Society's Unrealistic Beauty Standards Are Making Women Suffer

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概要

TLDRIn this video, Tony Brienne addresses the intense societal pressures on women to maintain their appearance and hygiene, highlighting the financial burdens women face to meet beauty standards. She notes that women typically spend over $1,000 annually on beauty products, with younger women starting around $400 for clothing. Comparatively, men often face less pressure and spend significantly less on grooming. Tony explores the concept of 'pretty privilege,' suggesting that attractive individuals receive better treatment and opportunities, a stark contrast to those deemed less attractive. She touches on the 'Hygiene Olympics,' a term for the extreme pressures women face to smell and look their best, often ingrained through societal expectations. Tony encourages women to prioritize self-acceptance and highlights the necessity of resources like Beducated to foster understanding of sexuality and self-worth.

収穫

  • 💄 Women face immense pressure to maintain a perfect appearance.
  • 💸 Highly spending on beauty products and treatments is common among women.
  • 👩‍🎨 Men experience less stringent beauty expectations than women.
  • 😰 'Pretty privilege' gives attractive people advantages in social situations.
  • 👃 Women's hygiene is often scrutinized more than men's.
  • 📚 Resources like Beducated can help educate on personal health and wellness.
  • 🔍 Societal beauty standards contribute to women's mental health issues.
  • 💪 Emphasizing self-acceptance is essential for combating societal pressures.
  • 🚺 Women should not be shamed for wanting to look their best.
  • 🌟 The concept of beauty often overshadows women's true capabilities.

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  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    In this introduction, Tony discusses the societal pressures women face regarding their appearance, including looking good and smelling good. She emphasizes the constant scrutiny on women due to advertisements for beauty products, skin care, and fashion trends. The positive message of appreciating oneself is highlighted, and the segment is sponsored by Beducated, a platform offering sex education resources to help young people understand their bodies and relationships better.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Tony reveals that American women spend a substantial amount on beauty, with averages estimated at $1,380 per year for makeup and treatments. She contrasts this with men's lesser societal pressures regarding appearance. Anecdotal evidence from a Washington Post writer showcases the difference in the number of beauty products used by women and men, painting a picture of societal expectations leading to a significant investment in personal appearance for women, driven by the fear of judgment.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:18:46

    The video delves into the concept of 'pretty privilege' and how attractive women often receive more positive treatment and opportunities compared to those deemed less attractive. Tony shares her personal experiences and the costs involved in her beauty regimen, highlighting the emotional and financial toll of meeting societal beauty standards. She emphasizes that while many women enjoy putting in the effort to look good, the pressure to conform to certain beauty norms often leads to stress and insecurity about their appearance.

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ビデオQ&A

  • What societal pressures do women face regarding beauty?

    Women face immense pressure to look good, including the expectation to use multiple beauty and skincare products, often resulting in high monthly expenditures.

  • How much do women typically spend on beauty products?

    On average, women spend about $115 per month on makeup and beauty treatments, and around $65 on skincare.

  • Is pretty privilege a real phenomenon?

    Yes, pretty privilege is real; attractive people are often perceived as more capable, leading to better opportunities.

  • Do men face similar beauty pressures as women?

    Men do face some beauty standards, but societal expectations are significantly less demanding compared to those placed on women.

  • What is the Hygiene Olympics?

    The Hygiene Olympics refers to the societal pressure on women to maintain impeccable hygiene and appearance, often linked to historical contexts.

  • What is Beducated?

    Beducated is an online resource offering sex education courses for better understanding of one's body and sexual health.

  • How does societal beauty pressure affect women's mental health?

    The pressure can lead to insecurities and stress regarding self-image, often causing women to feel they must constantly strive for unrealistic standards.

  • What can women do to combat societal beauty pressures?

    Women can focus on self-acceptance, embrace their natural beauty, and avoid succumbing to societal expectations.

  • Why is women’s hygiene scrutinized more than men's?

    Societal norms tend to place a higher value on women’s hygiene and appearance, often leading to harsher criticisms when these standards are not met.

  • Why do women spend so much on beauty treatments?

    Women often feel the need to invest heavily in beauty treatments to attain societal standards of attractiveness and gain social privileges.

