The Pressure to "Glow Up" | How the "Baddie Aesthetic” is Aging the Youth

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Résumé

TLDRIn this video, Tony Brien explores the pressures surrounding the 'bad b***h' aesthetic and its negative effects on both youth and adults. He discusses the adultification of children due to social media trends and the desire to fit into a materialistic and often unhealthy lifestyle. Brien draws attention to how young girls feel the need to emulate adults, engage with older partners, and conform to beauty standards that often involve cosmetic procedures. He emphasizes the importance of self-love, creating safe spaces for youth, and the detrimental impact of societal pressures that lead to premature aging and unrealistic beauty ideals. Brien encourages viewers to appreciate their uniqueness and resist the urge to conform to harmful standards, stressing that true beauty comes from within and cannot be defined by external appearances.

A retenir

  • 💡 The bad b***h aesthetic pressures youth to conform to adult-like behaviors.
  • 👧 Social media contributes to the adultification of children.
  • ⚠️ Young girls face pressure to engage in relationships with older men.
  • 📉 The prevalence of cosmetic surgery among young women is concerning.
  • 🎨 Individuality is crucial in defining beauty and self-worth.
  • 🆘 Youth need safe spaces to grow without adult pressures.
  • 📈 Trends on social media can lead to unhealthy self-perceptions.
  • 💔 Many young girls feel the need to look older to gain social acceptance.
  • 💪 Self-acceptance and love should be prioritized over societal standards.
  • 📚 Better discussions around beauty and self-image are needed in society.

Chronologie

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The video begins with the host, Tony Brien, welcoming viewers and introducing the topic of the 'bad bch' aesthetic and its impact on the youth. He emphasizes the pressure to 'glow up' and how this trend is affecting both children and adults.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Tony shares a motivational quote before discussing how the 'bad bch' aesthetic may be stripping young girls of their innocence, citing TikTok discussions about the influence of certain aesthetics on youth. The lifestyle associated with this aesthetic is critiqued for glamorizing relationships with men like rappers and scammers.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    The influence of social media is highlighted, with anecdotes of young girls posting sexually suggestive content and engaging with inappropriate music lyrics, which are easily accessible and accepted by society.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Tony elaborates on how the current trends are altering the perception of youth and leading to serious societal concerns regarding their behaviors and aspirations as they mimic adult lifestyles prematurely.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    In a deeper discussion, he contrasts the real definition of a 'bad bch' with the negative portrayal seen in media, noting that many young girls pursue an unattainable and shallow ideal, potentially leading to poor life choices in pursuit of that image.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    The topic of appearances and self-expression is examined, particularly how social media affects young people's views on beauty and leads to a rush for cosmetic enhancements, followed by insights into the pressures faced by both youth and adults related to societal beauty standards.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:40:52

    The video concludes with critical reflections on the lack of appropriate spaces for young people, forcing them to turn to adult aesthetics and lifestyles for validation and acceptance, perpetuating a cycle that pressures them to grow up too quickly.

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Vidéo Q&R

  • What is the 'bad b***h' aesthetic?

    The 'bad b***h' aesthetic refers to a cultural image that promotes confidence, independence, and attractiveness, often associated with material possessions, heavy makeup, and a lifestyle that centers around male approval.

  • How is social media influencing youth perceptions of beauty?

    Social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram create unrealistic beauty standards and pressures for youth to conform to grown-up lifestyles, leading to the adultification of children.

  • What are the negative impacts of the pressure to 'glow up'?

    The pressure to 'glow up' can lead to anxiety, low self-esteem, and unhealthy behaviors as young people strive to meet societal expectations and often engage in adult-like behaviors too early.

  • Why is there concern over the dating habits of younger girls?

    Younger girls are increasingly dating older men, which raises concerns about maturity, exploitation, and the potential for manipulation in these relationships.

  • What should parents consider regarding their children's exposure to adult themes?

    Parents should be mindful of the content their children consume and promote healthy discussions around self-image, self-worth, and appropriate boundaries.

  • How can society better support the youth?

    Society should create more safe spaces for teens and tweens, focusing on activities and environments that allow them to express themselves without the pressure to act adult-like.

  • What role does plastic surgery play in the discussion around beauty standards?

    There is an increasing normalization of plastic surgery among younger demographics, which can lead to a false perception of beauty and aging concerns.

  • What does Tony Brien suggest about self-image and beauty?

    Tony emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and understanding that everyone is beautiful in their uniqueness, urging individuals to resist the pressure to alter their natural features.

  • How are societal views on youth and aging changing?

    Societal views increasingly skew towards glorifying adult behaviors in youth, often ignoring the natural development processes children should go through.

  • Why is individuality important in the context of beauty?

    Maintaining individuality in beauty allows people to appreciate diverse features and personal styles, encouraging self-love rather than conformity to trends.

