How I Changed My ENTIRE Life in 1 Month with EXTREME Self Improvement

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概要

TLDRIn this video, Hamza shares his life-changing self-improvement protocol developed during the COVID lockdown. He emphasizes the importance of dopamine detoxing, which involves eliminating cheap dopamine sources like social media and junk food to reset the brain's reward system. Hamza outlines his focus on mental health through habits like meditation, journaling, and socializing, as well as a rigorous fitness routine that includes double exercise sessions and a clean diet. He also discusses the implementation of a military-style timetable to structure his day, enhancing productivity and discipline. Ultimately, Hamza's transformation led him to build a successful business and achieve a millionaire status, showcasing the power of consistent self-improvement efforts.

収穫

  • 💡 Dopamine detoxing can reset your brain's reward system.
  • 🧘‍♂️ Mental health practices like meditation and journaling are crucial.
  • 🏋️‍♂️ A double exercise routine enhances physical fitness.
  • 🍏 Eating whole, natural foods improves overall health.
  • 📅 A structured timetable boosts productivity and discipline.
  • 🚫 Eliminate bad dopamine habits to improve motivation.
  • 🤝 Socializing and playfulness contribute to mental well-being.
  • 📈 Consistent effort leads to significant life transformations.
  • 💪 Building a strong physique increases baseline happiness.
  • 💰 Self-improvement can lead to financial success.

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  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The speaker, Hamza, shares his life-changing self-improvement journey during the COVID lockdown, which led to a better physique, improved mental health, stronger family relationships, enhanced social skills, and business success. He introduces the concept of dopamine detoxing as a key element of his transformation.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Hamza explains dopamine detoxing, a method to reset the brain by avoiding overstimulation from modern distractions like social media and junk food. He emphasizes the importance of eliminating cheap dopamine sources and replacing them with healthier activities that boost motivation and happiness.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    He encourages viewers to identify their own bad dopamine habits and replace them with good ones, such as exercising, reading, and spending time outdoors. By doing so, individuals can raise their baseline happiness and overall well-being.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Hamza stresses the significance of cutting out bad habits and creating a vacuum for positive activities. He highlights the importance of effortful activities that provide healthy dopamine, which leads to increased motivation and desire to work towards goals.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    He shares his personal experience of transitioning from a negative mindset to a motivated one, focusing on mental health, fitness, and work. He lists transformative habits like meditation, journaling, and socializing that contribute to improved mental health and overall enjoyment of life.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    Hamza discusses the importance of fitness, advocating for a double exercise routine and a focus on clean eating. He emphasizes the benefits of consistent sleep and how these changes positively impacted his energy levels and physique.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:36:40

    Finally, he introduces the concept of a military-style timetable to structure daily activities, making it easier to follow through on self-improvement habits. He encourages viewers to create their own timetable to enhance productivity and achieve their goals.

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ビデオQ&A

  • What is dopamine detoxing?

    Dopamine detoxing involves reducing exposure to cheap dopamine sources like social media and junk food to reset your brain's reward system.

  • How did Hamza improve his mental health?

    He practiced meditation, journaling, playfulness, sunlight exposure, and socializing.

  • What fitness routine did Hamza follow?

    He engaged in double exercise sessions, combining resistance training with cardio, and focused on a clean diet.

  • What work habits did Hamza implement?

    He established a structured timetable for deep work sessions, focusing on his business.

  • How did Hamza's diet change?

    He shifted to eating whole, natural foods and eliminated processed foods.

  • What is the military timetable?

    It's a structured daily schedule that assigns specific tasks to each hour, promoting discipline and productivity.

  • What are some good dopamine habits?

    Good dopamine habits include exercising, reading, socializing, and engaging in productive activities.

  • What are some bad dopamine habits?

    Bad dopamine habits include excessive social media use, junk food consumption, and procrastination.

  • How did Hamza stop binge eating?

    He practiced mindfulness through meditation and improved his diet, which helped him recognize fullness better.

  • What is the importance of mental health in self-improvement?

    Improving mental health enhances overall enjoyment and fulfillment in life.

