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uh it's really good to be here and I
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want to First acknowledge these students
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because this is not easy when you're a
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student it's not even easy when you're a
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professional so can we give these guys a
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hand thank you I'm here to talk to you
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about two things that you would think
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just do not together those two things
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are emotional intelligence and the laws
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of
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attraction uh I was talking to Dr Thomas
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the other day when I came for the
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rehearsal and he said well doc emotional
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intelligence isn't that uh being aware
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and having clarity about your feelings
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and the feelings of other people when
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you're in the midst of a set of
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circumstances or a situation with them
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and I say yeah that is definitely a
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definition for that and a very accurate
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definition for that but the truth about
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emotional intelligence goes far beyond
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having just clarity about
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people it's clarity about
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situations circumstances why are you
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there when you stop and think about I'm
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in this
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situation I'm in the midst of something
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now what is that something and more than
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likely that something is a set of
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circumstances or a a dilemma you may
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even encountered that you attracted into
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your life and that's where the laws of
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attraction come to meet emotional
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intelligence like attracts like these
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things that you expect come to you what
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we believe is that if we say some
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affirmations if we take a moment and
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visualize something do a vision board or
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something of that nature that's what's
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going to happen but not true as a matter
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of fact if I say right now do not think
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of a chimpanzee wearing a red tie and a
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blue and white penstripe suit whatever
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you do do not picture this chimpanzee
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wearing this red bow tie and this blue
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pinstriped suit what do you keep
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thinking of the very thing that I told
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you don't think about because that is
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where you are putting your
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emotion that energy plus motion and the
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more emotion you pour into anything the
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more of that thing you receive in other
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words you can say one thing and do
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another and as we well know many of us
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typically say all the right things but
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do we do them if you don't believe me go
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to somebody's house and look at all the
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dusty workout equipment look at all the
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diets that they tried go to a gym and
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look at the people that signed up that
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are no longer coming because what we
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have done is we've taken the laws of
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attraction and misapplied them we don't
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take Serious the things that we feel we
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deserve enough in order for them to
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manifest into our lives and how do you
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stop that real
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simple monitor what you feel what you
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constantly think about that is exactly
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what you get if you keep
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thinking I'm I'm my luck is never I
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everybody gets it but me I'll never have
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that I'll never live in that house you
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know that's for them whoever them or
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those people are when you constantly
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think
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about how much bills are what do you end
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up with more pink slips more bills when
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you constantly think about I don't want
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to gain any more weight or I don't I
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need to lose uh you know lose some of
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these bad habits that I have I want to
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stop smoking I'm not going to smoke what
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do you do the minute the pressure hits
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you go get a cigarette and you smoke
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again you get frustrated and you eat
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again and as you continue to do these
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things your thoughts and your feelings
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equal the manifestations that you get in
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your
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life here's the million dooll solution
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to
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that first monitor what you think
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about your mind and and you know there's
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a lot of uh theories around this concept
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but I'm going to tell you this
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everything that is seen comes from that
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which was not seen that chair you're
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sitting in the clothes you have on right
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now with somebody's I did one time
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somebody figured I don't know a long
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time ago guys should wear a tie you know
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we figured somehow that you know going
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on horses wasn't enough maybe if I can
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build this contraption I could fly like
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a bird everything that we do started out
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in the Unseen and someone call those
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things that are not as though they are
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and brought them into manifestation but
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here's the catch for you and the
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solution you must understand that
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conscious thinking is not your solution
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conscious thinking is typically reacting
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to some set of
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circumstances it's typically paying
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attention to that which is before you
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that subconscious thinking you will
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associate that with stuff like have you
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ever driven home from work and you don't
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even remember driving home because
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something was just on your mind or you
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automatically get in the car and you
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just check for something without even
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paying attention to what you're doing
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your subconscious mind is the part of
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you that drives the outcomes in your
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life as you learn to master being uh
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sensitive to circumstances paying
