6 Clear Signs A Woman Wants You (Most Guys Miss These)

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Summary

TLDRIn this video, six subtle signs of attraction are explored to help determine if someone is interested in you. These signs include preening behaviors, various types of touch (like drag touches and little touches), body orientation towards you, leaning in during conversation, and the smiling eye dart when someone looks away quickly after catching your gaze. Celebrity examples are used to illustrate these behaviors, and the importance of noticing multiple signs is emphasized. The video also introduces 'Charisma University,' a program aimed at boosting confidence and charisma to enhance one's attractiveness in social interactions.

Takeaways

  • 🌟 Look for preening behaviors like fixing hair and clothes.
  • 🤝 Observe types of touch: drag touches signal interest.
  • 🧍‍♂️ Pay attention to body orientation; facing you indicates attraction.
  • 👂 Leaning towards you during conversation can be a positive sign.
  • 👁️ A smiling eye dart is a clear sign of interest.
  • 💖 Frequent unnecessary touches may indicate attraction.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:08:48

    In the beginning, the speaker addresses the common uncertainty of whether someone is flirting or being friendly. They introduce a list of six subtle signs for potential attraction, emphasizing that no single sign is definitive, but a combination can indicate interest.

Mind Map

Video Q&A

  • What are the subtle signs someone is attracted to me?

    The signs include preening, touch (drag touches and unnecessary touches), body orientation, leaning in during conversations, and the smiling eye dart.

  • Do all signs guarantee attraction?

    No single sign guarantees attraction; it's when multiple signs are observed that a clearer picture emerges.

  • What is preening?

    Preening involves adjusting one's appearance, such as fixing hair or clothes, often subconsciously in the presence of someone attractive.

  • What is a smiling eye dart?

    It's when someone looks at you and quickly looks away while smiling, indicating they were caught checking you out.

  • How can I become more attractive?

    Boosting your charisma and confidence can enhance your attractiveness.

  • What is Charisma University?

    Charisma University is a 30-day video series designed to improve your charisma and confidence.

  • Is physical touch always a sign of attraction?

    Not always; it's important to look for frequent and unnecessary touches, as context matters.

  • What is a drag touch?

    A drag touch occurs when someone maintains contact longer than necessary, which may indicate attraction.

  • Should I rely on these signs to interpret someone's feelings?

    While these signs can be helpful, they should be considered alongside other contextual factors.

  • Can I be touchy with someone who's just a friend?

    Yes, but if the touch is more frequent with you than with others, it might suggest attraction.

