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so as you can tell by now English is not
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my native language I still make a lot of
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mistakes I sometimes use expressions in
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the wrong context and as much as I try
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to push it away my accent shows up
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especially if I'm tired however however
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I feel like I've gotten to a point where
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I'm very comfortable with reading and
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writing about complex stuff and having
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conversations about a variety of
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different topics with a fair amount of
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depth and I guess my journey started in
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a way that may sound familiar to you
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which is like a first encounter at
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school and a dynamic filled with boring
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workbooks and overall disengaged
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teachers and students and I think it's
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so sad to be studying the language for
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so long like all through school and high
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school only to be able to hold a very a
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very basic conversation with with a
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native and even that conversation feels
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you up with anxiety I also feel like
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this uh leaves people feeling stupid or
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like they're not made for language
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learning and I beg to differ because uh
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you're human I hope and um through our
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Evolution language learning has always
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been a survival tool like we needed it
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for uh sharing knowledge for territory
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expansion for cooperation and it's a
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tool you still possess I just feel like
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you haven't been provided with the right
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skills for learning to happen and
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throughout this video I just wanted to
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share some insights uh about how I
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acquired those skills through my
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experience and all the things that I did
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to help me get to where I am right now
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so firstly I'd like to divide this video
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between two main parts cuz I want to
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talk a bit about the mindset around the
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learning and then talk about the
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learning and some practical steps uh you
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can make right now as soon as you finish
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this
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video so when it comes to having a good
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frame of mind uh when it comes to
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learning looking back at my journey I
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found three main elements that really
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helped me get here and the first one was
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my vision so when I was getting into
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this English speaking bubble I started
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to Envision a future Chris that would
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talk with a very good accent and that
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would be highly articulate and as I was
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building that version of myself in my
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head that kind of pushed me towards wed
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to really be in pursuit of that vision
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and I really believe it's a very helpful
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exercise to do like just to Vision who
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you want to become or what kind of
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learner you want to be cuz honestly when
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you feel tired or like you don't want to
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hit the books or put the effort in um I
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think that having this little vision
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really helps because I would just think
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of that Chris and I would really feel
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like what I was about to do really made
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a difference it's like okay it's going
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to be just 5 minutes of studying but
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this is really going to make my vision
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come true and also I was really
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passionate about my learning like I
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would spend hours and hours just reading
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extensively talking to myself um
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recording myself or just writing oh and
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I would also keep like a little um
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vocabulary notebook and I would take
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that with me everywhere like we would
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watch a movie we would whatever I just
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wanted to write that down um like new
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words and stuff and I guess the second
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element to a good mindset is curiosity
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like really having a sense of curiosity
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and being excited and engaged with your
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learning is another key element here cuz
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you don't want to engage with things
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that are not exciting to you like I'm
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guessing if you're someone who got to a
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point where you're very good at English
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and like you can speak and whatever it's
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probably not because of all those
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grammar textbooks that you did in high
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school but because of maybe because you
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found some content like some shows some
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movies some podcast or whatever that um
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you really enjoyed and like you just
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kept doing that and it it kind of became
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SEC second nature right so having a
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Clear Vision and being curious about
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your learning it's important but there's
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still one piece missing and that is
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self-criticism even when I was a
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teenager and I was growing up I had this
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sense of self analysis cuz I would
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always see see where my weaknesses were
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at and I always made it a point to work
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on them and if I'm honest language exams
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were really were a good direction to
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follow and to see where my skills needed
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Improvement and funny enough um two
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years ago I passed my C2 certificate
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which if you're not familiar I think
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it's like the highest level you can
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achieve like academically in a language
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academically being a key word here and
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the moment I passed that exam I just
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thought to myself like I've made it like
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I finally made my vision a reality like
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um there's nothing else to improve like
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I i' I've gotten here like I'm here
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right now and I completely lost my sense
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of self-criticism and I got stuck and
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now I happen to be in an environment
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where I'm surrounded by native speakers
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and I'm so humbled like there is so much
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room for improvement I I just I'm making
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it a point every day to just like try to
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improve myself as much as possible so I
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guess my point here and the lesson I
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draw from this is that you don't want to
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let external finishing lines shape your
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view about your progress and while exams
