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what's good guys welcome to another
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boot camp video
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[Music]
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that's right baby
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um but today we'll do a little
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motivational Sunday keep it real short
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for you guys
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like my PP and
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um hopefully you guys can leave leave
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this uh
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with a better mindset okay so I know I
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talk about this a decent amount of times
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but I figured I would
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reiterate it okay so I was playing golf
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today and this is what caused me to
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think about it
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um
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let's go golfing
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um but anyways a lot of you guys are
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really caught up in these short term
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of trading okay you get really upset if
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you lose a single trade for the day and
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then you continue to go trade take more
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trades that day because you lost and not
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just like accepting a loss or just
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accepting a win and sometimes when you
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win you try and
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he's trying
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um take more trades to make even more
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um you guys need to view this
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in a yearly perspective not a weekly or
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a daily perspective
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um and this is very similar to higher
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time frames hold a higher power because
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the longer like the larger outlook on
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life and just even on the [ __ ] charts
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right that's that's the overall what's
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going to happen and you're focused on
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this this this this this this this this
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this this this that makes up the entire
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thing
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so why not just focus on the entire
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output the entire outcome of it and not
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just boom boom boom like day by day
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obviously right you want to be
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performing day in and day out but
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there's going to be some days that you
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can't perform very similar with golf
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right let's say you hit one bad shot bro
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you have a couple other shots to make up
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for it on the on the whole okay let's
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say you have one bad hole cool you have
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17 other holes to make up for that one
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bat hole
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um and it's the same thing with trading
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where it's like okay you have one bad
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day
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that's like one bad shot okay you have
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all the other days in the week to make
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up for it okay let's say you have a bad
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week cool you have three other weeks to
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turn yourself positive for the month
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you need you guys need to be thinking
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about it in those terms not damn I lost
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a hundred dollars today
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what have you made on in the in the week
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what have you made in the month
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how much how bad really is this you guys
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are and I blame social media for this
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you guys your guys is like
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um you're just like perception of time
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is so like
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minute
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um and you think of everything you like
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okay another example
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something that you think is life ending
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and you're going to be sad about it for
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the rest of your life odds are you'll be
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over it in like a week
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it's a very normal thing you become a
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lot more emotional emotional about
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things that you don't necessarily have
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to be emotional about and now after
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figuring all this out through the
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lessons that trading has taught me right
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trading has taught me so many life
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lessons and this is just one of them to
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be able to like one thing goes bad
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during the day or I have one bad day
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we're like where most people would think
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oh my goodness my life is over I don't
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know what I'm going to do
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it's like
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bro this is one day what do you think is
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going to happen tomorrow
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right if you keep that same headspace
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you'll probably be in a very shitty
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position tomorrow if you take a bad
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trade today and then have a terrible
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mindset and continue to trade throughout
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the rest of the day and keep losing over
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and over again because you're trying to
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[ __ ] win back all the money that you
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lost it's going to end up way worse than
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if you're just like all right that's
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okay I took a loss today I'm going to
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stick to my plan and I know I can make
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it back tomorrow and guess what if I
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don't make it back tomorrow if I don't
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make it back in this week guess what I
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got three other weeks in the month to
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make it up guess what even if I fail on
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this month I have 11 other months to
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make it up
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think of it in a year term guys
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it drives me like
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[ __ ] insane
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um like even just reading my Discord
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chat
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um what I'm trading and it got to the
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point where I literally turned it off
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because like
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I'll win a trade
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um
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and like you know they'll be going crazy
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and it's like oh my God he never loses
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he's the goat makes that wins every
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single [ __ ] trade and then I lose
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which is like expected in trading right
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and it's like
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oh my God like he lost like he's always
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loses he he's like he isn't profitable
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he's this and it's like
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and it's just like really funny to see
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because it's like wow this is like the
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exact thing that
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um we're talking about here
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it's just like
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they go off of a single trade
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um as like their whole overall
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idea or just perception of
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um even how they trade not all not this
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has nothing to do with me or my Discord
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but it's like they lose one trade on
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their own
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and they get real they get real upset
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and like I see [ __ ] in my Discord where
