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how do you follow your passion in life
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how do you live a life of continuously
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acting in alignment with what you're
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passionate about in this video I want to
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give you a road map for doing that and I
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want to give it to you in a very direct
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way I want to make this very clear on
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what this actually takes so in this
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video I want to point to your actual
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deepest desires your deepest passions
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not just a surf level passion of let's
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say like playing the guitar because you
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just like playing the guitar or painting
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a picture or writing right kind of like
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how we typically say following your
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passion and it's kind of corny it's a
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little bit um it's just kind of out of
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touch with actual the actual experience
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of life for the most part it's kind of
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just overly
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idealistic so in this video I really
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want to just make this one
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clear so in actual experience this life
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vision of living in alignment with your
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passion
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requires a shift in your Consciousness
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this requires you to actually do inner
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psychological emotional and spiritual
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work and we live in a culture that
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doesn't really value
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that we live in a culture that's very
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distracted by external Stuff newest
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movies gadgets entertainment whatever
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newest thing happening on the news
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newest iPhone constant constant
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distractions and we actually have to
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develop the capacity to turn inward and
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do this kind of necessary work or else
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we're not even going to survive as a
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species the next phase of human
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development is not just endless external
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seeking but the capacity for us to
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actually raise our own psychological
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emotional Spiritual Development to raise
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our Consciousness this is going to be an
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essential part of our species ability to
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survive or else we're just going to be
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acting like Mindless animals being
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controlled by our most
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primitive aspects of ourselves our
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shadow our wounds our trauma
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Etc so you need to align with your own
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psychology what does this mean you have
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to align with your own intrinsic
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motivation the things that naturally
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bring out a sense of curiosity in you
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the things that naturally bring out a
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sense of passion the things that
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naturally make you feel free they make
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you want to actually just act upon those
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sort of natural forms of motivation
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right keep in mind this word natur
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natural so you can kind of think of
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certain aspects of your psyche as sort
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of having this once again natural
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blueprint it's kind of just like nature
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you have a personality you have
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preferences you have a certain sort of
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like energetic feeling to you certain
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kind of energy certain emotional
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structures as
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well and you actually have to learn how
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to live in alignment with that blueprint
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cuz all this intrinsic stuff and this
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intrinsic motivation is pointing you in
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certain life directions and you have to
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be able to clue in on that and trust
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that and act upon that continuously but
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if you're too numb if you're too
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distracted if you're dull if you're sick
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you can't do
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that so this
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requires a lot of actual personal
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development so you need to align with
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your psychology emotions energy
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preferences values personality and be
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genuine and authentic embodying them you
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have to take time to actually reflect
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and cultivate this sort of introspection
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and this skill or else you're not going
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to have it in the same way how if you
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wanted to build muscles you got to go to
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the gym a
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lot and without going to the gym and
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lifting weights you're not going to
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build muscle it's the same thing with
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this you need that intentional time
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every single day to build your
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Consciousness to get clear about your
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core values as a human being to actually
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reflect on what you value to write it
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down to get clear about your preferences
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to study your personality think a bunch
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of personality to starts studying
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them and slowly over time you put this
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all together you need that longterm
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vision for your
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life and this requires a dedication to
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what's true without truth you're not
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going to be able to do this truth is
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like that it's the best guiding force
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truth and honesty are the best guiding
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forces in life there is nothing that
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even comes close to being better than
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what is true for guiding your
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life so this requires a deep dedication
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to what's true spiritual truth personal
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truth relational truths other forms of
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truth truth in all domains of
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life right this ability to actually see
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the big picture not get stuck in details
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but to zoom out to see the big picture
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as
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well so good luck creating a life that's
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founded upon delusion manipulation
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falsehood
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exploitation you can't do that it has to
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be aligned with
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truth with compassion with love you
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can't live passionately if you're
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mentally emotionally
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spiritually bankrupt and
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sick and the thing is is that the human
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mind has a lot of these
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Tendencies especially living in our
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culture nowadays or modern world
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extremely sick I I don't want to go too
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much into that in this
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video but maybe I'll talk about a little
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bit later so without this sort of
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dedication to truth you can't really
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listen to your own internal world you're
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not clear about that and you just can't
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navigate life very well so how are you
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going to follow your passion if you
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can't navigate life very well at all how
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you going to follow your passion without
