Why your clothes impact your Confidence

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Résumé

TLDRIn this video, Drew discusses the concept of 'dressing for the job you want, not the job you have,' highlighting how clothing choices can impact self-esteem and confidence. He emphasizes that what we wear sends signals to ourselves and others, and that dressing for the job we aspire to can help shift our mindset. Drew also explores the idea of timelessness in fashion, arguing that it's less about specific garments and more about the ideals they represent. He encourages viewers to embody timeless concepts like justice and freedom through their clothing. The video also promotes mental well-being through audiobooks and invites viewers to engage with the content by suggesting future topics.

A retenir

  • 👔 Dressing for the job you want boosts confidence.
  • 💡 Self-esteem is linked to clothing choices.
  • 🕰️ Timelessness in fashion is about enduring ideas.
  • 👖 Denim is a timeless fabric that evolves.
  • ✊ Ideas like justice and freedom are timeless concepts.
  • 📚 Audiobooks can enhance mental well-being.
  • 🗣️ Engage with content by suggesting topics.
  • 🌟 What you wear influences how others perceive you.
  • 💪 Confidence can be enhanced by looking good.
  • 🌈 Authenticity in content creation is important.

Chronologie

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The video discusses the concept of 'dressing for the job you want, not the job you have,' emphasizing how clothing choices can influence self-esteem and confidence. The speaker, Drew, shares personal experiences of feeling empowered by his attire and suggests that what we wear sends signals to ourselves and others. This idea is linked to taking initiative in pursuing one's goals and aspirations, highlighting that clothing can be a tangible action towards a desired life.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:29

    Drew explores the notion of timelessness in fashion, arguing that it is less about specific garments and more about the ideas they represent. He uses denim as an example, illustrating how its meaning has evolved over time while still embodying enduring concepts like rebellion and freedom. The video concludes with Drew encouraging viewers to share their thoughts and suggestions for future content, emphasizing the importance of authenticity in creating videos that resonate with the audience.

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Vidéo Q&R

  • What does 'dress for the job you want' mean?

    It means to wear clothing that reflects the position or lifestyle you aspire to, which can boost your confidence and mindset.

  • How can clothing affect self-esteem?

    Wearing clothes that you feel good in can enhance your self-esteem and confidence.

  • What is timelessness in fashion?

    Timelessness refers to styles or ideas that endure over time, rather than specific clothing items.

  • Can dressing well change my career prospects?

    While it won't guarantee success, dressing well can positively influence how others perceive you and boost your confidence.

  • What are some timeless clothing items?

    Examples include denim jeans, blazers, and classic shoes.

  • How does the speaker suggest we achieve timelessness in fashion?

    By embodying timeless ideas such as justice, peace, and freedom through our clothing choices.

  • What is the importance of mental health in relation to fashion?

    Maintaining mental health is crucial, and engaging with uplifting content like audiobooks can support this.

  • What should I do if I want to see more content from the speaker?

    Leave comments suggesting specific topics or questions you want the speaker to address in future videos.