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it's like like right now bro on a Sunday
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at the start of Asian session I
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guarantee you if I pulled up my Discord
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right now people would be saying like
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how's gu looking for a long on the five
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minute
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are you like you're [ __ ] bro you're
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actually missing TW like multiple
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chromosomes bro
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and like you would think that this is
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basic knowledge and from basic knowledge
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bruh that I be saying day in and day out
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you would think that right because
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you're like damn tjr I really didn't
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have to see this video because you've
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said this so many [ __ ] times
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but clearly it's not enough for y'all
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clearly this is not it's not working
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like I'm like it's it's everyone it's
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not only the people that are in my
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Discord it's the people that are in Tick
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Tock comments and the people that are
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don't comment at all it's the new
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Traders it's everybody bro and guess
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what guess what guess what it's okay to
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be in that position
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as long as you recognize it and then
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immediately start taking action to get
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the [ __ ] out
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because that's what happened with me and
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guess what I continue to focus on
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[ __ ] day to day today today
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then bro like what the [ __ ] happened I
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just kept losing
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and it only changed until I was like hey
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well if I lose today it doesn't really
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matter because I can win again tomorrow
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and odds that my win is going to eat my
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loss is pretty high
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and odds that I have more wins than
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losses on this week are pretty high so
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I'm actually okay losing today and I'll
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just move on and have a fun fact
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when I lose my trading day ends so much
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quicker than my winners right because my
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winners I've extended take profits I
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stay on the zoom longer because the you
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know Pips are higher and for like take
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profits and stuff
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like
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the losses like it's a perfect time to
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just go clear your head bruh like I take
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a loss and I'm I tell the Discord I'm
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like yo I'll do a trade recap while
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y'all are on here and then I'm getting
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off and I'm done
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and I'm going to go about my day cool I
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finished an hour and a half earlier
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today with work than I then I would have
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if I had won right obviously when you
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win it's still a good feeling and you're
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you're happy that you had to stay on an
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extra couple hours because you made
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hella bread but a loss
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it's a [ __ ] day off
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take like learn from it obviously do
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your journaling do your recap of it all
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right figure out what you could have
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done better
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okay
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but then from there you gotta just let
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it go
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you gotta just
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okay when you lose in the market you
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just have to be comfortable with saying
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I'm done I'm done for today
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all right
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so
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that's something that I want you guys to
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really work on and I'm going to give you
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guys homework I stopped giving you guys
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homework once we kind of finished up
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um all the main stuff uh but today I
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want to give you guys some homework
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because I think it'll be really
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beneficial
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we've done this once before but I want
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to give you guys two things so the first
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thing is
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um again meditation
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um this was a very
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um
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very beneficial for me to understand
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time
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when there is nothing
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so just time in itself
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um so what does that mean and how can
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you figure this out
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um we did this for one homework before
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and if you're thinking oh I've already
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done this I'm not going to do it again
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come on bro
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lazy ass [ __ ]
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you're a [ __ ]
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so just do this it's 30 minutes right
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you know how long 30 minutes is 30
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minutes is not long at all
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until you start meditating okay so what
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I want you guys to do boom boom close
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all your doors turn off the lights open
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up your phone set a timer for 30 minutes
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slide it right underneath your door to
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your room all the lights are off sit
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down in the middle of your room don't
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lay down or else you'll fall asleep like
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a little [ __ ] baby okay sit down in
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your room chest up all right sit down
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and just
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eyes closed and just breathe
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and write in the comments
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where your thoughts are going
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um
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I talk about this or I have talked about
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this before but there's a difference
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between being lonely and being alone
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the most successful people in the world
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Thrive when they are alone
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and with meditation
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it puts yourself in that alone State
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um in the state where you
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you have no one else and nothing else
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not even substance not even something
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for your brain to get distracted by you
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have nothing else besides yourself and
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your own thoughts
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and that can be a very very scary place
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for some people
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and if it's a scary place for you
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that is something you need to understand
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that it is not a good thing to be scared
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or overwhelmed or thoughts bouncing
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everywhere because you're trying to just
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grasp on to something to be comfortable
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within your own mind and within yourself
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if you're the type of person that needs
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to be surrounded by people 24 7.
