Michael Singer - Love is Your Natural State - Let Go of What's Blocking It

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Summary

TLDRIn hierdie video word bespreek hoe mense die konsep van geestelike groei verkeerd verstaan. Dit word gesê dat ware geestelike groei gaan oor die prysgee van blokkades eerder as om iets te verkry. Hierdie blokkades verhoed ons van om innerlike vreugde en liefde ten volle te ervaar. Geestelike tegnieke gaan nie oor die verkryging van verligting of geluk nie, maar oor die loslating van wat ons beperk en versmoor. Die spreker stel dat alles waarna ons soek reeds binne ons is en dat ons eers moet erken dat blokkasies ons vermoë om werklik te leef verhinder. Deur die bestanddele wat ons siek maak te herken en los te maak, kan ons ware geestelike welstand bereik, net soos om op te hou om iets te eet wat ons nie goed laat voel nie. Ons geluk is afhanklik van ons vermoë om ons binne-toestande te ontdoen van blokkasies eerder as om uiterlike toestande te manipuleer. As ons blokkasies verwyder, sal ons natuurlik die vreugde en liefde ervaar wat altyd in ons was, en sal ons in staat wees om werklik vry en gelukkig te leef.

Takeaways

  • 🧘‍♂️ Geestelike groei beteken om los te laat, nie om te verkry nie.
  • 🌟 Alles waarna jy op soek is, is reeds binne-in jou.
  • 🚫 Blokkasies veroorsaak dat ons ons innerlike vreugde en liefde blokkeer.
  • 🔑 Jou natuurlike staat is ekstrem gelukkig en liefheg.
  • 🎨 Ervarings moet op 'n primêre vlak gevoel word, sonder storings.
  • 🛠️ Blokkasies word gevorm deur ervarings wat ons afweer.
  • 💡 Geestelike werk is om jouself te bevry van selfopgelegde beperkings.
  • 🌊 Laat dinge natuurlik deur jou beweeg, sonder om te klem.
  • 🕊️ Hoe meer ontspanne jy is, hoe makliker om blokkasies te laat gaan.
  • 🎶 'Let it be' - los dinge en gevoelens toe om deur te beweeg.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    Die spreker ondersoek die idee dat geestelike groei nie noodwendig lank en moeilik hoef te wees nie. Mense gebruik dikwels geestelike tegnieke om iets spesifieks te verkry, maar ware geestelike tegnieke gaan oor die aflegging van dinge, nie die verkryging daarvan nie. Hierdie blokkades verhoed mense om die innerlike kwaliteite soos geluk en vreugde te ervaar.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Die spreker vergelyk geestelike blokkades met 'n dam wat 'n rivier blokkeer. Soos die stroom verhoed word om natuurlik te vloei, verhoed innerlike blokkades dat liefde en vreugde natuurlik ervaar word. Deur die blokkades te verwyder, vloei liefde natuurlik sonder moeite.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Mense het 'n neiging om te beperk watter ervarings hulle gelukkig maak, soos om net goed te voel wanneer hulle sekere dinge of mense het. Sodra hierdie beperkende blokkades afgebreek word, ontdek mense dat die liefde en vreugde altyd binne-in hulle was, nie afhanklik van eksterne faktore nie.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Ware geestelike groei beteken om op te hou om na eksterne dinge te soek wat 'n tydelike neutralisering van blokkades bied en eerder die blokkades self te verwyder. Wanneer dinge nie verloop soos verwag nie, sal vreugde nie voortduur nie.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    Wanneer dinge nie verloop soos ons wil nie, is die natuurlike reaksie om ontsteld of teleurgesteld te wees. Hierdie reaksies is bevraagdebaar, want die werklikheid is dat ons eie blokkades hierdie gevoelens veroorsaak – 'n self-vervullende profesie.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:00

    Die ware probleem is nie om dinge te kry wat ons gelukkig maak nie, maar om te verstaan hoe ons self ons geluk blokkeer deur verwagtinge en voorwaardes op eie geluk te plaas. Solank die blokkasies daar is, kan ware geluk nie ervaar word nie.

  • 00:30:00 - 00:35:00

    Om blokkades te verstaan en te verwyder is die sleutel tot geestelike bevryding. Dit is nie die gebeurtenisse self wat negatiewe gevoelens veroorsaak nie, maar eerder die manier waarop ons op hulle reageer en hulle ons interne ruimtes toelaat om te beïnvloed.

  • 00:35:00 - 00:40:00

    Om deur geestelike blokkades te werk, begin met die aanspreek van klein dinge wat 'n reaksie in ons veroorsaak. Deur hierdie kleiner dinge deur te werk, berei ons voor op groter uitdagings, wat uiteindelik lewensbevrydend is.

  • 00:40:00 - 00:45:00

    Met voortdurende oefening kan mense groter uitdagings hanteer. Namate hulle leer om te ontspan en oor te gee, word hulle geleidelik vryer en ervaar hulle die natuurlike vloei van liefde en vreugde wat in hulle was.

  • 00:45:00 - 00:51:25

    Die afbreek van geestelike blokkades lei tot 'n natuurlike vloei van vreugde en liefde. Hierdie vloei is konstant en kan nie weggeneem word nie, net geblokkeer. Ware geestelike vrede kom wanneer hierdie vloei ongestoord kan voortgaan.

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Frequently Asked Question

  • Wat is die grootste hindernis vir geestelike groei?

    Die grootste hindernis is dat mense probeer om iets te verkry, eerder as om los te laat wat hulle terughou.

  • Hoe kan iemand geestelike blokkasies oorkom?

    Deur bewus te wees van hierdie blokkasies en toe te laat dat hulle oplos deur nie-koppel en innerlike loslaat.

  • Is geestelike groei moeilik?

    Dit word as moeilik beskou omdat mense verkeerdelik glo dat hulle iets moet verkry eerder as om blokkasies te laat gaan.

  • Wat het die spreker te sê oor vreugde en liefde?

    Vreugde en liefde is innerlike kwaliteite wat natuurlik binne ons bestaan, en word net geblokkeer deur ons eie geestelike blokkades.

  • Wat is die rol van God in hierdie bespreking?

    Volgens die spreker is God en geestelike groei nie direk met blokkasies verbind nie. Fokus eers op blokkasies te verwyder en ware geestelike belewing sal volg.

  • Hoe beïnvloed ons blokkasies ons daaglikse lewe?

    Blokkasies verhoed dat ons innerlike vreugde en liefde ervaar, en ons is geneig om uiterlike gebeure te blameer vir ons gebrek aan geluk.

  • Kan ons ooit heeltemal van blokkasies ontslae raak?

    Ja, ons kan. Dit vereis egter gedurige bewustheid en gewilligheid om nie vas te hou aan negatiewe ervarings nie.

