This 59 Year Old's Advice Will Change Your Life

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الملخص

TLDRIn an interview, Sylvie shares her journey of retiring early at 55, inspired by a high-stress job that made her prioritize health over money. She transitioned into retirement by investing in dividend stocks, which provide her with passive income. Selling her house allowed her to embark on a solo six-month travel adventure aimed at self-discovery and personal growth. Sylvie emphasizes that many fears associated with retirement are self-imposed and encourages people to recognize they need less money than they believe. She highlights the improved mental and physical health that comes from decreased stress and a focus on experiences rather than material possessions.

الوجبات الجاهزة

  • ✨ Sylvie retired at 55, prioritizing health over a stressful job.
  • 💰 Investing in dividend stocks enabled her financial independence.
  • 🌍 She is on a six-month solo travel journey to explore and grow.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Emphasizes mental health and personal development as key post-retirement.
  • 💡 Advises spending less and focusing on experiences instead of material goods.

الجدول الزمني

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    The speaker introduces Sylvie, a retiree from Quebec, Canada, who retired at 55. Sylvie shares her motivation for leaving her high-stress job, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing health over financial gains. After working for many years and feeling unfulfilled, she made a spontaneous decision to quit, despite initially planning to retire at 60 or 65. Sylvie describes the first six months of retirement as a mix of holiday-like freedom and challenges, particularly during COVID. She highlights her shift in focus from material spending to activities that nurture her mental and physical wellbeing.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:12:01

    Sylvie discusses her transition into a solo traveling adventure, which she undertook after selling her house for a fresh start. She emphasizes the self-growth and confidence that comes from solo travel, sharing her initial fears and the importance of trusting oneself. Sylvie recounts her experiences and encourages others to chase after their desires, asserting that many limitations are self-imposed. Lastly, she reflects on the positive impact of early retirement on her health, both physically and mentally, stating that being free from job-related stress has allowed her to focus on enjoying life and personal growth.

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فيديو أسئلة وأجوبة

  • How did Sylvie make the decision to retire early?

    Sylvie felt high stress at work and prioritized her health over money, leading her to quit without planning.

  • What was Sylvie's initial financial strategy for retirement?

    She invested in dividend stocks, managing her own portfolio after selling mutual funds.

  • What was Sylvie's experience during the first six months of retirement?

    Initially felt like a holiday, but eventually faced challenges due to COVID-19.

  • How does Sylvie manage passive income now?

    She receives monthly dividends from her investments to cover her expenses.

  • What prompted Sylvie to sell her house?

    She needed a significant change in her life and wanted to travel.

  • What is one of Sylvie's biggest fears about solo traveling?

    She had fears about traveling alone but overcame them by trusting herself.

  • What advice does Sylvie have for those hesitant to retire?

    Believe it's possible and recognize that we often need far less than we think.

  • How has retiring early affected Sylvie's health?

    It has improved her physical and mental health by reducing stress.

  • What activities does Sylvie want to pursue during her travels?

    She aims for personal growth, including meditation and cultural exploration.

  • What lesson does Sylvie emphasize about spending?

    She believes that money not spent is money not needed, encouraging a simpler lifestyle.