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    The self-improvement protocol that I
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    went on through the COVID lockdown
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    completely changed my life. I built the
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    best physique I had ever had. I
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    significantly improved my mental health,
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    my relationship with my family, my
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    social skills, and I started a business
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    that went on to turn me into a
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    millionaire. In this video, I'm going to
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    give you the exact protocol I went on
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    step by step so you can achieve a
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    transformation like this. If you don't
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    know me already, my name is Hamza and I
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    get young men onto self-improvement.
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    Let's start with the first major thing I
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    did to transform my life, which was
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    dopamine detoxing. So, back in 2020,
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    this was probably before you were ever
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    looking into the space, but there was a
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    trend that went viral where a ton of
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    people were talking about dopamine
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    detox. Basically, they were saying that
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    on Sundays, they would reset their brain
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    by going on a dopamine detox and doing
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    nothing fun for the entire day. The
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    thinking behind this is that you know
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    how the the modern world is just so
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    overstimulating with like the social
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    media content that we're scrolling off
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    and we're all like [ __ ] jacking off
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    and everything. And the idea is then if
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    we had one day per week where we didn't
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    do any of this and maybe we just kind of
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    sat around and we read books and we got
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    like healthy real dopamine it would kind
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    of reset our brain to a healthy level. I
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    heard that and I took it one step
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    further. Instead of just doing this one
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    day per week, I decided to do it 247. I
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    didn't like this [ __ ] mindset of like
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    thinking, yeah, you know, one day per
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    week, I can reset some of the damage
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    I've been doing by scrolling through the
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    week or anything. Just the same way,
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    bro. Look, if a fat guy ate junk food
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    six days a week and then on Sunday he
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    ate clean or he fasted on Sunday, you
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    he'd still be a [ __ ] fat ass, right?
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    So, my idea was, okay, there's dopamine
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    detoxing. I'm going to turn it into a
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    lifestyle. So, first of all, what is
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    dopamine? How does it even work?
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    Dopamine is kind of like our motivation
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    molecule. When you have the desire for
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    something, so the desire to go and fap,
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    the desire to eat junk food, the desire
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    to work hard and go to the gym, that
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    feeling of desire is dopamine. Dopamine
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    is like the feeling of wanting
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    something. The problem is when we get
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    bad dopamine from unhealthy things,
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    modern stimulating things, when we get
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    cheap dopamine, like for example, we
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    look at porn instead of the hard
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    dopamine which is going up to speak to a
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    girl, it tanks your dopamine level after
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    you got that little surge. So, for
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    example, if we start thinking about what
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    watching porn, our dopamine will go up
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    because we're in anticipation of
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    watching porn and masturbating. But the
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    moment we've done that and our dopamine
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    goes up, we will plateau even below the
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    baseline we were at beforehand. This is
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    how people get into depression and ruts.
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    If this is our baseline, but then you
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    eat junk food, the dopamine goes up
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    whilst you're thinking about junk food,
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    but then afterwards the dopamine is
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    lower than the baseline. So you're low,
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    you've got a new baseline. Then you go
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    and watch porn. So the dopamine spikes
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    up, but then it goes lower than before.
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    So you've got a new baseline and lower
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    and lower and lower. This is why almost
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    everyone, you know, has like symptoms of
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    some kind of depression or rut or
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    emotional instability because they keep
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    just driving their feelings of desire
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    because they keep just driving the
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    dopamine levels so so low. And now these
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    same people don't have motivation for
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    anything. Like if you've ever felt like
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    it's so hard to motivate yourself to
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    even want to like get rich or build a
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    body or something, it's in seasons where
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    you've just fried your dopamine
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    receptors and you've destroyed that
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    ability to want. The idea of a dopamine
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    detox is that we stop doing all these
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    cheap dopamines that take us below our
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    our baseline and we start getting
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    healthy real dopamine like for example
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    from hard workouts and sunlight and
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    social connection and laughter and
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    making a business or studying. So this
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    is exactly what I did and make sure you
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    pay attention because this is the most
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    important part of this video. I decided
