#84: Flirting with Your Crush | Spice & Nice

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8I3ifrZ1laI

Résumé

TLDRNë episodin "Spice" të sotëm, prezantueset Deniz dhe Nice flasin për flirtimin dhe fillimin e marrëdhënieve romantike. Në mënyrë argëtuese dhe komike, ato ndajnë strategjitë dhe përvojat personale për të tërhequr partnerë të mundshëm. Deniz tregon historinë e saj për "kapjen" e bashkëshortit duke përdorur taktika të vogla të përditshme për t'i fituar zemrën, ndërsa Nice ndan si i dashuri i saj aktual e pyeti për të qenë e dashura e tij, në një mënyrë argëtuese dhe spontane. Ato përmendin rëndësinë e të qenit i hapur dhe të dhënies së sinjaleve të qarta, si dhe rëndësinë e besimit vetjak. Episodi ofron këshilla praktike për ata që janë të rinj në skenën e takimeve dhe kërkojnë të shfaqin një personalitet tërheqës dhe të sigurt.

A retenir

  • 💞 Flirtimi është thelbësor për të krijuar një interes fillestar.
  • 😅 Përvojat personale janë plot me momente komike dhe spontane.
  • 🔥 Dukja e mirë dhe besimi tek vetja janë thelbësore në flirtim.
  • 🗣️ Është e rëndësishme të jepni sinjale të qarta për interesin tuaj.
  • 🚥 Hapja dhe mirësjellja janë çelësat në flirtim.
  • 🤭 Rritja e momenteve të përbashkëta forcon marrëdhëniet.
  • 🌟 Shakatë dhe sensi i humorit ndihmojnë në lidhjet me të tjerët.
  • 👀 Vëzhgimi i shenjave të partnerit është i rëndësishëm.
  • 🎯 Flirtimi ka shumë forma dhe duhet personalizuar.
  • 🕰️ Jini të duruar - lidhjet e fuqishme kërkojnë kohë.

Chronologie

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    Përshëndetje të gjithëve, në episodën e sotëm flitet për tema të ndryshme duke përmendur gjithashtu edhe përvoja personale për flirtimin dhe marrëdhëniet. Fillimisht kujtohet të ndihmohet duke pëlqyer dhe shpërndarë kanalit të tyre.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Flitet për temën e flirtimit dhe si për të rriturit ajo është ndryshe nga e zakonta. Pyetja është se si ndonjëri që sheh kanalin e tyre praktikon flirtimin dhe nuk dihet cila është mosha e tyre.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Diskutohet mbi stilin e flirtimit dhe referencat bëhen nga rastet personale si tatuazhet dhe se si shpesh flirtimi me dikë mund të përshkallëzohet në diçka më serioze.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Flitet për flirtimin dhe ndonjëherë si pritet që personi që na pëlqen mund të mësojë 'truket' tona. Bisedohen edhe disa situata dhe reagime humoristike gjatë flirtimit.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    Një diskutim i gjerë mbi përvojat personale të flirtimit dhe sesi dikush që na pëlqen mund të mos zgjedhë se për kë të ndiejë. Përdoret një shembull për t'iu afruar një personi në mënyrë komike.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    Përshkruhet një situatë personale ku një person me të cilin dëshirohet të flirtohet, është shumë i ngadalshëm në reagimet e veta dhe mënyrat për ta tërhequr.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:35:00

    Metoda të ndryshme se si krijohet afërsia me dikë dhe sa e rëndësishme është për të gjetur mënyra për të tërhequr dikë kur sillet me ngadalësi të konsiderueshme.

  • 00:35:00 - 00:40:00

    Bisedohet për mënyrat e flirtimit, siç janë blerja e mëngjesit dhe shfrytëzimi i mundësive për të kaluar kohë së bashku, si një mekanizëm për të ndërtuar marrëdhënie.

  • 00:40:00 - 00:45:00

    Zhvillohet historia e një zënke të përbashkët dhe se si vendosen plane të veçanta për të lënë një person të kuptojë interesin dhe për të krijuar një lidhje.

  • 00:45:00 - 00:50:00

    Ka një diskutim komik mbi këmbënguljen dhe strategjitë për të fituar vëmendjen e dikujt dhe si, pavarësisht situatës, përpjekjet për flirt vazhdojnë.

  • 00:50:00 - 00:55:00

    Diskutohet se si situata të ndryshme të flirtimit mund të ndikojnë në marrëdhënie afatgjata dhe ndjenja e të qenit i befasuar nga veprimi i papritur i dikujt.

  • 00:55:00 - 01:00:00

    Zbulohet se si qëllimet specifike dhe qasjet në flirtim mund të modifikohen për të qenë më efektive. Përdoren shembuj për të ilustruar ndryshimet në mendime dhe vendime.

  • 01:00:00 - 01:05:30

    Përfundon me biseda komike dhe reflektime personale mbi flirtimin, duke dhënë disa këshilla për ata që duan të përmirësojnë aftësitë e tyre të flirtimit.

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Questions fréquemment posées

  • Cili është qëllimi i episodit të sotëm të Spice?

    Episodi fokusohet në flirtimin dhe fillimin e marrëdhënieve romantike, duke përfshirë histori dhe këshilla praktike.

  • Çfarë ndajnë prezantueset Deniz dhe Nice në këtë episod?

    Ato ndajnë përvojat e tyre personale të flirtimit dhe fillimit të marrëdhënieve, duke përfshirë situata komike dhe strategji të ndryshme.

  • Si e bëri Nice të dashurin e saj të jetë partneri i saj?

    Nice shpjegon se si i dashuri i saj e pyeti drejtpërdrejt në një mënyrë argëtuese, gjatë një mbrëmjeje në Marina Bay Sand.

  • Çfarë historie komike ndan Deniz për "kapjen" e bashkëshortit të saj?

    Deniz ndan një histori komike për mënyrën sesi nisi të afrohej me një koleg nga puna, duke përfshirë blerjen e mëngjesit për të dhe duke u përpjekur të krijojë momente të përbashkëta.

  • Cilat janë disa nga këshillat për flirtimin që ndahen në episod?

    Këshillat përfshijnë mbajtjen e një pamje tërheqëse dhe besimin për të tjerët, dhe të qenit i qartë në sinjalet që dërgohen.

  • Si filloi Deniz të flirtojë me bashkëshortin e saj të ardhshëm?

    Ajo filloi të shfaqë interes duke bërë veprime të vogla, si blerja e mëngjesit dhe organizimi i momenteve të përbashkëta.

  • Cila është rëndësia e flirtimit në një marrëdhënie sipas episodit?

    Flirtimi ndihmon në krijimin e tërheqjes fillestare dhe vendosjen e një baze për të njohur më mirë personin tjetër.

  • Cilat janë disa nga reagimet e zakonshme të djemve ndaj flirtimit, sipas Deniz dhe Nice?

    Djemtë mund të shfaqin sinjale të përziera, si p. sh. të jenë të ngadaltë në të kuptuarit e shenjave ose të kenë reagime të papritura kur e kuptojnë situatën.

  • Si është përmendur flirtimi spontan në episod?

    Një situatë e papritur përfshin kur qeni i Deniza i kërkoi të ndante dushin me të, duke shtuar humor dhe befasi.

  • Çfarë mësimesh ofron episodi për ata që janë të rinj në skenën e takimeve?

    Episodi ofron mësime për të njohur rëndësinë e të qenit i sinqertë dhe i drejtpërdrejtë në sinjalet e flirtimit, si dhe për të pasur besim në vetvete.