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    get what you realize when you go deeply
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    inside yourself and that's not some
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    platitude literally if you're looking
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    for Joy it's inside if you're looking
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    for meaning to your life it's inside if
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    you're looking for inspiration it's
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    inside if you're looking for enthusiasm
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    it's inside these are all inner
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    because you don't have them but because
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    you have blocked them which is
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    not doing something to make yourself
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    you're making yourself sick by eating
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    they block your inspiration they block
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    your happiness they block feeling deep
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    connected meaning to life they block you
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    that's why we call call them
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    blockages if you have those blockages
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    inside then you don't feel well why
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    because you have blocked the part of you
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    that makes you feel well just the same
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    it doesn't mean you're
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    sick intrinsically you're healthy but by
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    eating food that makes you sick your
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    healthiness is pushed to the background
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    and your sickness is brought to the
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    foreground is the exact same thing with
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    these
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    blockages if you don't have blockages
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    I can't even talk about it nor could you
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    you would be too blissed out you would
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    be too
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    ecstatic that is what Buddha achieved
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    and called Nirvana a state of no
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    blockages that is what Christ meant when
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    he said you must die to be reborn die of
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    the part of you that is made of these
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    blockages in order to awaken and
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    experience the Ecstasy that's inside of
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    you the joy that's inside of you the
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    well-being that's inside of you so
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    that's the starting point of a spiritual
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    discussion not God not Enlightenment not
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    you know attracting to yourself what you
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    want or any of this sort of thing it is
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    about understanding that there is a
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    state within your being which is your
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    natural state which is so high you'd
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    have to learn how to handle it it's that
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    simple the blockages are holding you
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    down do not spend the rest of your life
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    as you have spent it so far trying to
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    find things from outside that you can
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    bring in that compensate for your
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    blockages if you don't feel love it is
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    not because you haven't found someone to
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    love it is not because you're not worthy
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    of love it is not because you're not
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    capable of love it is because you have
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    blocked the love if you block a dam you
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    Dam up a river it doesn't flow
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    Downstream that's not CU there's
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    something wrong with a river and not
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    because there's something wrong with
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    Downstream it's because you damn the
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    water up if you block your energy flow
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    inside you will not feel love you will
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    not feel Joy you will not feel light and
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    happiness and enthusiasm and so on why
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    because you block those flows just like
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    you block the flow of water so the
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    answer is not to do something even
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    though it's blocked so that periodically
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    you can sneak a little water behind the
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    dam right have to go there and struggle
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    and get a bucket and bring it down and
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    throw it down there I'm doing good right
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    and you're manag because you're strong
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    and you're worked out and you got a big
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    bucket you're better than the guy next
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    door you're able to run around the dam
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    fill up your bucket run down and pour it
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    Downstream you get a little water aren't
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    you proud of yourself no that's
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    absolutely ridiculous if you want water
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    remove the dam so basically this
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    Foundation of understanding is what
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    people don't have about spirituality
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    there is nothing to get there's nothing
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    to do it's all about undoing and losing
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    the
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    blockages so basically there are times
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    in which you prove what I'm teaching you
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    have felt love inside you have felt Joy
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    inside you have felt enthusiasm and
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    passion for things inside you don't feel
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    it all the time in fact you feel it very
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    rarely why things have to be a certain
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    way in order for you to feel love don't
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    they the person has to be dressed right
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    and have to be talking to you right has
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    to be the right location and everything
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    has to be just right doesn't it for you
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    to feel love if anything goes wrong
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    about that stuff even in the most
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    perfect situation with the perfect
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    person if they just say one thing wrong
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    like if they call you George and your
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    name is Frank kind of loses the moment I
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    mean it's just one word all of a sudden
