Should You Tell Your Crush You Like Them (ODDLY SPECIFIC)

00:19:33
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hpwyjcd3Ioc

Resumo

TLDR视频讨论了是否应该向暗恋对象表白的多种情境，通过一系列问题和选择来分析各种可能的情况。这包括如果暗恋对象正在与他人交往，或者对方是朋友的亲属，甚至是名人时该怎么办。视频以幽默的方式提供了建议，例如如果和暗恋对象在同一个朋友群中应谨慎处理，因为可能会影响朋友关系。同时，视频也详细描述了在工作或学习中遇到的暗恋对象的不同应对方法，并通过一个数学公式来帮助评估在特定情况下告诉对方的时机。最后，视频总结道，无论情况如何，人应该勇敢地表达自己的感受，因为人生短暂，不应错过可能的机会。

Conclusões

  • 🤔 如果暗恋对象已有恋人，通常不建议表白。
  • 📐 数学公式帮助判断告白时机。
  • 👥 在相同朋友群中告白需要谨慎。
  • 🎬 倘若对象是名人，表白可能被忽视。
  • 🗣 视频鼓励大胆表达感受。
  • 😂 用幽默方式探讨复杂关系。
  • ⛔ 告白可能影响朋友关系。
  • 🏫 在学校相识的对象可以尝试表白。
  • 💼 工作场所的表白需要先考虑职业风险。
  • 🎉 人生短暂，应抓住机会表白。

Linha do tempo

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    ئەگەر سىز دوستىڭىز ئارقىلىق قىيزىقىدىغان كىشىڭىز بىلەن تونۇشقان بولسىڭىز، ئۇنىڭ توقتىمىسىز بىر مۇرەسىلىدە بولغانلىقىنى بىلسمۇ بىلمەسمۇ، شۇنداقلا، دوستىڭىز بىلەن بىر بۇرۇنكى قېرىندىشى بولغان قانچىلىك جىددىي بولغانلىقىنى چەكلىشىڭىز كېرەك. بۇنىڭ بىلەن، كېلىشىمنىڭ چوڭكەنلىكىگە قاراپ، سىزنىڭ پوزىتسىيىڭىزنى ئاساسىي نىشان قىلىشىڭىز كېرەك، بۇنىڭ ئۈچۈن قوشۇمچە سارتلار نىشان قىلىنغان بىردىن بىر سۇئالنى سورىشىڭىز كېرەك. مەسىلەن، دوڭمۇرلا參数 公式نى قوللىنىش.

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    سىز ئۇنى كۆرۈپ تۇرىشىڭىز مۇمكىن بولغان مەكتەپ ئاستىلىق بىلەن تونۇشتىڭىز بولسا شىركەت كۆرۈپ بايرىن بولۇپ كۆپ سۇئاللار بەرىلگەن. شۇڭا، سىز ئۇنى كۆزىڭىز بىلەن كۆرىشتى بولغان بولسىڭىز، بۇ بولسا، سىز سېزىشتى سانلىق مەلۇماتىڭىزنى ئازادە بىرىڭ، ئۇ ئۆزىنىڭ مۇساپە مەقسىتىگە يېتىدىغان چېكلىك سەۋەپتىن ئۆتكەن ياكى سۆزلىگەن ۋەقە رېئال ۋاسىپىنى پاكىزلەشتۈرۈشى خوتۇن تېگىدىكى مەزكۇر تارماقلاردىن بىر ئ‍پتۇمغا ئەۋەتكەن بولىدۇ.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:19:33

    ئەگەر سىزنىڭ ئايرىم سەۋەبلىكمۇ ياكى ئىقتىدارىز بىلەن مۇناسىۋەتلىك بولغان بولسا، ئۇنداقتا دېگەندە، ئۇ بىرىنچى قېتىم كۆرىلىشى مۇمكىن بولىدىغان مەنپىي نۇرمال ئەسلىنىڭ بىر تۈرڭەنلىكى ئەمەس ۋە ئۇنىڭ قايتىدىن تەستىقلىغۇسى ئۇزۇن ۋاقىت سەھىپىدە ياكى مۇقىملىق سۈپەتلىك ئۆزگىرىش بىز دەگەننىڭ كەمتۈكلۈكىگە قارشى كۆرىسىز.

