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men over complicate talking to girls
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just because they're nervous it's so
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simple so I'm going to give you seven
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techniques that end up making talking to
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girls so easy that they will not be able
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to stop thinking about you starting with
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number one ask questions that always get
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a response you see women process
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meaningful information through the
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central route of their brain and simple
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information that's easy to forget
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through the peripheral route of the
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brain I'm going to show you how to
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stimulate the central route of her brain
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so she is more engaged and active in
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that conversation first start the
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conversation with a minute of small talk
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just to lighten the mood get to know her
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then you will want to casually bring up
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a world event that will spark your
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curiosity and will force a response for
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example you could say something like you
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see what happened between the Israel
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Palestine conflict everyone will have an
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opinion on that but more importantly it
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will assure that you're more mature and
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you're interested in the world but also
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will open the conversation in a natural
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and more engaging way then if she says
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yes you can can easily ask her for her
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opinion on the subject you could say
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stuff like what are your thoughts on it
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do you believe Israel is right this
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loaded question will result in an
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emotional response but also will tell
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you everything you need to know about
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her morals and see if they align with
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yours remember when you talk to a girl
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it's not a game of 20 Questions that's
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boring it's about igniting curiosity in
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her where she feels compelled or engaged
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to want to talk to you and now I just
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gave you those exact questions to ignite
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curiosity in her but that's not enough m
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not if you want to keep that
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conversation going for that you'll need
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these last six tips number two give her
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a compliment she's never received before
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when it comes to compliments every guy
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takes the route of just complimenting on
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her physical they say things like oh you
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have nice eyes you look so pretty this
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is wrong because the men that get the
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most women give women compliments
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they've never heard of so I'm going to
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show you how to find something unique to
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compliment her on first when you talk to
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a girl you need to avoid complimenting a
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girl on her looks entirely this method
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will make her wonder why you aren't this
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is going to make her want your attention
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even more but it also shows that you're
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different than other guys then I want
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you to complement something that's
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nonphysical about her for example
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building on the last tip that we just
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talked about asking her triggering
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question once she gives you her opinion
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you can then respond with wow you know
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what that's a really smart way to look
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at it by going Beyond her physical
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appearance you show her that you're not
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like every dude desperate to compliment
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her on her looks which will make her
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feel more comfortable and interested to
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open up to you in a meaningful way three
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make her talk more so you remain
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mysterious the most powerful method to
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keep a conversation going on with a girl
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is to make it all about her but keeping
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it about her can be difficult if she
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keeps asking you questions so here is a
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trick to revert the attention back to
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her which will make her feel appreciated
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and keep you mysterious first if she
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does throw a question your way you
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should answer it but do not unload your
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entire life story story keep it short
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and sweet and then you will steer that
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conversation right back to her for
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example if she asks you what do you do
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for work you could say oh I work for X
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but that's boring tell me about what you
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do and just like that by not giving her
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enough information you will increase
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your mysterious nature and decrease the
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chances of coming on too strong which
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according to science is something women
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find extremely attractive in men and
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then when she responds and tells you
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what she does you can steer her right
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into having her talk more about herself
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with phrases like that sounds fun do you
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enjoy it or do you think you'll work
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there longterm or will you switch
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careers at some point the key here is
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that you won't Dodge the question you
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will answer it keep it short and quickly
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revert it back to her four enhance your
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bio communicators to make her open up to
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you communication isn't just about what
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you say in fact most of it happens
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before you even open your mouth it is in
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your body language but it is also in
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your bio communicators like your scent
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by enhancing your scent you can create
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create an environment where women feel
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comfortable and this Comfort will lead
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her to being more engaged in a
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conversation making it easier for you to
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talk to her so here are three easy
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things you need to look for in your next
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fragrance first you got to consider your
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own genetics because Studies have found
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that women prefer a man with a different
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genetic code than themselves something
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women can pick up by smelling your major
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hiso compatibility complex this is a
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genome in your own natural scent in
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simple terms this doesn't mean you
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should change your genetic code but
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instead you should enhance your own
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natural scent very few fragrances
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operate this way but we've been working
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on a limited edition Santa Lucia
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fragrance for now over 8 months that's
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how hard this one's been to put together
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and it uses two specific compounds
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ambrox DL and ISO e super both of these
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Force the scent to change depending on
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your own Skin's pH level in other words
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this new fragrance that I'm creating for
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my brand Santa Lucia will smell
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completely different on every individual
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enhancing your own natural scent second
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you need a scent that aligns with her
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own personal interests for example
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research has shown that women that
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prefer a more Woody scent are interested
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in nature-based activities or the
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outdoors wood also makes women feel more
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relaxed and comfortable while women who
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prefer more Rose or flower based scents
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are typically more urban prefer the city
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life and high fashioned rose based sense
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also typically make women feel more
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connected and adventurous so find out
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what the girl you want is into she more
