Women are easily attracted to men who know these things

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概要

TLDRThe video provides crucial insights for men on how to attract women by mastering storytelling, leaving an air of mystery, and actively listening. It emphasizes that storytelling should showcase positive traits subtly and keep women engaged. Creating anticipation is vital, making women think about you when you're not around. Additionally, men should break awkward silences to display leadership and problem-solving skills. Listening is broken down into actionable steps like amplifying feelings, echoing her words, and emphasizing empathy to foster a deeper connection. By applying these methods, men can enhance their charm and appeal.

収穫

  • 📖 Storytelling connects and showcases personality.
  • 🤔 Leave some mystery to create intrigue.
  • 😄 Break awkward silences with humor.
  • 🚶‍♂️ Change locations to rejuvenate conversations.
  • 👂 Listen actively to show understanding.
  • ✨ Use empathy to connect emotionally.
  • 🔄 Echo her words to show engagement.
  • 📍 Recall previous details to enhance connection.
  • ❗ Don’t rush to respond; let her finish.
  • 🔮 Create anticipation for lasting interest.

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  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The video emphasizes the importance of storytelling in attracting women, highlighting that most men fail to tell compelling stories. It advises men to share anecdotes that subtly reveal positive traits while avoiding overt bragging. Additionally, it stresses that leaving some mystery can increase intrigue, encouraging men to tease women and not reveal everything about themselves immediately.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:13:02

    The second segment discussed how to break awkward silences during conversations with women, positing that men should aim to take the lead. It offers tips such as using humor to ease tension, changing the location for new stimuli, and being prepared with conversation topics. It also covers the art of listening, detailing how a man can show understanding and empathy, which can create a deeper connection with women.

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ビデオQ&A

  • What is the importance of storytelling in attracting women?

    Storytelling captures attention and helps women draw conclusions about your personality.

  • How can I create anticipation when speaking to a woman?

    Leave her wanting more by teasing future conversations to encourage her curiosity.

  • Why should I break awkward silences?

    Breaking silence shows leadership and problem-solving ability, which are attractive traits.

  • What are effective ways to break awkward silences?

    Use humor, change locations, or have pre-prepared topics ready.

  • How can I listen effectively to make her think about me?

    Listen fully before responding, amplify her feelings, rephrase her words, show empathy, and recall earlier details.

  • Why is empathy important during conversations?

    Empathy helps her feel understood, connecting on an emotional level.

