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Most men think dominance means being
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louder, tougher, more aggressive. They
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think women will respect them if they
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impress, if they provide, if they
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perform. They're
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wrong. In today's world, real power
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doesn't scream. It doesn't chase. It
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doesn't need permission to
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exist. The most powerful man isn't the
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one who controls others. It's the one
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who doesn't need to beg for connection,
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approval, or love. He doesn't get tested
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with silence or punished with guilt. He
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doesn't fold under pressure or reshape
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himself to keep a woman interested.
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Because in relationships, the weak man
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gets used. He gets led, manipulated,
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replaced. Not because women are cruel,
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but because nature tests what's soft and
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follows what's solid.
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So, this video isn't about manipulation.
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It's about becoming a man who can't be
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bent. If you're tired of overgiving, of
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being chosen then
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discarded, of never knowing where you
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stand, watch this till the end because
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I'm going to show you five Mchavelian
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rules for emotional and relational
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dominance. The kind that works whether
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you're single, dating, married, or
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rebuilding from scratch. The kind that
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makes women feel it and men respect it.
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Let's begin. Rule one, speak less, watch
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more. Power belongs to the man who
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doesn't
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react. Most men lose power not because
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they speak, but because they speak too
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soon. They defend too fast. They explain
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too much. They respond without thinking
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and every time they do they reveal
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something
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dangerous. Emotional
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dependence. Mchaveli warned us
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clearly. A prince should learn to avoid
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being hated or despised. And nothing
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renders a man so contemptable as
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inconstancy.
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Translation: reactivity is weakness. The
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man who flinches first loses the game.
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Let's apply that to your love life. A
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woman gives you the silent treatment
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after an argument. Most men panic. They
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send long messages, call twice,
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apologize for things they didn't do.
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They think they're saving the
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relationship, but what they're really
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doing is surrendering the frame. She
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tested your center. You showed you
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didn't have
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one. Now, let's take it outside
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relationships. You're in a meeting. A
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coworker cuts you off. You raise your
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voice. Try to speak louder. Wrong
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move. The Mchavelian approach. Let
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silence build. Make them uncomfortable
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with your stillness. Then deliver your
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words slow, sharp,
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intentional. Powerful men don't compete
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for attention. They command it by
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contrast.
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Mchaveli also wrote, "He who builds on
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the people builds on
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mud." If you rely on others reactions to
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feel in control, especially women, your
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foundation will always crack. Here's a
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precise solution you can use
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today. The next time a woman pulls back
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emotionally. Don't fill the silence.
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Don't chase the energy. Hold your
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posture. Observe. Let her wonder what
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you're thinking. Then and only
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then speak with calm
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brevity. One sentence, no pleading, no
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paragraphs. Because a man who stays
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silent under pressure becomes the one no
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one can predict. And a man who can't be
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predicted can't be controlled. Rule two,
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control the frame or be trapped inside
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hers. People, especially women, don't
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respond to facts. They respond to the
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story they've already written in their
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mind. And once that story is set, even
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your best actions will get
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misread. Mchaveli taught, "Men in
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general judge more from appearances than
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from reality. All men have eyes, but few
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have the gift of
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penetration." He wasn't being cynical.
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He was being honest. Perception is power
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and if you don't shape it, someone else
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will. Usually to your
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disadvantage. Let's bring this to
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relationships. You keep giving,
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adjusting, proving yourself, hoping she
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finally sees your
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worth. But here's the problem. She
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already decided you're trying too hard.
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And once you've been framed as needy,
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even confidence looks like compensation.
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Even generosity looks like guilt. Now
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flip it. You say less, move slower. You
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speak when necessary and walk away when
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it's
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not. Suddenly, she starts assigning you
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traits you never had to
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announce.
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Mysterious,
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grounded, high
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value. Why? Because you controlled the
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frame before trying to influence the
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outcome. In everyday life, this plays
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out the
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same. Two men enter a room. One is
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silent, well-dressed, and
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calm. He observes more than he speaks.
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People feel his presence. They assume
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status. The other man tries to impress,
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talks too much, explains before being
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questioned. And even if he has more
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skills, he's perceived as insecure.
