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number one you send him a message that
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says I'm craving our
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conversation here's what this message
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does you've snuck into his day and
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jolted him out of whatever he's doing
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right now to bring him into the moment
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with you it wasn't Small Talk hey how
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you doing what you up to how's your day
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going you just jumped straight into
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something meaningful and you've paid a
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unique compliment to the dynamic you
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have with him number
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two why haven't you asked me to see the
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new Blade Runner yet this message is
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adorably demanding in a playful way it's
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vulnerable on one hand you know you are
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saying I want to do this with you it's
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also slightly unreasonable because he
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didn't even necessarily know that you
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wanted to see that film in fact I would
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say this message works better if he
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didn't even know you wanted to do that
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thing and you're being upfront about
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what you want you're putting the ball in
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his court and saying hey
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mister invite me on this date please
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mistake number one playing games about
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when to text back now let's say monkey
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receives a
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text huh it's from George but instead of
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texting George back and having a
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conversation monkey thinks no I am going
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to
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wait and George is going to see how busy
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I am how important I am and how
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attractive I am but the problem is
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George is by his phone right now she
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could have had a message with him and
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carried on the momentum and ridden that
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wave instead she waited 5 or 6 hours to
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text back George Who incidentally was no
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longer curious now look I'm not saying
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that when someone texts you you should
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always be by your phone waiting to text
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them back but if someone happens to text
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you in a moment where you're not doing
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anything and it's organic to reply to
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them right away why not use the momentum
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of that moment and have a conversation
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if 5 10 minutes later you need to go
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that's fine that's where you can be busy
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in an authentic way but don't play games
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of making someone wait just to look cool
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number two obsessively sticking to text
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as the form of communication I think of
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different mediums whether they're texts
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pictures voice memos phone calls
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facetimes all is having a kind of energy
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bar and the more you do them the more
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that energy bar gets depleted and we
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start to get diminishing returns from
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that thing if we over text doesn't
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matter how quirky or fun or witty we are
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by text it begins to wear thin and most
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people have had that experience it's
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like okay I need a different stimuli now
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I need something else that's when it
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pays to send someone a picture and just
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say you know the view from where I am
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right now if you happen to be looking
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out on a beautiful view or if you happen
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to be sitting in bed with a dessert in
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front of you in front of the TV take a
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picture of the dessert and be like the
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view from where I am right now check out
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my view right
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now in that moment you're changing up
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the medium the same can be done with a
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voice memo in the middle of a text
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conversation when you feel like it's
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getting a little dry send someone a
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voice memo instead if they're teasing
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you shake it up by sending a voice memo
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back saying you're so mean it's cute
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it's playful but it's a pattern break
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that suddenly injects new life into the
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conversation because the energy bar of
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voice is not depleted in the way that
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your texting has mistake number three
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being one no what gets someone really
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attracted to us is not when we're one
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energy but when we're able to be
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versatile between different energies if
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you find yourself always being very
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polite and sweet today be a little bossy
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say to someone are you going to call me
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tonight or what if you find yourself
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sending lots of nice friendly messages
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to someone amp up the sexual tension
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today tell them you look really hot in
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that picture you posted today those are
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things that show that you can be many
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things so think of the energy you
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normally have the one you're most
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comfortable with and do the inverse of
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that today mistake number four talking
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about everything except yourself people
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truly fall for you when they hear your
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story because your story is what makes
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you different from from everybody else
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so the next time you have a conversation
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with someone ask yourself this am I only
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describing here what I've been doing or
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am I actually revealing who I am and
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what I'm thinking about here's an
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example because I know this sounds a
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little abstract if someone asked you
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what did you do last night you say I
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cooked ribs for the first time last
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night now that's not a bad text it's
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still a conversation starter but it's
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still only talking about what you did
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what we want to do is add on to that a
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bit about who you are if you wanted to
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do even better than that in telling your
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story you could say I made ribs for the
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first time for my family last night I'm
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a little late to this cooking thing to
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be honest but I'm actually really
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enjoying learning about it now someone
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sees a hint of vulnerability what you're
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learning about right now and how you
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feel about it mistake number five being
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too passive almost everybody has had the
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experience of something moving
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way too slowly of someone who keeps
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drifting back and forth giving you kind
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of mixed signals they're not asking you
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out but they do keep reaching out by
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text you don't know where it's going it
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feels totally ambiguous this is where I