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    that's all yeah there's no calm down hi
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    guys welcome to today's episode of spice
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    and I am in this fight and I'm Denise
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    the nice we are back Live this week
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    we are back we are back so yeah I do
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    like uh I'm doing some ra actually okay
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    okay but all right things are very okay
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    before we go into that we must uh do the
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    that um lovely Ann is on that I will be
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    on so I've started recording for a new
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    show she doesn't know that yeah
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    to help me to edit but yes so
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    today's topic is uh the re the ra uh
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    starting is questionable for today's
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    topic oh really because we are uh adults
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    man right yeah so our flirting is
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    slightly different from the usual oh I
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    don't know how all people watching our
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    Channel I'm curious like guy whoever
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    watch our channels let us know what is
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    your age group
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    yeah yeah I would be interested to know
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    what is a floating style oh by the way I
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    have new tattoo so that's why you guys
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    see that yeah I like this one the
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    procession and yeah yeah so
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    this one yeah I'll Show everybody's
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    great when you have a nice armpit you
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    can show off
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    that's also the way of flirting by the
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    way hi it gives me excuse me excuse me
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    no you're acting like you call waitress
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    so actually you try to get something out
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    oh really can you go to the Garden
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    excuse me to do this you know where I
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    try again a show I show my uh
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    my boyfriend this title before you go
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    for a fly today and he was like
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    okay
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    but this is actually a very uh the
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    audience doesn't understand but this is
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    very dangerous topic for us
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    the next time when we flirt with
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    somebody that we really like the person
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    will know our tricks no but why do you
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    choose the person that we like watching
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    our show you should choose people that
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    don't watch YouTube the first question
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    is when you like somebody you don't
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    really choose who you like right like
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    that's true you cannot choose while like
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    hey I like you but do you watch our
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    Channel there you go I don't like it
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    anymore it doesn't work that way you are
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    yeah
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    it's actually flirting with your crushes
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    so a shortened title what I want to talk
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    about is I don't know whether it's
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    different for you but for me if I am
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    talking to somebody that I really really
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    like versus just normal so I think it's
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    different you get what I mean okay so
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    actually today's title is meant to be
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    flirting with somebody that I that if we
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    really really like okay so let us know
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    in the comments below it means you
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    already know the person yes we really
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    really like someone mean you already
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    you know of them as a person yes like
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    experience like being around with them
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    or something like that so that's that's
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    different that's a way different way
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    like you go and Chase someone you know
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    for like just at a bar you see somebody
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    you see something yeah
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    [Music]
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    that's the difference
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    excuse me
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    oh sorry I'm not calling you
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    all right then oh I need the music oh
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    I'm not always oh you're so handsome I
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    thought you're a waiter
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    you know you know girl who like like you
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    get to certain age you're just so good
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    at do it naturally if you really really
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    know what I mean no I'm not I'm not
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    saying yeah
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    yeah I think I really have that yeah my
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    skin is as thick as the skin on the face
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    is as thick as the skin on the feet
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    it's about the same thickness okay I
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    think now we'll go back to the story of
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    how Dennis gets get her husband but
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    that's correct for this one he has to be
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    her Crush first yeah I thought he was
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    something I really really okay
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    um and then because it's a
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    you know he's an earth sign so it's kind
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    of like he's very moving very slow it
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    was extremely frustrating for me yeah I
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    know like me what like I use talking
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    we're just like hey bro
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    how are you yeah he just asked one big
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    noodle okay that's how me and him
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    talking that's how emotional of the
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    Wi-Fi how the Wi-Fi it cares about it
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    because
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    when I came here that's the first thing
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    I know right that's right that's why I
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    love my friend about the Wi-Fi yes
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    same like me practical go things yeah
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    I'm very now on Earth you know I'm just
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    make sure that you eat ready or no you
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    want food or not so that's all week
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    that's how we show love we don't like
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    the news I miss you I love you I don't
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    see you for sale I know I'm just like I
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    said like have you eat yet
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    how's the wife
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    I wish that he cares about you ah yeah
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    yeah he cares about you and the house
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    okay how's the Wi-Fi okay I'm sorry oh
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    yeah get back to the garage if you're
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    watching this it's still
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    my Solutions you're not I'll text you
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    later okay but anyway
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    um
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    that was very frustrating because one
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    Kai is very uh slow so so I have to
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    adjust my flirting to his feet because
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    if for us sense if you come on too
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    strong they get
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    they don't pass you they can actually
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    not scared but we don't know we start
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    feel doubt we're like you only know me
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    for three days yeah he said you do this
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    with everyone yeah you know that's how
