Keys To Building Character | Dr. Myles Munroe | MunroeGlobal.com
Zusammenfassung
TLDRIn this powerful message, Dr. Miles Monroe emphasizes the significance of character, which he defines as fixed and predictable, akin to a statue. He explains that true character is developed through trials and challenges, which produce perseverance and ultimately hope. Monroe encourages listeners to embrace difficulties as opportunities for growth and stresses the importance of integrity in leadership, where one's actions align with their words. He uses biblical references to support his message, particularly Romans 5:3, which highlights the value of rejoicing in sufferings. Overall, the message is a call to develop strong character through life's challenges, leading to stability and trustworthiness in leadership.
Mitbringsel
- 💪 Character is developed through trials and challenges.
- 🗿 True character is fixed and predictable, like a statue.
- 🌧️ Embrace difficulties as opportunities for growth.
- 📖 Romans 5:3 highlights the value of rejoicing in sufferings.
- 🤝 Trust is built through successful testing over time.
- 🛡️ Integrity means aligning actions with words and beliefs.
- 🌟 Character leads to hope and stability in leadership.
- 🔍 Predictability in character shows strength and consistency.
- 💡 Self-discipline is essential for maintaining character.
- 🌈 Difficulties can purify and reveal true character.
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Dr. Miles Monroe emphasizes the importance of character, stating that challenges and troubles keep one humble and help develop a strong character. He uses Nelson Mandela as an example of someone whose character remains unchanged despite accolades due to his experiences.
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Character is defined as something fixed and predictable, akin to a statue that remains the same regardless of external conditions. Monroe encourages listeners to reflect on the stability of their character in the face of life's storms.
- 00:10:00 - 00:15:00
Monroe discusses the source of character, referencing Romans 5:3, which states that suffering produces perseverance, and perseverance produces character. He encourages embracing challenges as opportunities for growth rather than viewing them negatively.
- 00:15:00 - 00:20:00
The speaker highlights that true character is revealed through stability and integrity, which is built on self-discipline and a commitment to values. He stresses that character is developed through trials and tests, not merely through blessings.
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Monroe explains that character leads to hope, and that leaders must remain steadfast during difficult times to inspire hope in others. He emphasizes that character is formed through adversity and that one should not fear challenges.
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He uses the analogy of statues to illustrate that character is predictable and stable, regardless of external pressures. Monroe encourages listeners to view challenges as opportunities to develop their character and remain fixed in their values.
- 00:30:00 - 00:35:00
The speaker shares personal anecdotes about the importance of character in leadership, stating that trust is built through a history of integrity and perseverance. He emphasizes that true leaders are those who remain unchanged despite external circumstances.
- 00:35:00 - 00:48:34
Monroe concludes by discussing the concept of integrity, which means being whole and consistent in one's actions, words, and beliefs. He stresses the need for leaders to be integrated and trustworthy, as true holiness comes from being one with oneself.
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Video-Fragen und Antworten
What is the main theme of Dr. Miles Monroe's message?
The main theme is the importance of character and how it is developed through trials and challenges.
How does Dr. Monroe define character?
He defines character as something fixed, predictable, and stable, similar to a statue.
What role do trials play in developing character?
Trials and challenges are essential for developing character, as they produce perseverance and ultimately hope.
What does Dr. Monroe say about integrity?
Integrity means being one with oneself, where actions, words, and beliefs align.
How should one view difficulties according to Dr. Monroe?
Difficulties should be viewed as opportunities for growth and character development.
What does Dr. Monroe say about trust in leadership?
Trust is built through successful testing over time, and character is the source of trust.
What biblical reference does Dr. Monroe use to support his message?
He references Romans 5:3, which discusses rejoicing in sufferings because they produce perseverance.
What is the significance of being predictable in character?
Being predictable in character means that one remains stable and consistent regardless of external circumstances.
How does Dr. Monroe suggest we handle pressure?
He suggests embracing pressure as a means to develop character and not to fear it.
What is the relationship between character and hope?
Character leads to hope, as a stable character provides assurance and trust in difficult times.
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- 00:00:01thank you for joining us for another
- 00:00:03powerp packed Message from Dr Miles
- 00:00:05Monroe provided by Monroe Global
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- 00:00:10transform followers into leaders and
- 00:00:12leaders into agents of change we hope
- 00:00:16that this message is a blessing to you
- 00:00:18as you advance your life and discover
- 00:00:19your purpose now let's go into the
- 00:00:24message one of the best ways to keep
- 00:00:26yourself humble is for God to keep