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    video moment when it comes to the price
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    of beauty study show that American women
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    spend an average of $115 for makeup and
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    beauty treatments per month or just
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    about
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    $1,380 per year just on beauty and in
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    terms of skin care women spend an
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    estimated $65 per month on anti-aging
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    creams treatments lotions moisturizers
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    you name it women are spending a bag on
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    of 20 are spending $400 per year on new
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    they're about 40 and right about that
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    age they spend about
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    $700 per year on the newest and latest
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    trends among women all over the world
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    there's like this unspoken rule that we
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    all have to look Top tier and we have to
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    look our absolute best at all times and
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    this is despite being in the public eye
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    this is something that we see even in
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    offices we see this in school we see
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    this when you just go out shopping women
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    just are always told you have to look
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    your absolute best the same pressures
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    aren't applied to men as much and though
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    men have their own set of societal
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    pressures when it comes to beauty and
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    just being pretty women definitely take
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    the large amount when it comes to being
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    their best and appearing as their best
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    so a writer for the Washington Post asks
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    27 of her colleagues how many products
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    they put on their face in the morning to
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    look their very best and according to
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    her it was reported that the average
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    amount of products that each of those
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    women put on their face in the morning
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    was five products and I think that's for
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    me too I put on a vitamin C serum I
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    Spritz my face for rose water I use a
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    anti-aging I think it's like a fine line
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    remover or something like that I got it
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    sent by a company then I used sunscreen
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    and then I used use cleanser as oh I use
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    cleanser sunscreen and moisturizer I use
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    six products I think that's it and then
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    at night time I think it's about seven
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    or eight products but we're putting a
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    lot of stuff on our face because we're
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    told we have to look our best and try to
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    limit ourselves from aging or looking
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    bad and tired that same writer asked her
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    two male colleagues and she say they use
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    less than half her product in the
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    morning and it's very easy to label this
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    as just women being Vain and just being
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    superficial but that's not the case at
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    all Society puts that pressure upon us
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    and it doesn't put that same pressure on
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    men which is why she has all her women
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    colleagues the 27 of them putting at
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    least five products on their face and
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    then the men are putting half a product
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    on their face that right there though
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    it's not a scientific poll shows exactly
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    what I'm trying to say whenever a woman
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    steps out not looking her best she
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    automatically is seen as unkempt she's
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    seen as not caring about herself she's
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    seen as not having any home training
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    she's called lazy boring ugly and so on
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    and so forth but the crazy part about it
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    is is the way that women look closely
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    Ties on the way people treat them and
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    that's when the whole ideology of pretty
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    privilege comes about I did a video
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    about 2 years ago on pretty privilege
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    and I definitely caused up a ster of
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    controversy I shared my opinions dealing
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    with pretty privilege because I do find
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    myself to be an attractive woman and I
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    do get attention when I am out and about
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    but the reason why I probably do get
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    that attention is because I always make
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    sure to look my absolute best because
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    when you look your absolute best you get
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    way more opportunities and experiences
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    when it comes to dealing with people in
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    the real world y'all want to talk about
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    pretty privilege I'm seeing a lot of
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    pretty people talking about how pretty
