17:45I need to remove these blockages then
- 00:17:47you have to know that that's the truth
- 00:17:49that that's how you find happiness joy
- 00:17:50and love if you remove the blockages you
- 00:17:53don't need to do anything else if I take
- 00:17:55the dam down I never have to run around
- 00:17:57again and bring the buckets do I ever
- 00:18:00never the river just flows all by itself
- 00:18:02it's natural if you remove your
- 00:18:05blockages inside I am telling you there
- 00:18:07is a river of Joy inside you will feel
- 00:18:10tremendous upliftment everything you
- 00:18:12feel when somebody finally convinces you
- 00:18:14they love you and you feel that sudden
- 00:18:17first kiss you know take the most
- 00:18:19highest moment take the most highest
- 00:18:21moment multiply times a thousand or a
- 00:18:23million your choice and have it
- 00:18:25constantly getting more and totally
- 00:18:28refreshing in other words every single
- 00:18:30kiss is the first kiss that's how much
- 00:18:33shaky Energy power all the time that's
- 00:18:37what's going on inside of you that is
- 00:18:38your natural state so instead of going
- 00:18:41out there and putting something on top
- 00:18:44of the blockages so that temporarily you
- 00:18:46feel okay and have to work for that you
- 00:18:49just devote your life and I mean your
- 00:18:51whole life to removing these blockages
- 00:18:54let's talk about that just as hard as
- 00:18:57everybody else tries to get what they
- 00:18:59want and avoid what they don't want how
- 00:19:01they work pretty hard don't they going
- 00:19:03repeat that just as hard as everybody
- 00:19:05else tries to get what they want and
- 00:19:06avoid what they don't want that's how
- 00:19:09hard you work to get rid of your
- 00:19:11blockages because everybody else every
- 00:19:14moment of their life is trying to get
- 00:19:15what they want and avoid what they don't
- 00:19:16want there's never a time you're not
- 00:19:18doing that you're always trying to get
- 00:19:20what you want and avoid what you don't
- 00:19:21want instead you're always trying to
- 00:19:24remove these blockages I'm telling you
- 00:19:26that's what it takes it takes for you to
- 00:19:29decide there's nothing wrong with trying
- 00:19:31to get what you want to what what you
- 00:19:32don't want it just doesn't work that's
- 00:19:34what we call conditional you'll only be
- 00:19:36okay if you get what you want how often
- 00:19:37does that happen and then you get used
- 00:19:39to it how long does it last the joy of
- 00:19:41getting what you want it's embarrassing
- 00:19:43to talk about this it's natural it's
- 00:19:46real there's nothing wrong with you you
- 00:19:48know I studied you know graduate school
- 00:19:50economics way back when they taught us a
- 00:19:53law of diminishing returns that's a law
- 00:19:55that they teach you in economics the law
- 00:19:57of diminishing returns what does that
- 00:19:59mean it means that every single human
- 00:20:02being under all conditions will get used
- 00:20:05to what it is that that's experiencing
- 00:20:07if I give you your favorite meal oh my
- 00:20:10God from the best chef that ever was and
- 00:20:12you Bliss out on eating it and I give it
- 00:20:15to you again the next day wow how about
- 00:20:18the third fourth fifth breakfast lunch
- 00:20:19dinner breakfast lunch dinner how long
- 00:20:21before you go ew give me collards or
- 00:20:23Brazzle Sprouts or something I don't
- 00:20:24know but you hear what I'm saying at
- 00:20:26some point you don't want it anymore do
- 00:20:28you even the second time is not as nice
- 00:20:30as the first and the third is not even
- 00:20:32close that is called the law of
- 00:20:33diminishing returns how many people that
- 00:20:36if you walked up to them and said what
- 00:20:38do you want to make you happy you make a
- 00:20:41list on there what do you want to make
- 00:20:42you happy write down what they already
- 00:20:44have oh I want the car I have nobody why
- 00:20:49because if the car they had would make
- 00:20:50them happy they'd be happy so basically
- 00:20:54they write down things they haven't
- 00:20:55experienced yet I want to live in Hawaii
- 00:20:57and I want my kids to get a and words I
- 00:21:00want something to happen that isn't
- 00:21:01happening now because maybe that will
- 00:21:04make me happy and that's what's going to
- 00:21:05happen for the rest of your life if
- 00:21:06you're not careful so instead you say
- 00:21:10why am I deciding I need things to make
- 00:21:13me be okay instead of working on being
- 00:21:17okay that's the key of all spirituality
- 00:21:20why am I trying to decide what will make
- 00:21:22me be okay instead of removing the
- 00:21:25reason that I'm not okay if you've never
- 00:21:27heard anything teachings before please
- 00:21:29understand that all right so how do you
- 00:21:32remove these blockages what are the
- 00:21:34blockages nice talk we had so far I'm
- 00:21:36telling you when you've reached the
- 00:21:37right State you have to do anything to
- 00:21:39feel love joy excitement enthusiasm
- 00:21:42beyond anything you ever felt before now
- 00:21:44just so you understand it doesn't mean
- 00:21:46you don't do
- 00:21:47anything you still go out there and
- 00:21:50interact with the world you still have
- 00:21:51relationships you still different things
- 00:21:53happen you just don't need them to
- 00:21:55happen you share with life because you