- 00:00:28giving you trouble
- 00:00:35uh heavy testing keeps you
- 00:00:40humble you can never for
- 00:00:42example get Pride to come out of Nelson
- 00:00:46Mandela no matter what he receives you
- 00:00:48know accolades mean nothing to
- 00:00:51him because he's been through
- 00:00:55test he has character he's
- 00:00:58stable uh
- 00:01:00the power of character let's talk a
- 00:01:02little bit about character what it is
- 00:01:04and I defined this for you before please
- 00:01:06write this definition down and I think
- 00:01:07everyone of you need to focus on this
- 00:01:09definition the word character the Hebrew
- 00:01:11word for character from the Bible we'll
- 00:01:13show you in a minute where it actually
- 00:01:15appears in scripture in the book of uh
- 00:01:17Romans as well but uh this word
- 00:01:20character it means fixed it also means
- 00:01:24predictable uh the word character also
- 00:01:26means image or statue and I think that's
- 00:01:29the beauty of
- 00:01:30of character and the word character
- 00:01:32means something that is fixed it doesn't
- 00:01:35move something that is predictable that
- 00:01:38means it doesn't change You can predict
- 00:01:43it the word for the word character in
- 00:01:47the Hebrew language is the same word a
- 00:01:51statue a
- 00:01:53statue and last night we went downtown
- 00:01:57after the service and I saw all these
- 00:01:59statues
- 00:02:00down there by the Parliament building
- 00:02:02and I've been coming here for years and
- 00:02:03those statues are still there and what's
- 00:02:06amazing is they're doing the same thing
- 00:02:07I left them doing last
- 00:02:10year and no matter how the weather
- 00:02:11changes if it's cold hot
- 00:02:14rainy they're still the same that's the
- 00:02:16word in the Hebrew language for
- 00:02:18character a
- 00:02:28statue why is those why are those
- 00:02:30statues so
- 00:02:32strong I mean the winter in this city is
- 00:02:36cold and S Vincent church is still
- 00:02:38smiling with a
- 00:02:45cigar pigeons come upon his head and
- 00:02:48release themselves and he still
- 00:02:56Smiles one day it may get up to 80° and
- 00:02:59he still
- 00:03:02smiles and then it gets down to zero
- 00:03:05minus Z and he still Smiles in other
- 00:03:07words he has character the question is
- 00:03:09how did he get that way and that's what
- 00:03:11we want to talk about these few minutes
- 00:03:12how do you develop a character that
- 00:03:14doesn't change that is so strong that
- 00:03:15when the storms pass you're still
- 00:03:18smiling and when they come back they
- 00:03:20still meet you doing the same thing
- 00:03:21you've been doing you're the same way
- 00:03:23you're the same married to the same
- 00:03:24woman as character
- 00:03:29sometime I go to visit pastors and their
- 00:03:32wives
- 00:03:33changed so what happened to your last
- 00:03:35wife I
- 00:03:40remember this one really got me and this
- 00:03:42is not to attack anyone or belittle
- 00:03:44anyone but this one got me I went to
- 00:03:46speak to Rama col's Church in South
- 00:03:49Africa one time and I spoke there that
- 00:03:52year the next year I went back his wife
- 00:03:55was in
- 00:03:56there so I'm waiting to meet his wife
- 00:03:58okay I'm sitting in the office May
- 00:04:00wife and uh it's just a year
- 00:04:03later and he says uh we're not together
- 00:04:06anymore this man had the largest church
- 00:04:10in the country changed wife in one
- 00:04:13year so I decided I can't go back to
- 00:04:15this church anymore so he invited me a
- 00:04:18number of times and he doesn't
- 00:04:19understand I can't
- 00:04:22come I don't travel for
- 00:04:24money you can't pay me to compromise
- 00:04:27with you
- 00:04:31no
- 00:04:39character when you get to know me which
- 00:04:42I think some of you may have over the
- 00:04:45last few years my first question is how
- 00:04:47you doing and my second question is
- 00:04:49always how's your wife am I right why I
- 00:04:52interested in your church
- 00:04:56first third question how your kids
- 00:05:01mhm
- 00:05:04because your character is revealed in
- 00:05:07your
- 00:05:12stability you fixed
- 00:05:17predictable character is defined by me
- 00:05:19as the manifestation of self- Integrity
- 00:05:23in other words you are integrated in
- 00:05:24yourself so well that you are one all
- 00:05:26the time one with yourself
- 00:05:30it's based on self-discipline you
- 00:05:32committed yourself to live on a certain
- 00:05:35level of standards that you won't
- 00:05:36compromise on that's character and the
- 00:05:39character also is regulated by a set of
- 00:05:41values and morals that you've decided
- 00:05:43that you will submit yourself to the
- 00:05:45character is is is a complicated thing
- 00:05:47but but you got to learn how it
- 00:05:50develops and uh if we're going to talk
- 00:05:52about standing the storm you know
- 00:05:54nothing complicated but standing through
- 00:05:55the storm and being faithful I mean you
- 00:05:57know it's not complicated all you need
- 00:06:00is
- 00:06:05character every time you pass a statue
- 00:06:07from now on I want you to not ignore it
- 00:06:10just look at it again for a few seconds
- 00:06:12and drive on why you looking at
- 00:06:18character weather changes moods
- 00:06:22change environment change but the statue
- 00:06:25doesn't change
- 00:06:32all right this what I wanted to to share
- 00:06:34with you if you didn't get to share and
- 00:06:36Pastor wanted me to finish this for his
- 00:06:37sake I believe cuz he want to make sure
- 00:06:40he gets it before I leave what's the
- 00:06:41source of character how do you get
- 00:06:42character all right here's a surprise
- 00:06:44I'm going to read a verse from your
- 00:06:45Bible it's important for you if you get
