How to create your dream reality

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概要

TLDRÎn acest video, Liz discută despre cum să-ți schimbi viața și să-ți atingi visurile prin disciplină, credință în sine și acțiuni concrete. Ea subliniază importanța de a te inspira din realizările altora, de a-ți stabili obiective clare și de a investi în dezvoltarea personală. De asemenea, Liz încurajează renunțarea la relațiile toxice și asumarea responsabilității pentru propria fericire. Ea promovează ideea că fiecare poate crea o realitate mai bună, având încredere în sine și acționând în direcția dorită.

収穫

  • 💪 Fii disciplinat pentru a-ți atinge obiectivele.
  • 🌟 Inspiră-te din realizările altora, nu le invidia.
  • ✍️ Scrie-ți dorințele pentru a le manifesta.
  • 🚫 Renunță la relațiile toxice care te trag înapoi.
  • 🧠 Fii autentic și trăiește-ți adevărata viață.
  • 💖 Investește în tine pentru a-ți crește stima de sine.
  • 🔄 Fii deschis la schimbare și la noi oportunități.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Practică auto-reflecția pentru a-ți gestiona emoțiile.
  • 🤝 Alege cu grijă persoanele din viața ta.
  • ✨ Crede în tine și în puterea ta de a crea realitatea dorită.

タイムライン

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    În acest prim segment, vorbitorul își exprimă frustrarea față de prietenii care se plâng de viața lor, dar nu fac nimic pentru a o schimba. Sublinează importanța disciplinei și a credinței în sine, menționând că succesul nu vine din noroc, ci din muncă și determinare. Vorbitorul își prezintă intenția de a ajuta audiența să își schimbe realitatea și să își atingă visurile, invitându-i să ia notițe și să se implice activ în procesul de schimbare.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    În continuare, vorbitorul discută despre cum alții reușesc să își construiască vieți extraordinare, în timp ce unii se simt blocați. Îi încurajează pe oameni să își extindă viziunea asupra lumii și să ceară mai mult de la viață. Este esențial să ne inspirăm din realizările altora și să ne stabilim obiective clare pentru a ne crea realitatea dorită. Vorbitorul subliniază importanța de a avea un partener stabil și de a-și defini clar dorințele și nevoile.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Vorbind despre auto-reflecție, vorbitorul sugerează să ne întrebăm ce comportamente trebuie să schimbăm pentru a atrage realitatea dorită. De asemenea, subliniază importanța de a ne concentra pe un singur lucru la un moment dat pentru a evita paralizia decizională. Împărtășește experiența personală legată de depășirea unei tulburări alimentare și cum a reușit să își manifeste dorințele prin scrierea lor.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:23:27

    În ultimele segmente, vorbitorul discută despre importanța de a ne investi în noi înșine, de a ne alinia acțiunile cu cuvintele și de a avea o mentalitate de succes. De asemenea, subliniază necesitatea de a ne desprinde de influențele negative și de a ne crea propria realitate. Vorbitorul încurajează disciplina și consistența, subliniind că succesul nu vine din perfecțiune, ci din perseverență și angajament față de propriile obiective.

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ビデオQ&A

  • Cum pot schimba realitatea mea?

    Trebuie să ai disciplină, să crezi în tine și să acționezi în direcția dorită.

  • Ce trebuie să fac pentru a-mi atinge visurile?

    Stabilește obiective clare, inspiră-te din realizările altora și investește în dezvoltarea ta personală.

  • De ce este important să renunț la relațiile toxice?

    Relațiile toxice te pot trasa înapoi și te împiedică să-ți atingi potențialul.

  • Cum pot să-mi îmbunătățesc stima de sine?

    Investește în tine, îngrijindu-te de aspectul fizic și mental.

  • Ce rol joacă disciplina în succesul personal?

    Disciplina este esențială pentru a menține consistența în acțiuni și a atinge obiectivele.

  • Cum pot să-mi manifest dorințele?

