Pet Loss and Pet Grief by Sonya Fitzpatrick Pet Psychic Animal Communicator

00:44:37
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LepaLChPfp4

Resumen

TLDRThe video discusses the emotional pain of losing a pet and the difficult decisions surrounding euthanasia. It reassures viewers that pets are not alone in death and emphasizes the importance of compassion in making end-of-life decisions. The speaker shares personal experiences and insights about the spiritual connection between pets and their owners, including the possibility of reincarnation. The video aims to provide comfort and understanding to those grieving the loss of a beloved animal, encouraging them to cherish memories and consider the potential for their pets to return in new forms.

Para llevar

  • 💔 Saying goodbye to pets is painful and emotional.
  • 🐾 Pets may not show they are in pain, but they often are.
  • 🕊️ Euthanasia can be a compassionate choice for suffering pets.
  • 🌈 Pets transition to a peaceful spiritual realm after death.
  • 💖 Animals understand our emotions and love us unconditionally.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Grieving is a personal process; allow yourself to feel.
  • 🐶 New pets can bring joy and may even be reincarnated companions.
  • 🌱 It's important to talk to grieving pets about their loss.
  • 🏡 Consider burial or cremation based on what feels right for you.
  • ✨ Cherish the memories of your beloved pets.

Cronología

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The video addresses the emotional pain of saying goodbye to pets, answering common questions about their well-being after death, and reassuring viewers that there is no true separation from their animals. It emphasizes the difficulty of deciding when to euthanize a pet and the importance of recognizing signs of discomfort in aging animals.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    The speaker discusses the signs of aging in pets, such as decreased appetite and mobility issues, and reassures pet owners that animals often tolerate discomfort better than humans. They advise consulting a veterinarian for pain management options and emphasize the importance of making the decision to euthanize when necessary, considering the pet's quality of life.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    The video highlights the emotional struggle of pet owners when deciding to euthanize their pets, emphasizing that animals do not express a desire to be put down. It suggests that owners should consider the pet's suffering and loneliness when making this decision, and it encourages providing comfort to the pet during their final moments.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    The speaker discusses the process of euthanasia, recommending sedatives to ease the pet's transition. They emphasize the importance of being present for the pet during this time and the understanding that animals can sense the emotions of their owners, which can help them feel more at peace.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    After a pet passes, the speaker encourages owners to spend time with their pet's physical body and to consider burial or cremation options. They emphasize that the pet is no longer in pain and that the owner has done a kindness by allowing them to pass peacefully.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    The video explains that pets are greeted by other animals and loved ones in the spiritual realm after death, experiencing joy and peace. It reassures viewers that their pets are still with them in spirit and that they can communicate with them telepathically.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:35:00

    The speaker discusses the grieving process, noting that it can be more intense for pets than for humans. They encourage viewers to find support from others who understand the bond with animals and to cherish the memories shared with their pets.

  • 00:35:00 - 00:44:37

    Finally, the video addresses the possibility of reincarnation, explaining that pets can return to their owners in new bodies. It encourages viewers to be open to adopting new pets, as they may find traits of their previous animals in them, and reassures that love and joy can return to their lives.

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Vídeo de preguntas y respuestas

  • What should I do if my pet is in pain?

    Consult your vet for pain relief options like Tramadol or Adequan.

  • How can I cope with the loss of my pet?

    Allow yourself to grieve and talk to someone who understands your feelings.

  • Is it okay to get another pet after losing one?

    Yes, animals want you to be happy and may even reincarnate to be with you again.

  • What happens to pets when they die?

    They transition to a spiritual realm where they are free from pain and suffering.

  • How can I help my grieving pet?

    Explain to them that their companion is gone and reassure them with love.

  • Should I be present when my pet is euthanized?

    It's often comforting for both you and your pet to be together during this time.

  • What if I wasn't there when my pet passed?

    Don't feel guilty; they know you love them and are with them in spirit.

  • How do I choose between burial and cremation?

    Consider what feels right for you and what will provide you comfort.

  • Can pets reincarnate?

    Yes, many pets do reincarnate and can return to their owners.

  • How can I recognize my pet in a new animal?

    Look for familiar traits or behaviors that remind you of your lost pet.