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    we think and I know so I I dialed down
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    quite a bit yeah I just kind of like
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    take it very chill like yeah but inside
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    I was like dying so I don't know haven't
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    shared with you how I how I tricked him
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    into thinking that we're afraid to me
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    no no I never hear anything about that
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    oh my God I think maybe a guy lady and
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    gentlemen today you have a first time
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    here no I never heard do I chase him
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    actually oh really yeah
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    [Laughter]
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    actually I'm putting the cage get
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    trapped by a second yeah I opened the
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    cage and hello now I feel like maybe I
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    I'm gonna go to the same situation you
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    know then there's a cage and then he oh
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    he looks the kitchen is quite nice quite
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    nice the girl looks quite children when
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    you come and put on the doll clothes
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    I met him was we were at
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    uh we were working at the same company
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    and the company is one of those old Shop
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    houses in Singapore for those of you
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    guys who don't know who are not a
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    Singaporean you can go check it out just
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    Google Shop houses Singapore you will
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    see what I mean so is this like small
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    space and uh there were four levels of
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    office but it's very small the space so
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    each each department uh sits one level
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    okay okay he is on level four I think
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    and I'm on level two okay and so uh we
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    first started talking about work
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    actually I only started talking to him
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    one year we both joined the office about
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    the same time but only started talking
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    to you about a year after we joined the
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    company that was where we started
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    talking to each other about work first
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    and I think we both like each other's
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    work stuff because we are fast and
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    efficient like just get it done don't
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    complain or whatever please okay enough
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    with all that nonsense so I think that
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    was what we like about each other at
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    first and it was just as a colleague but
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    I like working with you because you are
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    efficient and fast and it was the same
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    for me okay and then after that slowly
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    we started to talk and I at first I felt
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    it was very boring and like because you
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    know you know they're still they're
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    still obviously
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    everybody say the same thing to me I get
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    it bro no more you know the sales I mean
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    the sales and sales thing is all like me
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    obviously right like ah
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    foreign
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    time I was okay I'm quite close to
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    another goal that is from his Department
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    also quiet one because they are the I.T
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    Department yes I think development are
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    quite quiet usually yeah so I I asked
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    her I know she drinks so I was like hey
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    you want to come along with an hour to
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    befriend our team is very welcoming and
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    open so like you want to come along for
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    drinks you can ask one guy to come along
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    so since you know you're together then
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    at least the two quiet people have each
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    other you get what I'm trying to say
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    yeah and then he came up he was like oh
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    no I'm not going I say oh how come
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    you're not going then after he say he
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    said he's going for prata and data
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    laughs
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    on a Friday night with his friends I say
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    what
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    um hi okay this is
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    on Friday I know you go for this
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    newspaper and Pata instead then you say
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    yeah why cannot I said can but it's
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    Friday night is it you read newspaper in
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    the morning he said
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    he said yeah I read news in the morning
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    oh my gosh I'm boring I'm so glad that
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    was that our conversation and that was
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    how I felt my first impression of him
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    was that he was boring and slow and like
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    an old man so I keep laughing and say
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    you're like an old man it's okay you
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    know he doesn't care
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    and his first impression on me he told
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    me this afterwards after we got married
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    he said he felt I was noisy and
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    overbearing and too much and trying to
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    force my opinion other people because I
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    won't be like what if I didn't go out
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    wait don't go out you don't go are you
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    sure I think drinks better you you come
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    along with us better you know that kind
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    of thing so if I was overbearing and
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    noisy and loud and it's too much for him
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    and um slowly but slowly after we got to
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    know each other we learned that out we
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    are both uh have similar values and all
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    that then the chasing part started
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    because he's so bloody slow blood is low
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    yes and I also no he don't try it he
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    don't chase he just wait if any girl
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    take him in his luck
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    oh
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    oh that's why that time by that time I
  • 00:10:41
    to be to set the record straight we were
  • 00:10:43
    never together when he was with someone
  • 00:10:45
    else yeah this is called
  • 00:10:48
    okay do whatever together we will go on
  • 00:10:50
    like group Gatherings and all that yeah
  • 00:10:52
    and I noticed them very but I also
  • 00:10:54
    noticed
  • 00:10:55
    so so him me and another all these are
  • 00:10:59
    exclusive news meet him me and the other
  • 00:11:01
    girl talking about from the same um
  • 00:11:03
    Department yeah with the three of us
  • 00:11:04
    kind of close like we slowly became
  • 00:11:06
    close and then he would we would share
  • 00:11:09
    like personal stories about ourselves
  • 00:11:11
    and he would share his stories about him
  • 00:11:13
    and his dad and girlfriend and then we
  • 00:11:15
    would give him advice from Ghost point
  • 00:11:17
    of viewer of course right like why don't
  • 00:11:19
    you try this or that Etc and that's how
  • 00:11:21
    the conversation started and then after
  • 00:11:23
    a while I sort of okay so after that
  • 00:11:26
    right when the actual chasing begin
  • 00:11:30
    how I would do
  • 00:11:32
    Is We I know a flooding starting finally
  • 00:11:36
    it's a 10 minute of conversation we'll
  • 00:11:38
    go to the flirting part this is not
  • 00:11:39
    flirting this is actual chasing okay so
  • 00:11:42
    above that we cross the this is the
  • 00:11:45
    capture part
  • 00:11:47
    this is the trapping part okay the tribe
  • 00:11:50
    and book them yes it's a sad trap so
  • 00:11:52
    number one I always go out and see him
  • 00:11:55
    but I pretend I'm going to see the girl
  • 00:11:58
    I will buy breakfast for her because
  • 00:12:01
    she's quite close to me and then our
  • 00:12:04
    along the way by breakfast for him but
  • 00:12:06
    these are only two people that buy
