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so America is approaching its most
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conservative era in recent history
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following Trump's Landslide Victory
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suspicious Landslide Victory against
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commala Harris suspicious until you look
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at the data then this otherwise elusive
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election becomes abundantly clear Trump
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won and he did so overwhelmingly with
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the male vote the majority of men across
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every age demographic voted for Trump
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60% of white men 55% of Latinos and 21%
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of black men and while that number
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represents a significantly smaller share
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of the Trump male vote it is important
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to note that that number has been
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steadily growing every election year
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since the era of trumpism yep that's
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right your dad your uncle your man and
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that man that's not really your man
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that's that other lady's man that you be
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sleeping with they're all Europe up so
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instead of being damsels in distress and
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waiting for a man to come and save them
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the sisters are doing it for themselves
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taking to the internet streets in large
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numbers to say that actually we're going
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on strike we're participating in the 4B
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movement you guys feel spicy cuz I do no
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matter how loud how kind respectful how
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cute men will still hate you women are
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talking about bringing that 4B movement
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right here to the United States the
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operation 4B refuse to date men get
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married have sex with them or children
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the resistance has begun honey no
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contact with men thank you but the
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question becomes will this withdrawal of
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be enough to move men into
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Progressive action can millions of women
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actually be mobilized into ax strike in
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an era of sexual Liberation and
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heightened sensuality and most
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importantly because this isn't the first
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time that women have gone on a strike if
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the movement were to be successful how
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do we ensure that women don't forgo
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their sexual freedom in an effort to
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protect their freedom to be sexual let's
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talk about
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it hey home girl homeboy and homies
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welcome and welcome back to my quarter
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of the internet a quarter where pop
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culture Mees critical thought and medium
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ghetto Antics if this is your first time
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ever seeing my face my name is Herby
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Herby ralis and if this isn't your first
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first time ever seeing my face then you
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know that we're in a specific location
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shout out to my real home girls home
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boys and homies watching at home yes
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that's right we are in the HBCU study
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hall so much drama but yes her's black
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college and university study hall this
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is a series on my channel for in-depth
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researched video essays on a myriad of
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sociological phenomena you can think of
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this as like the study hul for your fave
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but also fun sociology course I'm not
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the professor We're All in This Together
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yes that is in the Book of Proverbs okay
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you better go to Bible study the
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intention of this space is to intersect
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pop culture with politics and today
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we're going to be exploring the limits
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and challenges of a sex strike in
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today's social climate and the
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sociological landscape that created the
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necessity for such a protest I.E The
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Straits are not okay okay women are
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going in this direction and men are
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going in that direction politically they
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are diverging it's the liberal ladies
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versus the conservative
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Co be nice guys and actually to be
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honest with you I am going to give men
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in particular siset men grace to the
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extent that the data compels me to do so
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now because I do view this study hall as
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a space for study and life as the
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ultimate test I want to empower you with
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all the resources that it took to create
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a video essay like this in the
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description box down below just in case
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a tries to check you and real life
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if you begin to parot the things that I
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say and the girls say oh girl you just
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made that up no it's based in fact honey
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so in the description box down below
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you'll see a link to my substack sorry
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yes my substack and it's called as you
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guessed the HBCU study hall as we're
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moving into a climate that is
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increasingly less inclusive of
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marginalized folks it's important for us
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to create spaces where people can get
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trustworthy information and Community
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for me writing and telling stories and
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creating space for fact-based
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information and sometimes Kikis is what
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I do so if you want a more analytical
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approach or to really dig into the
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research yourself the link will be in
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the description box for you to join me
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over on my substack or if you just want
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to support your boy her click the link
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in the description box it's free now
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let's talk the gag is Project 2025 has
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been the agenda all along so before we
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can address the alleged rise and
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conservatism around young men across
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racial and economic lines and the social