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  • 00:00:00
    the reason I decided to make the video
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    is because it's the most painful time in
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    any of our Lives when we have to say
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    goodbye to our Animals physical body and
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    so many of you suffer with questions
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    where is my animal where's he gone some
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    people even ask me is he being fed so I
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    want you to know the answers to all
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    these questions that are plaguing some
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    of you about maybe I put him down too
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    soon and also I wasn't there when he was
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    put down and when he
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    died I know this video will help you
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    just knowing what's happened to your
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    animal and that you know we can't always
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    be with them when they die or go out of
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    their physical body and their physical
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    body dies but I want you to know that
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    there is no separation at any time
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    the most difficult decision we have and
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    that we wondering to ourselves when is
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    the best time to put my animal down and
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    it's a very hard decision to make and
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    many people I have to tell you wait too
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    long and when they get older you'll find
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    often that they lose weight and you
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    worry if they don't eat so well and
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    you'll find that um animals don't always
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    eat so well some eat right up until the
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    time time it's ready to pass but other
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    animals their appetite diminishes but
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    don't get too worried about it because
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    this is all part of getting older and is
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    my pet in pain that's what many people
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    will ask me is my pet hurting well the
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    thing that they often get are all the
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    things like people do with old age they
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    get achy bones achy muscles they have
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    difficulty walking I have to take tell
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    you that animals tolerate discomfort a
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    lot better than humans do and I would
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    advise you if you get to this stage with
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    your animal and you don't really like
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    giving them drugs when they're older
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    it's the only thing that will help them
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    and your vet will help you with this if
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    you go to your vet and ask your vet if
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    he can give them something to help them
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    to take away the pain the vet will give
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    you something maybe Tramadol we use
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    Tramadol with our old dogs and adoquin
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    which is an injection which takes away a
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    lot of the pain for
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    arthritis and also you know continue if
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    you possibly can to give them that
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    vitamin and the extra supplements
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    glucosamin is a very good one but then
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    the time comes when you feel your animal
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    can't go on any longer he maybe not be
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    able to walk and he may be suffering and
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    you'll see it but animals won't ever
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    tell you I want you to put me down you
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    know that's their unconditional love
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    they'll hang on no matter what you're
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    suffering because they love us
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    unconditionally and their unconditional
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    love goes right through to the very end
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    so it's a matter sometimes that we have
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    to take that into our own hands and make
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    that decision for instance if you're out
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    working all day and your animals alone
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    it's a very terrible time for him when
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    he if for instance he may not be able to
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    walk he may not be able to get up and
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    all day he's alone on his own and you
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    come home from work and then you're back
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    at work the next day so if this is
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    happening and your animal has got
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    terrible pain or he can't walk or he's
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    got discomfort seriously think about
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    having to put him
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    down because when you put the animal
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    down and it takes it out of his
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    discomfort he goes go out of his body
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    very easily and I would very often tell
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    I very often tell people give them a
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    sedative before they actually the vet
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    actually puts that needl in that will
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    stop their heart and if you can do this
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    at home it's so much better if you have
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    other animals around you and they're all
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    with you when you put your animal to
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    sleep they understand a lot more than
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    you think they do at times animals are
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    so smart they'll pick up they know it's
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    the time for the other older dog to go
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    off and it's time for it to get him out
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    of pain they pick up everything all your
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    feelings all your emotions and they're
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    going through exactly the same thing as
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    you are emotionally if it isn't possible
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    for you to get the vet to your home
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    because often animals you take them in
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    and the vet will tell you it's too late
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    you know and you'll decide to put the
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    animal down there and then if you do
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    that you know the animals at home are
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    picking you up and also know that and