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    my name is Tony Brien in today's video
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    we'll be discussing the pressure to glow
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    up and how the bad [ __ ] aesthetic is
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    aging everybody this video is going to
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    be similar format to my video on how gen
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    Alpha is doomed I talked about this as
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    well when I said that Tik talk is
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    allowing the adultification of children
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    we have talked about this on several
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    occasions but I want to speak solely on
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    the pressure to glow up the pressure
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    that these kids and even adults are
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    having to look like a bad bch but before
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    we get into today's video guys you guys
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    know we have to start off with a little
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    bit of positivity today's quote of the
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    Christ Our Lord before all ages now and
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    forever more amen without further Ado
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    let's get straight into today's
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    subscribers so a few months ago a Tik
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    Tok user talked about the fact that the
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    bad aesthetic is aging the youth I
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    thought this was a very interesting
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    concept because I always thought the
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    same exact thing but she formulated it
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    in the right words so please take a
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    listen to what this Tik Tok user had to
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    say but to the core rather you like it
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    or not a lot of children are being
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    stripped of their innocence because of
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    these certain Aesthetics and images that
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    are being forced on them one of these
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    Aesthetics that I feel is responsible
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    for stripping the girls of their
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    innocence is the bad [ __ ] aesthetic I'm
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    going to be honest because for one a lot
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    of the trends naturally Aid you let's
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    just be for real the heavy makeup the
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    certain wardrobe it naturally makes you
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    look older right but for two the
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    lifestyle that it entails because
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    today's bad [ __ ] is now is now about
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    possessions it's about an aesthetic it's
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    about the look it's about what you can
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    afford right it is for see younger girls
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    into the male gaze at rapid speeds
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    because the girls are saying if you want
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    to get this certain lifestyle if you
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    want to get this certain image if you
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    want to get this wig and this bus down
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    all you got to do is [ __ ] weet men all
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    you got to do is dat a rapper or a
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    scammer or a drug dealer we are to the
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    point where we are even romanticizing
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    some of these men for the sake of living
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    a certain lifestyle I will be out here
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    dating whole
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    murderers murderers scammers drug
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    dealers I'm talking about some of the
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    evil [ __ ] in the world you will date
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    them just for a lifestyle and then have
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    the audacity to [ __ ] on someone else
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    when they don't subscribe to that
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    lifestyle this is also why I think
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    today's bad [ __ ] is very synonymous
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    with being a mean girl because I notice
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    every time uh if a woman chooses to go a
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    different route nowadays if she choose
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    to stay down and date her working in or
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    stay down and whip her Honda her 2006
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    Honda until she come up now you're
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    automatically better than her or she's
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    not a bad [ __ ] when in reality a real
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    bad is a woman who is independent mainly
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    when I say that I mean you get your
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    Boost of Confidence from yourself from
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    your own energy from your own Essence
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    your aura your style your swag the way
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    you speak you go within to feel
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    desirable where now society's bad [ __ ]
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    it's like y'all only feel desirable when
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    you are being desired by men it's very
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    male centered and when you are a woman
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    and you Center men you are naturally
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    aging yourself period cuz you're
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    stressed okay guys so that is just a bit
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    of what she said the full video is over
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    3 minutes long so you guys want to check
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    it out I'm going to link it down below
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    and I also made sure to tag her at name
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    so first we're going to start off with
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    the youth and you guys know once again I
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    have done several videos on this because
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    it's something that is really daunting
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    to me both gen Z the generation that I'm
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    in and gen Alpha the amount of exposure
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    that is out there where it's not just
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    like the environment they're in it's
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    also the rest of the world that they
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    have access to where they are exposed to
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    more adultlike things so here I'm going
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    to give you guys a few examples this
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    past weekend on Twitter a 14-year-old
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    yes 14 decided to post on her Instagram
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    story that she wants to go 15 rounds for
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    her 15th birthday yes 15th birthday and
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    the countdown to her birthday was
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    labeled freak 15 and she also Tagg the
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    song Birthday Sex by Jeremiah which came
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    out in the past and I'll be honest when
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    I was a kid more so like a teenager I
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    used to like that song I used to sing it
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    for my birthday I thought it was going
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    to make me sound grown but I would never
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    post that on Instagram it's the fact
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    that these young girls are getting so
