SELF-EMPLOYED: Seize opportunities while you can | Ep #618

00:09:39
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPn-8-6AlHo

Summary

TLDRDiskou sa a yo konsantre sou defi ak pwoblèm ke fanm biznis yo fè fas ak, espesyalman nan jere tan ant lavi fanmi ak biznis. Li fè nou konprann ke siksè pa jis sou vin yon bòs, men sou desizyon sa yo pran. Enpòtans tan, efò, ak priorite yo se kle nan reyalizasyon objektif yo. Gen yon refleksyon sou relasyon emosyonèl ak bezwen pèsonèl ki nesesè pou avanse, ak sou lidèchip ki dekouvri nan travay ak lòt moun. Nan fen a, mesaj la se pou ou pa kwè tout sa sosyete di sou siksè, epi al chèche definisyon pwòp ou a.

Takeaways

  • 💪 Pran an konsiderasyon limit tan ou.
  • 🕰️ Ou gen sèlman 24 èdtan nan yon jou.
  • 👩‍💼 Siksè ak fè sa ou renmen se yon gwo defi.
  • 🏆 Se pa tousa ki ka fèt biznis; li mande angajman.
  • ❤️ Jere relsyon emosyonèl yo esansyèl.
  • 🤝 Chèche yon balans ant travay ak fanmi.
  • 📈 Konsantrasyon ak efò yo kle pou siksè.
  • 🤔 Pa kwè tout sa sosyete di sou siksè.
  • 🛡️ Li bon pou konprann bezwen pèsonèl ou.
  • 🔍 Reflechi sou sa ki vrèman enpòtan pou ou.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:09:39

    Emay fè sa yo dwe yan ke sosyete a di ou, paske sa ki te byen popilè se ke pou vin yon bòs se siy ou reyisi. Men, reyalite a se ke sa ka difisil, sitou si ou gen yon fanmi, paske ou gen yon kantite tan limite chak jou. Si ou pase tan sou lòt bagay, sa ap retire resous ou nan antrepriz ou, sa ki ka diminye siksè ou. Anplis, konpetisyon an ap fèt ak lòt moun ki gen menm objektif ak ou, ki ka fè li pi difisil pou reyalize sa ou vle. Se pa tout moun ki ka reyisi tankou sa yo fè konnen nan sosyete a, e se sa ki fè li enpòtan pou konprann kisa ou vrèman vle ak sakrifis ou pare pou fè. Apre anpil tan eksplore, mwen reyalize pa tout kote w ap ale, bagay ki mache pou lòt moun pa nesesèman ap mache pou mwen. Se konsa, mwen kwè sistèm sosyal la sou siksè ak antreprenarya souvan twonpe moun, sa ki ka mennen yo nan chwa ki pa bon pou yo.

Mind Map

Video Q&A

  • Ki sa ki pi difisil nan vin yon fanm biznis?

    Li difisil paske ou dwe jere tan ou byen ant travay ak lavi fanmi.

  • Èske ou ka gen yon fanmi pandan ou se yon biznis?

    Wi, men sa mande anpil efò ak prioritizasyon.

  • Ki difikilte ki asosye ak karyè nan biznis?

    Lè ou se yon biznis ki gen obligasyon fanmi ak travay, sa ka mennen nan pwoblèm tan ak pwodiktivite.

  • Kijan pou ou jere tout sa a?

    Ou dwe fè chwa solid sou sa ou vle plis ak sa ou ka fè.

  • Eske tout moun ka fè biznis?

    Non, biznis pa fèt pou tout moun; li mande pasyon ak angajman.

  • Kòman ou ka jwenn siksè?

    Sa mande anpil travay, konsantrasyon ak adaptabilite.

  • Ki mesaj ou ta bay jèn fanm yo?

    Pa kwè tout sa sosyete di. Ou dwe chèche chemen pwòp ou a.

  • Kòman pou ou konprann bezwen emosyonèl ou?

    Li pran tan, eksperyans ak bon konsèy pou metrize sa.