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landscape that that's created and even
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before we can seriously talk about the
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women L resistance that has come as a
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result of that we must begin with what
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we know versus what we think we know
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because this threat to women's lives is
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about so much more than abortion rights
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this is an intentional roll back of
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women's rights in the space of Education
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in the workplace and of course in the
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space of healthcare so firstly what we
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know Donald dump said himself and this
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is a direct quote after 50 years of
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failure I was able to kill roie Wade and
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of course he could say that because
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while roie Wade was overturned under
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Biden Administration it was undoubtedly
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due to the three conservative justices
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that he was able to appoint during his
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term making the Supreme Court a
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conservative majority that it was even
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able to be overturned in the first place
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a reality that will remain because of
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course conservative justices Alo who 74
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and Kisha Thomas who 76 are going to
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retire under Trump's Administration why
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wouldn't they and be replaced by younger
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likely more radically conservative
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justices who will up our lives for the
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next 40 years welcome to to America this
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is the America y'all want it right this
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is the America you've got but I want to
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be clear here and say this isn't just
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coming right this is here 41 States
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already have abortion bands in place 13
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of those 41 have full abortion banss and
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28 of those 41 have abortion bans based
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on gational duration so I'll say this
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sister if you are in any one of these 13
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states you better pack up your your
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kitty and dip Christina Christina
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Christina's gone because again abortion
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is only the beginning of Trump's plan to
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fully Implement project 2025 on day one
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with that being said now on to what we
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really don't know despite Trump over and
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over again trying to distance himself
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from Project 2025 for now because the
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spirit is telling me and I'm listening
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is telling me girl he's going to be
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emboldened duh but again despite him
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consistently trying to distance himself
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from Project 2025 GOP supporters and his
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own employees his own projected
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employees have other things to say just
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hours after the election results Matt
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Walsh a popular right-wing commentator
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on X said now that the election is over
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I think we can Finly say that yeah
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project 2025 is the agenda
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LOL
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LOL and I'm sitting reading that like
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come to find
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out everybody here I hate Steve Miller
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whose organization America First was
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listed on The Advisory board for project
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2025 was just announced that he would be
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the chief of staff for policy for Trump
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for policy but Trump trump Trump's
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policies have nothing to do with project
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2025 everybody here I hate Trump also
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named Tom homman a contributor to
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project 2025 his borders are and a CNN
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review found that at least 140 people
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who worked in Trump's administration had
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a hand in Project 2025 so the question
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becomes and it's very clear if you ask
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me who are you going to believe Trump or
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your own eyes and when I say that Trump
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doesn't want to stop at abortion it's
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because project 2025 does not sister
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he's coming for your
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check do you hear how dry that sounds
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yeah that's how dry your pockets are
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going to be because pj2 wants to remove
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equality on the basis of sex in the
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workplace by weakening title 7 of the
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Civil Rights Act immediately if you're
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not familiar title 7 prohibits sex
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discrimination in the workplace but wait
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how will that work if they just remove
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title 7 people are going to push back
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right I'm just confused oh I love a
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fellow student who's paying attention
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and asks good questions come to the
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front I have a sticker for you where's
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my stickers okay just come to the front
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and take an emotional sticker love that
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for
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you well first he's going to start by
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narrowing the meaning of sex in title 7
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to the biological binary meaning of sex
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and I know there are some CIS women real
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women in the comments and not real you
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know you real real n you're real okay
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there are some real women in the
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comments who are going to say oh girl
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thank you because that doesn't affect me
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that doesn't affect me I'm a real woman
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Natural Born I came out of my mom a
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woman so he just need to get them
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traines together because girl they
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taking up our space well well no so this
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is going to directly impact you how do I
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know that the very reason why sex or the
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definition of sex was expanded was
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because of a sis hat Natural Born real
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white woman by the name of by the name
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of Anne Hopkins Anne Hopkins a
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relatively well-off white woman was
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discriminated in her workplace for not