- 00:21:58want to share the joy and love and
- 00:22:00enthusiasm and passion that you're
- 00:22:02feeling inside you end up sharing it
- 00:22:04with the moments that are unfolding in
- 00:22:05front of you not I'm not okay and you're
- 00:22:08going to make me be okay see the
- 00:22:10difference one is giving the other is
- 00:22:12taking we don't like to think of
- 00:22:14ourselves that way but we're takers if
- 00:22:16you're not okay I'm telling you you're
- 00:22:18trying to take you're trying to take
- 00:22:20from the moment unfolding in front of
- 00:22:21you person place thing Finance job
- 00:22:24anything to come in here how many people
- 00:22:27go to work to do their job
- 00:22:29nobody goes to work to do their job
- 00:22:32sometimes you can if you're really
- 00:22:33inspired you can't wait to get to work
- 00:22:35right it's neat but most people don't
- 00:22:38work that way do they they go to work to
- 00:22:40get paid so they can have a nice weekend
- 00:22:42they go to work because they got to
- 00:22:43support their family they go to work as
- 00:22:45a secondary purpose they have another
- 00:22:47purpose to go to work they don't go to
- 00:22:49work to do the job I want you to reach a
- 00:22:51state where no matter what job I give
- 00:22:53you you would have to hold yourself back
- 00:22:55from saying I would do it for free let
- 00:22:57me just go do it I can't wait to do it
- 00:22:59come on you don't get paid to kiss your
- 00:23:00girlfriend or boyfriend you don't get
- 00:23:02paid to go to Hawaii you don't get paid
- 00:23:04to do stuff you really enjoy well why
- 00:23:07are you not enjoying your work there is
- 00:23:09a state of being inside of you that
- 00:23:13would take horses to hold you back from
- 00:23:16every single thing you do every moment
- 00:23:18of your life how would you like to live
- 00:23:19like that then in that state that's an
- 00:23:22unblocked state that person is a
- 00:23:24blessing on this Earth whatever they are
- 00:23:27doing whoever they're interacting in
- 00:23:28with they are bringing all this joy and
- 00:23:31love that they already have they don't
- 00:23:32need anything can always teach you they
- 00:23:35teach you renunciation I hope they don't
- 00:23:36but they do it is not about renunciation
- 00:23:39true spirituality has nothing to do with
- 00:23:42renunciation if you are whole and
- 00:23:44complete within yourself you don't need
- 00:23:47anything from outside so what is there
- 00:23:48to renounce if you just ate and you're
- 00:23:50full you don't have to renounce food
- 00:23:53okay it's just your natural state you I
- 00:23:56hope I'm convincing you let you
- 00:23:58understand your natural state is so high
- 00:23:59you can't even talk about it you have to
- 00:24:01hold yourself down all the time no moods
- 00:24:06no sometimes I feel good sometimes I
- 00:24:07feel bad sometimes I feel good around
- 00:24:09that person but not this other person
- 00:24:11right a state of being inside yourself
- 00:24:14that is always there it is always
- 00:24:16present it is always feeding you it will
- 00:24:18never go away unless you close if you
- 00:24:21close down it'll stop if you don't close
- 00:24:24down it is always there so it comes down
- 00:24:27again to realize I need to remove the
- 00:24:30blockages instead of get things to put
- 00:24:32on top of them so that they feel okay
- 00:24:35for a while and it doesn't last all
- 00:24:37right what are the blockages because
- 00:24:39that's what I have found the best way
- 00:24:41you can learn to remove these blockages
- 00:24:43is to understand what they are and where
- 00:24:45they came from the nicest thing you
- 00:24:47understand about these blockages is you
- 00:24:48did it that's my favorite thing to tell
- 00:24:50you every single blockage you have
- 00:24:52inside of you you put
- 00:24:54there well don't accuse me no that's not
- 00:24:57how you should take it you should take
- 00:24:58just empowered you if you put it there
- 00:25:01you can take it out nobody can put a
- 00:25:03blockage inside of you nobody you're the
- 00:25:06only one in there if somebody comes up
- 00:25:08to you starts yelling at you and saying
- 00:25:09things that aren't true and saying them
- 00:25:11and you don't care don't bother you when
- 00:25:14I if somebody come has really nice
- 00:25:16things but you're so scared and neurotic
- 00:25:18that you think they're lying to and
- 00:25:19trying to get something from you it's
- 00:25:21you in there doing it all the world is
- 00:25:25unfolding that's for sure but it is
- 00:25:27coming inside of you and you're doing
- 00:25:29something with it aren't you that's
- 00:25:31where your work is now what your
- 00:25:34blockages are is very simple events have
- 00:25:37unfolded in front of you throughout your
- 00:25:38entire life that's true of every single
- 00:25:41one of you not the same event totally
- 00:25:43different events have unfolded in front
- 00:25:45of each of you every single moment how's
- 00:25:47that for a statement right that neat
- 00:25:49it's just unfolding in front how much
- 00:25:51you have to pay it to unfold in front of
- 00:25:52you
- 00:25:53nothing life is
- 00:25:55free what you want isn't free but life
- 00:25:58is free life is always holding in front
- 00:26:00of you isn't it there it is every single
- 00:26:03place in life there's something going on
- 00:26:05every single spot in creation isn't
- 00:26:07there something going on so there's