    Scrie-ți dorințele și acționează în direcția lor, având încredere că se vor împlini.

  • Ce este mindset-ul de vrăjitor?

    Este credința că poți obține tot ce îți dorești, atâta timp cât ești dedicat și acționezi.

  • Cum pot să-mi îmbunătățesc relațiile?

    Fii selectiv cu persoanele din viața ta și asigură-te că acestea contribuie pozitiv la realitatea ta.

  • De ce este important să fiu autentic?

    Autenticitatea te ajută să trăiești o viață care reflectă cine ești cu adevărat.

  • Cum pot să-mi gestionez emoțiile?

    Practicați auto-reflecția și, dacă este necesar, căutați ajutor profesional.

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    listen my love I am sick and tired of
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    you okay
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    you can't come to me constantly
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    complaining about how you're not able to
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    change your life you're not able to live
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    that dream life of yours you're not able
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    to change your reality whatever but then
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    at the same time you're constantly
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    helping other people to achieve their
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    dreams you're constantly helping other
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    people to like change their reality but
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    when it comes to you it's hard that is
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    just plain embarrassing and you do not
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    behave like that okay especially as my
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    friend like you guys are my friends and
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    you guys are behaving like this I'm
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    embarrassed I am embarrassed please
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    please and in this video I will show you
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    how you can change your reality what you
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    need to do in order to change that
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    reality to shift it and to actually do
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    something with your life enough
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    at least I cannot do it this I'm unlucky
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    no you're lazy gotta have the discipline
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    yeah and don't be like oh no it's only
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    lucky people lucky whatever honey I was
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    not lucky I was not born lucky I was
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    born poor very poor yeah and I
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    completely changed my reality why
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    because I had to discipline the belief
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    to do it I I don't want to be at the top
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    on my own because it's Lonely at the Top
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    I need you guys there with me so
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    together we can evolve this channel is
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    for you so together we're gonna go to
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    the next level and you are gonna take
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    notes and you're gonna listen alright
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    guys my name is Liz and welcome back to
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    my channel okay let's get right into it
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    okay so first things first listen
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    people are building spaceships
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    people are becoming billionaires people
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    are becoming multi-millionaires people
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    are having like a good income normal job
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    people are literally making money off
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    the dumbest things people having the
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    best relationships and you
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    you can't even fix your little simple
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    life you think you think that is not
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    like you cannot do that so all these
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    people they can be the most
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    extraordinary crazy things but you can't
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    fix your simple life yeah
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    you can't even find a normal job yeah
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    yeah you can't even find a person that
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    texts you back or that actually like
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    appreciates and loves you oh okay well
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    that's embarrassing I need to first to
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    start realizing the world is huge the
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    universe is huge God is Big he did not
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    put you on this Earth so you could not
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    do anything with your life that is not
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    your purpose honey you can do much much
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    more but you have to start believing
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    that you actually can and then look at
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    people for inspiration look at other