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    don't worry too much about it because if
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    you can get your animal out of all the
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    pain and discomfort it will really make
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    a big difference to your animal just put
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    yourself in your animal's position for
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    instance if you're working all day and
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    you were the animal and you were alone
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    and you couldn't get up and you were
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    lying on the bed and you were without
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    your mom around you how how would you
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    feel I know that if I was in great pain
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    and discomfort I would want to get out
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    of my body Unfortunately they don't do
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    it for people but we can do it for our
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    pets which is a blessing at
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    times if you have made the decision that
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    it's time to put your animal
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    down I know you'll have a few days many
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    people love to lie on the floor with
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    their animals and they do when they're
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    very sick too animals people will lie on
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    the floor with them all night and day
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    you know and the animal really feels the
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    comfort from you when you do that it
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    knows it's Mom and Dad are there and if
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    your family are with you too and Friends
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    often get very fond of our animals as
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    well so make sure that all of them come
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    to see him before he goes onto his
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    wonderful Journey because it is a
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    wonderful Journey when you pass over so
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    make sure that all there they've all
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    seen him and then you know do what you
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    feel you want to do and feel if you want
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    to be with him some people even take
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    time off work if they've got a couple of
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    days before they're going to put their
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    animal to
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    sleep sometimes animals you'll come home
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    and I know that I found one of my cats
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    upstairs fast I thought was fast asleep
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    and when I looked at him he' passed over
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    he looked so
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    peaceful and he had almost like relaxed
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    and died at home if you're not there
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    don't get upset about it because I'm
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    going to explain to you in the next part
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    of the video what
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    happens all of us some of us go to the
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    vet and we'll go to the vet together and
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    the vet will put them down usually
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    you'll have a little time with them on
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    your own
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    before and you can be with them at the
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    bets when they do
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    you can hold them or hold their head it
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    gives you a great deal of comfort to do
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    that and then they go out of their body
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    and give them a relaxer like a sedative
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    before they actually have the needling
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    to stop the heart there are many ways
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    that animals die sometimes they'll just
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    go into the Garden or the yard and
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    they'll fall asleep and they'll die
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    under a bush you know that's a natural
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    way for an animal to die but what
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    whatever you do don't let your animals
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    stay in pain dogs cats horses all of you
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    really do have that feeling that um you
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    know it's time but it's still very hard
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    to make that decision and when they get
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    older they need a lot of extra Loving
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    Care before they go you're nursing them
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    and you're going to miss all those
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    things when they go because a lot of
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    people spend time nursing their animal
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    they can't move they help them get into
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    the car they do whatever they can for
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    them to make life easier for them they
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    help them get on the bed or they'll that
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    they can no longer get up on the bed
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    they'll put a bed down for the animal to
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    go on so don't when you
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    eventually have to put the animal down
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    don't blame yourself for anything
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    because all of you love your animals and
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    you wouldn't do anything in the world to
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    harm them or hurt them or upset them and
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    the animal intuitively knows
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    that sometimes when you're putting your
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    animal to sleep it can be
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    distressing sometimes people will say he
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    looked at me and I felt he was asking me
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    a question no he looks at you because he
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    loves you and he knows how upset you are
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    people have different experiences and
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    animals when they're being put down now
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    for instance one of my dogs Sam who
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    lived to be 22 years old he we put him
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    down because he was he was suffering he
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    was having difficulty walking he had
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    terrible arthritis and he he was hanging
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    on no matter what he would hang on
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    because he loved me so much and he
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    wanted to stay with me and it would have
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    been distressing for many people if they
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    had been in the same position as I was
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    but I understood why he was struggling
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    when he was put to sleep and some
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    animals do this but do and they get