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    comfortable posting these inappropriate
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    things because they feel the pressure to
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    act adultlike at a child age this of
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    course caught a lot of attention
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    especially on Twitter and everybody was
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    just like why are kids today acting like
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    this there was another video of a bunch
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    of toddlers singing yet another sexy red
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    song and you guys know in one of my
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    previous videos I mentioned sexy red in
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    the Gen Alpha video and I was surprised
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    by the amount of children fans she had
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    this video went viral of all the little
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    girls twerking dancing and singing while
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    their parent recorded it and these young
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    girls couldn't have been no older than 5
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    years old take a look at this clip
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    and heck I'm going to show you guys the
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    rest of the clips of children dancing
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    and singing to sexy red take a look at
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    [Music]
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    these [ __ ] make
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    them show me how you [ __ ] up Bab
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    what's your
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    song
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    yeah you trying to see me and you trying
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    to see me and you trying to say what's
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    [Music]
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    up going
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    down y y o all right
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    two
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    [Music]
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    three now I know some of y'all be
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    getting upset when I say I'm a sexy red
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    fan I'm not going to lie I love sexy red
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    and I like her music but once again I'm
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    a 23-year-old woman there is no reason
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    why children are exposed to those type
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    of lyrics I can understand they may have
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    heard the song in passing but the fact
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    your child knows word for word bar for
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    bar why is your child so aware of the
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    lyrics and it's to the point where some
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    of the kids know the inappropriate parts
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    of the song so that means that they are
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    now informed of what these nasty lyrics
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    are so how does this tie into the bad
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    [ __ ] aesthetic with little girls
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    hearing and reciting these lyrics with
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    little girls posting about their freak
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    15 and wanting to go 15 rounds for their
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    15th birthday this all ties into the
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    type of lyrics they are listening to so
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    music plays a very vital role right now
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    female rap is on the horizon that is all
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    we hear everywhere and what are these
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    women speaking about they're speaking
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    about sex they're speaking about money
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    they're speaking about designer they're
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    speaking about their bodies they're
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    speaking about getting work done they're
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    speaking about only being with rich men
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    and that is literally the formula of the
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    bad [ __ ] aesthetic with these young
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    girls hearing this they are eager to get
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    to the position where they too can be a
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    bad [ __ ] and as always y'all know when
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    we're talking about a term I'm going to
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    pull out a definition so here's what
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    Urban Dictionary says a bad [ __ ] is
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    according to urbandictionary.com a bad
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    [ __ ] is a woman or female who is
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    confident she's independent and stries
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    for herself she doesn't need anybody you
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    would be lucky to have somebody she can
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    control herself and her feelings she is
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    also irresistible now that might sellink
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    the beautiful definition and that's how
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    I would consider a bad [ __ ] to be
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    however the agenda of bad [ __ ] that is
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    being portrayed in media and what these
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    young girls are striving to be is more
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    so this definition of bad [ __ ] a bad
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    [ __ ] is a woman who lacks intelligence
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    and is easily influenced by shallow
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    people or Shallow music that promotes
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    sex alcohol smoking Etc as being a bad
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    [ __ ] in reality this woman is is not a
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    bad [ __ ] she's the furthest thing from
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    a classy woman and consistently makes
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    foolish decisions in life because they
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    make her quote unquote feel good in the
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    moment eventually reality will hit her
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    and she'll be overflowing with regret
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    that she did not act intelligently when
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    younger and let me just make this clear
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    this is very evident a man wrote this
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    definition so I believe he did go a bit
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    extreme and I don't fully agree with all
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    of these points however there is some
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    truth in this definition and I'm about
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    to explain a little bit deeper what
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    exactly I meant but yeah back to the
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    video so that's the point a bad [ __ ]
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    gets confused with a classy woman
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    unfortunately these young kids are not
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    seeing what a classy woman should appear
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    as now my definition of a bad [ __ ] once
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    again is what we heard about in the very
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    beginning it's a woman about her
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    business it's a woman that doesn't take
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    any BS it's a woman that is a boss those
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    are all the positive attributes but we
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    all know with shows like baddies out and
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    with female rap being so popular we're
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    not speaking of classy woman when we
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    hear a girl say I'm a bad [ __ ] it can
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    now be perceived as tast at this point