- 00:06:47a Bible to sometime to read this very
- 00:06:49important verse cuz in this verse the
- 00:06:52Bible tells us how to develop
- 00:06:56character and it's surprising Romans 5:3
- 00:07:01says not only so and don't forget that
- 00:07:04this is the context so Paul is talking
- 00:07:07in this context about
- 00:07:09Glory Glory means true nature the true
- 00:07:11nature of a thing okay Paul is saying
- 00:07:13how do we handle the glory in our lives
- 00:07:17the true nature of our full
- 00:07:20weight and in verse 1 and two he talks
- 00:07:23about
- 00:07:27rejoicing we reice joice he said in the
- 00:07:31knowledge of the promise of the glory of
- 00:07:36the Resurrection that's verse one and
- 00:07:38two I'm about to read verse three okay
- 00:07:40but I want to give you context so Paul
- 00:07:42is talking about how we Rejoice
- 00:07:45because of the preaching and the message
- 00:07:49of the coming of the Lord and the
- 00:07:50resurrection of Christ and we'll live in
- 00:07:53glory one day and all this stuff he said
- 00:07:55we we rejoice in that message everybody
- 00:07:58clear on that and that's true when you
- 00:08:00start preaching on the you know the
- 00:08:02second coming of the Lord and the rest
- 00:08:04dead shall raise and the Trump of God
- 00:08:06shall how does the church
- 00:08:07respond preach yes sir woo and they
- 00:08:11dance he said now that's good he says
- 00:08:14but not only do we
- 00:08:17rejoice when we hear about the message
- 00:08:21of the promised
- 00:08:23Glory he says but we also rejoice in our
- 00:08:28sufferings now this word suffering is
- 00:08:30important cuz I want you to make sure
- 00:08:32you don't misunderstand it he's not
- 00:08:34talking about
- 00:08:36sickness the word here suffering is the
- 00:08:39word
- 00:08:40palus palus in Greek and here's what it
- 00:08:44means it means
- 00:08:46testings it means challenges it means
- 00:08:50points of
- 00:08:52stress or points of
- 00:08:55conflict it means points of pressure in
- 00:08:58other words he says we rejoice when we
- 00:09:01Face
- 00:09:02challenges we also rejoice when we come
- 00:09:05to a point of stress where the pressure
- 00:09:08is on the storms are raging and
- 00:09:10nothing's working and no one's with you
- 00:09:12and everyone's abandoned you ain't got
- 00:09:13no money no nothing he says that's he
- 00:09:16said Rejoice at that moment now write
- 00:09:19the word Rejoice down because this is a
- 00:09:21word that we don't talk about too much
- 00:09:23the word Rejoice is a grammatical
- 00:09:26prefix the word joice is a word re is a
- 00:09:33prefix write the word joy down it is a
- 00:09:35word we don't use it anymore but it's a
- 00:09:37word joice means to
- 00:09:40LEAP to
- 00:09:43LEAP like
- 00:09:46this that's joice to re means to what do
- 00:09:50it again so to Rejoice means you keep
- 00:09:56leaping that's Rejoice he says when you
- 00:09:58run into trouble
- 00:09:59you feel I'm in trouble see now doesn't
- 00:10:02make sense to you does
- 00:10:05it that's exactly what he
- 00:10:18means the average person does not leap
- 00:10:22around
- 00:10:23gladly when they lose
- 00:10:27everything or when people people
- 00:10:29disappoint
- 00:10:30them or when they
- 00:10:33fail or when pressure
- 00:10:37comes or when they face a big challenge
- 00:10:41they don't jump
- 00:10:43around and laugh and celebrate and yet
- 00:10:47the Bible says we also do that when we
- 00:10:52Face challenges and
- 00:10:54pressure now how can a person do that
- 00:10:59he tells us why read the next statement
- 00:11:04for we know in other words you only leap
- 00:11:08around if you know
- 00:11:11something if you know that this
- 00:11:14difficulty this challenge this
- 00:11:16disappointment this pressure that you
- 00:11:17under the storm the the tsunami as we
- 00:11:20heard about all the the struggles he
- 00:11:22says if you figure out that this
- 00:11:25struggle this problem this this
- 00:11:28humongous
- 00:11:31challenge is going to benefit you then
- 00:11:35you rejoice that it
- 00:11:38arrived let's see what it does he says
- 00:11:40for we
- 00:11:43know that that challenge that
- 00:11:47test that
- 00:11:49struggle that pressure will produce what
- 00:11:54perseverance and perseverance will
- 00:11:56produce what character there is he said
- 00:12:00look the only way to develop character
- 00:12:02is
- 00:12:10trouble see your concept of storms is
- 00:12:14it's something
- 00:12:17dangerous I've come to tell you that
- 00:12:19ain't so your concept of a storm should
- 00:12:22be this is opportunity for me to develop
- 00:12:27character
- 00:12:29[Applause]
- 00:12:42one of
- 00:12:43the one of the uh and this is very funny
- 00:12:47you know I get it sometime one of the
- 00:12:50one of the
- 00:12:52major emphasis in
- 00:12:55scripture to represent the character of
- 00:12:58God is
- 00:12:59have no fear do you agree do you agree
- 00:13:05in other words there's one thing that
- 00:13:06Jesus hated and it was
- 00:13:09fear he kept on telling his disciples Be
- 00:13:11not Afraid Be not Afraid stop being
- 00:13:13afraid and he normally told him that
- 00:13:15when everything was wrong and bad me
- 00:13:17here the storms getting ready the ship
- 00:13:19up he says Be not
- 00:13:21Afraid they thought they saw a ghost He
- 00:13:23says Be not
- 00:13:27Afraid the waves were coming into the
- 00:13:29boat and the mask was break and he says
- 00:13:32Be not Afraid be of good cheer be of
- 00:13:36what every time they were in stress he
- 00:13:39would say Be not
- 00:13:44Afraid here's what I'm my point you come
- 00:13:47sit in my seat brother aru it's anointed
- 00:13:49right here praise
- 00:13:54God
- 00:13:56fear is not supposed to
- 00:14:00be a part of
