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they say it takes 21 days to change your
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life but have you ever wondered why why
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not 10 why not 30 what's so special
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about this number most people think it's
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just a motivational gimmick some random
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number thrown around in self-improvement
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circles but what if I told you that 21
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days isn't just a theory that it's a
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psychological blueprint for rewiring
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your brain breaking old habits and
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building new ones that will completely
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transform the way you
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live change isn't about motivation it's
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about about rewiring your mind and 21
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days is the key but before I tell you
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why let's talk about something real how
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many times have you promised yourself
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you'd start something new you wake up
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feeling inspired you tell yourself this
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is it this time I'm going to do it and
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at first it's easy the excitement
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carries you through the first few days
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but then the excitement Fades the
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discipline waivers life gets in the way
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one miss day turns into two two turns
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into a week and before you know it
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you're back to square one frustrated
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disappointed wondering why change feels
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so impossible I know this cycle all too
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well because I lived it for years I
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would start something with full force
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only to give up halfway through I'd see
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people who seem seemed so disciplined so
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consistent and I'd wonder what do they
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have that I don't then I found the
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answer and it wasn't Talent it wasn't
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luck it was 21 days the science behind
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21 days this idea isn't new it's it
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started in the 1950s with Dr Maxwell
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maltz a plastic surgeon who noticed
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something strange his patients whether
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they had a nose job or even an
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amputation took about 21 days to adjust
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to their new appearance at first they
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still saw their old selves in the mirror
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but after 3 weeks their minds adapted
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their identity shifted this observation
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led to two deeper research in
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Neuroscience which proved something
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incredible our brains are designed to
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resist change whenever we start
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something new our minds see it as a
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threat that's why habits are so hard to
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break but after 21 days of consistent
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action the brain rewires itself um new
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neural Pathways form what once felt
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unnatural starts to feel normal and
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suddenly you're not just forcing
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yourself to do something you're becoming
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the kind of person who does it
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automatically but this is where most
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people go wrong they start the 21-day
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challenge but they don't know how to do
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it right right so they fail that's why
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I'm going to give you five rules to make
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sure that doesn't happen to you if you
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follow these you won't just make a
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temporary change you'll create a
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permanent shift in your mindset your
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discipline and your entire way of living
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rule number one win the small
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battles most people fail because they
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try to change everything at once they
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wake up one day and decide I'm going to
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hit the gym every morning read for 2
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hours quit sugar meditate and start a
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business and guess what happens they
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burn out in less than a week that's like
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trying to run a marathon before you can
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even jog a mile the real key to change
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start small think of it like this great
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warriors don't start by fighting the
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biggest enemies they build their
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strength by winning smaller battles
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first your habits work the same way want
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to wake up earlier don't jump straight
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to 5:00 a.m. start with 15 minutes
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earlier each day want to get fit don't
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commit to 2-hour workouts start with 10
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push-ups a day want to quit junk food
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cut one unhealthy item at a time instead
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of going cold turkey small winds create
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momentum and momentum turns into
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Unstoppable discipline rule number two
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you can't just say I want to change
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that's too vague you need something
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clear measurable and undeniable instead
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of saying I want to be healthy say in 21
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days I will drink only water and
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exercise for 20 minutes every day
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instead of saying I want to read more
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say in 21 days I will finish one book
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specificity turns dreams into
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commitments and commitments create
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results rule number three cut the noise
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this is where most people fail You're
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motivated at first but then distractions
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creep in your phone buzzes social media
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sucks you in friends invite you out for
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just one cheap day and before you know
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it you're right back where you started
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for 21 days you need Focus treat this
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like a Mission turn off notifications
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limit social media avoid anything that
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pulls you back into Old Habits this
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isn't forever but if you want real
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change you have to protect your progress
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rule number four gratitude rewires your
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mind most people don't quit because
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they're weak they quit because they
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focus on What's Missing instead of what
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they already have every morning take 30
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seconds to remind yourself of three
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things you're grateful for your body
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your mind your opportunities why does
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this matter because when you appreciate
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what you already have you stop feeling
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like change is a struggle instead you
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see it as a privilege rule number five
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think Beyond yourself your
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transformation isn't just about you
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someone is watching you maybe it's a
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friend a sibling a future version of
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yourself when you change you don't just
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prove it to yourself you prove it to
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everyone around you that it's possible
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so when you feel like quitting remember
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this isn't just about you it's about
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inspiring someone else to start their
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Journey your 21-day challenge starts now
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here's the part where most people click
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away and do nothing but you're different
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if you're ready to take this challenge
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seriously pick one habit just one and
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commit to it for the next 21 days no
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excuses no half efforts just focused
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disciplined action comment below what
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you're committing to and if you're truly
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serious type I'm in in the comments
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right now because this isn't just about
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21 days this is about becoming the kind
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of person who doesn't just talk about
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change but actually makes it happen
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