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yeah we tell ourselves the best and most
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convincing stories yeah [ __ ] Earth
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with the best salesman we sell
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everything to ourselves that's it but to
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everybody else we're
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[ __ ] I hope so that's what people are
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that's what they do mate they do
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everybody else is a [ __ ] challenge
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yeah correct I can't do this and I can't
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do that sweet but when it's to myself
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we're
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magicians yeah as we know it's a
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survival
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mechanism
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like we'll have to believe what we're
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selling obviously because it helps with
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our story you know and when you're sold
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into the Matrix of ignorance Matrix of
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ignorance you're you got to tell
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yourself something to stay in the game
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all right so you have to justify why
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you're having all these feelings that
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are connected to that are lining up with
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your beliefs so for
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instance um you know nothing ever
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happens for
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me uh [ __ ] always goes wrong all these
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things are like so what happens is when
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the when you're in this position where
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these things are happening you're
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getting validation of your outside world
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all right and that's like oh I feel like
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[ __ ] because [ __ ] I'm always copying
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it for something I'm never getting the
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good opportunity for this job or you
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know the girls never down with me and
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always get the [ __ ] leftovers or
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whatever the [ __ ] all right yeah and
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you're validating this from real events
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that's happening so yes you didn't get
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the job yes this person did treat you
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like [ __ ] but you roll with it because
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that's part of your story what you don't
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know is that that's only happening to
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you because your story what you don't
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know is that your emotions and what
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you're putting out there your frequency
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is attracting these [ __ ] stories to
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happen and but you're taking them as
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this is happening to
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me rather than happening for you right
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like oh this happens to me therefore I'm
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right about what I think and I'm also
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right about what I believe about myself
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and it's usually like I'm a [ __ ]
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shikan so everything is just straight
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validating all right the system works
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like this when we say life happens for
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you not to you
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now for you to
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overcome your beliefs you have to do
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something different for you to overcome
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your beliefs you have to you have to
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crush all your beliefs but in order for
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that to happen you have to be in a
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situation where you're confronted with
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the beliefs you're used to so for
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instance um for instance like
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you go [ __ ] you go for a job all
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right you go for a job
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and it's a job interview you're like oh
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I can't get this job S no problem can't
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get this job all right and in your mind
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you're putting it at it I'm not going to
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get this job
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now what's happening
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is whether you get the job or not is
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irrelevant it's how you feel about not
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getting it you're attached to that
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outcome so you're trying to move forward
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all right and get this job with the
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belief that you're not going to get it
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and you want to and and the situation is
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going to you're going to get validated
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from that [ __ ] situation
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yeah once even though you see the
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situation as like n it's
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hopeless you then internally have to
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look at it like all right I know this
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always happens sweet how do I how do I
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get over this
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not just who do you have to be because
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it's it's too early for who do you have
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to be you're not going to become a
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person when they say become a person
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that has the tools to be able to get
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that job or or see success in certain
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things it's in the mind that you have to
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understand how the system works you're
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not you got you got to go into it
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overcoming um overcoming the roadblocks
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like yeah the obstacles yeah yeah you
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got to go you got to go into it with the
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mindset of like I don't think I'm going
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to get the
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job but how do you know you're not going
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to get the
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job my thing is we're we're Choosing My
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Thing the thing is we're choosing what
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to believe cuz we feel comfortable so if
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I know that I'm not going to get at the
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job if I believe the the hype the thing
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that I believe I don't want to be wrong
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either yeah but it doesn't hurt to say
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all right
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then what does my mindset have to be
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okay I might get the job I might not but
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it doesn't help for me to think I'm not
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going to get it like like why would you
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go into something
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playing with 30% of your abilities
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defense yeah exactly you're playing
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defense you're going in there to lose
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you're not going in there to win so it's
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the mindset it's the attitude you're
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approaching it as long wind wind as this
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[ __ ] explanation sounds like the
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essence of it is it's your mindset going
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into the thing how you view it all right
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we know like we spoke about before we
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know what going into with that mindset
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gets us if we believe that
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that you
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know first we got to believe that our
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mindset is causing that all right let's
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say we don't believe that yeah first we
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got to say all right cool that's that's
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what we think is going to happen based
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off [ __ ] [ __ ] all right also
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we're like all let's try something else
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how about we put our best effort forward
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we're not I believe that when we go into
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something halfast we're also not trying
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as much we're also not putting our best
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effort no definitely not so what I'm
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saying to you is like yeah we believe
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these things but we're also not doing
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[ __ ] thank God I got to there we're
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also not doing the thing that we need to
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do to remedy it you know I want to quit
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smoking I feel like an idiot cuz I smoke
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but you're still smoking so we're not
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doing the thing and maybe it's because
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we're looking for a certain of