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    people don't be jealous of them look at
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    them for inspiration and thinking of
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    yourself like wow this guy he can build
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    spaceship maybe you know I can just find
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    like a normal job that I love maybe I
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    can follow my passion maybe I can like
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    find a partner that I want and build the
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    family that I want maybe I can have a
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    stable Foundation once you are inspired
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    by these people you will realize that oh
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    my God like you know what people can do
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    big things so I can fix my simple life
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    for a minuscule we're so like pathetic
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    you know even when you ask God you have
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    to ask God for the biggest thing because
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    honestly sometimes I ask God for things
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    I think God is even embarrassed he's
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    like really this you think that's small
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    then the second thing after you have
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    realized that you can ask for a lot of
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    things and what you do you need to
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    answer questions for yourself okay we
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    need to get really specific on what
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    reality do we want to create example
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    right I came from a very poor uh
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    childhood and basically for me ever
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    since I was a child my one important
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    thing was I need to be stable the
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    partner that is with me also needs to be
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    financially stable I want to make a lot
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    of money I want him to make enough money
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    I don't care about like millions of
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    millions but just good enough and then
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    um I need to have stable uh households
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    and a stable uh childhood for my
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    children that was my focus and I was
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    like that's the kind of reality I want I
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    want to have a passionate job that I'm
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    passionate about I want to make money I
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    want to be able to support my family I
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    want to look really good I want to love
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    myself I want to heal myself from the
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    inside out I want to go to therapy
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    that's the kind of reality I want to be
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    in that's the kind of woman I want to
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    then also I start to think about okay
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    what kind of partner do I want and once
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    I literally wrote down the kind of
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    partner I want and I had never done this
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    before I literally attracted him and met
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    the exact person that I wrote down so
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    I'm telling you once you write things
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    down you manifest them and it's crazy I
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    want you to answer these questions yeah
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    okay
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    first of all what reality do I want to
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    create first question second question
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    question who do I look up to like look
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    up to people that you like their
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    lifestyle you like you don't have to
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    block I want their life I want to be
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    them no you get inspiration from their
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    lifestyle you know how we get
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    inspiration if we're decorating our home
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    from Pinterest and all these things well
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    the same way you look at a person think
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    oh okay I for example I even like their
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    haircuts or I like this that and it can
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    be different people but who do you look
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    up to then you write down what is a
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    behavior that you need to change about