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look at that from an outside perspective
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that is an issue it means you are not
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comfortable being with just yourself
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that's a self-conscious very very
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self-conscious issue okay you're very
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very self-conscious you're probably
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anxious as well
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um
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in meditation can literally destroy that
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can kill it
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okay it can help you learn how to be
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alone and not lonely
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lonely is an emotion that you feel when
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you're alone because you're not
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comfortable being with yourself and I
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have been very very very lonely before
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um like my first
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year of college was probably the worst
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I've been in terms of Mental Health
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because I didn't talk to anybody
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all I did was traded London session
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and I slept during the day and I wasn't
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seeing the [ __ ] son
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and yes I was working on myself and
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that's where I grew to be able to be
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comfortable alone
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but also
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when I at the start of it when I wasn't
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comfortable being alone when I was super
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self-conscious and I tried to take my
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life multiple times
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that was a very scary place for me
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all right so that's a very space to be
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in
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um when you're not comfortable with
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yourself and you have to be with your
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with yourself right like think about
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this where is these where is this place
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place and time when you can get the most
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amount of work done in the most
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productive work done
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when you're not surrounded by
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distractions
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your phone distraction
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your screen distraction video games
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distraction people distraction and guess
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what it's all distracting you from
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yourself
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stop trying to drown your yourself your
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body and your mind and your own thoughts
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out
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with substances
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with alcohol with drugs with other
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people with distractions
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and Learn To Love Yourself
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and then guess what people are going to
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start saying you have an ego on the
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internet
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um but no for real Learn To Love
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Yourself
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um
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and
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dude your confidence will just go
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through the [ __ ] roof it's actually
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insane
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when you can learn to when you can
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understand yourself because why are we
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self-conscious because we don't we're
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unsure that we fit in we're unsure that
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we don't know if we look good enough
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like we don't we're questioning
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ourselves
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versus when you're not self-conscious
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when you're confident
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am I asking it oh does my outfit look
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good no
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I didn't I'm not asking that I know it
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like it looks good to me so that's all
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that I care about
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I I don't even care what outfit I'm
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putting on I'm going to wear whatever
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the hell I want
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and I'm going to say whatever the hell I
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want and if you get offended by it damn
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that's tough don't be my friend then if
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you get offended by what I say and you
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expect me to change who I am based off
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of just your opinion you got to be
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[ __ ] crazy
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you got to be stupid you think I'm going
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to change how I think or what I do just
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because you want me to
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who said that you're allowed to decide
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my life for me
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and that's
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where the big change happens
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when you start deciding what you do with
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your own life
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when you can start you know making the
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real moves for yourself
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when you start
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you know saying guess what
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I want to lock myself in my room because
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it's time to focus on myself
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all right so your homework
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is to learn how to be alone okay
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meditate for 30 minutes eyes closed
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sitting up straight in your room [ __ ]
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blacked out
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okay
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and let all those thoughts run you
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through your head and you will
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understand how damn long 30 minutes is
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and then you will understand how much
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time you are wasting with distractions
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and then you'll also understand the
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value that 30 minutes can give to you
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while you are alone
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understand that value
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understand that value and you will learn
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you will grow so [ __ ] quick man
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it will grow so quick
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um
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and then your other homework
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um I wanted you to do meditation
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um dude what was the other thing that I
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wanted you to do
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I was dude I forgot it meditation
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um we were talking about time
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meditation
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dude
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what was the other homework
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do you know something about journaling
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journaling something in time
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something about time
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I forgot it if I remember it I'll let
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you guys know in the next boot camp
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video either way do that meditation for
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me and please let me know oh stupid it
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was journaling it journaling what your
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thoughts were during that and then also
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writing down your distractions that you
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have
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what are your biggest distractions
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um
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what are your biggest distractions what
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are the things that take the most time
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out of your day I dare you guys to check
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your screen time I dare you to check
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your screen time on your phone it's not
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gonna be good
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you're gonna see two hours on Instagram
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like or like two hours on Snapchat three
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hours on tick tock
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guess what
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three hours bro