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    women are easily attracted to men who
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    know these secrets this video could be a
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    life-changing experience for you so
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    please listen to me carefully the first
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    thing you need to know which is very
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    important is how to tell a story believe
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    me when I say that 8% of men do not know
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    how to tell a story that attracts a
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    woman in fact not just 80% but 95% of
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    men do not know how to tell a story that
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    captivates a woman if you ever approach
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    a girl and start telling her a story
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    that portrays you as impressive or
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    adventurous just to make to see you as
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    smart or strong be sure that this is the
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    fastest way to fail with women so how do
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    you tell a story don't worry I'll
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    explain everything in detail just be
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    patient because it's essential to
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    understand the theory before I explain
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    the practice a woman wants to discover
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    things about you on her own she doesn't
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    necessarily trust everything you say so
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    she looks for small clues that help her
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    determine your status stories are a
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    natural way to capture someone's
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    attention and if told correctly they are
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    also a great way to drop subtle hints
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    about your personality when you tell the
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    story you need to remember that a woman
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    is listening to your story but at the
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    same time she is reading between the
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    lines to make certain judgments about
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    you for example let's say you tell a
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    story about how on a Tuesday afternoon
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    you were lying in bed with a hangover
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    and someone kept knocking on your door
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    until you finally answered it only to
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    find some annoying religious preachers
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    trying to convert you to some strange
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    new religion well even though you may
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    have intended the story to be a funny
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    anecdote about the annoying preachers
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    the woman has already started
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    categorizing you as the type of guy who
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    gets drunk on Monday nights doesn't have
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    a job to wake up for and has no ambition
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    to get out of bed until the afternoon
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    unless you are both in college these are
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    not necessarily traits that will excite
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    her at the same time you don't want to
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    come off as bragging while telling your
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    stories that's why any positive details
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    about your life that you want to
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    highlight must be hidden within a larger
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    story this means that while the story
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    itself doesn't have to be positive she
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    must be able to uncover positive traits
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    about you through it let's use the same
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    story about the religious preachers
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    knocking on the door and see how we
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    could tell it in a way that casts a
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    positive light on you Tuesday afternoon
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    I was sleeping in it was the first good
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    comfortable sleep I had in a couple of
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    weeks since I had been grinding hard
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    trying to take my business to the next
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    level Monday night we landed an amazing
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    contract and my team and I finally
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    decided it was time to celebrate now
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    Tuesday morning I'm lying in bed feeling
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    the kind of Hangover I haven't had in
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    years and I keep hearing a knock on the
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    door I really don't want to get out of
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    bed well the knocking stops for like 10
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    minutes but then starts up again and now
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    they're ringing the bell too finally I
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    throw on some clothes head downstairs
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    and open the door thinking it's my
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    neighbor or something urgent instead I
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    find two guys in suits standing there
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    with big smiles holding up a pamphlet
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    one of them says have you accepted the
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    wisdom of our great leader and I'm
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    standing there half asleep still hung
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    over looking at these guys like bro I
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    don't even remember what I accepted last
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    night in this version of the story I
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    included enough details to allow her to
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    conclude on her own that I am an
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    ambitious man but I never outright
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    stated it I gave her this information
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    within the context of a funny story
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    about two Relentless cult recruiters
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    trying to convert me at the same time
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    when you tell a story and reach a moment
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    that makes you look impressive never
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    emphasize it pass through it as if it's
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    not a big deal as if you're not trying
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    to prove anything to her and at the same
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    time don't tell too many stories always
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    leave some mystery the second thing you
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    need to know is how to make a woman want
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    more and this is one of the most
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    important things you need to learn when
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    it comes to women and look if you have
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    been following the how to attract women
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    series you will know that one of the
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    most fundament Al rules that govern a
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    woman's mind is that attraction happens
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    when you are not with her not when you
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    are with her attraction forms when she
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    is thinking about you that is why you
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    must always leave her wanting more how
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    can you do that think of it this way
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    what happens when you get just a small
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    taste of your favorite food or dessert
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    you want more don't you and what happens
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    when you get a bucket full of it after
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    you have eaten as much as you can you
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    don't even want to look at it anymore
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    apply the same logic when sharing your
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    personality and yourself with women do
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    not reveal everything right away tease
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    her a little and leave some mystery and
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    Intrigue women love using their
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    imagination so let them and when you
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    part ways especially during the first
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    few meetings make her feel anticipation
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    and excitement example before I leave I
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    usually say something like remind me to
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    tell you about blank the next time we