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were a perfect tool for directing me
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towards my weaknesses and seeing where I
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had to uh work on I feel like now I have
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to take matters into my own hands and
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just create my own road map and set my
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own goals you should never think that
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you've arrived or that there's nothing
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left when you lose that you you just get
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stuck as I did CU self-criticism really
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is an important skill to have if you
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really want to improve
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yourself so now that we talked a bit
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about the mindset I want to kind of
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bridge this element with more practical
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steps you can take and you know language
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learning can be understood in terms of
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input that is what you receive what you
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put into your body like reading and
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listening and in terms of output what
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you produce like speaking and writing
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and while both are crucial uh input
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always comes first because you need to
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give something to your brain in in order
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to produce something just think about
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the fact that we as humans in order to
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start talking we need like three or four
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years of constantly getting input from
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our environment and then start talking
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that's why talking is usually harder and
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you can understand way more than what
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you can produce it's a normal thing and
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also the two processes work differently
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in the brain but that's a topic for
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another conversation so that's why I
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feel like you should firstly focus on
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input and firstly I want to give you a
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framework that I named The rrr W
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framework just because it makes sense
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for me and uh the first R stands for
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research find something that you're
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genuinely interested in do a little
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research on the internet of potential
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resources to work with and do not
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underestimate this step for example I
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just like to put stuff that I'm
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interested about on YouTube cuz YouTube
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I feel like it's one of my best uh
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learning tools I don't know like
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nutrition psychology um whatever I don't
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know whatever comes to mind and now that
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I have ai in my life I I like to ask
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Chad GPT to give me some resources like
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for example um I'm into this my
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personality is like this blah blah blah
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I don't give too much information by the
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way that might be dangerous I don't know
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and I also like to put him into context
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like I'm a learner like I'm at this
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level I would like something that's
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easier blah blah blah and I would also
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suggest that you mix that you go for
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content created for Learners and
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authentic content because usually
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content created for Learners is like
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slower and it's very useful but um you
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should be exposed also to the authentic
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stuff cuz you know you don't want to
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have that gap of like I'm learning this
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but it turns out that the language is
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nothing like this I don't know if you're
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understanding what I'm saying and now we
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get to the second R which stands for
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routine and one of my favorite quotes of
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all time is we become what we repeatedly
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do therefore excellent is not an act but
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a habit and I love this quote because it
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just encapsulates how much habits shape
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who we become CU When you have a habit
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of engaging with a language every single
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day you will eventually become someone
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whose second nature is to just have that
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language in his life in his or her life
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and I would go as far as to say that a
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routine it's what's going to potentially
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turn you into a fluent speaker and
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essentially you want to look out for
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three main three main things in your
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routine you want have go-to resources
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you want to really decrease uh mental
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constraint cuz you don't want to be
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having only like 10 minutes to dedicate
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to your learning and being so paralyzed
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by so much analysis that you end up
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doing nothing so you want to prevent
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that and you want to be specific about
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it I want to watch YouTube okay which
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video I want to read which article or
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what book I want to listen to a podcast
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and write down some notes okay which
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episode you just need to be prepared and
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for example I like to do this on Sundays
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so every Sunday I prepare a bit my week
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ahead and I'm like okay and this day I'm
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going to do this and Tuesday I'm doing
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this and that and I just prepare myself
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you will also like to have a regular
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moment in your day when you're doing
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your routine cuz you kind of get your
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body used to that at the same time every
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day so I would suggest you experiment
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with this like try one week or two weeks
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and see where you can block some some
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time to sit with the language without
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compromising too much your mental energy
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or the rest of your
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day so my camera just died uh well not
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right now but when I was recording this
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so I had to do some stuff and now it's
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night time so I'm sorry for the sudden
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change but I believe as I wrote down
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here that I was talking about the
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routine part and how you need to go
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resources and finding a regular time to
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just um sit with the language every
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single day and the last point in this
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part was to keep it short and sweet cuz
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I don't know about you but I have this
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tendency of overdoing things at the
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beginning like I get so invested in like
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changing my life somehow that I just um
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overdo it and after one week or two I
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just I kind of feel burned out and I
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just want to quit all together so that's
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why I like to really start small for me
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15 30 minutes a day it's perfect and