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    have you ever been told dress for the
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    job you want not the job you have I was
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    recently listening to the book steal
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    like an artist by Austin Cleon and this
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    idea popped up at first I didn't give
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    this statement a second thought but as
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    time went on I couldn't shake this idea
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    out of my head dress for the job you
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    want not the job you have what exactly
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    does that mean and how can changing your
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    attire change the outcome of your
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    current career Endeavor in today's video
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    we're going to attempt to answer that
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    exact question and in the process of
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    searching for that answer also examine
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    what it means to become Timeless for
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    those of you who don't know me my name
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    is Drew what ad do is nice to meet you
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    let's talk about the power of clothing
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    the idea of dressing for the job you
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    want and not the job you have is a
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    simple idea rooted in self-esteem
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    self-esteem is defined as confidence in
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    one's own worth and abilities and what
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    you believe about the clothes you wear
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    is directly related to your personal
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    self-esteem and confidence as an
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    individual we've all experienced that
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    boost in self-esteem when we're wearing
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    items of clothing that we believe to be
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    good or we believe that we look good in
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    for me I personally feel the most
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    confident after I get a haircut and when
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    I'm wearing an outfit that I think just
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    looks fly to me like if I have two of
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    those things going on at the same time I
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    feel like my super powers are on 10 what
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    you wear and what you believe about what
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    you wear sends signals to the people
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    around you and sends signals to your
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    subconscious mind we believe what we
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    tell ourselves and in the case of
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    fashion the idea behind dressing for the
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    job you want is all about taking
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    initiative on the life that you want to
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    live through one very specific
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    controllable decision that decision is
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    what we decide to wear now of course
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    just because you decide to wear a suit
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    and tie or an evening gown it does not
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    mean that tomorrow you'll end up being
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    the next president of whatever country
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    that you're living in right now dressing
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    for the job you want is all about taking
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    tangible action to begin to change your
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    mentality about what you are striving
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    for and there are endless things that we
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    all are constantly striving for whether
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    that be getting a particular job living
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    in a particular City or being associated
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    with a particular group of people to
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    believe in oneself and to wear clothing
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    that exemplifies that belief is powerful
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    now before we move on a big inspiration
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    for this video is wanting to talk about
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    well-being and self-worth and one of the
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    best ways to positively impact your
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    personal well-being is by listening to
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    your favorite audiobooks and podcasts on
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    Audible maintaining your mental health
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    is just as important as maintaining your
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    physical health whether it's diving into
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    a new self-help title or just taking the
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    time to listen to a science fiction
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    title and as a member you're allowed the
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    ability to choose one title a month at
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    no additional cost from a wide selection
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    of best sellers and new releases visit
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    www.audible.com Drew J it'll also be
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    linked down in the description or text
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    Drew J to 500500 to get started with
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    Audible for free the idea of
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    timelessness in fashion is one of the
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    most interesting concepts for the
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    industry timelessness is defined as
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    having no beginning or end in
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    timelessness typically refers to that of
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    which is unending something or someone
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    that is ever enduring usually when I
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    think about timelessness and fashion I'm
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    thinking about the garments or the
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    styles that have stood the test of time
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    items like denim jeans oxfords Blazers
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    and heels these items just feel Timeless
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    to me but I don't think building a
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    Timeless wardrobe is something that is
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    actually achievable from a contemporary
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    fashion standpoint from a modern fashion
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    standpoint to become Timeless I think
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    it's less about owning particular pieces
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    and more so about the ideas your clothes
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    represent denim for example is a
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    Timeless fabric because it has shape
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    shifted in use case from generation to
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    generation from being worn and being
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    used as the quintessential garment for
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    gold miners in the 1800s fast forwarding
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    to the 50s when denim was a
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    representative of rebellion and a
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    rebellious youth movement that was
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    taking place to now where there are so
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    many use cases for denim that have so
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    many different variations it's a pure
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    example of that shape shifting taking
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    place and it's a good example of how the
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    ideas that we hold about particular
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    garments is what makes them Timeless
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    more so than the actual fabric material
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    or specific type of piece that's being
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    made at any given time denim is a really
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    good example because denim while it is
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    timeless especially denim jeans
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    dungarees they have changed
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    significantly over time they have moved
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    with the times right they aren't the
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    same as they were back in the 1800s or
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    the early 19th century or excuse me the
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    early 20th century and that's important
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    for timelessness as well I think in
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    fashion the definition that we hold for
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    timelessness doesn't really hold up for
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    the fashion industry because clothes