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being feminine enough not being woman
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enough right and so as a result of her
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lawsuit they've had to expand what sex
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or the protections the scope of
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protections that are covered under title
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7 and expand that definition of sex in
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order to do that right in order to
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expand those protection if you're
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unfamiliar there was a Supreme Court
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case price Waterhouse versus Hopkins in
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which she sued her employer for being
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denied partner because she quote should
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walk more femininely talk more
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femininely dress more femininely wear
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makeup have her hair styled and wear
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jewelry at the Supreme Court today the
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issue was sex discrimination and what to
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do when a woman claims that she wasn't
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being judged by the same standards by
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which men are judged a Natural Born High
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earning white woman's femininity was
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called into question not 35 years ago
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and you think they're not coming for you
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sister they are and this is not me even
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I don't say that with any real Delight
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right that's just my charismatic
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delivery I'm actually disgusted by that
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I just want to underscore that my
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grandmother has heels older than your
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right to wear sneakers in the workplace
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and honestly of course like I always say
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my grace extends and not even my grace I
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just feel like it makes sense that a lot
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of us wouldn't know this Civics is not
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taught in school and honestly the
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conservative government would have it so
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you don't know this they would have it
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so you're ignorant to these facts they
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would have it so that you're dare I say
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dumb to all of this because they're also
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coming for your education rights of
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course many of us heard them say that
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they want to get rid of the Department
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of Education but what I don't think many
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of us also process is that the
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Department of Education enforces Title 9
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Title 9 prohibits discrimination on the
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basis of sex in education I mean other
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things as well right it's not exclusive
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to sex but the purview of this video is
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directed at women F and folks of that
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particular experience without Title 9 it
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becomes that much easier to discriminate
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against women and gender noncon ing
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folks of course they intend to do this
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by narrowing the definition of sex in
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Title 9 to biological sex recognized at
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Birth and if we've learned anything from
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our mother white an Hopkins Natural Born
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That is not exclusive to trance that's t
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r a n c e trance it's not exclusive to
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the trance girls and boys that means any
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woman or girl they deem unfeminine
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enough which if we're going to be real
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about the historical fact of who has
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been deemed unfeminine throughout the
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history of this country that's going to
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be black and brown women that's going to
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be fat women that's going to be
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conventionally unattractive women that's
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going to be any strong woman who
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challenges the hierarchical patriarchal
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power structure in a way that the boss
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the man and charge doesn't like that's
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not soft that's not demure that's not
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woman likee and I do want to say this if
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these women are losing rights to
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education in the workplace that affects
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career folks as well it must be
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underscored and it kind of be overstated
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so bottoms listen
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up bottom as our sisters are protesting
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by packing up the I'm going to need you
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to boycott that bchi cat boycott that
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BCI cat because the trade not only voted
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against your right to marry but also to
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love and to whoever you'd like I'm 26
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years old and the right the federal
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right of men to be able to engage an
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intimate acts with other men and just
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use their bodies how they'd like is
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younger than me Lawrence vs Texas was
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the ided in 2003 which was the case that
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made it legal for men to engage in sex
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with one another that made it legal for
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us to have uninhibited control over our
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bodies sound familiar it should because
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the Supreme Court just overturned 50
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years of precedent with roie Wade and
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what was their excuse they said roie
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Wade wasn't deeply rooted in this
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nation's history and traditions in fact
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on the contrary they said that it was
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more in line with American tradition to
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prohibit abortion on the pain of
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criminal punishment translation those
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said Uno reverse we're going back
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whether you like it or not but we're not
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going back news bash I think we are I
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just want to say this if you think that
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they're not coming for your right to
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control your gay body sister they
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certainly are and this is why I say the
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things that I say to myself all the time
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right it makes no sense it is literally
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illogical for you to be queer and a
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misogynist for you to be a woman and
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homophobic the policies that uphold your
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rights to education your rights in the
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workplace your right to your very own
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body are inextricably linked to mine as