  • 00:12:08
    breakfast for the rest of them in the
  • 00:12:09
    department I don't want my breakfast
  • 00:12:10
    okay so another course yeah okay the
  • 00:12:13
    size so obvious of flirting by the way I
  • 00:12:16
    always come on and say I feed you you
  • 00:12:19
    better know that I care
  • 00:12:22
    but why every morning breakfast for you
  • 00:12:24
    and you're so dumb you don't understand
  • 00:12:26
    it what's wrong with you man and then
  • 00:12:30
    that's what she tried to say by the way
  • 00:12:31
    I'm just using the language of how she
  • 00:12:33
    tried to say it in the breakfast every
  • 00:12:35
    breakfast she buy she'll give into that
  • 00:12:37
    she was like excuse me excuse me excuse
  • 00:12:41
    me with armpit okay that is what I do
  • 00:12:43
    but because it's because I will go uh my
  • 00:12:47
    moon signs will go so I like to feed the
  • 00:12:49
    people that I love yeah right so the
  • 00:12:51
    time I saw I saw this number one I make
  • 00:12:53
    excuses to go out to see the girl then
  • 00:12:55
    because somebody asked me what you
  • 00:12:56
    always call it but I said why canola
  • 00:12:59
    her name
  • 00:13:04
    go Emma
  • 00:13:06
    oh okay after we were just thought that
  • 00:13:08
    we will go to the pantry make sure
  • 00:13:10
    coffee together and then talk and then
  • 00:13:13
    after that this is step one step two is
  • 00:13:15
    more or less I know what time he gets
  • 00:13:17
    off work
  • 00:13:18
    it's never 6 usually 6 15 6 13 around
  • 00:13:22
    there
  • 00:13:23
    so my work will be I'm always on a dog
  • 00:13:26
    one when I get over I'm always on the
  • 00:13:28
    top when I go to what usually not
  • 00:13:30
    so I would like 5 30 more or less of my
  • 00:13:34
    things are done already so 5 45 then
  • 00:13:36
    I'll start to like slowly back up and
  • 00:13:38
    next it's a car I packed out already and
  • 00:13:40
    my door is done I already uh maybe just
  • 00:13:43
    read your emails or whatever I'm just
  • 00:13:46
    waiting to see because we have and uh
  • 00:13:49
    within the company we have our own
  • 00:13:51
    chatting app and it shows where somebody
  • 00:13:54
    is offline or online so when you go off
  • 00:13:57
    work you will log off and you become
  • 00:13:59
    offline so I'm waiting for the moment
  • 00:14:01
    and I'll say his name on the chatting
  • 00:14:03
    app
  • 00:14:20
    I'm just sitting there the bag is here
  • 00:14:23
    the laptop is just the screen is on and
  • 00:14:25
    just looking
  • 00:14:26
    okay done
  • 00:14:28
    because I know that he usually he locks
  • 00:14:31
    off you go and wash his car and then he
  • 00:14:33
    will come back
  • 00:14:35
    that way and then I will take my right
  • 00:14:37
    now stay in front of them just lift ah
  • 00:14:39
    the entire Leaf is our office on because
  • 00:14:42
    it's level one level six yeah small
  • 00:14:44
    space
  • 00:14:46
    they are coming down for level four
  • 00:14:48
    level four means is 11. oh
  • 00:14:51
    yeah
  • 00:14:52
    I want to see it's coming hello before
  • 00:14:54
    that press
  • 00:14:57
    I don't press
  • 00:14:59
    I wait never forget that press then it's
  • 00:15:02
    not open is here
  • 00:15:04
    oh
  • 00:15:07
    it's a work every day
  • 00:15:09
    almost every towards the to as we
  • 00:15:13
    progress almost every I mean I was
  • 00:15:15
    certain that I liked him almost every
  • 00:15:17
    day it's unless I got like something to
  • 00:15:20
    brush off to or he got something to rush
  • 00:15:22
    onto like sometimes but and by that
  • 00:15:25
    point towards that point we were we were
  • 00:15:27
    talking almost daily but most of it is
  • 00:15:30
    about work yeah occasionally it will be
  • 00:15:32
    like colleagues things like hey you
  • 00:15:34
    lingerie you know and how was lunch oh
  • 00:15:36
    today you're busy you know that kind of
  • 00:15:38
    thing
  • 00:15:39
    accounting
  • 00:15:44
    early today I said okay
  • 00:15:47
    then then I will not wait long I'll just
  • 00:15:49
    say
  • 00:15:51
    almost every day towards the end towards
  • 00:15:53
    the end of the capturing so from the
  • 00:15:55
    lead to the mrts Yeah Yeah from the list
  • 00:15:58
    at first okay this is the leaf to the
  • 00:16:00
    MRT is how many minutes every day only
  • 00:16:02
    about five okay step this is step two so
  • 00:16:05
    at first we will go to a different MRT
  • 00:16:07
    we come out we only walk like maybe
  • 00:16:08
    three five minutes together then we will
  • 00:16:10
    speak because his MRT is here my MRT is
  • 00:16:12
    here yeah okay one day I found a new
  • 00:16:15
    excuse to walk on the same MRT the route
  • 00:16:18
    as you until he is stationed because
  • 00:16:20
    what happened is he stationed that the
  • 00:16:22
    decision he goes to a decision I go to
  • 00:16:24
    is one uh stop apart the first place uh
  • 00:16:28
    18 Raffles place and city hall or
  • 00:16:30
    something like that yeah so I say that I
  • 00:16:33
    told you I say oh today I also walk too
  • 00:16:35
    foreign
  • 00:16:48
    so I'll just go to Bedford raffle space
  • 00:16:51
    is further down the line more towards
  • 00:16:53
    the end ah yeah
  • 00:16:55
    oh okay I don't know when he I don't
  • 00:16:58
    know even until now he knows these are
  • 00:16:59
    rules or not like it's it's a I could
  • 00:17:02
    have not said that to be frank the
  • 00:17:04
    difference there's not much difference
  • 00:17:06
    the difference the the difference
  • 00:17:09
    the timing of you as a train with
  • 00:17:12
    someone that you care Yeah so basically
  • 00:17:13
    we got we we we started to walk home
  • 00:17:16
    together Southern walks her station
  • 00:17:18
    together and it's like a 15 minute walk
  • 00:17:20
    so now from three mini stretch to 15
  • 00:17:22
    minutes and then we will get under the
  • 00:17:24
    same tree and this after that slowly we
  • 00:17:26
    started to stop you know Raffles Place
  • 00:17:29
    MRT outside is near the river Singapore
  • 00:17:33
    River golden step three so after a while
  • 00:17:37
    we started to sit by the river and talk
  • 00:17:38
    yeah
  • 00:17:41
    sorry sometimes and we were like oh you
  • 00:17:44
    have to go because
  • 00:17:49
    seven to seven thirty eight
  • 00:17:53
    you're not even hungry
  • 00:17:56
    disgusting
  • 00:18:03
    hey hey
  • 00:18:05
    oh my God
  • 00:18:11
    I hear a talking I'm hungry I'm like so
  • 00:18:15
    much they're not hungry no especially
  • 00:18:17
    both of them love food you know that's
  • 00:18:19
    why my question comes when do you both
  • 00:18:21
    decide let's eat and talk at the same
  • 00:18:23
    now not just go to the river
  • 00:18:26
    that's
  • 00:18:31
    what oh okay that's the thing okay this
  • 00:18:34
    one uh maybe my ex bosses will watch
  • 00:18:35
    this I have a heart attack but actually
  • 00:18:37
    there's a pool table that is set up
  • 00:18:39
    because we actually we have like an
  • 00:18:41
    entertainment area on the topmost level
  • 00:18:43
    so that's like a pool table then there's
  • 00:18:46
    like some exercise machines so yeah and
  • 00:18:50
    it became more and more frequent that we
  • 00:18:51
    will play pool just for a while after
  • 00:18:53
    work like half an hour or so and I'll
  • 00:18:56
    purposely wear the very tight dresses
  • 00:18:59
    yeah that's comforting
  • 00:19:01
    and then you know when you play pool you
  • 00:19:03
    will bend down and then obviously you
  • 00:19:05
    your ship looks very nice because you
  • 00:19:07
    are stretching up yeah and then I have
  • 00:19:09
    this white dress that he loves a lot it
  • 00:19:11
    looks very professional but it's a it's
  • 00:19:14
    a nice shape so and I will wear my shoes
  • 00:19:17
    I wear he used to play pool can you
  • 00:19:19
    imagine and then when it's time to oh my
  • 00:19:22
    God Denise wear slipper to my house guys
  • 00:19:24
    I'm just informed
  • 00:19:29
    no I'm just trying to say after you
  • 00:19:31
    married it doesn't matter what you wear
  • 00:19:33
    yeah your husband's you bring you to the
  • 00:19:36
    bedroom and do the same thing anyway so
  • 00:19:38
    that's why I'm trying this yeah so I
  • 00:19:40
    wear heels to play pool and then after
  • 00:19:42
    when we're going home because I have to
  • 00:19:43
    walk to the Broadway train station now I
  • 00:19:45
    have to take off my heels and change it
  • 00:19:46
    to my normal shoes but yeah ever he used
  • 00:19:48
    to play pool and then I will bend over
  • 00:19:50
    you know of course it looks very nice
  • 00:19:51
    right and then feel hot
  • 00:19:54
    the heat is come up and then once I got
  • 00:19:57
    time you say whatever you play pool you
  • 00:19:59
    see why I feel like oh I don't know
  • 00:20:01
    where to look you gotta say that
  • 00:20:06
    I was thinking but I don't know whether
  • 00:20:07
    it works oh it works to say yeah it
  • 00:20:09
    works quite well
  • 00:20:14
    not bad yeah so yeah that was what I did
  • 00:20:18
    so so yeah quite sneaky like my way of
  • 00:20:21
    capturing is I already set my eyes on
  • 00:20:23
    the target I must capture him but uh
  • 00:20:26
    because he's so slow like I said so I
  • 00:20:28
    have to move very slowly
  • 00:20:29
    and then uh dinner got one time
  • 00:20:34
    he's such a sign right so he's very
  • 00:20:37
    you know like he's straight straight I
  • 00:20:40
    think at one time like hey uh
  • 00:20:42
    we've been talking for a while you're
  • 00:20:44
    hungry you want to go get you again you
  • 00:20:45
    know what I mean if the guys yeah
  • 00:20:47
    exactly like you keep talking forever
  • 00:20:49
    finally dinner time I'm hungry just by
  • 00:20:53
    looking listen to the story
  • 00:20:59
    everything is because they want to save
  • 00:21:01
    money or he just don't think about it
  • 00:21:03
    too nervous he doesn't know I don't know
  • 00:21:05
    so anyway I asked him he have a
  • 00:21:07
    girlfriend you'll say they should know
  • 00:21:09
    it's a basic bro
  • 00:21:11
    the girl
  • 00:21:16
    you know because I know at the first few
  • 00:21:18
    times we talked by the river he's not
  • 00:21:21
    comfortable enough for him to get dinner
  • 00:21:22
    you get what I'm trying to say we will
  • 00:21:24
    move at his speed it's very slow so we
  • 00:21:26
    have talked by the river five times then
  • 00:21:28
    can have dinner you don't know you know
  • 00:21:30
    what I mean
  • 00:21:31
    she's been buying breakfast for you
  • 00:21:34
    every day
  • 00:21:35
    how more clear you want it to be once or
  • 00:21:37
    twice a week cannot be I mean everything
  • 00:21:39
    too obviously months or twice maybe
  • 00:21:41
    three times
  • 00:21:41
    even three times it's too hot even once
  • 00:21:44
    you've got outfits only five days you
  • 00:21:45
    already eat breakfast but another girl
  • 00:21:47
    three times
  • 00:21:48
    come on be better than that so after
  • 00:21:51
    that oh my God my brother oh my God I
  • 00:21:54
    asked him I say I said you want to have
  • 00:21:56
    dinner since we've been talking for a
  • 00:21:58
    while
  • 00:21:59
    you
  • 00:22:01
    [Music]
  • 00:22:11
    oh but but this is precisely why I like
  • 00:22:15
    him and trust him you get what I mean
  • 00:22:16
    right because he's so
  • 00:22:18
    straight any other guy I'm like bro
  • 00:22:20
    seriously bro that's why I asked you to
  • 00:22:23
    see the time you like me already he said
  • 00:22:24
    yeah of course if someone spend so much
  • 00:22:25
    time okay
  • 00:22:33
    Amina
  • 00:22:35
    I remember that I was so shy so I was
  • 00:22:37
    like
  • 00:22:39
    I should have known this is
  • 00:22:57
    you know the bear or something
  • 00:23:01
    it's a long game