- 00:14:03your
- 00:14:08character people come to me sometime
- 00:14:10they says the Lord spoke to me and I got
- 00:14:13a word from the Lord for you and I
- 00:14:14listen said Lord told me that in the
- 00:14:16next few years you're going to go
- 00:14:17through a lot of
- 00:14:20trouble I feel like laughing you know
- 00:14:23it's going to be tough tough times are
- 00:14:25coming for you and your ministry
- 00:14:29say the Lord yay yay
- 00:14:31yay okay and I say thank you very much
- 00:14:38next I mean what's the problem here what
- 00:14:40are you telling me this
- 00:14:44for If any man would live Godly in
- 00:14:46Christ
- 00:14:48Jesus it comes with the territory
- 00:14:59I was talking to a pastor this morning
- 00:15:02one of your pastors here in the city was
- 00:15:04chatting and he said you
- 00:15:06know I went through a tough time in my
- 00:15:08Ministry I'm listening to him he said
- 00:15:10you know uh they broke in they break
- 00:15:12into our new building and stole
- 00:15:15everything I said really I said
- 00:15:20next what's the next move
- 00:15:24on I said what are you talking I said
- 00:15:26man that's
- 00:15:27normal I said oh you finally got yours
- 00:15:30stolen see everyone got to get it stolen
- 00:15:33everyone got to get something stolen why
- 00:15:35that comes to the
- 00:15:41territory and I told them my story I
- 00:15:43said when we started they came in and
- 00:15:44stole everything
- 00:15:48too now we got one of the largest
- 00:15:50buildings in our
- 00:15:51country we work millions of
- 00:15:54dollars that was a test for character
- 00:16:00not to steal your equipment it was to
- 00:16:03test your stickability to your
- 00:16:10vision if a thief could steal your
- 00:16:15vision he wasn't after the stuff he was
- 00:16:17after the
- 00:16:19vision if he stole your vision by
- 00:16:22stealing a speaker you ain't had no
- 00:16:23vision in the first
- 00:16:26place my point is car
- 00:16:30is formed in the furnace of
- 00:16:36Affliction never be afraid again of
- 00:16:39anything that goes bad Paul says for we
- 00:16:42know that that test that pressure that
- 00:16:46point of conflict that trial it shall
- 00:16:50produce what perseverance and
- 00:16:52perseverance produce what character you
- 00:16:55don't learn character from the Holy
- 00:16:58Ghost
- 00:17:01you learn it from the struggle you're
- 00:17:03going
- 00:17:06through
- 00:17:09pressure now here's what I like about
- 00:17:11this last part it says and character
- 00:17:12produces what hope this is important you
- 00:17:15see the reason why we are losing hope in
- 00:17:18so many leaders is because they break
- 00:17:21Under
- 00:17:25Pressure what we need is hope we need
- 00:17:28somebody to stand up in the middle of
- 00:17:30the storm and say you all stay with me
- 00:17:32we coming through
- 00:17:36this see why cuz I'm fixed I ain't going
- 00:17:41nowhere everything around me will fall
- 00:17:43except me because I know what's around
- 00:17:46me is moving away and off me things that
- 00:17:49are holding me back the wind is blowing
- 00:17:52the Dust Away From Me not blowing me
- 00:17:54down let me give you an example the word
- 00:17:57character is the the same word as statue
- 00:18:00in the Bible like the images around here
- 00:18:03statue okay there's a woman in my
- 00:18:06country right now I tell you what she is
- 00:18:09she's sitting down in a
- 00:18:11chair downtown in my country right in
- 00:18:13the front of the house of parliament
- 00:18:16she's there right now in the Bahamas
- 00:18:19thousands of miles away I know she's
- 00:18:21there secondly she is wearing a
- 00:18:23wonderful dress a long dress she has a
- 00:18:25book in her hand and then she has a a uh
- 00:18:29a
- 00:18:30mace or
- 00:18:32scepter she's wearing a
- 00:18:34crown and she's
- 00:18:37smiling her name is
- 00:18:40Victoria Queen Victoria of England she's
- 00:18:43sitting in my country right now in a
- 00:18:45chair downtown in the front of the
- 00:18:48Parliament building and I know what
- 00:18:50she's doing she's smiling and she has a
- 00:18:53book in her hand and a
- 00:18:56scepter I'll tell you about another
- 00:18:57statue is the statue you right now in
- 00:19:00the front of the Parliament building
- 00:19:01here in
- 00:19:03London and a guy with a long trench coat
- 00:19:07with a cigar and a hat and a cane and
- 00:19:12he's
- 00:19:13smiling name is s Vincent
- 00:19:16churcher
- 00:19:17now how can I predict them like
- 00:19:23that I can also say that if you curse at
- 00:19:26them they'll still smile at you
- 00:19:29I can predict that remember character
- 00:19:32means what it means
- 00:19:36predictable I know what they would say
- 00:19:38to you if you call them
- 00:19:43stupid they'll still smile at
- 00:19:46you it's
- 00:19:49character if you gossip about them and
- 00:19:51tell bad stories about them they still
- 00:19:53smile at you look at this
- 00:19:55smile they wouldn't curse back they
- 00:19:57wouldn't attack you they're
- 00:20:01fixed okay here's a big
- 00:20:04secret how did they get that way let me
- 00:20:06how they got that
- 00:20:07way they got that way because
- 00:20:12somebody
- 00:20:14took in the case of Victoria for example
- 00:20:18they took a piece of
- 00:20:20stone a big piece of stone and they took
- 00:20:24a
- 00:20:25hammer and a chisel
- 00:20:29and they beat that stone and beat it and
- 00:20:34beat it I mean they beat it with all
- 00:20:37their mights they beat it and they as if
- 00:20:40they were
- 00:20:41possessed they beat it and every time
- 00:20:43they hit it Sparks flew and rock flew
- 00:20:46everywhere and as if they were trying to
- 00:20:48kill
- 00:20:49something and the longer they put
- 00:20:52pressure on that stone pressure and beat