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    the love is gone same thing with
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    enthusiasm if you're all excited about
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    your job and you can't wait to get back
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    to work on what you're working on and
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    then somebody criticizes you somebody
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    complains about what you did or somebody
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    takes your parking space that was put
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    aside for you as Employee of the Month
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    all of a sudden you're not so enthused
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    anymore anything that doesn't match what
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    you want makes you not feel Joy not feel
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    love not F enthusiasm now if you're
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    silly which we all are all of us you
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    will think that when something happens
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    the way you want and you feel Joy and
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    enthusiasm and when things don't happen
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    the way you want and you don't feel Joy
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    and enthusiasm you think that's proving
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    the philosophy that the only way you can
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    feel Joy and enthusiasm and love is to
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    get what you want that is what's called
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    a self-fulfilling prophecy if you say to
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    yourself I will be happy if she loves
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    me that's one person out of let's see
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    there's seven billion people on the
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    Earth and half of them are women has
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    three and a half billion or men
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    whichever way you want to look at it so
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    now there's one person that can make you
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    happy and three and a half billion can't
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    you did that if you had said I think she
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    make me happy then that would make you
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    happy it's whatever you set up in your
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    mind in your inner state if it happens
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    outside and it matches what you
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    said there's a neutralization that takes
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    place all of a sudden the blockages that
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    you built inside yourself how do I say
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    it's so funny the very Act of saying if
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    she loves me I'll be happy is a
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    blockage that's a blockage if I get that
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    job I'll be so infused that's a blockage
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    what you did was block your ability to
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    be enthused about every other job you
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    blocked your ability to be enthused
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    about every relationship you limited it
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    to what it is within your mind that you
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    decided might make you happy if you
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    decide that you need something to make
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    you happy you're not happy you can't
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    feel happiness because you decided I
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    can't you decided things have to be a
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    certain way for me to be happy and we're
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    going talk about how you built those
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    blockages in a minute because it's very
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    important to understand they got built
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    to understand how to get rid of them but
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    I want you to understand that the things
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    that you now say will make you happy and
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    then claim you're right because they do
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    that is the biggest trap that could ever
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    exist it is because you are limiting
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    yourself to those things and then when
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    they happen neutralize that limitation
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    even if you think about them happening
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    you get excited don't you you get
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    enthused you feel love if you think
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    about something that you want to happen
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    that's because you are neutralizing the
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    blockage that blockage if you sit there
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    and think no one could love me no I
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    can't no I'm not the kind of person they
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    can love I never find true love okay
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    good that's a nice blockage that's like
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    eating bad food as we talked about the
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    star with you're now eating bad stuff
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    inside yourself then you wonder why you
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    don't feel well if then then something
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    happens outside of you where someone
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    manages to neutralize that blockage that
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    you're doing to continue my analogy if
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    all of a sudden somebody comes up and
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    grabs the food out of your mouth that's
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    going to make you sick you sit there and
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    say he healed me he's a psychic healer
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    oh my God I was so sick before I met him
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    OMG that is what you're doing with
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    everything you are sitting there making
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    yourself sick with these blockages but
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    saying if everything will go that
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    matches the blockages the way I want
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    then I'll be okay and then when
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    something happens that seems to match
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    the blockage seems to match what you
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    want you open you stop saying no one can
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    love me it seems like maybe he can I
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    believed him the way he said it was so
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    sincere it made me cry I felt such love
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    the love is inside of you it was always
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    inside of you it will never not be
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    inside of you it has nothing to do with
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    him and I mean nothing to do with him it
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    has to do with the fact that you block
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    the flow of the love and then somehow he
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    or she behaved in a way that matched
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    you're allowing the blockages to
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    neutralize neutralize your blockage it's