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particular attention to the nucal things
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as we call it the little things if you
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stop worrying about what happened in the
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past and feeling guilty or being anxious
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about what may or may not happen in the
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future and operate in right now you will
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train your subconscious mind to begin
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manifesting the things that you truly
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desire and a short way of putting this
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is everything in your life happens for a
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reason your responsibility is to look at
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these things in your life and ask this
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question why
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now why is this person getting on my
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last nerve well they're probably getting
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on your nerves because there's some part
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of your character that is being
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reflected back to you through them that
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you need to work on we get frustrated
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and angered and almost just
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discombobulated by that which we do not
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understand you have to be willing to
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take the time
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in every moment every situation in your
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life and examine it for its meaning you
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have to examine it for its purpose you
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have to examine it to see what is this
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supposed to teach me right now in my
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practice something that I constantly
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tell people that I'm either speaking to
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in lectures like this or even in my
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office is to stop being so reactive and
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become proactive don't don't wait to
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talk truly listen don't just see things
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look at them you know when you hear
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something you're perceiving it at the
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expense of all the white noise of the
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debris that surrounds it when you look
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at something you are deliberately
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ignoring things that otherwise could
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distract you it takes effort to be
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successful but the greatest effort is
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mastering how do you use your mind as we
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evolve
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and I'm not getting into some religious
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stuff so there will be no offering you
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don't have to panic but we came from
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somewhere we received of a greater
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source and conceived when our parents
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decided to confirm that but my belief is
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before we get here we made a decision
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why we were coming and we came to
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experience the contrast and the
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challenge that everyday life presents to
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us see your
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creator which you are a co-participant
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in that
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creation is smarter than you think as a
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matter of fact you can figure out
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exactly what everything means in your
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life by asking one question one word why
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and it's okay you know even in dating
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ladies it's good to look at a guy and
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say well why are you here what is it
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that you are supposed to teach me and
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not thinking he will probably tell you
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the truth the same thing is true about
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the things that you're trying to court
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in your day-to-day life in your career
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ask yourself why am I doing this what is
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motivating me to do this why do I feel
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the way that I feel about what I'm doing
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and you know you do not have to wait for
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an answer you can get an answer if you
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shut everything down get in a quiet
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space and simply meditate and I don't
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mean Lotus position going um what I do
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mean is taking the time to be quiet to
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be still to allow your circumstances to
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speak to you in such a way that it
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resonates at the core you remember I
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said emotion it's kind of like that guer
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counter when you you're looking around
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for a metal object and the further away
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you get the further away the church get
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but the closer you get the closer those
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chirps get and the way that you can
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parallel that to your spirit speaking to
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you is the better you feel about it the
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more you should do it and if it doesn't
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make sense to anyone but you all the
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better accept the facts but never ever
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confuse the facts with the truth seek
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the greater truth you know anything that
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anyone has ever done that has required
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more caused that individual to confront
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themselves they confronted their fears
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they confronted other people they
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confronted culture and had to make a
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decision that you know what you said I
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can't the system says I can't but
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something inside me says what I can and
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when you seek the greater truth you get
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into direct alignment for that very
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moment that very reason that purpose
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that causes your emotional intelligence
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and the laws of attraction to become one
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as they become one you will find this
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sense of passion resonating causing and
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stirring up something inside of you as
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that passion is stirred up your purpose
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then beg just comes forth you know
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there's this thing if you ever watch a
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football game you don't see the guy sit
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there and wait on the ball to come and
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you don't see the quarterback throw it
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after the gu's downfield right when
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snaps the ball and that receiver takes
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off that ball is in the air sometimes
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you have to run on faith you have to run
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not seeing the outcome but just knowing
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that there will be the result that you
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desire and as you feel as you believe
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you will receive because after all that
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which you seek ladies and
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gentlemen that which you desire that
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which you long for is equally seeking
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you have a great
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day