- 00:20:54it the stone begins to fall away from it
- 00:20:59and then this image begins to
- 00:21:02appear and they keep beating it and
- 00:21:05beating it and pressure and struggles
- 00:21:08and Challenge and beat and things flew
- 00:21:11away from it and this image begins to
- 00:21:21appear and after years months of
- 00:21:24beating this beautiful woman sitting in
- 00:21:27a chair was left
- 00:21:31and then they took the woman
- 00:21:35after she had been
- 00:21:37pressured and
- 00:21:40beaten
- 00:21:41Afflicted and they put her in the center
- 00:21:46of the city for everyone to come and
- 00:21:49take photographs with her they come by
- 00:21:52the millions in my country on the ships
- 00:21:55and on the plains 4 million tourists a
- 00:21:57year come to my Little Island 7 mil wide
- 00:22:00to stand by this woman who was beaten
- 00:22:02cuz they want to take a picture with her
- 00:22:04they want to be seen with
- 00:22:06her they think she is
- 00:22:09beautiful but they don't know the
- 00:22:17price that's the Hebrew word for
- 00:22:20character
- 00:22:24statue does it
- 00:22:26move stable
- 00:22:29110 degrees in the Summer She Just
- 00:22:33Smiles torrent rains in in April coming
- 00:22:37down like like wood rain she just sits
- 00:22:41in the rain doesn't
- 00:22:43move birds come and drop all over her
- 00:22:46she
- 00:22:47smiles two years ago a man who was not
- 00:22:51too mentally sound threw red paint all
- 00:22:53over her and she didn't
- 00:22:56move sat there they cleaned her off and
- 00:23:00she never
- 00:23:04moved it's
- 00:23:06character Paul
- 00:23:09says trials and tests and
- 00:23:12pressure we know that they produce
- 00:23:20character I'm really not impressed by
- 00:23:22what you're doing I'm more impressed by
- 00:23:24what you went through
- 00:23:34I don't really trust what you're
- 00:23:37doing cuz anybody could do that with a
- 00:23:40little bit of
- 00:23:41money I don't know what you went through
- 00:23:44to get to this
- 00:23:46point because that's my protection in
- 00:23:49trusting
- 00:23:52you character
- 00:23:58God doesn't trust anybody until he tests
- 00:24:03them read your
- 00:24:13Bible and that's how car is
- 00:24:16developed through tests trials tests
- 00:24:20don't come to destroy you they come to
- 00:24:21take away all the draws James says he
- 00:24:25says when tests and Trials Come welcome
- 00:24:26them as friends for they have come to
- 00:24:29purify
- 00:24:31you James chapter 1 Welcome them as
- 00:24:35friends first Peter says when you have
- 00:24:37tribulations embrace them for they have
- 00:24:40come to make your faith like pureo to
- 00:24:43take away all the garbage that's hiding
- 00:24:45the beauty of who you really should
- 00:24:48be God don't purify You by blessing
- 00:24:55you we keep asking for blessing God said
- 00:24:57not what you need right now you need
- 00:24:59some
- 00:25:01character so he makes your assistant
- 00:25:03pastor turn against
- 00:25:05you he's testing you it ain't your P
- 00:25:09Pastor the problem he watching what you
- 00:25:10going to do now see how you going to
- 00:25:12react to this are you going to be just
- 00:25:14like the statue it's okay man it's mine
- 00:25:18we going to be okay Ministry going to be
- 00:25:21fine it's all right this is God's
- 00:25:24work his character
- 00:25:33test you know why God doesn't begin your
- 00:25:36church with a th people cuz you ain't
- 00:25:37got no character
- 00:25:39yet so he makes you work with 20 people
- 00:25:42for two
- 00:25:44years why he ain't testing the people he
- 00:25:46testing
- 00:25:49you is your call only related to crowds
- 00:25:52or to a
- 00:25:57conviction car
- 00:26:05it's leadership is it's amazing don't
- 00:26:09trust anyone without a
- 00:26:13history say it again never trust a man
- 00:26:15without a
- 00:26:16history when you meet somebody if they
- 00:26:18say trust me don't trust him cuz trust
- 00:26:21is
- 00:26:22not demanded it is
- 00:26:26earned and so a person earn their trust
- 00:26:29by the scars on their back not the
- 00:26:30medals on their chest anyone could buy a
- 00:26:33medal today put it on a chest cheap porn
- 00:26:36shops you could buy medals but boy I
- 00:26:38tell you real leaders wear their medals
- 00:26:39on their
- 00:26:41back not their chest because they go
- 00:26:44through
- 00:26:46struggles here's something you want to
- 00:26:48think about car is the source of
- 00:26:51trust say that with
- 00:26:53me see when people have watched you been
- 00:26:56tested over a long time then they could
- 00:26:58they trust
- 00:27:00you they you have to earn
- 00:27:03it my wife bought me a Rolex some years
- 00:27:06ago for my birthday present and a Rolex
- 00:27:08is amazing watch when I opened the box
- 00:27:10there was a little booklet in it the
- 00:27:12book was big as a Bible almost I said
- 00:27:14wait a minute all I want to do is tell
- 00:27:15the time they said no this is not a Time
- 00:27:18piece you can buy a Time piece anywhere
- 00:27:19this is not a Time piece this is
- 00:27:25history and I began to read that book
- 00:27:28then they went back to 1618 1872 I'm
- 00:27:31like what is this they went back to his
- 00:27:33they said look this watch is not just a
- 00:27:35recent
- 00:27:38idea so you don't pay 20 for this
- 00:27:43watch cuz you're not buying time when
- 00:27:45you buy a
- 00:27:46Rolex you are buying
- 00:27:49trust guess what it's guaranteed for
- 00:27:55life never got to buy another watch
- 00:27:57forever can you imagine that other words
- 00:27:59they are so sure that this watch has
- 00:28:02gone through the testing of time matter
- 00:28:04of fact one of the photographs in the
- 00:28:05book is an elephant standing on the
- 00:28:09watch another photograph is the is the
