00:00:59
What times cello tonight?
00:00:59
What times cello tonight?
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Six.
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Six.
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Oh god, you'll have to run him Paul
Pip has ballet at 5:30, I can't split myself in two.
00:01:01
Oh god, you'll have to run him Paul
Pip has ballet at 5:30, I can't split myself in two.
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Yeah okay, chill, that's fine.
00:01:05
Yeah okay, chill, that's fine.
00:01:06
It sounds so weird
when old people say "chill".
00:01:06
It sounds so weird
when old people say "chill".
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Charming.
00:01:09
Charming.
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What time is the 'help' arriving?
00:01:10
What time is the 'help' arriving?
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Joanne is arriving at -
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Joanne is arriving at -
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Yeah, it's time to go grab your bags please.
00:01:14
Yeah, it's time to go grab your bags please.
00:01:17
Oh god she's early. Paul can you
go to the door and take Libby with you?
00:01:17
Oh god she's early. Paul can you
go to the door and take Libby with you?
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I'm leaving now I'm already late.
00:01:21
I'm leaving now I'm already late.
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Oh hi. I was just about to knock, I'm Joanne.
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Oh hi. I was just about to knock, I'm Joanne.
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Yes - Suzanne,
she'll be down in a minute -
00:01:24
Yes - Suzanne,
she'll be down in a minute -
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Thanks for helping us out,
we have quite low expectations.
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Thanks for helping us out,
we have quite low expectations.
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We just wanted her to be a
little bit more confident in time for school.
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We just wanted her to be a
little bit more confident in time for school.
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Right.
00:01:36
Right.
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Anyway
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Anyway
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She has a hearing
aid, but she won't wear it.
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She has a hearing
aid, but she won't wear it.
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And I'm assuming there's no history of deafness on yours or your husband's side?
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And I'm assuming there's no history of deafness on yours or your husband's side?
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No we only found out
she was deaf when she was 3 and a half -
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No we only found out
she was deaf when she was 3 and a half -
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Which probably makes
me a bloody awful mother but -
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Which probably makes
me a bloody awful mother but -
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Because she had a bit of
hearing in her left ear that was overcompensating -
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Because she had a bit of
hearing in her left ear that was overcompensating -
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Apparently that's common?
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Apparently that's common?
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You're not an
awful mother it's very common -
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You're not an
awful mother it's very common -
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And you said she didn't
qualify for a cochlear implant?
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And you said she didn't
qualify for a cochlear implant?
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No, which was a real blow.
00:02:04
No, which was a real blow.
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And what's her communication like
does she know any sign language or -
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And what's her communication like
does she know any sign language or -
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[car horn]
Is it just lip reading?
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[car horn]
Is it just lip reading?
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Just lip reading.
00:02:09
Just lip reading.
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And her speech?
00:02:10
And her speech?
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Not good.
00:02:11
Not good.
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Well I'll probably start with a
combination of speech and -
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Well I'll probably start with a
combination of speech and -
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Sign language
just to see where she's at -
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Sign language
just to see where she's at -
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A lot of children respond really
well to sign, because it's less frustrating.
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A lot of children respond really
well to sign, because it's less frustrating.
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I can't see that being the case,
Libby follows what we're saying really well.
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I can't see that being the case,
Libby follows what we're saying really well.
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Right, well I'm
sure she'll be fine then.
00:02:24
Right, well I'm
sure she'll be fine then.
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[car horn]
00:02:26
[car horn]
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Stop you idiot.
I'm on the phone.
00:02:27
Stop you idiot.
I'm on the phone.
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Okay, so make yourself
at home, sit down if you like -
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Okay, so make yourself
at home, sit down if you like -
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Libby there's
someone here to see you -
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Libby there's
someone here to see you -
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Libby can I have
the remote please?
00:02:36
Libby can I have
the remote please?
00:02:38
Libby!
00:02:38
Libby!
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[Libby screams]
Libby can I have the remote?
00:02:40
[Libby screams]
Libby can I have the remote?
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She's usually happy
when she's watching TV -
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She's usually happy
when she's watching TV -
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She can be very difficult,
we don't even know what's wrong with her.
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She can be very difficult,
we don't even know what's wrong with her.
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Is there any
pattern to that happening?