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    really what it is neutralize your
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    blockage blowing my ear I'll follow you
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    anywhere criticize me I'm out of here
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    it's because you have these blockages
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    inside when something allows the energy
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    to go past the blockage when there's a
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    leak in the dam and that happens because
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    things can neutralize your blockages
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    temporarily people who feel terrible
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    they had a terrible traumatic experience
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    they can't get over it they go on the
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    web and they blog about it with other
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    people that had similar experiences not
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    knocking it just pay attention does it
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    work of course it does of course it does
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    is it healthy no it reinforces the
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    blockage but does it feel better
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    temporarily yes why because you have
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    suppressed this blockage you have press
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    that situation therefore it's blocking
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    your whole energy flow now you are
  • 00:12:03
    letting some of it come back up by
  • 00:12:06
    talking blogging doing different things
  • 00:12:08
    and when the blockage releases some the
  • 00:12:10
    energy comes up from behind it and
  • 00:12:12
    literally people get addicted to
  • 00:12:14
    blogging they get addicted to C they're
  • 00:12:16
    saying the only way I can feel okay is
  • 00:12:18
    when I'm on this blog talking to these
  • 00:12:20
    people because they understand me and I
  • 00:12:23
    can't tell them they're wrong they're
  • 00:12:24
    right that is the only way you can feel
  • 00:12:27
    okay given the situation you've created
  • 00:12:30
    given the blockages you have given the
  • 00:12:32
    way you're dealing with yourself that's
  • 00:12:33
    like sitting there saying I'm in love
  • 00:12:35
    with this person and they left me I'll
  • 00:12:37
    never feel love again I don't even want
  • 00:12:40
    to never could my heart open again this
  • 00:12:42
    person holds the key to my those are not
  • 00:12:44
    romantic things to say those are
  • 00:12:46
    terrible things to say there is no key
  • 00:12:49
    to your heart except you put it there
  • 00:12:52
    you put a gate on your heart and said
  • 00:12:54
    the only one who can open it is her or
  • 00:12:56
    him what happens if they leave you what
  • 00:12:58
    happens if they die what happens if they
  • 00:12:59
    get in a bad mood well I guess my
  • 00:13:01
    heart's closed you don't understand you
  • 00:13:03
    did that there's no gate on your heart
  • 00:13:06
    there's no key to your
  • 00:13:08
    heart the love is natural inside of you
  • 00:13:11
    it is spontaneous it is always there
  • 00:13:13
    just like the flow of the water before
  • 00:13:16
    it was damned is always there it took
  • 00:13:17
    care of itself but if you Dam it now you
  • 00:13:20
    need to do things to get water so you
  • 00:13:22
    have blocked stressing then I'll talk
  • 00:13:25
    about them this thing about these
  • 00:13:27
    blockages spirituality is is about your
  • 00:13:29
    blockages it's not about God it's not
  • 00:13:31
    about relationships it's not about money
  • 00:13:34
    it's not about doing good works NOP
  • 00:13:36
    those things will happen naturally once
  • 00:13:39
    you're unblocked we'll get there but if
  • 00:13:41
    you're doing something even though
  • 00:13:44
    you're blocked to try and make it look
  • 00:13:46
    spiritual trying to be spiritual that's
  • 00:13:48
    as far as you're going you'll feel that
  • 00:13:50
    I'm spiritual because other people said
  • 00:13:52
    I am oh my God you helped everybody
  • 00:13:55
    you're so beautiful and look at how
  • 00:13:57
    everyone rejects this other person and
  • 00:13:59
    you're so kind to them oh that's really
  • 00:14:01
    beautiful and feels good until they stop
  • 00:14:04
    saying it or until they say it to
  • 00:14:06
    somebody else the exact same thing it
  • 00:14:08
    don't feel so special or until the
  • 00:14:10
    person who you helped got in a bad mood
  • 00:14:12
    and started tell everybody that you were
  • 00:14:14
    taking advantage of them and and you're
  • 00:14:16
    terrible you're just you're living a
  • 00:14:19
    losing life that's a losing life the
  • 00:14:22
    only way to actually be spiritual is to
  • 00:14:25
    remove the blockages that are blocking
  • 00:14:27
    the flow of your spirit not about
  • 00:14:30
    getting things that neutralize them
  • 00:14:33
    because that will never last first of
  • 00:14:35
    all let's just admit we're playing that
  • 00:14:37
    game right I'm not okay what do I need
  • 00:14:39
    in order to be okay I'm not okay what do
  • 00:14:42
    I need to make sure it doesn't happen so
  • 00:14:43
    I get worse that's my bottom line of how
  • 00:14:46
    we are all living our lives I'm not okay
  • 00:14:49
    what do I need to make happen or do so
  • 00:14:51
    that I can be okay I'm not okay what I
  • 00:14:54
    have to make sure it doesn't happen so I
  • 00:14:55
    don't get worse and that's why there's
  • 00:14:58
    tension that's why there's anx anxiety
  • 00:14:59
    and that's why life
  • 00:15:01
    seems it's tough right life is heavy
  • 00:15:04
    because you're busy doing that and the
  • 00:15:06
    only time you ever feel Joy and love and
  • 00:15:09
    enthusiasm is when it works is when you
  • 00:15:11
    get what it is you said you wanted or
  • 00:15:13
    you feel relief if you don't have to go
  • 00:15:15
    through what you didn't want that
  • 00:15:18
    duality of getting and losing and
  • 00:15:21
    protecting and all that it's a losing
  • 00:15:24
    game if you spend all your effort to try
  • 00:15:26
    and get one moment to be the way want it
  • 00:15:30
    there are lots of other moments that
  • 00:15:31
    going to happen what are you going to do
  • 00:15:33
    you can't control every moment it
  • 00:15:35
    doesn't work it's not going to happen
  • 00:15:38
    life is going to unfold and if you
  • 00:15:40
    struggle with it to try to make it
  • 00:15:42
    neutralize or plate your blockages you
  • 00:15:45
    got a job that's 24 by7 you have trouble
  • 00:15:48
    sleeping and your anxiety and you got to
  • 00:15:50
    worry about it first of all it's
  • 00:15:52
    difficult for people to decide what it
  • 00:15:54
    is that they want to happen so that
  • 00:15:56
    they'll be okay do I want to get married
  • 00:15:58
    should I married him should I marry her
  • 00:15:59
    should I take my vacation for that's
  • 00:16:01
    what people say to me a lot of times I
  • 00:16:03
    have trouble making decisions of course
  • 00:16:05
    you do of course you do because the
  • 00:16:08
    decision you're trying to make is what
  • 00:16:10
    will make me happy you're not trying to
  • 00:16:12
    decide should I move to New York should
  • 00:16:14
    I get married now you're trying to
  • 00:16:16
    decide what will make me happy when the
  • 00:16:18
    truth of the matter is how do you know
  • 00:16:20
    you haven't been happy enough to know
  • 00:16:22
    and if you have been if you say no I was
  • 00:16:24
    seven years ago oh my God that you don't
  • 00:16:26
    know what happened to me then what
  • 00:16:27
    you're going to try and do is recreate
  • 00:16:29
    the same situation that you had before
  • 00:16:31
    CU it's the only thing you know about
  • 00:16:33
    happiness how does the person who lived
  • 00:16:35
    Downstream and never saw the river flow
  • 00:16:38
    by itself the Stream flow by itself
  • 00:16:39
    before it was blocked how does that
  • 00:16:41
    person know how to get water they don't
  • 00:16:43
    even know what's going on all they know
  • 00:16:45
    is about the bucket running around
  • 00:16:47
    getting a bucket and pouring it back in
  • 00:16:49
    versus if you remove the blockage
  • 00:16:51
    there's a natural flow of water we are
  • 00:16:53
    so far away from ourselves from truth
  • 00:16:56
    that the best we can do is to try to
  • 00:16:58
    make us up in our minds what we think
  • 00:17:00
    will make us happy and we have a lot of
  • 00:17:01
    trouble doing that then we have to
  • 00:17:04
    decide how to try to make it happen
  • 00:17:06
    because we're not stupid it's not going
  • 00:17:07
    to happen by itself and all of a sudden
  • 00:17:09
    we're anxious trying to figure out what
  • 00:17:11
    we want or what we don't want we're
  • 00:17:12
    anxious trying to make it happen and
  • 00:17:14
    then we get upset when it doesn't we get
  • 00:17:15
    jealous when somebody else gets it what
  • 00:17:18
    I just describe to you as a human being
  • 00:17:19
    isn't it that's how they live their
  • 00:17:21
    lives you don't have to live like that
  • 00:17:24
    there is a complete other way of living
  • 00:17:26
    your life and it is not difficult and it
  • 00:17:29
    doesn't take time like I said what it