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    to just live like I was on a dopamine
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    detox. Not one day per week, but every
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    day. I made a rule for myself, which was
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    no cheap dopamine. I went on to
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    Instagram and I unfollowed everyone on
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    there. I went on to Snapchat and I
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    deleted my accounts. I went app by app
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    and I just removed all that [ __ ]
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    [ __ ] from my life. I stopped
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    watching random YouTube videos that felt
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    productive, but I knew that I was just
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    watching it to just procrastinate. I
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    stopped listening to music throughout
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    the day. Like I would usually listen to
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    music when I was just like sitting
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    around doing nothing. And I said I was
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    only allowed to listen to music when I
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    would go to the gym. So my entire life
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    became kind of like a dopamine detox. It
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    wasn't 100% strict. I probably still had
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    some things that were giving me like
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    dopamine of course, but it was basically
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    like I cut out all of the bad habits
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    instantly. And I started being super
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    vigilant of what the bad dopamines were,
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    which I think all of us kind of
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    understand what what a bad dopamine
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    would be and what a good dopamine would
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    be. It's not very scientific to say bad
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    or good. It's the same kind of dopamine,
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    I guess, but like you you understand
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    what I mean by that, right? So, you've
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    got to think right now to yourself if
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    you want to create the self-improvement
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    transformation. What are some of the bad
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    dopamines in your
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    life? And then what are some of the good
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    ones? My plan was to drastically do more
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    of the good dopamine habits like
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    exercising, reading, just thinking
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    deeply, sitting out in the sun, speaking
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    with my mother, going for walks and
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    runs, and doing way less of the bad
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    dopamine habits. Because the beautiful
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    thing with doing the good dopamine
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    habits like working out and studying is
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    that your baseline happiness goes up and
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    up and up. How many times have you like
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    looked at my bicep veins in this
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    video? Imagine if you woke up and this
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    is what your physique looks like at
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    rest. You can imagine your baseline
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    happiness is going to be pretty [ __ ]
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    good when you've already built a
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    physique that you're proud of. The same
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    with like a business or imagine you just
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    got like um you've been studying really
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    hard every day. Your routine's been
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    awesome. Your diet's been clean. You're
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    sleeping so well. Of course, bro, your
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    your baseline happiness is going to be
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    so high because you're living like a
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    healthy, happy, normal human being. So,
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    that's the powerful thing of a dopamine
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    detox. And online, I see people [ __ ] on
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    it and say, "Oh, but it's not actually
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    scientific." It's like, "Yeah, who gives
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    a [ __ ] Ah, it's not." Yeah, bro. Have I
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    ever tried to tell you that I'm some
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    [ __ ] scientist or something? Of
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    course, it's not like some scientific
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    thing of dopamine, whatever. Like, you
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    know, the nerds will tell you. Actually,
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    it works like this. I'm telling you how
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    it works in the real world, not just in
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    data and in science. How it works in the
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    real world. When you get rid of the
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    [ __ ] bad habits, which you know what
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    they are in your life, and you get rid
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    of that last little bit, the last 10 20%
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    which you've kept in all this time, the
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    last 10 20% in your diet, the last 10
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    20% in your routine, you know how you're
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    like slacking off just a little bit. You
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    know exactly which habit it is for you.
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    And you keep coping every few days. You
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    cope and you say it's okay. When you
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    finally get rid of that, you will feel
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    such a big difference in your overall
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    happiness and it will be so
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    transformative. You have to throw the
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    toys away. You're not a [ __ ] boy
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    anymore. You have to throw away, you
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    know, the [ __ ] one hour of video game
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    a day or the [ __ ] shitty junk food
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    that you're eating or whatever. You've
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    got to get rid of that last little bit,
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    the bad dopamine that you're keeping in
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    your life. And then it creates this
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    vacuum of space where you can sit and
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    think, okay, what good dopamine thing
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    should I be doing right now? What's
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    something hard but that's
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    worthwhile? Maybe you go exercise twice
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    per day, which is completely healthy to
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    do. So maybe you do one weightlifting
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    session and one martial arts session or
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    one weightlifting session and one cardio
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    session or something. Maybe you do some
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    mobility, some stretching. Maybe you