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    just don't believe everything that
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    Society tells you because when I was
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    younger everybody Wasing oh to be a boss
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    means you have made
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    [Music]
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    it long and you know do you remember
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    when we first okay this one is very
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    interesting because when we first met
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    right actually an told me that um uh if
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    I want to be a successful business woman
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    um it is difficult
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    because I have Wai I married yes and
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    then at that time honestly at the time I
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    didn't believe it yeah okay now I'm not
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    a successful business woman anyway but
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    the thing is that I'm starting to
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    understand why because sometimes I will
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    want to do things for him like I want to
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    co a nice me for him exactly and that
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    one requires time and effort exactly so
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    what I'm trying to say here is it's very
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    simple you only have 24 hours a day yeah
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    no matter how you squeeze it's still 24
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    hours not extra second more okay and
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    then what happens if you use your
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    attention in your time or something else
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    it's going to be taken away from
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    whatever it is so you're going to get
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    like 20% you 20% effort you're 30%
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    results and and and I add on to that
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    because you see if you compare with
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    another Gman who are book her whole day
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    into business and you book 20% I'm sorry
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    you cannot yeah you you cannot people
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    would say no but I want both I want a
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    happy family and I want a happy
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    successful business everybody want that
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    who the heck on Earth don't want
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    everything to to have on their pocket
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    but the but until we upseted the reality
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    is not work that way you will be
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    competitive with another government who
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    at your age who at the same priority
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    like you who interested the same thing
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    like you in the market just assume we
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    both sell the same thing the mic okay I
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    work from five :3 to 1100 p.m. every day
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    with one kid for example just assume
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    that like real life situation one kid in
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    the house and only me and my kid and I
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    have a bunch of team I have to run so my
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    priority that's to only theise do the
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    same thing also sell the mic okay just
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    assume now she need to take care of the
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    whole team plus you need to go date with
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    her husband because married need to
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    maintain right then she need to good
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    good look good for the date okay and
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    then now and I have no meat I have no so
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    I need and then now she need to go to
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    visit parent both sides I think some
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    something happened you already see the
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    answer and that's why I'm talking about
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    the scale the the weight how much you
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    want to book heavy here you have to be
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    ready to take this weight here as well
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    yeah you must remove it's like this one
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    yeah so you you cannot like you cannot
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    choose and when I I tell you the fact
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    because yeah at that moment I like wait
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    I know I don't want to marry anymore why
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    every time the guy I go dig I feel oh my
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    God I want to have family again that's
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    univ will test you again you sure you
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    want to be entrepreneur look at you you
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    happy now you should get another guy you
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    Freedom you make money you can manage
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    your life but it's not it's it's all
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    it's just a test because to confirm
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    again do you want your dream bad enough
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    and and and I I of course it take
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    training years of training for the last
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    four years I do this with my mentor
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    until now he meet me I'm very proud last
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    year he meet me I like hm you're getting
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    wiser very good you're getting more
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    jaded yeah I said now you eat guy like a
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    breakfast right I said don't say that I
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    say no I'm just kidding it sounds like
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    you're having bread wor or sausages for
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    what he tried to say is I can just meet
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    a guy and I can move on very fast now
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    that means you have kind of mastered
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    your own emotional needs do not fall
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    into guy and
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    decide to oh should I start investing
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    him have family with him you know to
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    have kid because you know I'm a family
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    woman too you know uh everybody felt
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    that to be successful you have to run
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    your own business and you took me I
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    think close to 30 years I don't agree
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    with that to realize that it's not for
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    me and I used to be so harsh myself and
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    and I will tell you as a person who run
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    business I will say why it's not because
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    the last thing I want to do is go down
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    and buy business for people buy back the
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    business from people who don't know how
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    to run business and I have to buy over
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    from them because I'm basically a go and
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    clear for other people who are
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    completely don't know what they're doing
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    who completely destroy their life now
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    they heavy living death they need to get
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    out of that business because they
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    thought that's will make them money now