Mapa mental

Vídeo de perguntas e respostas

  • 视频主要讨论什么内容？

    视频主要讨论了是否应该告诉你的暗恋对象你喜欢他们。

  • 如果你的暗恋对象正在与某人交往怎么办？

    建议通常是不要告诉对象，以避免复杂的关系问题。

  • 视频中有没有提供一种数学公式？用来干什么的？

    视频中提到了一个名为Katie's law的数学公式，帮助判断何时告诉朋友的前任你喜欢他们。

  • 如果你和暗恋对象处于同一个朋友群该怎么办？

    视频中提供了一些建议，可以根据不同的情景选择是否告白。

  • 如果你的暗恋对象是名人该怎么办？

    可以告诉他们，但由于他们是名人，可能不会注意到。

  • 视频最后的总结建议是什么？

    无论其他因素如何，建议是人生短暂，尽管去告诉对方自己的感受。

  • 视频中是否有幽默元素？

    是的，视频以幽默的方式探讨了每种可能的情况。

  • 视频提供了具体的行动步骤吗？

    视频根据不同情况给出了相应的建议和步骤。

  • 视频对告白有何看法？

    视频认为尽管有风险，但表达感受有其价值和必要性。

  • 视频是否涉及约会软件的话题？

    是的，视频也涵盖了在约会应用上认识对象的情况。

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    should you tell your crush you like them
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    this is the definitive guide to
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    literally every scenario of whether or
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    not you should tell your crush you like
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    them first question everyone starts here
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    is your crush seeing someone there's
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    three options that you can pick here I
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    don't know no yes if you picked I don't
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    know find out if you picked no how do
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    you know you're crushed this branches
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    you have to pick from these four options
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    number one you met your crush via
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    friends number two you met your crush
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    through school number three you met your
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    crush through work or number four you
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    we're first going to talk about if you
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    met your crush through friends so if you
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    met your crush through friends you now
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    have to pick from these two options
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    which are number one your friends with
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    your crush or you met your crush through
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    friends but you're not necessarily
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    friends with your crush if you picked
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    your friends with your crush are you and
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    your crush in a friend group together so
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    what I mean by this is like are you and
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    your crush like one-on-one friends and
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    you hang out just the two of you or are
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    you two part of like a wider friend
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    group that you hang out with if you
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    picked no you're not in a friend group
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    AKA your friends oneon-one I think you
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    should tell them but be mentally
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    prepared that it's going to make things
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    really awkward if they don't like you
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    I'm really sorry but you should probably
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    do it anyway for your mental Clarity and
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    for like your mental health this is like
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    the most moviees scenario that you can
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    be in right if you tell your crushed you
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    like them and they're your best friend
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    and they like you back and then oh you
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    get married or you ruin things forever
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    but you never really know until you tell
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    them so you might as well just do it
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    good luck and tell us below what
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    happened if you picked yes you and your
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    crush are in a wider friend group the
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    next question is was your crush ever
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    seeing someone in the friend group if
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    you pick yes Define seeing from here you
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    can either pick number one your crush is
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    casually hooking up with someone else in
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    your friend group or number two your
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    crush was dating someone else in your
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    friend group if you picked your crush
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    was dating someone in your friend group
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    how serious was it on a scale of 0 to 5
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    one to two they won on like one bad date
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    and they're not attracted to each other
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    at all 3 to four they dated for a couple
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    of weeks but it didn't ever get serious
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    or four to five they dated very
