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have you sat down and wondered why being
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smart sometimes feels like a curse why
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do the most intelligent people often end
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up alone while those of average mind
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seem to thrive socially Arthur
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schopenhauer one of history's most
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brutally honest philosophers cracked
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this riddle nearly 200 years ago he
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established that intelligence itself
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becomes a mirror reflecting back others
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limitations and people never forgive you
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for showing them what they don't want to
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see most people think it's just
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coincidence that Brilliant Minds often
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live lonely lives or maybe smart people
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are just socially awkward but
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schopenhauer saw something deeper a
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pattern that plays out in every society
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in every age he noticed something
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interesting when you put an intelligent
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person in a room they don't have to say
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a word to make others uncomfortable
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their mere presence becomes like holding
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up a mirror to everyone else's
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limitations and nobody likes looking in
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a mirror that shows them things they'd
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rather ignore think about it we
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celebrate all kinds of superiority money
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people love Rich folks good looks we
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can't get enough even physical strength
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gets admiration but Superior
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intelligence that's different it stirs
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up a special kind of resentment a quiet
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hatred that most people won't even admit
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to themselves so how did schopenhauer
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come to understand this dark side of
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human nature and why do his insights
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matter more than ever in today's world
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born in 1788 in Germany schopenhauer
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wasn't just some Ivory Tower philosopher
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theorizing about life he lived through
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the exact Dynamics he wrote about as a
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young lecturer he scheduled his
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University classes at the same time as
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the famous philosopher Hegel who he saw
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as a complete fraud while hegel's
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lectures packed the Halls schopenhauer
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sat empty but instead of just getting
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bitter he got curious why did people
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flock to comforting nonsense while
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avoiding harder truths he started
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watching how people behaved around
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intelligence not just in universities
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but everywhere he saw the same pattern
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over and over the smarter someone was
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the more others found subtle ways to
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exclude them not because they were rude
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or arrogant just because their
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intelligence itself made others feel
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smaller living modestly off his
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inheritance schopenhauer had the freedom
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to observe Society without needing its
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approval he watched how people gathered
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in groups who they welcomed who they
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pushed away the patterns he saw weren't
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pretty but they were consistent modern
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science has caught up with what
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schopenhauer observed through pure
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Insight recent studies in social
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psychology reveal fascinating evidence
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about why intelligent people face social
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rejection brain Imaging research shows
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something remarkable when people feel
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intellectually inferior it activates the
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same neural Pathways as physical pain
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it's not just a figure of speech when
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people say intelligence hurts their ego
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it literally triggers pain responses in
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the brain a 2021 study found that
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exposure to Superior intelligence
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activates our threat detection systems
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the amydala our brain's alarm system
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lights up when we encounter someone
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significantly smarter than us it's the
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same response we have to physical
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threats explaining why the reaction
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feels so instinctive and hard to control
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researchers at Stanford discovered
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something even more interesting this
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response is stronger in group settings
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when people are alone with someone more
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intelligent the threat response is
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minimal but add more people to the room
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and it spikes dramatically our brains
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seem wired to protect our social status
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more than our private self-image but
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this hardwired response isn't the whole
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story what schopenhauer discovered about
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how we consciously process this
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unconscious reaction reveals something
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even more profound and what he
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discovered about how intelligence
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affects human behavior would explain
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something that had puzzled people for
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centuries here's what schopenhauer
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discovered people don't just randomly
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dislike intelligence it triggers
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something deep in human psychology
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something most of us won't even admit to
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ourselves when someone smarter enters a
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conversation everyone else unconsciously
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measures themselves against them not
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because they want to but because they
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can't help it it's like putting a
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professional athlete in a casual pickup
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game suddenly everyone feels their
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limitations schopenhauer noticed how
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people react to this feeling they don't
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say wow this person makes me feel dumb
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instead they assume the intelligent
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person looks down on them even if the
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smart person hasn't said a word about
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their intelligence others feel judged
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just by their presence and here's the
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really fascinating part the smarter
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someone is the less they might actually
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judge others but that doesn't matter
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people react to the mirror intelligence
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holds up not to any real judgment it's
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why you often hear things like they
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think they're so smart about people
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who've never claimed to be smart at all
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but why do we react this way to
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intelligence when other kinds of
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superiority don't bother us nearly as
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much schopenhauer noticed something
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fascinating about how intelligence
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affects men and women differently in
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society while both face rejection the
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Dynamics play out in unique ways for
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intelligent men the rejection often
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comes as direct confrontation or subtle
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exclusion but for intelligent women
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schopenhauer observed a double bond they
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face resistance not just for their
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intelligence but for breaking social
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expectations about how women should
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present themselves he pointed out how
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Society often forces intelligent women
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to choose between being liked and being
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respected while Beauty in women is
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celebrated intelligence gets a different
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response an intelligent beautiful woman
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he noted often faces more isolation than
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either quality alone would cause Beauty
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attracts superficial attention while
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intelligence pushes it away modern
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research backs this up studies show
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intelligent women often downplay their
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capabilities in Social settings
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something their male counterparts feel
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less pressur to do they're more likely
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to face what psychologists Now call the
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competence likability tradeoff the more
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competent they appear the less likable
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they're rated by both men and women
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isn't it interesting just how the most
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popular person in a group rarely seems
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to be the smartest schopenhauer
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explained why mediocrity makes people
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comfortable it's like a warm blanket
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that tells everyone don't worry you're