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    so reiterating my last Point these young
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    girls that I just described and what the
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    OG Tik Tok user that spoke about this is
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    saying is that the bad [ __ ] aesthetic
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    will take you on the fast lane of life
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    and whenever you take the fast lane of
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    life it never ends well whether that's
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    drugs whether that's alcohol whether
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    that's sleeping with multiple men
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    getting work done on your body it will
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    never end well but we have 10-year-old
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    5year olds 15year olds whichever trying
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    to live up to this lifestyle and with
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    that this is a exactly why when people
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    make the jokes about how kids in high
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    school on their first days of school are
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    they are now wearing designer they now
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    have lace fronts in they now have weaves
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    down to their back they have all these
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    things that are making them look like
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    Min adults like can we really talk about
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    it
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    yeah shirt dop
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    iot go
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    shirt Curry um skirt Moni and
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    shoes
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    and yeah period
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    one these okay I got my
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    shoes my shirt custom
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    made first day of school when I was in
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    Elementary in high school and middle
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    school I guess too I went to Catholic
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    school all my life so now I did not have
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    the option to wear my own outfit but the
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    only special thing I did was get my hair
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    done and when I got my hair done I got
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    my natural hair done I was not allowed
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    to wear a weave until I was probably
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    like a senior and even then I wore a
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    little quick weave for prom because my
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    mother wasn't paying for me to go and
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    get a full-on sewing get a full frontal
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    get a full closure she wasn't doing that
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    I was not walking around with Dior I was
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    not walking around with Louis Vuitton as
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    my school bag that is astronomical now
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    there were girls that did it back when I
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    was in school cuz it was not that long
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    ago but it was more of like the ghetto
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    fabulous girl so that was kind of
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    accepted and we understood that by them
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    but now it's apparently the standard
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    that these young kids have to go to
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    school with designer on being the
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    freshest being the baddest but no one is
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    focusing on the books you see these kids
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    more focused on making the next viral
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    Tik Tok you see these kids more focused
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    on being the flyest you see these kids
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    more focused on being viral you see
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    these kids more focused on getting their
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    next Instagram photo off it is
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    incredibly different I will say I
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    believe that my class year when I
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    graduated high school was in 2018 and
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    maybe even 2017 was when prom was on the
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    horizon and prom was like insane well
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    mainly in the black community I think
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    that the white Community isn't doing it
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    as much but you guys all know as being a
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    black person we just have this feeling
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    that we have to appear as if we're rich
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    in general but these prom dresses these
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    young girls are dressing as grown women
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    you would think some of them are going
  • 00:13:17
    to go and get married now please don't
  • 00:13:19
    get me wrong I completely understand
  • 00:13:21
    wanting to make your child feel special
  • 00:13:23
    on their special day because prom is a
  • 00:13:24
    once in a-lifetime experience but these
  • 00:13:27
    teens are now making prom in entire
  • 00:13:29
    event they're driving Lamborghinis to
  • 00:13:31
    prom they're driving hellcats srts to
  • 00:13:34
    prom G wagons drop tops whichever like
  • 00:13:37
    what happened to you and your friends
  • 00:13:38
    coming together and purchasing a limo
  • 00:13:40
    it's like it's all a photo op and once
  • 00:13:42
    again these kids are going to prom
  • 00:13:44
    looking like adults they literally look
  • 00:13:46
    like full grown adults I won't even say
  • 00:13:47
    many adults because it's like wait this
  • 00:13:49
    is High School prom like we're all
  • 00:13:51
    confused we're very confused and why is
  • 00:13:53
    this once again it goes back to the bad
  • 00:13:55
    [ __ ] aesthetic the bad [ __ ] aesthetic
  • 00:13:57
    began when influencers became a thing
  • 00:13:59
    and now these young girls are only
  • 00:14:01
    looking to become influencers in some
  • 00:14:03
    cases so they're trying to achieve that
  • 00:14:06
    bad [ __ ] look at very young ages and
  • 00:14:09
    why is this because it's the only way
  • 00:14:10
    they are now being accepted and
  • 00:14:13
    respected inside their exact demographic
  • 00:14:16
    just recently this young girl I'm going
  • 00:14:18
    to make sure this girl knows she is a
  • 00:14:20
    child Tatiana Chanel who was born
  • 00:14:22
    January 7th
  • 00:14:25
    2006 2006 oh my God but yes 2006 six she
  • 00:14:29
    decided to go ahead and have a birthday
  • 00:14:32
    photo shoot and on her birthday photo
  • 00:14:34
    shoot she had a cake that said legal on
  • 00:14:37
    it and it was sitting on her butt mind
  • 00:14:39
    you when she had this photo shoot most
  • 00:14:41
    likely because I highly doubt she had it
  • 00:14:43
    on her 18th birthday she had the photo
  • 00:14:46
    shoot while she was a minor so the
  • 00:14:48
    photographer taking these pictures was
  • 00:14:49
    taking photos of a minor the photos were
  • 00:14:51
    incredibly suggestive and sexual and
  • 00:14:54
    just downright disgusting this is a
  • 00:14:56
    child but this isn't the first time that
  • 00:14:57
    Tatiana has done this Tatiana has been
  • 00:14:59
    posting very sexual photos since she was
  • 00:15:02
    a young young girl and she still even is
  • 00:15:05
    a young girl today but unfortunately
  • 00:15:07
    Twitter just caught wind that this girl
  • 00:15:09
    was just 17 all this time and in some
  • 00:15:12
    cases 14 15 and 16 if you look at her
  • 00:15:15
    Instagram and if you look at her Tik Tok
  • 00:15:17
    this is no disrespect because I
  • 00:15:19
    understand that it is kind of an insult
  • 00:15:20
    to be told you look a lot older than you
  • 00:15:22
    are but that girl looks like a
  • 00:15:23
    28-year-old woman I would never in a
  • 00:15:25
    million years think that was a
  • 00:15:27
    17-year-old and before anyone even tries
  • 00:15:29
    to say oh you're hating you're this
  • 00:15:30
    you're that baby girl I would rather
  • 00:15:32
    look like a grown woman when I'm
  • 00:15:33
    supposed to look like a grown woman it's
  • 00:15:35
    baby steps to this it's like so many
  • 00:15:37
    people are so quick to grow up to adhere
  • 00:15:40
    to the bad [ __ ] aesthetic there's a
  • 00:15:42
    pressure to glow up there's a pressure
  • 00:15:44
    to be more grown than you really are so
  • 00:15:46
    it's not just the fact that she looks
  • 00:15:47
    old if you look at her Instagram and if
  • 00:15:49
    you look at her Tik Tok this girl has
  • 00:15:51
    been acting grown forever so yes the
  • 00:15:54
    pictures she takes a lot of sexual
  • 00:15:56
