The negotiation process (Up In The Air 2009)

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyL7TG6SzDU

Summary

TLDRThe dialogue centers around a conversation between a manager and an employee who is being laid off after more than ten years of service. The employee expresses deep frustration and anger over his unexpected termination, questioning the manager's empathy and expressing concern for his family's future. He highlights the contrast between his previous salary and the insufficient unemployment benefits, illustrating the harsh realities of losing a job. The manager attempts to shift the conversation towards a more positive perspective, encouraging the employee to see the job loss as an opportunity for personal growth and a chance to pursue his dreams. However, the employee struggles to see beyond his immediate financial worries and the impact on his children, revealing the emotional complexities surrounding job loss.

Takeaways

  • 😞 **Emotional Turmoil**: The employee feels frustrated and angry over abrupt job loss.
  • 💼 **Years of Service**: He has dedicated over 10 years to the company, raising questions about loyalty.
  • 💰 **Financial Concerns**: The drastic reduction in income post-layoff poses severe financial challenges.
  • 👶 **Impact on Family**: The employee worries about the implications for his children and their well-being.
  • 🤔 **Positive Outlook**: The manager suggests rethinking the transition as a chance for reinvention.
  • ✨ **Pursuing Dreams**: There's a discussion on following one's passions and opportunities beyond the job.
  • 😩 **Corporate Reality**: The dialogue reflects the challenges faced by employees in corporate settings.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:03:44

    The conversation revolves around an employee being informed about termination of employment after a decade of service. The employee expresses feelings of disbelief and anger, questioning the fairness of the situation and the impact on their family. They highlight financial concerns, especially about the inability to afford necessities and healthcare for their children. The employer attempts to reframe the situation positively, suggesting that adversity can lead to personal growth and academic motivation for the children. The employee remains skeptical, emphasizing their sacrifices and lost dreams. The employer encourages the idea of rediscovering one's passion, suggesting that the termination could lead to a new beginning, not just for the employee but also for their children.

Mind Map

Video Q&A

  • What is the main issue discussed in the dialogue?

    The main issue is the emotional impact of job loss on the employee after many years of service.

  • How does the employee feel about losing his job?

    The employee feels angry, frustrated, and worried about the implications for his family.

  • What advice does the manager offer the employee?

    The manager suggests that the job loss could be an opportunity for personal growth and a chance to pursue his dreams.

  • What concerns does the employee have about his family?

    The employee is worried about financial stability and how he will provide for his children's needs.

  • What does the dialogue reveal about corporate job stability?

    It highlights the precarious nature of job security and the emotional toll it can take on individuals.

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    when I talk about a strategy packet, you
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    hand them one of those. Sounds great.
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    So, although I wish I were here with
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    better
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    news, the fact is that you and I are
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    sitting here today because uh this will
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    be your last week of employment at this
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    company. Why me? What am I supposed to
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    do now? Am I supposed to feel better
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    that I'm not the only one losing my job?
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    This is ridiculous. I have been a fine
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    employee for over 10 years and this is
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    the way you treat me. How you sleep at
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    night, man? Huh? How's your family? They
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    sleeping well at night? Electricity
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    still on? Heat still on? Refrigerator
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    full of
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    food? Gas tank full of gas? Going
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    Chuck-E-Cheese this weekend or
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    something? Not
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    me. No. My kids, we're not going to do
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    anything.
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    What do you suggest I tell them?
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    Perhaps you're underestimating the
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    positive effect that your career
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    transition can have on your children.
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    The positive
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    effect. Make about 90 grand a year
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    now. Unemployment is what, 250 bucks a
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    week. Is that one of your positive
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    effects? Well, we'll get to be cozier
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    because I'm not going to be able to pay
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    my mortgage on my house. So, maybe we
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    can move into a nice one-bedroom
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    apartment
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    somewhere. And I guess without benefits,
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    I'll be able to hold my daughter as she,
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    you know, suffers from her asthma that I
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    won't be able to afford the medication
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    for.
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    Well, tests have shown that children
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    under moderate trauma have a tendency to
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    apply themselves
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    academically as a method of coping.
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    Go
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    yourself. That's what my kids will
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    think. Your children's admiration is
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    important to you. Yeah. Yeah, it was.
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    I doubt they ever admired you, Bob. Hey,
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    Aren't you supposed to be
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    consoling me?
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    I'm not a shrink, Bob. I'm a wakeup
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    call. You know why kids love athletes?
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    Oh, cuz they screw lingerie models. No,
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    that's why we love athletes. Kids love
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    athletes because they follow their
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    dreams.
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    Well, I can't dunk. No, but you can
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    cook. What are you talking about? Your
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    resume says that you minored in French
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    culinary arts. Most students, they work
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    in the fryer at KFC, but you bust tables
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    at the old Pictor to support yourself.
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    And then you get out of college and you
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    come and you work here. How much did
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    they first pay you to give up on your
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    dreams?
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    27 grand a year. And when were you going
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    to stop and come back and do what makes
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    you happy?
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    Good question. I see guys who work at
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    the same company for their entire lives.
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    Guys exactly like you. They clock in,
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    they clock out, and they never have a
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    moment of
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    happiness. You have an opportunity here,
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    Bob. This is a rebirth.
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    If not for you, do it for your children.
Tags
  • job loss
  • emotional impact
  • financial stability
  • career transition
  • manager-employee dialogue
  • opportunity
  • personal growth
  • parenthood
  • unemployment
  • resilience