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التمرير التلقائي:
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    one of the things I like to do on the
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    channel is introduce you to other people
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    that have been able to retire early I
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    think it's super helpful for all of us
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    and today I've got a new friend her name
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    is Sylvie and she was able to retire at
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    55 years old and she's from Quebec
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    Canada and we met here in Guatemala
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    Central America thanks for joining us
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    Sylvie good afternoon aul nice to meet
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    you okay so let's tell our audience um
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    how did you get to the decision where
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    you said I want to
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    retire well for many many weeks I was uh
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    I was working and going to work and I
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    told myself I don't want to be here I
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    don't want to be here what am I doing
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    here and uh so I did that for a little
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    while and uh there was it was a very uh
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    high stress job so I decided that one
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    day I said oh I can quit and uh that's
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    when I took the decision to just quit
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    without any planning whatsoever I had
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    plann like everybody else to stop at 60
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    or 65 uh definitely not at 55 but I did
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    and it's possible and what was the thing
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    that led to you saying you know what I
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    can't quit what were the the the boxes
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    you wanted to check before you told your
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    boss you're quitting and you're retiring
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    well I wasn't actually quite sure if I
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    was uh financially
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    okay uh one thing that I was sure is
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    that uh like I knew is like stress is
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    not good for my body for my health and I
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    decided to prioritize that as opposed to
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    prioritize money and I thought I'm I
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    know I'm doing well enough I don't know
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    how I will but I decided no my health
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    and my uh is is more important to me
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    yeah and Sylvie how how long ago was
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    that that you retired that was four and
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    a half uh years ago already and what was
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    the first six months like what did what
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    did you do the first 6 months was it a
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    difficult transition was it a vacation
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    party feeling how did you feel and how
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    do you feel now well the first Monday
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    was definitely weird because okay what
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    do I do uh it was actually the first few
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    weeks was not too bad because it felt
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    like a little bit like a holiday it's
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    after that it became uh it was difficult
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    because uh well first of all it was
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    during covid not the best time and um
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    well it feel the best thing I've ever
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    done there's not one second that I
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    regret it and the only thing I needed to
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    do is to look at my finances reshuffle a
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    few things and uh just yeah just
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    prioritize something different as
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    opposed to materials you know stop
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    spending and then uh and spend more time
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    doing things that is good for my body
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    and my my soul and my
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    mind so so let's talk about the num the
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    numbers side of things first not the
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    actual numbers for your account but just
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    how you thought about it we were we were
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    talking before we decided to do this
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    interview you know one of the things
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    that's nice is have some form of passive
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    income some people have rental
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    properties some people have you know
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    they've invested in the business but the
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    challenge with that is it's still a
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    headache you're you're you're basically
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    swapping jobs right you're swapping your
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    9 to-5 job for managing the Airbnb
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    managing your rental properties what was
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    your strategy for passive income uh
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    basically well one of my neighbors a
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    friend of mine he many many years ago he
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    told me said we you know invest in
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    dividend stock invest in dividend stocks
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    and I said well I don't know nothing
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    about it and uh so I decided I I had
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    started before retiring I had started to
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    look into stocks and investing and
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    basically I just read a bit more I read
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    a bit more about it and decided to
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    actually sell all my mutual fund that
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    were invested with a an adviser and mve
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    absolutely everything and manage my
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    portfolio and now it's the it's it's
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    been it's been really good otherwise I
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    would not be able to retire so you need
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    passive income I needed that anyway and
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    and so what does that look like for for
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    folks that you know high level might
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    understand it does does your do these
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    dividends get deposited into your bank
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    once a month every six months once a
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    year how does how does that work and
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    then you know how do you get access to
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    that money so when you're here in
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    Guatemala Central America you have
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    access to cash to fund your
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    expenses uh basically uh depending on
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    the stock some stocks pays uh monthly
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    dividends some uh quarterly and some
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    yearly that's rare but uh but most of my
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    stocks are monthly uh dividends so uh at
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    this point I am still uh liquidating uh
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    money that I've got in my business but
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    eventually pretty soon actually next
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    year probably I'm going to have to
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    transfer uh I'm going to have to use
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    this money that I get monthly paid for
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    and uh and I I I'll be able to leave
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    some in my account to reinvest uh by
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    itself so I just reinvest every month so
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    it keeps growing and growing and I'm
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    just sitting at home or I'm sitting in
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    Guatemala enjoying the money so you
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    retiring leaving your job is a big
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    change another big change as we were
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    talking before the interview is making
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    the decision to to actually sell
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    everything and travel you're you're on a
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    tra a solo traveling adventure for 6
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    months share with the with our audience
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    how you came to that decision how you
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    prepared for something like this and are
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    there things that you're worried about
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    uh doing this solo
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    travel uh yes well the first thing the
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    decision to sell my house was because I
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    really need a change I needed a change
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    uh a big change in my life and I thought
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    if I stay here nothing will change so
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    setting my house was one thing and now
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    because I sold my house I said okay what
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    do I do with my time so I decided and
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    I've always been wanting to travel so I
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    decided this is a great opportunity to
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    go travel the big thing is first time
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    traveling on my own and uh I'm in 12
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    days in my um in my trip which I'm going
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    to be traveling for 6 months and so far