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doing this emotional psychological
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spiritual work this Consciousness work
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how you going to listen to yourself how
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you going to cultivate that Attunement
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to yourself see so most people don't
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really want
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to realize that this takes years of
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personal spiritual and psychological
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work this ability to deeply attune to
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oneself is a skill that has to be
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cultivated over years of
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time right oh years years of time oh my
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God
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years but what else do you expect if you
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want to get jacked if you want to
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weightlift and get big it's going to be
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years that's the hard reality of it is
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that you need to actually put in the
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necessary time to actually yield the
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results and without doing that I mean
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what's going to
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happen what other option is there to
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Doom scroll for our entire existence
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until we pass
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away right so this idea about fallowing
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your passion is about learning to listen
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to yourself Moment by moment and the
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reality of this is that this kind of
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Attunement and connection to oneself
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will require are years of spiritual
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psychological and emotional development
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it requires a lot of emotional labor I
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understand I'm being very direct and I'm
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really just trying to really try to make
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it clear I don't want this to be too
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idealistic of always just we're going to
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follow our passion and it's going to be
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great although yeah it is great right
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and there can be a lot of love and you
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know there's truth in that very
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idealistic perspective but there's also
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some groundwork there's some practical
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structure Al work that actually has to
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get done and without that what are you
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going to build upon what passionate life
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is going to get built upon a foundation
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that can't support
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it so most people don't really want to
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actually do a lot of this kind of work
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they want this kind of stuff to just be
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easy they want it to be handed to them
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but the
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reality is that you're going to have to
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look into the mechanics of your own mind
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you're going to have to get clear about
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what you value what your preferences are
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Etc so a lot of people don't want to
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realize that this is going to require
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things like consistent effort help from
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others paying other people to help you
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reading hundreds of
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books paying people for their
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information paying people to help you
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remain accountable finding a sense of
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accountability in the connections that
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you make with other
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people right hiring coaches therapists
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going into
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groups finding like-minded friends as
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well this is like a big restructuring of
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the lives of a lot of
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people so it also involves creating a
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supportive structure on
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environment you have to find the things
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and the resources that are going to help
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you on your journey you have to be
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proactive about it if you're not
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proactive about it you're
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screwed if you're not willing to put the
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necessary effort and energy into the
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thing you're not going to get anything
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back again it it's too
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idealistic sometimes to just believe
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that you know I'll just like live my
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passionate life and I'll just do my
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thing there again is some practical
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groundwork that actually has to be done
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and then life begins to let's say like
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get sweet then it's like it's easy you
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wire yourself so that's it's easy to
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feel passionate about life you wire
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yourself so that's it's easy to listen
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to yourself you wire yourself so that
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it's easy to act in alignment with your
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authenticity rather than
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fear again we're doing that groundwork
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so that all this sort of idealistic
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stuff becomes natural and it becomes
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easy in the same way how like an NBA
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player can just shoot free throw after
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free throw or even three points after
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three points or to the point where it
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looks easy why because they've done that
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a million times that's why it's
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so easy at that
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point cuz they've trained themselves to
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the point where they just have the
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necessary skills so that they can do
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that so this life path also requires a
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lot of openness and a deep ability to
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challenge your own beliefs and patterns
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this takes radical self-honesty and this
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honesty is your best bet at Living a
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deeply fulfilling life this inner
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transparency is your best compass
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this kind of Life Path really requires
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you to do this reflection work challenge
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the beliefs you have that block you
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because there's a lot and you probably
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don't even recognize how many limiting
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beliefs you have and challenge the
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patterns that you find yourself
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in because if you're not able to change
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the stuff you're going to stay stuck in
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the same behaviors and it's just around
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and round and it's a
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cycle and how are you going to how you
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going to break out of
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it got a lot of compassion it's very
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hard this stuff if you're willing to
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actually do this
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work you're very brave that you're very
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very courageous I'm very proud of you if
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you're actually able to do this work and
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you're serious about it you really see
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the value of it because this kind of
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inner work is a stuff that most people
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on planet Earth are absolutely avoiding
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completely
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avoiding so unfortunately delusion lying
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and falsehood are more common than truth
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and that's because discovering truth
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requires effort development and
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intentional energy most people do not
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want to do the emotional Rel the
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emotional labor that is required it's
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it's difficult work that requires a