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that's six of those meditations that's
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six of those meditations
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imagine having to do six of those
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straight
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and that's what you spend on your damn
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phone on a single app
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what would happen if you deleted that
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damn app
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you prob you'd probably up your game
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what would happen if you deleted all
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those little dopamine boosted boosting
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apps and just focused on this focus on
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yourself focus on being alone learning
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and learning to love yourself learning
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about yourself because most people that
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are self-conscious don't even know
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themselves
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because they're just mask mask mask mask
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mask mask mask mask
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and that is not a fun spot to be in
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especially when you hit your Breaking
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Point
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because you can keep [ __ ]
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I don't know who I am I don't know who I
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am I'm going to use this I'm going to
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use this I'm going to use this
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distraction distraction distraction
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distraction distraction and you wonder
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why you hate your life
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as you because deep down you genuinely
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hate your life because you're just
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throwing distractions in front of your
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eyes throwing distractions in front of
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yourself
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to hide from your real life what's your
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real life what job are you working how
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much money do you make
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what girls are you talking to are they
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attractive
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do you have money what's your car
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situation are you doing the [ __ ] that
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you actually want to do in life
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or are you throwing distractions in
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front of your face so you don't even see
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what your life really is
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I think it's the second one I like
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coming from personal experience I think
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it's the second one
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because for me that's what it was
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it was big time the second one
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and I had money at the time
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didn't talk to many girls I was always
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sort of attractive but didn't talk to
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many girls
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didn't talk to many people didn't have
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any friends
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and I wasn't social I wasn't comfortable
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within my own body
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I was very self-conscious about my
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thoughts about the way I spoke about the
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way I looked
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money doesn't change that [ __ ]
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um and there's only one one way for you
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to do it is for you to literally open
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your eyes to it and be like damn I'm
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very uncomfortable
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with just me
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how can I get comfortable and how can I
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get confident as myself
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and once you get that damn confidence oh
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man it's it's ball game it is raps
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because guess what every other person in
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the [ __ ] world
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they got no confidence bro little to no
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confidence all the people that you look
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up to they got confidence you guys
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tjr how how are you willing to post
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[ __ ] goofy ass [ __ ] on the internet
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because I don't give a [ __ ] because
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I thought that was my phone
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um but because I don't give a [ __ ] I
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don't care
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because guess what oh what do these
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people think of me I don't care what do
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I think of myself I love myself I'm
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confident in myself and I know exactly
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who I am I know the type of person that
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I am and as long as I can love myself
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nobody can bring me down nobody can do
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[ __ ] to me nobody can damage my thoughts
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no one can damage can hurt me or my
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heart my heart my brain no one can touch
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me
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you can't your words do nothing to me
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it's literally
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and guess what as you start getting
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bigger as your confidence starts going
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higher people are gonna start chirping
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more and more guess what guess what
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they're self-conscious
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because guess what then when they see
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when they see you start doing the [ __ ]
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that they wish they could do when they
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start seeing you being confident when
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they start seeing you get comfortable
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with yourself
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they're like [ __ ] man they're not
00:22:30
they're obviously not thinking like oh
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damn like he's getting he's getting
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confident like time to bring him down
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like some like demon nah bro it's just
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not it's just natural for them
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oh I'm not comfortable with myself and
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then they see someone that is
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comfortable with themselves walking
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straight past them running past them
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doing way better than them
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wait no
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no you can't do that
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you know start throwing chirps guess
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what bro you're getting left in the dust
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you're getting left in the dust
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your words ain't even reaching me bruh
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did the dash already
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all right
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so that being said
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let's get you guys to be some confident
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young men
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sorry but that's going to wrap it up for
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this I don't know why the camera pause
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but
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let's get you guys to become some
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confident ass young men young women
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because
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you know if the trading [ __ ] doesn't
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work out
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let me at least teach you in other
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aspects of life
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um because this video didn't really have
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anything to do with Trading
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but if you're able to change this
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massive aspect in your life
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you'll see so many benefits of it just
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in your life in general and then also in
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trading if that makes sense like by
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changing this
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you're also changing so many different
00:24:02
facets of your life
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um just by making this change
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so that being said I appreciate you boys
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little motivational Sunday for y'all
00:24:13
let's get to bed early
00:24:16
let's lock in for Monday
00:24:18
thank you guys for watching
00:24:20
I'll see you boys tomorrow peace