- 00:26:09something going on in front of you fine
- 00:26:11there it is when it comes in when what
- 00:26:14comes in
- 00:26:15life life the reality that's unfolding
- 00:26:19in front of you I've begged you to
- 00:26:21understand the moment unfolding in front
- 00:26:23of you is no different than the hundreds
- 00:26:26of billions of trillions of moments that
- 00:26:27are not un folding in front of you
- 00:26:29they're unfolding everywhere's else it's
- 00:26:31just a moment in creation isn't it you
- 00:26:33didn't make it it's not yours it just
- 00:26:36happens to be in front of you that is a
- 00:26:39complete life Cher it's a GameChanger to
- 00:26:42realize the moment in front of me is no
- 00:26:44different than the moments that aren't
- 00:26:45in front of me except it's the one
- 00:26:46that's in front of me it's neither good
- 00:26:48nor bad nor right nor wrong nor special
- 00:26:51anything they're all just the moments
- 00:26:53that are in life and they're all
- 00:26:54connected and they're all real and
- 00:26:56they're all equal and they're all just
- 00:26:58unfolding all over the planet Earth and
- 00:27:00all over Mars and all over the universe
- 00:27:02there are moments unfolding and there
- 00:27:04always have been for 13.8 billion years
- 00:27:07you didn't blow it you didn't break it
- 00:27:08you didn't do anything you're just a
- 00:27:10conscious being who is experienced in
- 00:27:13the moments unfolding in front of you
- 00:27:15problem is that when it comes
- 00:27:18in it feels different that's for sure
- 00:27:22the moment that's unfolding in front of
- 00:27:23you sure feels different than the
- 00:27:25moments that aren't unfolding in front
- 00:27:26of you doesn't it the moments that are
- 00:27:28holding everyone else don't feel
- 00:27:29anything inside do they what's going on
- 00:27:31in the South China Sea right now I don't
- 00:27:33know but there's something going on and
- 00:27:35if you were there you'd be feeling that
- 00:27:36so that's the key it comes in where you
- 00:27:39live you live inside you are the
- 00:27:41Consciousness hi you in there hi so the
- 00:27:44world unfolds in front of you it comes
- 00:27:47in and you experience it but the
- 00:27:49experiences feel different I've
- 00:27:51explained this to you it's not your
- 00:27:53fault that experiences feel different
- 00:27:55rattles snakes feel different than
- 00:27:56butterflies every Everything feels
- 00:27:59different so it comes in and it's
- 00:28:01experiential when it comes into it has a
- 00:28:04vibration it has it's energy to it
- 00:28:07Buddhists say everything has its nature
- 00:28:10certainly a rattlesnake has its nature
- 00:28:12doesn't it it's scary right when it
- 00:28:15curls up and starts rattling that's some
- 00:28:17scary stuff and butterflies have a
- 00:28:19nature and flowers have a nature don't
- 00:28:20they they're soft and beautiful you're
- 00:28:23not doing that you're experiencing that
- 00:28:26but you're not doing that that's what I
- 00:28:27call called a primal experience the
- 00:28:30actual Primal it has its vibration it is
- 00:28:34experienced folding in front of you it
- 00:28:36comes in and you experience it that's a
- 00:28:38real experience that's a level one
- 00:28:41experience it's not indirect it's a
- 00:28:43direct experience that's actually
- 00:28:44happening and has a real vibration to it
- 00:28:47do you know that the color red feels
- 00:28:48different than the color blue I'm
- 00:28:50talking about Primal not what you do
- 00:28:52with it we'll get there in a second the
- 00:28:54secondary experience there's a primary
- 00:28:57experience every single thing has a
- 00:29:00vibration and when it comes in you
- 00:29:02experience that vibration what's wrong
- 00:29:04with that nothing that's the beauty of
- 00:29:06life that it comes in what happens and
- 00:29:09I've explained to you a thousand times
- 00:29:11I'll do it a thousand of one and
- 00:29:12probably seven billion of one all right
- 00:29:14what happens is it comes in and when you
- 00:29:17start to experience it it either feels
- 00:29:19good or do feel good even the Primal
- 00:29:21experience has a different vibration
- 00:29:23rate when it comes in and you're not
- 00:29:26evolved enough when the consciousness
- 00:29:28your your own being your your essence it
- 00:29:31doesn't feel comfortable with every
- 00:29:34experience there are reasons for that
- 00:29:36that's really deep now I just want to
- 00:29:38talk about it's true okay so what you do
- 00:29:41is the ones that don't feel good you I'm
- 00:29:43not talking about your psyche don't
- 00:29:44about your Consciousness inside
- 00:29:46literally I don't want that inside of me
- 00:29:49and so you push it away this level is
- 00:29:52where you need to work this level we're
- 00:29:53talking about you need to get there and
- 00:29:56live there if you want to have a
- 00:29:58beautiful life that's witness
- 00:30:00Consciousness that's that's returning to
- 00:30:02the seat of self I am the conscious
- 00:30:04being and the world comes in and now
- 00:30:07what I do is I have this power inside of
- 00:30:09discuss this with you I have power can
- 00:30:12you push emotions away have you ever
- 00:30:14pushed things away in there can you hold
- 00:30:17on to things in there can you make
- 00:30:19thoughts go away can you make thoughts
- 00:30:21come I'm saying you're perfect at it but
- 00:30:22if you start having a bad thought can