    pictures she takes a lot of pictures of
  • 00:15:57
    her buttocks she takes a lot of pictures
  • 00:15:59
    half naked all the time we get it but
  • 00:16:01
    she's in the club she's drinking alcohol
  • 00:16:04
    she's at restaurants where is your
  • 00:16:05
    school workk where is your homework
  • 00:16:07
    where are your parents that they are
  • 00:16:08
    allowing you to be in such an adultlike
  • 00:16:10
    atmosphere and guess what that still
  • 00:16:12
    does not even take the cake allegedly
  • 00:16:14
    she has been dating the rapper Boston
  • 00:16:16
    Richie excuse me let me get his exact
  • 00:16:18
    age out okay he's about to be 27
  • 00:16:20
    February 4th 1997 was when he's born
  • 00:16:22
    he's my sister's age actually he's older
  • 00:16:24
    than my sister my sister is a late 97
  • 00:16:27
    baby this man is 26 years old he
  • 00:16:29
    allegedly has been dating Tatiana okay
  • 00:16:32
    been dating her yes 26 18 excuse me
  • 00:16:38
    let's fast forward 26 17 25 16 allegedly
  • 00:16:43
    allegedly allegedly but guess
  • 00:16:45
    what the streets are talking the streets
  • 00:16:48
    are talking so Boston Richie's been
  • 00:16:50
    getting cooked on social media for
  • 00:16:51
    dating a girl that turned 18 literally
  • 00:16:54
    like 24 hours ago this girl right here
  • 00:16:56
    named Tatiana Chanel uh she turned 18 a
  • 00:16:59
    couple days ago or whatever and then
  • 00:17:01
    like Boston Richie was posting her with
  • 00:17:02
    like chains over her private parts and
  • 00:17:05
    people are on his head cuz he's 26
  • 00:17:06
    dating a girl that just turned 18 and
  • 00:17:08
    there's some evidence floating around
  • 00:17:09
    that they were probably messing around
  • 00:17:11
    before she turned 18 too and honestly
  • 00:17:13
    this just happens way too often in rap
  • 00:17:15
    we saw something like this with quondo
  • 00:17:16
    Rondo and it's just like bro you are a
  • 00:17:18
    rapper you got a whole bunch of clout
  • 00:17:19
    whole bunch of money you got chains
  • 00:17:21
    jewelry all this nice stuff and you go
  • 00:17:23
    and get a girl who's in high school or
  • 00:17:25
    just got out of high school like you're
  • 00:17:26
    weird I'm not going to call you the word
  • 00:17:28
    cuz cuz legally I guess you're not but
  • 00:17:31
    you're weird and people have been trying
  • 00:17:32
    to defend it and honestly they're just
  • 00:17:34
    making it worse the girl herself got on
  • 00:17:35
    here talking about I'm grown buddy
  • 00:17:37
    you've been 18 for like 2 days and 18 if
  • 00:17:40
    we're all being real here is not grown
  • 00:17:42
    bro all you can do at 18 is vote and go
  • 00:17:44
    to jail and again let's be real Joe
  • 00:17:47
    Biden has been the president for her
  • 00:17:48
    entire High School run and she either
  • 00:17:50
    did graduate or is about to graduate
  • 00:17:52
    with no masks post pandemic ain't going
  • 00:17:54
    to lie Boston Rie you flop bro you
  • 00:17:57
    flopped tremendously no matter how much
  • 00:17:58
    you could try to make it sound good well
  • 00:18:00
    you flop me personally I ain't never
  • 00:18:02
    like no young women that I got little
  • 00:18:04
    sister so I never even looked in that
  • 00:18:05
    field I always like women older than me
  • 00:18:07
    but this is why you flop you flop
  • 00:18:10
    because you trying to get a 8-year-old
  • 00:18:12
    that look like a bad [ __ ] when she
  • 00:18:14
    ain't doing nothing for portraying what
  • 00:18:15
    she see on the internet so instead of
  • 00:18:17
    why would you go to the 18 where you can
  • 00:18:18
    manipulate why you just going to get go
  • 00:18:20
    get a
  • 00:18:21
    grown who literally does this she not
  • 00:18:23
    trying to look when she really does it
  • 00:18:25
    maybe I'm crazy this man is with this
  • 00:18:27
    young girl and I guarantee you he
  • 00:18:29
    probably tells her oh you're just mature
  • 00:18:30
    for your age and you just a real chick
  • 00:18:33
    like that's why I'm with you and she's
  • 00:18:34
    probably tooting her horn because guess
  • 00:18:36
    what when people found out that this
  • 00:18:37
    young girl was dating this old man and
  • 00:18:40
    they found out her age and they saw the
  • 00:18:41
    picture she'd be posting on Instagram
  • 00:18:43
    they called out her mother and all her
  • 00:18:45
    mother had to say was I'm a
  • 00:18:47
    Capricorn what and this stuff made me
  • 00:18:50
    realize like parents really do be in on
  • 00:18:52
    this sometimes like the AR Kelly stuff
  • 00:18:54
    where the parents knew like is real bro
  • 00:18:55
    her mom got on here talking about y'all
  • 00:18:56
    don't know my daughter y'all just
  • 00:18:58
    thought
  • 00:18:59
    Jes bu your business y'all broke like
  • 00:19:01
    it's real bro like it's real cuz if this
  • 00:19:04
    was a 27 year old man who worked at the
  • 00:19:06
    gas station in her your daughter You' be
  • 00:19:07
    like oh my God like no you're too old
  • 00:19:09
    but because it's Boston rich and he got
  • 00:19:11
    a little money you like oh cool her
  • 00:19:13
    mother had her as a teen her mom just
  • 00:19:14
    turned 37 and she's a Capricorn so I
  • 00:19:17
    guess kudos to her Capricorn gang but
  • 00:19:20
    come on never in a million years will my
  • 00:19:22
    16 17-year-old daughter I don't care
  • 00:19:24
    what age I had my child would she be
  • 00:19:26
    dating a man that is about to be 30
  • 00:19:29
    years old 30 30 but it has to be if this
  • 00:19:32
    is allegedly the case that tati has been
  • 00:19:34
    dating Boston Richie since she was
  • 00:19:37
    underage and even at 18 this is still of
  • 00:19:38
    scene because what does a 26-year-old
  • 00:19:40
    want to do with an 18-year-old oh excuse
  • 00:19:42
    me an almost 27y old he'll be 27 like in
  • 00:19:44
    a week what do you want to do with a
  • 00:19:46
    freaking 18-year-old there is nothing
  • 00:19:49
    y'all have in common me at 18 compared
  • 00:19:51
    to me at 23 totally different tonies so
  • 00:19:54
    much experience has been gained so many
  • 00:19:56
    new insightful things have happened so
  • 00:19:58
    many new lesson since I've been learned
  • 00:19:59
    I am not the same person and I still
  • 00:20:01
    cringe with the fact that I was 19
  • 00:20:03
    talking to like 27 year olds too because
  • 00:20:05
    they're really weird as well but you
  • 00:20:06
    know what that's besides the point we
  • 00:20:08
    live and we learn and that's why I'm not
  • 00:20:09
    even going to automatically blame this
  • 00:20:11
    young girl because she just thinks I'm
  • 00:20:13
    mature for my age because I was always
  • 00:20:14
    told I was mature for my age but that
  • 00:20:16
    does not mean I'm mature enough to be
  • 00:20:17
    dating a freaking 30-year-old basically
  • 00:20:19
    like what do you see in a little ass
  • 00:20:21
    girl besides being able to control her
  • 00:20:24
    you feel me and I just feel like when
  • 00:20:27
    men do [ __ ] like that and I'm not going
  • 00:20:28
    to say men because it's predatory women
  • 00:20:30
    out here too that just shows like where
  • 00:20:33
    you are mentally and how you are as a
  • 00:20:35
    person because at 26 what do you even
  • 00:20:39
    have in common with the
  • 00:20:40
    18yearold like you're damn near it ain't
  • 00:20:43
    even damn near like you're literally
  • 00:20:45
    grooming this little ass girl and then
  • 00:20:47
    when you look at tddy or taty she don't
  • 00:20:50
    even look like a regular 18year old girl
  • 00:20:52
    like she looks like the typical black
  • 00:20:54
    Instagram model like 40 in bust down she
  • 00:20:57
    got birkens and Chanel you get what I'm
  • 00:20:59
    saying she wearing stiletto heels full
  • 00:21:02
    face and makeup um you get what I'm
  • 00:21:05
    saying like she just don't look like a
  • 00:21:06
    normal 18yar old and I just feel like
  • 00:21:09
    it's just getting weird out here y'all
  • 00:21:11
    like it's just getting really [ __ ]
  • 00:21:12
    weird the girls are trying to grow up
  • 00:21:14
    like way too ahead of their time I blame
  • 00:21:17
    the parents and I blame the weirdo of a
  • 00:21:19
    man that is allegedly dating her this is
  • 00:21:21
    in fact true but she is the perfect
  • 00:21:23
    example of what the pressure of blowing
  • 00:21:25
    up does to you and how the bad [ __ ]
  • 00:21:27
    aesthetic ages you because now she looks
  • 00:21:30
    so much older I'm unsure if she's all
  • 00:21:32
    natural but I would not be surprised if
  • 00:21:34
    she had a little bit of syringe inserted
  • 00:21:35
    here and a little bit syringe inserted
  • 00:21:37
    there and had fat moved around and if
  • 00:21:38
    she hasn't done it yet she will be doing
  • 00:21:40
    it soon because she has to keep up with
  • 00:21:41
    the Joneses especially since she's kind
  • 00:21:43
    of at her Peak this looks like the final
  • 00:21:44
    form she's a gorgeous beautiful girl but
  • 00:21:46
    it's giving she's 27 so she's going to
  • 00:21:48
    do some tweaks as she gets older because
  • 00:21:49
    she has to keep up with everyone else
  • 00:21:51
    that is aging properly so she most
  • 00:21:53
    likely will continue to fall under the
  • 00:21:54
    pressure of wanting to glow up and to
  • 00:21:56
    look her absolute best and I'm not going
  • 00:21:59
    to go into Alabama Barker and jod woods
  • 00:22:01
    because I have spoken about these young
  • 00:22:02
    ladies quite a Time both these young
  • 00:22:04
    girls I think Alabama just turned 18 jod
  • 00:22:07
    is like 15 she's going to be 16 I
  • 00:22:09
    believe um no one really knows her real
  • 00:22:11
    age and I think that is on purpose
  • 00:22:13
    because I'm not saying that her family
  • 00:22:15
    is selling her but I do believe they're
  • 00:22:17
    selling a vision of her and if people
  • 00:22:19
    hear her age and see how she dresses and
  • 00:22:21
    all the makeup she wears it won't be
  • 00:22:22
    seen as aspirational anymore both
  • 00:22:25
    gorgeous young ladies jod is beautiful
  • 00:22:27
    Alabama is beautiful but they are
  • 00:22:29
    literally one of the people that I would
  • 00:22:31
    consider as being pressured to glow up
  • 00:22:33
    now of course they're in a different
  • 00:22:35
    Spotlight because they were born
  • 00:22:36
    literally in Hollywood so I'm not
  • 00:22:39