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    seriously they like met each other's
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    parents maybe they have a kid or like a
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    pet together they talked about their
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    future plans like any of those a
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    combination of those four to five if you
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    picked one to two then you have the
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    final outcut of yeah do it so long as
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    you're okay with the fact that getting
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    together with your Crow and are
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    potentially bringing up with them may or
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    will change the dynamic of your friend
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    group forever and or break up your
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    friend group if you pick three to four
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    in terms of seriousness like they dated
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    for a couple of weeks but didn't get
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    like that serious or you picked four to
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    five just now on that question which was
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    it was very serious but there is a
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    chance that your crush does actually
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    like you you both have the next step
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    which is to determine whether or not
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    it's actually up for you to ask out your
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    friend's EX in order to do that we're
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    obviously going to have to apply the
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    mathematical form formula of Katie's law
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    AKA whether or not it's [ __ ] up for
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    you to date your friend's boyfriend so
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    in order to apply Katie's law we have to
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    consider the following formula which is
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    T subsafe equals D * F over G where T
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    subsafe is the time in months you should
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    wait before telling your crush you like
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    them D is the total duration in months
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    of your friend and your crush's
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    relationship f is the friendship level
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    of you and your friend on a scale of 1
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    to 10 so like one being the lowest and
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    10 being this is my ride or die best
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    friend I would lie in front of a train
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    track for them and G is the total time
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    in months between your friend and your
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    crush breaking up and you telling your
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    crush that you like them so plug in all
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    of the conditions into that formula and
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    see what number you get for tu- sub safe
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    so I'll give you an example calculation
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    of how to use this let's say your friend
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    dated this guy for 12 months so in D you
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    would put 12 let's say you're moderately
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    close to this friend so F you would put
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    like six and your friend and that guy
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    broke up 6 months ago so for G you would
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    put six so plug that into the formula T
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    sub safe = 12 * 6 / 6 = 12 months so now
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    that you have your variable for T sub
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    safe which is 12 months we now need to
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    consider the three conditions which will
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    determine what you should do if G is
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    less than two the answer is always don't
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    think about it do not do it do not ask
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    your crush out if T subsafe is smaller
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    and or equal to G then you might be good
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    but proceed with Extreme Caution and the
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    willingness to risk your entire
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    friendship so if you got G is less than
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    two and or t sub safe is larger than G
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    you should probably pick no do not tell
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    your crush you like them but if however
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    you did get t- sub safe is smaller and