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    start actually reading consistently and
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    you start reading a book every single
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    week. These are things that are still
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    technically giving you dopamine, but
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    that's coming from a way way way
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    healthier place. And there's levels of
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    difficulty and pain that's associated
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    with the good dopamine like the the
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    dopamine from from a workout. There's
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    pain and discomfort involved in that.
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    There's growth, there's mindset, there's
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    like, you know, these setbacks and and
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    you have to get ready and get changed
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    and go outside. There's effort. When we
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    do something that's effortful, we get
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    healthy dopamine that makes our life
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    better. And here's the interesting
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    thing. The reason why this is important,
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    think about it. Like I'm telling you to
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    have less fun in the day. Right? Why am
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    I telling you that this is a good idea?
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    Because when you do this and you get the
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    healthy dopamine, you will have more
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    motivation and desire in your life. Like
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    I know that motivation is [ __ ] on in the
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    self-improvement industry. People like
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    all the [ __ ] NPCs love to be like,
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    "Ah, [ __ ] motivation." and discipline.
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    [ __ ] you. People love to like talk like
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    this, bro. Anyone who's not a [ __ ]
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    [ __ ] will tell you the exact same
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    thing. Motivation is [ __ ] awesome. To
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    be motivated and enjoy and and and to
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    want to do the hard work is [ __ ]
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    awesome. Don't you be a [ __ ] NPC. All
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    those [ __ ] retards will be commenting
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    like motivation is a myth and discipline
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    like I'm more disciplined than all these
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    [ __ ] who say this [ __ ] And I'm
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    telling you right now, motivation is
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    still [ __ ] awesome to have. When
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    you're motivated, you feel like doing
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    the work. If you wake up and you feel
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    like going to the gym, that's [ __ ]
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    awesome. If you wake up and you feel
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    like working, that's [ __ ] awesome.
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    Now, of course, we don't want to rely on
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    that. When we don't feel like it, we
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    should go anyway. That's when discipline
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    comes in. But if you can have the desire
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    to go to the gym and to work hard and
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    eat clean, that's [ __ ] awesome. It
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    just means that your life experience is
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    just more pleasant. We want more of
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    that. When you do the healthy dopamine
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    activities and you cut out the bad
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    dopamine activities, this is literally
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    what's going to happen. You'll wake up
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    and you'll literally feel like wanting
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    to work. You know, sometimes like, you
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    know, you've got to work, but you don't
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    want to do it. You know, you've got to
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    go to the gym today, but you don't want
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    to. You know, sometimes it's like that.
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    How nice is it on those days where you
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    actually want to go to the gym? How nice
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    is it on those days when you wake up and
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    you actually want to sit down and work?
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    You do 10 times more, right? So,
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    motivation's so helpful. And this with
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    the dopamine detoxing is how I actually
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    became like a motivated person. This
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    changed my life forever. I literally
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    went from like a weed addicted little
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    degenerate little junkie like most young
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    people complaining about like, oh yeah,
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    the rich people are all scammers and
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    whatever to getting so motivated to
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    wanting to build a business. And that's
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    when I started to take this YouTube
  • 00:10:33
    channel seriously. I started to really
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    like, you know, become more of a
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    professional and upload videos more
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    consistently. And then that retired my
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    family and changed my life forever. Now
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    let's cover the exact habits that I did
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    during this really really intense
  • 00:10:47
    self-improvement period because there
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    was three main areas of life that I
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    focused on. There was mental health,
  • 00:10:55
    fitness, basically physical health and
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    work. For mental health, I did a list of
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    habits which I still recommend to this
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    day because they were so transformative
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    for me.
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    meditation,
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    journaling, playfulness, sunlight,
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    socializing. These are habits that I I
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    would push anyone who's watching this to
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    get into. Even if you're a little bit
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    confused that how it works, how do you
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    meditate? Is it worthwhile to journal?
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    What do you mean about playfulness? I
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    just want to make money. Whatever. If
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    there's anything holding you back from
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    doing these, I tell you, it just makes
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    your life feel better overall. Now, you
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    watch my videos and the thing is you
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    probably have this idea that I'm like
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    this like extreme disciplined guy who
  • 00:11:39
    doesn't care about how he feels and he