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    yourself in order for you to attract
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    that reality that you want what is the
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    behavior that you need to change example
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    I I was struggling with an eating
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    disorder I had bulimia and in my reality
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    the highest version of me she didn't
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    have that she didn't have that eating
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    disorder so I needed to work on fixing
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    that and I needed to work on fixing my
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    eating disorder because I I was not
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    gonna be my reality I was not to suffer
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    from it then what's a new habit that you
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    would like to create and the last but
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    the most important thing ever what is
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    one thing that I can focus on right now
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    see the human brain is incredible yeah
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    we do not like too much Choice I'm
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    reading this book right now it's called
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    the art of thinking clearly and
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    basically it talks about how when we are
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    giving too much Choice the brain
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    paralyzes and just doesn't make a
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    decision at all and we really get
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    stressed off of it so you decide for
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    yourself okay all of these things yeah
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    that I listed that I want for for this
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    new reality what is some one thing that
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    I can focus on right now and I promise
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    you once you focus on that one thing all
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    the rest will follow
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    follow the leader leader example I
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    joined the gym recently and when I
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    joined the gym it's like a personal
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    training program ever since I joined the
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    gym like all the other issues like um
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    not socializing like not feeling
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    confident anymore like uh really like
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    having kind of like an isolated uh
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    depression they went
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    they went because I decided to focus on
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    that one thing and then all the rest of
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    it follows so you decide okay what do I
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    start with do I start with my physical
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    appearance do I start healing my mental
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    health do I start
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    um with uh not allowing toxic people in
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    my life anymore and then I swear or do I
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    start like going out a little more
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    everything will fall into place another
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    thing is the illusions of Life see we as
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    humans we like to create meaning out of
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    something we always like to look for
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    patterns and have meaning in them for
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    example if we look uh at the clouds
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    right we will see a certain shape in the
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    clouds we're like oh my God this is a
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    sign this is whatever right no sometimes
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    things are just things and they're not
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    like a pattern or whatever in the same
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    way that you guys say like oh I'm just
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    unlucky I have like I constantly attract
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    like unluckiness no you don't you have
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    uh you have good days and bad days and
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    that's that's just it you're not unlucky
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    stop telling yourself that you're
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    unlucky see the same way I grew up in a
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    I'm a Muslim right so we believe in evil
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    eye now the issue with this is
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    constantly whenever something would
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    happen like I would get a rash on my
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    face or I would fall down the stairs I
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    like constantly I would think like oh my