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    distressed they may may may struggle but
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    sometimes the effect of the drug is
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    making them do that all animals react
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    differently to different drugs and so
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    therefore that is very distressing for
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    you when something like that happens but
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    understand that often they're already
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    going starting to go out of their body
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    in and out just a few minutes before
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    they're actually the heart stops beating
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    so please understand that that isn't
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    anything to do with the animal it's to
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    do with the reaction from the drug and
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    if you have experienced where your
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    animal is distressed when he's put over
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    do understand that drugs have a
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    different effect on people as well as
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    animals and if I hadn't known better I
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    would have been very upset by that if I
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    hadn't known what happens I hadn't
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    understood how the spiritual realm works
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    if I hadn't understood that drugs have
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    different effects and I knew that was so
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    Sammy it really was and he did he
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    squealed a bit but then he was suddenly
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    relaxed he went out of his body and I
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    was fortunate enough to see him running
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    around me when he got out of his body so
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    that was a bonus not everybody can do
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    that but don't beat yourself up because
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    many people are haunted by this for the
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    rest of their lives because they
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    think they just remember that they don't
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    understand that drugs can have different
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    effects on different animals and
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    different people now for instance if a
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    animal dies quickly I had a a lady last
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    week whose animal was run over and she
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    was devastated because she was looking
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    after someone else's dog and it ran out
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    into the street when she opened the door
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    and her dog never left he he just stayed
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    on the side of the road and she ran out
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    after the other dog to get it because
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    she was so worried about a car hitting
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    it and as she picked it up and turned
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    around her dog was following her and he
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    got hit by a car and was killed she was
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    heartbroken she said he never does that
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    but you can never tell what they're
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    going to do they may not do that
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    sometimes but this particular time her
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    dog did this
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    accidents there are no accidents when
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    our time's up and their time is up it's
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    up it was meant to be you couldn't
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    change that so do understand that when
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    our time is up we've even before we come
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    into the physical body we know when
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    we're going to leave it and I often say
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    we would rejoice when the we go over to
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    the other side and we should mourn when
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    we're born because life isn't easy for
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    any of us it's easier for our animals
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    they're very smart because they choose
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    to come back to us they don't have to
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    worry about the mortgage they don't have
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    to pay worry about what they're going to
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    eat and we give them everything we can
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    we do everything for them and you've
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    done everything you could for your
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    animal and there's no accident so don't
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    think it was your fault if your dog dies
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    quickly in any kind of accident because
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    it's meant to
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    be now often when your animal has passed
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    over you need to spend time with him you
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    feel you don't you know you you feel
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    that I want to spell spend time and
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    spend a little more time with that
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    physical body that you've loved for so
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    many years and you love so much and then
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    you have to make the decision do I
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    cremate my animal or do I bury him and
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    if you're at the Vets often that's taken
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    care of so spend that time the vet will
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    always allow you to spend that extra
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    time with them after they've passed
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    because we all need that when we've
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    passed over some of us aren't as
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    fortunate and we don't get the
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    opportunity to do that but it helps us
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    it doesn't help the animal because he's
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    he's out of his physical body he's out
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    of his pain he's out of his suffering
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    and you've done him a great kindness by
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    doing that it doesn't matter what animal
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    it is some people love rats some people
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    love pet mice some people have pet
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    ferrets and some people have snakes we
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    have so many different animals that we
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    love and we get very bonded to but no
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    once they're out of their physical body
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    they're in a much better
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    place and then you think to yourself am
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    I going to have my animal
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    cremated or am I going to bury him often
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    when you're at home and your animal dies