    necessarily going to put them too much
  • 00:22:41
    in the same category in terms of wanting
  • 00:22:42
    to be a bad [ __ ] I feel like they kind
  • 00:22:44
    of were forced into that but you see
  • 00:22:46
    them and just watch give it 5 years how
  • 00:22:49
    different they're going to look they're
  • 00:22:50
    going to constantly feel the pressure to
  • 00:22:51
    cop syringes or whatever JT said making
  • 00:22:54
    their bellies extra flat making sure
  • 00:22:56
    their butts are nice and plump making
  • 00:22:58
    they look like the typical bad [ __ ]
  • 00:23:00
    because that's the image they have to
  • 00:23:01
    uphold and it has to be exhausting
  • 00:23:04
    especially when you've been trying to be
  • 00:23:05
    a bad [ __ ] since you were like 13 years
  • 00:23:07
    old glowing up naturally happens but
  • 00:23:09
    with the pressure of glowing up being on
  • 00:23:11
    such a high Horizon these girls are
  • 00:23:13
    trying to speed up the process and these
  • 00:23:15
    young ladies I just mentioned are
  • 00:23:16
    perfect examples of such so why exactly
  • 00:23:19
    are kids trying so hard to be grown up
  • 00:23:22
    well for one there are no spaces
  • 00:23:24
    available for children think about the
  • 00:23:26
    stores when you guys were kids we had
  • 00:23:28
    limited to we had justice we had the
  • 00:23:30
    children's plates we had Toys R Russ we
  • 00:23:32
    had Mandy You Name It We had it there
  • 00:23:35
    was a very great demographic for twins
  • 00:23:37
    and teens However unfortunately today
  • 00:23:40
    that is not the case there is an awkward
  • 00:23:42
    age where kids are separating from being
  • 00:23:44
    a kid and stepping into Becoming a Teen
  • 00:23:47
    or a young woman or young man that age
  • 00:23:49
    is between I would say 11 12 to about 15
  • 00:23:53
    16 and that is like the awkward age
  • 00:23:55
    where kids are not receiving Outlets or
  • 00:23:58
    spaces so that they are able to try and
  • 00:24:00
    come of age without rushing too fast and
  • 00:24:02
    when kids are in that awkward age they
  • 00:24:04
    want to be respected they don't want to
  • 00:24:05
    be labeled as the kids and why don't
  • 00:24:07
    they want to be labeled as the kids
  • 00:24:08
    because there's no spaces available for
  • 00:24:10
    children people look at children as a
  • 00:24:12
    nuisances people look at them as a
  • 00:24:13
    burden we're missing something in this
  • 00:24:15
    conversation about how kids are growing
  • 00:24:16
    up too fast and there's too many twen
  • 00:24:18
    girls in Sephora and we don't have
  • 00:24:20
    limited to anymore and we don't have all
  • 00:24:23
    of these adorable little places for the
  • 00:24:24
    twin girls to go shop what we're missing
  • 00:24:26
    in this conversation is that our society
  • 00:24:28
    is is so
  • 00:24:30
    anti-child is so against children
  • 00:24:33
    existing in places where adults are
  • 00:24:35
    trying to exist that of course they're
  • 00:24:37
    going to try to grow up as soon as they
  • 00:24:39
    can so that they can exist in
  • 00:24:43
    peace kids have so few rights in this
  • 00:24:46
    country and parents largely largely
  • 00:24:50
    treat their children like property in
  • 00:24:53
    America I couldn't wait to be 18 I moved
  • 00:24:56
    out the second I was able to and got as
  • 00:24:58
    much distance from my parents as I
  • 00:25:01
    could society as a whole is treating
  • 00:25:04
    children like this now so of course
  • 00:25:05
    they're going to be trying to grow up as
  • 00:25:07
    soon as they can to have any semblance
  • 00:25:10
    of autonomy or control over their lives
  • 00:25:13
    well your age dictates whether or not
  • 00:25:15
    you can exist in public it doesn't work
  • 00:25:18
    so that Creator was talking about the
  • 00:25:19
    fact that we don't really like to let
  • 00:25:20
    teenagers exist in public and act as
  • 00:25:22
    teenagers we kind of think that they're
  • 00:25:23
    loud or unruly so we close their spaces
  • 00:25:26
    and we push them out of the spaces that
  • 00:25:27
    we think are public or communal so then
  • 00:25:29
    generally depending on income level
  • 00:25:30
    those kids are either pushed to the
  • 00:25:31
    streets or they're pushed on the
  • 00:25:32
    internet and for a while there were a
  • 00:25:34
    lot of online services that were kind of
  • 00:25:36
    targeted for children and for pre-teen
  • 00:25:38
    Club Penguin Neopets Animal Jam uh all
  • 00:25:40
    things along that line then all these
  • 00:25:42
    regulations came out that said that
  • 00:25:43
    people that were making services that
  • 00:25:45
    were designed for children had to have a
  • 00:25:46
    lot of resources in place to protect
  • 00:25:49
    those children and a lot of companies
  • 00:25:50
    don't want to take on that liability and
  • 00:25:52
    as a result most online spaces are
  • 00:25:55
    ostensibly for adults and may allow
  • 00:25:58
    teenagers as well so now there are very
  • 00:25:59
    few physical or digital spaces that are
  • 00:26:01
    targeted at kids and the spaces that are
  • 00:26:03
    targeted at adults are not made for
  • 00:26:05
    those children to be safe regardless of
  • 00:26:07
    their age if you go to any store if you
  • 00:26:08
    go to any Outlet even the movie theaters
  • 00:26:10
    now some movie theaters are not allowing
  • 00:26:12
    children under 18 to be able to go to
  • 00:26:14
    the movie theaters by themselves arcades
  • 00:26:16
    these kids aren't allowed to be there at
  • 00:26:18
    all either I just went to an arcade
  • 00:26:20
    recently and under 25 under 25 you guys
  • 00:26:23
    you were not able to go into one of the
  • 00:26:25
    spaces so my date happened to be 25 and
  • 00:26:28
    I was 22 at this point and I could not
  • 00:26:30
    go in there without adult supervision
  • 00:26:33
    apparently I had to be 25 in order to go
  • 00:26:36
    into that room after a certain hour
  • 00:26:37
    which is insane so imagine for the kids
  • 00:26:39
    that are 16 and 17 they don't have
  • 00:26:42
    spaces so what are they going to do
  • 00:26:43
    they're going to try and look old
  • 00:26:44
    they're going to try and grow up they're
  • 00:26:46
    going to try and look old on the
  • 00:26:47
    internet if we provide more spaces for
  • 00:26:49
    teens and tweens I guarantee this would
  • 00:26:51
    not be a problem there should be little
  • 00:26:52
    mocktail bars available for them I don't
  • 00:26:55
    understand why they're not because even
  • 00:26:56
    at mocktail bars that are here for
  • 00:26:57
    adults which are very few which I think
  • 00:26:59
    is kind of problematic but that's
  • 00:27:00
    besides the point but even at mocktail
  • 00:27:02
    bars a lot of these kids are not even
  • 00:27:04
    accepted into the bars if they're under
  • 00:27:06
    18 we need to have spaces for them
  • 00:27:08
    whether it's a coffee shop where they
  • 00:27:09
    can study and maybe there's live music
  • 00:27:11
    and people are able to go up and perform
  • 00:27:13
    have a poetry night book clubs just
  • 00:27:15
    different outlets and spaces for them
  • 00:27:16
    outside of just going to school because
  • 00:27:18
    all the kids have is school and then
  • 00:27:20
    maybe even church at that age it's a
  • 00:27:21
    very confused gauge we being honest
  • 00:27:24
    you're curious about things you're
  • 00:27:25
    trying to understand things you're
  • 00:27:26
    trying to act on things that you
  • 00:27:27
    technically aren't allowed to act on
  • 00:27:29
    just yet but no one is talking to them
  • 00:27:30
    about that either so if we create more
  • 00:27:32
    safe spaces for them maybe just maybe
  • 00:27:35
    they won't feel the need to be grown up
  • 00:27:37
    so quickly and along with no children's
  • 00:27:39
    spes I know people have said this time
  • 00:27:41
    and time again there are no longer these
  • 00:27:43
    teeny boppy boy bands which was like an
  • 00:27:46
    amazing thing you had mess Behavior you
  • 00:27:48
    had One Direction you had in sync you
  • 00:27:50
    had Boys to Men The Jackson 5 I know I'm
  • 00:27:53
    going all the way back but there were
  • 00:27:54
    always groups available for young teens
  • 00:27:56
    young adults to be able to to connect
  • 00:27:58
    with and to be excited and giddy over
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    and how can I forget my all girl groups
  • 00:28:03
    you also had Destiny's Child when of
  • 00:28:05
    course they were teenagers you had the
  • 00:28:07
    Cheetah Girls you had the OMG Girls
  • 00:28:09
    those were the groups where you and your
  • 00:28:11
    cousins or you and your friends would be
  • 00:28:12
    like I'm this girl I'm that girl I'm
  • 00:28:14
    Adrien from The Cheetah Girls I'm Raven
  • 00:28:16
    and you guys were able to identify as
  • 00:28:18
    these girls versus now that is not as
  • 00:28:20
    much the case all these young girls are
  • 00:28:22
    giddy over men that are 25 plus they're
  • 00:28:24
    giddy over G herbo the baby low baby
  • 00:28:27
    heck even blue face these girls are
  • 00:28:29
    looking at older men and they're so
  • 00:28:30
    excited to date these older men because
  • 00:28:32
    there's no one in their age range that
  • 00:28:34
    they can look up to and be like I love
  • 00:28:36
    him even Chris Brown Chris Brown came
  • 00:28:37
    out at 16 and he had a young audience he
  • 00:28:40
    had such a young audience that he had to
  • 00:28:41
    transition into becoming an adult
  • 00:28:43
    performer that's when he had Take You
  • 00:28:45
    Down come out and woo child that was a
  • 00:28:48
    time but yes even Disney Channel
  • 00:28:50
    Nickelodeon it doesn't hit the same a
  • 00:28:52
    lot of the shows that are out for kids
  • 00:28:54
    or for teens and tween are really meant
  • 00:28:56
    for children like babies there's no
  • 00:28:58
    spaces available for the tween and teen
  • 00:29:00
    era so the only thing they can do is
  • 00:29:02
    start shopping on fashion Nova the only
  • 00:29:04
    thing they can do is go and Instagram
  • 00:29:05
    and follow jadaa and Ari and the only
  • 00:29:07
    thing they can do is Aspire and look up
  • 00:29:09
    to these women and look up to these men
  • 00:29:11
    and these artists and whichever that are
  • 00:29:12
    promoting everything that is furthest
  • 00:29:14
    from being a classy young adult and to
  • 00:29:16