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    God then this is evil eye this evil eye
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    I'm getting evil eye but now I like
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    completely changed my thinking and I was
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    like no I do not get evil eye I like
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    only what I allow will happen this is my
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    reality and I allow what comes in and
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    what goes out walk away from things and
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    people that are not good for you you
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    have to start thinking does this person
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    add to the reality that I want to create
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    for myself do they fit into that reality
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    hmm okay so this person is always
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    putting me down this person is not
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    giving me any love this person is toxic
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    no okay cut Cuts I want them out because
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    I'm trying to create my my reality here
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    these people cannot come with me
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    sometimes you get even tested about how
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    bad you want it by
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    um having these people in your life and
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    really when you cut them off God gives
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    you something so much better but that's
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    because you showed him I trust you
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    I don't care like how much I want this
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    person in my life or how much this
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    person makes me feel comfortable or how
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    much these things makes me come feel
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    comfortable I'm gonna cut it off so so I
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    can show you I trust you and you'll give
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    me something better some people are not
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    meant to be with the highest version of
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    you some people are not meant to go to
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    your highest reality with you then you
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    think always does this action support
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    the reality that I'm trying to create
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    for example right if you say Okay I want
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    to make my own money and I want to have
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    a partner that makes their own money and
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    I want us to be a stable couple a really
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    good couple right then you keep dating
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    people that have no work ethic you keep
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    dating people that don't want to work
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    and literally uh basically don't want to
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    do anything but live off of other people
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    you have to think to yourself if I
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    continue doing this then this action
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    will not support the reality that I want
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    because you're contradicting yourself
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    you cannot say this is what I I want and
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    do the complete opposite thing and
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    expect this to happen or you're trying
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    to create a reality where you want
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    people to respect you or you want uh to
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    inspire people whatever but you keep
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    people pleasing to a point where nobody
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    respects you or you keep like making
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    letting people make a joke out of you
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    not standing up for yourself
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    where are we going what reality is that
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    because we're going backwards honey
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    become your own biggest investment see I
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    I feel like when when people say this
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    they're like oh my God you're so selfish
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    no honey no because when we invest in
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    you guys when we give you guys
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    everything and we're constantly pour
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    into other people then that's fine yeah
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    and they completely drain us we're left
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    with no energy for ourselves that's all
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    okay but don't you dare don't you dare
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    do that for yourself because that's a
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    really you're a bad person oh you need