  • 00:11:41
    just does the work and whatever. Maybe
  • 00:11:42
    you think that of me, but I still am a
  • 00:11:45
    big like pusher of like if we can have
  • 00:11:48
    an enjoyable life experience, that's a
  • 00:11:50
    good thing. Of course it is. When you
  • 00:11:53
    improve your mental health, you
  • 00:11:55
    literally just get to have more fun in
  • 00:11:57
    the day. Like just think about that.
  • 00:11:59
    Like imagine if you could just have like
  • 00:12:01
    a a multiplier on your fun, on your
  • 00:12:04
    enjoyment of life. That would how much
  • 00:12:07
    would you pay for that? Like millions of
  • 00:12:09
    dollars, right? Millions of if you could
  • 00:12:11
    just be 25% like more fulfilled and
  • 00:12:14
    happy and joyful in life. That's
  • 00:12:16
    literally worth millions of dollars.
  • 00:12:19
    That's what improving your mental health
  • 00:12:20
    does. So when you meditate, yeah, it
  • 00:12:22
    takes 10 minutes and it feels kind of
  • 00:12:24
    uncomfortable. you're building this
  • 00:12:26
    thing that I would value at millions of
  • 00:12:28
    dollars. Like what is there to life if
  • 00:12:30
    not for like [ __ ] enjoying your
  • 00:12:32
    existence here? If you're not enjoying
  • 00:12:34
    your existence, like what's the point on
  • 00:12:36
    [ __ ] existing, right? So mental
  • 00:12:38
    health is is what safeguards your
  • 00:12:41
    enjoyment because there's lots of people
  • 00:12:43
    who have
  • 00:12:45
    everything. They have the money, they
  • 00:12:48
    have the fitness, they have the women,
  • 00:12:51
    and they just don't have their mental
  • 00:12:53
    health. and now they're depressed and
  • 00:12:55
    even though they've got all those
  • 00:12:57
    things, they don't even like their
  • 00:12:59
    lives. What's the
  • 00:13:01
    point? So, that became the biggest
  • 00:13:04
    priority for me in this season. I
  • 00:13:06
    realized just how important mental
  • 00:13:07
    health was. And that I had never even
  • 00:13:09
    had like a single lesson on on how do
  • 00:13:11
    you improve mental health? Because the
  • 00:13:13
    thing is, you don't improve mental
  • 00:13:15
    health through the [ __ ] that you see
  • 00:13:17
    on Tik Tok, which is like therapy or
  • 00:13:19
    some gay [ __ ] like that. You know how
  • 00:13:20
    like there's so many Tik Tok girls who
  • 00:13:21
    say like, "Oh yeah, everyone should go
  • 00:13:23
    to therapy." [ __ ] you. That's such a
  • 00:13:24
    [ __ ] like, bro. For women, therapy
  • 00:13:27
    can be okay. Most of the time, it's
  • 00:13:29
    still a waste of time. For men, holy
  • 00:13:32
    [ __ ] don't be a [ __ ] [ __ ] going to
  • 00:13:34
    therapy. Holy [ __ ] that's gay as [ __ ]
  • 00:13:36
    Therapy does not work for men. You don't
  • 00:13:39
    need a therapist. You need an angry
  • 00:13:41
    [ __ ] drill sergeant [ __ ] who
  • 00:13:44
    slaps you in the face and says, "Stop
  • 00:13:45
    being a [ __ ] and lose some [ __ ]
  • 00:13:46
    weight." You don't need someone to sit
  • 00:13:48
    there like a [ __ ] gay little
  • 00:13:50
    professional and to listen to you yap
  • 00:13:52
    like a little [ __ ] You need someone
  • 00:13:53
    who's more like a coach, like an
  • 00:13:55
    aggressive friend who tells you, "Bro,
  • 00:13:56
    [ __ ] that [ __ ] Let's go to the gym.
  • 00:13:58
    Who cares if she cheated on you? Let's
  • 00:13:59
    go to the gym instead. Bro, why are you
  • 00:14:01
    acting like a [ __ ] You said you had
  • 00:14:02
    this goal. Come on. Let's [ __ ] work
  • 00:14:04
    on our businesses today." Men do not
  • 00:14:06
    benefit from having like like the
  • 00:14:08
    motherly figure who sits there and
  • 00:14:10
    listens to your problems. That's that's
  • 00:14:12
    complete and utter retardation. Men
  • 00:14:14
    literally biologically do not benefit
  • 00:14:16
    from talking about their problems. We
  • 00:14:19
    benefit from what? What is it? What's
  • 00:14:21
    the one thing that men benefit
  • 00:14:23
    from? Action. Doing [ __ ] that fixes the
  • 00:14:27
    problem. When you know, like you've
  • 00:14:29
    probably heard this before, when a woman
  • 00:14:30
    comes and complains to you about
  • 00:14:32
    something, most of the time she doesn't
  • 00:14:34
    actually want you to solve her problem.
  • 00:14:36
    She just wants to complain. For women,
  • 00:14:38
    it's therapeutic when they talk about
  • 00:14:40
    their problems. For men, it's not. If if
  • 00:14:43
    a guy comes up to you and says like,
  • 00:14:44
    "Oh, man, I'm fat." You don't think to
  • 00:14:46
    yourself, "Oh, yeah, he just needs to
  • 00:14:47
    talk." Yeah. And how does that make you
  • 00:14:49
    feel? You don't ask questions like that.
  • 00:14:50
    You literally will start thinking,
  • 00:14:51
    "Okay, are you going to the gym? What's
  • 00:14:53
    your diet?" Like, you you start looking
  • 00:14:54
    for a [ __ ] solution, right?
  • 00:14:56
    Genetically, that's not like some
  • 00:14:57
    pre-programmed [ __ ] or anything like
  • 00:14:59
    that like all these leftist [ __ ]
  • 00:15:00
    weird liberals like to believe. That's
  • 00:15:02
    just what men are genetically like. We
  • 00:15:04
    are solutionorientated. We don't talk
  • 00:15:06
    about our [ __ ] feelings unless if
  • 00:15:08
    there's a solution for it. That's why a
  • 00:15:10
    therapist is [ __ ] because therapy
  • 00:15:12
    does not give you a solution. It just
  • 00:15:14
    encourages you to keep talking about it
  • 00:15:15
    like a [ __ ] [ __ ] You don't need to
  • 00:15:18
    talk about your [ __ ] problems. You
  • 00:15:20
    need to take action on it. If you've got
  • 00:15:22
    bad mental health, [ __ ] stop
  • 00:15:23
    doing the thing that's ruining your
  • 00:15:24
    mental health. You scroll for 3 hours a
  • 00:15:27
    day, you [ __ ] lunatic. If you feel
  • 00:15:28
    depressed, it's because you're a piece
  • 00:15:30
    of [ __ ] [ __ ] who's not being
  • 00:15:31
    productive. Of course you feel depressed
  • 00:15:33
    when your parents are [ __ ]
  • 00:15:35
    disappointed in you because you are a
  • 00:15:37
    [ __ ] grown ass man. You're 18 years
  • 00:15:38
    old now and you're a [ __ ] locust to
  • 00:15:41
    your family. You're a leech. Of course
  • 00:15:43
    you feel depressed when you don't have
  • 00:15:44
    like a a clear path of life in front of
  • 00:15:48
    you. You don't have a clear vehicle for
  • 00:15:49
    for your work or your career. Of course
  • 00:15:51
    you feel depressed because you're a
  • 00:15:53
    [ __ ] little [ __ ] Now, here's the
  • 00:15:54
    thing. You can keep talking, "Oh, guys,
  • 00:15:56
    I feel depressed." That's not going to
  • 00:15:57
    do [ __ ] You could actually fix this
  • 00:16:00
    problem by working hard, by choosing a a
  • 00:16:02
    vehicle for your work, like for your
  • 00:16:04
    career or a business, and making
  • 00:16:05
    progress in it. Oh, I feel depressed
  • 00:16:07
    because I've got, you know, body issues.
  • 00:16:09
    I I don't feel so attractive. You're not
  • 00:16:11
    a [ __ ] girl. There's no body
  • 00:16:13
    positivity for men, you [ __ ] [ __ ]
  • 00:16:15
    It's only for women. That this body
  • 00:16:16
    positivity thing, all this feel good at
  • 00:16:18
    every size. That's for women, you
  • 00:16:20
    [ __ ] [ __ ] For guys, we there's no
  • 00:16:22
    [ __ ] body positivity. It the the the
  • 00:16:25
    [ __ ] action step is go to the [ __ ]
  • 00:16:27
    gym, you fat [ __ ] That's as
  • 00:16:29
    serious as it is. You need to understand
  • 00:16:31
    this right now with mental health. Do
  • 00:16:34
    not fall for this modernday Tik Tok kind
  • 00:16:36
    of [ __ ] Mental health is improved
  • 00:16:38
    through cause and effect. It is as
  • 00:16:41
    simple as that. You are depressed
  • 00:16:43
    because you are being an [ __ ] to
  • 00:16:45
    yourself and there's something you are
  • 00:16:47
    voluntarily doing which is causing you
  • 00:16:49
    to be depressed. If you stop doing that,
  • 00:16:51
    you will stop being depressed. It's as
  • 00:16:52
    simple as that. That's why in in the
  • 00:16:54
    things I listed out to you as mental
  • 00:16:55
    health habits. One of them was
  • 00:16:57
    playfulness. Do you remember how joyful
  • 00:16:59
    we used to be as kids, right? And the
  • 00:17:01
    concept of depression didn't even exist.
  • 00:17:03
    We used to climb trees and jump over
  • 00:17:06
    puddles. Be honest. Be completely
  • 00:17:08
    honest.
  • 00:17:10
    Do you know when you last climbed a
  • 00:17:12
    tree? Be honest. Like, do you even
  • 00:17:14
    remember what year it was
  • 00:17:17
    in? Maybe five, 10, something crazy
  • 00:17:21
    years ago, right? We used to go to the
  • 00:17:24
    park with our families or with our
  • 00:17:26
    friends. Like what, five times a week?
  • 00:17:29
    And we used to make up games. We used to
  • 00:17:30
    do adventurous [ __ ] like children like,
  • 00:17:32
    you know, jump over the puddle and
  • 00:17:34
    challenge each other to like ride really
  • 00:17:35
    fast on our bikes. And guess what? This
  • 00:17:37
    is a big [ __ ] lesson. And it's going
  • 00:17:38
    to sound so obvious. You're never
  • 00:17:41
    supposed to stop living like that. You
  • 00:17:44
    know how kids live. Adults should be
  • 00:17:46
    living similarly to that as well. Not
  • 00:17:48
    all the time. Of course, now we've got
  • 00:17:50
    responsibilities. Now you've got to
  • 00:17:51
    watch out for the [ __ ] like predators
  • 00:17:53
    basically if we were all animals and the
  • 00:17:54
    little cub gets to play. But if you're
  • 00:17:56
    like the big grown lion, you have to
  • 00:17:57
    still, you know, be careful. But you
  • 00:17:59
    still need to enter that playful mode.