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    it's the best thing I've done it's
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    actually uh it's helping me growing as a
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    person and uh to have more
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    self-confidence so yes I still got a
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    little bit of fears but I'm I'm working
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    on them and I don't put any pressure on
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    myself I'm just going to go with the
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    flow yeah so you know um I've done some
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    solo traveling as well and one of the
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    things I like about that is it helps you
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    better discover who you really are at
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    your core right I I tell people it's
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    like I have attachments that have been
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    put on me by society and in in my case I
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    lived in the same home I raised my
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    family there for 25 years I knew all my
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    neighbors really well I knew them really
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    well which is great but then there's
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    also a negative with that right there's
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    there's pieces that they put on to you
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    and when you solo travel over time you
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    start taking those things off one by by
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    one so I I think many viewers are
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    interested in traveling and and doing
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    exactly what you're doing but they're a
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    little afraid to do it what what advice
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    were you a little afraid to do it and
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    what advice do you have for other people
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    that might be a little fearful my god
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    I've I've been thinking about it for
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    months and months and months and not
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    sleeping and what am I doing why am I
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    doing this and uh and but I decided to
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    do it anyway because I knew Within
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    Myself myself this is the change that I
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    need I needed and uh and it's like yeah
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    you just have to take this sleap of
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    faith and and basically it's about
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    trusting yourself and uh and now it's
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    it's I I can't believe how much I've
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    achieved within the last 12 days I've
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    met people I've enjoyed myself I'm
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    walking on the streets with confidence
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    I'm learning Spanish and uh it's we put
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    all the the limitation ourselves nobody
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    else other maybe other people but in my
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    case it was my own limitation and I
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    decided to break this I need to break
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    this because I really want to enjoy my
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    life because I'm retired I've got so
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    much time I want to enjoy every minute
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    of it and and as you look back to your
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    decision to retire and and probably all
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    the trepidations you have the concerns
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    you're many people are hesitant to
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    retire as you look back at that now does
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    that seem silly to you did what what's
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    your thoughts on that concern taking
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    that first jump what ADV do you have for
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    people to actually take that jump that
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    are thinking about doing this uh first
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    of all is to believe that it's possible
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    that we can and and the fact is the
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    other thing is I think money is probably
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    the biggest issue for a lot of people
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    and the fact is we need a lot less than
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    we actually think we need if we if we
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    stop spending money as a friend told me
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    before he said the money you don't spend
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    is money you don't need to earn so stop
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    spending and that's what I did many many
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    years I actually in 2008 I stopped uh
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    wasting money on on uh on fancy
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    restaurants on fancy clothing and just
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    like and just we have enough we have so
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    much more than we need and is to stop
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    spending on things and now I'd rather
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    spend money on traveling and and do
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    things I really enjoy on experiences as
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    opposed to material I got rid of two3 of
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    my stuff and it feel really really
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    freeing so Sylvia you and I are about
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    the same age we're about 60 years old
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    and one of the things I share with my
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    audience I call it my shock statement to
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    really get folks to pay attention and
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    that is unfortunately at our age you and
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    I likely have less than a thousand weeks
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    of healthy active time remaining and so
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    I want to talk about health when you're
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    working it's hard to balance it all it's
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    hard to take time to get healthy so what
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    having been retired for almost 5 years
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    now what impact do you think retiring
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    early has had on your health uh well I
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    think for my for my body it was work it
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    was better because I I'm moving more I'm
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    doing more I've got more time and to
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    exercise and also but I think especially
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    is the mental health as to be stuck in
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    the Box all day long and sitting on the
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    chair and having to deal with uh stress
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    all day long I think this is the worst
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    and that's why that's why a lot of
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    people are sick is because of the the
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    stress that uh that it creates diseases
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    and uh so to have the freedom to uh uh
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    to be I feel I feel happier I feel more
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    relaxed and I feel uh I can take I
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    really can take care of my body and my
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    mind I'm glad you brought up the mental
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    health you know I was talking about the
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    physical health but the mental health is
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    every bit as as important and the
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    reality is work stressful right we we
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    have to deliver I don't care how great
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    of a boss you have you know in jobs we
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    have to deliver and the nice thing about
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    being retired is we get to deliver on
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    the goals that we're excited about uh
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    before I let you go I just want to ask
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    you know you're at the beginning you're
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    at day 12 of your 6mon adventure what
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    are three or four of the things that
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    you're most excited about for this
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    six-month
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    period uh to be honest is to discover
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    who I am uh doing this trip by
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    myself um and and develop my
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    self-confidence and and I this trip is
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    really about uh growth that this is my
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    priority number one that's why I'm doing
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    a a Meditation Retreat and Yoga Retreat
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    and also discover about a different
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    culture and uh Ju Just explore enjoying
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    life I just want to enjoying life at
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    this stage of my life I spent all these
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    years behind in inside a box and now
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    it's like it's really time and I'm still
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    healthy it's like I'm going to do it now
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    and not wait good for you and and Sylvia
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    I want you I want to thank you again for
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    taking the time to talk to our audience
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    and to share your adventure again day2
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    of your six-month Journey have a great
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    time thank you so much it's really nice
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    to bump into you thank you same here
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    bye-bye
الوسوم
  • retirement
  • financial independence
  • self-discovery
  • travel
  • health
  • dividend stocks
  • mental health
  • personal growth
  • solo travel
  • decision making