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    to start investing in yourself you need
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    to start investing yourself whether it's
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    your physical looks like your skin your
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    hair your body and the food you put in
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    your body then your mental therapy um if
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    you cannot afford Therapy Journal
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    Journal Shadow work questions write them
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    down it's like therapy and what I'm
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    gonna do for you guys I'm gonna start a
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    podcast I'm gonna start a podcast where
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    I invite uh every time I go to therapy I
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    just have my therapy sessions on the
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    podcast so you guys can follow with me
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    and you guys can get free therapy
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    because I know therapy is expensive I
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    was uh like at a time on a point where I
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    couldn't afford therapy I totally
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    understand it but now that I can I'm
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    gonna share that with you guys even
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    though I have to put my personal
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    business online that's okay but I
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    realized that the more you invest in
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    yourself the more you level you up and
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    the closer you get to that reality and
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    the more other people who respect you I
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    like how can you not respect a person
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    that thinks they're worthy of their own
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    Investments
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    how can you not respect that as in you
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    see like someone with a really nice car
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    right and they always clean it it's
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    always clean from inside from the
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    outside it's really well taken care of
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    then people would say like oh my God
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    that person that guy or that girl really
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    loves their car well do that for
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    yourself too because the same way you're
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    gonna invest in yourself people can tell
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    that you are a person that loves himself
  • 00:12:18
    okay another thing and this is the most
  • 00:12:19
    important one of the most important is
  • 00:12:22
    make your words match your actions I do
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    not want to hear oh no Liz I tried but I
  • 00:12:31
    couldn't do it what did you try
  • 00:12:33
    what did you try because why are we
  • 00:12:35
    having this conversation right now hmm
  • 00:12:37
    why did you stop
  • 00:12:38
    so you tried once and then you stopped
  • 00:12:40
    and that's fine my sister she told me
  • 00:12:43
    recently she's like Liz the reason that
  • 00:12:45
    you are so successful is because when
  • 00:12:46
    you want something and you say I'm gonna
  • 00:12:48
    do it you actually do it and she's like
  • 00:12:50
    everything you preach on your YouTube
  • 00:12:51
    and everything you actually do that like
  • 00:12:54
    you're really authentic to your words I
  • 00:12:56
    am when I say that I am gonna do
  • 00:12:58
    something I will do it I do not care
  • 00:13:01
    that's what divides the successful from
  • 00:13:03
    the unsuccessful people a lot of my uh
  • 00:13:05
    successful friends that I know we all
  • 00:13:07
    had the same mindset we want to do
  • 00:13:09
    something that is good of course we
  • 00:13:11
    actually do it we do not care whether we
  • 00:13:13
    will fail at it or succeed we don't know
  • 00:13:15
    the outcome we only know that we can
  • 00:13:17
    take the action to go towards okay so
  • 00:13:20
    you have to have this mindset the most
  • 00:13:21
    unsuccessful people they have this
  • 00:13:23
    mindset like oh no that's too much risk
  • 00:13:25
    oh no I won't be able to do it oh no
  • 00:13:27
    they could do it but I couldn't do it
  • 00:13:28
    whatever
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    um yeah that's how you never try
  • 00:13:31
    anything and where do we end up then I
  • 00:13:34
    think the most beautiful thing in life
  • 00:13:36
    is trying new things then failing and
  • 00:13:38
    then trying something else like at least
  • 00:13:40
    you're living if you're not trying
  • 00:13:42
    anything and you're just following a
  • 00:13:45
    constant thing and not doing anything
  • 00:13:48
    outside of the box like how boring is
  • 00:13:50
    that okay this is a good one this is
  • 00:13:53
    have the wizard mindset okay what is the
  • 00:13:56
    wizard mindset the wizard mindset is
  • 00:13:58
    basically believing that you're a wizard
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    like like thinking you're a magician so
  • 00:14:03
    for example if you say like I want this
  • 00:14:05
    oh and you have it I genuinely believe
  • 00:14:09
    that anything I want will happen as long
  • 00:14:11
    as I accept my man to it it will happen
  • 00:14:13
    there is no other way I'm just a wizard
  • 00:14:16
    I am a wizard I want you guys to be
  • 00:14:18
    Wizards I want you guys to think of