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like to apply what I call gracious
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impatience which means warmly politely
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being more upfront about what you
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actually want so let's say monkey wants
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to progress things with George now
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they've been texting back and forth for
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a few weeks but it seems like the
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momentum isn't carrying them to the next
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stage why doesn't he ask me out on a
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date why didn't he at least pick up the
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phone here I am just texting away what
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am I going to text myself into an early
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shallow monkey
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grave sorry well the passive response
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would be to be texting George and to be
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like yes like I think that is true as
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well George bye George we'll do the same
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thing again tomorrow or monkey can be
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graciously
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impatient the next time George messages
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her she can say h yeah that's a real
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funny joke George you're a real funny
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guy there so anyway mister are you
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actually going to ask me out or can I
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just expect to house your week for the
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rest of my life now I know this sounds
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like a simple message but there is a lot
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that is right with this message message
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when you say so Mister there's a little
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bit of an authoritative but almost sexy
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tone to that you're being demanding
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you're being a little bossy then you
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give the standard are you going to ask
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me out that's what you want you're
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actually saying what you want or can I
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just expect a house your week for the
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rest of my life that's you being
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intentionally hyperbolic and dramatic to
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create a playfulness around something
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that you're also kind of not playing
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about people never get any momentum they
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don't get from a first conversation to a
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FaceTime or an actual date or they don't
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get from date one to date two or they
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had momentum and they lost it and they
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don't know how to get it back again with
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that person I wanted to create something
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that showed people how to get momentum
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in the early stages of dating someone
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and then keep it so that it actually
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turned into a relationship and the way
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that I've chosen to do that is to create
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a texting program that shows you I think
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there's like 60 or 70 different text
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messages in the program that you can use
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to create to sustain or to regain
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momentum with the person you're dating
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and I did something even more unique
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because I created a numbering system
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whereby it went from one to five number
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one being you just met this person very
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first message and number five being you
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actually feel seriously about this
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person and I assigned each one of the
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text messages I give you in the program
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a number so that you know when to send
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the message and when not to send the
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message so I've called it the momentum
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texts I'm very proud of it it's like a
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cool little program it's not a big
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program it's really quick to digest it's
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the price of two Lattes or one and a
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half lattes if you live in Los Angeles
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between one and a half and two lates
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depending on where you get your lates go
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check it out I'll see you there recently
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I was coaching a woman who showed me a
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text exchange with someone she had met
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on an app The Exchange went like this hm
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are you just a flirt or is there more to
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you he said are you just a Debbie Downer
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or more to you she said you have to be
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more than a flirt to find out he said
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you're a lot to deal with although that
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guy sounds like kind of a jerk and
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probably not someone she wants the
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attention of there is something that she
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said that I wanted to pick up on she
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said hm are you just a flirt or is there
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more to you now the problem I have with
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that is the intention is good what she
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wants to see is if this exchange can
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become more than a flirtatious or
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perhaps even a sexual interaction and
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become a deeper connection I believe the
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best way to do that is not to ask is
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there more to you but to show there's
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more to you because when you've reveal
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more about yourself what you're really
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saying to someone is here's me can you
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be that two I'll give you an example
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let's say a guy texted a woman and said
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what are you up to now she could just
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give a plain response oh with my family
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right now what's going on with you or
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she could see this very simple question
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as a way to tell her story and reveal
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more about herself so he says what are
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you up to she says I'm building a desk
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from Ikea with my dad and my sister and
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none of us seem to be able to do it so
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we're just rolling around on the floor
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laughing instead
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now when that woman says that she's
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revealing a lot about herself she's a
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family person she has an adorable
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affectionate relationship with those
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members of her family in this case her
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dad and her
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sister she's self-deprecating and can
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laugh at herself in a situation all of
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that is telling her story now that does
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something very subtle it shows her in
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three dimensions and the effect it has
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is that it invites him to either show
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himself in three dimensions by getting
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vulnerable in return and revealing more
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about his life or at the very least it
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invites him to recognize her in three
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dimensions to see her as a more rounded
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real human being to invest in now if at
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this point he doesn't do either of those
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two things and instead he just says so
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what are you uh wearing while you're
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making the desk he's showing that he is
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either completely onedimensional or that
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his intentions are completely
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onedimensional you learn more by
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revealing your own self and your own
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story than you do by asking someone to
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reveal theirs because everything is