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    you may find a very special place in the
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    garden to bury him but if you're at the
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    Vets we always think it's better to have
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    our animals
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    cremated many people like to keep their
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    animals ashes they feel it gives them a
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    great deal of comfort and do whatever
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    you can to get get that Comfort whatever
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    it takes do it I mean I had a lady who
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    had her cat's ashes in a beauti learn
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    and she slept with the cat's ashes and
  • 00:15:10
    she put them and she cuddled them and it
  • 00:15:12
    made gave her comfort and I say to
  • 00:15:14
    people do whatever gives you comfort do
  • 00:15:17
    it I had another gentleman who kept his
  • 00:15:19
    cat in the Deep Freeze and the cat
  • 00:15:22
    thought it was so funny because once
  • 00:15:24
    they go out of their body what we do
  • 00:15:26
    they find very amusing because they see
  • 00:15:29
    themselves and you carrying these ashes
  • 00:15:31
    around and going to bed with the ashes
  • 00:15:33
    they just think it's so funny cuz they
  • 00:15:35
    say hey we're around you and with you
  • 00:15:36
    and why is she doing that and they think
  • 00:15:38
    it's funny because they are they don't
  • 00:15:40
    go anywhere they're still with us the
  • 00:15:42
    gentleman who put his cat in the Deep
  • 00:15:44
    Freeze he'd had it in there for like six
  • 00:15:46
    months then he went away and the
  • 00:15:48
    electricity went up and when he came
  • 00:15:50
    back he was devastated because
  • 00:15:53
    everything had gone like that and the C
  • 00:15:55
    but he was able he B me made an
  • 00:15:57
    appointment and I said darling he's with
  • 00:15:59
    you and he's around you and he after we
  • 00:16:01
    finished that appointment on the phone
  • 00:16:03
    he felt so much better and he started to
  • 00:16:06
    actually laugh because he could see it
  • 00:16:07
    from the cat's point of view the
  • 00:16:09
    animal's point of view cuz the animal
  • 00:16:11
    was talking to him and telling him so
  • 00:16:14
    whatever decision you may do the most
  • 00:16:16
    thing that you feel you want to do and
  • 00:16:19
    if you want those ashes around you and
  • 00:16:21
    you want to take them to bed with you
  • 00:16:23
    and you want to put them somewhere and
  • 00:16:24
    it gives you comfort do it because
  • 00:16:28
    whatever comt that you can get you need
  • 00:16:30
    at that particular time but also know
  • 00:16:33
    that many animals do reincarnate they go
  • 00:16:35
    back to the spiritual realm they get a
  • 00:16:38
    new body and they'll come back to you
  • 00:16:40
    and we'll talk about that and I'll
  • 00:16:41
    explain to you how they come back cuz
  • 00:16:43
    people often say I don't know how to
  • 00:16:45
    find them they'll find their way to you
  • 00:16:47
    whatever they'll find their way back to
  • 00:16:49
    you and know that they're in a great
  • 00:16:52
    place and that they're out of their pain
  • 00:16:55
    and that they're you'll feel them around
  • 00:16:57
    you and with you
  • 00:17:04
    this is my beautiful cat Sunshine who is
  • 00:17:07
    23 right now he has a lot of
  • 00:17:11
    arthritis and it's uncomfortable for him
  • 00:17:14
    and his time is coming very
  • 00:17:16
    soon and he knows that he said to me the
  • 00:17:19
    other day I'm not going to be here much
  • 00:17:21
    longer mom and I told him you're not he
  • 00:17:24
    said no I'm not he knows they often know
  • 00:17:28
    we don't
  • 00:17:29
    know so the
  • 00:17:31
    transcending what happens after their
  • 00:17:34
    body lies
  • 00:17:36
    there they step out of it the body is
  • 00:17:39
    dead but the energy body steps right out
  • 00:17:43
    of that physical body and when they go
  • 00:17:46
    over they have okay sunshine you want to
  • 00:17:49
    get
  • 00:17:53
    down and when they pass over they're
  • 00:17:57
    greeted from all the souls that have
  • 00:18:00
    been in past lives with them as well as
  • 00:18:04
    this life and the animals will come and
  • 00:18:07
    meet them and it's like a celebration
  • 00:18:10
    with people and animals when we go over
  • 00:18:13
    it's you just feel peace love and joy
  • 00:18:18
    this is where all the hell is right down
  • 00:18:20
    here on the Earth plane we're always
  • 00:18:23
    battling things and doing things and
  • 00:18:26
    having to sort things out over there
  • 00:18:28
    love peace and joy and the wonderful
  • 00:18:31
    thing is that they meet you meet up with
  • 00:18:33
    all the people you've known and it's
  • 00:18:36
    just a wonderful experience you're out
  • 00:18:39
    of the physical body they're out of the
  • 00:18:42
    physical body there's no more pain just
  • 00:18:46
    peace love and joy what's also so lovely
  • 00:18:51
    is the fact that animals vibrate on a
  • 00:18:54
    higher level of Consciousness when we go
  • 00:18:58
    over
  • 00:18:59
    all the souls are on a higher level of
  • 00:19:01
    Consciousness and the physical body the
  • 00:19:04
    first thing they realized is how heavy
  • 00:19:06
    the physical body is because now they're
  • 00:19:09
    in their energy form they can move
  • 00:19:11
    quickly they can still communicate with
  • 00:19:14
    each other they can still communicate
  • 00:19:16
    with the spirits that are still here all
  • 00:19:18
    the animals that are still here in the
  • 00:19:20
    physical body they're talking to
  • 00:19:23
    telepathically and it's just a wonderful
  • 00:19:26
    experience going over and being over
  • 00:19:28
    there there I often wonder why we decide
  • 00:19:31
    to come back I believe we're all working
  • 00:19:33
    out karmas and that when we come back we
  • 00:19:36
    have to put those karmas right with
  • 00:19:38
    people and that when we've got it right
  • 00:19:40
    here on the Earth plane then we no
  • 00:19:42
    longer come back and we can stay in that
  • 00:19:44
    wonderful state of love peace and joy
  • 00:19:48
    also when they're over into the
  • 00:19:50
    spiritual realm people will often say
  • 00:19:53
    was there anyone one there that they
  • 00:19:55
    knew well of course our relatives are
  • 00:19:58
    over there most of us have got relatives
  • 00:20:00
    over there unless we're very young and
  • 00:20:03
    you know they're great your your mothers
  • 00:20:04
    and fathers and all the souls that
  • 00:20:07
    they've been with or known in this
  • 00:20:08
    lifetime are over there and even the
  • 00:20:11
    souls they don't know they've known them
  • 00:20:13
    because they've seen them around you in
  • 00:20:15
    the home so you may say they may you may
  • 00:20:18
    say to me sometimes but they didn't know
  • 00:20:20
    my dog I'll say well you don't think
  • 00:20:23
    they did but the dog knows them and the
  • 00:20:25
    Cat knows them because they're always
  • 00:20:27
    around you in your home Spirits always
  • 00:20:29
    round us with love and round us and
  • 00:20:32
    watching over us so the animals are
  • 00:20:35
    exactly the same so you're never alone
  • 00:20:37
    when you go over there and then lots of
  • 00:20:40
    people will say to me well why haven't I
  • 00:20:42
    had a dream about them or I haven't met
  • 00:20:46
    them in dream state yet well it doesn't
  • 00:20:48
    necessarily mean that you will meet them
  • 00:20:50
    in dream state you do sometimes you
  • 00:20:52
    don't but the most important thing is as
  • 00:20:55
    time goes along you'll start to feel and
  • 00:20:59
    sense them around you and some people
  • 00:21:02
    have amazing experiences they feel their
  • 00:21:05
    cat jump up on the bed I've had clients
  • 00:21:07
    say to me oh I know my cat was there it
  • 00:21:10
    jumped up on the bed and walked all over
  • 00:21:12
    me and I felt it and some clients will
  • 00:21:14
    say I saw my cat it ran very quickly and
  • 00:21:18
    I thought it at my imagination but I saw
  • 00:21:21
    him run across the room he's there
  • 00:21:23
    they're telling you hey I haven't gone
  • 00:21:26
    anywhere we're still around you and with
  • 00:21:27
    you so talk to them talk to them because
  • 00:21:31
    they're with you but what they love the
  • 00:21:33
    animals is when they're in the spiritual
  • 00:21:35
    realm and they're in their energy form
  • 00:21:37
    they can go anywhere with you so if you
  • 00:21:40
    go to a restaurant they can go if you go
  • 00:21:42
    to get your hair done they can go they
  • 00:21:44
    can go with you when you go grocery
  • 00:21:46
    shopping and dogs that love going in the
  • 00:21:49
    car love it because there's nowhere that
  • 00:21:51
    you go without them and often you have a
  • 00:21:54
    number of animals with you that have
  • 00:21:56
    passed over I remember walking down the
  • 00:21:59
    road one night and I had like oh so many
  • 00:22:02
    animals with me my horse I used to ride
  • 00:22:04
    as a little girl my dogs I used to love
  • 00:22:06
    as a little girl the pig that was a real
  • 00:22:09
    character that was trotting after me and
  • 00:22:11
    I suddenly started laughing because I
  • 00:22:13
    thought if people could see what I could
  • 00:22:15
    see it would be hilarious they were all
  • 00:22:17
    over the road following me while I was