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a queer person there is no world in
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which they say eat the gays and they
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don't also eat the women Wait no that's
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not what not in that kind of way sister
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don't get excited stop eating crab legs
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how would you feel if somebody cracked
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your legs open and ate your insides I
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feel
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good the sisters are doing it for
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themselves the girls and the gays versus
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everybody else so the 4B movement is the
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Talk of the Town right now and I'm sure
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there will be many more movements led by
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women career folks and other
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marginalized groups who will be
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disproportionately impacted by trumpism
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but what really is the 4B movement and
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will it work well um I believe I studed
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this earlier but the 4B movement
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originated in Korea and it stands for
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non-marriage non- procreation non-
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relation and non sex right so it was
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meant to serve in direct opposition to
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South Korea's patriarchal State and to
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combat pronatalist policies which is
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essentially the idea that the government
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can treat women's bodies as reproductive
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tools and of course with the looming
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threat of organized and state sanctioned
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bodily violence against women American
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women have stood together and said girl
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we want to adopt that Movement we want
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to adopt that practice and
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unsurprisingly it's been met with a lot
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of opposition in particular by sis head
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men yeah because they hate women so
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that's an oversimplification it's an
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oversimplification we're going to get to
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the men in just a moment again I
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appreciate when we can talk as students
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to one another and get into the thing so
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come get an imaginary sticker okay I'll
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have one next time we meet up that's for
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you listen this could absolutely work
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right sex strikes have happened for a
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long time throughout our history and not
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just American history but across the
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globe immediately I think of um Lima
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gabo of Liberia she ran I took a course
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on this in college um African women
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studies hold on let me Google the name
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of the movement because it's escaping me
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ah the women of Liberia mass action for
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peace right so that movement certainly
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included a sex strike along with
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nonviolent in-person protests but a sex
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strike was integral to their movement
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they wanted to end the Civil War in
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Liberia and they were successful in
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doing so but not without immense
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sacrifice right the women were already
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at high risk for sa and joining the
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resistance just put a bigger Target on
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their back but the women United and
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fought in person and stuck to their guns
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regardless this is where I get a little
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not worried but I'm a I raise question
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around whether or not American women
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will be able to do a similar thing
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whether they can adopt a very similar
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kind of resistant strategy because we as
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a developed Nation have been coddled by
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convenience culture and whenever we feel
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inconvenienced our response is
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slacktivism it's black squares over real
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black liberation I.E the black lives
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matter movement of 2020 we can think to
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the watermelon protests online that were
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anti you know g-side and folks may say
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that they were success uccessful and
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reducing the profits of certain
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businesses by boycotting those
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businesses but as soon as the election
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went away that you know folks didn't
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want the girls were like girl I'm going
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to Starbucks I'm good I'm going to get
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my coffee okay and in some ways I
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understand black folks and black folks
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only who showed up in disproportionate
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numbers to save democracy unlike any
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other voting Block in this country to
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feel like hey our lives are always on
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the line and we showed up in you know
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record numbers 92% of black women 77% of
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black men voted for KLA Harris and so we
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showed up we did our part every other
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voting block it doesn't seem like you
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showed up and did your part unless
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you're lgbtq right 86% of lgbtq folks
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showed up and voted for Kamala so shout
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out to y'all love the gates the gates
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get it the gays always get a golden star
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from me come get your stick or thank you
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but we do have to have a serious
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conversation about sustaining these
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online movements Beyond slacktivist
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solidarity and developing tools for that
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right developing tools that can address
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apathetic concerns that happen in any
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movement that needs to continue to fight
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a regime of in this case a potentially
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fascist regime and you know what's funny
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when I first saw the video going viral I
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believe it was Jada M's video who was
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going viral about the 4B movement I
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thought to myself are American women
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United on what is a women's issue uh
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because kamla ran a very Pro woman or
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woman targeted campaign for sure to
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encourage women to get out and vote for
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their reproductive freedom and while I