  • 00:18:02
    Most young adults and most adults in in
  • 00:18:04
    general completely they turn about 15
  • 00:18:07
    years old when your hormones kick in,
  • 00:18:09
    puberty, now you just want to [ __ ]
  • 00:18:10
    [ __ ] ejaculate. And then you just
  • 00:18:12
    stop because you're like, "Oh, that's a
  • 00:18:13
    bit cringe. I don't want to be seen as a
  • 00:18:15
    child anymore." So, you go through this
  • 00:18:16
    bell curve where one, you're a child
  • 00:18:18
    with good mental health. Two, you're
  • 00:18:20
    basically a modern-day adult with
  • 00:18:21
    depression and Tik Tok brain and
  • 00:18:23
    whatever. And three, most people stay
  • 00:18:25
    there, by the way. You're probably one
  • 00:18:26
    of these guys just staying there. But
  • 00:18:27
    number three, for a very small
  • 00:18:29
    percentage of adults, you start acting
  • 00:18:31
    like a child again for a good few hours
  • 00:18:32
    a day. You laugh with your friends. You
  • 00:18:34
    make jokes. You wrestle your friends and
  • 00:18:37
    you kind of like have little play fights
  • 00:18:38
    with them. You you tell jokes to each
  • 00:18:40
    other. You tell stories. You lie out in
  • 00:18:43
    the sunlight. You jump into the pool.
  • 00:18:45
    You try and learn to do like a front
  • 00:18:46
    flip into the pool or something. It's
  • 00:18:48
    these things that that safeguard you
  • 00:18:50
    from bad mental health. And no one our
  • 00:18:52
    age does them. So, you need to come up
  • 00:18:54
    with a few ways that you can
  • 00:18:56
    consistently add this into your
  • 00:18:58
    schedule. Go climb [ __ ] trees. Now,
  • 00:19:01
    the thing is that sounds cringe and it
  • 00:19:03
    sounds it sounds like nice, but then it
  • 00:19:04
    sounds like impractical cuz are you
  • 00:19:06
    really going to go out and climb a tree?
  • 00:19:08
    So, what I did for this was I bought
  • 00:19:10
    this uh this gym equipment called
  • 00:19:12
    gymnastic rings. Like you can go on
  • 00:19:14
    Amazon and have a look gymnastic rings
  • 00:19:16
    where you put it up on a tree and
  • 00:19:17
    basically you can exercise on a tree
  • 00:19:18
    like you can do pull-ups and dips and
  • 00:19:20
    all these calisthenics movements and
  • 00:19:22
    that naturally just meant that I was
  • 00:19:24
    like basically playing in the forest
  • 00:19:26
    every day during COVID and I was
  • 00:19:28
    learning all these cool tricks you know
  • 00:19:29
    like you're trying to attempt something
  • 00:19:31
    like I would do like handstand on this
  • 00:19:32
    like random ring thing and you know you
  • 00:19:34
    fall sometimes and you're like laughing
  • 00:19:36
    oh man that was close whatever and
  • 00:19:38
    people would walk past me and little
  • 00:19:39
    kids would always run up and literally
  • 00:19:41
    run up and ask if they could play on it
  • 00:19:42
    as Also, I'd let them, you know, it was
  • 00:19:44
    always funny and stuff and like old guys
  • 00:19:45
    would walk up and say, "Oh, wow." Like,
  • 00:19:47
    look at this young man who's working out
  • 00:19:49
    and stuff that added the playfulness to
  • 00:19:51
    my life. So, I'd recommend that to you.
  • 00:19:53
    Get something which doesn't seem like
  • 00:19:56
    you're going to get shamed for it or it
  • 00:19:58
    doesn't seem cringe. So, maybe like some
  • 00:20:00
    some exercise related thing, but that
  • 00:20:03
    feels like play and add that into your
  • 00:20:05
    life. Then those other habits that I
  • 00:20:07
    mentioned, meditation, journaling, I
  • 00:20:09
    mentioned them loads in my in my videos,
  • 00:20:11
    so you should know by now like what to
  • 00:20:13
    do with them. Start them. Even if you've
  • 00:20:15
    got this idea where you're like, "Oh,
  • 00:20:17
    I'm not too sure if this is actually
  • 00:20:19
    helpful or not." I give you my word that
  • 00:20:21
    it absolutely is. The second area of
  • 00:20:23
    life where I added habits in was with
  • 00:20:24
    fitness. The big thing I added here was
  • 00:20:27
    a double exercise session. So during
  • 00:20:30
    this period of extreme self-improvement,
  • 00:20:32
    this was huge for me, and I want to push
  • 00:20:34
    you for this. If you're watching this
  • 00:20:35
    right now, you're pretty extreme on
  • 00:20:37
    self-improvement. I'm telling you right
  • 00:20:38
    now, almost no one else you know watches
  • 00:20:40
    content like this. Like imagine everyone
  • 00:20:43
    from your high school class, every not
  • 00:20:45
    even from your class, but of the year
  • 00:20:46
    group. You know, there's 100 or 300
  • 00:20:48
    people there. I guarantee you are
  • 00:20:50
    probably the only person of those entire
  • 00:20:53
    year group who actually watches like
  • 00:20:56
    this level advanced like
  • 00:20:57
    self-improvement content. Everyone has
  • 00:20:59
    seen, you know, Andrew Tate reels or
  • 00:21:00
    whatever. Okay, sure. There's no one who
  • 00:21:02
    literally sits down and watches like
  • 00:21:04
    this long form how to fix your life type
  • 00:21:06
    of videos. It's it's quite a remarkable
  • 00:21:08
    thing, right? By that, the point I'm
  • 00:21:10
    making is since you are so extreme on
  • 00:21:13
    this, wouldn't it be likely that you
  • 00:21:15
    should also follow a bit of an extreme
  • 00:21:17
    protocol with fitness as well? All of
  • 00:21:21
    the fitness advice that you've heard so
  • 00:21:23
    far is only about what's called
  • 00:21:25
    resistance training. Basically, you
  • 00:21:27
    know, in the gym building the muscle,
  • 00:21:28
    okay? And you've heard, okay, go to the
  • 00:21:31
    gym three to five times a week,
  • 00:21:32
    whatever. What you're not hearing is
  • 00:21:34
    that is to go to the gym and lift
  • 00:21:36
    weights three to five times a week, but
  • 00:21:38
    we're supposed to be active for maybe
  • 00:21:40
    about 20 hours a week. You can do three
  • 00:21:44
    to five workouts for weightlifting short
  • 00:21:46
    or calisthenics. Nice. But you should do
  • 00:21:48
    another one hour per day, like an extra
  • 00:21:50
    workout on top of that. And trust me, if
  • 00:21:53
    you do that, you will feel [ __ ]
  • 00:21:54
    awesome. So this was the first time in
  • 00:21:56
    my life where yeah I was doing the sort
  • 00:21:58
    of resistance training like I started
  • 00:22:00
    using those gymnastic rings and I had
  • 00:22:01
    like a little gym in my my garage
  • 00:22:03
    because it was the lockdown so all the
  • 00:22:05
    gyms were closed but I started to do a
  • 00:22:08
    ton of extra cardio as well. Not for the
  • 00:22:10
    bodybuilding thing of like you know
  • 00:22:11
    losing fat whatever but just for the
  • 00:22:13
    discipline exercise of like you know it
  • 00:22:15
    was like David Gogggins he was going
  • 00:22:17
    viral during this time and it was this
  • 00:22:18
    mindset like yeah you know just
  • 00:22:19
    discipline yourself just challenge
  • 00:22:20
    yourself. So I would wake up at 5 and I
  • 00:22:22
    would go for runs in the dark. I'd do
  • 00:22:24
    sprints. I'd bring a weighted backpack
  • 00:22:26
    with like with weight inside of it and
  • 00:22:28
    go for jog with that. So, it felt like I
  • 00:22:30
    was like this disciplined like marine
  • 00:22:31
    like army like soldier or something. And
  • 00:22:34
    that was [ __ ] awesome because one, I
  • 00:22:36
    got lean as well. It was the leanest I
  • 00:22:38
    had been in my life so far. My physique
  • 00:22:39
    looked great, which was nice. But two,
  • 00:22:41
    it was like the first time where I
  • 00:22:43
    really felt like such a disciplined guy.
  • 00:22:45
    Along with that, I really improved my
  • 00:22:47
    diet as well. And I never realized
  • 00:22:49
    before this just how much your diet
  • 00:22:52
    changes how you feel cuz I had always
  • 00:22:55
    ate for muscle mass. Like you probably
  • 00:22:57
    if you watch this, you've probably
  • 00:22:58
    watched a ton of those fitness videos
  • 00:23:00
    which tell you, yeah, you know, you
  • 00:23:01
    should eat like this protein and
  • 00:23:03
    whatever. But this was the first time
  • 00:23:05
    where instead of just thinking about
  • 00:23:06
    calories for my macros and whatever, I
  • 00:23:09
    started to actually think about
  • 00:23:11
    nutrients and what food was really
  • 00:23:13
    actually healthy. So, I cut out
  • 00:23:15
    basically all processed food and I just
  • 00:23:18
    started to eat like natural like like
  • 00:23:20
    real food basically instead of eating
  • 00:23:22
    like French fries and like you know
  • 00:23:24
    ultrarocessed garbage but saying oh but
  • 00:23:25
    it's 300 calories it's fine cuz that's
  • 00:23:27
    so [ __ ] when you think about it when
  • 00:23:29
    you're eating like some labmade [ __ ]
  • 00:23:31
    chocolate thing and it's like yeah it's
  • 00:23:33
    it's the calories you needed fine but
  • 00:23:35
    it's like it's obviously not [ __ ]
  • 00:23:36
    real food. It's got weird [ __ ] cancer
  • 00:23:38
    chemicals in there. I started to eat
  • 00:23:40
    real food. Like I would eat salmon and
  • 00:23:42
    potatoes and this and this like real
  • 00:23:44
    things that you know that our ancestors
  • 00:23:46
    ate as well. And I felt so much better.
  • 00:23:49
    Like I had never felt this good in my
  • 00:23:52
    life before where before this I'd have
  • 00:23:54
    like stomach pain a few times a week and
  • 00:23:56
    I you know just feel kind of tired and
  • 00:23:58
    whatever. But when I started to eat
  • 00:23:59
    clean I noticed my energy shot up. I
  • 00:24:01
    started being able to exercise more. My
  • 00:24:03
    my physique started to look so much
  • 00:24:05
    better as well. And I didn't binge eat a