  • 00:14:19
    yourself as I'm a wizard why should it
  • 00:14:22
    not happen I'm a wizard anything I asked
  • 00:14:25
    for I will receive if I ask God for
  • 00:14:27
    something I receive it I you know even
  • 00:14:28
    I'm so delusional I literally think okay
  • 00:14:30
    like tonight I'm gonna ask God like uh
  • 00:14:33
    first be thankful for everything that I
  • 00:14:35
    have I'm very grateful by the way I'm a
  • 00:14:37
    very grateful person and that's also why
  • 00:14:39
    I think that I keep attracting blessings
  • 00:14:40
    because I am grateful and so basically
  • 00:14:44
    then I thank God for everything I have
  • 00:14:46
    and then I say God please give me this
  • 00:14:47
    blah blah two days max two days max I
  • 00:14:50
    have it
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    without a doubt be willing to be cringy
  • 00:14:54
    okay listen I did something that goes
  • 00:14:57
    against my things I basically went uh
  • 00:14:59
    like a week ago uh I was searching
  • 00:15:01
    something and all of a sudden I saw like
  • 00:15:02
    a link of uh Reddit and it was about me
  • 00:15:04
    so I click on it of course read it
  • 00:15:06
    lovely place so many positive people
  • 00:15:09
    um and on the thing they were basically
  • 00:15:11
    saying that I am a narcissist I
  • 00:15:15
    encourage cheating and basically gold
  • 00:15:18
    digging to the core and uh then this uh
  • 00:15:21
    also compared me to like people that are
  • 00:15:24
    you know
  • 00:15:25
    and I was reading all the comments and
  • 00:15:27
    then everybody's like yeah she's so
  • 00:15:28
    cringy she's so like uh embarrassing she
  • 00:15:32
    so whatever blah blah and then I was
  • 00:15:34
    like oh no
  • 00:15:37
    that must have heard my lungs honey I
  • 00:15:40
    might be embarrassing but I'm paying my
  • 00:15:41
    mama's bills okay yeah I am literally
  • 00:15:45
    taking care of the people that I love
  • 00:15:47
    and I am able to do that because I am
  • 00:15:50
    embarrassing to you and what are you
  • 00:15:52
    doing just already yeah I don't like her
  • 00:15:55
    to be willing to be cringy yeah in life
  • 00:15:57
    when when we make certain changes when
  • 00:15:59
    we start changing how we allow people to
  • 00:16:02
    treat us when we start changing our
  • 00:16:03
    other appearance when we start like
  • 00:16:05
    doing anything really to level our life
  • 00:16:08
    up people will start telling you that
  • 00:16:10
    you're cringy or you're embarrassing or
  • 00:16:13
    you're doing too much like calm down and
  • 00:16:16
    it's like it's they're just speaking out
  • 00:16:17
    of jealousy like honestly you know
  • 00:16:19
    because they don't believe they can do
  • 00:16:20
    it themselves so you have to be willing
  • 00:16:22
    to take that little hit because at the
  • 00:16:25
    end it's gonna pay off thing is
  • 00:16:26
    sometimes you need to be alone to be
  • 00:16:29
    able to create your dream reality to be
  • 00:16:31
    able to level up why do I say this see
  • 00:16:34
    when you are an empathic person or
  • 00:16:36
    you're a highly sensitive person like I
  • 00:16:38
    am
  • 00:16:39
    um people like me We tend to when we we
  • 00:16:42
    are around people our natural default is
  • 00:16:44
    to help them even though they didn't ask
  • 00:16:46
    they didn't mean to we constantly want
  • 00:16:48
    to help them and we pour so much into
  • 00:16:50
    them and we do this even without
  • 00:16:51
    realizing yeah but what happens then is
  • 00:16:54
    we don't have energy left for ourselves
  • 00:16:56
    anymore so we are helping these people
  • 00:16:58
    create their reality we are helping
  • 00:17:00
    these people accomplish their dreams but
  • 00:17:02
    we are keep we are being drained so for
  • 00:17:05
    me I became so depressed whilst I was
  • 00:17:08
    doing that with my partner I've been
  • 00:17:10
    doing that for like the last eight
  • 00:17:11
    months with my partner
  • 00:17:14
    for like the last eight months with my
  • 00:17:16
    partner without even realizing it that I
  • 00:17:19
    was literally like okay I need to take a
  • 00:17:20
    step back like I literally need to be on
  • 00:17:23
    my own right now and I need to focus on
  • 00:17:26
    Liz and what this Liz wants and I swear
  • 00:17:28
    like the moment I started being on my
  • 00:17:30
    own like my creative ideas came back my
  • 00:17:34
    passion for my job came back even if you
  • 00:17:36
    see my other videos like I completely
  • 00:17:38
    lost passion for this and I love talking
  • 00:17:40
    to you guys I used to see you guys as
  • 00:17:42
    like my family and then it became like I
  • 00:17:45
    literally came to a point where I was
  • 00:17:47
    like I don't wanna I cannot even get
  • 00:17:49
    myself to film that just shows how much
  • 00:17:51
    of my energy was being drained and
  • 00:17:53
    that's why I'm saying sometimes you need
  • 00:17:55
    to be alone in order for you to create
  • 00:17:58
    that reality in order for you to get to
  • 00:18:01
    that next level another thing is start
  • 00:18:03
    unlearning what they taught you listen
  • 00:18:06
    start on learning what your parents
  • 00:18:08
    thought you start on learning with your
  • 00:18:09
    teachers talking start on learning what
  • 00:18:12
    your culture has taught you what they
  • 00:18:13
    were telling you was what was a reality
  • 00:18:16
    for them
  • 00:18:17
    in their life that's what what they
  • 00:18:20
    believe for themselves that doesn't have
  • 00:18:22
    to be your reality honey it doesn't have
  • 00:18:24
    to be you have the chance to do things
  • 00:18:26
    differently now you have the chance to
  • 00:18:29
    actually take your power and say like
  • 00:18:31
    okay
  • 00:18:33
    maybe that was your reality and that was
  • 00:18:35
    the reality I was born into but that's
  • 00:18:37
    not how I'm gonna leave this Earth I'm
  • 00:18:39
    Gonna Leave This Earth having lived my
  • 00:18:42
    reality and in reality I created for
  • 00:18:44
    myself and you cannot blame them for
  • 00:18:46
    teaching you those things because that's
  • 00:18:48
    the only thing they knew but you should
  • 00:18:50
    start educating yourself on your own
  • 00:18:53
    stuff create your own opinions about
  • 00:18:55
    life start to look out for yourself what
  • 00:18:58