- 00:30:23you resist it do you have the ability to
- 00:30:25resist things inside do you have the
- 00:30:27ability to cling to things inside keep
- 00:30:28them because you like them you have a
- 00:30:31power inside you're not just a passive
- 00:30:33witness you're conscious but you can do
- 00:30:36something about it can't you that power
- 00:30:38is called Willow it's so amazing I wish
- 00:30:41I could give an entire talk of will I
- 00:30:43never do because people don't even they
- 00:30:45don't pay attention you have a power
- 00:30:47inside you know you do I don't need a
- 00:30:49scientist to prove it I don't need a
- 00:30:50formula I don't need Einstein you're in
- 00:30:53there you do stuff in there don't you
- 00:30:55how do you have a power to do stuff in
- 00:30:57there because you have the power of will
- 00:31:00who does you the deepest part of your
- 00:31:02being the center of your Consciousness
- 00:31:04has the power of acting of doing
- 00:31:07something so basically you use your
- 00:31:11willpower to resist the experience
- 00:31:13that's coming in you do it all the time
- 00:31:16all the time you don't want it coming
- 00:31:18all the way back into your being and
- 00:31:20merging with you because it's not
- 00:31:21comfortable so you push it away that's a
- 00:31:25blockage that is a blockage AG you took
- 00:31:29something real a vibration that came in
- 00:31:33it's energy you used your energy the
- 00:31:36power of your will to push it aside to
- 00:31:39not let it come all the way in that
- 00:31:41thing is blocking your energy for the
- 00:31:43rest of your life unless you do
- 00:31:45something about it every single one that
- 00:31:48you do that to if a car in front of you
- 00:31:51is not driving the way you want and you
- 00:31:53get all upset that is screwing up your
- 00:31:56energy flow that act that you did in the
- 00:31:58morning when the person was driving like
- 00:32:00that and you got all weird about it and
- 00:32:02pushed it aside and complained when you
- 00:32:03got to work out people don't even know
- 00:32:04how to drive that thing will determine
- 00:32:08how good your food tastes at night how
- 00:32:10good the kiss is with your beloved how
- 00:32:12much you will enjoy your job it will run
- 00:32:16your life if it is in there it is
- 00:32:18blocking your energy flow is it in there
- 00:32:21next time you see a car that looks like
- 00:32:23the one you had trouble with that was
- 00:32:24driving in front of you what do you feel
- 00:32:27upset even two weeks later oh God I hope
- 00:32:30is that that guy yes or no is that just
- 00:32:32me anybody had that experience I am
- 00:32:34talking about what it's like to live in
- 00:32:35there right I don't care about your
- 00:32:37beliefs I care about what you're doing
- 00:32:40in there and do you understand what it
- 00:32:42is like to live inside I know you're
- 00:32:44worried about what's going on outside I
- 00:32:46not worried about what's going on
- 00:32:48outside I know that you live in there if
- 00:32:50you make it nice in there you who cares
- 00:32:53what's unfolding outside if you just
- 00:32:55fell in love and I mean in love just wo
- 00:32:58you know just your heart burst open and
- 00:33:00just filled with love and you go to work
- 00:33:02and your boy says you know yesterday you
- 00:33:04didn't finish it the way I wanted you go
- 00:33:06really he said act serious about it but
- 00:33:08you giggle inside if you just broke up
- 00:33:11and your heart's hurting you go into
- 00:33:13work and the boss says oh come over here
- 00:33:14I want to talk to you he wants some
- 00:33:16compliment you what you did yesterday
- 00:33:17your mind goes oh another thing I was
- 00:33:19bad enough my boyfriend broke off with
- 00:33:20me I got to listen to stupid boss you
- 00:33:22live
- 00:33:23inside your environment is inside if
- 00:33:27you're inside is Beautiful Everything Is
- 00:33:29Beautiful if your Insight is screwed up
- 00:33:31everything is screwed up okay so you
- 00:33:35come in here and you realize if I am
- 00:33:37pushing things away inside that actually
- 00:33:40happened I'm going to go very slow if
- 00:33:42the event actually happened somebody
- 00:33:44beeped at you somebody yelled at you
- 00:33:45somebody criticized you somebody broke
- 00:33:47up with you seven years ago these events
- 00:33:49actually took place they do not belong
- 00:33:52inside of you period when they are done
- 00:33:55they are done they're over they're not
- 00:33:58even happening anywhere's in the
- 00:33:59universe anymore but they're happening
- 00:34:01inside of you aren't they all it has to
- 00:34:03do anything reminds you of it your heart
- 00:34:05closes again you get all upset your mind
- 00:34:07goes crazy yes or no you did that and
- 00:34:11that's why I spent all my time at the
- 00:34:12beginning talking about how blockages
- 00:34:13are screwing up your life not that
- 00:34:15you're not getting what you want right
- 00:34:17it is the blockages now I'm telling you
- 00:34:18what the blockages are you are doing it
- 00:34:21every time you do not let reality pass
- 00:34:24through you you are pushing it away
- 00:34:28and therefore it is staying inside of
- 00:34:30you and if it stays inside of you now
- 00:34:33watch what happened I talked about the
- 00:34:34primary experience I should give
- 00:34:36official names of these things but a
- 00:34:38level one experience a primary
- 00:34:39experience the world is unfolding it