  • 00:17:32
    takes is understanding I have blocked my
  • 00:17:35
    energy flow I need to remove these
  • 00:17:38
    blockages and I'm telling you it's that
  • 00:17:40
    simple you don't need to know anything
  • 00:17:42
    else I have blocked this energy flow and
  • 00:17:45
    I need to remove these blockages then
  • 00:17:47
    you have to know that that's the truth
  • 00:17:49
    that that's how you find happiness joy
  • 00:17:50
    and love if you remove the blockages you
  • 00:17:53
    don't need to do anything else if I take
  • 00:17:55
    the dam down I never have to run around
  • 00:17:57
    again and bring the buckets do I ever
  • 00:18:00
    never the river just flows all by itself
  • 00:18:02
    it's natural if you remove your
  • 00:18:05
    blockages inside I am telling you there
  • 00:18:07
    is a river of Joy inside you will feel
  • 00:18:10
    tremendous upliftment everything you
  • 00:18:12
    feel when somebody finally convinces you
  • 00:18:14
    they love you and you feel that sudden
  • 00:18:17
    first kiss you know take the most
  • 00:18:19
    highest moment take the most highest
  • 00:18:21
    moment multiply times a thousand or a
  • 00:18:23
    million your choice and have it
  • 00:18:25
    constantly getting more and totally
  • 00:18:28
    refreshing in other words every single
  • 00:18:30
    kiss is the first kiss that's how much
  • 00:18:33
    shaky Energy power all the time that's
  • 00:18:37
    what's going on inside of you that is
  • 00:18:38
    your natural state so instead of going
  • 00:18:41
    out there and putting something on top
  • 00:18:44
    of the blockages so that temporarily you
  • 00:18:46
    feel okay and have to work for that you
  • 00:18:49
    just devote your life and I mean your
  • 00:18:51
    whole life to removing these blockages
  • 00:18:54
    let's talk about that just as hard as
  • 00:18:57
    everybody else tries to get what they
  • 00:18:59
    want and avoid what they don't want how
  • 00:19:01
    they work pretty hard don't they going
  • 00:19:03
    repeat that just as hard as everybody
  • 00:19:05
    else tries to get what they want and
  • 00:19:06
    avoid what they don't want that's how
  • 00:19:09
    hard you work to get rid of your
  • 00:19:11
    blockages because everybody else every
  • 00:19:14
    moment of their life is trying to get
  • 00:19:15
    what they want and avoid what they don't
  • 00:19:16
    want there's never a time you're not
  • 00:19:18
    doing that you're always trying to get
  • 00:19:20
    what you want and avoid what you don't
  • 00:19:21
    want instead you're always trying to
  • 00:19:24
    remove these blockages I'm telling you
  • 00:19:26
    that's what it takes it takes for you to
  • 00:19:29
    decide there's nothing wrong with trying
  • 00:19:31
    to get what you want to what what you
  • 00:19:32
    don't want it just doesn't work that's
  • 00:19:34
    what we call conditional you'll only be
  • 00:19:36
    okay if you get what you want how often
  • 00:19:37
    does that happen and then you get used
  • 00:19:39
    to it how long does it last the joy of
  • 00:19:41
    getting what you want it's embarrassing
  • 00:19:43
    to talk about this it's natural it's
  • 00:19:46
    real there's nothing wrong with you you
  • 00:19:48
    know I studied you know graduate school
  • 00:19:50
    economics way back when they taught us a
  • 00:19:53
    law of diminishing returns that's a law
  • 00:19:55
    that they teach you in economics the law
  • 00:19:57
    of diminishing returns what does that
  • 00:19:59
    mean it means that every single human
  • 00:20:02
    being under all conditions will get used
  • 00:20:05
    to what it is that that's experiencing
  • 00:20:07
    if I give you your favorite meal oh my
  • 00:20:10
    God from the best chef that ever was and
  • 00:20:12
    you Bliss out on eating it and I give it
  • 00:20:15
    to you again the next day wow how about
  • 00:20:18
    the third fourth fifth breakfast lunch
  • 00:20:19
    dinner breakfast lunch dinner how long
  • 00:20:21
    before you go ew give me collards or
  • 00:20:23
    Brazzle Sprouts or something I don't
  • 00:20:24
    know but you hear what I'm saying at
  • 00:20:26
    some point you don't want it anymore do
  • 00:20:28
    you even the second time is not as nice
  • 00:20:30
    as the first and the third is not even
  • 00:20:32
    close that is called the law of
  • 00:20:33
    diminishing returns how many people that
  • 00:20:36
    if you walked up to them and said what
  • 00:20:38
    do you want to make you happy you make a
  • 00:20:41
    list on there what do you want to make
  • 00:20:42
    you happy write down what they already
  • 00:20:44
    have oh I want the car I have nobody why
  • 00:20:49
    because if the car they had would make
  • 00:20:50
    them happy they'd be happy so basically
  • 00:20:54
    they write down things they haven't
  • 00:20:55
    experienced yet I want to live in Hawaii
  • 00:20:57
    and I want my kids to get a and words I
  • 00:21:00
    want something to happen that isn't
  • 00:21:01
    happening now because maybe that will
  • 00:21:04
    make me happy and that's what's going to
  • 00:21:05
    happen for the rest of your life if
  • 00:21:06
    you're not careful so instead you say
  • 00:21:10
    why am I deciding I need things to make
  • 00:21:13
    me be okay instead of working on being
  • 00:21:17
    okay that's the key of all spirituality
  • 00:21:20
    why am I trying to decide what will make
  • 00:21:22
    me be okay instead of removing the
  • 00:21:25
    reason that I'm not okay if you've never
  • 00:21:27
    heard anything teachings before please
  • 00:21:29
    understand that all right so how do you
  • 00:21:32
    remove these blockages what are the
  • 00:21:34
    blockages nice talk we had so far I'm
  • 00:21:36
    telling you when you've reached the
  • 00:21:37
    right State you have to do anything to
  • 00:21:39
    feel love joy excitement enthusiasm
  • 00:21:42
    beyond anything you ever felt before now
  • 00:21:44
    just so you understand it doesn't mean
  • 00:21:46
    you don't do
  • 00:21:47
    anything you still go out there and
  • 00:21:50
    interact with the world you still have
  • 00:21:51
    relationships you still different things
  • 00:21:53
    happen you just don't need them to
  • 00:21:55
    happen you share with life because you
  • 00:21:58
    want to share the joy and love and
  • 00:22:00
    enthusiasm and passion that you're
  • 00:22:02
    feeling inside you end up sharing it
  • 00:22:04
    with the moments that are unfolding in
  • 00:22:05
    front of you not I'm not okay and you're
  • 00:22:08
    going to make me be okay see the
  • 00:22:10
    difference one is giving the other is
  • 00:22:12
    taking we don't like to think of
  • 00:22:14
    ourselves that way but we're takers if
  • 00:22:16
    you're not okay I'm telling you you're
  • 00:22:18
    trying to take you're trying to take
  • 00:22:20
    from the moment unfolding in front of
  • 00:22:21
    you person place thing Finance job
  • 00:22:24
    anything to come in here how many people
  • 00:22:27
    go to work to do their job
  • 00:22:29
    nobody goes to work to do their job
  • 00:22:32
    sometimes you can if you're really
  • 00:22:33
    inspired you can't wait to get to work
  • 00:22:35
    right it's neat but most people don't
  • 00:22:38
    work that way do they they go to work to
  • 00:22:40
    get paid so they can have a nice weekend
  • 00:22:42
    they go to work because they got to
  • 00:22:43
    support their family they go to work as
  • 00:22:45
    a secondary purpose they have another
  • 00:22:47
    purpose to go to work they don't go to
  • 00:22:49
    work to do the job I want you to reach a
  • 00:22:51
    state where no matter what job I give
  • 00:22:53
    you you would have to hold yourself back
  • 00:22:55
    from saying I would do it for free let
  • 00:22:57
    me just go do it I can't wait to do it
  • 00:22:59
    come on you don't get paid to kiss your
  • 00:23:00
    girlfriend or boyfriend you don't get
  • 00:23:02
    paid to go to Hawaii you don't get paid
  • 00:23:04
    to do stuff you really enjoy well why
  • 00:23:07
    are you not enjoying your work there is
  • 00:23:09
    a state of being inside of you that
  • 00:23:13
    would take horses to hold you back from
  • 00:23:16
    every single thing you do every moment
  • 00:23:18
    of your life how would you like to live
  • 00:23:19
    like that then in that state that's an
  • 00:23:22
    unblocked state that person is a
  • 00:23:24
    blessing on this Earth whatever they are
  • 00:23:27
    doing whoever they're interacting in
  • 00:23:28
    with they are bringing all this joy and
  • 00:23:31
    love that they already have they don't
  • 00:23:32
    need anything can always teach you they
  • 00:23:35
    teach you renunciation I hope they don't
  • 00:23:36
    but they do it is not about renunciation
  • 00:23:39
    true spirituality has nothing to do with
  • 00:23:42
    renunciation if you are whole and
  • 00:23:44
    complete within yourself you don't need
  • 00:23:47
    anything from outside so what is there
  • 00:23:48
    to renounce if you just ate and you're
  • 00:23:50
    full you don't have to renounce food
  • 00:23:53
    okay it's just your natural state you I
  • 00:23:56
    hope I'm convincing you let you
  • 00:23:58
    understand your natural state is so high
  • 00:23:59
    you can't even talk about it you have to
  • 00:24:01
    hold yourself down all the time no moods
  • 00:24:06
    no sometimes I feel good sometimes I
  • 00:24:07
    feel bad sometimes I feel good around
  • 00:24:09
    that person but not this other person
  • 00:24:11
    right a state of being inside yourself
  • 00:24:14
    that is always there it is always
  • 00:24:16
    present it is always feeding you it will
  • 00:24:18
    never go away unless you close if you
