Why Women can't find “GOOD MEN” in Modern Dating | What do Modern Women look for in a Partner

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6Mv35CquoI

Ringkasan

TLDRDeze video verkent het moderne datinglandschap waarin veel vrouwen de voorkeur geven aan rijke bedriegers boven financieel beperkte, maar loyale partners. Dit fenomeen wordt beïnvloed door sociale media en de nadruk op materieel welzijn als maatstaf voor succes en geluk. Voorbeelden van vrouwen die zich aangetrokken voelen tot financieel kapitaalkrachtige mannen, ondanks hun ontrouw en emotionele afstand, worden besproken. Bovendien wordt gezien dat deze keuzes vaak leiden tot teleurstellingen en pijn, waarbij de echte waarde van relaties - emotionele verbinding en oprechte liefde - wordt verwaarloosd.

Takeaways

  • 💰 Rijke bedriegers zijn populairder dan trouwe, arme mannen.
  • 📱 Sociale media beïnvloeden sterk de partnerkeuzes van vrouwen.
  • 💔 Veel vrouwen ervaren teleurstellingen door ontrouw.
  • 🔍 Emotionele verbinding is essentieel in relaties.
  • 👑 Materieel welzijn wordt vaak hoger gewaardeerd dan echte liefde.

Garis waktu

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    In de eerste sectie wordt besproken hoe vrouwen vaak de voorkeur geven aan rijke bedriegers boven trouw en financieel beperkte mannen. Dit fenomeen wordt beïnvloed door een levensstijl die via sociale media wordt gepromoot, waar vrouwen het idee hebben dat ze geluk en welzijn niet kunnen bereiken zonder materiële rijkdom. De verteller deelt een verhaal over een vrouw die gratis drankjes en VIP-tickets ontving van een barman, Steve, en hoe ze zich helemaal niet om hem gaf, maar hem gebruikte voor zijn gunsten. Toen Steve op het laatste moment besloot de tickets aan andere meisjes te geven, ontdekte de vrouw dat haar manipulatie niet werkte. Dit geeft aan hoe kortzichtige datingpraktijken vaak leiden tot onaangename verrassingen.

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    In het vervolg wordt benadrukt dat vrouwen vaak de fout maken om zich te richten op mannen met status of sociale media-volgers, zonder daadwerkelijk om de persoon te geven. Een vrouw die zich aangetrokken voelt tot een bodybuilder, negeert de rode vlaggen en komt er uiteindelijk achter dat hij haar bedrogen heeft. De verteller legt de nadruk op het feit dat de selectiecriteria voor veel vrouwen voornamelijk gebaseerd zijn op materieel welzijn, wat hun kansen op het vinden van een goede partner belemmert. De conclusie is dat de meeste vrouwen tegenwoordig veel waarde hechten aan financiële stabiliteit boven oprechte verbindingen, wat leidt tot ranglijstgedrag in relaties.

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Video Tanya Jawab

  • Waarom kiezen vrouwen vaak voor rijke bedriegers?

    Veel vrouwen zijn beïnvloed door sociale media die het idee verspreiden dat financieel succes gelijk staat aan geluk.

  • Wat zijn de gevolgen van kiezen voor een rijke bedrieger?

    Dit kan leiden tot ontrouw en emotionele schade, aangezien de basis van de relatie vaak niet gezond is.

  • Wat blijkt uit de verhalen over de vrouwen en hun keuzes?

    De verhalen tonen een patroon van het verwaarlozen van emotionele verbindingen in ruil voor materieel gewin.

  • Waarom zijn er zoveel teleurstellingen in moderne relaties?

    De nadruk op sociale status en rijkdom in plaats van echte connecties en waarden leidt tot teleurstellingen.

  • Wat zijn belangrijke kenmerken waar vrouwen op moeten letten bij het kiezen van een partner?

    Naast financiële stabiliteit zijn kenmerken zoals trouw, vriendelijkheid en gevoel voor humor essentieel.