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    privilege isn't real and they don't
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    have it and blah shut up no you
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    want to talk about pretty privilege talk
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    to people who had to glow up if they
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    were ugly in some kind of way and now
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    they're somewhat attractive or very
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    attractive whatever they will tell you
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    pretty privilege is real because
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    when you weren't attractive it was like
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    everything you did was like annoying
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    like your present just like pissed
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    people off if you asked a question you
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    were the biggest like irritation of life
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    but when you're like stereotypically
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    attractive like whatever you get away
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    with so much more people are so much
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    nicer to you it is the realest it's
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    beyond me that this is even a
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    conversation let's be for real
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    pretty people are perceived as smarter
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    more confident more sociable healthier
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    and successful compared to people that
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    are deemed less attractive in society
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    there are advantages when it comes to
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    employment there are advantages when it
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    comes to just going out and maybe
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    getting a free drink getting free entry
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    into a club there are a lot of things
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    that benefit when you match the
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    society's terms of beauty pretty by
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    default Society will give you value and
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    you won't even lose it no matter how
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    crazy things you do but if you're not
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    pretty you will have to prove yourself
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    over and over and over again that you
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    are valuable so you can imagine why
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    women feel the need to put themselves on
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    a pedestal to make themselves more
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    attractive and to make themselves more
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    pretty so they can also get that pretty
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    privilege pretty privilege is not just
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    about purchasing makeup it's a whole
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    lifestyle to achieve a certain look that
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    will get you that access there are a
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    whole set of rules and Aesthetics that
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    will grant you that access to the perks
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    of life and best believe a majority of
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    women are going to want those same perks
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    whether that's going out and purchasing
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    affordable and stylish clothing going
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    out to get your hair done or trying on a
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    numerous amount of hairstyles getting
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    your eyebrows done getting your
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    eyelashes done getting your nails done
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    wearing the latest designer shoes all of
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    that it all plays aart in order to
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    achieve what pretty privilege gets you
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    I'm naturally ugly so keeping myself
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    together is not easy and it's not cheap
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    so I want to walk you through what I do
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    and how much it cost starting with nails
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    every 3 weeks I get a fill in and then
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    every three fills I get a new set and I
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    always do nude clear or French and I get
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    a pedicure every 3 weeks when I go get
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    my nails done this runs me about 150
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    every 3 weeks next is lash extensions I
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    get those done every two weeks I'll get
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    a fill and then after two fills I'll get
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    a whole new set and this runs me about
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    175 every 2 weeks now I don't do this
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    very often but I am very open about
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    getting Botox and filler Botox is
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    something that lasts around three months
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    or so I will say I go quarterly to get a
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    Botox top up that costs me anywhere
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    between like $150 and $200 I don't do a
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    lot of units and then semiannually I
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    will get a little bit of filler depends
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    on how my face is looking where I'm
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    going to get it and I typically will
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    only do one syringe and that's about
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    $600 semiannual next is my hair listen
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    having beautiful long thick luscious
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    locks so I buy extensions I get them
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    from Indique it costs about $600 every
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    time I get new hair and an install is
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    about $500 finally is laser hair removal
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    now this stuff depending on where you go
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    razor burn ingrown hairs has made a
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    dramatic difference in my life but the
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    crazy thing is we don't really put men