  • 00:23:04
    [Laughter]
  • 00:23:06
    you know I do business it's a long game
  • 00:23:07
    it's a it's like it's like the police
  • 00:23:09
    need to catch the the boss the boss like
  • 00:23:12
    me too mainly to do this interview next
  • 00:23:14
    time maybe that's what he go through
  • 00:23:16
    right now
  • 00:23:18
    hahaha don't lie you should be you are
  • 00:23:20
    much faster because you you read I just
  • 00:23:23
    keep certain steps
  • 00:23:26
    not so fast yeah but I used to you know
  • 00:23:29
    he I yeah I saw I think you want to have
  • 00:23:31
    dinner you say um no like his face like
  • 00:23:33
    this no my mother could have to go home
  • 00:23:37
    and then he just left you like that all
  • 00:23:39
    right
  • 00:23:43
    let me just I said then we go off then
  • 00:23:45
    we just went back to train station
  • 00:23:46
    actually I wasn't really hungry I just
  • 00:23:48
    wanted to prolong our chat you get what
  • 00:23:50
    I mean yeah this is
  • 00:23:53
    love okay
  • 00:23:56
    and even that kind of vibe is more for
  • 00:23:58
    drinks or beer why would I be interested
  • 00:24:00
    in the full one we Asian we will eat
  • 00:24:03
    when we talk anyways yeah yeah I really
  • 00:24:05
    look at him he's yummy it's always
  • 00:24:07
    different I'm not interested in the
  • 00:24:09
    noodles okay I'm just in here
  • 00:24:12
    and anyway so so yeah that's my life
  • 00:24:15
    until now it's still the same
  • 00:24:18
    so when is the flirting had to be over
  • 00:24:20
    and you'll get it suddenly became on go
  • 00:24:23
    one time I had had enough so I stole him
  • 00:24:26
    I said so we decided that we were
  • 00:24:29
    walking again again with the walking to
  • 00:24:31
    the river
  • 00:24:33
    one thousand and one time of the day
  • 00:24:36
    okay of the men of the river
  • 00:24:39
    it's a Singapore River by the way you
  • 00:24:40
    can you guys can look it up it's a real
  • 00:24:42
    River but very small so
  • 00:24:44
    again the river then after that I
  • 00:24:46
    probably must say I don't think you can
  • 00:24:48
    do it anymore I know I have to set a
  • 00:24:50
    date for him yeah and then I just don't
  • 00:24:52
    want to say you know
  • 00:24:55
    um you know I like you I'm very obvious
  • 00:24:58
    ly and
  • 00:24:59
    I think you like me otherwise you
  • 00:25:01
    wouldn't spend so much time on me yeah
  • 00:25:02
    but
  • 00:25:03
    um I don't know where we are going yeah
  • 00:25:06
    and I and I'm not sure how long I can
  • 00:25:09
    carry on with this
  • 00:25:12
    this is current yeah
  • 00:25:17
    of course you take 10 000 years to think
  • 00:25:22
    I say anyway uh I'm not here the
  • 00:25:24
    pressure you I'm not saying you must
  • 00:25:27
    have signed me as a girlfriend or what
  • 00:25:28
    not saying that but
  • 00:25:31
    I just need to let you know that I am
  • 00:25:33
    new
  • 00:25:34
    the end of limit of it yeah I say I'm a
  • 00:25:39
    very impatient person you already know
  • 00:25:40
    that by now
  • 00:25:42
    so I have already tried to give you as
  • 00:25:45
    much time as I can how many months was
  • 00:25:47
    that I think this one can I call me if
  • 00:25:50
    I'm wrong but I think this one is about
  • 00:25:51
    three three months already oh three
  • 00:25:53
    months is a very very long for
  • 00:25:56
    Sagittarius by the way
  • 00:25:58
    it's a very very very long yeah I think
  • 00:26:02
    I think it was about three months I
  • 00:26:04
    think three months I don't know but
  • 00:26:05
    anyway around that it's been more than
  • 00:26:07
    maybe two three months around that yeah
  • 00:26:09
    then after that I told you I say oh I'm
  • 00:26:11
    not here to put pressure on you but I'm
  • 00:26:13
    just I'm just letting you know I think
  • 00:26:15
    it's courtesy because we have already
  • 00:26:16
    gone close we were texting all that we
  • 00:26:19
    have already grown close since we're
  • 00:26:21
    really glucose
  • 00:26:22
    I don't want to suddenly one day when I
  • 00:26:24
    end things but I end things I as I
  • 00:26:27
    anything very ruthless yeah I will end
  • 00:26:29
    things abruptly because I was like okay
  • 00:26:31
    I told you I'm done already really then
  • 00:26:33
    I'm done right I don't want to just
  • 00:26:35
    leave you suddenly just like kind of
  • 00:26:36
    like ghost you or leave you yeah so I'm
  • 00:26:39
    telling you this is the reason I'm
  • 00:26:40
    telling you I'm near the end of my limit
  • 00:26:41
    and when it reaches I will I will leave
  • 00:26:44
    now and not not in the mean way we will
  • 00:26:47
    still be colleagues and I will respect
  • 00:26:48
    you as a colleague but let's see that
  • 00:26:50
    yeah
  • 00:26:52
    um yeah he was I think he was a bit
  • 00:26:54
    startled by that he'll be like oh no
  • 00:26:57
    more time left
  • 00:27:00
    so uh they tell you the story how you
  • 00:27:03
    feel when you say that to him uh
  • 00:27:06
    actually okay yeah because I'm sure he
  • 00:27:09
    would think something in that situation
  • 00:27:12
    I was thinking he was thinking a lot of
  • 00:27:13
    things because uh he was fresh out of
  • 00:27:15
    her relationships
  • 00:27:17
    oh he just yes
  • 00:27:20
    he also feels like
  • 00:27:22
    like is he ready or not yeah right right
  • 00:27:25
    for somebody new and out there yeah he
  • 00:27:27
    also you know being a vocal he thinks a
  • 00:27:29
    lot yeah he also didn't want to like
  • 00:27:31
    bring all his like not it's not tidy up
  • 00:27:34
    yet and then bring over yeah to our
  • 00:27:37
    relationship so if we were to have one
  • 00:27:39
    then
  • 00:27:40
    and so that was all his thoughts now so
  • 00:27:42
    so after that he did something very
  • 00:27:45
    shocking
  • 00:27:46
    shocking to me are you really shocking
  • 00:27:48
    oh yeah maybe he told me so he after
  • 00:27:52
    that shortly he left he resigned from
  • 00:27:54
    from the company we were at and then he
  • 00:27:57
    I said oh nice now then you should go
  • 00:27:58
    and take a short break Ma he was like oh
  • 00:28:01
    yeah I'm thinking I said you should go
  • 00:28:03
    and maybe bintan or batam or somewhere
  • 00:28:05
    nearby I don't know just read I said so
  • 00:28:08
    I'm going bintan then I'm like oh okay
  • 00:28:10
    this one called me if I'm wrong again I
  • 00:28:12
    think he asked me whether I want to go
  • 00:28:14
    with him or not I was like oh
  • 00:28:20
    wow
  • 00:28:21
    it's just three days too nice one and
  • 00:28:23
    then after that I say is it uh we will
  • 00:28:26
    have Sample Room he was like oh yeah
  • 00:28:28
    yeah yeah he said he no he told me no
  • 00:28:31
    you but we have separate dates I was
  • 00:28:33
    like okay Ken I mean I have actually
  • 00:28:35
    I've done it once with uh another guy
  • 00:28:37
    before separate but nothing happened so
  • 00:28:39
    I was like
  • 00:28:39
    okay whatever man you know
  • 00:28:42
    since you're paying since you're paying
  • 00:28:43
    for the room right why you booked a prep
  • 00:28:46
    bed bro
  • 00:28:48
    no then after that you know what
  • 00:28:50
    happened the first the first then we're
  • 00:28:53
    not together yet officially you know but
  • 00:28:55
    the first time
  • 00:28:56
    the first is it the first night or the
  • 00:28:59
    second day uh I pounce upon Him music I
  • 00:29:02
    pounds upon it and after that we pushed
  • 00:29:05
    away together
  • 00:29:09
    that's had to be happen yeah
  • 00:29:12
    things that she did that no but it
  • 00:29:16
    was like he was oh he did something that
  • 00:29:18
    shocked me in the first like oh okay I
  • 00:29:20
    was showering nice story this one needs
  • 00:29:24
    some tea
  • 00:29:25
    tea time you have Teen Titans doing some
  • 00:29:28
    tea here I was
  • 00:29:30
    I don't know whether it's a good idea my
  • 00:29:32
    parents still watching her anyway
  • 00:29:34
    no no give them your YouTube channel can
  • 00:29:37
    you know if the whole family were both
  • 00:29:39
    single okay
  • 00:29:40
    we were both single and I think that
  • 00:29:43
    nothing we did was wrong I mean it's
  • 00:29:45
    consensus yeah of course I need to put
  • 00:29:48
    this as a disclaimer we were both at
  • 00:29:50
    that time it's me he already break up
  • 00:29:52
    she already break up
  • 00:29:53
    for long ago yeah basically she's single
  • 00:29:56
    and very available and she is also
  • 00:29:58
    singular
  • 00:30:00
    he already done with his ex-girlfriend
  • 00:30:02
    that's what she tried to say
  • 00:30:04
    yeah so
  • 00:30:06
    single and
  • 00:30:12
    right and I thought like this guy I need
  • 00:30:15
    to learn about how to capture him also
  • 00:30:17
    because he's so slow right obviously
  • 00:30:19
    first day I can't do anything so I went
  • 00:30:20
    to Charlotte suddenly I shower halfway
  • 00:30:22
    you're not on the door he said can I
  • 00:30:24
    shower with you he just asked like that
  • 00:30:27
    well bro you finally noted the story is
  • 00:30:31
    so boring at the moment I'm like oh
  • 00:30:32
    finally the excitement parties really
  • 00:30:35
    did he really dare to do that yeah
  • 00:30:42
    he looked like he will bring his pajamas
  • 00:30:45
    to the travel and he will wear pajama in
  • 00:30:48
    the hotel with the socks and the
  • 00:30:50
    slippers bring them home and it would
  • 00:30:52
    sit and drink tea or coffee to wash the
  • 00:30:55
    new one the glasses and watch TV or
  • 00:30:57
    something that's how my eyes no that's
  • 00:30:59
    how I look at him okay that's how I feel
  • 00:31:01
    I'm actually supposedly
  • 00:31:04
    oh yeah that's true okay okay so maybe
  • 00:31:07
    that one was the part coming out I don't
  • 00:31:09
    know why
  • 00:31:10
    I know like yeah this is like way when
  • 00:31:13
    they're comfortable with you yeah maybe
  • 00:31:15
    you're already comfortable I don't know
  • 00:31:16
    so that's what I say after I was shocked
  • 00:31:19
    just on the door he didn't come
  • 00:31:21
    immediately of course he's not on the
  • 00:31:23
    door he said can I shout with you or may
  • 00:31:25
    I try something like that I can't come
  • 00:31:26
    here and share with you something else
  • 00:31:27
    yeah I was shocked for two seconds okay
  • 00:31:38
    she's been ready for so long
  • 00:31:45
    no I think he would come to that no I
  • 00:31:47
    tell you I don't I don't think you
  • 00:31:49
    remember why he have courage to do that
  • 00:31:51
    why did he come to the day I'm like I
  • 00:31:53
    think I'm enough if I don't do it I will
  • 00:31:55
    lost her I better have it no actually I
  • 00:31:58
    got asked him why
  • 00:32:00
    you say it's a very practical thing it's
  • 00:32:02
    an investor mindset you see nothing to
  • 00:32:05
    lose Ma you say no then Nola are still
  • 00:32:08
    outside
  • 00:32:10
    you say yesterday is appropriate
  • 00:32:13
    wow
  • 00:32:21
    we book so much story no no story but
  • 00:32:25
    guys just so simple I'm trying my luck I
  • 00:32:27
    get it I get it I don't get it it
  • 00:32:29
    doesn't matter
  • 00:32:36
    like you pray for anything you say no
  • 00:32:39
    um nothing changed Ma so I just decided
  • 00:32:42
    to try it no music
  • 00:32:50
    you know I love the story it really this
  • 00:32:54
    was a Twist this was a twist it took me
  • 00:32:56
    by so much surprises yeah no even I
  • 00:32:59
    surprised I told you like it was more
  • 00:33:00
    surprise
  • 00:33:04
    laughs
  • 00:33:06
    that surprised not
  • 00:33:09
    he do nothing in this I thought that
  • 00:33:11
    nothing
  • 00:33:15
    now I know why she love him
  • 00:33:17
    because he do everything that she
  • 00:33:19
    unexpected okay never loved like
  • 00:33:22
