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what is a woman's number one sexual
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desire in this video I'm going to tell
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you a story which is a little bit
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uncomfortable but it will tie into
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explain what a woman's number one sexual
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desire is I got an email from a viewer
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who just started dating this woman and
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everything was going pretty good
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but one day when the girl was in the
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shower he decided he was going to check
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her phone and you know if you do that
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well don't be surprised if you see
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something that you don't like so this
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guy checks the girl's phone and he
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discovers a whole bunch of messages and
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photos on the phone from her exboyfriend
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and in these
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photos and videos and messages he
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discovers that this woman has done a lot
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of extreme sexual things with her
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previous partner she's literally done
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everything so he's thinking aha this is
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great because that means that I can do
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all this stuff with this girl because
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she told him when they first started
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dating that oh I would never do this and
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I would never do that and I'm really
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conservative and I just like gentle sex
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and I don't like anything too extreme
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but he discovers the real truth the real
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truth is that she has done all of this
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stuff before so he doesn't confront her
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he thinks you know this is great this is
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an opportunity for me to start to do
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things with this girl that I've always
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wanted to do myself so that night they
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go to bed and instead of just doing
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things things and introducing new things
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into the bedroom what does he do he says
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I want to do this he basically goes from
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zero to 100 I want to do this sexual act
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with
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you but there's no warmup he just says
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it and what does the woman do she says
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oh no no no no no that's too extreme I
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would never do that and he's thinking
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well hang on a minute you did that with
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your ex-boyfriend it doesn't make sense
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and so he asked her again he said look I
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really love to do this I've always
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wanted to do all of these sexual things
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can you do them with me and she said no
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way no way keep in mind she's already
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done this stuff with her
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exboyfriend and so then what does he do
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he goes into the living room he's angry
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she comes out and he confronts her and
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he says you know I went through your
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messages when you were in the
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shower and I know you've done all this
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stuff before why wouldn't you do it with
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me if of course she gets angry she says
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that he broke her trust because he went
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through her phone which is true and then
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as to be expected she pulls away from
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him she starts to back off she shuts
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down he doesn't get anything that night
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and the next day she leaves the
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apartment and that's it he doesn't hear
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from her for a few days and she's cold
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and withdrawn and he's thinking you know
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why would she do all this stuff with her
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ex but she won't do it with me this
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leads into a woman's number one sexual
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desire that is they want to do things
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with you and they will do all these
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extreme sexual things with you but they
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want to be absolved of all
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responsibility that means that you must
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take the lead you must be assertive and
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dominant and push to do all of these
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things so that she doesn't have any
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responsibility and she can then say
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later oh well I loved it that was
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amazing but it wasn't my fault it was
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you you wanted it you made me do it so
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anything that's taboo anything that she
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feels like she can't come out and say
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let's do this she wants you to do it and
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she'll love it if you push for it but
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she's never going to take responsibility
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for it she doesn't want to have
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responsibility for it women don't want
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responsibility when have you seen women
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want to take responsibility for
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anything this leads me on to another
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point if you're going to do something
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that is taboo if you're going to do
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something that's a little bit extreme
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sexually that she is going to love and
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she will actually
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crave because this will bond her to you
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even more the more extreme things you do
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with a woman sexually and intimately the
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more they will bondt you and the more
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they will attach to you but don't talk
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about it don't ask her to do it you have
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to go from 0 to 20 to 30 to 40 and lead
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up to those
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moments organically naturally don't say
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it don't say hey I want to try this I
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want to do
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that because if you do that she'll shut
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you down straight away because she's
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thinking with logic she's not thinking
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with her emotions you want to get a
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woman into an extreme emotional state of
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heightened arousal before you can take
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her to the next level and so you start
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off slow and then you just introduce new
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things into the bedroom but if you talk
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about it she's not going to do it
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because then she's automatically going
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to resist you and she doesn't want to be
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compliant in this decision she doesn't
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want to take responsibility for this
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decision she just wants it to happen oh
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it just happened
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you know it's your fault she's still
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going to love it now a woman's number
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one sexual desire is to be dominated and
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penetrated in every sexual way possible
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without taking responsibility for it so
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she feels clean and she feels as though
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it wasn't her fault this will make the
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woman feel even more submissive and
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feminine and that's what they love so if
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you want to know more about this I
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