  • 00:24:21
    close down it'll stop if you don't close
  • 00:24:24
    down it is always there so it comes down
  • 00:24:27
    again to realize I need to remove the
  • 00:24:30
    blockages instead of get things to put
  • 00:24:32
    on top of them so that they feel okay
  • 00:24:35
    for a while and it doesn't last all
  • 00:24:37
    right what are the blockages because
  • 00:24:39
    that's what I have found the best way
  • 00:24:41
    you can learn to remove these blockages
  • 00:24:43
    is to understand what they are and where
  • 00:24:45
    they came from the nicest thing you
  • 00:24:47
    understand about these blockages is you
  • 00:24:48
    did it that's my favorite thing to tell
  • 00:24:50
    you every single blockage you have
  • 00:24:52
    inside of you you put
  • 00:24:54
    there well don't accuse me no that's not
  • 00:24:57
    how you should take it you should take
  • 00:24:58
    just empowered you if you put it there
  • 00:25:01
    you can take it out nobody can put a
  • 00:25:03
    blockage inside of you nobody you're the
  • 00:25:06
    only one in there if somebody comes up
  • 00:25:08
    to you starts yelling at you and saying
  • 00:25:09
    things that aren't true and saying them
  • 00:25:11
    and you don't care don't bother you when
  • 00:25:14
    I if somebody come has really nice
  • 00:25:16
    things but you're so scared and neurotic
  • 00:25:18
    that you think they're lying to and
  • 00:25:19
    trying to get something from you it's
  • 00:25:21
    you in there doing it all the world is
  • 00:25:25
    unfolding that's for sure but it is
  • 00:25:27
    coming inside of you and you're doing
  • 00:25:29
    something with it aren't you that's
  • 00:25:31
    where your work is now what your
  • 00:25:34
    blockages are is very simple events have
  • 00:25:37
    unfolded in front of you throughout your
  • 00:25:38
    entire life that's true of every single
  • 00:25:41
    one of you not the same event totally
  • 00:25:43
    different events have unfolded in front
  • 00:25:45
    of each of you every single moment how's
  • 00:25:47
    that for a statement right that neat
  • 00:25:49
    it's just unfolding in front how much
  • 00:25:51
    you have to pay it to unfold in front of
  • 00:25:52
    you
  • 00:25:53
    nothing life is
  • 00:25:55
    free what you want isn't free but life
  • 00:25:58
    is free life is always holding in front
  • 00:26:00
    of you isn't it there it is every single
  • 00:26:03
    place in life there's something going on
  • 00:26:05
    every single spot in creation isn't
  • 00:26:07
    there something going on so there's
  • 00:26:09
    something going on in front of you fine
  • 00:26:11
    there it is when it comes in when what
  • 00:26:14
    comes in
  • 00:26:15
    life life the reality that's unfolding
  • 00:26:19
    in front of you I've begged you to
  • 00:26:21
    understand the moment unfolding in front
  • 00:26:23
    of you is no different than the hundreds
  • 00:26:26
    of billions of trillions of moments that
  • 00:26:27
    are not un folding in front of you
  • 00:26:29
    they're unfolding everywhere's else it's
  • 00:26:31
    just a moment in creation isn't it you
  • 00:26:33
    didn't make it it's not yours it just
  • 00:26:36
    happens to be in front of you that is a
  • 00:26:39
    complete life Cher it's a GameChanger to
  • 00:26:42
    realize the moment in front of me is no
  • 00:26:44
    different than the moments that aren't
  • 00:26:45
    in front of me except it's the one
  • 00:26:46
    that's in front of me it's neither good
  • 00:26:48
    nor bad nor right nor wrong nor special
  • 00:26:51
    anything they're all just the moments
  • 00:26:53
    that are in life and they're all
  • 00:26:54
    connected and they're all real and
  • 00:26:56
    they're all equal and they're all just
  • 00:26:58
    unfolding all over the planet Earth and
  • 00:27:00
    all over Mars and all over the universe
  • 00:27:02
    there are moments unfolding and there
  • 00:27:04
    always have been for 13.8 billion years
  • 00:27:07
    you didn't blow it you didn't break it
  • 00:27:08
    you didn't do anything you're just a
  • 00:27:10
    conscious being who is experienced in
  • 00:27:13
    the moments unfolding in front of you
  • 00:27:15
    problem is that when it comes
  • 00:27:18
    in it feels different that's for sure
  • 00:27:22
    the moment that's unfolding in front of
  • 00:27:23
    you sure feels different than the
  • 00:27:25
    moments that aren't unfolding in front
  • 00:27:26
    of you doesn't it the moments that are
  • 00:27:28
    holding everyone else don't feel
  • 00:27:29
    anything inside do they what's going on
  • 00:27:31
    in the South China Sea right now I don't
  • 00:27:33
    know but there's something going on and
  • 00:27:35
    if you were there you'd be feeling that
  • 00:27:36
    so that's the key it comes in where you
  • 00:27:39
    live you live inside you are the
  • 00:27:41
    Consciousness hi you in there hi so the
  • 00:27:44
    world unfolds in front of you it comes
  • 00:27:47
    in and you experience it but the
  • 00:27:49
    experiences feel different I've
  • 00:27:51
    explained this to you it's not your
  • 00:27:53
    fault that experiences feel different
  • 00:27:55
    rattles snakes feel different than
  • 00:27:56
    butterflies every Everything feels
  • 00:27:59
    different so it comes in and it's
  • 00:28:01
    experiential when it comes into it has a
  • 00:28:04
    vibration it has it's energy to it
  • 00:28:07
    Buddhists say everything has its nature
  • 00:28:10
    certainly a rattlesnake has its nature
  • 00:28:12
    doesn't it it's scary right when it
  • 00:28:15
    curls up and starts rattling that's some
  • 00:28:17
    scary stuff and butterflies have a
  • 00:28:19
    nature and flowers have a nature don't
  • 00:28:20
    they they're soft and beautiful you're
  • 00:28:23
    not doing that you're experiencing that
  • 00:28:26
    but you're not doing that that's what I
  • 00:28:27
    call called a primal experience the
  • 00:28:30
    actual Primal it has its vibration it is
  • 00:28:34
    experienced folding in front of you it
  • 00:28:36
    comes in and you experience it that's a
  • 00:28:38
    real experience that's a level one
  • 00:28:41
    experience it's not indirect it's a
  • 00:28:43
    direct experience that's actually
  • 00:28:44
    happening and has a real vibration to it
  • 00:28:47
    do you know that the color red feels
  • 00:28:48
    different than the color blue I'm
  • 00:28:50
    talking about Primal not what you do
  • 00:28:52
    with it we'll get there in a second the
  • 00:28:54
    secondary experience there's a primary
  • 00:28:57
    experience every single thing has a
  • 00:29:00
    vibration and when it comes in you
  • 00:29:02
    experience that vibration what's wrong
  • 00:29:04
    with that nothing that's the beauty of
  • 00:29:06
    life that it comes in what happens and
  • 00:29:09
    I've explained to you a thousand times
  • 00:29:11
    I'll do it a thousand of one and
  • 00:29:12
    probably seven billion of one all right
  • 00:29:14
    what happens is it comes in and when you
  • 00:29:17
    start to experience it it either feels
  • 00:29:19
    good or do feel good even the Primal
  • 00:29:21
    experience has a different vibration
  • 00:29:23
    rate when it comes in and you're not
  • 00:29:26
    evolved enough when the consciousness
  • 00:29:28
    your your own being your your essence it
  • 00:29:31
    doesn't feel comfortable with every
  • 00:29:34
    experience there are reasons for that
  • 00:29:36
    that's really deep now I just want to
  • 00:29:38
    talk about it's true okay so what you do
  • 00:29:41
    is the ones that don't feel good you I'm
  • 00:29:43
    not talking about your psyche don't
  • 00:29:44
    about your Consciousness inside
  • 00:29:46
    literally I don't want that inside of me
  • 00:29:49
    and so you push it away this level is
  • 00:29:52
    where you need to work this level we're
  • 00:29:53
    talking about you need to get there and
  • 00:29:56
    live there if you want to have a
  • 00:29:58
    beautiful life that's witness
  • 00:30:00
    Consciousness that's that's returning to
  • 00:30:02
    the seat of self I am the conscious
  • 00:30:04
    being and the world comes in and now
  • 00:30:07
    what I do is I have this power inside of
  • 00:30:09
    discuss this with you I have power can
  • 00:30:12
    you push emotions away have you ever
  • 00:30:14
    pushed things away in there can you hold
  • 00:30:17
    on to things in there can you make
  • 00:30:19
    thoughts go away can you make thoughts
  • 00:30:21
    come I'm saying you're perfect at it but
  • 00:30:22
    if you start having a bad thought can
  • 00:30:23
    you resist it do you have the ability to
  • 00:30:25
    resist things inside do you have the
  • 00:30:27
    ability to cling to things inside keep
  • 00:30:28
    them because you like them you have a
  • 00:30:31
    power inside you're not just a passive
  • 00:30:33
    witness you're conscious but you can do
  • 00:30:36
    something about it can't you that power
  • 00:30:38
    is called Willow it's so amazing I wish
  • 00:30:41
    I could give an entire talk of will I
  • 00:30:43
    never do because people don't even they
  • 00:30:45
    don't pay attention you have a power
  • 00:30:47
    inside you know you do I don't need a
  • 00:30:49
    scientist to prove it I don't need a
  • 00:30:50
    formula I don't need Einstein you're in
  • 00:30:53
    there you do stuff in there don't you
  • 00:30:55
    how do you have a power to do stuff in
  • 00:30:57
    there because you have the power of will
  • 00:31:00
    who does you the deepest part of your
  • 00:31:02
    being the center of your Consciousness
  • 00:31:04
    has the power of acting of doing
  • 00:31:07
    something so basically you use your
  • 00:31:11
    willpower to resist the experience