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    change over time no matter how authentic
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    a garment is from the 1600s it just
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    won't look the same in 2024 there's
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    going to be some variable changes which
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    is the opposite of timelessness but the
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    ideas that represent the clothing those
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    are the things that maintain over the
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    years over the generation when you
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    embody these ideals the clothes you wear
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    become literally wrapped up in the
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    manifestation of the ideas that you
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    represent that's why something like
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    black Ivy or Punk Styles have such an
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    irrefutably Timeless feel and look to
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    them in layman's terms in order to
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    become Timeless within the context of
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    fashion you have to embody Timeless
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    ideas ideas such as justice peace
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    freedom these are ideas that I feel like
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    no matter what stage of humanity may
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    look back on these ideas will resonate
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    with human beings of the past and of the
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    future and that is in of itself more in
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    line with timelessness than a specific
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    piece a pair of shoes or a uh particular
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    jacket those things are fleeting but the
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    ideas behind those things and what
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    clothing represents as an ideal those
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    things are truly
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    Timeless let me know what you guys think
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    of this video was it something that kind
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    of got the wheels turning a little bit
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    or was it just like Drew what what was
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    this video regardless I enjoyed making
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    it and hopefully someone out there also
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    kind of is trying to get what I'm
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    explaining I don't know this is
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    different this is different for me I
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    tried something new so honestly this
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    video is kind of like a brain fart of
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    ideas and I just let my thoughts come to
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    the Forefront and I think it's important
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    to do that as a as a Creator as someone
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    who makes videos on YouTube not every
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    video is going to be this like super
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    polished perfect like concise idea
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    sometimes it's important to just get
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    ideas out there and see if they resonate
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    with anyone and that's exactly what
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    today's video
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    was as always I'm spreading peace love
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    and positivity in 2024 so that means I'm
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    spreading peace love and positivity to
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    you and more wherever you are in the
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    world have a wonderful rest of your day
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    abanto peace what is good post vidd
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    here's a fist bump for the one time B
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    thank you so much for staying to the end
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    of the video you know we got to get two
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    fist bumps in come on if you didn't do
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    the first fist bump do the second one
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    okay here we go B thank you camera there
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    we go thank you so much for staying to
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    the end of the video this is a different
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    kind of video like I told you guys I've
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    been really enjoying this I haven't even
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    finished reading this but I did
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    interview the author Jason jwes right
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    here um if you care about my podcast I
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    had him on the podcast and learned a
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    little bit more about black Ivy that
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    kind of thing um but yeah everything's
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    been everything's been good pvv actually
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    everything's been okay so the other day
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    I actually wasn't feeling too well threw
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    up which is never fun and I had some
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    like bad food that I I don't know
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    something like food poisoning or
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    something of the sort and I threw up and
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    that was just not a fun time uh it had
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    been a long time since I threw throwing
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    up usually like throwing up is just like
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    it's just gross luckily I was by the
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    toilet so it didn't make too much of a
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    mess sorry if this is TMI but it it's
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    true it happened so that was literally
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    last night the the the day before
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    literally 12 hours ago before recording
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    this video um but I knew that I wanted
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    to get this video out to you guys wanted
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    to get this done for you guys but it's
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    just been a busy early part of 2024 it's
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    been crazy um I have like
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    a lot of things that I want to create
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    for you guys but for the Post vid vid
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    question of the day I want to know # pbv
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    down in the comments when you answer I
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    want to know like what kind of videos
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    would you guys like to see for me moving
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    forward um for the year like is there a
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    specific topic is there a specific brand
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    is there a specific idea in and around
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    Fashion that you know you want to maybe
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    um have me discuss a little bit more or
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    if there's a specific question about a
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    particular garment that like how it fits
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    a review of something anything let me
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    know down in the comments if there's
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    anything like that that will be of
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    service or be of help to you I would
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    love to provide that for you guys and
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    just obviously like I want to create
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    content from a really authentic place
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    like things that I'm interested in but
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    also I understand that like it's
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    important as someone who's creating
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    content in a way to help others to
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    actually serve the community if they
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    have questions if they have particular
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    things that they want to know about like
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    I'll do the research I'll make it
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    entertaining make the videos about it so
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    just let me know if anything like that
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    is like of interest to you other than
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    that guys um it's good everything's good
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    it's it's bright it's sunny and I cannot
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    complain about much so except for the
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    fact that I was throwing up but I'll be
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    okay I feel better now kind
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    of kinda all right guys enjoy the rest
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    of your week enjoy the rest of your day
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    we'll see you in the next video peace
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