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    underneath the same telescope I did a
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    video when I was speaking about Society
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    hating women in their 30s and I stated
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    men kind of have pretty privilege up
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    until they're about 22 to 23 and then
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    after that when it comes primarily to
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    dating women don't really care about
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    looks as much it's more so about how you
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    can provide but even then a man just
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    needs his face to be attractive a woman
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    needs the full package as a result of
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    this women end up spending so much money
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    more than they can afford to achieve
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    this level of beauty standard I mean
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    let's just talk about the entire concept
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    of beauty is pain women go through
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    strenuous procedures and different
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    treatments to achieve a certain type of
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    look whether that's getting a Brazilian
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    wax whether that's getting your eyebrows
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    done that hurts okay let's be real
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    sitting hours to get our nails done
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    sitting hours to get our eyebrows done
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    sitting hours to get our hair done
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    spending so much money on hair spending
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    so much money on everything women are
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    going through all of these extreme
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    lengths in order to maintain a seat in
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    society well a selectable seat I'm sure
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    we all heard the saying that people are
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    not ugly we are just poor
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    we see old pictures of Cristiano Ronaldo
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    and we're thinking wow money when I see
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    all those conversations today on Tik Tok
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    about how men prefer natural girls and
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    you don't need to buy all that makeup I
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    thought you do it for yourself stop
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    hiding your insecurities like that's
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    literally the same thing I started to
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    look at attractive women not in a way
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    that they are just lucky some of them of
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    course are born beautiful but majority
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    of women are just spending so much money
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    to look that way as why did she wake up
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    with such a beautiful shiny face and
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    beautiful eyelashes she did because she
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    spent so much money on serums oils
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    facials some brow lamination eyelash
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    extension some Botox or filler but
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    because men don't see makeup they will
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    think she's natural and the question is
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    is this a choice on women's Parts I do
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    believe it is a choice to some sort to a
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    certain extent like for instance I do
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    love dressing up I love putting makeup
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    on I love looking my very best however
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    if I really had to pick I'd rather be in
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    my pajamas all day with a fresh face and
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    my Bonnet on like come on the reason why
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    I go out and look my very best is
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    because I want to look presentable and I
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    know how I look deeply affects the
  • 00:12:49
    certain opportunities and experiences
  • 00:12:50
    that I will get when I'm out and about
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    like y'all I filmed this video yesterday
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    unfortunately my SD card decided to get
  • 00:12:56
    corrupted and everything got deleted Ed
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    but I was kicking and screaming to get
  • 00:13:00
    dressed up again today and to sit out in
  • 00:13:03
    front of a camera with my hair done my
  • 00:13:05
    makeup on and an outfit on I just want
  • 00:13:06
    to be comfortable so this just shows I'm
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    just one example of course but a lot of
  • 00:13:11
    women probably can relate to me we'd
  • 00:13:12
    rather wear leggings we'd rather wear
  • 00:13:14
    sweatpants big t-shirts sweatshirts and
  • 00:13:16
    just be cozy but we don't do that if we
  • 00:13:19
    want to be able to achieve certain
  • 00:13:21
    things in life even just when it comes
  • 00:13:23
    to women finding a eligible bachelor
  • 00:13:25
    women are told to dress a certain way
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    and a lot of the ways that we're told to
  • 00:13:29
    dress are quite uncomfortable whether
  • 00:13:31
    that's wearing very high heels wearing
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    pounds of makeup wearing outfits that
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    are tight and right in all the right
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    places wearing jewelry that may pull and
  • 00:13:38
    tug at our ears like it's a lot that
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    goes into it in order to make sure that
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    you are somewhat acceptable in society
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    and that's going to go into my next part
  • 00:13:47
    of the hygiene Olympics there is a
  • 00:13:49
    common Trend that women are expected to
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    smell and look their best um we kind of
  • 00:13:55
    touched on this earlier when it comes to
  • 00:13:56
    skincare and what women spend money on
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    or what they're willing to spend money
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    on the amount of products I see get sold
  • 00:14:02
    for women to make sure their hoo-ha
  • 00:14:04
    smells good and to make sure that
  • 00:14:06
    they're the freshest and the best and
  • 00:14:07
    how to please your man is absolutely out
  • 00:14:10