  • 00:31:13
    that's coming in you do it all the time
  • 00:31:16
    all the time you don't want it coming
  • 00:31:18
    all the way back into your being and
  • 00:31:20
    merging with you because it's not
  • 00:31:21
    comfortable so you push it away that's a
  • 00:31:25
    blockage that is a blockage AG you took
  • 00:31:29
    something real a vibration that came in
  • 00:31:33
    it's energy you used your energy the
  • 00:31:36
    power of your will to push it aside to
  • 00:31:39
    not let it come all the way in that
  • 00:31:41
    thing is blocking your energy for the
  • 00:31:43
    rest of your life unless you do
  • 00:31:45
    something about it every single one that
  • 00:31:48
    you do that to if a car in front of you
  • 00:31:51
    is not driving the way you want and you
  • 00:31:53
    get all upset that is screwing up your
  • 00:31:56
    energy flow that act that you did in the
  • 00:31:58
    morning when the person was driving like
  • 00:32:00
    that and you got all weird about it and
  • 00:32:02
    pushed it aside and complained when you
  • 00:32:03
    got to work out people don't even know
  • 00:32:04
    how to drive that thing will determine
  • 00:32:08
    how good your food tastes at night how
  • 00:32:10
    good the kiss is with your beloved how
  • 00:32:12
    much you will enjoy your job it will run
  • 00:32:16
    your life if it is in there it is
  • 00:32:18
    blocking your energy flow is it in there
  • 00:32:21
    next time you see a car that looks like
  • 00:32:23
    the one you had trouble with that was
  • 00:32:24
    driving in front of you what do you feel
  • 00:32:27
    upset even two weeks later oh God I hope
  • 00:32:30
    is that that guy yes or no is that just
  • 00:32:32
    me anybody had that experience I am
  • 00:32:34
    talking about what it's like to live in
  • 00:32:35
    there right I don't care about your
  • 00:32:37
    beliefs I care about what you're doing
  • 00:32:40
    in there and do you understand what it
  • 00:32:42
    is like to live inside I know you're
  • 00:32:44
    worried about what's going on outside I
  • 00:32:46
    not worried about what's going on
  • 00:32:48
    outside I know that you live in there if
  • 00:32:50
    you make it nice in there you who cares
  • 00:32:53
    what's unfolding outside if you just
  • 00:32:55
    fell in love and I mean in love just wo
  • 00:32:58
    you know just your heart burst open and
  • 00:33:00
    just filled with love and you go to work
  • 00:33:02
    and your boy says you know yesterday you
  • 00:33:04
    didn't finish it the way I wanted you go
  • 00:33:06
    really he said act serious about it but
  • 00:33:08
    you giggle inside if you just broke up
  • 00:33:11
    and your heart's hurting you go into
  • 00:33:13
    work and the boss says oh come over here
  • 00:33:14
    I want to talk to you he wants some
  • 00:33:16
    compliment you what you did yesterday
  • 00:33:17
    your mind goes oh another thing I was
  • 00:33:19
    bad enough my boyfriend broke off with
  • 00:33:20
    me I got to listen to stupid boss you
  • 00:33:22
    live
  • 00:33:23
    inside your environment is inside if
  • 00:33:27
    you're inside is Beautiful Everything Is
  • 00:33:29
    Beautiful if your Insight is screwed up
  • 00:33:31
    everything is screwed up okay so you
  • 00:33:35
    come in here and you realize if I am
  • 00:33:37
    pushing things away inside that actually
  • 00:33:40
    happened I'm going to go very slow if
  • 00:33:42
    the event actually happened somebody
  • 00:33:44
    beeped at you somebody yelled at you
  • 00:33:45
    somebody criticized you somebody broke
  • 00:33:47
    up with you seven years ago these events
  • 00:33:49
    actually took place they do not belong
  • 00:33:52
    inside of you period when they are done
  • 00:33:55
    they are done they're over they're not
  • 00:33:58
    even happening anywhere's in the
  • 00:33:59
    universe anymore but they're happening
  • 00:34:01
    inside of you aren't they all it has to
  • 00:34:03
    do anything reminds you of it your heart
  • 00:34:05
    closes again you get all upset your mind
  • 00:34:07
    goes crazy yes or no you did that and
  • 00:34:11
    that's why I spent all my time at the
  • 00:34:12
    beginning talking about how blockages
  • 00:34:13
    are screwing up your life not that
  • 00:34:15
    you're not getting what you want right
  • 00:34:17
    it is the blockages now I'm telling you
  • 00:34:18
    what the blockages are you are doing it
  • 00:34:21
    every time you do not let reality pass
  • 00:34:24
    through you you are pushing it away
  • 00:34:28
    and therefore it is staying inside of
  • 00:34:30
    you and if it stays inside of you now
  • 00:34:33
    watch what happened I talked about the
  • 00:34:34
    primary experience I should give
  • 00:34:36
    official names of these things but a
  • 00:34:38
    level one experience a primary
  • 00:34:39
    experience the world is unfolding it
  • 00:34:42
    comes in it has a vibration woo it's
  • 00:34:45
    coming in and you're vibrating at the
  • 00:34:46
    level it's vibrating aren't you you're
  • 00:34:48
    feeling just whatever it was you're
  • 00:34:50
    feeling red you're feeling blue you're
  • 00:34:53
    feeling death you're feeling birth
  • 00:34:55
    you're feeling Beauty whatever it is
  • 00:34:57
    what ever is coming in you're
  • 00:34:59
    experiencing it that's a primal
  • 00:35:01
    experience that's a level one experience
  • 00:35:03
    now what happens because you stored this
  • 00:35:05
    stuff inside and so far I've only talked
  • 00:35:07
    about innocent things you beeps at
  • 00:35:09
    youbody criticize you you got some big
  • 00:35:11
    stuff in there don't you right that's
  • 00:35:14
    that's what what a psychology call that
  • 00:35:15
    your formative years these blockages are
  • 00:35:18
    the things you put in there because you
  • 00:35:20
    did not let them pass through while they
  • 00:35:23
    are in there they're blocking your
  • 00:35:24
    energy flow the more you have in there
  • 00:35:27
    the more block there are now what
  • 00:35:29
    happens an event unfolds outside
  • 00:35:31
    butterfly rattlesnake person anything
  • 00:35:34
    comes in you don't have any more primary
  • 00:35:37
    experiences anymore a normal human being
  • 00:35:41
    has very very few primary what I call
  • 00:35:43
    level one primary experiences when it
  • 00:35:46
    the vibration comes in it hits your
  • 00:35:49
    stuff the stuff you stored so somebody
  • 00:35:51
    says to you red what do you think a RW
  • 00:35:54
    shock test is thing plot test it's
  • 00:35:57
    everything I'm just is talking about is
  • 00:35:58
    sitting there saying you're not going to
  • 00:36:00
    see ink plots that's not what you're
  • 00:36:02
    going to see you're not going to see
  • 00:36:03
    squiggles on a piece of paper you're
  • 00:36:05
    going to see mommy yelling at daddy
  • 00:36:07
    you're going to see your husband who
  • 00:36:08
    broke up with you and you're going to
  • 00:36:10
    see different stuff that's why they give
  • 00:36:12
    you the test isn't it they are assuming
  • 00:36:15
    and they're right that when you look at
  • 00:36:17
    this it's going to stimulate one of your
  • 00:36:19
    secondary blockages now I've got level
  • 00:36:21
    two reaction don't I so your primary
  • 00:36:23
    experience when it comes directly in and
  • 00:36:25
    touches your core of your being comes
  • 00:36:28
    right through we'll talk about that a
  • 00:36:29
    little bit more right your secondary
  • 00:36:31
    experience or level two experience is it
  • 00:36:33
    comes in and it doesn't make it to the
  • 00:36:35
    core of your being it hits your garbage
  • 00:36:37
    it hit your blockages why because
  • 00:36:38
    they're in the way as a blockages do and
  • 00:36:41
    all of a sudden you're getting angry
  • 00:36:42
    because somebody showed you red I don't
  • 00:36:44
    want the red one my sister got the red
  • 00:36:46
    bike and I I can't believe I wanted the
  • 00:36:48
    red no get away from me and you're it's
  • 00:36:50
    50 years you're saying that it's just
  • 00:36:53
    it's hilarious the love of your life
  • 00:36:56
    when you're 25 years old is on his knees
  • 00:36:59
    and he's got a little box little jewelry
  • 00:37:01
    box and you take it and he opens the box
  • 00:37:04
    and the diamond looks exactly like your
  • 00:37:06
    aunt tilda's and she was so mean and she
  • 00:37:10
    used to show that off to everybody and
  • 00:37:12
    it looked just like that how you
  • 00:37:14
    doing not such a romantic moment anymore
  • 00:37:17
    is it all of a sudden the event that's
  • 00:37:21
    happening isn't what you're experiencing
  • 00:37:24
    you're experiencing what happened before
  • 00:37:26
    that you stored in inside of you and
  • 00:37:28
    that's the reaction that comes up
  • 00:37:30
    therefore that's the emotion that you
  • 00:37:32
    feel and that's what you're dealing with
  • 00:37:34
    believe it or not this is a spiritual
  • 00:37:36
    discussion why because that's the stuff
  • 00:37:39
    that blocks
  • 00:37:41
    spirit I don't want to talk about Spirit
  • 00:37:45
    if you I don't want to talk about water
  • 00:37:46
    flowing if it's damned I want to talk
  • 00:37:48
    about how to get rid of the dam I don't
  • 00:37:50
    want to dream back oh the water used to
  • 00:37:52
    flow no I want to know how to get rid of
  • 00:37:54
    the dam I don't want to think about what
  • 00:37:56
    would it be like if the water FL no no I
  • 00:37:58
    want to get rid of the damn I want to
  • 00:37:59
    focus on the problem and that's what
  • 00:38:02
    we're dealing with you have a problem
  • 00:38:05
    and you're it you have built these level
  • 00:38:07