- 00:34:42comes in it has a vibration woo it's
- 00:34:45coming in and you're vibrating at the
- 00:34:46level it's vibrating aren't you you're
- 00:34:48feeling just whatever it was you're
- 00:34:50feeling red you're feeling blue you're
- 00:34:53feeling death you're feeling birth
- 00:34:55you're feeling Beauty whatever it is
- 00:34:57what ever is coming in you're
- 00:34:59experiencing it that's a primal
- 00:35:01experience that's a level one experience
- 00:35:03now what happens because you stored this
- 00:35:05stuff inside and so far I've only talked
- 00:35:07about innocent things you beeps at
- 00:35:09youbody criticize you you got some big
- 00:35:11stuff in there don't you right that's
- 00:35:14that's what what a psychology call that
- 00:35:15your formative years these blockages are
- 00:35:18the things you put in there because you
- 00:35:20did not let them pass through while they
- 00:35:23are in there they're blocking your
- 00:35:24energy flow the more you have in there
- 00:35:27the more block there are now what
- 00:35:29happens an event unfolds outside
- 00:35:31butterfly rattlesnake person anything
- 00:35:34comes in you don't have any more primary
- 00:35:37experiences anymore a normal human being
- 00:35:41has very very few primary what I call
- 00:35:43level one primary experiences when it
- 00:35:46the vibration comes in it hits your
- 00:35:49stuff the stuff you stored so somebody
- 00:35:51says to you red what do you think a RW
- 00:35:54shock test is thing plot test it's
- 00:35:57everything I'm just is talking about is
- 00:35:58sitting there saying you're not going to
- 00:36:00see ink plots that's not what you're
- 00:36:02going to see you're not going to see
- 00:36:03squiggles on a piece of paper you're
- 00:36:05going to see mommy yelling at daddy
- 00:36:07you're going to see your husband who
- 00:36:08broke up with you and you're going to
- 00:36:10see different stuff that's why they give
- 00:36:12you the test isn't it they are assuming
- 00:36:15and they're right that when you look at
- 00:36:17this it's going to stimulate one of your
- 00:36:19secondary blockages now I've got level
- 00:36:21two reaction don't I so your primary
- 00:36:23experience when it comes directly in and
- 00:36:25touches your core of your being comes
- 00:36:28right through we'll talk about that a
- 00:36:29little bit more right your secondary
- 00:36:31experience or level two experience is it
- 00:36:33comes in and it doesn't make it to the
- 00:36:35core of your being it hits your garbage
- 00:36:37it hit your blockages why because
- 00:36:38they're in the way as a blockages do and
- 00:36:41all of a sudden you're getting angry
- 00:36:42because somebody showed you red I don't
- 00:36:44want the red one my sister got the red
- 00:36:46bike and I I can't believe I wanted the
- 00:36:48red no get away from me and you're it's
- 00:36:5050 years you're saying that it's just
- 00:36:53it's hilarious the love of your life
- 00:36:56when you're 25 years old is on his knees
- 00:36:59and he's got a little box little jewelry
- 00:37:01box and you take it and he opens the box
- 00:37:04and the diamond looks exactly like your
- 00:37:06aunt tilda's and she was so mean and she
- 00:37:10used to show that off to everybody and
- 00:37:12it looked just like that how you
- 00:37:14doing not such a romantic moment anymore
- 00:37:17is it all of a sudden the event that's
- 00:37:21happening isn't what you're experiencing
- 00:37:24you're experiencing what happened before
- 00:37:26that you stored in inside of you and
- 00:37:28that's the reaction that comes up
- 00:37:30therefore that's the emotion that you
- 00:37:32feel and that's what you're dealing with
- 00:37:34believe it or not this is a spiritual
- 00:37:36discussion why because that's the stuff
- 00:37:39that blocks
- 00:37:41spirit I don't want to talk about Spirit
- 00:37:45if you I don't want to talk about water
- 00:37:46flowing if it's damned I want to talk
- 00:37:48about how to get rid of the dam I don't
- 00:37:50want to dream back oh the water used to
- 00:37:52flow no I want to know how to get rid of
- 00:37:54the dam I don't want to think about what
- 00:37:56would it be like if the water FL no no I
- 00:37:58want to get rid of the damn I want to
- 00:37:59focus on the problem and that's what
- 00:38:02we're dealing with you have a problem
- 00:38:05and you're it you have built these level
- 00:38:07two blockages inside and now when the
- 00:38:10world comes in you react in accordance
- 00:38:13to your past experiences and we think
- 00:38:15it's natural well maybe it's normal but
- 00:38:18it's not natural all right normal
- 00:38:20doesn't mean good and so there now you
- 00:38:23understand your blockages I didn't get
- 00:38:24too far into it does anybody have any do
- 00:38:27I need to prove it to you or have you
- 00:38:29noticed that they
- 00:38:31stay years can go by and an argument you
- 00:38:35know you want to see your blockages go I
- 00:38:37won't go go to your high school
- 00:38:39reunion and see how you feel you don't
- 00:38:43even recognize the person anymore and
- 00:38:44they say no you remember I'm so and so I
- 00:38:46want to see how you feel I want to see
- 00:38:49what comes up because it stayed in there
- 00:38:51for all those years that's ridiculous
- 00:38:54the person's not the same person you
- 00:38:56can't even recognize them they have to
- 00:38:57have their pictures of what they look
- 00:38:59like in high school for you to rec they