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    or equal to G then you can move on to
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    the next step which is asking do either
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    your friend or your crush still have
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    feelings for each other if you chose yes
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    and or I don't know for this the next
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    question is does the potential of
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    getting together with your crush and or
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    potentially breaking up with them
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    outweigh the risk of potentially
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    changing the entire Dynamic of the
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    friend group forever if you Pi no don't
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    tell them if you picked yes tell them
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    but best of luck to you so now we're
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    going to talk about if you picked no to
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    the question of do you think that your
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    crush and or their ex still has feelings
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    for each other if you picked no you sure
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    if you picked no I'm not sure then you
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    go into the other question which is does
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    the potential of getting together with
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    your crush outweigh the risk of things
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    being incredibly awkward and then you
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    answer that Branch just now if you
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    picked yes I'm sure that my friend in my
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    crush do not have any lingering feelings
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    for each other then you get the outcome
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    of yeah do it again with the Aster of so
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    long as you're okay with it changing the
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    dynamic forever I feel like I've talked
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    about this so now we're going to go back
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    all the way up the branch I hope you're
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    following this cuz it's very confusing
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    we're going to go back to the question
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    of yes your crush was seeing someone in
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    the friend group if you from that Branch
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    instead of picking your crush was dating
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    someone else in the friend group if you
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    instead picked your crush was casually
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    hooking up with someone in the friend
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    group you automatically get pulled all
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    the way down to yeah do it so the same
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    outcome as just now and I'm not going to
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    say the whole thing over again you can
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    read it on the screen going up one more
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    option if you picked no your crush had
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    never been seeing anyone or was never
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    romantically involved with anyone else
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    in your friend group followup question
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    from that is does anyone else in your
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    friend group like your crush if you
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    picked yes someone else in my friend
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    group does like my crush followup
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    question from that is is there any
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    chance that your crush actually likes
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    you because rather than risk ruining
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    your entire friendship with that third
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    friend who also has a crush on your
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    crush you should first ask yourself is
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    there anything on the line that's even
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    worth risking for me to completely ruin
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    my friendship with this third person if
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    you picked no you get the outcome of I
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    mean I wouldn't to be honest because the
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    trade-off isn't worth it anyway if your
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    crush isn't going to like you back like
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    you just ruined two relationships in
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    your life I wouldn't do it but if you
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    picked yes there is a chance that my
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    crush does actually like me back you get