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sincere
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heart finding truth is actually
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difficult and it's going to require you
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to come up against the delusions of your
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own mind and let them go and all those
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delusions and patterns and all that
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manipulation and and all that kind of
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stuff the falsehood that at one point
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helped you to survive so it really
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brings you up against your own wounds
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your own psychological emotional wounds
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that you don't want to feel you don't
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want to notice
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them it brings you up against your rough
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edges and it forces you to polish them
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out so these are some Core Connections
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to make truth self-honesty inner
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transparency openness and an ability to
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challenge and change beliefs ideas and
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patterns all really go together again
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I'll say that one more time truth
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self-honesty inner transparency openness
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a lot of openness and an ability to
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change beliefs ideas and patterns all
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this stuff goes together in this sort of
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Life vision CU again we're talking about
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a big change to your life if we're
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trying to follow our deepest passion
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Moment by moment this is a big change so
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it's going to
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require that's some changes get made of
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course and again you need that sort of
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long-term Vision I'm being a little bit
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of uh being a little bit Direct in this
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video but again I want to make it clear
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I want to make it just very to the point
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and I want you to have an idea of like
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what really has to get done in order to
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construct this life for yourself right
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in the same way how an NBA player has to
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train for thousands upon thousands of
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thousands of hours a master has to
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supposedly do the thing for 10,000 hours
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before they achieve Mastery
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status right before they're truly a
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master so again you just kind of need
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need an idea of
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that so if you actually can't do those
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core things that I actually mentioned
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the problem with this is that you're not
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really going to be able to follow your
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deepest
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passion the problem with this is that a
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lot of these sort of underlying
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psychological emotional and intrinsic
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forms of motivation you're not going to
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pick up on them it's easy to get
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misguided and you're going to be led by
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delusions and falsehood essentially for
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not being led by honesty and inner
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transparency and and openness you're
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going to be closed you're going to be
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too rigid you're not going to be
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flexible enough to build the life that
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you actually really align
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with and again I'm talking about the
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deepest passion you you have not just a
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surface level one of like playing the
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guitar or playing the piano or just kind
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of doing art but like really infusing
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your life with a sense of passion and a
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sense of love for existence
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itself so in in actuality why would you
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settle for anything less than that why
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would you settle for you know just
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playing the guitar just playing the
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piano or just doing my art right don't
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you really want everything that life
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really has to offer you why would you
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not want to fall in in love with the
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momentto moment experience of actual
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life and then Infuse that level of
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Consciousness with your relationships
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with your career with your diet with
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every single aspect of your
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life so this requires a full embodiment
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of yourself this requires you to
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actually fully express yourself in all
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areas of your life life again it's a
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pretty big shift that we're talking
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about
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here so you need to probe into the
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depths of your being you have to
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actually know yourself know thyself as
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the Greeks say so you have to dig into
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your unconsciousness you have to dig
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into your mind and you have to actually
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kind of clean it up you actually have to
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go through a lot of the things that you
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don't really want to look at that's the
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reality of that you're going to have to
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learn a lot of new skills adapt there's
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going to be challenges that you'll have
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to overcome
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continuously and you're going to have to
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build the ability to be flexible enough
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to solve those problems and those
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challenges without the flexibility those
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challenges are just going to stop you in
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your
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tracks lastly this requires learning
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hundreds of perspectives and life
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requires a holistic approach to it this
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is just a basic fact of life life is um
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complex if you don't have the necessary
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perspectives that you need the necessary
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information the necessary resources
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you're not going to be able to sort of
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execute on this sort of mission this
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means that you got to study business
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relationships Health spirituality
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science healing psychology emotional
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development Etc you got to learn how you
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develop as a human being study spr
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Dynamics study ego development
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theory again this is the path of
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self-actualization of really reaching
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your full potential this is the path a
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very deep
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education this is the path of very deep
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personal
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transformation this is the path of
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transcending the
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ego this is the path of Breaking Free of
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the structures that limit you and
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continuously hold you back in your daily
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life and prevent you from really living
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the life that is infused with a sense of
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love and passion for existence and for
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every single thing that you're
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essentially
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doing so all this is going to be useful
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for navigating life's journey that's it
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for this video if you're interested in
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working one to one with me you can apply
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to do so link is in the pinned comment
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