- 00:39:00put it on their little shirt or
- 00:39:02something right
- 00:39:03OMG I'm proving to you what's going on
- 00:39:07now if you collect all that garbage
- 00:39:09every moment of your life you just
- 00:39:12collect all these things and then you're
- 00:39:14going to have reactions based on that
- 00:39:16now try to figure out how to be okay
- 00:39:18you've had thousands and thousands of
- 00:39:20experiences one experience was good with
- 00:39:22red the other experience was bad with
- 00:39:24red you dated a guy named Ben it was
- 00:39:26really beautiful and then he moved away
- 00:39:27it was a nice relationship you wrote for
- 00:39:29well then you married a guy named Ben
- 00:39:31and the worst thing in the world war of
- 00:39:32the Ros you got divorced now do you like
- 00:39:34Ben's or not when somebody say oh my
- 00:39:36name's Ben do you freak or do you
- 00:39:39excited I don't know probably depends on
- 00:39:41the weather be careful because you may
- 00:39:43be bifurcated about this guy he wonder
- 00:39:45why you're so moody because one day he
- 00:39:47reminds you of the nice guy the other
- 00:39:49reminds you of the other guy all right
- 00:39:51so you have a problem the problem is you
- 00:39:54have stored these things inside of you
- 00:39:56now you're not okay okay because they
- 00:39:58block your energy flow now there's no
- 00:40:00natural flow there's just this stuff in
- 00:40:02there and now you need to find out what
- 00:40:04I said how to make the world be that it
- 00:40:07tiptoes Through the Tulips that it
- 00:40:08matches your stuff good enough to where
- 00:40:11you feel the flow from behind because
- 00:40:14you stopped being all uptight about it
- 00:40:16and what's so amazing is that you're the
- 00:40:19one who's deciding what we'll do it like
- 00:40:21okay she has a very pretty shirt on I
- 00:40:22look at her shirt very artistic pretty
- 00:40:24shirt what if you went to a party and
- 00:40:26you made that shirt yourself and really
- 00:40:28beautiful and special and you're really
- 00:40:29excited about being special and you just
- 00:40:31say oh my God no be the most unique
- 00:40:33clouse that's ever been at a party you
- 00:40:34go to the party and half the people in
- 00:40:36the party have that blous on how you
- 00:40:39doing oh my God all right what if you
- 00:40:42decided I'm going to buy this blouse but
- 00:40:44I wonder if anybody else will like it I
- 00:40:46I may be too weird right but I really I
- 00:40:49like it I don't know if they like it or
- 00:40:51not I hope so and so you buy it and you
- 00:40:53put it on you're scared and you go in
- 00:40:55there and half the people have the
- 00:40:56blouse on you feel totally accepted and
- 00:40:58Vindicated you're the one who decides
- 00:41:01how you feel about things and I don't
- 00:41:03know how to talk about it you're either
- 00:41:05setting up things that will make you
- 00:41:06miserable or setting up things that will
- 00:41:07make you nice but they're all
- 00:41:09conditional it's called conditional
- 00:41:10well-being your well-being is now
- 00:41:13conditioned upon the world unfolding in
- 00:41:15a way that either matches or doesn't
- 00:41:16match or whatever it is the garbage you
- 00:41:18stored inside all right so now you
- 00:41:20understand What's blocking you how do
- 00:41:23you get rid of it can you get rid of it
- 00:41:25let's get this straight can you get rid
- 00:41:27of these blockages yes can you me
- 00:41:30personally yes but you don't understand
- 00:41:32me I got some it doesn't matter there's
- 00:41:34not one single thing inside of you that
- 00:41:37you're not holding in there it tries to
- 00:41:40come up when you're asleep in your
- 00:41:41dreams it comes up when people hit it it
- 00:41:44pops back up there doesn't it and you
- 00:41:46push it right back down it is in there
- 00:41:49because you are holding it in there not
- 00:41:51oh I made a mistake I did it when I was
- 00:41:53little I held it in there now I'm stuck
- 00:41:54with it no no no no no no no no no if
- 00:41:56it's in in there believe me it's trying
- 00:41:58to come back up all right one way or
- 00:42:00another you somebody reminds you of it
- 00:42:02God I felt the same as when I was my
- 00:42:04sister that I did when we were little
- 00:42:07people say it all the time I told you I
- 00:42:10had met an old couple and the husband
- 00:42:12had just died beautiful beautiful woman
- 00:42:14older woman she's just me says I met
- 00:42:17hering we've been married 50 years and
- 00:42:20he died in micke I feel the same
- 00:42:22loneliness and sense of loss that I felt
- 00:42:25before I met him now that he's gone now
- 00:42:28that may sound romantic to you that
- 00:42:30sounds like it didn't work what do you
- 00:42:33mean you literally feel the same
- 00:42:35loneliness and the same sense of
- 00:42:37lostness that you felt 50 years ago and
- 00:42:40then you rested on this person to make
- 00:42:42it not feel that way but the moment they
- 00:42:44left it was right back again what does
- 00:42:46that tell you you didn't get rid of it
- 00:42:49you didn't work at the root you didn't
- 00:42:50get rid of stuff right it literally
- 00:42:52didn't work okay and it's not going to
- 00:42:55work you can't put stuff on top top of
- 00:42:57something and think it went away no more
- 00:42:59than you you have some disease and put
- 00:43:01some Band-Aids over it okay you can't