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like if you have more time dedicated to
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it and you could consistently keep up
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with that then uh by all means do it but
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sometimes I find myself doing like two
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or three pockets of 15 minutes a day and
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it adds up immensely and ideally you
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would want to be immersed in the
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language in another way besides this
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routine cuz this routine is more for
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like sitting down with the language and
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you would want to do that with Deadtime
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for example maybe you're in a traffic
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jam uh in the Metro or just walk in or
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whatever and use those small amounts of
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times to turn that de time into learning
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opportunities also I feel like you can
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trick your um social media algorithm
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into showing you content only in English
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I don't think that's that hard because
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pretty much everything that's mainstream
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it's uh nowadays in English and I just
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also feel like this Trends or sometimes
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shifts in society somehow happen uh or
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like come from the English speaking
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world or maybe I'm biased because of
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what I see on social media but I think
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that's a good idea also to stay at the
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Forefront of new ideas and new culture
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while developing your skills so social
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media social media can be a good asset
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if you know how to use it and now that
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you have your choice of input and your
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consistent routine the third step is
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refinement and you know what they say we
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are what we eat so limited or poor
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quality input will definitely constrain
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the richness of your output so you want
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to feed your brain with a dense and
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diverse diet of the language cuz you
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know for years I've been having the same
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input over and over and I kept asking
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myself why am I not improving like
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what's going going on and if you found
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something that you really like enjoy and
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it's like I don't know your favorite
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YouTuber or whatever like by all means
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keep doing that but if you really want
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to take your English to another level I
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really suggest you start looking for
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something a bit more challenging so
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nowadays every couple of weeks or every
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X months depending on my goals and um my
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time available I conduct a little input
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check in order to kind of see the
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quality of my input and if you want to
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push yourself I really suggest you start
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looking for abstract ideas for example
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I've recently discovered um two podcast
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called Academy of ideas and philosophi
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philosophies this which I highly
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recommend and I love this because they
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really push me into thinking in abstract
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ways and even question topics that I've
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never really thought about before and
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you know I've realized that for the
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longest time I've been in my comfort
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zone just listening to stuff that was
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very easy and very basic without like
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looking for that little challenge or
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like just pushing myself and that's why
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I want to really highlight the
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importance of staying self-critical and
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also setting clear goals I am now trying
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my best to fix this and focus on my
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weakest points and be alert all the time
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about what it is that I have to work on
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and another thing that I did to avoid
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getting out of my comfort zone was not
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writing if I'm honest writing has always
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been one of my weakest skills like even
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in my native language I think it's hard
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for me to put my thoughts into words
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like into written words I don't know why
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I'm I'm trying to work on that and this
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takes me to my last point to the last
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letter of this framework which is start
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writing as often and as soon as possible
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cuz I've also realized how important it
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is to write if you want to speak better
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most of these public speakers that I see
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that are very like articulate and like
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they can express themselves themselves
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very well they usually have a very
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thorough writing routine or they always
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write their thoughts before exposing
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them to the world now that I'm writing
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more I'm also starting to realize like
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how much I've missed on because I've
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skipped this part and you know at first
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just writing about your day and kind of
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journaling about it um it's already a
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tough job depending on where you are but
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I feel like going next level requires
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something more uh for example I'm now
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writing little stories about random
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stuff I am writing about certain ideas
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that I hear or read about I'm trying to
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Rite my thoughts on different topics
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like political stuff or like just life
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in general I'm getting very uh deep with
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this and I feel like not only it can
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improve your English but also it can
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improve the lenses through which you see
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the world cuz you have to verbalize such
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abstract Concepts that you just feel
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like you understand them but when you're
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when you're writing about them you start
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to realize that you don't really know
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anything about it and you know I know it
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can be daunting to start writing at
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first it definitely was for me and I
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don't know I'm thinking maybe I could do
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a video diving a bit more into my
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writing process now that I actually have
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a writing process maybe that'll be
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helpful to someone I don't know
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but for now like just start and write
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about whatever try to integrate that
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into your routine so that's pretty much
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all I have for today I hope I was clear
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enough um I hope this help you somehow I
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hope you can help someone and I will see
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you in the next one
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