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    we've all been there before you're
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    talking to someone you like and you
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    can't quite tell if they're flirting
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    with you
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    or just being friendly mrs robinson
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    you're trying to seduce me
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    [Music]
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    aren't you you might feel this
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    uncertainty when talking to someone
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    you've just met
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    or maybe with someone you've known for a
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    while but have trouble reading
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    either way in this video we'll go
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    through 6 subtle signs
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    you can look for to figure out if
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    someone is attracted to you
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    one quick note before we begin for
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    visual aids we'll be
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    looking at clips from celebrities but
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    given that the cameras are rolling and
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    these are actors
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    it doesn't necessarily mean these people
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    are attracted to each other
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    also no single sign guarantees anything
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    but if you see several of them together
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    you'll start to get a clear picture of
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    how the person feels about you
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    superhero film we've all seen a bunch of
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    superhero films
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    the first subtle sign that someone is
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    attracted to you is something you might
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    see while speaking with them
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    or you might catch it even before being
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    in conversation
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    it's preening examples of preening are
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    standing up straighter
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    playing with or fixing their hair
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    straightening their clothes or playing
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    with jewelry
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    you can probably think back to a time
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    when you did this while talking to
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    someone attractive
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    here's an example from margot robbie
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    that bullied him
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    on the boardwalk on his way home one day
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    yeah i was bully number
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    two i think these are things we all do
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    some of the time but when we're looking
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    at someone we're attracted to we do it
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    for longer periods of time or more
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    frequently
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    so if you notice someone fix their hair
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    once it might not mean anything
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    but doing it a lot can be a subtle sign
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    they're interested in you for example
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    watch a few moments with craig ferguson
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    and kate mara her words give away that
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    she's flirting in the first clip but for
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    yourself
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    you want to pay attention to the body
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    language even during the more innocent
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    parts of conversation
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    i like to do the shoulder pads and heels
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    and then nothing else
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    oh yeah that's uh it's all right
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    what else do you want to talk about i
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    love dunkin donuts coffee no no he's not
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    he's not he's not a donut horse he's a
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    regular yeah he's a horse
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    people preen subconsciously as a
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    combination of nervous fiddling and a
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    desire to make themselves look better
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    so in this next clip notice how
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    catherine's hair touch comes after craig
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    calls her out on something
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    yeah toronto's crazy by the way i like
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    that little do you feel that little leg
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    thing happen in there
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    yeah yeah you are a black belt aren't
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    you
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    as you just saw touch can be another
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    sign that someone is attracted to you
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    but not every touch means the same thing
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    there's two kinds of touches to look out
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    for that are subtle signs someone is
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    attracted to you
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    the first is a drag touch or lingering
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    touch for example
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    notice how this woman's hand stays
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    touching the guy for as long as she can
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    can i get another egg absolutely i'm so
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    glad you're here yeah
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    i don't know which way i'll just go this
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    way a hug can definitely be platonic but
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    if afterwards someone drags their hand
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    across your arm or down your body rather
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    than immediately disconnect
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    it might be a sign of something more
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    here's a quick comparison of a platonic
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    hug
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    versus a drag touch the drag touch won't
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    always be that obvious so here's a more
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    subtle example
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    it goes quickly watch how instead of
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    dropping her hand after the hug
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    she drags it across cristiano's back
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    basically not disconnecting completely
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    until the last moment she can
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    so next time you hug someone and you
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    aren't quite sure how they feel about
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    you pay attention to whether they
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    quickly disconnect or let their hands
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    linger
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    that said not every touch needs to be
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    drawn out in order to be a sign of
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    interest
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    the second touch related sign that
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    someone is attracted to you involves
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    little touches
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    but frequent unnecessary little touches
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    here's an example of an unnecessary
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    touch it's just the two of them speaking
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    so she could have said this without
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    touching his arm
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    i could tell you again later you can
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    tell me again later that'd be fine
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    one unnecessary touch doesn't
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    necessarily mean anything on its own
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    it's when you see several back to back
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    that it becomes a sign of attraction
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    here's a quick example i've been
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    studying you
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    you've been studying me yeah and i've
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    been wondering what's going on here
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    and well i sort of like created the link
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    between this
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    and this is there a link there is there
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    something is there a theme running
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    yeah it's a you know it's a service
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    because i'm guessing how far that's
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    going
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    yeah there were actually more states now
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    as i think about it keep going i can get
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    up don't make a joke out of that
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    none of those touches on their own mean
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    anything after all some people are just
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    touchy
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    so what you really want to pay attention
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    to is if someone is touchier with you
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    than with other people that shows they
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    may be attracted to you
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    now in times of social distancing you
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    might not see a lot of touching
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    so another subtle sign you should pay
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    attention to is where someone points
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    their body
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    for example here's robert downey jr
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    having a platonic conversation with
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    craig ferguson
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    slight correction it's not the number
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    one movie in america it's the number one
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    movie worldwide
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    he phases his legs and body to the
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    audience only turning his neck to look
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    at craig
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    compare that to this conversation where
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    the woman is completely perpendicular to
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    her chair
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    looking at the two side by side it's
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    obvious who's engaging more with craig
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    here's another example where you can see
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    a change in body language during the
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    conversation
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    notice how tiffany starts with her body
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    fairly even between james corden and jay
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    but as the flirting starts she cheats
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    her body more and more towards
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    jay that's a good madden pi which has
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    mondays at nine on cbs
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    so you didn't answer my question though
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    can we go to break please she even keeps
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    her body facing jay while james corden
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    is speaking
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    you're never going to break him
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    if you see someone point their body
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    towards you even while they talk to
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    someone else that's a great sign that
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    the person is interested in you
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    closely tied to this is another body
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    related sign that someone is attracted
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    to
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    if they lean their body towards you this
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    can be done in a variety of ways the
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    obvious example would be while speaking
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    to you like this
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    a less obvious time that you might see
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    this and not realize it's happening is
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    if they fall
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    towards you while laughing
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    she easily could have fallen backwards
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    or to the other side but she fell to the
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    side that put her closer to craig
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    this could just be by chance but it may
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    also be a subconscious desire to get
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    closer to you
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    for a quick comparison watch alice eve
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    with fairly neutral body language with
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    conan although she is facing him
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    and compare it to her body language with
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    craig i grew very quickly
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    i grew like three feet in a year and uh
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    what you can't pick and choose like well
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    i suppose you can actually
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    yeah yeah you can no i feel bad country
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    it is a free country you're absolutely
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    right well done alice for reminding us
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    that it's a free country the last sign
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    someone may be attracted to you is
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    likely to happen before you're even
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    speaking to them it's the smiling eye
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    dart
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    here's a great example in this case
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    henry cavill is looking at her first
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    but normally it'll be when you catch
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    them looking at you our series
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    so we also were talking about how to
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    make sure that we bring her in early
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    enough
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    it's normal for someone to look away
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    when you accidentally lock eyes with
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    them so what you're looking for
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    is that sheepish smile while they look
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    away that's a tell that they feel like
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    they've been caught
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    meaning they were likely purposefully
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    looking at you perhaps because they have
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    a crush on you or are checking you out
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    so now you know some subtle signs that
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    someone is feeling attracted to you
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    but what if you're realizing that you
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    don't get these signs thrown your way as
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