    the best ways are to approach your life
  • 00:19:00
    and how you want to live it so you can
  • 00:19:02
    live it for like with yourself
  • 00:19:04
    authentically so you don't have to like
  • 00:19:06
    when when you're old like regret your
  • 00:19:08
    life because you feel like you live for
  • 00:19:10
    someone else no honey live for yourself
  • 00:19:12
    I promise you I promise you if someone
  • 00:19:15
    had told me this you're gonna you're
  • 00:19:17
    gonna be old yeah eight years old look
  • 00:19:19
    back at your life and say I live for
  • 00:19:21
    someone else I would have told them kill
  • 00:19:22
    me right now right now because that will
  • 00:19:26
    not be my reality don't let other people
  • 00:19:28
    influence your opinion see opinions
  • 00:19:30
    change we we constantly we're growing we
  • 00:19:32
    learn that's normal yeah but what I mean
  • 00:19:34
    by this is we are very influenced by
  • 00:19:36
    other people so this is normal because
  • 00:19:38
    our primates for uh we we literally
  • 00:19:40
    followed the crowd because we uh we
  • 00:19:43
    needed to stick together in order to
  • 00:19:45
    survive right but now what happens is
  • 00:19:47
    for example you watch a video right you
  • 00:19:49
    have an opinion about this video then
  • 00:19:51
    you start and you go through the
  • 00:19:52
    comments and you see totally different
  • 00:19:53
    opinion from the one you had and I use
  • 00:19:56
    your your opinion starts to get
  • 00:19:57
    influenced by them
  • 00:19:59
    you can't allow that to happen because
  • 00:20:01
    that just means that you're easily
  • 00:20:03
    manipulated what you can do is look at
  • 00:20:05
    other people's opinions look at what
  • 00:20:07
    they think that you should do or
  • 00:20:08
    whatever look at them and say like okay
  • 00:20:10
    that's your opinion you can have an
  • 00:20:12
    opinion but I rather stick to my own and
  • 00:20:15
    I try on my own and if I fail at it
  • 00:20:18
    whatever yeah then I learned from it but
  • 00:20:20
    it's my opinion and it's what I'm gonna
  • 00:20:22
    do ask to be guided ask for signs asks
  • 00:20:26
    for help from God I promise you I
  • 00:20:29
    promise you this works
  • 00:20:30
    this literally worked I've said this in
  • 00:20:33
    one of my videos about manifesting that
  • 00:20:34
    people should ask for Science and
  • 00:20:36
    literally I have my DMs were flirted
  • 00:20:38
    with people that did and they got so
  • 00:20:40
    many signs they they asked for to see
  • 00:20:42
    like this that and they they saw all
  • 00:20:43
    these things it's incredible you guys
  • 00:20:46
    need to start speaking to God or to a
  • 00:20:48
    higher source that you believe in like
  • 00:20:50
    when you guys like need something or
  • 00:20:52
    talk to them like a friend and say like
  • 00:20:54
    hey I need this like thank you so much
  • 00:20:56
    for providing me with everything that I
  • 00:20:58
    need you to help me with this please I
  • 00:21:00
    need you because like they will like
  • 00:21:02
    whoever you believe in they will help
  • 00:21:04
    you I promise you every friend that I've
  • 00:21:06
    told to do this everyone they were
  • 00:21:07
    shocked like Liz they were like this
  • 00:21:10
    advice is golden
  • 00:21:11
    look what I would suggest you ask is
  • 00:21:15
    God please give me whatever is meant for
  • 00:21:20
    my highest good God please remove people
  • 00:21:23
    that don't have the best intentions with
  • 00:21:25
    me from my life God please guide me
  • 00:21:29
    towards my path and show me signs of
  • 00:21:31
    what I need to do if you believe in the
  • 00:21:33
    universe you can ask the universe
  • 00:21:34
    whatever you believe in it doesn't have
  • 00:21:36
    to be God whatever but I promise you I
  • 00:21:38
    prompt you this works last but not least
  • 00:21:41
    is be disciplined okay you need to have
  • 00:21:46
    consistency over Perfection we don't
  • 00:21:50
    need Perfection nothing is perfect in
  • 00:21:53
    life yeah and if we're gonna strive for
  • 00:21:55
    Perfection We're not gonna get anywhere
  • 00:21:56
    you're not gonna do anything because the
  • 00:21:59
    the first business you create will not
  • 00:22:00
    be perfect the first person you ever
  • 00:22:02
    date will probably also not be perfect
  • 00:22:04
    the first gym session will probably not
  • 00:22:06
    be perfect but at least we have the
  • 00:22:08
    consistency to keep going because we're
  • 00:22:11
    not striving for Perfection we are
  • 00:22:13
    striving for consistency to eventually
  • 00:22:16
    get to our goal do not look at people
  • 00:22:18
    and think like oh my God they're at this
  • 00:22:20
    age they're so much further than me I
  • 00:22:21
    should have been there no honey it's you
  • 00:22:24
    versus you you do not look at these
  • 00:22:26
    other people the only way you look at
  • 00:22:28
    other people is if you want inspiration
  • 00:22:29
    from them and you're like okay fine like
  • 00:22:31
    if they can do it I can do it too but we
  • 00:22:33
    don't look and compare it and be like Oh
  • 00:22:35
    age this and that you never know what
  • 00:22:37
    what like God has for you you don't know
  • 00:22:39
    what it what is in store for you you
  • 00:22:41
    know so maybe you're thinking and things
  • 00:22:43
    like oh my life should be like complete
  • 00:22:45
    like this but you were meant to have a
  • 00:22:47
    much bigger life so you're limiting
  • 00:22:49
    yourself so only look at like little
  • 00:22:51
    Inspirations and like focus on you it's
  • 00:22:55
    you your dream person is you so I know
  • 00:22:58
    you guys can do it because literally
  • 00:23:01
    like I told you I'm not going to the top
  • 00:23:03
    alone honey I don't want to be there
  • 00:23:05
    unless you think like oh my God I have
  • 00:23:06
    no friends no no no no no I need my
  • 00:23:08
    little Wizards with me at the top and
  • 00:23:11
    we're gonna do this together we're gonna
  • 00:23:12
    heal together we're gonna level up
  • 00:23:14
    together we're gonna recognize our work
  • 00:23:16
    together
  • 00:23:17
    and we're just going to the next next
  • 00:23:19
    level thank you so much for watching
  • 00:23:20
    guys I love you guys so so so much and
  • 00:23:23
    yeah I see you in the next video bye-bye
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