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outdoor based and she more City Life and
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your fragrance should have either a rose
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or a wood note and as a matter of fact
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this is one of the areas where we're
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stuck with this new fragrance that we're
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building for Sant Lua we're not sure if
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we should add a woody note or a rose
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note they both smell incredible so I
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need your help on this one I want you to
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comment down below what note would you
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prefer here would you want something
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more Woody that will make her
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comfortable or something more Rosy that
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has a feminine undertone but will help
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you connect with her comment down below
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the the one that has the most comments
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that's the note we're going to go with
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and the third thing is that you want a
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cologne that has the right bass notes
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the reason base notes are important is
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because they make the scent last longer
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but they also increase that sexual
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libido in women making them far more
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interested in talking to you in fact
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studies show that one of the most
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effective notes you can have in cologne
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to attract women are spicy and peppery
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notes and that's the exact reason why my
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new fragrance that I'm formulating this
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thing's going to be a Powerhouse for any
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man that wears it has both pink and
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black pepper you thought I was joking
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like 8 months of formulation and
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sampling but here's the coolest part
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there's only a thousand of these that
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have been made and will ever be made
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fully limited edition and every bottle
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will be stamped 1 out of a th000 300 out
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of a th000 which means only a thousand
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of you will get it this fragrance will
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drop February 24th at 10:00 a.m. eastern
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and if you want to be one of the first
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ones into the site we're going to do
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email newsletter down below and those
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anybody else so they can pick up a
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bottle and once these are sold out
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you'll never see them again five
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practice how you talk by interviewing
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yourself one of the reasons why men
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struggle talking to women is because
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they feel like they have nothing
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interesting to talk about and because of
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that that they feel insecure so here's
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how to fix both of those problems with
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the podcast solution First Look up the
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five most interesting questions someone
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can ask a podcast guest as a matter of
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fact I'll do the work for you here are
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the top five take a screenshot save it
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on your phone because the next time that
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you are alone you could be walking you
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could be in your room you could be
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driving to work I want you to ask
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yourself each of these questions almost
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as if a podcast host was asking them to
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you and outl loud respond with as much
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passion and enthusiasm as you can doing
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this over time you're going to improve
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your neural Connections in your brain
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making it easy to talk especially to
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girls so at this point you're asking
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emotional questions that will always get
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a response you're giving her unique
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compliments she's never heard of you're
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reverting Focus back to her keeping you
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mysterious you're enhancing your natural
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scent making her more comfortable around
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you and now you're practicing how to
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have a convers ation with the podcast
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method but to really be able to have
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amazing conversations You're missing two
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more things you need to learn how to
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listen and you need to make her laugh
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and that's what I'm going to show you
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next number six stop trying to be
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interested study show the average man
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only recalls 50% of what is said to them
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by a girl the reason for this is that
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most men are so focused on trying to
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look cool or appear interesting to her
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that you're not actually focused and
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being interested in her and that is what
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is destroying your conversation a so to
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show her that you're fully interested
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there are four things that you want to
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do physically first as soon as you start
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the conversation I want you to check
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your phone and then say sorry
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acknowledge you're being rude before you
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put it back away by doing this you're
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going to make her want your attention a
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little more but more importantly you're
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showing her you're about to give her
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your full attention then as she speaks I
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want you to nod your head up and down at
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least three times while she's talking to
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you a study that was conducted by hiado
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University showed that those who nod in
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the middle of a conversation are 30 %
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more likable and finally there's the key
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one whenever it's your turn to speak I
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want you to use the 3 second rule where
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when she's done talking I want you to
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stop think about what she said and then
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count up to 3 seconds in your head and
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then you engage this method will show
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that you are genuinely processing what
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she said and aren't just trying to jump
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to talk again but it will also show
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confidence and control in that situation
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number seven you will use subtext to
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make her laugh she humor is one of the
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most important things to make a woman
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attracted to you in the middle of a
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conversation as it will produce bonding
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hormones inside of her like endorphins
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and oxytocin so even if you're not funny
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I'm going to show you how to have humor
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using subtext subtext is just the art of
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saying one thing but implying something
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else for example let's say you're on a
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date she accidentally tips something
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over or or her phone drops right instead
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of just like a sip oh oh oh sorry sorry
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here you why don't you just sit back and
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start like smirk a little bit be like
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congratulations great job right
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obviously you don't actually think she
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did a great job you're using subtext
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right she messed up the subtext here is
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that you're making fun of the situation
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in a light-hearted way and not only will
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she laugh she'll feel more comfortable
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because it was an accident another
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example let's say you walk into the
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restaurant and it's empty most people
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would be like oh wow it's empty or oh
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wow this restaurant sucks instead say
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something like wow looks like they're
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fully booked or wow must be a five star
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right you're using subtext she'll giggle
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now it's a funny thing and you guys can
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sit down this way of speaking or
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thinking is unexpected will subvert her
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expectations will make her laugh
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increasing bonding hormones and making
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you more attractive in any conversation
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you use this with the other six tips
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you'll talk to any girl with ease