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    make them death for life and when you go
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    through all this paperwork with your
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    accountant and you look at this guy and
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    you're like you know they are not b now
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    you have to work your ass off for the
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    rest of your life to pay this death you
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    better born a golden son man like it's
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    it's so so painful to watch that and
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    that's why I tell I'm say it's not for
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    everyone just don't believe everything
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    that Society tells you because when I
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    was younger everybody was say oh to be a
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    boss means you have made it you know
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    what I mean that that was like the the
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    thing about that then it took me and
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    because I fed into that I believe that
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    right
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    um so I felt like why I do why I try you
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    know when you you you around person you
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    try to put yourself in the square hole
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    it's never going to work so everybody
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    everybody says that to be successful you
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    need to go inside a square hole which is
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    to be a boss so I try many ways to stuff
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    myself in the square hole but obviously
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    it doesn't work yeah because I'm one day
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    you will ready one day I'll will be
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    ready to watch be square no be a
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    boss I will I will train her until then
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    because I know that's what she I need to
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    be a boss I know that's her last pick of
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    her life that's what she need to do I
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    know 50 P or something late 40 it's a
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    disaster the next M show y only making
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    making it like she she she made it like
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    very very late on in life right yeah but
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    good job for the for the well you start
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    later than me as well so it's okay
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    because I start much because I had a
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    good life as a kid yeah so that's when
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    it's a good thing and a bad thing to
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    have a struggle when you're young girl
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    yeah she has a lot struggle so she grew
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    up that fast I had close to zero
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    struggle so I grew up very
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    slowly oh I have one more banana leave
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    inside the room as well that's one also
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    that one also has he having a good life
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    I think generally we are born good with
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    the team work with Team I don't worry
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    she good at that she right now is like
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    because the the the primary school I
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    think one of the thing you guys have
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    that you guys very charm mean the making
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    friends yeah you can make other people
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    do for you so what was my struggle my
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    struggle was I would have to do do it
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    and other people what the biggest
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    struggle is when you have teammates they
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    are not doing things ah yeah that's what
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    she that's what she crying all the down
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    yeah that that that was a my biggest
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    struggle I was because you want to
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    control people no I don't want to
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    control but I just want every really
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    just do your own part you sit you will
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    do it but it's not
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    done and then after that I get it and
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    then after that and one so I will
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    volunteer to put it together at the end
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    because you do part A you part B have to
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    put it together make sure it join
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    properly together like a proposal right
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    yeah and then it's not sent to me in
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    time and then I have to rush to submit
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    on time and then it become my
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    problem time to learn leadership yeah
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    that's why that's why that's why I
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    realized that ah no I rather that's just
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    that's just not just do by myself it's
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    easier that way but anyway yes she will
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    start to have a good projects oh please
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    I can't wait then it's outside school
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    hours but this is a lucky girl that I I
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    think she will have a lot of luck she
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    Lucky by so I also a lucky girl yeah
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    it's not a Sy I don't have that lucky
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    all my luck is com I will drop my okay I
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    will drop my wallet and you come to a
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    point where when I was much younger I
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    can drop my entire wallet and then then
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    then people like you drop your entire
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    wallet then you know last time handphone
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    right your wallet is everything course
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    your phone card your IC your money
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    everything your B card is all inside cut
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    all
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    inside I said just go and take why take
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    I said no nobody will take my wallet how
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    you know your wallet you put somewhere
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    secret I said no just dra on the floor
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    then I go the Mt the somebody will pick
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    up and put at the counter for
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    me or or I will go back to where I drop
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    it and he will stand on the floor even
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    if that make people it's just still
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    there the nothing is
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    missing see that's why that's the real
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    you're lucky yeah but but but it runs
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    out it does run out so the universe will
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    give you a few chances so if you don't
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    learn to take care of things then then
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    yeah he runs a lot share and subscribe
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    and we will see you guys at the next
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    episode of I am and the den ni bye
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    [Music]
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