  • 00:22:19
    walking my dogs my dogs could see them
  • 00:22:22
    because the animals see Spirit all the
  • 00:22:24
    time so when they go over they really
  • 00:22:26
    haven't gone anywhere they're round to
  • 00:22:28
    some with us just vibrate a higher level
  • 00:22:30
    of Consciousness they don't need food
  • 00:22:32
    because they don't have that physical
  • 00:22:34
    body which causes us so much discomfort
  • 00:22:36
    the animals and people too they meet the
  • 00:22:38
    people over there that they've known
  • 00:22:40
    they really haven't gone anywhere it's
  • 00:22:42
    just the physical body that we miss so
  • 00:22:51
    much now you're an animal is no longer
  • 00:22:54
    with you that's what you feel and the B
  • 00:22:58
    big part and the most painful part is
  • 00:23:01
    The Grieving because you can't deal with
  • 00:23:05
    it the pain is overwhelming and many
  • 00:23:08
    people grieve more over their animals
  • 00:23:10
    passing than they do people because
  • 00:23:13
    people you know we we sort of accept it
  • 00:23:16
    particularly when they're old but with
  • 00:23:17
    our animals we cannot accept it and we
  • 00:23:20
    grieve very very deeply it is the most
  • 00:23:23
    painful painful feeling we have when we
  • 00:23:27
    having to learn to live without them but
  • 00:23:31
    remember when you're doing that they are
  • 00:23:33
    around you and with you in a different
  • 00:23:35
    way and everybody deals with their grief
  • 00:23:38
    in different ways some people don't talk
  • 00:23:40
    about it and other people do and when
  • 00:23:43
    you're grieving like this always try and
  • 00:23:46
    find a friend who's already had the
  • 00:23:49
    experience of losing an animal because
  • 00:23:52
    not everybody feels the same way about
  • 00:23:54
    animals as animal lovers do so they
  • 00:23:57
    can't even be begin to understand what
  • 00:23:59
    we're going through or you're going
  • 00:24:01
    through so find someone who you can talk
  • 00:24:05
    to because they'll understand exactly
  • 00:24:08
    how you feel and you can talk about your
  • 00:24:11
    animal think about the wonderful times
  • 00:24:14
    you have as I said earlier they're the
  • 00:24:16
    Jews in our lives the wonderful things
  • 00:24:18
    we've done with them the wonderful walks
  • 00:24:21
    we've enjoyed the time we've enjoyed
  • 00:24:23
    with them how they make us laugh all the
  • 00:24:26
    funny things remember all those
  • 00:24:28
    wonderful memories because no one can
  • 00:24:31
    ever take those away from you as time
  • 00:24:35
    goes on things will get better you start
  • 00:24:38
    to learn to live without them the pain
  • 00:24:41
    doesn't go away but you're learning to
  • 00:24:44
    live without your animal and know that
  • 00:24:47
    you can talk to it that it's there with
  • 00:24:49
    you and in a just in a different way but
  • 00:24:52
    when you're in the physical body and
  • 00:24:54
    they're not in their physical bodies
  • 00:24:57
    anymore it's really hard when they're in
  • 00:25:00
    the spiritual realm they're running
  • 00:25:02
    around with all the other dogs and
  • 00:25:04
    jumping over each other they're all
  • 00:25:06
    young and they're free of that pain and
  • 00:25:09
    they're in a wonderful place and they're
  • 00:25:12
    all together none of them are lonely and
  • 00:25:15
    they just run and play and all the
  • 00:25:17
    animals on the other side are so happy
  • 00:25:20
    and the people too because they're
  • 00:25:22
    together in the same energy so think of
  • 00:25:25
    that when you're feeling really sad
  • 00:25:28
    and you don't know how to cope because I
  • 00:25:31
    don't think you do you know you just
  • 00:25:33
    struggle through it all but when you
  • 00:25:35
    feel the feelings really don't push them
  • 00:25:38
    away feel that feeling go into that
  • 00:25:42
    feeling feel it and feel it and feel it
  • 00:25:47
    don't push that feeling away because
  • 00:25:50
    this will help you an awful lot and if
  • 00:25:52
    it moves around your body from the
  • 00:25:54
    stomach to the chest area then feel it
  • 00:25:57
    and feel it and feel feel it just keep
  • 00:25:59
    feeling that feeling and it'll
  • 00:26:01
    dissolve if it goes to the throat follow
  • 00:26:04
    it through the body cuz it travels
  • 00:26:06
    through your body the feeling and you
  • 00:26:08
    can release it and that will really help
  • 00:26:11
    you a
  • 00:26:13
    lot now let's talk about the animals
  • 00:26:16
    that are still with you they're grieving
  • 00:26:19
    too animals grieve I remember as a child
  • 00:26:22
    we had two spaniels and one of them died
  • 00:26:26
    they were together all the time Bessie
  • 00:26:29
    Bessie and Susie and they were together
  • 00:26:32
    constantly and when one of them died the
  • 00:26:35
    other one lay on the ground where she'd
  • 00:26:38
    been buried and grieved and grieved and
  • 00:26:41
    a week later she died too so they were
  • 00:26:44
    both together and as a little girl I was
  • 00:26:46
    able fortunate enough to be able to see
  • 00:26:48
    them all happy in the spirit world and
  • 00:26:51
    together I was missing them and I was
  • 00:26:53
    sad but they were in a wonderful place I
  • 00:26:55
    knew that but grieving with the animal
  • 00:26:58
    now they're still communicating together
  • 00:27:02
    telepathically the animals are speaking
  • 00:27:04
    from the spiritual realm to your animals
  • 00:27:07
    here but they're feeling the grief of
  • 00:27:09
    your feeling they're missing that animal
  • 00:27:12
    even though they can feel it and sense
  • 00:27:14
    it around them they don't understand
  • 00:27:17
    where the physical body is and I often
  • 00:27:20
    have to tell them and if you can do this
  • 00:27:23
    to the animals that are grieving in your
  • 00:27:25
    home it will really help them tell them
  • 00:27:28
    that you understand why they're feeling
  • 00:27:30
    and sensing them and they are there with
  • 00:27:33
    them in a different way but the physical
  • 00:27:36
    body is not there but when they feel and
  • 00:27:39
    sense them around them they're with them
  • 00:27:42
    many animals will go looking for the
  • 00:27:44
    other animal you'll find it'll be
  • 00:27:46
    looking all the way around the house
  • 00:27:48
    it'll look around the garden where is it
  • 00:27:50
    because they can feel and sense that
  • 00:27:52
    animal with them and they don't
  • 00:27:54
    understand the physical body is gone so
  • 00:27:57
    you explain to them it's okay we
  • 00:28:00
    understand how you feel but when you
  • 00:28:02
    feel and sense the animal with you or
  • 00:28:04
    whatever the name of your animal is it
  • 00:28:06
    give it to them but it's with you and
  • 00:28:08
    around you but it just hasn't got a
  • 00:28:10
    physical body anymore it's in a
  • 00:28:12
    different energy form but it's there
  • 00:28:14
    with you and I know you probably think
  • 00:28:16
    oh well it's all right for her she can
  • 00:28:18
    talk to animals but you're doing it
  • 00:28:20
    anyway and they understand so much that
  • 00:28:23
    will help them a great deal if you can
  • 00:28:25
    do that and always remember to put that
  • 00:28:28
    wonderful loving feeling with it because
  • 00:28:30
    they understand but they grieve and it
  • 00:28:32
    takes them time too so you're all
  • 00:28:35
    grieving together now when we grieve
  • 00:28:38
    sometimes we have a really special bond
  • 00:28:40
    with one animal we love them all as much
  • 00:28:43
    we may have eight animals we love them
  • 00:28:45
    all as much in different ways but
  • 00:28:47
    there's that real special bond now when
  • 00:28:50
    you have that the reason you have that
  • 00:28:52
    special bond with one particular animal
  • 00:28:54
    and you've got all the others that you
  • 00:28:55
    love too but you have a very special
  • 00:28:58
    closeness with one of them understand
  • 00:29:00
    that you have been in many past lives
  • 00:29:04
    your souls have been together you've
  • 00:29:06
    experienced many lifetimes together and
  • 00:29:09
    when they come back as your animal
  • 00:29:11
    that's where the bond is you have that
  • 00:29:14
    real special blonde you've been with all
  • 00:29:16
    of them in different past past lives but
  • 00:29:20
    they've been in human form as well as
  • 00:29:21
    animal form we choose to come back in
  • 00:29:24
    certain forms but when you have that
  • 00:29:26
    Bond and it really is cuz I have a lot
  • 00:29:29
    of my clients will say to me Sonia I've
  • 00:29:31
    always grieved over my animals but this
  • 00:29:33
    I can't get over I can't well you don't
  • 00:29:36
    get over them just accept that you're
  • 00:29:38
    not going to get over them but when you
  • 00:29:40
    have that tremendous Bond it's because
  • 00:29:42
    you've been many many many life times
  • 00:29:55
    together and the healing process it it's
  • 00:29:58
    it's difficult it's very difficult it's
  • 00:30:01
    very painful there'll be times when you
  • 00:30:03
    cry there'll be times that you can cope
  • 00:30:06
    with it there'll be times when you can't
  • 00:30:09
    but I can honestly tell you if you've
  • 00:30:11
    had an animal before you know that it
  • 00:30:14
    gets better with time you don't get over
  • 00:30:17
    it and then there's the wonderful
  • 00:30:19
    thought of shall I get another animal
  • 00:30:22
    and you know will my animal come back to
  • 00:30:24
    me and how will I find it
  • 00:30:34
    many people will say to me do you think
  • 00:30:36
    my animal will come back to me or many
  • 00:30:39