    be clear I am not bashing these women at
  • 00:29:18
    all I'm not bashing any of these artists
  • 00:29:20
    these are adults that make grown
  • 00:29:21
    decisions and I think that there are
  • 00:29:22
    some attributes of them that are very
  • 00:29:24
    commendable and are even inspirational
  • 00:29:26
    don't get me wrong but let's be real the
  • 00:29:28
    young girls because they're young are
  • 00:29:30
    only looking at the aesthetic of these
  • 00:29:32
    women they're not looking at oh my God
  • 00:29:33
    they started a business at this age and
  • 00:29:35
    this is all the stuff that happens
  • 00:29:36
    behind the scenes they're just looking
  • 00:29:37
    at the fast lifestyle they're looking at
  • 00:29:39
    all the designer bags they're looking at
  • 00:29:41
    the high-rise Apartments they're looking
  • 00:29:42
    at the nice flashy cars they're looking
  • 00:29:44
    at the fact that you're dating a rapper
  • 00:29:46
    they're looking at the jewelry the
  • 00:29:47
    lavish gifts the flowers all this
  • 00:29:50
    they're not looking at how did I get
  • 00:29:51
    here or what consequences comes to get
  • 00:29:54
    to this level because a lot of these IG
  • 00:29:56
    baddies had a very rough childhoods and
  • 00:29:58
    they had to do some strange things for
  • 00:30:00
    some change in order to get to where
  • 00:30:01
    they are today and my last point when it
  • 00:30:03
    comes to children and the bad [ __ ]
  • 00:30:04
    aesthetic aging them and also the
  • 00:30:06
    pressure to glow up has to do with the
  • 00:30:08
    fact that Twins and teens that want to
  • 00:30:10
    stay in a child's place and want to be
  • 00:30:13
    young they like to watch cartoons and
  • 00:30:15
    they like to watch anime whichever or
  • 00:30:17
    dress like a child they get made fun of
  • 00:30:19
    just think of Jojo sewa Jojo was dragged
  • 00:30:22
    for years for dressing like a big
  • 00:30:24
    toddler when she was like 15 16 was JoJo
  • 00:30:27
    dressing a little bit younger yeah she
  • 00:30:29
    was but who the heck cares there's girls
  • 00:30:32
    dressing 10 times older and she's not
  • 00:30:34
    hurting anybody or doing anything
  • 00:30:35
    appropriate so why are we bashing her
  • 00:30:37
    we're so quick to bash A Jojo but then
  • 00:30:39
    go ahead and praise an Alabama Barker
  • 00:30:41
    like it makes absolutely no sense she
  • 00:30:44
    was staying of age she was being a good
  • 00:30:46
    example for young kids coming up and she
  • 00:30:48
    wasn't in any Scandal or any mess so why
  • 00:30:50
    are we bashing her whereas Alabama we
  • 00:30:53
    see a lot of things she gets accused of
  • 00:30:55
    appropriating she gets accused of being
  • 00:30:57
    grown she takes inappropriate Tik Tok
  • 00:30:59
    videos etc etc but for the most part she
  • 00:31:01
    gets praised because everybody's like
  • 00:31:02
    well if her parents aren't saying
  • 00:31:03
    anything why does it matter very valid
  • 00:31:06
    point I'm not saying you're wrong but at
  • 00:31:07
    the same time this is still a girl that
  • 00:31:09
    is impressionable she may not think she
  • 00:31:11
    is but yeah I'm almost certain her fan
  • 00:31:13
    base is either her age or younger nobody
  • 00:31:15
    older is looking up to an Alabama Barker
  • 00:31:17
    and no it's not Alabama's job to be a
  • 00:31:18
    role model but my point is still she's
  • 00:31:20
    impressionable so why are we bashing A
  • 00:31:22
    Jojo but then praising her or saying it
  • 00:31:24
    doesn't matter what she does like come
  • 00:31:26
    on and my last last as talking point has
  • 00:31:29
    to do with the adults that are feeling
  • 00:31:31
    pressure to glow up and this really just
  • 00:31:34
    has to do with the amount of ways that
  • 00:31:36
    plastic surgery is being promoted to
  • 00:31:38
    everybody I did a video on this actually
  • 00:31:40
    the Tik Tok that's why y'all should be
  • 00:31:41
    following me on Tik Tok because I talk
  • 00:31:43
    about stuff like this but just different
  • 00:31:45
    topics I said this in a Tik Tok take a
  • 00:31:47
    look at this can we please talk about
  • 00:31:49
    how the girlies on Tik Tok have been
  • 00:31:51
    really pushing women getting work done
  • 00:31:53
    more than ever like girls have been
  • 00:31:54
    posting their glowup journey and every
  • 00:31:56
    single time they me mention anything in
  • 00:31:58
    their Globe Journey it has to do with
  • 00:32:00
    getting work done on their face like
  • 00:32:02
    they mention getting fillers they
  • 00:32:04
    mention getting Botox doing facial
  • 00:32:06
    balancing like all of these things that
  • 00:32:09
    somehow means you're going to feel
  • 00:32:10
    better about yourself and glow up if you
  • 00:32:12
    go and get work done mind you most these
  • 00:32:13
    girls promoting this are no older than
  • 00:32:16
    30 years old and Their audience is young
  • 00:32:18
    as well it's just the way the beauty
  • 00:32:20
    industry tries to tell young women that
  • 00:32:22
    they're unattractive like they literally
  • 00:32:24
    build insecurities within ourselves and
  • 00:32:26
    then these girls go and promote that as
  • 00:32:29
    well I'm not going to sit here and say
  • 00:32:31
    oh my God don't go get work done and
  • 00:32:33
    getting all this stuff is bad for you
  • 00:32:35
    but I will say many professionals and
  • 00:32:37
    basically any person that works inside
  • 00:32:39
    plastic surgery has said that there are
  • 00:32:41
    a lot of really negative effects for
  • 00:32:43
    women that are going to go and get
  • 00:32:45
    fillers and Botox at such young ages
  • 00:32:47
    also with everyone going to go and get
  • 00:32:49
    work done and getting these same
  • 00:32:50
    procedures everybody is starting to look
  • 00:32:52
    the same like there is no individuality
  • 00:32:54
    uniqueness is what makes us beautiful
  • 00:32:57
    and before you go and get work done I
  • 00:32:59
    suggest doing some self-work first and
  • 00:33:02
    seeing after you do that self-work and
  • 00:33:03
    you feel genuinely better about yourself
  • 00:33:05
    if that's still something you're going
  • 00:33:06
    to want to do because I guarantee you
  • 00:33:08
    you probably won't even care to go and
  • 00:33:10
    get work done after you go and do that
  • 00:33:12
    self workor and especially for my girls
  • 00:33:14
    under 20 please allow yourself to grow
  • 00:33:17
    into your features please you know how
  • 00:33:20
    different I look from when I was 20 and
  • 00:33:22
    now I'm knocking on 23 like give
  • 00:33:24
    yourself time to grow into who you're
  • 00:33:26
    supposed to be as women I just think we
  • 00:33:28
    need to be more cognizant on what we're
  • 00:33:31
    promoting and why we're promoting it I'm
  • 00:33:33
    not saying not to do what you love but
  • 00:33:35
    just pay attention to why you may have
  • 00:33:38
    felt pressured into going to get worked
  • 00:33:40
    in on your face and I said it before but
  • 00:33:42
    I'll say it a million and 12 times you
  • 00:33:44
    are beautiful the way you are uniqueness
  • 00:33:47
    makes us beautiful our ethnic features
  • 00:33:50
    makes us beautiful and just becoming a
  • 00:33:52
    carbon copy of an influencer you see
  • 00:33:54
    online is not going to make you feel
  • 00:33:55
    better about yourself okay so here's the
  • 00:33:57
    finish makeup look but yeah that's all
  • 00:33:59
    I'm going to say to that and just know
  • 00:34:01
    and I've heard this a lot of times once
  • 00:34:03
    you go and get work done you're most
  • 00:34:05
    likely going to want to continue getting
  • 00:34:06
    work done and then you'll overfill your
  • 00:34:08
    lips or overfill your cheeks whatever
  • 00:34:10
    you're getting filled up or you'll go
  • 00:34:12
    and get a whole bunch more surgery after
  • 00:34:13
    because you're constantly going to look
  • 00:34:15
    for Perfection but we can't achieve
  • 00:34:17
    Perfection and the funny thing is
  • 00:34:19
    there's Beauty and uniqueness and
  • 00:34:20
    perfect is never going to be beautiful
  • 00:34:22
    I'm just saying so basically in that Tik
  • 00:34:24
    Tok I said that we are constantly being
  • 00:34:26
    pressured to go and get work done or to
  • 00:34:28
    make us feel better about ourselves and
  • 00:34:29
    I think that is the furthest thing that
  • 00:34:31
    will help us to feel better about
  • 00:34:32
    ourselves so many women are getting all
  • 00:34:34
    these surgery done they're getting the
  • 00:34:36
    is it ble or Buckle fat removal I hope
  • 00:34:38
    I'm pronouncing that correctly hold on
  • 00:34:39
    buckle buckle fat removal Okay Google
  • 00:34:42
    said Buckle so it better be Buckle okay
  • 00:34:44
    Buckle fat removal where they're trying
  • 00:34:45
    to get very chiseled sharp cheekbones
  • 00:34:48
    but instead it just ages them where they
  • 00:34:50
    look sunken in they don't want to have
  • 00:34:52
    like the youthful face for some reason
  • 00:34:53
    because they're trying to get this model
  • 00:34:54
    look like the Bella Hadid and it is
  • 00:34:57
    aging the crap out of you guys you guys
  • 00:34:58
    are looking 10 plus years older and then
  • 00:35:01
    just the entire way that we promote
  • 00:35:03
    getting lip injections you guys I'm not
  • 00:35:05
    against lip injections well I kind of am
  • 00:35:07
    but I'm not because I have considered it
  • 00:35:09
    before I'm not going to say I have not
  • 00:35:11
    um I wanted to get my upper lip get a
  • 00:35:13
    little syringe up in here cuz I have
  • 00:35:15
    like a smaller upper lip you can't tell
  • 00:35:16
    when I have makeup on um as much but you
  • 00:35:18
    can tell when I don't have makeup on and
  • 00:35:20
    I wanted to get a little syringe I said
  • 00:35:21
    just one spch isn't going to kill me but
  • 00:35:23
    the only reason why I wanted it you know
  • 00:35:25
    why this is when I was like 18 19
  • 00:35:26
    because everybody was getting it before
  • 00:35:28
    I thought only white girls got their
  • 00:35:29
    lips done but I was seeing black girls
  • 00:35:30
    that have lips like me like we we have
  • 00:35:32
    lips our lips are full we just have like
  • 00:35:33
    a smaller upper lip they just wanted it
  • 00:35:35
    to be a little bit bigger and they went
  • 00:35:36
    and got work done or even girls that
  • 00:35:37
    already had like massive lips they just