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    meet fill in the blank with something
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    that will Peak her curiosity women are
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    curious creatures let her wonder about
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    you until she sees you again she will
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    definitely keep thinking about you
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    anticipation can be a wonderful
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    aphrodesiac and now I will explain
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    something very important to you you and
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    unfortunately many men do not realize
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    its value you need to know how to break
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    awkward silences with a woman and look
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    awkward silence has a significance that
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    many men do not recognize so let me
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    explain something to you if You observe
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    two women talking you will notice that
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    they never stop talking and each one
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    interrupts the other to speak why
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    because women by Nature know how to talk
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    a lot but when you are with her as a man
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    and you both fall into an awkward
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    silence you need to understand something
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    important the woman can break that
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    silence at any moment moment if she
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    wants to she has no problem doing so yet
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    despite that she remains silent why do
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    you think that is I want you to listen
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    to me carefully before I explain how to
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    break awkward silence let me first
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    explain why you as a man should be the
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    one to break it in the first place there
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    are two main reasons one the woman wants
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    you to be the leader a Woman by her
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    nature when she is with you wants you to
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    be in control of the conversation not
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    her she wants you to take on that
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    responsibility even though she is
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    capable of talking for hours without
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    stopping and look this is not something
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    she consciously controls it is part of
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    her nature and she does it without
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    realizing it so when you break the
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    awkward silence you are sending her a
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    subconscious message that you are a
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    leader two awkward silence is seen as a
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    problem and this is very important the
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    part of a woman's brain responsible for
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    attraction looks for certain traits in a
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    man and one of them is his ability to
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    solve problems when you both fall into
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    awkward silence this part of her brain
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    sees it as a problem and subconsciously
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    tests you to see if you are capable of
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    solving it so when you can break the
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    silence you are hitting two birds with
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    one stone you demonstrate your
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    leadership ability and at the same time
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    show that you can solve problems and
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    these two qualities make a woman highly
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    attracted to a man that's why if you pay
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    attention you'll find that women often
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    say they like a man who knows how to
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    break awkward silence during a date and
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    even though it may seem illogical
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    because the woman is perfectly capable
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    of breaking the silence herself she
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    unconsciously prefers a man who takes
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    responsibility this is why awkward
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    silence usually happens only during the
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    first few days because in reality it is
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    a test that the woman gives the man
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    without realizing it so how do you break
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    awkward silence one use humor the
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    silence itself is not the problem but
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    rather the tension that comes with it it
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    is the tension that makes you feel like
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    the conversation is dying and that
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    there's nothing left to say the best way
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    to release this tension is to turn it
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    into a joke simply when silence occurs
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    say something like wow that was really
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    awkward huh one of us needs to say
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    something fast or well that was awkward
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    the moment you say that the tension
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    disappears and you both can continue
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    talking naturally two change the
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    location if you are talking and the
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    conversation starts to lose its energy
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    simply say hey let's step outside and
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    get some fresh air or I want to
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    introduce you to one of my friends when
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    you change the setting your brain
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    receives new stimuli which naturally
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    generates new conversation topics
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    allowing the conversation to flow again
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    three have pre-prepared topics this is
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    known as canned responses which are
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    simply pre-planned conversation topics
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    that you can use whenever you encounter
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    an awkward silence but instead of using
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    them randomly use them strategically to
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    shift the conversation to a deeper level
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    for example when silence occurs pause
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    for a moment and then say something as
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    if you are thinking deeply I was
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    wondering are you always this nice to
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    strangers since we just met what were
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    you thinking when I approached you what
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    was your first impression of me notice
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    how you Ed the silence not as an awkward
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    moment but as a way to take the
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    conversation to a deeper level you are
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    talking about the situation itself
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    giving her the chance to express her
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    thoughts and feelings women love
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    analyzing situations and talking about
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    the unsaid and this makes the
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    conversation more engaging for her and
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    by the way if you're still watching up
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    to this point I want to tell you that I
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    wrote a free book where I talked in more
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    depth about how to talk to a girl and I
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    focused only on how to have a
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    conversation that makes her feel a
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    certain attachment to you without even
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    knowing why I'll leave the link in the
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    first comment and now I want you to pay
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    close attention if you're reading the
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    comments go back to the video focus and
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    listen to every word I'm about to say as
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    if you're life depends on it because I'm
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    about to explain one of the most
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    important things about women you need to
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    know how to listen I've said this dozens
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    of times in this series about how to