00:02:51
Is there any
pattern to that happening?
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Oh no, you know
what they're like at this age -
00:02:53
Oh no, you know
what they're like at this age -
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My other two were the same.
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My other two were the same.
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Mum, my exam
starts in 25 minutes.
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Mum, my exam
starts in 25 minutes.
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Yes I'm coming -
00:02:58
Yes I'm coming -
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Seb's got his G.C.S.E's
and he got A*'s in his mocks -
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Seb's got his G.C.S.E's
and he got A*'s in his mocks -
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So I better not make him late -
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So I better not make him late -
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You've got my mobile number,
I'll be back in a few hours to see how you got on -
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You've got my mobile number,
I'll be back in a few hours to see how you got on -
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You'll be brilliant -
00:03:07
You'll be brilliant -
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Bye Libby darling.
00:03:08
Bye Libby darling.
00:03:46
Can I play?
00:03:46
Can I play?
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Let me show you
something, you'll like it.
00:03:49
Let me show you
something, you'll like it.
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Your mums here.
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Your mums here.
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How's it been?
00:04:12
How's it been?
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Yeah good.
00:04:13
Yeah good.
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I told you she
was quiet
00:04:14
I told you she
was quiet
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Does she ever interact?
00:04:16
Does she ever interact?
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Yeah she follows what we're
saying really well -
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Yeah she follows what we're
saying really well -
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Trust me when Libby's
unhappy you'll know about it.
00:04:21
Trust me when Libby's
unhappy you'll know about it.
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I think I'll just try her
with some more interactive stuff -
00:04:24
I think I'll just try her
with some more interactive stuff -
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I've got quite a few books that
I think would be useful, there's actually a . . .
00:04:27
I've got quite a few books that
I think would be useful, there's actually a . . .
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Hello?
00:04:28
Hello?
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I've literally just walked in,
can I call you back in 5 minutes -
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I've literally just walked in,
can I call you back in 5 minutes -
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I'm really sorry.
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I'm really sorry.
00:04:40
Sorry, that was
Paul's mum she's a bloody nuisance.
00:04:40
Sorry, that was
Paul's mum she's a bloody nuisance.
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Oh it's fine, I'll just bring
some stuff to try her with tomorrow -
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Oh it's fine, I'll just bring
some stuff to try her with tomorrow -
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Does she like the park?
00:04:47
Does she like the park?
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Well I haven't taken her since
she was tiny but I'm sure she'd love it -
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Well I haven't taken her since
she was tiny but I'm sure she'd love it -
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It's only 5 minutes away.
00:04:52
It's only 5 minutes away.
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Yeah I saw it, great.
00:04:53
Yeah I saw it, great.
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Thanks Joanne.
00:04:55
Thanks Joanne.
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Okay bye.
00:04:56
Okay bye.
00:05:50
Are you moving in?
00:05:50
Are you moving in?
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They're for Libby.
00:05:52
They're for Libby.
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She's inside with Sue,
she's in a good mood -
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She's inside with Sue,
she's in a good mood -
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Libby I mean.
Sue's never in a good mood.
00:05:55
Libby I mean.
Sue's never in a good mood.
00:05:59
- Hey!
- Oh hey.
00:05:59
- Hey!
- Oh hey.
00:06:09
Hey Libby,
oh sorry the door was open . . .
00:06:09
Hey Libby,
oh sorry the door was open . . .
00:06:12
Looks like you're
going to have a busy day -
00:06:12
Looks like you're
going to have a busy day -
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I'm so sorry I've
got to shoot off again -
00:06:14
I'm so sorry I've
got to shoot off again -
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I've got to take
Paul's mum to the hospital.
00:06:15
I've got to take
Paul's mum to the hospital.
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Oh no worries.
00:06:17
Oh no worries.
00:06:18
Bye Libs, you be good.
00:06:18
Bye Libs, you be good.
00:06:19
See you later.
00:06:19
See you later.
00:06:21
Bye.
00:06:21
Bye.
00:06:52
What's that?
00:06:52
What's that?
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Milk.
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Milk.
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Orange Juice.
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Orange Juice.
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So what's that?
00:07:01
So what's that?
00:07:08
Want to go to the
park and feed the ducks?
00:07:08
Want to go to the
park and feed the ducks?