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do think it should have been focused
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more on women's freedom in general as
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opposed to isolating the you know
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reproductive Freedom issue even though
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we know that abortion is a Hot Topic so
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I can kind of understand but I wish we
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really address what was really at stake
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the girls were worried about their coin
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no but they're coming for your ability
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to work for real in the workplace
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without protections against sexism so
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were you really concerned but
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nonetheless I do think that her message
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to American women was direct and Sate
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because it had to be in order for her to
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win she needed a record number of women
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in PC voter turnout period full stop and
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unfortunately 53% of white women chose
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not to show up they actually chose to
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vote in the opposite direction 38% of
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Latinas said girl not today sister not
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today we're voting for Trump and though
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that may seem like a relatively low
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number I do think it's important to note
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that relative to Biden and Hillary
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Harris got significantly less of the
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Latina vote this is also evidence of one
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of my biggest gripes with the rights
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perversion of identity politics which is
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like oh Dei hires are only trying to
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trying to get people on the basis of
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their identity but being a woman of
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color didn't allow her to win this woman
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of color group right it didn't give her
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an unfair Advantage even when running
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against a man who said that he's going
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to deport your abelas and your Theos
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they're out of here the girl still said
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well the price of eggs were cheaper
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under Trump now black women I have
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nothing to say to you but keep doing you
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sister you did what you always doing you
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showed up for democracy everybody gets a
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sticker don't even come up it's right
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under your desk it's under your desk yes
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CU under of your Des yes of course I
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consider you I'll live for you but
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let's be clear women prioritize issues
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that are not connected to their gender
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clearly they prioritize family despite
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the fact that pj2 wants to undo Fair
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access to education for their daughters
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they prioritize economics despite the
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fact that Trump wants to make it
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difficult for women to navigate the
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workspace but you know what I will say
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in particular white women and this is
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just to my mind feel like they are
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exempt from every rule this is not going
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to affect me in a very serious way at
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least not in the way that it's going to
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affect these other people so why not
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their voting trends tell us that they
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feel this way every election or
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that they just prioritize patriarchy
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over their own real autonomy they are
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deeply invested in the way that this
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hierarchical structure benefits and
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oppresses them without real
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consideration for the fact that it is
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going to regress so many other women of
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color uh you know poor and middle class
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women it's giving regression sister get
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your suffer shoes out
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cuz we'll be marching and you know and
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and to be fair we've got to be honest
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and say that it's not just white women
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who have bought into patriarchy right a
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lot of different women have bought into
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this idea of like traditionalism many
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women won't subscribe to the 4B movement
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for the same reason that they won't vote
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for a woman this is why when we're
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exploring options for resistance and I
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say we because I don't have to be a
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woman to fight for your freedom clock
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which actually brings me to my point
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which is women need like-minded allies
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or leftist Progressive women need
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like-minded leftist Progressive allies
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that's not to suggest that women cannot
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affect change on their own or that the
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sisters can't do it for themselves right
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but that is to assert that there is
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power and an intersectional approach
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towards Freedom so in what ways can
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queer folks 86% of whom voted for KLA
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Harris show up for the women of America
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and then the inverse right and vice
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versa in what ways can black men 77% of
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whom voted for KLA Harris show up for
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the women of America and vice versa
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because those of us who are oriented
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toward as an intersectional framework or
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an intersectional approach to Justice we
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know we're not free until we're all free
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and you know one last cical note before
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I move on to the next chapter if we're
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being honest heterosexual women want to
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be in relationship with heterosexual men
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they do they do they do and I respect it
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so these Tik toks and these reals and
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these shorts saying just go out and get
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a vibrator and leave the men at home I
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don't know if it's doing enough to
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address the very real fact that there
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are many women heterosexual women who
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want to experience a physical kind of
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intimacy with men and there are going to
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be women who make exceptions for men