  • 00:24:08
    single time during this time. The
  • 00:24:11
    problem with the ultrarocessed foods,
  • 00:24:13
    even if you eat the right calories, is
  • 00:24:14
    you're more likely to overeat just
  • 00:24:16
    because of how ultra palatable it is.
  • 00:24:18
    And it's been made to hijack like your
  • 00:24:20
    your animalistic tendency of like
  • 00:24:22
    wanting to eat to conserve your your uh
  • 00:24:26
    survival
  • 00:24:27
    basically. So I stopped binge eating
  • 00:24:30
    completely. And I swear the reason why I
  • 00:24:32
    stopped binge eating here was because I
  • 00:24:35
    was meditating. When you meditate, it
  • 00:24:39
    lets
  • 00:24:39
    you
  • 00:24:41
    it it makes you better at those
  • 00:24:44
    momentary decisions like whether you
  • 00:24:46
    should eat that thing or not. It makes
  • 00:24:50
    you better at when you are eating
  • 00:24:51
    something that's bad for you. It lets
  • 00:24:54
    you kind of put it away. You know how
  • 00:24:55
    sometimes like if you're the type of
  • 00:24:56
    person who binge eats, you have this
  • 00:24:58
    uncontrollable hunger when you're eating
  • 00:25:00
    something or not even a hunger but just
  • 00:25:02
    this this locust kind of energy of
  • 00:25:04
    eating something but you can't stop and
  • 00:25:06
    you know some people in your life who
  • 00:25:07
    they eat the same thing as you and you
  • 00:25:09
    see them eat it slowly and they put it
  • 00:25:11
    aside and you've always been a bit
  • 00:25:13
    confused. How do people not finish the
  • 00:25:15
    entire bag of like sweets or whatever
  • 00:25:16
    like when we do? It's with being more
  • 00:25:19
    mindful. When you're mindful, it's kind
  • 00:25:22
    of like this the sign of being full and
  • 00:25:24
    satisfied is louder. And my sign
  • 00:25:28
    originally, like genetically was very
  • 00:25:30
    low, so I could eat. And I'd kind of
  • 00:25:32
    know I was full and sickly, but I would
  • 00:25:34
    just keep going anyway. But when I would
  • 00:25:36
    meditate, it became so much clear that
  • 00:25:38
    it wasn't even like a discipline thing.
  • 00:25:39
    It was just like, okay, like I actually
  • 00:25:40
    don't really want anymore now. And so I
  • 00:25:42
    completely stopped binge eating from
  • 00:25:44
    that point, which was remarkable for me
  • 00:25:46
    because I used to binge eat like every
  • 00:25:48
    week, every three, four days. I'd binge
  • 00:25:50
    eat. I'd eat everything that was in
  • 00:25:52
    like, you know, the drawers that your
  • 00:25:53
    mother buys in there like um little old
  • 00:25:56
    snacks and [ __ ] I'd eat everything like
  • 00:25:58
    a [ __ ] like little locust in the
  • 00:25:59
    fridge, whatever. I'd eat like thousands
  • 00:26:01
    of extra calories and then feel like
  • 00:26:03
    [ __ ] And this was the first time that I
  • 00:26:04
    stopped that because of meditation,
  • 00:26:06
    because I was exercising more. I was
  • 00:26:08
    eating more clean foods. And the other
  • 00:26:09
    habit that I did inside of fitness was
  • 00:26:11
    consistent sleep. So, I heard how
  • 00:26:13
    important sleep was. And before this
  • 00:26:16
    point, I was always just a little bit
  • 00:26:18
    like, eh, whatever. I don't really care.
  • 00:26:20
    So, I would go out late. I would stay up
  • 00:26:22
    late with girls or partying or drinking
  • 00:26:24
    or whatever. And sometimes I'd stay up
  • 00:26:26
    late just playing video games or
  • 00:26:28
    something ridiculous. But here, I got
  • 00:26:30
    super consistent sleep. I would go to
  • 00:26:32
    sleep at 9:00 p.m. every single night. I
  • 00:26:35
    would wake up at 6:00 a.m. every single
  • 00:26:37
    night. And it served me really well. And
  • 00:26:39
    then finally, the third area of life
  • 00:26:40
    that I really added new habits into was
  • 00:26:43
    work. So, I did this business channel. I
  • 00:26:45
    started to wake up and after my morning
  • 00:26:47
    routine, I would sit down and do deep
  • 00:26:49
    work. Basically, completely locked in,
  • 00:26:50
    focused, no notifications on my phone or
  • 00:26:53
    anything. Just focus, scripting the
  • 00:26:54
    videos, recording the videos, and I
  • 00:26:56
    would focus for like one, two hours at a
  • 00:26:58
    time, and then I'd have a little break
  • 00:26:59
    where I'd walk around and I'd come back
  • 00:27:01
    and I'd do it over and over again. And I
  • 00:27:04
    built this business. And literally, this
  • 00:27:05
    was in 2020. Four, five years later,
  • 00:27:08
    it's made me millions of dollars
  • 00:27:10
    profits. The way that it's made millions
  • 00:27:12
    of dollars profit is because a lot of
  • 00:27:13
    people buy my programs. This is one of
  • 00:27:16
    them behind me, which I'll link below,
  • 00:27:17
    which basically I put like more videos
  • 00:27:19
    like this inside of this program, which
  • 00:27:21
    is for the guys who are serious on
  • 00:27:23
    self-improvement. So, there's like
  • 00:27:24
    premium education in there, the kind of
  • 00:27:26
    stuff that like most people are too
  • 00:27:28
    scared of to teach you on YouTube. And
  • 00:27:30
    um there's the community of guys who are
  • 00:27:33
    serious on this path where you can
  • 00:27:34
    literally see who's in your city. So,
  • 00:27:36
    you can meet other guys who are on
  • 00:27:37
    self-improvement. you've suddenly just
  • 00:27:38
    got a gym partner who's like become your
  • 00:27:40
    best friend. So all of that lit top link
  • 00:27:42
    in the description if you want to see.
  • 00:27:43
    Now the final thing to put this together
  • 00:27:45
    because I've kind of explained different
  • 00:27:46
    things to you. I've explained like yeah
  • 00:27:48
    you know dopamine detox I don't do the
  • 00:27:49
    bad habits. Okay the three areas of life
  • 00:27:52
    I did good habits but it's a little bit
  • 00:27:54
    vague right the thing that put this all
  • 00:27:56
    together was the military timetable. So
  • 00:28:00
    imagine this. I went on to my notes page
  • 00:28:03
    on my phone and I created like a little
  • 00:28:05
    table on it and on the left I wrote down
  • 00:28:08
    the hours of the day. So 6:00 a.m. 7:00
  • 00:28:11
    a.m. 8 a.m. all the way to like uh 9:00
  • 00:28:13
    p.m. And on the right I assigned
  • 00:28:17
    something to that hour. This reminded me
  • 00:28:19
    of the time table that I used to have in
  • 00:28:21
    school. So, you know, in school, like
  • 00:28:23
    when you first start the year, they give
  • 00:28:24
    you the little timet thing, and it's
  • 00:28:26
    like, oh, 8:00 a.m. maths, 9:00 a.m.
  • 00:28:28
    science, 10:00 a.m. sports, whatever.
  • 00:28:31
    And after you've followed that for like
  • 00:28:33
    a week or two, you kind of know what to
  • 00:28:35
    do, right? You almost like
  • 00:28:36
    automatically, you could blindly just
  • 00:28:38
    walk to your next class because you
  • 00:28:40
    build up the habit, right? The routine.
  • 00:28:42
    So, I remembered that time in school and
  • 00:28:44
    I was like, "hm, there's an interesting
  • 00:28:46
    reason why they use that in schools and
  • 00:28:50
    why they use it in the military where
  • 00:28:52
    5:00 a.m. is wake up and 6:00 a.m. is
  • 00:28:54
    the PT and whatever." Like, there's a
  • 00:28:56
    reason why is because it makes it easier
  • 00:28:58
    to be disciplined. Because if you just
  • 00:29:00
    randomly try to do the discipline things
  • 00:29:02
    like work out and meditate and do this
  • 00:29:04
    and do this, it's very [ __ ] hard.
  • 00:29:06
    Bro, I'm telling you right now, the
  • 00:29:07
    reason why you've struggled with
  • 00:29:08
    self-improvement is because it's so hard
  • 00:29:10
    to randomly do one of the good habits.
  • 00:29:13
    But if you assign that good habit a
  • 00:29:17
    certain time of the day and you just try
  • 00:29:19
    your best to do it at the same time
  • 00:29:20
    every single day, it becomes easy to do
  • 00:29:23
    it. It honestly becomes easier to do the
  • 00:29:25
    habit than to not do it. Like, think
  • 00:29:27
    about that. Imagine if it became easier
  • 00:29:29
    for you to meditate than not meditate.
  • 00:29:31
    That's [ __ ] insane, right? It's
  • 00:29:33
    easier to to sit down and work on your
  • 00:29:35
    business than not to do it because
  • 00:29:38
    humans are like routine creatures. We
  • 00:29:40
    very quickly can get into a routine. And
  • 00:29:42
    when you're in a routine, it's like you
  • 00:29:44
    save so much energy because you don't
  • 00:29:46
    need to think about what you're doing at
  • 00:29:48
    what time. So, I created this time table
  • 00:29:50
    on my phone and I started plotting in
  • 00:29:52
    the sort of hours of the day and the
  • 00:29:54
    habit that I would do at that time. So,
  • 00:29:55
    6:00 a.m. wake up and morning routine.
  • 00:29:58
    7:00 a.m. work on the business for 2
  • 00:30:00
    hours. 9:00 a.m. have a break and go
  • 00:30:01
    walk outside. 9:30 work on the business
  • 00:30:03
    for 2 hours. 11:30 eat my first meal.
  • 00:30:07
    12:00 go exercise. 2:30 p.m. come back,
  • 00:30:10
    shower, get ready, meditate. 3:00 p.m.
  • 00:30:12
    do this like this onetoone call with
  • 00:30:14
    someone or whatever. Imagine every hour
  • 00:30:16
    of the day was plotted out as if it was
  • 00:30:18
    the perfect day of discipline. Like, you
  • 00:30:19
    know, was I was expecting it to be
  • 00:30:21
    perfect. I want you to just go ahead and
  • 00:30:23
    go create that or just think about how
  • 00:30:24
    you would have it in yours. And straight
  • 00:30:26
    away, people have some limiting beliefs
  • 00:30:27
    and they say, "Okay, but like it's not
  • 00:30:30