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You know ducks -
00:07:12
You know ducks -
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Ducks.
00:07:15
Ducks.
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Let's pack a bag,
where is your bag?
00:07:22
Let's pack a bag,
where is your bag?
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Orange.
00:07:26
Orange.
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You want orange juice?
00:07:34
You want orange juice?
00:07:41
Let's get you
some orange juice then.
00:07:41
Let's get you
some orange juice then.
00:09:02
Finished, I'm full.
00:09:02
Finished, I'm full.
00:09:04
You're Full?
00:09:04
You're Full?
00:09:05
You won't want any sweets then?
00:09:05
You won't want any sweets then?
00:09:07
What sweets?
00:09:07
What sweets?
00:09:13
That's my favourite.
00:09:13
That's my favourite.
00:09:14
Your favourite?
00:09:14
Your favourite?
00:09:18
Mine too.
00:09:18
Mine too.
00:09:35
I just wondered how she'll
get on with the sign language at school?
00:09:35
I just wondered how she'll
get on with the sign language at school?
00:09:40
How'd you mean?
00:09:40
How'd you mean?
00:09:41
Well I'm not sure that many people know it?
00:09:41
Well I'm not sure that many people know it?
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Well she'd need to have
an interpreter sat with her and extra support -
00:09:45
Well she'd need to have
an interpreter sat with her and extra support -
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and well I'm not trying to talk myself
into a job but I'd be more than happy to help.
00:09:48
and well I'm not trying to talk myself
into a job but I'd be more than happy to help.
00:09:52
Right okay -
00:09:52
Right okay -
00:09:54
I'm just wondering if we should focus more
on the lip-reading, rather than the sign language?
00:09:54
I'm just wondering if we should focus more
on the lip-reading, rather than the sign language?
00:09:59
Well as it stands at the moment
Libby's going to struggle with speech -
00:09:59
Well as it stands at the moment
Libby's going to struggle with speech -
00:10:02
So a combination of sign language
and lip-reading will have the best results.
00:10:02
So a combination of sign language
and lip-reading will have the best results.
00:10:06
Look I know it can feel a bit alien
but the basics are actually really easy to learn -
00:10:06
Look I know it can feel a bit alien
but the basics are actually really easy to learn -
00:10:10
Might be a nice thing to do as a family.
00:10:10
Might be a nice thing to do as a family.
00:10:11
I'm just not sure how doable that is at the moment -
00:10:11
I'm just not sure how doable that is at the moment -
00:10:14
Pip has ballet and Seb rehearses with the
Midland choir three times a week -
00:10:14
Pip has ballet and Seb rehearses with the
Midland choir three times a week -
00:10:18
But we'll chat about it tomorrow, I'll talk to Paul.
00:10:18
But we'll chat about it tomorrow, I'll talk to Paul.
00:10:21
Okay great -
00:10:21
Okay great -
00:10:23
Right.
00:10:23
Right.
00:10:31
Thanks Sue.
00:10:31
Thanks Sue.
00:10:34
I want her to speak, Paul.
00:10:34
I want her to speak, Paul.
00:10:38
[Argument]
00:10:38
[Argument]
00:10:55
- Seb can you pass me the jam please
- Oh Sue, don't forget that letter will you?
00:10:55
- Seb can you pass me the jam please
- Oh Sue, don't forget that letter will you?
00:10:59
Did you ever find your leather jacket?
00:10:59
Did you ever find your leather jacket?
00:11:01
Yes it was in the office.
00:11:01
Yes it was in the office.
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Orange.
00:11:03
Orange.
00:11:05
She's signing.
00:11:05
She's signing.
00:11:08
She's probably hungry -
Can you pass me that butter, Seb?
00:11:08
She's probably hungry -
Can you pass me that butter, Seb?
00:11:11
I think it means
orange juice, Jo taught me some stuff.
00:11:11
I think it means
orange juice, Jo taught me some stuff.
00:11:16
Thank you.
00:11:16
Thank you.
00:11:17
- That's cool
- Yeah Jo's doing a good job.
00:11:17
- That's cool
- Yeah Jo's doing a good job.
00:11:19
You know, however many hairstyles
you try, she's not going to go out with you.
00:11:19
You know, however many hairstyles
you try, she's not going to go out with you.