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shown in their reaction to you opening
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up number one add a human detail to your
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text messages is one thing for someone
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to say how's your day going and you say
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it's going well thanks how how's yours
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it's another thing to say it's going
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well I'm about to go on a run that gives
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someone a detail something they can
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craft a conversation out of or you could
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go one step further and say it's going
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well thanks I'm about to go on a run I'm
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dragging my little brother with me that
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now gives them a human detail on top of
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it something that paints a more
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three-dimensional picture of you in a
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world that is 2D we have to make
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ourselves threedimensional
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number number two I'm calling this
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principle shorten the time frame if
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you're talking to someone on a Monday
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and they happen to be leaving the
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conversation to go into a meeting don't
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finish that little chapter of the
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conversation by saying have a great week
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say have a great meeting have a great
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meeting is an interesting phrase or if
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you say have a great workout or have a
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great whatever they're doing right now
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because it's something you send to
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someone you actually know you may have
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only met this person yesterday but when
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you say have a great meeting there's
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something familiar about that there's
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something personal about that there's
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something that recognizes what they're
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doing right now and it also makes it
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easier to pick up the conversation by
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them telling you how the meeting went or
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by you asking how did the meeting go
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have a great week says I'll talk to you
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next week have a great meeting says
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we'll talk later
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today number three create a shared
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reference together if someone tells you
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something like their favorite TV show is
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Ted lasso in a matter of minutes your
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relationship dilemma will be in the past
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then the next time you have a moment of
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banter fun conversation find a gif that
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fits what you're talking about from Ted
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lasso that's a joke I love it that then
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creates this moment of a I know you a
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little bit B I was listening and C we
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have we now have a shared reference
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together something that builds our
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story side note when you send a GIF or
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GIF Harry it's a form of pattern break
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in a conversation so it's been text text
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text text text and then this GIF comes
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through and it's just like this little
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moment of Animation it doesn't have to
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be a gif you could be a voice note it
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could be a picture but when you do
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something like that it's a pattern break
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that grabs someone's
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attention the Intrigue compliment give
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someone a compliment that's specific but
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begin it with this phrase do you know
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what I like about you first you're
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signaling that something interesting is
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coming how do I know it's interesting
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because it's about them and that's the
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most interesting subject in the world to
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that person right so do you do you know
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what I like about you pause right you
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can even not put it in that message just
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put one message you could do this in
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conversation too and just take a beat
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but in text you say do you know what I
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like about you and then you can wait for
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them to respond or just take a few
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seconds or a minute and then send the
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next part that creates this moment of
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suspense Intrigue curiosity and it then
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allows you to give a specific compliment
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that shows not only a generous nature
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but it also shows confidence because
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you're confident enough to actually
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embrace and speak out loud about
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something specific you like about
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another
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person number six the accelerator text
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the idea behind this message is just to
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keep things
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moving we have to have an unwilling to
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stand still an unwillingness to be in a
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situation where there is no momentum and
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that means if you keep getting texts
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from someone that don't go anywhere
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someone keeps sending you superficial
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details of their day or what they're up
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to or asking how you are but it never
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culminates in a date you have to have a
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low tolerance for things that don't go
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anywhere so I mean we had this example
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Steven who's in the back hey Steve we
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had this example a week ago where
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someone said this guy he'll literally
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text me and he'll tell me he's making
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soup but he never asks me on a date but
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he's the one who proactively texts me so
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here's what you do you ask him what soup
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he's making he says chicken soup you
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then say you know what's even more fun
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than chicken soup chicken soup on a date
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and you see what he says to that that's
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you calling him out for the fact that he
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hasn't asked you on a date it's give is
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firmly putting the ball in his court and
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saying your turn that may be playful
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it's not aggressive but it shows an
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unwillingness to ignore the fact that
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right now this isn't progressing you've
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just crossed over
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into a Twilight
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phone Our Story begins with a friend of
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mine who met a guy on a Friday night
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what you are about to see is a real text
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exchange between her and this man that
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started on
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Sunday he sent her a message saying
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great meeting you she then said you two
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how's your Sunday been pretty decent
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start right except for the fact that he
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didn't reply
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until well Tuesday has been great upside
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down face how's your week been so far
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she then
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replies you are pray at Grandpa esque
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texting speeds now I actually like this
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message I like the fact that she's
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calling him out on how slow he is at