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Same facts, different frame. Makaveli
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would say, "Everyone sees what you
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appear to be. Few experience what you
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really are." So the game is not to be
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fake. It's to reveal
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strategically. Here's a precise move to
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shift the frame starting today. Stop
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chasing
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admiration. Stop forcing proof. Instead,
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appear with purpose. Speak with
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intention. Withdraw when necessary. Let
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her fill the blanks with
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imagination, not
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information. Because a man who doesn't
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try to be seen often becomes
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unforgettable. And in a world ruled by
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perception, that's how you win without
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noise. Rule three, win her mind before
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you win her heart. Attraction begins in
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the mind. And if she doesn't respect
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your mental clarity, she'll never stay
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loyal to your emotional
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investment. Most men try to win women by
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overgiving emotionally. They flood her
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with compliments, affection, long
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messages, but they forget one thing. Her
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belief system shapes her
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attraction, not your
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effort. Mchavelli would never have
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wasted time charming someone who already
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made up their mind. He believed in
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something deeper. The first method for
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estimating the intelligence of a ruler
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is to look at the men he has around
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him.
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Translation: Who you surround yourself
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with or choose as a partner reveals your
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judgment, and that includes the beliefs
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you tolerate. Now, let's make it real.
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In relationships, you message her all
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day. You send gifts. You try to prove
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you're not like the other
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guys, but you never pause to ask, "What
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does she actually believe about
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men? Does she see men as weak,
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replaceable,
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dangerous? Does she even want love, or
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just
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attention?" Because if her core belief
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is men always
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disappoint, no message or gesture will
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change that. She'll admire your effort
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and still leave. Not because you lacked
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emotion, because you lacked strategy. In
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everyday life, let's say you're at a
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family dinner. You try to convince your
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cousin that your business idea makes
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sense, but he already believes you're
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not serious enough. You show data,
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results, plans. Still, nothing changes.
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Why? Because people don't move because
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of truth. They move because of what they
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believe. Mchavelli knew this well. He
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said, "Men are so simple and so obedient
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to present necessities that he who
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deceives will always find someone who
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will let himself be
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deceived." But that
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deception, it starts in the mind. The
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game isn't played on the surface. It's
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played in perception. Rule four, see
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through her mask without triggering the
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guard. Every woman wears a mask.
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Sometimes it looks like
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confidence. Sometimes it looks like
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sarcasm, independence, coldness, or
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control. But
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underneath there's often a need for
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validation, a fear of rejection, or an
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old wound she doesn't want you to
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see. If you react to the mask, you lose.
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You'll argue with her attitude instead
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of understanding her fear. You'll defend
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yourself against her silence instead of
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decoding her
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expectations. But if you see through it,
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you don't just win the moment. You win
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leverage quietly, calmly, without war.
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Mchaveli saw this play out in every
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court, every kingdom, every power
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circle. He wrote, "It is double pleasure
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to deceive the deceiver, not to hurt,
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but to gain insight without exposing
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your hand." Let's break it
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down. In relationships, she says, "Do
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what you want." So, you do. Then, she's
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cold, distant,
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dismissive. That's not
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indifference. That's camouflaged
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attachment. She doesn't want to seem
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needy, but deep down she is affected.
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The average man either gets frustrated
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or starts over
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explaining. But the strategic
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man, he doesn't react. He doesn't
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attack. He mirrors. He responds with
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calm understanding, not
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confrontation. He watches how the mask
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slips when pressure fades. In everyday
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life, you're in a store. The cashier is
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cold, almost rude. Instead of snapping
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back, you smile, slow down, and ask,
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"Rough
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day." And
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suddenly, she softens. The mask breaks
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because her behavior had nothing to do
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with you. Just like many women's
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attitude isn't about you, it's about her
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inner battles. Same thing at a family
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dinner. An uncle criticizes your career
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in front of everyone. Later, you find
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out he's been laid off but didn't tell
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anyone. His pride wasn't confidence. It
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was a shield. And if you had reacted
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with ego, you'd have missed the truth.
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Here's the move that separates pawns
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from players. Don't try to fix or fight
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pride. Mirror it. Let her feel seen, not
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exposed. Ask calm, subtle questions.
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Offer emotional safety without trying to
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solve her. Then
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watch. If her pride drops and softness
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appears, she's real. If the mask stays
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glued, withdraw your energy quietly,
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completely. Because the man who can see
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through armor and remain grounded
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becomes magnetic. Not just to women, but
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to every room he walks into. Rule five,
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become the mystery she can't decode. The
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moment a woman fully understands you,
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she starts managing you. Why? Because
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predictability makes her feel safe but
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not
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attracted. Mystery makes her feel
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something deeper.
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Anticipation,
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intrigue, respect.
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Mchaveli never wrote about dating, but
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his lessons apply perfectly. He warned,
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"Men in general judge more by the sense
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of sight than by the sense of touch.