    unexpected things surprising like
  • 00:33:24
    unpredictable thing challenging
  • 00:33:27
    you know like treating you was such a
  • 00:33:30
    challenge
  • 00:33:32
    to tie my hands together
  • 00:33:37
    surprise number one he has to shower
  • 00:33:39
    it's a person or two he called me shower
  • 00:33:40
    I was like okay maybe you're going to
  • 00:33:42
    check your body only like okay fast I
  • 00:33:46
    think so after that actually later I'll
  • 00:33:49
    tell you this off screen but there was a
  • 00:33:50
    body part that shocked him so he was
  • 00:33:52
    like oh hey
  • 00:33:59
    because I'm so curious let's breast milk
  • 00:34:02
    two seconds
  • 00:34:04
    tell me
  • 00:34:36
    so you know of science uh you need some
  • 00:34:39
    time to
  • 00:34:40
    recover yeah that's true that's true we
  • 00:34:43
    need time for recap we're quite slow for
  • 00:34:45
    us yeah something unexpected he shot a
  • 00:34:47
    beat even like sick dizzy for one month
  • 00:34:50
    I'm still coughing
  • 00:34:51
    Sydney time for Recovery correct
  • 00:34:54
    recovery so he shot uh so he became all
  • 00:34:56
    so you just ready to shower and then
  • 00:34:59
    recover
  • 00:35:02
    and then after that I think the second
  • 00:35:04
    day on
  • 00:35:06
    day on the second day second day then I
  • 00:35:08
    pounds upon him and yeah and that was it
  • 00:35:11
    and that was how we became together
  • 00:35:14
    officially boyfriend girlfriend
  • 00:35:16
    officially he was afterwards when we
  • 00:35:18
    came back and then after that when we
  • 00:35:19
    came back he was like uh he was like so
  • 00:35:22
    now you're my girlfriend I said no you
  • 00:35:24
    never asked me he said oh wait we went
  • 00:35:26
    to the holidays together and we sat
  • 00:35:29
    together with these we not actually know
  • 00:35:30
    enough since when I agree computer I
  • 00:35:33
    didn't know he didn't ask me in the the
  • 00:35:35
    way also in when we're overseas yeah Oh
  • 00:35:39
    I thought we acting like families
  • 00:35:43
    you must make it official yeah correct
  • 00:35:46
    then he asked us afterwards he asked us
  • 00:35:48
    okay that's a proper one yeah it's the
  • 00:35:51
    same yeah I have similar experience so
  • 00:35:54
    have you enjoy the story yes I love it
  • 00:35:56
    it's just shocking you no I
  • 00:36:11
    I think it's quite
  • 00:36:14
    affected me to do something along those
  • 00:36:16
    lines like make the first movement of
  • 00:36:18
    that
  • 00:36:19
    by uh give birth to one secretaries in
  • 00:36:22
    the room
  • 00:36:24
    and right now dating one
  • 00:36:27
    that's true especially today I tell you
  • 00:36:30
    I have a boyfriend on 15 June
  • 00:36:34
    I will tell you yeah
  • 00:36:37
    I know they will have a
  • 00:36:39
    silly stuff that they will do to get the
  • 00:36:42
    spa or partner you know like but also
  • 00:36:45
    like you say they won't have much that
  • 00:36:47
    patience so
  • 00:36:49
    I I know Denise would do all the fun
  • 00:36:51
    stuff to get someone but I think I think
  • 00:36:54
    this is what I just figured out for you
  • 00:36:56
    to know if say this is really serious
  • 00:36:58
    about you you have to see the patient
  • 00:36:59
    because they don't patient and if they
  • 00:37:02
    stop patient with someone it's when they
  • 00:37:05
    hint to you oh so difficult
  • 00:37:07
    because they're not a sign of page I
  • 00:37:10
    draw a lot of hair yeah they hate
  • 00:37:13
    patients you ask some patients
  • 00:37:15
    consistent do this again again I have
  • 00:37:18
    that with my
  • 00:37:20
    lovely boyfriend too we complete all the
  • 00:37:23
    time about that so oh yeah it's a
  • 00:37:25
    difference you know patience so if
  • 00:37:27
    they're patient with you mean they
  • 00:37:29
    actually another way to tell is whether
  • 00:37:31
    they treat you differently from other
  • 00:37:33
    okay so we're talking about straight
  • 00:37:35
    nails and straight periods here so the
  • 00:37:37
    other way to tell is when if they treat
  • 00:37:39
    you differently from their other girls
  • 00:37:41
    or other guys so how long I was
  • 00:37:44
    convinced that I was within fully yeah
  • 00:37:48
    that I I was truly interested in here
  • 00:37:50
    and because I'm friendly with everything
  • 00:37:52
    yeah yeah yeah that's that's the day
  • 00:37:54
    challenge yes friendly whatever whether
  • 00:37:56
    I'm just being friendly to him or I
  • 00:37:59
    liked him and then after all he realized
  • 00:38:01
    that oh I because he worked with me so
  • 00:38:03
    you see her three other guys in the
  • 00:38:05
    company yeah and we're all young people
  • 00:38:07
    yeah like 20 plus 30 it's all on a
  • 00:38:10
    dating age so you see her actually all
  • 00:38:12
    the other guys it's different from her
  • 00:38:14
    chicken that was how he was convinced
  • 00:38:16
    also that's the breakfast that face okay
  • 00:38:18
    I remember even now what he likes okay
  • 00:38:21
    oh yeah
  • 00:38:22
    lovely how long was that from the trip
  • 00:38:25
    come back from holiday and boyfriend
  • 00:38:26
    girlfriend a few days only because he
  • 00:38:28
    knows he has asked I already say you
  • 00:38:30
    don't us not considered yeah yeah
  • 00:38:32
    so he he's his invisibility he needs
  • 00:38:37
    courage to ask us questions yeah he will
  • 00:38:39
    ask
  • 00:38:41
    using it's a very you say it's a very
  • 00:38:44
    very ugly way how was that I would tell
  • 00:38:46
    you the difference after the history I
  • 00:38:47
    will tell you how my boyfriend asked me
  • 00:38:48
    to be a girlfriend how was that this is
  • 00:38:52
    the Earthly way yeah
  • 00:39:04
    so if of course it involves food right
  • 00:39:06
    because it's a Virgo so after dinner one
  • 00:39:10
    time I see after all you see afterwards
  • 00:39:12
    okay I don't know after dinner like one
  • 00:39:14
    time we got ice cream we got like two
  • 00:39:17
    small pints of ice cream and you were
  • 00:39:19
    eating then he said go out to the
  • 00:39:20
    rooftop eat so we're eating that's early
  • 00:39:22
    he asked me do you want to make no just
  • 00:39:25
    eating ice cream that's it you want to
  • 00:39:27
    be my girlfriend I say oh okay then that
  • 00:39:30
    was wrong
  • 00:39:57
    you know
  • 00:40:02
    I'm some friend right now but it's just
  • 00:40:05
    so funny
  • 00:40:07
    but I know you see this is this is this
  • 00:40:09
    okay so um this is partly why we can be
  • 00:40:11
    together because I appreciate that he's
  • 00:40:12
    trying very hard
  • 00:40:18
    all these small things will have made a
  • 00:40:21
    big difference
  • 00:40:24
    and then I was but she don't catch the
  • 00:40:27
    only eyes I care but at the same time I
  • 00:40:30
    know it's because his character is like
  • 00:40:32
    that yeah so I accepted it yeah you get
  • 00:40:34
    what I mean I've decided to be with him
  • 00:40:36
    right yeah except that he is like that
  • 00:40:39
    yes of course right I'm just like
  • 00:40:43
    that's right
  • 00:40:47
    there's no song
  • 00:40:49
    maybe that was one flower I don't
  • 00:40:50
    remember one guy okay later I text him
  • 00:40:53
    and uh I remember I remember the
  • 00:40:55
    proposal the wedding proposal also wear
  • 00:40:57
    a jean but nevermind it's okay
  • 00:41:00
    yeah you share you shared how my my one
  • 00:41:02
    is extremely important it's time for
  • 00:41:04
    your story I think it's like I only know
  • 00:41:06
    that the floating bar will go back but I
  • 00:41:08
    just talked about the proposal to be a
  • 00:41:11
    girlfriend because this is funny because
  • 00:41:13
    how
  • 00:41:14
    my lovely guy like how the Earthly guy I
  • 00:41:17
    say now I'll show you how to say thank
  • 00:41:19
    you guys yeah by the way baby if you're
  • 00:41:21
    watching this cover your ear or skip it
  • 00:41:24
    send you forward
  • 00:41:29
    maybe one day he'll share with you again
  • 00:41:32
    but
  • 00:41:33
    so we just like uh uh date for a few
  • 00:41:36
    days so let me count I think that should
  • 00:41:38
    be our Maybe feet day
  • 00:41:40
    she'll be fit one like fit them see each
  • 00:41:43
    other hang out together and this is the
  • 00:41:46
    first time we go out as the group which
  • 00:41:48
    is I go out with him and a lot of his
  • 00:41:50
    colleague ah okay okay so you have few
  • 00:41:53
    more people right so we will go in
  • 00:41:55
    Marina Basin for his colleague some from
  • 00:41:58
    different countries fly here from China
  • 00:42:00
    to see the firewood and see Marina Bay
  • 00:42:03
    Sand for the first time yeah so I was at
  • 00:42:06
    first I'm here for nine years I don't
  • 00:42:08
    need to see Marina by saying I just need
  • 00:42:10
    to see men
  • 00:42:12
    [Laughter]
  • 00:42:17
    considering myself that I'm hanging out
  • 00:42:20
    with him so that that's my item my turn
  • 00:42:22
    was single yeah I'm still single and I'm
  • 00:42:25
    seeing someone yeah but I'm not
  • 00:42:26
    officially with anything to know
  • 00:42:28
    somebody yeah exactly so that's my thumb
  • 00:42:31
    so we were walking up and down and View
  • 00:42:33
    and show his friend and you know if you
  • 00:42:37
    never go Marina Bay Sand I tell you it's
  • 00:42:39
    just the most
  • 00:42:41
    yummy guy walking around ever in town
  • 00:42:45
    because a lot of people stay there for
  • 00:42:47
    work and most of them is single EP six
  • 00:42:50
    pack and they just like yeah yeah and
  • 00:42:53
    yeah and they just run and exercise and
  • 00:42:55
    it's just in front of you and all of
  • 00:42:57
    them and and I don't know how somehow
  • 00:42:59
    you start hanging out with someone your
  • 00:43:00
    thoughts keep pop up they pop up like
  • 00:43:02
    mushrooms you know
  • 00:43:06
    just that that and they're like what the
  • 00:43:09
    hell I don't see this this often like I
  • 00:43:12
    don't have exactly and you know and you
  • 00:43:14
    know my my boyfriend he he sensitive he
  • 00:43:17
    knocked down okay he can see where my
  • 00:43:20
    eye is going yes and I was I just don't
  • 00:43:23
    I mean I'm not saying I don't care of
  • 00:43:25
    him but I just treat him as very clear
  • 00:43:27
    like I don't expected that brand new
  • 00:43:30
    exclusive yeah I I don't I don't go out
  • 00:43:33
    with guy and and hope that they will
  • 00:43:35
    call me oh can you be my girlfriend or
  • 00:43:37
    something I I don't right so I'm just be
  • 00:43:38
    me I'm just like oh my God but I don't
  • 00:43:40
    tell him that I'm just look you know I'm
  • 00:43:42
    just enjoying it because that's how I
  • 00:43:44
    get to him in the first play anyway you
  • 00:43:46
    know like you look and you're like oh
  • 00:43:47
    that's my type let me try you know let
  • 00:43:49
    me try my lap today let's see get it you
  • 00:43:52
    know I'm I'm open the green light but
  • 00:43:54
    I'm not the one who asked for it he
  • 00:43:56
    asked phone number but he's aware that I
  • 00:43:59
    look at him and I smell at him so so
  • 00:44:02
    that's the thing about me I don't ask
  • 00:44:04
    but I will look and I smile this is
  • 00:44:06
    another floating thing yeah that's the
  • 00:44:08
    flirting it must give green light
  • 00:44:09
    because if you don't give the guy I
  • 00:44:11
    don't know like one don't ask but I
  • 00:44:13
    don't ask because for me it's like if
  • 00:44:14
    the guy not come in first rather I'm not
  • 00:44:17
    his side he's not into mood today he I
  • 00:44:19
    already know he don't like me and it's
  • 00:44:21
    okay if I'm not his type or maybe he
  • 00:44:24
    already have girlfriend in relationship
  • 00:44:26
    which is fine I either one of that I