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    you'd rather be cheated on and he just
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    gives you money
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    honestly yes all I need in life is
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    clothes
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    a year and a half broke faithful guy or
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    a rich cheater Rich cheater if there's a
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    certain lifestyle that you want
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    then why are you dating a broke man Rich
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    cheater easily yeah there's a lot of
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    working on like infidelity all men
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    I'm just I'm sick and fed up broke
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    faithful guy or a rich cheater
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    yes I receive your love but I'd love to
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    be school with maybe a female gift maybe
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    a few more gifts
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    so even though many women complain about
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    men cheating not treating them right and
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    of course the classic being emotionally
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    unavailable but when actually given the
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    choice many women will still choose the
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    rich cheater over the emotionally
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    available great guy sometimes it takes
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    to be treated as a queen now obviously
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    this comes from social media selling
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    them on the idea that you need a million
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    dollar lifestyle just to be happy which
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    is surrounded with more toxic dating
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    advice and constant manipulation just
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    like this girl right here okay so
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    basically this guy was a bartender at my
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    favorite bar let's call him Steve he was
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    friends with all my mutual friends and I
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    don't know he would always ask me on
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    dates and everything every time I would
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    come in but again he was the bartender
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    at my favorite bar and I was gonna get
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    those free Lemon Drop shots so whatever
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    all right so already we're off to a
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    great start because this girl obviously
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    doesn't seem to be interested in this
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    dude called Steve but she likes to use
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    him to get free drinks and gives him the
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    idea that she's interested just to keep
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    his attention and to keep getting those
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    free shots now at this point Steve
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    should just call it off and stop giving
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    her free drinks however he decides to up
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    the ante and give her even more free
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    stuff so the next weekend he texts me
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    and he said hey I have two free VIP
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    tickets if you want to come with me to a
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    concert and bring your roommate Alyssa
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    and I was like okay I'm coming so we're
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    excited we're getting ready and listen
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    and I were like oh my God we're going to
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    a VIP concert and Steve's gonna give us
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    free vodka sodas for today so now Steve
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    is getting her and her friend free VIP
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    tickets to a concert after which he's
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    probably gonna give them even more free
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    drinks so clearly Steve is being an
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    idiot and they are simply using him
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    however here comes the giant curveball
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    that makes me regain some level of
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    respect for Steve and causes this
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    manipulation tactic to backfire on her
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    then the Night Comes and it's crickets
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    from Steve we don't know he's dead or
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    alive he's not texting us so we're like
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    this morning he met us he invited us
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    this morning what could have changed we
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    looked up the venue that the concert was
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    at and we went to the bar next door and
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    just sat at the bar and drank angrily
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    drank vodka sodas that we had to pay for
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    you know so we were getting mad so hold
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    up they were getting upset because they
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    had to pay for their own drinks yeah no
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    entitlement there right where's the ball
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    skill attitude when the bill comes by
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    the way drop a like on the video if
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    you're also done with his entitlement
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    nightmare that we seem to be living in
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    and comment down below what you think
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    but it actually gets much better so
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    guess who comes waddling in two hours
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    later as if nothing happened Steve Steve
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    comes waddling in with two other girls
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    that we have never seen before in our
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    life so he decided to give our two VIP
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    tickets to two other random girls
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    without even letting us know so
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    obviously Steve didn't like the look of
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    the defense and simply called an audible
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    last minute good for you Steve but
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    what's funny about the situation is that
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    in her mind these tickets were actually
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    hers she was somehow oh these VIP
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    tickets even though she only got these
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    tickets by manipulating a guy into
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    thinking he has a shot with her but
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    somehow Steve is the bad guy here but
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    hey you know what they say play stupid
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    games Win stupid prizes and this girl is
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    clearly a winner now moving on to the
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    next classic example of the decline of
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    society and why women can fight a
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    quote-unquote good man I was just
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    getting started on Instagram he had 11
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    000 followers at the time and I was like
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    whoa like this guy is this guy's legit
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    whoa whoa guys legit yep if you want to
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    know how legit a dude is just check out
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    his insta and if it's over 10K he's
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    definitely going to be a great husband
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    and father my God man this generation is
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    so broken it's actually not funny
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    anymore I mean we all know that this is
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    the crazy way in which some women are
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    selecting their dates and partners but
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    to actually hear it set out loud and so
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    confidently is somehow even crazier and
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    keep in mind she actually said this
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    about a guy that she did not even like I
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    was with somebody that I did not really
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    like I
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    for the wrong reasons and he was just a
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    total bodybuilding bro and I think I
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    already knew deep down that he wasn't
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    good for me which means the only reason
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    she wanted to date him and fell in love
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    with him was because of his insta Fame
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    which is crazy so at this point we know
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    that this guy was a bodybuilding chat
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    with 11k followers on Instagram and that
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    she didn't like him as a person but
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    still agreed to date him so how did that
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    go I'm not gonna say his name because I
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    don't even want to give him the time of
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    day because this guy actually ended up
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    single-handedly ruining and destroying
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    some friendships that I had with some of
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    my closest guy friends that's fine like
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    I was cheated on by somebody who already
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    gave me so many red flags what do you
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    know the guy that she didn't like from
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    the start and decided to date anyways
