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in this video I'm going to get deep into
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what exactly masculine and feminine
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energy is how they are connected and how
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you embody your feminine energy feminine
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energy is being and masculine energy is
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doing this is a sentence you heard me
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say many times before and you may
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already understand masculine energy
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because that is the doing part you may
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know what that means because doing is
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pretty straightforward but what about
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the essence of feminine energy the being
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what exactly does being mean masculine
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energy or doing is an action but being
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is a state so an action can be something
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like sending a text saying hi riding a
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bike or cooking dinner it's going for a
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run but it's also just watching TV doing
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describes any action or even inaction
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but being is your state of being being
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is what you are in any given moment
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being is any statement of I am and here
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are a few examples of being or Iams to
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illustrate what that means I am happy I
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am feminine I am lovable I am
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non-judgmental I am abundant I am rich I
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am approachable I am relaxed I am ready
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I am generous I am angry I am ugly I am
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unapproachable I am stingy being is the
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state of mind and energy you rest in and
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thereby what you are in that very moment
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being is what you are in terms of your
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state of mind and you can do and be at
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the same time in fact you are always
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doing and being at the same time you can
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be happy and ride a bike or you can be
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sad and ride a bike you can be
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judgmental and have a conversation or
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you can be non-judgmental and have the
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very same conversation you can be
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relaxed on a date or you can be tense on
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that date you can be grateful and
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receiving you can be ungratefully
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receiving this is why it is so important
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to understand that men aren't just
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masculine energy and women aren't just
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feminine energy because we must all take
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action and inaction and we must all
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inhabit a state all simultaneously being
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is not the woman energy it is the
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feminine energy and doing is not the man
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energy it is the masculine energy Yin is
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the feminine and young is the masculine
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you can do something for others of
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course but you can also be something for
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others when you are happy and
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non-judgmental people pick up on it the
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same is true if you are insecure or
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tense other people feel your state as
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your energy and there as well as your
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own doing towards and perceptions of you
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depends on the energy you give off what
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being means is a question I get quite a
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lot on my channel and that makes a lot
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of sense because doing is obvious we can
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see it but being can mostly be felt it's
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the underlying current that charges all
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Behavior with an energy a mood or a Vibe
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which is very difficult to mask with
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your actions even short term and near if
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not completely impossible in the long
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term doing will never make you happy or
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content no matter how much you do only
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being will because you can't do happy
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you can only be happy because happy is a
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state of mind that must be rested in
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this fact is what people are actually
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trying to get at when they tell you that
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happiness is a choice certainly doing
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certain things that aligns with you can
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bring you closer to more pleasant states
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of being such as the state of Happiness
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by easing the road it is more difficult
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to be happy if you have miserable habits
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and routines that naturally bring you
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negative of emotions on the contrary
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it's easier to be happy if you do things
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that naturally bring you feelings of joy
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and I'd argue that your finest job in
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terms of feminine energy is to make sure
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that you keep yourself happy because
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it's going to color everything else be
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in colors everything you do with an
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energy just how doing can color the
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state of mind that you rest in feminine
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and masculine energy or doing and being
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is perfectly and irrevocably tied in an
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Infinity knot together and you cannot
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separate one from the other this knot is
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presented as the symbol of Yin and Yang
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and there is always a bit of Yang in Yin
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and there is always a bit of Yin in Yang
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an example of the latter is the action
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of receiving which I often mention on
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the channel and I talk about receiving
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as a feminine energy but technically
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receiving is still an action although a
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passive action and so it's likely the
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action that's most akin to being and
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that is because receiving is the action
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that allows and makes space for other
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people's doing so something like
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receiving is the drop of Yin in the
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young that doing is doing and being is
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interconnected both in us as individuals
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but also in relationships so I'll
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illustrate with an example of a
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relationship between a man and a woman
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when you have a man who embodies a lot
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of healthy masculine energy which means
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healthy masculine doing habits such as
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providing and doing things for you this
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man's match is someone who can be for
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him and I don't mean being something for
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him or for his sake I mean being
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something pleasant for or to yourself in
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his presence to have positive states of
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Mind in his proximity a healthy man who
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loves and wants the best for you will do
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things to make you happy he is doing to
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affect your being it is the masculine
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taking care of the feminine and the
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feminine then nurtures the masculine in
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return with its being the wounded
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masculine however may do or take action
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to make you miserable and feed off of
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your negative emotions such as
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actionably even if subconsciously
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attempting to make you angry or jealous
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and then perversely enjoy it regardless
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of whether it is negative or positive
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doing and being are interconnected and
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the two affect each other always when I
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tell you to focus on being as part of
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embodying your feminine energy it means
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starting to concern yourself much less
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with what you do and direct that Focus
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onto what you are being in any given
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moment when it comes to feminine energy
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in terms of other people start by
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focusing Less on what you do for others
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and more on what you are around others
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when trying to be more happy trying to
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be more approachable or trying to be
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anything at all really we tend to over
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focus on what to do to invoke those
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feelings and this way is fickle and
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fleeting being is although connected to
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doing not doing and so you actually
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don't have to do anything to be you can
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make the choice to be something by
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choosing to feel and be that way simple
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but I know much easier said than done
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especially if you are a beginner to this
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concept and this concept may even sound
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completely bogus to those who have never
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meditated on a state of being but it is
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true nonetheless you can be something by
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entering that state consciously and one
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way to practice is to meditate on that
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feeling but I won't go more into that
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right now I'll make another video on
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that later instead the healthy masculine
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cares more about what you are than what
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you do in terms of what it is looking
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for in the feminine and the healthy
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feminine cares more about what you do
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which is why why you as a feminine woman
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has to vet for integrity in men above
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anything else and I'm making a video
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about this as well because this is so
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important healthy feminine energy is
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life-changing to a masculine man and
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vice versa as women who on average are
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the yin of people we are often more
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affected by what amen does and doesn't
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do and a man is much more affected by
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what a woman are and aren't but of
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course please don't hear this as the
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extreme which is that men can only do
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and women only are because that is not
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the case there is yin and yang and yang
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in Yin and every rule has exceptions if
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you feel that you fall outside of this
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Norm or pattern that is also okay but we
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all need someone who can be something
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for us it is not enough to just do think
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of something like parents who don't
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understand why their children feel that
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they have failed them because of how
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much they've done for the child in such
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cases it may be because even though the
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parent did a lot what they were in their
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state of being may have been negative or
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in other ways lacking for that specific
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child the parent may have done enough
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but the child needed them to be
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something else if you enjoyed this video
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about masculine and feminine energy you
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may enjoy some of my other videos such
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as this one about feminine Essence thank
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