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feeling mhm something like that like
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we're looking for a feeling to put in
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place of the negative guaranteed yeah
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what does it look like how are we going
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to yeah you we're correct [ __ ]
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so to dig deeper in that situation is
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that and I this in the past that when I
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wanted to change something like
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logically I
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knew what change looks like why I need
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it yeah it makes sense it's good for me
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that's it that wasn't the problem for me
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now could be a problem for someone else
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sweet okay the problem was what feeling
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do I attach cuz I'm em emotional a lot
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of people AR what feeling do I attach to
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that logical thought
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yep because I believe I I used to
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believe that I run off feelings yeah
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rather than logical thoughts correct so
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in order for me to progress I need to
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attach a feeling to go with that so I
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know what feeling like [ __ ] is correct
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and how it makes me feel and you know
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when it comes up logically what feeling
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I can attach to that that's right that's
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easy yes and I think a lot of people can
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relate to that 100% the problem is that
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what do I change it with how do I flip
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the script now flipping the script in
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just words alone is easy oh you just do
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this yeah of course s and especially
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with the world we live
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in there's so much noise about thinking
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positive that's right yeah be positive
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and just think of positive thoughts and
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so that's the way my mind was geared
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that all I got to place it I'm being
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told to replace it with something
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positive correct so I was trying to look
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for a positive feeling to out to that
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yes but I worked out that when I'm in
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the [ __ ] when I'm in the thought of I'm
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stuck and I don't know where to go there
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is no positive
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feeling to replace the negative feeling
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correct to give you that motivation
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you're looking for exactly like oh
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that's why I'm doing it that's right and
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then you brought up just everyone to be
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on the same page here like sweet let's
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talk about a loop it um going to the gym
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that's okay
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so I I don't like going to the gym I
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can't be [ __ ] but I know I need to go
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to the gym I know I need to go to the
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gym there's some there's some value
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there yeah but I just don't know yeah I
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know it's good for me like everyone
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knows it's good for him okay corre s so
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I'm going to wait I don't like the
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feeling like N I don't like it you know
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I'm going to replace it like I should
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wait for this feeling of yes I want to
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go to the gym yes that feeling ain't
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going to come no okay okay so you're not
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going to replace that negative feeling
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of um I feel like [ __ ] and I need to go
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to the gym to like yes now I feel better
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I should get up tomorrow morning I'm
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sorry it's 6:00 in the morning I'm
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getting up now yes I want to go to the
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gym that's not happening yeah the way to
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override and get past this hurdle is
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that you got to believe in The
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Logical Theory correct that's the only
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way correct correct and and I'll finish
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off here but that's right yeah the
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logical part is going to get you over
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the hurdle not the replacing of the bad
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feeling with a positive feeling correct
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cuz that's the Trap I was I was lost in
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that trap for years correct 100% And and
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it wasn't only the gym or a job or my
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relationship it was everything this
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thing
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here infiltrates every single part of
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your life 100% And I wasn't aware of
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this I just thought that's the way it
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meant to be right so yeah until you
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brought to my attention and started
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thinking about it it's like [ __ ] yeah
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that's not you know there's no way it's
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a logical answer no even though we're
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talking about logic here corre that the
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logic was you replace a [ __ ] feeling
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with a good feeling yes that's a logical
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explanation that's right but it wasn't
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not that not that at all it's like you
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got to really
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like like honing to
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The Logical side of what you want yes
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okay and know that this all I need to do
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and disregard any feeling block feelings
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out only in this specific um situation
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correct when you're trying to do
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something you're trying to get better at
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something like this is in your way you
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got to make a decision that's right but
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you're looking for the feeling that's
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where that's where the distraction is
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that's right now there is just to
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clarify there is feelings of there is
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positive feelings like yeah I'm going on
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the trip and like oh yeah I feel great
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100% positive feelings are a
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they do exist but they're a trap when it
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comes to these situations when you're
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stuck correct when you say I need
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motivation yeah I say [ __ ] motivation
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yeah motivation is
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[ __ ] it's to motivation yeah doesn't
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last like motivation is not like I don't
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know it's inspiration it's not
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inspiration either it's not any like
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it's not a it's a quick fix it's not
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even a fix it's a distraction yeah it's
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like I'm looking to feel a certain way
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so I can feel more I can feel better
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about doing something guarantee like I'm
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looking for a jup what do you need to be
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J up for well that's what it is we well
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I was anyway coming from uh emotional
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like emotions some people are very
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logical as
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we discovered a while back and other
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people are emotion they attacked the
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same problem in a different way correct
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correct cuz we're you know we're not
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we're all the same but we're not the
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same at the same time that's right I'm
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not saying motivation does a place but I
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think motivation is more of like a jump
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start for a car when it needs it yes at
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a specific time but you know living by
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motivation as a way of life like using
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it as a [ __ ] this is how I live my
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life you [ __ ] triping it's not
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sustainable if you're relying on it
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you're finished no it's not sustainable
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that's right
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oh