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    the question that I've said a million
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    times now which is does the potential of
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    getting together with your crush
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    outweigh the risk of potentially making
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    things awkward and are ruining your
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    relationship with this third friend blah
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    blah blah blah blah okay yes or no you
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    read on screen going back up to the
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    question of does anyone else in your
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    friend group like your crush if you
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    picked no you just get fast Tred all the
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    way to the same question which is does
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    the potential of getting together your
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    crush potentially risk ruining the
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    relationship pick yes or no for don't
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    tell them and or tell them with Extreme
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    Caution okay so now I've completed all
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    of the options for are you and your
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    crush in a friend group together you
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    should have your answer from that we're
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    now going to discuss the scenario of of
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    you met your crush through friends but
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    you're not necessarily friends with your
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    crush so there's two options here that
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    you can pick from number one is you and
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    your crush have a mutual friend so like
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    you guys have a friend between you even
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    if you two aren't necessarily friends
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    the second one is your crush is related
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    to your friend The Sibling cousin blah
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    blah blah of a friend that you have if
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    you picked you and your crush have a
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    mutual friend that's not related to your
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    crush then you go back into the preb
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    branch which is you and your crush at a
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    friend group together and then watch the
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    previous part of this video I'm not
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    going to do that entire thing again if
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    you picked your crush is related to
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    someone that's your friend oh my God are
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    they your friend's sibling if you pick
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    yes oh my God next question is do you
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    think you like them because you actually
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    like them as a person or do you think
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    you have a crush in them just because
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    they're your friend's sibling and so by
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    proximity or like by some weird mind
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    thing you have a crush on them if you
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    picked yes I think I only like them
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    because they're my friend's sibling then
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    don't tell them and I'm sure you'll
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    you'll phase out of it so don't don't do
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    it if you picked no I don't think I'd
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    like them for that reason follow-up
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    question is does the prospect of being
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    with your crush outweigh the fact that
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    you're probably most likely going to
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    completely ruin or at least make it
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    incredibly awkward with your friend for
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    a period of time and or forever if you
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    picked no don't tell them if you picked
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    yes tell them but it'll be a show going
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    back to the question of are they your
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    friend sibling if you picked no parents
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    if you picked yes or no surprise you get
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    the same outcome which is I'm not
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    getting involved in this show close this
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    YouTube video right now now we covered
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    all of the scenarios where you met your