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texting what I don't like is the little
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ahaha where she softens the blow in the
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beginning I kind of want her to just say
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it without even worrying about offending
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him in this moment she then says this
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really good week about to get really
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crazy though now I would have been happy
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if she just left it there I know she's
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not asking him a question and that might
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seem like the polite thing to do but
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this isn't about politeness it's about
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attraction and in this moment he might
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have just been messaging her because
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he's bored to prove that he's not just
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bored she should allow him to do a
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little more work instead here's where it
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goes wrong which is why tomorrow I could
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do with getting a happy hour drink with
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a handsome gentleman 700 p.m. is here
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she does all his work for him now you
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guys if you know My Philosophy no I
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don't have a problem with a woman asking
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a guy on a date but in this scenario he
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has not learned this all he's done is
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send a low investment message so I wish
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that she'd allowed him to get himself to
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that point instead of rushing to arrange
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a date tomorrow night based on two
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messages and here's how you know she
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went wrong he didn't text her back on
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Tuesday he didn't even text her back on
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Wednesday he didn't even text her back
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on Thursday he didn't text
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her
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until and do you want to know what he
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said
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Grandpa Emoji now the fact that he sent
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this Emoji of this poor old man doesn't
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make him a bad guy it just makes him a
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guy who's not trying very hard right now
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and as you know I'm always encouraging
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women to give investment to men who are
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investing in them and to her credit
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knowing what I would advise her to do in
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such a situation my friend didn't reply
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which brings us
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to now it's almost as though between the
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Friday and the Tuesday he realized uh-oh
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I may have screwed this up so he gives
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his reasons for not texting back quickly
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enough I mean it's just that my Wi-Fi is
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slow my phone wasn't working I dropped
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it and it was dunzo last week was a
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crazy busy week and also I'm really slow
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when it comes to texting now this is
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where my friend came to Me 2 hours after
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she had received that message she said
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what do I text back to this guy now my
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first question was do you actually want
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to see this person again to which her
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reply was yes now for those of you
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watching out there who say I wouldn't
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want to see him again fine that would be
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your decision for her she did want to
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see him again so I said give me the
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phone she passed me the phone I wrote
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out a message and hit send and it was a
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very different message than the one she
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would have sent all good have a great
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week now why did I send this because in
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this moment he's expecting to give a
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bunch of excuses and for her to take all
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of that rationale on and say oh it's
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okay no worries how's your week going do
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you want to do something tomorrow night
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at 7:00 he's expecting attention she
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doesn't give him attention what she says
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instead is that's all good and by the
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way I'm not going to get into this with
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you because why would I right you have
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your reasons I have my reality well I'm
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more interested in is my reality not
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your reasons your reasons may be true
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your reasons may be accurate you may not
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be lying but I'm interested in my
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reality in other words in the result I'm
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getting and the result is nothing's
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really happening between us and this is
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a poor text exchange so my reality is
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what I'm responding to respond to your
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reality not to his reasons have a great
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week Smiley happy positive polite but
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low investment I knew that this would
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scramble his brain she's kind of checked
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out a little bit even though she's still
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being polite and warm which is what
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kills a person when you're still warm
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and polite but you're moving on and
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doing your thing that affects them
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deeply here's what he sent back so does
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that offer still stand for hanging out
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or is that a onetime deal I'm free if
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you're available would be nice to talk
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at normal speed so this is a guy who
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suddenly got vulnerable he realized that
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he wasn't getting anywhere that she she
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was checking out and that he needed to
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actually start to invest so he puts it
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all on the line here's what I told her
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to write back it's dangerously close to
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a one-time deal now by saying that
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you're actually introducing that element
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of danger this might not work out for
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you now as a result of what you've done
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but there's a little playful Emoji there
00:22:18
little softener what did you have in
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mind so here's where you're not doing
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the work for him instead of her now
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saying what she said in the beginning
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which is how about a date tomorrow night
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at 7:00 instead she's putting him on the
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back foot you're coming after me so what
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did you have in mind to which he replies
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why don't we meet at harow for a drink
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tomorrow at 700 p.m. she then
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says okay see you tomorrow this is a
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tempered response but it's warm and it
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does exactly what we always intend to do
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to show the person opposite us that I
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will invest if you invest but I'm not
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going to invest simply because I like
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you this is an equal Arrangement you
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give I give you may have noticed that
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dating today is fraught with situations
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where nothing seems to happen you're
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00:23:29
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there's no proactiveness about them
00:23:33
there's no intentionality in the way we
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date in fact that's a big part of the
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we don't know how to say no quickly to
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the people that aren't giving us any
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