- 00:43:03see it it's gone no it doesn't go away
- 00:43:05that way so now how do you get rid of
- 00:43:07the blockages first of all now that you
- 00:43:09have a fundamental understanding what's
- 00:43:11wrong you at least have the basis for
- 00:43:13getting rid of it now the question
- 00:43:14becomes are you willing to are you
- 00:43:16willing to understand I hope I've
- 00:43:18inspired you to say I want to feel love
- 00:43:20I want to feel Joy I want to wake up
- 00:43:22every morning filled with bliss and
- 00:43:23ecstasy and can't wait to see what's
- 00:43:24going to happen today and go through the
- 00:43:26entire day andthus and excited and go to
- 00:43:28bed and giggle myself to sleep every
- 00:43:30single day for the rest of my life I
- 00:43:31wouldn't mind living like that okay get
- 00:43:33ready your blockages you're going to
- 00:43:34live like that because that is your
- 00:43:36natural state period so how do you get
- 00:43:38rid of your blockages start with what I
- 00:43:41call the low hanging fruit start with
- 00:43:43every moment of every day of your life
- 00:43:45something hits your stuff somebody
- 00:43:48doesn't say what you expect them to say
- 00:43:49somebody says what you don't want
- 00:43:51somebody's wearing a coat that you wish
- 00:43:52you had something happens believe me
- 00:43:54I've lived in here for a long time all
- 00:43:56right something how the wind blows your
- 00:43:58hair around is a little hot the car
- 00:44:01doesn't start right away I like my God
- 00:44:03it's just ongoing is it somebody's got a
- 00:44:05nicer car than you somebody parked in
- 00:44:07your parking space somebody beeped at
- 00:44:09you because you were looking at your
- 00:44:11smartphone at the light okay things
- 00:44:13bother you don't they things cause a
- 00:44:15change in there that's where I want you
- 00:44:18working I don't don't worry about the
- 00:44:20stuff that happened formative yours just
- 00:44:23make a game out of this which says I can
- 00:44:26handle
- 00:44:27these little events that happen in life
- 00:44:30they're totally natural and they're
- 00:44:31happening everywhere I just happen to be
- 00:44:33seeing the ones in front of me I can
- 00:44:34handle them I can let them pass through
- 00:44:38I can experience it I can have someone
- 00:44:40beep at me feel the discomfort of
- 00:44:44embarrassment and or anger because
- 00:44:46people shouldn't be so you know
- 00:44:48impatient I can feel the reaction come
- 00:44:51up inside of me it is okay with me that
- 00:44:54they beeped it is okay with me that I
- 00:44:56had this secondary reaction that's all
- 00:44:58okay with me I'm going to let it all
- 00:45:00come and go I'm going to be so open I'm
- 00:45:03not going to judge it I'm not going to
- 00:45:05judge him for beeping I'm not going to
- 00:45:06judge myself for getting neurotic about
- 00:45:08it I'm just like whoa what an experience
- 00:45:12I want the beeping and the Neurosis
- 00:45:14because of it to be equivalent to seeing
- 00:45:17the most beautiful sunset you've ever
- 00:45:18seen it stuns you you look at it it
- 00:45:21comes in it touches you to the core of
- 00:45:22your being I want every single
- 00:45:25experience you have to make it through
- 00:45:27you but you start with the little ones
- 00:45:29can you handle that he beef at you well
- 00:45:32you can she can't she's going to react
- 00:45:35isn't she because she's a mess right she
- 00:45:37can't even a total stranger beeps at you
- 00:45:40and you get all weird you feel rejected
- 00:45:43you feel scared you feel embarrassed I'm
- 00:45:45telling you those tiny little moments
- 00:45:49are where your spiritual growth is
- 00:45:50because you can handle those that
- 00:45:52something that's never going to bother
- 00:45:53you for the rest of your life happens
- 00:45:55and you get a little weird let it go let
- 00:45:58it go it's called letting go be open
- 00:46:00Relax lean away from it I've taught you
- 00:46:03this a million times when you see it
- 00:46:05start to happen relax if you are relaxed
- 00:46:08you cannot resist it requires tension to
- 00:46:11resist then remember I don't want this
- 00:46:13inside of me I don't want that the guy
- 00:46:15beat me staying here and I get weird
- 00:46:18every time I drive down that street or
- 00:46:20anything like that I don't want it
- 00:46:21inside of me if you don't want it inside
- 00:46:23of you then don't keep it inside of you
- 00:46:25learn to not and just relx relax around
- 00:46:27it and then if it gets weird inside lean
- 00:46:30away from where you see the weirdness
- 00:46:32you are the one who's experiencing these
- 00:46:34things you are fine remember that what
- 00:46:37you're looking at isn't but if you
- 00:46:39relaxed you'll give it room it's all
- 00:46:41about giving it room inside that's what
- 00:46:43I've experienced as much room as you can
- 00:46:45give it you're letting it pass through
- 00:46:48the least room you give it it gets
- 00:46:50constricted it can't make it through
- 00:46:52open up that's called being open it's
- 00:46:54called giving it room it's called RNR
- 00:46:57relaxing and releasing and then to make
- 00:46:58a long story very very short if you
- 00:47:01learn to do it with a beep you learn to
- 00:47:03do with the person driving slow in front
- 00:47:04of you you learn to do with the person
- 00:47:06who you know didn't say hello when you
- 00:47:08called to them hey Sally you up welcome