- 00:28:12is the watch at the North Pole in the
- 00:28:14ice in other words they took it through
- 00:28:16all these
- 00:28:18tests and they keep adjusting it to make
- 00:28:20sure that the time worked no matter what
- 00:28:22conditions it was under are you with me
- 00:28:25yes
- 00:28:27sir so the watch has character now you
- 00:28:31don't pay for Rolex to tell
- 00:28:38TI you buy
- 00:28:42character that's how you make it through
- 00:28:44tough times the tough times are good for
- 00:28:47you say it the tough times are good for
- 00:28:50me say it again see once you get that
- 00:28:53settled you'll be happy in life forever
- 00:28:59I never have a bad day because all my
- 00:29:01days are good no matter what's happening
- 00:29:04in the
- 00:29:06day that verse we read just now is
- 00:29:08important verse he says we Rejoice we
- 00:29:10leap around in difficulty because we
- 00:29:13know something what do we know that this
- 00:29:16pressure is going to produce character
- 00:29:18I'm going to be fixed when this is over
- 00:29:20it's going to take away all the rock
- 00:29:23that is hiding My True
- 00:29:25Image it comes to strip me
- 00:29:28of What's blocking my
- 00:29:34Purity sometime the people in your life
- 00:29:37people come to you work with you for a
- 00:29:39while and suddenly they became become
- 00:29:41like enemies you try to figure out what
- 00:29:43happened here well God sent them into
- 00:29:46your life to chip you
- 00:29:50away you called them an irritation
- 00:29:52you're right they are the
- 00:29:54Sandpaper they've come to purify some
- 00:29:57things out of your life
- 00:29:59see I like what the Bible says but
- 00:30:01people it says there's a time to
- 00:30:05embrace it's a time to let people go and
- 00:30:08when it's time to let people go you keep
- 00:30:10embracing them they become an
- 00:30:14irritation don't ever hold on to what
- 00:30:17God already let go
- 00:30:23of it's a time to
- 00:30:25gather and the time you to scatter
- 00:30:32so i' I'm I'm learning more and more to
- 00:30:34hold people very Loosely in my life very
- 00:30:37Loosely loose in case it's time for them
- 00:30:41to go because you become too
- 00:30:47attached cause a problem for you
- 00:30:50character is a source of trust number
- 00:30:51two trust is the currency and the
- 00:30:53economic environment for leadership the
- 00:30:55economy of leadership is really ran on
- 00:30:58currency of trust you cannot lead people
- 00:31:00who don't trust you and the only way to
- 00:31:02trust you is for you to develop
- 00:31:04character which comes through what test
- 00:31:07here's my definition of
- 00:31:09trust and it's a pretty practical and
- 00:31:12simple one trust is the product of
- 00:31:14successful testing over a long period of
- 00:31:18time trust is a product of test over
- 00:31:21time when you've been tested over a long
- 00:31:23period of time then people can trust you
- 00:31:24so that Rolex watch have been tested
- 00:31:26over a long period of time so we trust
- 00:31:27it so we spend you know £4,000 for
- 00:31:31one why we're not buying
- 00:31:41time you know that's why when when I go
- 00:31:43to speak to a corporate company and they
- 00:31:45give me you know £5,000 for an hour and
- 00:31:48a half they're not buying a
- 00:31:51person they're not even buying a
- 00:31:55lecture they're buying
- 00:31:58trust over
- 00:32:05time colen Powell spoke the other day
- 00:32:10and his speaking engagement was for 60
- 00:32:12SEC 60 Minutes 60 Minutes
- 00:32:17$215,000 for 60 minutes I can't wait to
- 00:32:19get
- 00:32:20there what are you paying
- 00:32:24for study is history
- 00:32:34why is Jesus so valuable to us study his
- 00:32:37history look what he went through for
- 00:32:41you I wonder why you give him your life
- 00:32:44he's so valuable you pay for him with
- 00:32:46your
- 00:32:49life
- 00:32:52trust every time the Lord told man to
- 00:32:54trust him God always gave the man a long
- 00:32:56list of credits Miss let me say it again
- 00:32:58cuz that's a very important thing every
- 00:33:00time God commanded the people to trust
- 00:33:01him he gave them a list of
- 00:33:05credits he says trust in me why for it
- 00:33:07was I who bought you through the Red Sea
- 00:33:09it is I who destroyed Pharaoh it is I
- 00:33:12who bought the plagues in other words he
- 00:33:13gave you
- 00:33:15proof I went through something so trust
- 00:33:22me when you stand before your people as
- 00:33:24a pastor or maybe in a department that
- 00:33:27you work in to work what do you tell
- 00:33:29them as
- 00:33:32credit said bring me your offerings why
- 00:33:34should I bring you my offering give me a
- 00:33:36list well list I've been around for 20
- 00:33:39years same
- 00:33:42wife same
- 00:33:44vision my kids are still here in
- 00:33:47order bring your offerings to
- 00:33:50me okay I could trust
- 00:33:53you we lost two buildings but I'm still
- 00:33:55standing
- 00:33:58we had Church in a in a park under the
- 00:34:00tree for three years I'm still standing
- 00:34:02man I give you a th000 pounds every time
- 00:34:04you talk why you got a credit list I can
- 00:34:07trust you you got character you didn't
- 00:34:09change through all the
- 00:34:13storms that's
- 00:34:15leadership it's
- 00:34:18leadership I remember when pastor aru
- 00:34:20called me one day he said pastor miles
- 00:34:22man I got you know I been watching him
- 00:34:24he said pastor miles boy I got a chance
- 00:34:25said what he said we got to move out of
- 00:34:27the building
- 00:34:28and we don't have no building to go
- 00:34:31into he thought I was going to panic I
- 00:34:33say I said you'll be okay I said man
- 00:34:36look around believe
- 00:34:38God I said I told him I said look I said