  • 00:35:40
    go and get work done it's the promotion
  • 00:35:41
    of it so you start looking at your face
  • 00:35:43
    and finding flaws that you never thought
  • 00:35:44
    you even had that's the same with the
  • 00:35:46
    new surgery that has been trending all
  • 00:35:48
    over Tik Tok called facial alignment is
  • 00:35:50
    it facial alignment wait one second let
  • 00:35:52
    me double check facial balancing it's
  • 00:35:53
    called facial balancing that is the new
  • 00:35:55
    thing that all the girlies are getting
  • 00:35:57
    you're finding flaws that you did not
  • 00:35:58
    even know exist so facial balancing is
  • 00:36:00
    supposed to balance both sides of your
  • 00:36:02
    face so that they're proportionate but
  • 00:36:03
    we're not supposed to be proportionate
  • 00:36:06
    that's not how God made us and that's
  • 00:36:08
    not how we're supposed to look I think
  • 00:36:09
    that's why there's Beauty in everyone
  • 00:36:11
    because we all look a little bit
  • 00:36:12
    different if we all have this
  • 00:36:14
    proportionate face we have the buku fat
  • 00:36:16
    removal we have the lip injections we
  • 00:36:18
    have the BBL we have the lipos suctions
  • 00:36:20
    we have all this going on for ourselves
  • 00:36:22
    we all look the same everybody's looking
  • 00:36:24
    like a carbon copy of one another and
  • 00:36:26
    everybody is aging like crazy I don't
  • 00:36:28
    care what anyone has to say and y'all
  • 00:36:29
    can lie all y'all want Kylie Jenner
  • 00:36:31
    looks very old right now she is aging
  • 00:36:34
    like crazy I think the best of her
  • 00:36:36
    surgery when she got all that work done
  • 00:36:38
    allegedly was back in like 2016 to 2020
  • 00:36:41
    right before she had stormy cuz even
  • 00:36:42
    when she had stormy her face still
  • 00:36:44
    looked it looked good for the most part
  • 00:36:45
    it just her lips whenever she's smiled
  • 00:36:47
    it always looked like it hurt to smile
  • 00:36:48
    but right now she just looks very very
  • 00:36:51
    old and that's because when y'all keep
  • 00:36:52
    getting fillers when y'all keep getting
  • 00:36:54
    Botox though they keep saying it's
  • 00:36:56
    anti-aging it's actually doing the
  • 00:36:58
    opposite it's aging you guys because all
  • 00:37:00
    that stuff is meant for older girls but
  • 00:37:02
    everybody's too busy trying to keep up
  • 00:37:03
    with the Instagram influencers keep up
  • 00:37:05
    with these Tik tokers keep up with the
  • 00:37:07
    latest trends that y'all all are looking
  • 00:37:09
    old and that's why y'all have been
  • 00:37:11
    seeing I'm sure on social media with our
  • 00:37:13
    Millennials in gen Z like why do gen
  • 00:37:16
    zers look so much older it's because gen
  • 00:37:18
    Z is very much so immersed in social
  • 00:37:20
    media Millennials obviously started the
  • 00:37:21
    peak of social media but they were a
  • 00:37:23
    little bit older gen Z is the first
  • 00:37:25
    generation that was like really
  • 00:37:26
    impressionable age and they're really
  • 00:37:28
    soaking and eating all that up I see
  • 00:37:30
    every day girls just wanting to get
  • 00:37:32
    different things done to their face like
  • 00:37:33
    asking their supporters like guys you
  • 00:37:35
    guys think I should get this or H I
  • 00:37:37
    really want to get this or I tried this
  • 00:37:38
    like everyone's trying all these new
  • 00:37:40
    things to try and glow up to try and
  • 00:37:42
    look their best but it's doing the exact
  • 00:37:43
    opposite because Botox fillers all that
  • 00:37:46
    is meant for older people so for older
  • 00:37:48
    people when they no longer have as much
  • 00:37:50
    elasticity in their skin that would be
  • 00:37:52
    good for them to get a little bit of
  • 00:37:53
    filler and get a little bit of Botox but
  • 00:37:54
    why are you at 22 trying to get rid of
  • 00:37:56
    your baby fat why just maintain it
  • 00:37:58
    you're going to regret it when you get
  • 00:38:00
    older and you're going to look older
  • 00:38:02
    you'll be 40 looking 55 like we just got
  • 00:38:04
    to slow down with all the work getting
  • 00:38:06
    done I think an even bigger problem on
  • 00:38:07
    this issue is that all of a sudden
  • 00:38:09
    Society is pressuring new kinds of Botox
  • 00:38:11
    injectables and all sorts of plastic
  • 00:38:13
    surgery on even younger people than ever
  • 00:38:16
    before and because a lot of these
  • 00:38:17
    procedures are brand new we don't have a
  • 00:38:19
    lot of data for how they hold up over
  • 00:38:21
    time but I have suspicions that it's not
  • 00:38:23
    going to go well and we're already
  • 00:38:24
    starting to see this in these unedited
  • 00:38:26
    photos of celebr ities that have been
  • 00:38:28
    coming out who have really been leaning
  • 00:38:29
    into these surgeries and a specific one
  • 00:38:31
    that's become really popular in the last
  • 00:38:33
    few years is this buil fat removal I
  • 00:38:35
    don't know if I'm saying that right what
  • 00:38:37
    it is is that we have like these fat
  • 00:38:38
    pads I think it's underneath here and as
  • 00:38:41
    you can tell that's what really like
  • 00:38:42
    fills out my baby face but celebrities
  • 00:38:45
    are getting these removed to try and
  • 00:38:46
    change like the shape of their face to
  • 00:38:48
    be narrower and it's creating this kind
  • 00:38:50
    of interesting fish face effect that's
  • 00:38:52
    really aging people it's kind of like
  • 00:38:55
    and I have specific concerns about this
  • 00:38:57
    one because usually this fat kind of
  • 00:38:58
    goes away in time and that's why people
  • 00:39:00
    call it baby face cuz you have a lot
  • 00:39:02
    more of that when you're younger and as
  • 00:39:04
    you age your face changes into this
  • 00:39:06
    shape I'll be really interested to see
  • 00:39:08
    what these celebrities who are getting
  • 00:39:09
    that removed look like when they're
  • 00:39:11
    approaching like 50 and 60 and I'm not
  • 00:39:13
    against aging here but I really like my
  • 00:39:15
    baby face and I know that in time that
  • 00:39:17
    will go away anyways so we'll get there
  • 00:39:19
    eventually why aren't we just enjoying
  • 00:39:21
    the ride I'm glad to say today I don't
  • 00:39:23
    know if anything will change but as of
  • 00:39:24
    now I'm very content with how I look and
  • 00:39:26
    I am all now natural from head to toe
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    ain't nothing on me that's fake and my
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    goal is to keep it that way especially
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    with the fact that I will most likely
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    have a daughter in the future or I could
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    have a daughter in the future and I
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    don't want her to look at me like hey
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    Mom you call me beautiful but then you
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    would got your whole face done or you
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    would got your whole body done and I now
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    look exactly like you I would never want
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    to do that to my child and I think
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    that's something important for us to
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    look at but let's consider the
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    ramifications that can come with
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    constantly getting work done and trying
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    to keep up with the Joneses and the
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    pressure of being a bad [ __ ] and the
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    pressure of glowing up because guess
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    what it is aging the heck out of y'all
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    but you guys that is the end of today's
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    video I of course always want to know
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    what you guys think in the comments down
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    below do you guys believe the bad [ __ ]
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    aesthetic is aging the youth do you guys
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    think the pressure to glow up is at an
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    all-time high whether it's opposing
  • 00:40:13
    whether it's agreeing let's get the
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    discussion going in the comments thank
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    you guys of course for watching we're on
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    the road to 200,000 subscribers we have
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    less than 10,000 new supporters to come
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    in and join for us to hit 200k which
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    seems so far but we grew a lot this past
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    month so I know it's going to happen
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    very soon if you guys like this video
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    don't forget to like comment subscribe
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    and share and yeah I love you guys so
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    much and I will see you all in my very
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    next video love you guys
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    [Music]
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    bye get close
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    like you more of all this love you be
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    your name release all of yourd
Tags
  • Bad B***h Aesthetic
  • Glow Up
  • Social Media Influence
  • Youth Pressure
  • Self-Acceptance
  • Beauty Standards
  • Adultification of Youth
  • Plastic Surgery
  • Individuality
  • Mental Health