- 00:47:10just keep letting go keep letting go
- 00:47:13relentlessly give it all the room but
- 00:47:16what if I try to let go and it doesn't
- 00:47:17then let go next time I don't care it's
- 00:47:20you know what happens if I'm trying to
- 00:47:21play tennis I hit in the net I guess I'm
- 00:47:23no good I quit no just every time you do
- 00:47:26it you'll get better and you just keep
- 00:47:28doing it then what will happen because
- 00:47:30you can do it with the smaller stuff
- 00:47:32you're going to be very surprised to
- 00:47:34find out now somebody walks up to you
- 00:47:35and criticizes you somebody doesn't call
- 00:47:3815 minutes after they were supposed to
- 00:47:40and you're getting neurotic Insight
- 00:47:41something a little bit bigger than the
- 00:47:43beep you follow me and you find that you
- 00:47:45do the same thing I can let this go I
- 00:47:48can relax you learn to relax learn to
- 00:47:51release letting go relax and release
- 00:47:53what did they say Let It Be let it be
- 00:47:58singing words of wisdom all right just
- 00:48:00keep letting go then all of a sudden
- 00:48:02something bigger will come up either new
- 00:48:05right that's the big stuff don't put new
- 00:48:07stuff in there if you have an argument
- 00:48:09with somebody and it bothered you your
- 00:48:11First Act is not to go apologize and
- 00:48:14work it out with them because I can't
- 00:48:15handle that we had this argument you can
- 00:48:18handle and I want you to and when you've
- 00:48:20let it go inside then if it's
- 00:48:22appropriate to have a discussion about
- 00:48:24it usually it's not usually if you
- 00:48:27that's what I found in my life if you
- 00:48:28can let it go it's over in fact the
- 00:48:30person you did them a favor you actually
- 00:48:33let it go and next time they see you
- 00:48:34you're not carrying it with you that's
- 00:48:36Grace you absorb the karma but the point
- 00:48:39is if it does need to be talked about at
- 00:48:40least you're there to talk about it not
- 00:48:42there to defend yourself and the fact
- 00:48:45that you couldn't handle it understand
- 00:48:46that I'm going very quickly so more and
- 00:48:48more you let go and don't take new stuff
- 00:48:51in and then I'm tell you all by itself
- 00:48:53the old stuff will come up why because
- 00:48:55you didn't put new stuff on top of it
- 00:48:57and get ready because it's coming up all
- 00:48:59right that stuff does not want to be in
- 00:49:01there and all of a sudden your parental
- 00:49:03things and your childhood things and
- 00:49:05this thing and the first ex-husband and
- 00:49:06the first it just starts coming up so
- 00:49:08what you couldn't handle it when it
- 00:49:10happened can you handle it now the
- 00:49:12answer is
- 00:49:13yes not only can I I will actually you
- 00:49:15say I can and I will why I don't want
- 00:49:17this inside of me and as you let go over
- 00:49:20time as you let go you're going to start
- 00:49:22to get higher why because that's what's
- 00:49:24inside of you something really beautiful
- 00:49:26and you'll start feeling it up lifting
- 00:49:28just you have joy for no reason you feel
- 00:49:30love for no reason and then all of a
- 00:49:32sudden enough opens up with where you
- 00:49:34took the damn down enough it'll push the
- 00:49:36rest out of the way and for the rest of
- 00:49:38your life there'll be this flow welling
- 00:49:40up inside throngs and waves of joy and
- 00:49:44ecstasy that you need to learn to handle
- 00:49:46yourself while you're driving and this
- 00:49:48and that and it will never stop unless
- 00:49:50you stop it that's what's waiting for
- 00:49:52you inside that's what Christ meant when
- 00:49:54he said the kingdom is within you and it
- 00:49:56is but you have to die to be reborn you
- 00:49:59have to die of the personal self of this
- 00:50:01garbage you built inside yourself and
- 00:50:04then it will well up inside so
- 00:50:07basically that is what spirituality is I
- 00:50:10started by saying it's not hard and it
- 00:50:13doesn't take long all you have to do is
- 00:50:16stop holding this stuff inside of you
- 00:50:18and if you will get in the habit of
- 00:50:20doing that and work with that
- 00:50:21relentlessly every moment of every day
- 00:50:24you will never look for love again you
- 00:50:25will never look for excitement again you
- 00:50:27will never look for Joy again you will
- 00:50:29be so filled with shui with this joy
- 00:50:33that everything you do will be notated
- 00:50:35with it you'll passionately interact
- 00:50:37with every moment of your life that's
- 00:50:39how you're meant to live then the real
- 00:50:41stuff happens we haven't even got high
- 00:50:44yet when that energy starts flowing up
- 00:50:47it literally takes you with it it's so
- 00:50:50beautiful that it pulls your
- 00:50:51Consciousness into it you get pulled
- 00:50:54inside that's where yogis live that's
- 00:50:56where great beings live and it starts
- 00:50:58welling up inside and eventually you
- 00:51:00learn to surrender to it you let it take
- 00:51:02you where it's going and return to the
- 00:51:04source the source of spirit is where God
- 00:51:06is the source of sunlight is the sun the
- 00:51:09source of the spirit flow you will find
- 00:51:13where the great ones went all right work
- 00:51:16on these things in
- 00:51:23G
- geestelike groei
- blokkasies
- selfhulpproses
- innerlike vrede
- liefde en vreugde
- verligting
- bewustheid
- geestelike tegnieke