00:11:24
Oh, talk of the devil.
00:11:24
Oh, talk of the devil.
00:11:25
Quick, someone give him some hair wax.
- Shut up.
00:11:25
Quick, someone give him some hair wax.
- Shut up.
00:11:27
- Morning.
- Morning Jo.
00:11:27
- Morning.
- Morning Jo.
00:11:29
Hello, hello.
00:11:29
Hello, hello.
00:11:31
Jo, what do you think of Seb's hair?
00:11:31
Jo, what do you think of Seb's hair?
00:11:34
Yeah, it's cool.
00:11:34
Yeah, it's cool.
00:11:42
Treasure.
00:11:42
Treasure.
00:11:44
What is it Libs? What's she saying, television?
00:11:44
What is it Libs? What's she saying, television?
00:11:46
No, I think she wants to
look for treasure so, I'll sort that out.
00:11:46
No, I think she wants to
look for treasure so, I'll sort that out.
00:11:49
You want treasure?
00:11:49
You want treasure?
00:11:54
Thank you. Right so I'm on the bloody
hospital run again with Paul's mum today -
00:11:54
Thank you. Right so I'm on the bloody
hospital run again with Paul's mum today -
00:11:59
I think I mentioned last night, I'm gonna be a bit late again tonight, more like six?
00:11:59
I think I mentioned last night, I'm gonna be a bit late again tonight, more like six?
00:12:03
Yeah that's fine -
We'll have lots of fun.
00:12:03
Yeah that's fine -
We'll have lots of fun.
00:12:05
Fun, you, me.
00:12:05
Fun, you, me.
00:12:07
Bye, Libby.
00:12:07
Bye, Libby.
00:12:18
What are you drawing?
00:12:18
What are you drawing?
00:12:21
You, me, holiday.
00:12:21
You, me, holiday.
00:12:24
Holiday? Wow, I could do with a holiday.
00:12:24
Holiday? Wow, I could do with a holiday.
00:12:29
Is that me?
00:12:29
Is that me?
00:12:41
Back again, sorry, can never leave.
00:12:41
Back again, sorry, can never leave.
00:12:44
Forgot my bloody purse.
00:12:44
Forgot my bloody purse.
00:13:09
Hi, I'm Joanne - I look after Libby.
00:13:09
Hi, I'm Joanne - I look after Libby.
00:13:12
Oh hello darling, is she being good for you?
00:13:12
Oh hello darling, is she being good for you?
00:13:14
Libby? Yeah she's great, she's so bright.
00:13:14
Libby? Yeah she's great, she's so bright.
00:13:17
Is she?
00:13:17
Is she?
00:13:18
Do you think she'll be able to get a job one day?
00:13:18
Do you think she'll be able to get a job one day?
00:13:21
Yeah I think she'll be able to
have a career in whatever she likes.
00:13:21
Yeah I think she'll be able to
have a career in whatever she likes.
00:13:24
Oh God bless her.
00:13:24
Oh God bless her.
00:13:26
Her grandad was deaf you know, from birth.
00:13:26
Her grandad was deaf you know, from birth.
00:13:30
He had a job as a cleaner.
00:13:30
He had a job as a cleaner.
00:13:33
I knew him.
00:13:33
I knew him.
00:13:34
Really Libby's grandad?
00:13:34
Really Libby's grandad?
00:13:37
Sorry do you mean Paul's dad or Sue's dad?
00:13:37
Sorry do you mean Paul's dad or Sue's dad?
00:13:41
Neither darling.
00:13:41
Neither darling.
00:13:43
She's not Paul's, you know.
00:13:43
She's not Paul's, you know.
00:13:46
I told him he should have left,
But he never listens to his mother.
00:13:46
I told him he should have left,
But he never listens to his mother.
00:13:51
Right, well it was really nice to meet you.
00:13:51
Right, well it was really nice to meet you.
00:13:53
You too dear.
00:13:53
You too dear.
00:14:02
Alright then?
00:14:02
Alright then?
00:14:03
Yep, I couldn't find it but I've got my card.
00:14:03
Yep, I couldn't find it but I've got my card.
00:14:24
Found you.
00:14:24
Found you.
00:14:25
Easy.
00:14:25
Easy.