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    attract women but today I will explain
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    in detail how to listen in a way that
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    makes her think about you all night so
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    listen to me carefully when a woman is
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    talking your only job is to remove from
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    her mind the idea that you're just there
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    to try to win her over because at first
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    that's exactly what a girl assumes a guy
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    who is trying to win a woman over will
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    try to say everything at once he'll try
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    to impress her her show how cool he is
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    and when she speaks he'll constantly
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    look for a chance to interrupt and say
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    something about himself he'll try to
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    tell his stories and force his way into
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    the conversation however he can all of
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    this is fine and there's nothing wrong
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    with being the one who talks but if you
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    want my advice as a man your mind wasn't
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    built to chatter excessively but even so
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    if you enjoy talking then talk but when
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    the girl starts speaking you need to
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    listen and here's the question how do
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    you listen and show her that you're
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    listening you need to make her feel
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    during the process of listening that she
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    is the one winning you over not that you
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    are trying to win her over how do you do
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    that by following a set of simple steps
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    that you can easily apply one get the
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    whole message first don't rush to
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    respond when she speaks sit back relax
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    listen to her and let her finish her
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    thoughts completely most men when a
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    woman is talking get excited by
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    something she says and rush to interrupt
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    because they want to show that they
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    understand her this makes you come
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    across as trying too hard which is
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    unattractive two amplify amplifying
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    simply means reinforcing what she said
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    and showing her that you understand her
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    for example if she tells you she spent
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    the afternoon at the beach enjoying the
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    fresh air and the calm waves you could
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    respond with isn't it amazing how just
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    sitting by the ocean can make you feel
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    so calm and Free by doing this you
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    amplify the positive emotions she felt
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    during the experience and make her feel
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    them even more while she's talking to
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    you three echoing echoing doesn't mean
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    repeating her words exactly but rather
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    rephrasing them in your own way for
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    example if she tells you about a fun
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    trip she took with her friends out of
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    town and how refreshing it was you could
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    respond with yeah sometimes just getting
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    out of the city and leaving everything
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    behind for a while feels so refreshing
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    this shows her that you truly understand
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    her feelings and makes her feel like you
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    are connecting with her on a deeper
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    level four empathy empathy means saying
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    without explicitly saying it I
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    understand how you felt you do this by
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    mentioning the emotions you imagine she'
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    felt in the situation rather than
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    commenting on the situation itself for
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    example if she tells you she was stuck
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    at the airport for hours due to a
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    canceled flight making her miss an
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    important event don't say wow what a
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    terrible Airline instead say You must
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    have felt so frustrated just sitting
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    there knowing there was nothing you
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    could do about it with this you're not
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    talking about the event itself but
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    rather about the feelings she
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    experienced and this makes her feel that
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    you truly understand her another way to
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    show empathy is by commenting on how
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    passionate she is about something for
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    example if she is talking about
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    photography with enthusiasm you could
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    say you really have a deep love for
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    photography Don't You by doing this you
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    show her that you notice her emotions
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    not just the information she's giving
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    you
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    five captioning captioning happens when
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    you bring up things she mentioned
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    earlier in the conversation if she told
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    you something at the beginning of the
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    date bring it up later in the
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    conversation this works great with humor
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    for example if she told you earlier that
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    she once had a crazy skydiving
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    experience and it was both terrifying
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    and thrilling and later in the
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    conversation she mentions being nervous
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    about a job interview you could say come
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    on you jumped out of a plane how scary
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    can a job interview be by doing this you
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    show that you were paying attention
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    earlier and that the at the same time
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    you remind her of a positive experience
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    that she Associates with herself we all
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    love it when someone remembers details
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    about our lives especially things we are
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    proud of in short how do you listen in a
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    way that makes her think about you all
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    night get the whole message don't
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    interrupt listen until the end then
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    respond to everything she said amplify
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    enhance the emotions she is trying to
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    convey and make her feel them more
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    echoing rephrase her words in a way that
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    shows you truly understand her empathy
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    focus on the emotions she felt rather
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    than just the events captioning bring
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    things she mentioned earlier to show you
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    were paying attention and connect them
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    to new situations when you do all of
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    this you won't just be a guy who listens
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    you'll be the person who truly
  • 00:12:38
    understands her and that will make her
  • 00:12:39
    think about you all night and that was
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    today's video if you've made it this far
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    I just want to say I love you this was
  • 00:12:46
    the dark needle and I'll see you in the
  • 00:12:48
    next
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    video they call me sassy when I'm
  • 00:12:54
    strolling down the
  • 00:12:57
    street they call me cl the one I'm
  • 00:13:00
    serving just a best
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