- 00:34:40this ain't your ministry it's God's
- 00:34:42Ministry remember that I said I said
- 00:34:44this God's work put the pressure on God
- 00:34:46go to
- 00:34:49sleep tell the people you meeting next
- 00:34:51week find somewhere and
- 00:34:55meet that's was car to
- 00:35:02test God could give you a building every
- 00:35:05day ain't the building that he's after
- 00:35:07it's the character he's after so he
- 00:35:09takes the building away and he watches
- 00:35:11to see what's
- 00:35:13left you know what Jesus told Peter he
- 00:35:15said Peter Satan's going to sift you
- 00:35:18like wheat but I'm praying only for one
- 00:35:21thing what was that that your faith your
- 00:35:25belief in what I told you stand and
- 00:35:28strong when everything is gone do you
- 00:35:30still believe in the
- 00:35:34vision it's character he was building
- 00:35:36character Christ backed off and let the
- 00:35:38devil strip
- 00:35:41him God said to Satan go ahead attack
- 00:35:50job then up the character
- 00:35:53see and when Moos when job came through
- 00:35:55that thing God says I like this guy God
- 00:35:58gave him seven times more than what he
- 00:36:00had because he could trust him with it
- 00:36:05leadership is is tested in in the
- 00:36:10furnace of Affliction to produce a fixed
- 00:36:13statue you're the same you're the same
- 00:36:17you're the same no matter how famous you
- 00:36:19think I get I'm the same I'm the same
- 00:36:21guy you meet all the
- 00:36:22time I'm worth more than I did last year
- 00:36:25financially I'm the same guy
- 00:36:29I see some guys go on television all a
- 00:36:30sudden they don't speak to
- 00:36:31nobody what's their
- 00:36:34problem all of a sudden they got 10
- 00:36:39bodyguards three people carrying their
- 00:36:41bags and I'm like what's your
- 00:36:50problem then when they change their
- 00:36:52titles that's
- 00:36:54worse you know it's like what's your
- 00:36:57problem
- 00:36:58these people have no
- 00:37:01character I'm not calling anybody's
- 00:37:03names okay I just see the stuff and I'm
- 00:37:05amazed at I'm like what happened to you
- 00:37:08I knew
- 00:37:10you I used to know you how you get like
- 00:37:18this they are not predictable you don't
- 00:37:21know what they're going to be next
- 00:37:24year anyone understand what I'm talking
- 00:37:26about see leaders ship is
- 00:37:33fixed I was telling them at the table I
- 00:37:35says you know some of the guys are Senor
- 00:37:36country guys look I got an OB from the
- 00:37:42green I don't put that behind my name I
- 00:37:45could it opens doors for me in
- 00:37:47Buckingham
- 00:37:48Palace but what an
- 00:37:52OB I got things to do for the kingdom of
- 00:37:54God
- 00:38:00how does it change
- 00:38:02you when you are in the
- 00:38:06sunshine and the lights are on are you
- 00:38:09still the same person see that's the key
- 00:38:12are you
- 00:38:15fixed people wonder why favor keeps
- 00:38:17coming to me I don't look for it it just
- 00:38:19comes to me opportunities big doors open
- 00:38:22why one guy told me one time he says you
- 00:38:25know why we want you cuz we were
- 00:38:27watching you for 10
- 00:38:32years people watching to see if you are
- 00:38:40stable I got a call from a publisher
- 00:38:42last week one the biggest Publishers in
- 00:38:44in the world he said uh we'd like to
- 00:38:47publish one of your books this one of
- 00:38:48them big ones okay this where they pay
- 00:38:51you half a million dollar just a
- 00:38:54sign I said why you want me he said been
- 00:38:57watching
- 00:38:59you your books are consistent your
- 00:39:01message is consistent your life they
- 00:39:04says is consistent your marriage is they
- 00:39:07watch everything why they don't want to
- 00:39:08publish an author who next year will
- 00:39:10make them
- 00:39:17ashamed
- 00:39:22trust my encouragement to you is stay in
- 00:39:26the battle
- 00:39:27endure and enjoy the
- 00:39:30storm why because we know say it because
- 00:39:35we know that this trial will produce
- 00:39:38perseverance which will produce what
- 00:39:40character which will bring hope to
- 00:39:45people whenever you lose hope just look
- 00:39:48at me call
- 00:39:49me everything you go in through next
- 00:39:51year I've been through 10 years ago you
- 00:39:53call me say I say it's okay you'll be
- 00:39:55okay man I been through that yes sir mhm
- 00:39:59yes sir they abandoned me lost all the
- 00:40:00money lost this yes sir the devil wiped
- 00:40:02me clean but look at me now baby you
- 00:40:05going to come through
- 00:40:07this stability brings hope to
- 00:40:16people don't ever be impressed by Fame
- 00:40:19be impressed by
- 00:40:22faithfulness trust is not a
- 00:40:25gift to Res
- 00:40:29result let me last last point I want to
- 00:40:31make and we discuss this a little bit is
- 00:40:34integrity boy this the word integrity is
- 00:40:36interesting word it means to be
- 00:40:40one you know the word
- 00:40:44integrate that's what it means it means
- 00:40:46to be one Integrity is from the word
- 00:40:48integrate to be
- 00:40:51one to be one integrity means to be one
- 00:40:54with yourself
- 00:40:57when I was studying the word Holiness
- 00:40:59some years ago I was amazed that the
- 00:41:00word Holiness is misunderstood I didn't
- 00:41:02realize I was that stupid
- 00:41:04myself because I thought Holiness meant
- 00:41:06you know long robes and no earrings and
- 00:41:10no lipstick and you know ugly
- 00:41:14face you know looking Pious or something
- 00:41:18and I realized the word Holiness was not
- 00:41:21that at
- 00:41:23all the word Holiness is defined and the
- 00:41:27Hebrew in context it means
- 00:41:30pure but the word
- 00:41:32pure is deeper than that is that's from