00:14:26
Oh it was easy, that's why.
00:14:26
Oh it was easy, that's why.
00:14:29
I thinking.
00:14:29
I thinking.
00:14:31
Thinking? About what?
00:14:31
Thinking? About what?
00:14:34
My ears are broken.
00:14:34
My ears are broken.
00:14:44
I know that she's progressing, but I'm worried -
00:14:44
I know that she's progressing, but I'm worried -
00:14:48
She's learning this language that
I don't know and no one in her school will know.
00:14:48
She's learning this language that
I don't know and no one in her school will know.
00:14:52
When you have a child you want them
to be normal you want them to be perfect.
00:14:52
When you have a child you want them
to be normal you want them to be perfect.
00:14:56
She is normal Sue. She's just deaf.
00:14:56
She is normal Sue. She's just deaf.
00:14:58
Look, I know it's your area of expertise,
but you must understand, I'm Libby's mother -
00:14:58
Look, I know it's your area of expertise,
but you must understand, I'm Libby's mother -
00:15:03
and I know what's best for her.
00:15:03
and I know what's best for her.
00:15:05
No, of course you know best -
00:15:05
No, of course you know best -
00:15:07
It's just the schools don't always understand deafness and you have to fight for the support, but it is out there.
00:15:07
It's just the schools don't always understand deafness and you have to fight for the support, but it is out there.
00:15:13
I know what I'm doing Jo, you must
understand I've been a mother for a very long time -
00:15:13
I know what I'm doing Jo, you must
understand I've been a mother for a very long time -
00:15:18
I do appreciate your concern.
Paul and I will arrange to go in and see the head.
00:15:18
I do appreciate your concern.
Paul and I will arrange to go in and see the head.
00:15:22
I mean, do you think we'd send her to school without making sure everything was in place first?
00:15:22
I mean, do you think we'd send her to school without making sure everything was in place first?
00:16:06
[Phone ringing]
00:16:06
[Phone ringing]
00:16:15
Hello.
00:16:15
Hello.
00:16:16
- Hello Joanne, you okay?
00:16:16
- Hello Joanne, you okay?
00:16:18
Yeah I'm fine, I'm on the bike, everything okay?
00:16:18
Yeah I'm fine, I'm on the bike, everything okay?
00:16:20
- Just, erm.
00:16:20
- Just, erm.
00:16:23
Sorry this is a difficult thing to say, but -
00:16:23
Sorry this is a difficult thing to say, but -
00:16:26
Paul and I have been talking and we
think it's best if Libby stops the sign language.
00:16:26
Paul and I have been talking and we
think it's best if Libby stops the sign language.
00:16:30
- What? Why?
00:16:30
- What? Why?
00:16:31
We think that speech therapy Is a better route to take.
00:16:31
We think that speech therapy Is a better route to take.
00:16:35
- I'm really sorry, Jo.
- I don't understand she was doing so well -
00:16:35
- I'm really sorry, Jo.
- I don't understand she was doing so well -
00:16:38
- I know.
For school it's really important that she carries on with
00:16:38
- I know.
For school it's really important that she carries on with
00:16:41
sign language and gets extra support.
00:16:41
sign language and gets extra support.
00:16:43
- Look, we've talked a lot about
this Jo and we've actually been in to see the head -
00:16:43
- Look, we've talked a lot about
this Jo and we've actually been in to see the head -
00:16:46
and they had a little deaf boy a few
years ago and he was absolutely fine -
00:16:46
and they had a little deaf boy a few
years ago and he was absolutely fine -
00:16:49
they know what they're doing.
00:16:49
they know what they're doing.
00:16:51
I'm nearly here now, can I explain
it to her, because she'll wonder where I am.
00:16:51
I'm nearly here now, can I explain
it to her, because she'll wonder where I am.
00:17:23
Okay class, open your books -
00:17:23
Okay class, open your books -
00:17:25
Write the date at the top
and we'll start the spelling test.
00:17:25
Write the date at the top
and we'll start the spelling test.
00:17:29
Number one, 'there'.
00:17:29
Number one, 'there'.
00:17:33
Number two, 'hear'.
00:17:33
Number two, 'hear'.
00:18:18
I love you.
00:18:18
I love you.
00:18:24
I love you.
00:18:24
I love you.