  • 00:44:30
    don't want either right so I'm I'm set
  • 00:44:32
    myself clear
  • 00:44:33
    so when guy run around I told you it's
  • 00:44:36
    like and we sit in the restaurant
  • 00:44:37
    because we wait for the water show right
  • 00:44:40
    and he keep asking me what I want to
  • 00:44:42
    order and I like anything but your your
  • 00:44:46
    mind and it's not an imagination
  • 00:44:56
    excuse me you get where I come from
  • 00:45:00
    right I want that one and uh and and he
  • 00:45:05
    was he will pull me no not really poo
  • 00:45:07
    but like we sit at a long table right
  • 00:45:09
    his friend and he just pulled my head
  • 00:45:12
    here
  • 00:45:12
    he's because his face he tried to look
  • 00:45:15
    in my eyes and my face like he just said
  • 00:45:18
    oh he's so tall so when he when he even
  • 00:45:20
    stand right he above my me like one day
  • 00:45:23
    yeah yeah so for him to buy him to bang
  • 00:45:25
    down and look me tonight this way and we
  • 00:45:28
    just saw funny because I look at him
  • 00:45:30
    like uh what happened he say
  • 00:45:33
    are we calling each other babe just now
  • 00:45:36
    when we walk in yeah like yeah babe yeah
  • 00:45:39
    so what he's like so
  • 00:45:42
    you in relationship with me right I'm
  • 00:45:44
    like no no I said the same thing then he
  • 00:45:49
    say why but we are hanging out like a
  • 00:45:52
    boyfriend girlfriend you should know
  • 00:45:53
    that we're together hang on I say no I
  • 00:45:56
    say for me we are hang out which means I
  • 00:45:59
    hang out with you to know you as a
  • 00:46:01
    person you hang out with me to know me
  • 00:46:03
    as a person
  • 00:46:04
    we're not boyfriend girlfriend yet that
  • 00:46:06
    he says when am I become your boyfriend
  • 00:46:09
    I say when you ask me you don't ask me
  • 00:46:11
    you just you just suddenly he surely
  • 00:46:13
    asked then and
  • 00:46:15
    you know the best one it's hippo his
  • 00:46:18
    friend say kiss me I need two seconds
  • 00:46:20
    with this lady then he take the lamb
  • 00:46:22
    like
  • 00:46:25
    me because he wants to make that small
  • 00:46:27
    romantic he take my faith then to me he
  • 00:46:32
    say
  • 00:46:33
    one last time I just want to remind you
  • 00:46:35
    if your eye crossing any guy here one
  • 00:46:38
    more second
  • 00:46:40
    I will face the name a chain to be a
  • 00:46:42
    different color so would you like to be
  • 00:46:44
    my girlfriend
  • 00:46:54
    but you know the thing of my um my
  • 00:46:58
    boyfriend is he normally very talkative
  • 00:47:00
    and very fun but when he's serious he's
  • 00:47:02
    very serious you can see like you should
  • 00:47:04
    don't laugh I burst to laugh because I
  • 00:47:06
    was like oh you're so cute but he keep
  • 00:47:08
    look I made straight with the face up he
  • 00:47:10
    said I'm being serious I'm serious right
  • 00:47:12
    now you better not look at any guy you
  • 00:47:14
    know I will break your leg that's how I
  • 00:47:15
    feel I like okay I will look at any guy
  • 00:47:18
    anymore I said no no that's not my
  • 00:47:20
    question my question is would you like
  • 00:47:22
    to be my girlfriend that like uh he
  • 00:47:25
    don't like give me chance to think okay
  • 00:47:26
    upside it time to think
  • 00:47:30
    he like he's straight and keep look and
  • 00:47:34
    keep look and wait I'll give you small
  • 00:47:35
    candles yeah he pulled the candle at
  • 00:47:39
    least not even a proper candle you know
  • 00:47:41
    the life yes
  • 00:48:00
    oh you are behaving differently so he
  • 00:48:03
    was wondering why so he asked you why
  • 00:48:06
    you behave like this I thought we were
  • 00:48:09
    together yeah but like like he never
  • 00:48:11
    asked of course I was like I'm sure the
  • 00:48:13
    other girls like his experience like I
  • 00:48:14
    know it's automatically become a
  • 00:48:16
    girlfriend because I hold your hand it's
  • 00:48:18
    just a hand yeah okay so so that is the
  • 00:48:22
    story of he was so into my eyes until I
  • 00:48:24
    say uh yeah sure I say lovely hello my
  • 00:48:28
    girlfriend and then he kissed me and
  • 00:48:29
    then like okay let's order a guy
  • 00:48:31
    what was happening and at the whole
  • 00:48:35
    night trust me of course I don't have to
  • 00:48:37
    look anyone anymore but it just so waste
  • 00:48:39
    like it's just so many handsome guys
  • 00:48:42
    that's why it had to happen there
  • 00:48:43
    because universe is like are you sure
  • 00:48:46
    it is but you're not like he was so
  • 00:48:49
    shocked that he can see like
  • 00:49:00
    I look at this guy
  • 00:49:04
    attention is true you know
  • 00:49:08
    like a whole bunch of mushrooms you only
  • 00:49:11
    see one mushroom maybe yeah the most
  • 00:49:14
    boring mushrooms
  • 00:49:18
    because I I but you know why my logic at
  • 00:49:21
    that moment that's how I think right
  • 00:49:22
    because I have I understand I don't I
  • 00:49:24
    don't have an expectation for guys this
  • 00:49:27
    is another lesson for all the women out
  • 00:49:29
    there please don't just because you're
  • 00:49:31
    holding hands yeah your kids you call
  • 00:49:33
    someone babe yeah sleeping together even
  • 00:49:35
    your boom boom together doesn't matter
  • 00:49:37
    together because it's very simple think
  • 00:49:40
    about it from business point of view
  • 00:49:41
    okay if I am already getting whatever I
  • 00:49:44
    want without having to make it official
  • 00:49:46
    buy should I make it official
  • 00:50:05
    come here
  • 00:50:08
    you come here but you know his character
  • 00:50:11
    right that's what he doing
  • 00:50:15
    you call me okay what's the problem now
  • 00:50:17
    you know okay come I ask you I can get
  • 00:50:19
    down my knee no problem I will also take
  • 00:50:21
    the candles if there's a flower there he
  • 00:50:23
    will take the flower
  • 00:50:26
    you can you know the love but because he
  • 00:50:29
    will like Kiss Me guys
  • 00:50:31
    that's a more ridiculous part because I
  • 00:50:34
    like I know it's what are you doing
  • 00:50:37
    okay yeah they don't care really they
  • 00:50:40
    don't care they turn they do they think
  • 00:50:41
    but like he
  • 00:50:52
    oh celebration
  • 00:50:54
    Joey my brother
  • 00:50:57
    oops everybody know his name
  • 00:51:01
    it's okay no one day soon brother
  • 00:51:06
    is that your both same style that's why
  • 00:51:08
    you're so excited it's really good it's
  • 00:51:11
    like it's like if it needs to be get
  • 00:51:12
    done then yeah so what is the problem
  • 00:51:14
    what is stopping you that's God that's
  • 00:51:16
    why I'm saying impatient guy because you
  • 00:51:18
    see one upside how they and now the
  • 00:51:21
    Fireside they just go straight it's only
  • 00:51:23
    because
  • 00:51:24
    I'm quite
  • 00:51:26
    trading the guys who can't ask yeah me
  • 00:51:28
    too yeah
  • 00:51:29
    I think the guy to ask me
  • 00:51:33
    I am walking yeah so you're asking soon
  • 00:51:38
    come every candle for you
  • 00:51:45
    the boy she like so near to the
  • 00:51:47
    boyfriend and she was like hey
  • 00:51:49
    I want to marry you you know I want to
  • 00:51:52
    marry you
  • 00:51:57
    that's how the boy said no I don't want
  • 00:51:59
    everyone no like they run away
  • 00:52:02
    foreign
  • 00:52:26
    she will learn that this is too
  • 00:52:28
    aggressive and it will turn people away
  • 00:52:30
    so after that she was slowly uh it's
  • 00:52:33
    like a it's like a balance she will
  • 00:52:35
    calibrate until The Sweet Spot okay and
  • 00:52:37
    then after that she will go to the next
  • 00:52:39
    level she will calibrate according to
  • 00:52:40
    the person good okay so it's only
  • 00:52:42
    training yeah maybe now is the first
  • 00:52:44
    lesson the first lesson called impatient
  • 00:52:47
    let's try my impatient way yeah let's
  • 00:52:49
    continue my natural way yeah so that's
  • 00:52:52
    how the story that I got a boyfriend
  • 00:52:53
    yeah and that's how the boy the story
  • 00:52:55
    that she have a husband the flirting but
  • 00:52:58
    I think you already can see that's
  • 00:53:00
    flirting is
  • 00:53:03
    no money is capturing mine is in the
  • 00:53:05
    capturing stage it's capturing a wild
  • 00:53:08
    animal
  • 00:53:10
    wow very slow and more because we don't
  • 00:53:13
    have much time so I will book it a
  • 00:53:15
    little bit of my way of flirting no you
  • 00:53:17
    cannot you should take as much time as
  • 00:53:19
    you need come on it's okay because for
  • 00:53:22
    me flooding is something that I have to
  • 00:53:25
    do every day
  • 00:53:27
    I don't have to do it just for a sake of
  • 00:53:30
    someone I like because I'm single right
  • 00:53:32
    so I'm not flirting with everyone but
  • 00:53:35
    I'm open market
  • 00:53:37
    does that make sense okay so I'm used to
  • 00:53:39
    me by the way if not you will kill me
  • 00:53:42
    later you have to be open yeah you used
  • 00:53:44
    to be open currently close currently
  • 00:53:46
    renovation upgrade
  • 00:53:51
    so one thing about me is when I go out
  • 00:53:53
    and I know I will go out tonight I
  • 00:53:55
    always treat my salad I might want to
  • 00:53:57
    pick someone like me tonight if I'm a
  • 00:54:00
    man to go home to be my date to be my
  • 00:54:03
    girlfriend or to be my partner so so I
  • 00:54:06
    I'm very cautious about how I'm dressing
  • 00:54:09
    up to go out with my girlfriend or or go
  • 00:54:11
    somewhere public because I need to give
  • 00:54:13
    a guy a
  • 00:54:15
    a chance to like know me right so that's
  • 00:54:18
    we both always joke like yeah my
  • 00:54:21
    boyfriend always joke I say we don't
  • 00:54:23
    walk out with x-ray the the joke that we
  • 00:54:25
    watch on online the guy say guy don't
  • 00:54:27
    walk out with x-ray we don't know your
  • 00:54:28
    personality yeah the whole point of me
  • 00:54:30
    come ask your phone number is just you
  • 00:54:32
    just damn hot that's it nothing else
  • 00:54:34
    like you look good yeah so
  • 00:54:37
    the key of flirting first is you have to
  • 00:54:40
    feel like you look in mirror and even
  • 00:54:42
    you yourself feel like wow she
  • 00:54:43
    attractive oh wow he looked attractive
  • 00:54:45
    and this is something that you have to
  • 00:54:48
    try and arrow until you figure out what
  • 00:54:50
    type of clothes is your style how short
  • 00:54:53
    how long was that and this one will talk
  • 00:54:55
    about the opposite uh the episode early
  • 00:54:57
    on about how to dress up you guys should
  • 00:54:59
    go back and watch that if you need to
  • 00:55:01
    and then you have your own character and
  • 00:55:04
    carry yourself so I still remember like
  • 00:55:06
    uh
  • 00:55:07
    this is what he told me okay you guys
  • 00:55:10
    can confirm with him next time if you
  • 00:55:12
    happen come here
  • 00:55:14
    so I will ask him what made you come to
  • 00:55:17
    ask me for number because when he
  • 00:55:19
    entered the restaurant his face he
  • 00:55:21
    looked like he somebody owing ten
  • 00:55:23
    thousand dollars I don't know I say this
  • 00:55:25
    the channel get blocked but basically
  • 00:55:27
    his face because he's Arab right and so
  • 00:55:30
    he really look like he carry balls the
  • 00:55:32
    whole restaurant that's a serious I'm
  • 00:55:34
    not joking but it's not true he will bet
  • 00:55:37
    that he have a bad day he have a very
  • 00:55:39
    bad day he told me after I know him he
  • 00:55:41
    wasn't I said well on that day you're so
  • 00:55:43
    horrible your face look horrible you
  • 00:55:45
    look like you want to kill everyone he
  • 00:55:46
    said he's right he's a lot he's the the