    of control we're always being advertised
  • 00:14:12
    on how to smell our best or we're being
  • 00:14:13
    shamed for not smelling our best for
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    instance if you ever hear women
  • 00:14:18
    attacking other women or even men
  • 00:14:19
    attacking women when they're arguing
  • 00:14:21
    with them n out of 10 times you're going
  • 00:14:22
    to hear them talk about how their smells
  • 00:14:25
    or how they smell in general you have
  • 00:14:27
    bad breath you have this this this and
  • 00:14:28
    the third how many times do you pass by
  • 00:14:30
    a group of men and they not smelling as
  • 00:14:32
    snazzy as they should be we know men and
  • 00:14:34
    women we know that a woman's hygiene is
  • 00:14:36
    an insult if you say that a woman does
  • 00:14:38
    not smell good it is very insulting
  • 00:14:40
    that's why people say oh you smell like
  • 00:14:41
    a fish or oh it smells bad you have BV
  • 00:14:45
    there are a lot of things at hand that
  • 00:14:46
    kind of agree with my point and given
  • 00:14:48
    we're now speaking about sexual health
  • 00:14:50
    beducated has a bunch of different
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    courses that discusses any vaginal care
  • 00:14:54
    you may need whether that's
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    understanding vaginal pain and
  • 00:14:57
    overcoming issues with p penetration the
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    Aftercare after being physically
  • 00:15:01
    intimate and different ways to cater to
  • 00:15:03
    your girl power once again beducated is
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    linked down below I highly highly
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    recommend you guys check out all their
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    courses all right now back to the video
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    and I definitely believe the whole idea
  • 00:15:13
    of the hygiene Olympics definitely stems
  • 00:15:14
    within the black community there's a lot
  • 00:15:16
    of history that comes with that in
  • 00:15:17
    regard to slavery and how we were put in
  • 00:15:19
    very unkempt situations that led us to
  • 00:15:22
    be very smelly not even unkempt inhumane
  • 00:15:25
    places and I'm not even going to get
  • 00:15:26
    into detail with that because it just
  • 00:15:28
    pisses me off but now we just have this
  • 00:15:29
    idea we have to be the cleanest person
  • 00:15:31
    outse squeaky clean and women in general
  • 00:15:33
    have this same idea too but just with
  • 00:15:35
    the idea of like I need to have three
  • 00:15:37
    different washcloths and I have to
  • 00:15:39
    shower nine times a day or if you don't
  • 00:15:41
    shower eight times or don't switch your
  • 00:15:42
    underwear four times a day you're
  • 00:15:44
    disgusting and dirty these are all
  • 00:15:46
    anti-woman okay and I could say
  • 00:15:48
    anti-black woman but I might do a whole
  • 00:15:49
    different video for this on another day
  • 00:15:51
    where I can do deeper details and we
  • 00:15:52
    could talk about the hygiene Olympics a
  • 00:15:54
    bit more but women are shamed for not
  • 00:15:56
    smelling their very best and don't get
  • 00:15:58
    me wrong I like to smell good too okay I
  • 00:16:00
    like to look good I like to wear
  • 00:16:01
    perfumes I like to wear really good
  • 00:16:03
    smelling lotions delicious smelling body
  • 00:16:05
    washes I love all of that do not get me
  • 00:16:07
    wrong but women do go extreme lengths in
  • 00:16:10
    order to smell a certain way because
  • 00:16:11
    they're feared of being judged by
  • 00:16:13
    somebody whereas men just use what head
  • 00:16:15
    and shoulders and then just head out the
  • 00:16:17
    door so my point really with this video
  • 00:16:20
    or the making of this video is just to
  • 00:16:22
    emphasize that whenever you see a woman
  • 00:16:24
    that may not look her best in your eyes
  • 00:16:26
    there is no reason to shame her there's
  • 00:16:28
    no reason to judge her or make her feel
  • 00:16:29
    less than because she already has
  • 00:16:31
    Society on a tight scope doing that to
  • 00:16:33
    her we as women have a bunch of
  • 00:16:34
    pressures put on us to look our very
  • 00:16:36
    best to be our very best and to do
  • 00:16:38
    everything perfectly and if we don't we
  • 00:16:41
    get annihilated for it whereas men can
  • 00:16:43
    kind of do whatever the heck they want
  • 00:16:44
    and I'm not saying that men don't have
  • 00:16:46
    their own problems but we're speaking
  • 00:16:47
    about women so don't even try that and
  • 00:16:49
    even then when it comes to women feeling
  • 00:16:52
    good and wanting to look good we
  • 00:16:53
    shouldn't be shamed for that either I
  • 00:16:55
    feel as if women were so in fear of
  • 00:16:57
    wanting to emphasize our Beauty and
  • 00:16:59
    we're so in fear of people thinking that
  • 00:17:01
    we're all of that that we kind of
  • 00:17:03
    deflect and diminish the value within
  • 00:17:05
    ourselves and that leads to even further
  • 00:17:07
    insecurities take a look at yourself
  • 00:17:09
    when someone gives you a compliment do
  • 00:17:10
    you automatically say like oh no I look
  • 00:17:12
    a mess or oh God I don't look my very
  • 00:17:14
    best today if you're doing that you're
  • 00:17:16
    among the many women that do the same
  • 00:17:18
    exact thing because we're told that we
  • 00:17:20
    shouldn't be too confident and we
  • 00:17:21
    shouldn't be too cocky about how we look
  • 00:17:23
    then at the same time we're ashamed for
  • 00:17:25
    not looking our very best either live
  • 00:17:27
    for you love you don't let Society tell
  • 00:17:29
    you how you should and should not look
  • 00:17:31
    you have to just value on what you find
  • 00:17:33
    important but don't go breaking the bank
  • 00:17:35
    trying to adhere to societal pressures I
  • 00:17:37
    even just think about how stressed I get
  • 00:17:39
    when I'm picking out an outfit I'm like
  • 00:17:41
    oh my God I have to look my very best I
  • 00:17:43
    have pressures to look my best because
  • 00:17:45
    I'm like what if somebody from online
  • 00:17:47
    sees me in person what if someone that I
  • 00:17:48
    know personally sees me in person I
  • 00:17:50
    don't look my best it gets very
  • 00:17:51
    stressful and I'm out here looking for a
  • 00:17:53
    new outfit for every event I go to I'm
  • 00:17:55
    making sure to wear a hat and a mask
  • 00:17:57
    when my face isn't look look and how I
  • 00:17:58
    wanted to look and that's all due to us
  • 00:18:00
    feeling like we have to always be our
  • 00:18:02
    very best but you guys that is the end
  • 00:18:04
    of today's video and I of course want to
  • 00:18:06
    know what you guys think in the comments
  • 00:18:07
    down below do you think that women are
  • 00:18:09
    just vain do you think Society puts
  • 00:18:10
    these pressures on us why do you think
  • 00:18:12
    they do well why do you think either
  • 00:18:13
    answer why do you think any of those
  • 00:18:15
    answers make sense I want to get the
  • 00:18:16
    discussion going in the comments down
  • 00:18:17
    below I'm very intrigued to hear what
  • 00:18:19
    you guys have to say if you guys like
  • 00:18:20
    this video don't forget to like comment
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    subscribe and share please remember to
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    stay true to yourself stay beautiful in
  • 00:18:26
    your own way don't have Society put
  • 00:18:28
    those upon you and yeah I guess I will
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    see you all in my very next video I love
  • 00:18:32
    you all so much bye
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    guys taking you in come get close like
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    you name a you want more of all this
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    love you'll be your name release all of
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    you
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