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    turned out to be a complete disaster and
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    now she's making a video about how she
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    got cheated on and how he treated her
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    badly which is of course going to be
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    added to a long list of videos claiming
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    that all men suck and asking where are
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    all the good men what where are all the
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    single men between the ages of 35 and 45
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    who are also seeking a relationship
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    where y'all hanging home anyways moving
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    on because the next example might just
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    be my favorite since it's a classic
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    example of how men and women differ in
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    the selection process you see where
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    women tend to be very picky and only
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    want to date a-level guys most men on
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    the other hand really don't care that
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    much just as long as the girl passes a
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    minimum level of attractiveness even if
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    the guy is a level himself so this means
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    that most a-level dudes will simply hook
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    up with multiple average women and
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    collect them as if they're stalking a
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    pantry and that is exactly what this
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    Rich dude did to her and he actually had
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    two other girlfriends two other entire
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    lives I was the third so they were their
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    first and that is just the two she knows
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    about because this dude could have
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    easily had many more women in addition
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    to sleeping around when he travels so
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    now we have to back up a bit to
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    understand exactly what went wrong here
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    and how she could have seen all of this
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    coming but chose to ignore it all
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    because the dude was loaded I just have
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    a boyfriend who owned a lot of property
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    across like Surrey Hampshire in London
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    some of them were rented out some were
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    airbnbs and some of them were just empty
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    properties you see not only did this
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    dude own multiple properties in the UK
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    he actually owned them in London and
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    Surrey which are both very expensive
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    places to own property and so here comes
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    the first major clue that maybe he
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    already had at least one other
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    girlfriend and under
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    hot bottle so I took them to him and I
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    was like who the freak are these big
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    things and why are they in your house
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    she said well um I'm actually gonna sell
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    this house and I thought it looked like
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    a bit of a last pad so I just wanted to
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    make it a bit more feminine so I
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    borrowed some stuff with my mum to put
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    out for viewings maybe I'm dumb but that
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    is the most believable lie anyone has
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    ever told me right now that lie actually
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    made zero sense since if the goal is
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    actually to make the plays more girly
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    then why would you hide girly stuff
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    under the bed where no one can see it
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    wouldn't you change the decoration or
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    maybe hire an interior designer to make
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    the place more girly if that's truly
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    your intention because hiding stuff
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    under the bed where no one can see it
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    does nothing for the look of the
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    apartment but hey maybe that's just me
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    right so who did the pink things belong
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    to long story sure it actually turned
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    out that they did belong to another
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    woman and he actually had two other
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    girlfriends two other entire lives I was
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    the third so they were their first and
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    those two girls both lived in other
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    properties that he owned well what do
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    you know apparently the rich dude who
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    was handing out houses like they were
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    cookies was sleeping with several women
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    at the same time wow I am so shocked now
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    I don't want to be mean here but unless
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    you are actual Victoria's Secret
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    supermodel if the guy is giving you
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    houses or cars for free it usually means
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    he has a long list of women he's
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    sleeping with and you're just another
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    number and even if you are that
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    supermodel you could still just be
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    another number on his long list just on
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    a much richer guys list because most
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    normal and serious relationships do not
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    start out this way by giving people just
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    houses or cars to use for free I know
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    social media is trying to push this
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    narrative that it's perfectly fine and
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    normal behavior a true man a real man
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    they don't want to be asked they may I
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    hear that you have an appointment and
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    they may just offer you a credit card or
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    give you a wage recurringly but ladies
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    this is not normal now this little
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    disaster ties in perfectly with our
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    final Guru of the day which is this lady
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    right here with some truly excellent
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    advice for women and how to stay single
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    forever if you are a woman and you are
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    in a relationship with a man that has no
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    money and cannot provide for you Bali
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    and I mean everything you need such as
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    the house
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    money to live on and basically
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    everything you need to be provided for
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    as a woman
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    so basically you only date men that can
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    give you houses cars and some spending
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    money because you know why not right now
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    Not only was this exactly the problem of
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    the previous girl and clearly that did
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    not work out too well but if you listen
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    to what she is qualifying as fully
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    providing for you she's only listing one
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    thing which is money everything you need
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    to be provided for as a woman hair
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    makeup shopping then you are dating the
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    wrong man you should own me date a man
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    who can fully provide for you you see
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    not one mention of having chemistry or
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    being funny kind nice caring or faithful
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    nope none of that just money money money
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    money which just perfectly sums up the
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    problem with dating and social media
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    today and this is why when you go out
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    and ask this generation would you rather
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    have a rich cheater or a broke faithful
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    dude the majority simply says Rich
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    cheater and by the way broke in this
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    context isn't even a guy deep in debt
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    with no income it is basically making
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    anywhere between 40 and 60k a year and
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    spending your money wisely which is
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    apparently the new broke this was why
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    women can find Good Men Please drop a
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Tags
  • Dating
  • Relaties
  • Vrouwen
  • Rijke bedriegers
  • Financiële stabiliteit
  • Sociale media
  • Emotionele verbinding
  • Toxiciteit
  • Liefde
  • Keuzes