    people recognize that their animals have
  • 00:30:41
    come back to them now whatever animal
  • 00:30:43
    that you get don't you don't have to go
  • 00:30:46
    looking for it people will say how am I
  • 00:30:48
    going to find it and they Rush all
  • 00:30:50
    around and they they go to the animal
  • 00:30:52
    sanctuaries and they're rushing all
  • 00:30:53
    around until they do a reading with me
  • 00:30:56
    and then I'll explain to them how it
  • 00:30:58
    works it's very simple you don't have to
  • 00:31:00
    rush anywhere the animal will find you
  • 00:31:04
    and the interesting thing is also when
  • 00:31:07
    an animal has passed sometimes you'll
  • 00:31:09
    see the characteristics of the animals
  • 00:31:11
    that's passed already in one of your Ed
  • 00:31:14
    animals well that's because the animal
  • 00:31:17
    certain traits that you know that animal
  • 00:31:19
    does that none of the animals do and
  • 00:31:21
    you'll suddenly see one of the one of
  • 00:31:23
    the animals behaving like the one that's
  • 00:31:25
    passed well it allows the animal anal
  • 00:31:28
    because its energy to take its body over
  • 00:31:30
    so it will sort of let it come into the
  • 00:31:32
    body so it can experience being with you
  • 00:31:35
    feeling and touching and in the same
  • 00:31:37
    physical form as you so they're able to
  • 00:31:39
    do that when they're in the spirit realm
  • 00:31:42
    so how do you find them and I say to
  • 00:31:45
    people and it's a very interesting
  • 00:31:47
    experience what can happen people always
  • 00:31:50
    think they should get a puppy and then
  • 00:31:52
    the animal will wait till you get home
  • 00:31:54
    and then they'll go into it when they
  • 00:31:56
    know you're definitely going to be
  • 00:31:57
    keeping it they don't go into it and
  • 00:31:59
    people think that we're all born with
  • 00:32:00
    souls in them but we're not our souls
  • 00:32:03
    sometimes go in a little after we're
  • 00:32:05
    born so understand that the animals even
  • 00:32:08
    if they come in with the souls and there
  • 00:32:11
    rescue and you go and rescue an animal
  • 00:32:14
    and you take it home your animal in
  • 00:32:16
    spirit will be watching out for which
  • 00:32:19
    animal you've got and then it'll
  • 00:32:21
    suddenly start after a period of time
  • 00:32:24
    gradually going in and out of the
  • 00:32:26
    physical body it's not a quick process
  • 00:32:29
    because the spiritual body is very heavy
  • 00:32:33
    and when wejust energy we get into that
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    body and we have to get used to the
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    vibrations and the frequencies and it
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    can't just go St B straight in it
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    sometimes we're born they're born in it
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    they're born in a puppy if you get it
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    but sometimes the soul can go in after
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    it's born if you get a rescue animal and
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    then you can see characteristics of the
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    dog that's already passed over in in the
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    dog that you've now got at home and the
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    dog you get or the cat you get or the
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    ferret you get or the mouse or the
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    hamster they still reincarnate all those
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    animals you can suddenly see traits or
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    certain distinctive things that the
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    animals passed over would do to you a
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    lady said to me the other day that one
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    of her dogs that she got at a rescue
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    suddenly started to push the bowl all
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    around around the kitchen after it had
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    eaten and she said my dog I had 10 years
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    ago used to do that Sonia I know it's
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    him come back and she said he also
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    starts to do things funny things that my
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    other dog used to do it used to chase
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    around the island just run around my
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    kitchen island and suddenly he started
  • 00:33:47
    to do it and I knew i' got my Toby back
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    so look out for things because once the
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    animal comes to you and if it decides to
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    reincarnate they don't always and they
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    don't always reincarnate immediately
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    they can take a few years to come back
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    but know you'll know that when they come
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    back into the physical body if the other
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    dog is 5 years old and you start to see
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    traits of your dog from the spiritual
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    realm in there or your
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    cats they have made a pack before they
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    even come here before they even go into
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    that physical body because we all know
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    before we come into this physical body
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    this time what we're going to go through
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    in our lives when we're going to die
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    when we hit the physical body we have no
  • 00:34:31
    knowledge of it the only way we have
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    knowledge of it is if we go to a
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    hypnotist and we regressed into past
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    lives then we'll know I've done that and
  • 00:34:39
    it's been very interesting experience
  • 00:34:42
    but the dog will be back with you but
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    the other soul will go back to the
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    spiritual realm but that's all been
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    arranged before they even come into that
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    physical body they know it and they go
  • 00:34:54
    back and the other Soul takes over the
  • 00:34:55
    physical body so you can have your dog
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    back and it can reincarnate sometimes
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    they go back and they think right I'm
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    getting a new body and I'm not going to
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    allow anyone to come into my home I'm
  • 00:35:06
    not my mom and dad no I'm getting back
  • 00:35:08
    there so that's how it works so it isn't
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    the end and some reincarnate and some
  • 00:35:14
    don't some take longer some take it do
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    it immediately so now know that the
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    spiritual realm is always around you and
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    with you and that miracles do happen and
  • 00:35:27
    that the
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    you know it's always a miracle I think I
  • 00:35:30
    had Sammy back that I was telling you
  • 00:35:32
    about earlier in the
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    bdb and he was just oh he was a big dog
  • 00:35:38
    and he died early he was a richb and
  • 00:35:41
    when he came to me Sammy someone threw
  • 00:35:43
    him out of a car and a little boy
  • 00:35:45
    brought him up and I picked him up and
  • 00:35:46
    his leg was damaged they' thrown him out
  • 00:35:49
    left him and I brought him in the house
  • 00:35:52
    and my Emma came in my daughter and she
  • 00:35:54
    said Mom I don't know whether you know
  • 00:35:55
    it but Sam's back with you and I was a
  • 00:35:58
    bit surprised and she said he's come
  • 00:36:00
    back in a small body because he always
  • 00:36:01
    wanted to get on your knee and now he
  • 00:36:03
    can and you know he lived a very long
  • 00:36:05
    time because he didn't live long in his
  • 00:36:07
    last lifetime he lived a long time and a
  • 00:36:10
    week later the hair down his back he was
  • 00:36:13
    a little terry funny little dog his hair
  • 00:36:16
    down his back went into a whole ridge
  • 00:36:19
    and curled at the top and that really
  • 00:36:22
    convinced me this was my Brew back again
  • 00:36:25
    in another physical body and it come