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that they find to be exceptional the
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girls who claim to be socially
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Progressive but are secretly sprinkle
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sprinkle girls traditionalists he come
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around with the right kind of bag and
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it's like well girl he trying to take me
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to Cheesecake I don't know I got to give
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him some you know what I'm saying and
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even if there was a way to get 150
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million women Plus on board with this
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and to agree to have a disapproving
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vision of the direction that America is
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going in and even if the vast majority
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of men were good men who didn't harm
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women in their process of this strike
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that's just going to create an
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environment in which what has become
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incred incredibly less accessible Right
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comes worth more supply and demand and
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so men are going to be doing more to get
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that thing right in this scenario that
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I've just created which means you know
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there will be women many who will fold I
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don't know those are just some of my
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cynical thoughts what do you think let
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me know actually comment down below what
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are you thinking and if you don't have
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any thoughts for real for real you don't
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have anything extensive to right just
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write whether you agree with what I just
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said my cynical thought or whether
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you're like I don't I don't agree with
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that so right I agree or disagree in the
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comments thank
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you so we're here more men voted in 2024
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for Trump than they did in 20120 and in
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2016 so it is safe to say that Trump's
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Victory is due to in large part the
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straight male vote hence why we're here
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and I've been suggesting that there's
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been a rise in conservativism amongst
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young men in this country but I don't
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know if that's the best way to word that
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much of the data that I've engaged with
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so that's axos articles a Harvard survey
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Gallup polls suggest certainly that
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women have become more liberal in the
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past 25 years so right in the as we
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moved into the 2000s women have become
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more liberal particularly in the past
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well in the era of trumpism with 40% of
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young women identifying as liberal but
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young men's political orientation has
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remained relatively the same with the
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plurality of young men identifying as
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moderate 29% identified as conservative
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25% as liberal and 44% as moderate but
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it is safe to say right leading if we
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looking at those exit polls so your
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boyfriend voted for Trump what we going
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to do and how did we get here I'll say
00:24:10
that the Democratic party has attached
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themselves to Progressive movements like
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me2 and you know lgbtq Pride movements
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and so in some ways this is this is in
00:24:20
the data men have reported feeling left
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out or forgotten by the Democratic party
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like their voices are being ignored and
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we could respond with sarcasm like oh
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how does it feel to be seen and not
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heard but clearly if we're going to put
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on our political pragmatism hat
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invalidating the feelings of men is not
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working for us it's not an effective
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strategy because one in the words of
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democratic strategist Jimmy carll the
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same man who said it's the economy
00:24:45
stupid he also said that 48% of people
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who vote are males do we mind if they
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have some consideration now women are a
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powerful group who can do it on their
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own in my view America's greatest
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superhero has been a woman a black woman
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Harriet up to freedom but this is where
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I say again we have to listen to the
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emotion of men in this country because
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the women's Liberation it it must be
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intersectional it must be if we want to
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have affecting and Lasting change it has
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to be one that considers class and race
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and sexuality and a myriad of other
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social structures that impede men from
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being successful and achieving the
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fullness uh of the American dream the
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movement for Equity needs men period
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full stop and I'm not talking about the
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31% of Republicans who say that women's
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gains have come at the expense of men
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I'm not even talking to the 45% of
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Republicans who feel like America has a
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negative view of masculine men and
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masculinity and that they're feel
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they're being punished for that this
00:25:43
country is an imperialist regime that
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has separated families and slaughtered
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children okay and none of those Wars or
00:25:51
those horrible Acts were led by women no
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space for femininity there America
00:25:56
empowers and emboldens masculinity and
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Men supls some men are so lost to their
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fantasy that they can't see fact I'm not
00:26:03
trying to talk to them but the data does
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support that a plurality of men support
00:26:07
the feminine and feminine advancement
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just not in this election and I think
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there's a world in which we can have
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complex conversations that cater to the
00:26:16
feelings of men but also respond
00:26:18
actively to the fears of women and fem
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to quote my President we all truly do
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have so much more in common than what
00:26:25
separates us I don't know these are just
00:26:27
my thoughts I have so much more to say
00:26:29
on the topic but I will probably
00:26:32
continue that conversation in written
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format so I can be really direct and
00:26:35
clear about my thoughts if you want to
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