things I no longer believe in.

00:03:22
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4CaSXEEqKBU

Résumé

TLDRThe piece discusses personal growth through the metaphor of the lotus flower, symbolizing that beauty can arise from difficult circumstances. The speaker reflects on shedding unhealthy beliefs about relationships, attachment, and self-love. They emphasize the importance of forgiveness, recognizing the impermanence of life, and the necessity of self-discovery before seeking external validation. Unlearning old patterns is portrayed as crucial for growth, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of self and happiness.

A retenir

  • 🌸 The lotus symbolizes beauty emerging from adversity.
  • ✌️ Forgiveness allows healing and moving forward.
  • 🔗 Letting go of attachment prevents unnecessary suffering.
  • 💔 Speaking poorly of past partners hinders growth.
  • 💪 Self-love is essential before seeking love from others.
  • 📚 Unlearning old beliefs is crucial for personal development.
  • 🌱 Growth requires shedding perspectives that no longer serve you.
  • 🌍 Acknowledge that everything in life is temporary.
  • 🏋️‍♂️ Solutions may take effort but are always available.
  • 🔄 Change is the only constant in life.

Chronologie

  • 00:00:00 - 00:03:22

    The speaker reflects on the significance of the Lotus flower, sharing that it symbolizes the journey of growth through adversity. They discuss letting go of unhealthy beliefs, particularly about past relationships and the importance of forgiveness without bitterness. The speaker emphasizes the need for solutions to problems, promoting the idea of growth and progress over stagnation. They reveal a shift away from the belief in attachment, understanding it often leads to suffering due to the impermanence of life. Acknowledging that peace and happiness should come from within, the speaker rejects the concept of 'the right person at the wrong time', highlighting that even painful experiences contribute to personal learning and growth. They urge the importance of self-love and wholeness before seeking companionship, as relying on others for happiness only leads to further pain. The speaker concludes by stressing that unlearning harmful beliefs is vital for personal development and encourages embracing change as an essential part of life.

Carte mentale

Vidéo Q&R

  • What does the lotus flower represent?

    The lotus flower represents beauty and growth that emerges from difficult conditions.

  • Why is forgiveness important?

    Forgiveness allows you to move forward without being stuck in the past.

  • What does the speaker say about attachment?

    The speaker believes that attachment leads to unnecessary suffering and pain.

  • How should one view past relationships?

    It's important to acknowledge the love you had for a previous partner without speaking poorly of them.

  • What is necessary before letting someone into your life?

    You need to be whole and love yourself before seeking love from others.

  • What is the significance of unlearning?

    Unlearning is essential for personal growth and making room for healthier perspectives.

  • What does 'the only thing that doesn't change is change itself' mean?

    It emphasizes the constant nature of change in life.

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    hello one of my favorite flowers is the
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    Lotus not just for its beauty but for
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    the deeper significance it holds it
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    represents much more than you might
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    initially think the phrase lotus in the
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    mud is often used to describe the idea
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    that one must go through the mud to
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    achieve Beauty the reason why I bring
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    this up is because I no longer believe
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    in certain ideas that keep me stuck in
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    unhealthy patterns over time I've
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    realized that growth requires shedding
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    old perspectives that no longer serve
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    me I no longer believe in talking poorly
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    about your previous partner there were
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    once someone you loved and while it's
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    important to forgive it doesn't mean you
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    need to
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    forget if you wouldn't have said it to
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    them then why say it about them now
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    forgiveness allows you to move forward
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    but holding on to bitterness only keeps
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    you stuck in the
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    past I no longer believe in having no
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    solutions to problems some solutions may
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    take more effort but in the end you'll
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    find a way this is what the skies the
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    limit really means I know longer believe
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    in attachment I no longer believe in
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    attachment because I've learned that it
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    often leads to unnecessary suffering
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    attachment stems from a fear of
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    loss and it is a desire for control
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    but life is inherently
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    impermanent people and circumstances are
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    constantly changing and holding on too
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    tightly only creates pain when things
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    inevitably
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    shift instead I've come to understand
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    that true peace and happiness come from
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    within not from clinging to external
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    things or people while it's important to
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    love and appreciate those around you
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    it's equally important to recognize that
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    everything in life is temporary
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    we come into this world alone and we
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    leave
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    alone I no longer believe in the idea of
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    the right person wrong time some people
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    will love you deeply While others will
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    hurt you it's a right time because even
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    in pain you learn something from the
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    experience you learn to not go back you
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    learn to move
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    on like falling you're picking up a
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    stone along the
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    way I no longer believe in finding your
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    missing peace in a partner you need to
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    be whole and love yourself before
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    letting anyone else in invest in
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    yourself so that you attract the same
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    using someone as a rebound only causes
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    more pain for everyone
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    involved and to end this video I just
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    wanted to say unlearning is difficult
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    but it's essential for
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    growth it allows you to make room for
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    healthier perspectives that align with
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    who you are becoming and it takes a heck
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    lot of hard work but I promise you it's
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    worth the
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    change this is how you grow from a
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    Seedling to a thriving
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    tree and remember the only thing that
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    doesn't change is change
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    itself I hope you have a good one
Tags
  • Lotus
  • Personal Growth
  • Forgiveness
  • Attachment
  • Self-Love
  • Change
  • Relationships
  • Unlearning
  • Impermanence
  • Healing