  • 00:36:27
    back a small dog cuz he hated it cuz he
  • 00:36:29
    couldn't get on my knee and he Sam was
  • 00:36:33
    Brew come back again he even had the
  • 00:36:35
    same traits he was still sneaky like brw
  • 00:36:37
    was he did things that only Brun did and
  • 00:36:39
    it was a joy having him back and Sam
  • 00:36:42
    used to sleep with me and he was always
  • 00:36:44
    with me and he loved it because he was
  • 00:36:46
    like my left arm he never left me so
  • 00:36:49
    you're going to have that experience
  • 00:36:51
    some of you are going to have that
  • 00:36:53
    experience and when you do it's like a
  • 00:36:55
    miracle and you can't believe it and it
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    makes makes you happy and then all the
  • 00:36:59
    pain goes away unfortunately it doesn't
  • 00:37:01
    always happen but it happens a lot of
  • 00:37:03
    the time the funniest story I I have to
  • 00:37:06
    tell you I've had many funny ones that
  • 00:37:08
    this is fascinating I had a couple that
  • 00:37:10
    called me and their dog had passed over
  • 00:37:13
    a little while ago and they got a new
  • 00:37:14
    dog so they wanted me to talk to the new
  • 00:37:17
    dog so it was a bulldog and English
  • 00:37:20
    Bulldog so I started to talk to the dog
  • 00:37:23
    and he tells me he has steak every night
  • 00:37:26
    and he they said yes he does he we cook
  • 00:37:29
    him a steak every single night he loves
  • 00:37:31
    it so then he went on to tell me that
  • 00:37:34
    they had a boat and that it was his boat
  • 00:37:37
    and that he went on the boat often and
  • 00:37:39
    he loved going on the boat and they said
  • 00:37:41
    yes he loves going on the boat he really
  • 00:37:44
    does he enjoys it and that he had a life
  • 00:37:46
    vest that they put on him and they were
  • 00:37:48
    really careful with him and I remember
  • 00:37:50
    him saying the only thing I don't like
  • 00:37:52
    is having my nails cut well a lot of
  • 00:37:54
    dogs don't like doing but everything
  • 00:37:55
    else in my life tell them he said is
  • 00:37:58
    absolutely perfect and then he went on
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    to say about driving um a truck and he
  • 00:38:05
    said it was an older truck but he was
  • 00:38:07
    very fond of it so I started to get a
  • 00:38:10
    feeling like gosh so I said to
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    them your father I feel is reincarnated
  • 00:38:16
    in your dog and they both burst out
  • 00:38:18
    laughing and they said Sonia he always
  • 00:38:21
    said I'm coming back as your dog and he
  • 00:38:23
    they said we couldn't wait to get
  • 00:38:25
    another dog and see and we give him the
  • 00:38:28
    steak every night cuz he told them
  • 00:38:30
    before he left I'll come back as your
  • 00:38:31
    dog I want steak every night I still
  • 00:38:33
    want to go on the boat regularly because
  • 00:38:35
    he loved his boat and he wanted them to
  • 00:38:37
    hang on to the old car which they did so
  • 00:38:41
    that is a wonderful story and knowing
  • 00:38:43
    that we can reincarnate in many
  • 00:38:45
    different forms from animal to human
  • 00:38:48
    from human to animal so I love that
  • 00:38:56
    story
  • 00:38:59
    getting a new animal after your animals
  • 00:39:02
    passed over some people can do it
  • 00:39:04
    immediately within a few days and other
  • 00:39:08
    people feel they can't do it and they'd
  • 00:39:11
    love to have another dog but they'll say
  • 00:39:13
    to me oh no he wouldn't have wanted me
  • 00:39:16
    to have another dog and I feel that I'm
  • 00:39:18
    betraying him I have to remind people
  • 00:39:22
    that animals don't think like people
  • 00:39:24
    they love us they want us to have
  • 00:39:26
    another dog and if you don't get another
  • 00:39:27
    dog or a cat how can the animal
  • 00:39:30
    reincarnate and come back to you if it
  • 00:39:32
    wants to so don't ever think that an
  • 00:39:35
    animal will will not like it if you go
  • 00:39:39
    and get another animal and replace him
  • 00:39:41
    because you're not replacing him they
  • 00:39:42
    don't see that they just want you to be
  • 00:39:45
    happy sometimes they reincarnate and
  • 00:39:48
    sometimes they don't but the wonderful
  • 00:39:50
    Joy of going and getting an animal when
  • 00:39:52
    your other one has passed over is it's
  • 00:39:55
    not that you get over your animal that
  • 00:39:57
    you love so much that's in spirit it
  • 00:40:00
    just gives you a focus you have to focus
  • 00:40:03
    and going from having an elderly animal
  • 00:40:05
    to getting a young one whether it's an
  • 00:40:07
    older cat or an elder dog is a lot of
  • 00:40:11
    work you forget how much work it is
  • 00:40:13
    because older dogs they're easy they
  • 00:40:16
    don't they're in their routine they're
  • 00:40:18
    not jumping up you they don't need
  • 00:40:20
    training they're all they've got you
  • 00:40:22
    trained by the time they're older so
  • 00:40:25
    bringing a new dog or a new cat or for a
  • 00:40:27
    new animal in is a joy and I would you
  • 00:40:31
    know just wait until you feel that
  • 00:40:33
    you're ready you can't do it until
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    you're ready or if you're a husband and
  • 00:40:37
    wife you both have to be ready and you
  • 00:40:39
    both have to agree on it but do get
  • 00:40:42
    another animal if you do and time I can
  • 00:40:45
    do it in a few days but I'm fortunate I
  • 00:40:47
    know the animals in spirit so I'm
  • 00:40:49
    fortunate I can do that but you miss
  • 00:40:52
    them so much and getting a new animal
  • 00:40:54
    it's another life it's possibly a
  • 00:40:56
    physical form of your past animals to
  • 00:40:59
    come back into maybe it won't come back
  • 00:41:02
    but whatever it'll be a joy to you
  • 00:41:04
    you'll go through all the things and you
  • 00:41:06
    know that you've got an animal that's
  • 00:41:08
    going to be with you for a long time or
  • 00:41:10
    you hope it's going to be with you for a
  • 00:41:12
    long time so don't delay you don't have
  • 00:41:15
    to delay getting an animal you know just
  • 00:41:18
    go out there but when you do go maybe
  • 00:41:21
    you're going to get a rescue animal and
  • 00:41:23
    you go you'll go through the rescue
  • 00:41:27
    where looking in all the cages they'll
  • 00:41:29
    bring it out but you'll have to have a
  • 00:41:31
    feeling about it there'll be something
  • 00:41:34
    about that animal that you like it might
  • 00:41:37
    be that he runs up to the front of the
  • 00:41:39
    cage in front of the other dogs and he's
  • 00:41:42
    there and he's wanting you to take him
  • 00:41:44
    it might be that he holds back it might
  • 00:41:47
    be a look but there'll be something that
  • 00:41:50
    you will like or recognize or feel
  • 00:41:54
    because the feelings and emotions come
  • 00:41:56
    into this so much much about that animal
  • 00:41:59
    you will feel you will have a kind of
  • 00:42:01
    knowing so go and have a look and if you
  • 00:42:04
    can't find the right animal or you're
  • 00:42:06
    not ready for it just leave it for a bit
  • 00:42:09
    longer and then go again but the right
  • 00:42:11
    animal will be there for you you may
  • 00:42:14
    have a puppy you may want to go to a
  • 00:42:16
    breeder I always we always rescue our
  • 00:42:18
    animals because there are animals out
  • 00:42:20
    there of all all all kinds of animals
  • 00:42:23
    all breeds of animals you can go to
  • 00:42:25
    breed if you want a certain if you want
  • 00:42:28
    German Shepherds there's always someone
  • 00:42:31
    who rescues German Shepherds if you want
  • 00:42:33
    Bridge PS there are always Ridgebacks if
  • 00:42:36
    you want poodles there are always
  • 00:42:38
    poodles and I would advise you if you
  • 00:42:39
    can to go to a rescue group but whatever
  • 00:42:42
    way you get your animal know that you're
  • 00:42:44
    going to have love joy your life will
  • 00:42:47
    have a meaning again it will have a
  • 00:42:50
    purpose they get you out they walk you
  • 00:42:52
    if their dogs the cats are funny and I
  • 00:42:55
    will always say if you're going to get a
  • 00:42:57
    cat get two they're company for each
  • 00:43:00
    other cats you know often people will go
  • 00:43:03
    and get another cat and if you see two
  • 00:43:05
    cats together don't separate them take
  • 00:43:08
    the kittens together because you're
  • 00:43:10
    going to have double the fun with two
  • 00:43:12
    kittens and it's no more work it's no
  • 00:43:14
    more work at all so if you can rescue
  • 00:43:17
    two or you can rescue two cats they're
  • 00:43:20
    company for each other and they do get
  • 00:43:21
    used to each other and you know you can
  • 00:43:24
    have a lot of cats and they don't even
  • 00:43:25
    like each other I've got cats here
  • 00:43:27
    you've seen a few on the video hanging
  • 00:43:29
    around well I've got about six cats and
  • 00:43:32
    they all have their own relationship and
  • 00:43:34
    it might not be a good relationship but
  • 00:43:37
    they're a family and when of them when
  • 00:43:39
    when any of them go they grieve but
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    whatever you get know that it's going to
  • 00:43:45
    give your life a new meaning a new
  • 00:43:48
    purpose and a great deal of joy and
  • 00:43:50
    happiness so good luck and I do hope
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    this has helped some of you understand
  • 00:43:57
    that there's no death and there's no
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