  • 00:55:49
    worst day ever in his career for many
  • 00:55:51
    years of working for this company this
  • 00:55:53
    is the first time he feel like she's
  • 00:55:55
    [ __ ] right so I'm just happened to meet
  • 00:55:58
    him in his now
  • 00:56:00
    he's just not happy until he walked past
  • 00:56:03
    me how that the guy got across the sexy
  • 00:56:06
    girl he walked across me he sit next to
  • 00:56:09
    me he not even want to face me that's
  • 00:56:11
    how bad his mood is like I'm not have
  • 00:56:13
    time for you today good and and he
  • 00:56:15
    really admit he said first few seconds I
  • 00:56:17
    don't want to because I know you look at
  • 00:56:20
    me so I don't want to look at you so I
  • 00:56:22
    want to move here
  • 00:56:23
    but by move here he saw my battle and my
  • 00:56:26
    tattoo have a word very meaningful in
  • 00:56:28
    Arabic I like different you know like
  • 00:56:32
    meaning word like here I have a Japanese
  • 00:56:34
    one and then I have Vietnamese one so I
  • 00:56:37
    I have different tattoo a different
  • 00:56:38
    language because I appreciate different
  • 00:56:40
    language Beauty
  • 00:56:42
    so he can read that and then I drink a
  • 00:56:46
    a Arabic drink so I don't drink a normal
  • 00:56:49
    drink like a normal girl and he was
  • 00:56:51
    shocking about that like wow she know
  • 00:56:53
    about Middle Eastern culture
  • 00:56:55
    surprisingly in the middle eastern
  • 00:56:57
    restaurant
  • 00:56:59
    and then he go and pick his friend and
  • 00:57:00
    somehow his friend goes straight into
  • 00:57:02
    his seat so he no choice you have a seat
  • 00:57:05
    in my face right like in front like
  • 00:57:07
    diagonally yeah with with our choice he
  • 00:57:10
    didn't choose because he just want to be
  • 00:57:12
    present with his friend so yeah they
  • 00:57:15
    have flirt with him yes I am here he's
  • 00:57:17
    my type
  • 00:57:18
    [Laughter]
  • 00:57:20
    how do I flirt so he knows sorry yeah
  • 00:57:24
    yeah unless I really do that no
  • 00:57:25
    eventually not do excuse me but
  • 00:57:29
    my dress was somehow bad luck on the day
  • 00:57:33
    it bursts oh bro another strap yeah the
  • 00:57:35
    strap this one like this oh it broke and
  • 00:57:37
    I were like holding like this and I
  • 00:57:39
    crossed my girlfriend to help me type
  • 00:57:41
    and when you cross and the table just
  • 00:57:44
    from here to here it's very near when
  • 00:57:46
    you see like that the guy can see your
  • 00:57:48
    butt okay
  • 00:57:49
    exactly just beside it
  • 00:57:52
    and
  • 00:57:53
    your book has been dropped so it's like
  • 00:57:56
    he sees something but not something not
  • 00:57:59
    not there yet but it's he saw I call it
  • 00:58:02
    and I'm just so I'm just not even Panic
  • 00:58:05
    I'm just so relaxed let my girlfriend
  • 00:58:07
    fix it I like okay I'll go restroom
  • 00:58:10
    but before I go restroom because the guy
  • 00:58:12
    because the waitress come and keep
  • 00:58:14
    flirting with me which is I'm not
  • 00:58:15
    interested I'm interested another guy
  • 00:58:17
    you know I'm definitely not you
  • 00:58:20
    and then we're talking like he give us
  • 00:58:22
    flower on the table and I was like oh
  • 00:58:24
    you make my single life feel so much
  • 00:58:26
    better tonight thank you I say that but
  • 00:58:29
    I don't look at the waitress I look as a
  • 00:58:31
    that's called flirting yeah because she
  • 00:58:33
    know that I am single I'm a singer
  • 00:58:36
    you know so again everything like she
  • 00:58:39
    said a trap you just have to be
  • 00:58:41
    preparing yourself to carry yourself
  • 00:58:42
    everywhere to let people know that
  • 00:58:44
    you're single
  • 00:58:45
    I go toilet I didn't expect he so he he
  • 00:58:49
    told me his story like he will go to
  • 00:58:51
    toilet because he wants to ask my phone
  • 00:58:53
    number but he forget his phone so I have
  • 00:58:55
    to go back again the table and then his
  • 00:58:57
    friend realized I said oh you go and ask
  • 00:58:59
    her phone number good go because he
  • 00:59:02
    won't forget the phone he go back take
  • 00:59:03
    the phone and he go and then I was
  • 00:59:06
    shocked because I saw him because I
  • 00:59:07
    didn't expect it
  • 00:59:09
    again he looked like he wanted to kill
  • 00:59:11
    everybody okay
  • 00:59:13
    and he was just so nice he said oh
  • 00:59:15
    you're here for traveling or you live
  • 00:59:17
    here I say no I'm leaving here okay
  • 00:59:18
    because he hear me speak different
  • 00:59:20
    language
  • 00:59:21
    I said oh nice to meet you I said can I
  • 00:59:23
    have your numbers uh send you I heard
  • 00:59:26
    you single I say oh yeah he heard it
  • 00:59:28
    good
  • 00:59:30
    you do not hear and because the voice
  • 00:59:32
    very loudly it's okay I think the whole
  • 00:59:34
    thing I think the whole restaurant now
  • 00:59:36
    I'm single anyway so yeah I'm single so
  • 00:59:39
    yeah I'll have phone number and we chat
  • 00:59:41
    after that and then I stand up my friend
  • 00:59:43
    he sent off his friend
  • 00:59:56
    and then uh
  • 00:59:58
    we meet up after that but I know I I
  • 01:00:01
    don't I I don't go back with him for the
  • 01:00:04
    first time it up because we're both
  • 01:00:06
    Tipsy and you know what will happen when
  • 01:00:08
    you tipsy you know and I'm glad I didn't
  • 01:00:10
    go back because I think if that will
  • 01:00:12
    happen we will be a different story
  • 01:00:15
    so yeah that's that's what flirting is
  • 01:00:17
    for me is
  • 01:00:19
    I always ready to give a guy Green Line
  • 01:00:21
    some signal and I always ready to be
  • 01:00:24
    rejected I'm already carrying myself and
  • 01:00:28
    love myself I'm confident enough to know
  • 01:00:30
    like even myself I want to bring myself
  • 01:00:32
    home you know which guy don't want to
  • 01:00:34
    bring myself home tonight which is
  • 01:00:35
    that's the already success so my point
  • 01:00:37
    is you carry your own confidence
  • 01:00:40
    again if you're not the guy type seal
  • 01:00:43
    not going to happen Okay uh I'm not even
  • 01:00:46
    my boyfriend type at all he just in the
  • 01:00:50
    night of
  • 01:00:51
    she have a red hair she have a hot body
  • 01:00:54
    she have a cool tattoo and I want to
  • 01:00:57
    effort that's it that's his honest rule
  • 01:01:00
    which is I agree with him because I saw
  • 01:01:03
    all his ex-girlfriend photo I'm not even
  • 01:01:06
    close near there you know I got it
  • 01:01:09
    [Laughter]
  • 01:01:11
    that happens very gorgeous yeah so the
  • 01:01:14
    but the end of the story I'm trying to
  • 01:01:16
    say but I have my own success based on
  • 01:01:19
    my own
  • 01:01:20
    best I can carry on myself is that means
  • 01:01:23
    next time because if you compare me with
  • 01:01:24
    Miss Universe of course I can't you know
  • 01:01:26
    I cannot beat her but if you can carry
  • 01:01:29
    me or now 31 with me 18 years old or is
  • 01:01:33
    the gap is very far so that that's what
  • 01:01:35
    I'm saying about you are the best
  • 01:01:36
    version of myself right now right now
  • 01:01:38
    that I don't know 20 years more down the
  • 01:01:41
    road are very different but yeah that's
  • 01:01:43
    the the bottom line of story because
  • 01:01:45
    that's the near and shorter story I can
  • 01:01:47
    share with you guys about flirting but
  • 01:01:49
    for me if you like someone and if you
  • 01:01:52
    are a girl okay guy maybe you you should
  • 01:01:54
    maybe you do like my boyfriend just go
  • 01:01:56
    to the face remove book The Candle hair
  • 01:01:58
    you want to be my girlfriend if she
  • 01:01:59
    rejects more than the next girl I'm sure
  • 01:02:01
    you'll somehow will get one okay because
  • 01:02:03
    it's work he do this and they work okay
  • 01:02:06
    he's an old scientists prepare some ice
  • 01:02:07
    cream this morning
  • 01:02:11
    laughs
  • 01:02:15
    you know it's sometimes people tell me
  • 01:02:17
    why I believe on that so much right but
  • 01:02:19
    I tell them I like it's just so obvious
  • 01:02:20
    I don't know somehow you don't believe
  • 01:02:22
    in that it's just so obvious you can say
  • 01:02:24
    Eastside how they behave it's just so
  • 01:02:27
    clear
  • 01:02:29
    okay it's so clear because when he do
  • 01:02:31
    that
  • 01:02:32
    do you ask me do I like it or not I'm
  • 01:02:35
    the person that likes stable it's make
  • 01:02:38
    me sour oh do you do this for everyone
  • 01:02:40
    but I think the it's got resourceful
  • 01:02:43
    the series of the person set the tone
  • 01:02:46
    for you when they serious it's have to
  • 01:02:48
    come from the eyes contact and the end
  • 01:02:50
    the energy you have to feel it so I I
  • 01:02:52
    can feel like okay he's not joking
  • 01:02:54
    anymore you better make a decision right
  • 01:02:56
    now you know like luckily you've been
  • 01:03:00
    trained for a while yeah I haven't been
  • 01:03:02
    trained for for because if you ask me me
  • 01:03:06
    10 years ago and the guy said that to me
  • 01:03:07
    I will flip the flavor I said go freak
  • 01:03:10
    out I have a freak out like what the
  • 01:03:12
    hell wrong would you do you just know me
  • 01:03:14
    for five days you don't even know what
  • 01:03:16
    color I like how can you answer the
  • 01:03:19
    girlfriend like that you need to go much
  • 01:03:21
    you know now I'm like okay just be
  • 01:03:23
    boyfriend girlfriend first and then
  • 01:03:25
    we'll figure it out later again you know
  • 01:03:26
    something else because boyfriend
  • 01:03:28
    girlfriend it's just the title we're not
  • 01:03:30
    going to die but I
  • 01:03:32
    again flirting is but don't flirt when
  • 01:03:35
    you already have boyfriend girlfriend I
  • 01:03:37
    told you
  • 01:03:39
    at that moment I'm not yet I say what
  • 01:03:41
    because the moment she said yes she is
  • 01:03:43
    yeah I'm closer I close my eyes so the
  • 01:03:45
    mushrooms running around I know oh my
  • 01:03:47
    God tell me about that remember my
  • 01:03:50
    birthday
  • 01:03:51
    I have to turn my back
  • 01:03:53
    she sat with her back to them oh my god
  • 01:03:57
    of disaster normally I would change my
  • 01:03:59
    seat to Denise yeah so the knees come
  • 01:04:01
    here I need to sit there yeah I'm like
  • 01:04:03
    oh yeah I know what you know one last
  • 01:04:06
    night
  • 01:04:07
    how do I flood with my hand
  • 01:04:13
    s
  • 01:04:14
    hello bro
  • 01:04:16
    [Laughter]
  • 01:04:17
    what did he say about floods with hand
  • 01:04:20
    I show you next time maybe break your
  • 01:04:23
    fingers
  • 01:04:25
    break the whole face no cannot he's a
  • 01:04:28
    he's a very big size guy
  • 01:04:30
    I think this is my cousin remember
  • 01:04:32
    correct if I get the if I get the stuff
  • 01:04:34
    because then again
  • 01:04:36
    the same cousin that never won the book
  • 01:04:39
    avatar on his name
  • 01:04:42
    I will break your D okay your hand is
  • 01:04:45
    nothing your face you also don't book
  • 01:04:47
    that
  • 01:04:49
    okay that's it for today he's a young
  • 01:04:51
    boy oh that's all young boys do anyway
  • 01:04:53
    that's it for today guys I hope
  • 01:04:57
    that small tip from Denise and me will
  • 01:04:59
    help you to improve your flirting skill
  • 01:05:02
    especially run away from all this young
  • 01:05:05
    boy never leave flirting skill with long
  • 01:05:07
    hair
  • 01:05:08
    foreign
  • 01:05:16
    [Music]
  • 01:05:24
    bye
Tags
  • flirtim
  • marrëdhënie
  • taktika romantike
  • komedi
  • këshilla për takime
  • besimi vetjak
  • historitë personale
  • ndërveprimet njerëzore
  • strategjia e dashurisë
  • kapja e zemrës