- 00:41:35the word pure
- 00:41:39motive what that means is to be holy
- 00:41:41means that you never have an alterior
- 00:41:43motive whatever you say is exactly what
- 00:41:45you mean that's that's
- 00:41:48Holiness whatever you do is exactly what
- 00:41:51you intended to do as
- 00:41:55Holiness so Holiness means that you are
- 00:42:01integrated here here's a way to say it
- 00:42:04Holiness is what you say what you
- 00:42:08do and what you
- 00:42:11are are the
- 00:42:15same and that's tough think about
- 00:42:18it it means to be one with yourself what
- 00:42:21you say what you do and what you are are
- 00:42:26the same
- 00:42:29so to be holy means whatever you do is
- 00:42:33exactly what you said because that is
- 00:42:36what you
- 00:42:38are so a holy man or holy woman can
- 00:42:42never do something other than what they
- 00:42:45are nor can they do something that they
- 00:42:47didn't say nor can they say something
- 00:42:50they didn't mean nor can they mean
- 00:42:52something they didn't do nor can they do
- 00:42:54what they didn't say nor can they say
- 00:42:56what they didn't what and they cannot
- 00:42:59want what they didn't
- 00:43:01be confused yet see holy means that the
- 00:43:05person is one with
- 00:43:07themselves they are integrated that's
- 00:43:10why the number one word to describe God
- 00:43:11is the word holy God is completely
- 00:43:15integrated whatever he says he will do
- 00:43:18if he said it he will do it if he promis
- 00:43:20it he'll bring it to pass and by the way
- 00:43:22God doesn't do things apart from himself
- 00:43:25let me explain God doesn't give love he
- 00:43:28see it's it's to be holy you can't just
- 00:43:31do
- 00:43:32something you you do what you
- 00:43:37are God doesn't do good things God is
- 00:43:41good see he when you're holy you can't
- 00:43:45pretend we need leaders like that
- 00:43:48man they are the same person in the
- 00:43:50Pulpit as they are in the
- 00:43:55bedroom Unholy people
- 00:43:57people they say one thing and they do
- 00:44:00something else they promise you I work
- 00:44:03in the nursery and then they last for
- 00:44:05two
- 00:44:06weeks and they quit and don't even tell
- 00:44:08you they quit they just don't show up
- 00:44:10these are Unholy
- 00:44:13people all through the
- 00:44:19church so a man is Unholy if he tells a
- 00:44:22woman I will be with you to the rest of
- 00:44:24my life I vow to to H and have you to
- 00:44:27cherish you and right and then after 3
- 00:44:29years he leaves you that's an Unholy man
- 00:44:32and he's a
- 00:44:37preacher
- 00:44:39strange Jesus Christ didn't do
- 00:44:43salvation his name is savior see he's
- 00:44:46holy the Bible calls him God's holy
- 00:44:48child that's an important statement he's
- 00:44:53integrated Mary told Jesus uh yes uh my
- 00:44:57brother will be raised when the
- 00:44:58resurrection occurs he said what do you
- 00:44:59mean when Resurrection occurs the
- 00:45:02resurrection Is Not An Occurrence he
- 00:45:03says I am see he's talking with
- 00:45:11Holiness are you a
- 00:45:13leader an integrated
- 00:45:16leader what I say and what I do and what
- 00:45:20I am i
- 00:45:24w what an amazing thing we need those
- 00:45:27kind of people all around us what you
- 00:45:28say people who ain't got no second you
- 00:45:31know motive somewhere floating around
- 00:45:33you know they give you $5 you want to
- 00:45:35wonder what they
- 00:45:39want you holy
- 00:45:42people they give you peace when they
- 00:45:45come because you ain't got a second
- 00:45:47guess
- 00:45:50them I think people really have trouble
- 00:45:53with me because I'm just too
- 00:45:55holy they don't look look at me the
- 00:45:57Bible says be holy as your father and he
- 00:46:00talking to
- 00:46:01you say it I'm holy I'm holy that means
- 00:46:05you keep your word see that means you
- 00:46:07keep your word you do what you say you
- 00:46:09say is what you mean and you you fulfill
- 00:46:11your promises that's
- 00:46:13Holiness you said I'm going to pay
- 00:46:15tithes be holy pay tithes to your
- 00:46:19church you pay tithes sometimes you're
- 00:46:22not holy
- 00:46:28you need a whole sermon on Holiness for
- 00:46:30five years in your church just teach
- 00:46:32people Holiness and the church will
- 00:46:34change your offerings will go up people
- 00:46:35begin to live clean there'll be no more
- 00:46:38Liars in the
- 00:46:44church so I don't trust no one in a
- 00:46:50robe because Holiness has nothing to do
- 00:46:52with clothing
- 00:46:57are they
- 00:46:59honest so they have integrity
- 00:47:02integration means to be whole ain't that
- 00:47:06beautiful President Clinton I told you
- 00:47:08about him day before yesterday you know
- 00:47:10Clinton was an amazing guy the most
- 00:47:13powerful leader in the world was
- 00:47:16schizophrenic he had no what Integrity
- 00:47:20he was not integrated it was one thing
- 00:47:22in the presiden seat another thing in
- 00:47:24the
- 00:47:25bathroom or the back room with the white
- 00:47:27house and then he came out and says you
- 00:47:29know don't confuse my public life with
- 00:47:31my private what are you talking about
- 00:47:32don't what are you trying to tell
- 00:47:34us I am
- 00:47:36crazy I am schizophrenic I am one thing
- 00:47:39you know in presidency I'm another thing
- 00:47:42back here so you know it depends which
- 00:47:43one you want to
- 00:47:45trust so you can't be trusted in nothing
- 00:47:47the Bible says if a man is wavering in
- 00:47:50one area he's wavering in all areas so
- 00:47:54you can't trust the guy who say don't
- 00:47:57trust What I Do
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- 00:48:05you once again for listening to this
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