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    crush via friend we're now going to
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    discuss the scenario which is you met
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    your crush through school so the first
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    question is do you see your crush often
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    there's two options that you can pick
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    from this no or yes no would be for
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    example you're on a big campus you're
  • 00:09:21
    not in any of the same classes you're in
  • 00:09:23
    separate departments you know you you're
  • 00:09:25
    never going to run into them if that's
  • 00:09:26
    the case very simple answer you should
  • 00:09:28
    tell them because you're not going to
  • 00:09:29
    risk anything if you're in school you're
  • 00:09:31
    young or not young or like you know
  • 00:09:33
    you're spiritually young so like you
  • 00:09:35
    should tell them anyway there's like
  • 00:09:36
    nothing to risk there's nothing to lose
  • 00:09:38
    if you picked yes you do see your crush
  • 00:09:40
    often EG you're in the same class you're
  • 00:09:42
    in the same department you work together
  • 00:09:44
    on group projects follow question is do
  • 00:09:46
    you actually like them like do you think
  • 00:09:48
    you actually have a crush on this person
  • 00:09:50
    because you're just in forced proximity
  • 00:09:51
    with them if you chose you think you
  • 00:09:53
    only like them cuz you're forced to be
  • 00:09:55
    together like it's forced proximity then
  • 00:09:57
    you get the outcome of don't tell them
  • 00:09:59
    because it's going to ruin the purpose
  • 00:10:01
    they serve in your life anyway which is
  • 00:10:03
    like having something interesting to
  • 00:10:05
    fantasize and Crush about when you're
  • 00:10:06
    like in a boring Calculus class and if
  • 00:10:09
    you tell them it's going to ruin the
  • 00:10:10
    magic for you and then it's also just
  • 00:10:12
    going to make 8:00 a.m. on Wednesdays
  • 00:10:14
    incredibly uncomfortable so I wouldn't
  • 00:10:16
    tell them if you picked no I actually do
  • 00:10:19
    like them for them and it's not because
  • 00:10:21
    we're in forc proximity together
  • 00:10:23
    followup question you're saying you
  • 00:10:25
    would have a crush on this person even
  • 00:10:26
    if you didn't have to see them every day
  • 00:10:28
    you're you're sure you're sure sure two
  • 00:10:29
    options that you can pick from this
  • 00:10:31
    first one uh okay maybe not then you go
  • 00:10:33
    back to the answer which is don't tell
  • 00:10:35
    them if you picked yes I do actually
  • 00:10:37
    like this person then your outcome is
  • 00:10:39
    tell them and you'll either be in the
  • 00:10:40
    best relationship of your life and
  • 00:10:42
    you'll be married or you'll make things
  • 00:10:43
    incredibly awkward and uncomfortable for
  • 00:10:45
    yourself every day when you're forced to
  • 00:10:47
    see them for the rest of I don't know
  • 00:10:48
    the four or five years that you're in
  • 00:10:50
    school okay so now we covered all the
  • 00:10:51
    scenarios of if you met your crush
  • 00:10:53
    through school we're now going to
  • 00:10:54
    discuss if you met your crush through
  • 00:10:56
    work because you're an old person and
  • 00:10:58
    you go to work now it's school so the
  • 00:10:59
    first question for that is do you fear
  • 00:11:02
    being fired if you chose yes don't tell
  • 00:11:04
    them it's probably against HR rules you
  • 00:11:06
    don't tell them if you picked no I don't
  • 00:11:08
    fear being
  • 00:11:09
    fired you sure if you picked no I kind
  • 00:11:12
    of need to pay rent don't tell them if
  • 00:11:13
    you picked yeah I kind of hate my job I
  • 00:11:15
    don't care about being fired follow-up
  • 00:11:16
    question is is your crush in the same
  • 00:11:18
    level as you in the work hierarchy think
  • 00:11:20
    about like the employees in your work
  • 00:11:22
    space like are you above your crush
  • 00:11:25
    below your crush or are you like on the
  • 00:11:26
    same level like your similar pay you
  • 00:11:28
    know what I mean if you picked yes
  • 00:11:30
    you're on the same hierarchy maybe CU
  • 00:11:31
    you do the same job or like you have the
  • 00:11:33
    same manager like you're on the same
  • 00:11:34
    like kind of Level Playing Field
  • 00:11:36
    followup question is the same as the
  • 00:11:38
    school question which is do you think
  • 00:11:40
    you actually like this person like do
  • 00:11:41
    you think you have a crush on them
  • 00:11:43
    because you actually like them or do you
  • 00:11:44
    think you have a crush on them just
  • 00:11:45
    because like you're forced to see them
  • 00:11:47
    in the office every day like would you
  • 00:11:48
    think that this person was cute and
  • 00:11:49
    would you be attracted to them if you
  • 00:11:51
    like walked across the street from them
  • 00:11:52
    and like you don't know them or do you
  • 00:11:54
    only think they're cute because they're
  • 00:11:55
    like the cutest guy in your office
  • 00:11:57
    building where no one is really cute if
  • 00:11:58
    you picked Force proximity don't tell
  • 00:12:00
    them if you picked no I actually like
  • 00:12:02
    them well yeah tell them and it could be
  • 00:12:04
    you know Jim and Pam from The Office
  • 00:12:06
    greatest thing ever or incredibly
  • 00:12:08
    awkward and you probably risked getting
  • 00:12:10
    fired so there you go now we're going to
  • 00:12:12
    go back to the question of the work
  • 00:12:13
    hierarchy so if you picked no AKA your
  • 00:12:16
    crush is on a different level from you
  • 00:12:18
    on the work hierarchy now there's two
  • 00:12:20
    options which is either your crush is
  • 00:12:21
    your Superior or your your crush is
  • 00:12:24
    superior if your crush is your Superior
  • 00:12:27
    followup question from that is do you
  • 00:12:29
    think you like your crush because you
  • 00:12:31
    just have a weird thing for authority
  • 00:12:34