    going to work though. I'm I'm not going
  • 00:30:31
    to be able to follow this. And to that I
  • 00:30:33
    say it's okay because when we make this
  • 00:30:36
    timetable, we're assuming that's the
  • 00:30:38
    perfect day. And we're not going to have
  • 00:30:40
    the perfect day all the time. But if you
  • 00:30:43
    follow the timetable as best as you can,
  • 00:30:46
    you absolutely will have a better day
  • 00:30:49
    than your usual days. So I found most of
  • 00:30:52
    the time just subjectively, I would
  • 00:30:54
    follow the timetable by about 50% of the
  • 00:30:56
    day. And later on in the day, maybe I'd
  • 00:30:58
    slack off a little bit, whatever. And I
  • 00:31:00
    would get upset by that, thinking, "Oh
  • 00:31:01
    man, you know, I didn't even follow it."
  • 00:31:03
    But then one day, I just got the
  • 00:31:04
    realization where I said, "But today was
  • 00:31:06
    still way better than your usual days."
  • 00:31:09
    So, it's progress, right? You can make
  • 00:31:10
    progress. 3 months from now, if you just
  • 00:31:12
    stick to it, you might be at like 80% of
  • 00:31:15
    the day. You might get some days where
  • 00:31:16
    it's about 100%. You stuck to the time.
  • 00:31:18
    So, if you're thinking about the making
  • 00:31:20
    the time table, you're thinking, "What
  • 00:31:21
    if I mess up?" It's still better than
  • 00:31:22
    your usual day. So, it's like this is
  • 00:31:24
    just your advantage. to just make the
  • 00:31:25
    timetable and follow it as best as you
  • 00:31:27
    can. Another question I get is like what
  • 00:31:29
    if the day is different? You know,
  • 00:31:32
    Monday is different to Tuesday,
  • 00:31:33
    whatever. Then yeah, you can make
  • 00:31:35
    different timets for different days. The
  • 00:31:37
    what worked best for me is that I just
  • 00:31:39
    made one and I followed it as best as I
  • 00:31:41
    could every day. But of course, this was
  • 00:31:43
    through co there was no school or work
  • 00:31:45
    or anything that was different on Monday
  • 00:31:46
    to Sunday or whatever. So I could just
  • 00:31:48
    basically live the same day over and
  • 00:31:50
    over again. If you've got school Monday,
  • 00:31:52
    Tuesday, whatever, but then you don't on
  • 00:31:53
    weekends, then maybe you need like two
  • 00:31:55
    different timets. But what's beautiful
  • 00:31:57
    about this is like you're literally just
  • 00:31:58
    setting the plan, the intention of what
  • 00:32:00
    to do at what time, so that you don't
  • 00:32:02
    have to think about it on the day. I'm
  • 00:32:04
    telling you, this is so true. If you
  • 00:32:06
    need to think about what to do when it's
  • 00:32:09
    time to do it, it's so difficult. It's
  • 00:32:12
    so easy to do some of these
  • 00:32:14
    self-improvement habits like, you know,
  • 00:32:15
    going to the gym or meditating,
  • 00:32:16
    whatever, when yesterday you already
  • 00:32:19
    knew it was going to be at this certain
  • 00:32:21
    time today. I know that sounds weird
  • 00:32:23
    because you're thinking like, "No, but
  • 00:32:24
    it's not that much of a difference. I
  • 00:32:25
    can just decide to meditate right now."
  • 00:32:27
    I'm telling you, it really is. Like, if
  • 00:32:29
    today you make a timet that you're going
  • 00:32:31
    to follow from tomorrow, I guarantee you
  • 00:32:33
    will have such a more productive day
  • 00:32:35
    tomorrow than if you just kind of like
  • 00:32:37
    made it up on the spot of what you
  • 00:32:38
    should do tomorrow as the day
  • 00:32:40
    progressed. So, if you take one tip from
  • 00:32:42
    me from this video, because you've
  • 00:32:43
    watched this far, you've clearly wanted
  • 00:32:45
    to have a transformation like this. It
  • 00:32:47
    was this. Make the timetable. Write it
  • 00:32:50
    up as best as you can. What's the
  • 00:32:52
    perfect day? What time would you wake
  • 00:32:53
    up? What time would you eat? What time
  • 00:32:55
    would you train? What activity will you
  • 00:32:56
    do at 7:00 a.m., then 8:00 a.m., then
  • 00:32:58
    whatever. And then the tip I would give
  • 00:33:00
    you is I would keep that open on my
  • 00:33:02
    phone as much as possible. So, imagine
  • 00:33:03
    it's like the notes app. And I would
  • 00:33:06
    almost act like that was the default app
  • 00:33:08
    that's just open 24/7. And if I needed
  • 00:33:10
    to use my phone for something else, like
  • 00:33:12
    the alarm clock or the calendar, I would
  • 00:33:14
    move the notes app, go onto the alarm
  • 00:33:16
    clock, whatever, use it, and then before
  • 00:33:18
    I'd lock my screen again, I'd open up
  • 00:33:21
    the notes app, the timetable again. So
  • 00:33:23
    the next time I unlock my phone, it was
  • 00:33:24
    right there in front of me. And the
  • 00:33:26
    final tip I'll give you is sometimes I'd
  • 00:33:28
    be sat there and I wasn't too sure what
  • 00:33:30
    I should do. You know, it was like
  • 00:33:32
    something was there. You know, the day
  • 00:33:33
    got kind of messed up. The workout took
  • 00:33:34
    longer. I can't do this thing right now.
  • 00:33:36
    And one of the things that I wrote down
  • 00:33:38
    literally on the timet like above it I
  • 00:33:41
    wrote it's better to sit and to think
  • 00:33:43
    about what to do than to automatically
  • 00:33:46
    fall into one of the bad dopamine
  • 00:33:48
    habits. Cuz sometimes I would like think
  • 00:33:50
    ah I can't really do that habit right
  • 00:33:52
    now. You know it's 4 p.m. but I can't do
  • 00:33:54
    that 4 p.m. thing. And straight away my
  • 00:33:56
    phone I you know I just go on Instagram.
  • 00:33:58
    I just go start jacking off or whatever.
  • 00:33:59
    But I realized it's better to stare at
  • 00:34:02
    this timetable than it is to basically
  • 00:34:05
    do anything else. Because when I'm
  • 00:34:06
    staring at the time table, it's like
  • 00:34:08
    it's kind of a little bit productive,
  • 00:34:09
    you know, to ingrain it into your mind.
  • 00:34:11
    But doing anything else these days,
  • 00:34:13
    like, you know, you go on your phone and
  • 00:34:14
    you end up going on Instagram or you go
  • 00:34:16
    on YouTube, that that can take hours out
  • 00:34:17
    of the day. You just falling into the
  • 00:34:19
    content hole. So, I know this sounds
  • 00:34:21
    weird and and I wouldn't blame you if
  • 00:34:23
    you don't believe me, but I would
  • 00:34:24
    literally look at my timet hundreds of
  • 00:34:27
    times a day. Like I'm talking for
  • 00:34:29
    multiple hours a day, I'd just be
  • 00:34:31
    looking at it because there's times
  • 00:34:32
    where I felt like I just couldn't do the
  • 00:34:34
    thing that was, you know, allocated to
  • 00:34:35
    the current moment. But I just believed
  • 00:34:37
    that looking at the timetable was
  • 00:34:39
    healthier and better for me than
  • 00:34:41
    basically any random thing I could come
  • 00:34:43
    up with, like just consuming content. So
  • 00:34:45
    that became kind of like my basic attack
  • 00:34:47
    where I just lived by this timetable and
  • 00:34:50
    it served me so well. So I just want you
  • 00:34:52
    to think like you're in the military and
  • 00:34:54
    you know they give you the time table.
  • 00:34:55
    Okay, 5:00 a.m. wake up. 5:30, make your
  • 00:34:57
    bed, 6:00 a.m. PT, 7:00 a.m. breakfast,
  • 00:35:00
    this, this, this. There's a reason why
  • 00:35:02
    they do that in the military and in
  • 00:35:04
    schools. It will undoubtedly make you
  • 00:35:06
    more productive. And it's one of the
  • 00:35:08
    best single single best self-improvement
  • 00:35:10
    actions I've ever taken in my life.
  • 00:35:13
    Because when I made this military
  • 00:35:14
    timetable and I sort of plotted in the
  • 00:35:17
    idea of that dopamine detoxing then the
  • 00:35:19
    other habits that I spoke to you about
  • 00:35:21
    like the mental health, fitness and
  • 00:35:22
    work, I plotted them into this timetable
  • 00:35:25
    and I basically had this like perfect
  • 00:35:27
    day dopamine detox timetable where if I
  • 00:35:31
    just tried to follow it as best as I
  • 00:35:33
    possibly could, that would yield a day
  • 00:35:35
    that was so much more productive than
  • 00:35:38
    what I was used to. That's how I changed
  • 00:35:40
    my life so quickly. I have one of the
  • 00:35:43
    quickest transformations of all time. I
  • 00:35:46
    literally went from like degenerate
  • 00:35:48
    [ __ ] video gamer staying up till 3:00
  • 00:35:51
    a.m. jacking off to porn compilations
  • 00:35:54
    smoking weed and all this crazy [ __ ]
  • 00:35:55
    eating fake food 24/7 to literally, I
  • 00:35:58
    swear to God, the next day I had changed
  • 00:36:01
    the next day. Like I moved home and
  • 00:36:04
    literally the next day I became like the
  • 00:36:06
    self-improvement discipline guy and I
  • 00:36:08
    rode that wave for [ __ ] years. I've
  • 00:36:10
    got the physique. I've got the money.
  • 00:36:12
    I've got the confidence. I I've built so
  • 00:36:14
    much progress in a few years. If there's
  • 00:36:16
    anyone insecure who who was pissed off
  • 00:36:18
    that I said these things about me, they
  • 00:36:20
    can get [ __ ] This is not arrogance or
  • 00:36:21
    boastfulness. This is just me stating
  • 00:36:23
    the facts of my achievements, which we
  • 00:36:25
    all should have the right to do. I've
  • 00:36:26
    created an incredible transformation.
  • 00:36:29
    And I swear to you, it was because of
  • 00:36:31
    these little action steps that I took
  • 00:36:33
    here. Click and watch this video to
  • 00:36:35
    continue learning more and do the hard
  • 00:36:37
    work, especially when you don't feel
  • 00:36:39
    like it.
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