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just fine as you are average Minds have
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a special Social Power they don't
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challenge anyone's self-image they don't
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accidentally make others question
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themselves instead they make everyone
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feel good about their own level of
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thinking think about conversations at
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most social Gatherings they stick to
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simple topics obvious jokes basic
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observations because keeping things
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surface level keeps everyone comfortable
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the moment someone introduces a more
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complex idea you can feel the room tense
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up shophow saw how this played out in
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every field mediocre artists got more
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exhibitions than brilliant ones average
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writers sold more books than profound
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ones not because people couldn't tell
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the difference but because mediocrity
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never makes them feel inadequate now let
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me show you how this same pattern plays
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out in today's world and why it might be
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even stronger than ever look around your
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workplace or scroll through social media
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schopenhauer's insights are playing out
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everywhere just in modern forms that
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brilliant colleague who gets left out of
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lunch invites the thoughtful posts that
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get ignored while simple memes go viral
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it's the same pattern he spotted 200
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years ago in today's offices we've given
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it new names we talk about being a
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culture fit or having emotional
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intelligence sure these things matter
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but how often is not a culture fit
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really code for makes others feel
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intellectually uncomfortable even in
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tech companies that claim to Value
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intelligence you'll notice the most
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successful people aren't usually the
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smartest they're the ones who make
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others feel smart social media has made
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this even more obvious complex ideas get
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ignored while oversimplified hot takes
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go viral why because depth makes people
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think and thinking makes people
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uncomfortable it's easier to share a
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simple opinion that makes everyone nod
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than a complex truth that makes people
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question things even in education we see
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it schools claim to Value intelligence
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but watch what really gets rewarded it's
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usually not the most original thinkers
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but the ones who make ideas simple
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enough for everyone to feel included
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here's the strangest part of how Society
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treats intelligence we need it
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desperately but resist it actively show
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cower called this the ultimate social
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Paradox every society celebrates its
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Geniuses after their dead Newton
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Einstein Marie cury we put them on
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pedestals now but during their lives
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Newton was Notorious for his lack of
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friends Einstein was called a Fool by
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his teachers cury was rejected by the
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scientific establishment this Paradox
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shows up everywhere companies claim they
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want Innovative thinkers then reject
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ideas that challenge the status quo
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universities say they seek Brilliant
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Minds then reward conformity over
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originality Society needs progress but
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fights the very people who create it
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schopenhauer explained that intelligence
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is the only form of power that can't be
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controlled or predicted you can regulate
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wealth limit physical strength even
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manage beauty standards but you can't
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control what a truly intelligent person
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might think or discover next
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understanding this pattern doesn't mean
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you're doomed to social isolation
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schopenhauer wasn't just pointing out
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problems he was showing us a map once
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you understand why intelligence creates
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social friction you can learn to
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navigate it better first recognize ize
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that you're not doing anything wrong by
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being intelligent the reaction you get
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isn't personal it's a natural social
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Dynamic understanding this alone can
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lift a huge weight off your shoulders
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second learn to read the room there's a
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time and place for deep thinking save
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your most complex ideas for people and
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situations where they'll be appreciated
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this isn't about dumbing yourself down
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it's about choosing your moments wisely
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third find your tribe schopenhauer
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noticed that truly intelligent people
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tend to form small tight-knit groups
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today with the Internet it's easier than
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ever to connect with Minds that match
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yours you don't need everyone to
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understand you just enough people who do
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some of history's most successful
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intellectuals found ways to bridge this
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gap between intelligence and social
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acceptance they develop specific
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strategies that we can learn from take
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Richard Fineman the brilliant physicist
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he became famous not just for his genius
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but for his ability to make complex
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ideas accessible without dumbing them
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down he used simple language and
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relatable examples making his
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intelligence inviting rather than
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threatening aah love lace often called
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the first computer programmer created
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what she called social Laboratories
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Gatherings where intelligent people
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could interact freely while making
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others feel welcome to join and learn
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she showed that intelligence doesn't
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have to be isolating if you create the
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right environment even Benjamin Franklin
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despite his towering intellect
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deliberately presented himself as a
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constant learner rather than an
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authority he would often phrase his
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ideas as questions or suggestions making
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his intelligence feel like a shared
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Journey rather than a superior position
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now let me show you how how all this
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comes together to change the way you
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approach social situations look being
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intelligent doesn't mean you're destined
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for loneliness schopenhauer wasn't
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telling us these things to make us feel
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hopeless he was showing us reality so we
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could deal with it better think about
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some of History's Greatest Minds Darwin
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spent years in isolation developing his
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ideas Einstein worked in a patent office
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away from Academia Marie curee faced
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constant resistance yet they all found
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their way to make an impact and more
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importantly to find fulfillment the key
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isn't to hide your in intelligence or
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pretend to be something you're not it's
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about understanding the social dynamics
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at play and working with them not
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against them sometimes that means
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stepping back other times it means
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finding the Right audience always it
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means staying true to yourself while
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being smart about how you engage with
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others remember just because Society
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often resists intelligence doesn't mean
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it doesn't need it every major advance
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in human history came from someone who
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thought differently who saw deeper who
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dared to be smarter than average that's
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not going to change next time you feel
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that social push back against your
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intelligence remember what schopenhauer
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taught us you're not doing anything
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wrong you're just holding up a mirror
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and how others react to their reflection
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isn't your responsibility if this video
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