    figures so think about that there's only
  • 00:12:37
    one answer that you can pick from here
  • 00:12:39
    which is I do have a weird thing for
  • 00:12:40
    authority figures but that's not the
  • 00:12:41
    point Crystal and so you get the outcome
  • 00:12:43
    of if you do it there's a 1% chance
  • 00:12:45
    you'll get a promotion and this will be
  • 00:12:47
    like 50 Shades of Gray and a 99% chance
  • 00:12:49
    you'll be fired immediately going back
  • 00:12:51
    to the work hierarchy if you picked your
  • 00:12:53
    crush is your Junior so you're your
  • 00:12:56
    crush's Superior followup question from
  • 00:12:58
    that is is there any chance at all your
  • 00:13:01
    crush actually likes you or is this just
  • 00:13:02
    some sick power play that will make your
  • 00:13:04
    crush incredibly uncomfortable for the
  • 00:13:06
    rest of their limited time working there
  • 00:13:07
    before they inevitably resign because
  • 00:13:09
    you were being weird if you picked no
  • 00:13:11
    there's no chance that your crush likes
  • 00:13:12
    to don't tell them if you picked yes HR
  • 00:13:15
    will hear about this so that's all of
  • 00:13:16
    the scenarios of if you met your crush
  • 00:13:18
    through work we're now going to go into
  • 00:13:19
    the final scenario for the in-person
  • 00:13:21
    circumstances which is you met your
  • 00:13:23
    crush at like a third space so like a
  • 00:13:25
    coffee shop the bar airport Supermarket
  • 00:13:28
    blah blah blah like like you don't
  • 00:13:29
    really know them they're just a stranger
  • 00:13:31
    in this case I think you should tell
  • 00:13:32
    them because they're a stranger like
  • 00:13:34
    maybe it's like a coffee shop that you
  • 00:13:35
    frequent a lot or like the supermarket
  • 00:13:37
    that you always go to then in which case
  • 00:13:39
    yeah it would be a little weird if you
  • 00:13:41
    asked them out and they said no and then
  • 00:13:43
    you'd probably have to like completely
  • 00:13:44
    change your shopping places but like
  • 00:13:46
    it's not significant enough of a burden
  • 00:13:49
    or like a significant enough impact in
  • 00:13:51
    your life potentially that's negative
  • 00:13:53
    for you to like not do it so I think
  • 00:13:54
    life is short you should just tell them
  • 00:13:56
    sorry if that's not as entertaining but
  • 00:13:58
    that's my two sense Okay so we've just
  • 00:14:00
    completed all of the in-person
  • 00:14:02
    circumstances for how do you know your
  • 00:14:04
    crush again being that your crush is not
  • 00:14:07
    dating someone now we're going to
  • 00:14:08
    discuss your crush is not dating someone
  • 00:14:11
    but you know them online or through the
  • 00:14:13
    internet if you said I know my Crush
  • 00:14:15
    online follow-up question is are they a
  • 00:14:18
    celebrity if you picked yes and I have
  • 00:14:19
    to put this option into this you might
  • 00:14:21
    think this is really stupid but I know
  • 00:14:22
    there's a bunch of you mother in my
  • 00:14:24
    comments would be like my crash is a
  • 00:14:25
    celebrity I my crush is like a Tik Tok
  • 00:14:27
    star in which case I have to put this
  • 00:14:28
    inro you mother if you picked yes but my
  • 00:14:31
    crush is a celebrity you can tell them
  • 00:14:33
    but they're never going to know about it
  • 00:14:34
    so have fun go crazy you know they don't
  • 00:14:36
    read their comments just do it if you
  • 00:14:38
    picked no my crush is a real person
  • 00:14:40
    they're not a celebrity then follow-up
  • 00:14:42
    question is did you meet this person on
  • 00:14:44
    a dating app if you picked yes I'm going
  • 00:14:46
    to assume for this scenario that they
  • 00:14:48
    also swiped right on you so it's not
  • 00:14:50
    like some random person that swiped left
  • 00:14:52
    on you on a Tinder you didn't match them
  • 00:14:54
    I'm assuming here you match them on a
  • 00:14:56
    dating app in which case yeah you you
  • 00:14:58
    you should you should tell them
  • 00:15:00
    but yeah tell them but like I'm assuming
  • 00:15:03
    they already know that you like them
  • 00:15:04
    they at least know that you're
  • 00:15:05
    physically attracted to them if you you
  • 00:15:07
    matched on a on a dating app but may
  • 00:15:11
    maybe they don't know maybe they're
  • 00:15:12
    using Tinder friends if you picked no I
  • 00:15:14
    didn't meet them on a dating app
  • 00:15:16
    followup question is have you ever met
  • 00:15:18
    this person in real life if you picked
  • 00:15:20
    yes I have met this person in real life
  • 00:15:21
    you should tell them if you picked no
  • 00:15:24
    I've only known this person online I've
  • 00:15:26
    never met them in real life you get the
  • 00:15:28
    option of you can tell them but there's
  • 00:15:29
    a chance that you won't be attracted to
  • 00:15:31
    them in real life in which case weigh
  • 00:15:33
    your odds okay so that's online spaces
  • 00:15:36
    done that was quick and easy okay now
  • 00:15:38
    we're going to go back to the original
  • 00:15:39
    original question which is we're now
  • 00:15:41
    going to discuss scenarios in which your
  • 00:15:43
    crush is seeing someone if you picked
  • 00:15:45
    yes your crush is seeing someone Define
  • 00:15:47
    seeing there's three options that you
  • 00:15:49
    can now pick from okay so number one is
  • 00:15:51
    they're casually dating someone number
  • 00:15:53
    two is they're in a relationship and
  • 00:15:55
    number three is they're hooking up with
  • 00:15:56
    someone so if you picked your crush is
  • 00:15:58
    hooking up with someone
  • 00:15:59
    same person or multiple people if you
  • 00:16:01
    picked your crush is hooking up with
  • 00:16:02
    multiple people then you should tell
  • 00:16:04
    them but it depends what you want out of
  • 00:16:05
    this AKA do you also want to be just be
  • 00:16:07
    hooking up with your crush or do you
  • 00:16:09
    want to be in a long-term relationship
  • 00:16:10
    with your crush in which case I don't
  • 00:16:12
    think it's going to happen at this point
  • 00:16:13
    in time I'm so sorry like I don't think
  • 00:16:14
    it's going to happen if you picked your
  • 00:16:16