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Everyone sees what you appear to be. Few
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experience what you really
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are."
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Translation: Let people see enough to
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believe, but never enough to control. In
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relationships, if she always knows how
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you'll react, you've already lost
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tension. You always text first. You
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always explain how you feel. You always
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give her access to your thoughts,
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reactions, and time. At first, she loves
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it. Then, she gets used to it. Then, she
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gets bored because nothing about you
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feels earned anymore. But the man who
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moves with purpose, who doesn't show his
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every card, keeps her emotionally
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alert. Not by being cold, not by playing
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childish games, but by staying composed,
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deep,
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unreadable. In everyday life, you're at
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a gathering. Everyone's talking about
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their wins, their plans, their opinions.
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You listen more than you speak. You stay
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calm. People notice you. Not because
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you're loud, but because your silence
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forces them to
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wonder, "Who is this
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guy?" That curiosity becomes your aura.
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Same thing at work. You don't announce
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every task. You don't defend every idea.
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You let results speak. And because no
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one can fully predict your next move,
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they respect your presence. Here's the
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precise shift that builds aura and
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magnetism. Stop revealing
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everything. Start speaking less than you
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know. Start revealing less than you
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feel. Start moving less than you're
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capable of. Because when a man becomes
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predictable, he becomes
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manageable. But when he moves like a
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mystery, calmly, powerfully,
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intentionally, he becomes unforgettable.
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And that is the essence of masculine
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dominance. If you've made it here,
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you've already done what most men avoid.
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You've faced the mirror. You've stepped
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away from comfort and leaned into
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truth. In a world that teaches men to
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earn love by shrinking, apologizing, and
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performing, you've chosen something
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rare. Self-respect without conditions.
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Most men live on emotional autopilot.
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They chase validation, then resent the
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women who control them. They confuse
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intensity for intimacy, chaos for
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connection, and obedience for
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love. But you're building something
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else. Not noise, not neediness, but
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presence. Deep, grounded, undeniable.
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These Mchavelian rules weren't made to
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make you colder. They were made to make
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you clear, to help you see through the
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smiles that manipulate, to protect your
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soul from being shaped by someone else's
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fantasy. Because let's be honest, most
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heartbreak doesn't come from being
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rejected. It comes from being accepted
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for someone you're not.
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But when you live by design, not by
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reaction, your silence becomes
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strategy. Your boundaries become
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unshakable. And your
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love, it becomes a choice, never a
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leash. From this moment on, you don't
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need to explain yourself. You refine
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yourself. You don't fight to prove your
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worth. You become a man whose worth is
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self-evident.
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You lead conversations without
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dominating them. You inspire attraction
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without needing to perform. You show
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strength not by volume, but by what you
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refuse to tolerate. If you've made it
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here, you've already done what most men
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avoid. You've faced the mirror. You've
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stepped away from comfort and leaned
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into
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truth. In a world that teaches men to
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earn love by shrinking, apologizing, and
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performing, you've chosen something
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rare. Self-respect without
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conditions. Most men live on emotional
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autopilot. They chase validation, then
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resent the women who control them. They
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confuse intensity for intimacy, chaos
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for connection, and obedience for love.
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But you're building something else. Not
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noise, not
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neediness, but presence. Deep, grounded,
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undeniable. These Mchavelian rules
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weren't made to make you colder. They
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were made to make you clear, to help you
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see through the smiles that
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manipulate, to protect your soul from
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being shaped by someone else's fantasy.
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This is how kings are made. Not in
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palaces, but in quiet moments of
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self-mastery. So, keep building. Keep
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choosing alignment over approval. Keep
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protecting your peace like it's a
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kingdom because the man who walks in
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clarity doesn't chase, he attracts. And
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what he attracts respects him. Stay
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calm. Stay strategic. Stay sovereign.
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And remember, you're not here to be
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loved for a mask. You're here to be
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respected for your
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truth. One last message for those who
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truly want to change their life. For
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those who are ready to detach from the
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99% and play a different
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game. What I'm working on will change
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the way women see you and the way you
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see yourself. It's coming soon, so stay
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tuned.
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If this spoke to you, don't just keep it
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in your head. Write a comment, even just
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a few words. It helps you remember, and
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it might help someone else,
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too. Hit the like button if you enjoyed
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someone who in your eyes needs it right
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now. Just trust your instinct. We're all
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trying to get clearer, more solid
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inside. So, let's build mines that don't
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break.