    crush is hooking up with someone but
  • 00:16:17
    it's with the same person they're in a
  • 00:16:19
    situationship what's their role in the
  • 00:16:21
    situationship there's now two options
  • 00:16:23
    that you can choose number one your
  • 00:16:24
    crush is in a situationship and they're
  • 00:16:26
    being dragged Along by the other person
  • 00:16:28
    who won't commit to your crush the
  • 00:16:30
    outcome you get from this is you should
  • 00:16:31
    tell your crush you like them but it's
  • 00:16:34
    more likely than not they're going to be
  • 00:16:35
    too blinded by that other person to ever
  • 00:16:38
    reciprocate your feelings in which case
  • 00:16:40
    it's not even worth it if you picked
  • 00:16:42
    option two your crush is in a
  • 00:16:43
    situationship and they're the one who
  • 00:16:45
    won't commit to this other person and is
  • 00:16:47
    dragging this other person along you get
  • 00:16:49
    the outcome of don't tell them unless
  • 00:16:51
    you also want to be in a situationship
  • 00:16:53
    with this person which you probably
  • 00:16:54
    don't maybe you do but most likely no
  • 00:16:56
    and you don't want to be with this type
  • 00:16:57
    of person anyway that will put you in a
  • 00:16:59
    situationship so I would say don't do it
  • 00:17:01
    so that covers all the scenarios of your
  • 00:17:03
    crush is hooking up with someone we're
  • 00:17:04
    now going to discuss if you picked your
  • 00:17:06
    crush is seeing someone and they're in a
  • 00:17:08
    relationship with someone very obvious
  • 00:17:10
    answer don't tell them um home wrecker
  • 00:17:13
    don't do it I could get into like the
  • 00:17:14
    nuances of like oh but what if they're
  • 00:17:15
    not happy in their relationship I mean
  • 00:17:18
    like someone's going to get mad at me
  • 00:17:20
    with the comments so I'm not I'm not
  • 00:17:21
    going to delve into that I'm not going
  • 00:17:22
    to discuss any of that blanket answer
  • 00:17:24
    don't tell them and also seek proper
  • 00:17:26
    advice don't don't ask me okay final
  • 00:17:29
    we're in a final stretch if you picked
  • 00:17:30
    yes your crush is seeing someone and
  • 00:17:32
    it's in the capacity that they're
  • 00:17:34
    casually dating someone follow-up
  • 00:17:35
    question is it actually casual if you
  • 00:17:37
    picked no it's not actually casual while
  • 00:17:39
    they're in their relationship don't tell
  • 00:17:41
    them if you picked yes it is an actual
  • 00:17:43
    casual relationship followup question
  • 00:17:46
    same person or multiple if you picked
  • 00:17:48
    multiple again it depends same person
  • 00:17:51
    okay they're in a situationship and then
  • 00:17:52
    you go into the situationship branch
  • 00:17:54
    which is what's their role in the
  • 00:17:55
    situationship they're the person that
  • 00:17:56
    won't commit then don't tell them
  • 00:17:57
    because you don't want to be with that
  • 00:17:58
    person anyway if you picked they're the
  • 00:18:00
    person being dragged along in the
  • 00:18:01
    situationship tell them but they're
  • 00:18:03
    probably not going to like you because
  • 00:18:04
    they're too busy being emotionally
  • 00:18:06
    dragged Al by another person in this
  • 00:18:07
    relationship so tell them but it's going
  • 00:18:09
    to end badly there we go we did it all
  • 00:18:11
    we did it I did it did it okay that's
  • 00:18:13
    every scenario Under the Sun all the
  • 00:18:15
    scenarios that I can think of off the
  • 00:18:16
    top of my head off the top of my dome
  • 00:18:18
    for if you should tell your crush that
  • 00:18:19
    you like them so I hope you enjoyed that
  • 00:18:21
    video and if I didn't cover you in this
  • 00:18:23
    graph that's okay because you can always
  • 00:18:24
    use this following section which is
  • 00:18:26
    universal and you can use it for any
  • 00:18:27
    scenario you're going to ask yourself
  • 00:18:28
    two questions okay the first question is
  • 00:18:30
    you're going to ask yourself what do I
  • 00:18:31
    want out of this like do I want to date
  • 00:18:33
    this person do I want to hook up with
  • 00:18:34
    this person do I want to like casually
  • 00:18:35
    date this person have kids with this
  • 00:18:37
    person okay think about it think
  • 00:18:39
    carefully what your answer is going to
  • 00:18:40
    be and then use your answer to this to
  • 00:18:41
    inform the second question which is is
  • 00:18:43
    there any chance that my crush will like
  • 00:18:45
    me back and then there's an aster on
  • 00:18:47
    that with the aster being regardless of
  • 00:18:48
    what you answered for part two you
  • 00:18:50
    should probably tell your crush anyway
  • 00:18:51
    you never know unless you try and life
  • 00:18:53
    is short so don't let a YouTube video
  • 00:18:54
    tell you what you should do but if you
  • 00:18:56
    watch this video and you did tell your
  • 00:18:57
    crush you like them and and you did
  • 00:18:59
    actually get into the best relationship
  • 00:19:00
    of your life or the best one night stand
  • 00:19:03
    of your life you should send me money to
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    at least subscribe because that's free
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    obligatory disclaimer for this video
  • 00:19:11
    which is I Don't Know Jack so I'm not
  • 00:19:14
    giving any solid advice this is not
  • 00:19:15
    advice this is entertainment only my
  • 00:19:17
    qualifications are I didn't hold hands
  • 00:19:18
    romantically with a boy until I was 21
  • 00:19:20
    so don't listen to me I hope you enjoyed
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    this video subscribe and if you want
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    like a PDF print out of this graph that
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    you can slowly follow along no I'm not
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    going to give you one because if I give
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    you one you're not going to watch this
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    video so sorry get
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