    two blockages inside and now when the
  • 00:38:10
    world comes in you react in accordance
  • 00:38:13
    to your past experiences and we think
  • 00:38:15
    it's natural well maybe it's normal but
  • 00:38:18
    it's not natural all right normal
  • 00:38:20
    doesn't mean good and so there now you
  • 00:38:23
    understand your blockages I didn't get
  • 00:38:24
    too far into it does anybody have any do
  • 00:38:27
    I need to prove it to you or have you
  • 00:38:29
    noticed that they
  • 00:38:31
    stay years can go by and an argument you
  • 00:38:35
    know you want to see your blockages go I
  • 00:38:37
    won't go go to your high school
  • 00:38:39
    reunion and see how you feel you don't
  • 00:38:43
    even recognize the person anymore and
  • 00:38:44
    they say no you remember I'm so and so I
  • 00:38:46
    want to see how you feel I want to see
  • 00:38:49
    what comes up because it stayed in there
  • 00:38:51
    for all those years that's ridiculous
  • 00:38:54
    the person's not the same person you
  • 00:38:56
    can't even recognize them they have to
  • 00:38:57
    have their pictures of what they look
  • 00:38:59
    like in high school for you to rec they
  • 00:39:00
    put it on their little shirt or
  • 00:39:02
    something right
  • 00:39:03
    OMG I'm proving to you what's going on
  • 00:39:07
    now if you collect all that garbage
  • 00:39:09
    every moment of your life you just
  • 00:39:12
    collect all these things and then you're
  • 00:39:14
    going to have reactions based on that
  • 00:39:16
    now try to figure out how to be okay
  • 00:39:18
    you've had thousands and thousands of
  • 00:39:20
    experiences one experience was good with
  • 00:39:22
    red the other experience was bad with
  • 00:39:24
    red you dated a guy named Ben it was
  • 00:39:26
    really beautiful and then he moved away
  • 00:39:27
    it was a nice relationship you wrote for
  • 00:39:29
    well then you married a guy named Ben
  • 00:39:31
    and the worst thing in the world war of
  • 00:39:32
    the Ros you got divorced now do you like
  • 00:39:34
    Ben's or not when somebody say oh my
  • 00:39:36
    name's Ben do you freak or do you
  • 00:39:39
    excited I don't know probably depends on
  • 00:39:41
    the weather be careful because you may
  • 00:39:43
    be bifurcated about this guy he wonder
  • 00:39:45
    why you're so moody because one day he
  • 00:39:47
    reminds you of the nice guy the other
  • 00:39:49
    reminds you of the other guy all right
  • 00:39:51
    so you have a problem the problem is you
  • 00:39:54
    have stored these things inside of you
  • 00:39:56
    now you're not okay okay because they
  • 00:39:58
    block your energy flow now there's no
  • 00:40:00
    natural flow there's just this stuff in
  • 00:40:02
    there and now you need to find out what
  • 00:40:04
    I said how to make the world be that it
  • 00:40:07
    tiptoes Through the Tulips that it
  • 00:40:08
    matches your stuff good enough to where
  • 00:40:11
    you feel the flow from behind because
  • 00:40:14
    you stopped being all uptight about it
  • 00:40:16
    and what's so amazing is that you're the
  • 00:40:19
    one who's deciding what we'll do it like
  • 00:40:21
    okay she has a very pretty shirt on I
  • 00:40:22
    look at her shirt very artistic pretty
  • 00:40:24
    shirt what if you went to a party and
  • 00:40:26
    you made that shirt yourself and really
  • 00:40:28
    beautiful and special and you're really
  • 00:40:29
    excited about being special and you just
  • 00:40:31
    say oh my God no be the most unique
  • 00:40:33
    clouse that's ever been at a party you
  • 00:40:34
    go to the party and half the people in
  • 00:40:36
    the party have that blous on how you
  • 00:40:39
    doing oh my God all right what if you
  • 00:40:42
    decided I'm going to buy this blouse but
  • 00:40:44
    I wonder if anybody else will like it I
  • 00:40:46
    I may be too weird right but I really I
  • 00:40:49
    like it I don't know if they like it or
  • 00:40:51
    not I hope so and so you buy it and you
  • 00:40:53
    put it on you're scared and you go in
  • 00:40:55
    there and half the people have the
  • 00:40:56
    blouse on you feel totally accepted and
  • 00:40:58
    Vindicated you're the one who decides
  • 00:41:01
    how you feel about things and I don't
  • 00:41:03
    know how to talk about it you're either
  • 00:41:05
    setting up things that will make you
  • 00:41:06
    miserable or setting up things that will
  • 00:41:07
    make you nice but they're all
  • 00:41:09
    conditional it's called conditional
  • 00:41:10
    well-being your well-being is now
  • 00:41:13
    conditioned upon the world unfolding in
  • 00:41:15
    a way that either matches or doesn't
  • 00:41:16
    match or whatever it is the garbage you
  • 00:41:18
    stored inside all right so now you
  • 00:41:20
    understand What's blocking you how do
  • 00:41:23
    you get rid of it can you get rid of it
  • 00:41:25
    let's get this straight can you get rid
  • 00:41:27
    of these blockages yes can you me
  • 00:41:30
    personally yes but you don't understand
  • 00:41:32
    me I got some it doesn't matter there's
  • 00:41:34
    not one single thing inside of you that
  • 00:41:37
    you're not holding in there it tries to
  • 00:41:40
    come up when you're asleep in your
  • 00:41:41
    dreams it comes up when people hit it it
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    pops back up there doesn't it and you
  • 00:41:46
    push it right back down it is in there
  • 00:41:49
    because you are holding it in there not
  • 00:41:51
    oh I made a mistake I did it when I was
  • 00:41:53
    little I held it in there now I'm stuck
  • 00:41:54
    with it no no no no no no no no no if
  • 00:41:56
    it's in in there believe me it's trying
  • 00:41:58
    to come back up all right one way or
  • 00:42:00
    another you somebody reminds you of it
  • 00:42:02
    God I felt the same as when I was my
  • 00:42:04
    sister that I did when we were little
  • 00:42:07
    people say it all the time I told you I
  • 00:42:10
    had met an old couple and the husband
  • 00:42:12
    had just died beautiful beautiful woman
  • 00:42:14
    older woman she's just me says I met
  • 00:42:17
    hering we've been married 50 years and
  • 00:42:20
    he died in micke I feel the same
  • 00:42:22
    loneliness and sense of loss that I felt
  • 00:42:25
    before I met him now that he's gone now
  • 00:42:28
    that may sound romantic to you that
  • 00:42:30
    sounds like it didn't work what do you
  • 00:42:33
    mean you literally feel the same
  • 00:42:35
    loneliness and the same sense of
  • 00:42:37
    lostness that you felt 50 years ago and
  • 00:42:40
    then you rested on this person to make
  • 00:42:42
    it not feel that way but the moment they
  • 00:42:44
    left it was right back again what does
  • 00:42:46
    that tell you you didn't get rid of it
  • 00:42:49
    you didn't work at the root you didn't
  • 00:42:50
    get rid of stuff right it literally
  • 00:42:52
    didn't work okay and it's not going to
  • 00:42:55
    work you can't put stuff on top top of
  • 00:42:57
    something and think it went away no more
  • 00:42:59
    than you you have some disease and put
  • 00:43:01
    some Band-Aids over it okay you can't
  • 00:43:03
    see it it's gone no it doesn't go away
  • 00:43:05
    that way so now how do you get rid of
  • 00:43:07
    the blockages first of all now that you
  • 00:43:09
    have a fundamental understanding what's
  • 00:43:11
    wrong you at least have the basis for
  • 00:43:13
    getting rid of it now the question
  • 00:43:14
    becomes are you willing to are you
  • 00:43:16
    willing to understand I hope I've
  • 00:43:18
    inspired you to say I want to feel love
  • 00:43:20
    I want to feel Joy I want to wake up
  • 00:43:22
    every morning filled with bliss and
  • 00:43:23
    ecstasy and can't wait to see what's
  • 00:43:24
    going to happen today and go through the
  • 00:43:26
    entire day andthus and excited and go to
  • 00:43:28
    bed and giggle myself to sleep every
  • 00:43:30
    single day for the rest of my life I
  • 00:43:31
    wouldn't mind living like that okay get
  • 00:43:33
    ready your blockages you're going to
  • 00:43:34
    live like that because that is your
  • 00:43:36
    natural state period so how do you get
  • 00:43:38
    rid of your blockages start with what I
  • 00:43:41
    call the low hanging fruit start with
  • 00:43:43
    every moment of every day of your life
  • 00:43:45
    something hits your stuff somebody
  • 00:43:48
    doesn't say what you expect them to say
  • 00:43:49
    somebody says what you don't want
  • 00:43:51
    somebody's wearing a coat that you wish
  • 00:43:52
    you had something happens believe me
  • 00:43:54
    I've lived in here for a long time all
  • 00:43:56
    right something how the wind blows your
  • 00:43:58
    hair around is a little hot the car
  • 00:44:01
    doesn't start right away I like my God
  • 00:44:03
    it's just ongoing is it somebody's got a
  • 00:44:05
    nicer car than you somebody parked in
  • 00:44:07
    your parking space somebody beeped at
  • 00:44:09
    you because you were looking at your
  • 00:44:11
    smartphone at the light okay things
  • 00:44:13
    bother you don't they things cause a
  • 00:44:15
    change in there that's where I want you
  • 00:44:18
    working I don't don't worry about the
  • 00:44:20
    stuff that happened formative yours just
  • 00:44:23
    make a game out of this which says I can
  • 00:44:26
    handle
  • 00:44:27
    these little events that happen in life
  • 00:44:30
    they're totally natural and they're
  • 00:44:31
    happening everywhere I just happen to be
  • 00:44:33
    seeing the ones in front of me I can
  • 00:44:34
    handle them I can let them pass through
  • 00:44:38
    I can experience it I can have someone
  • 00:44:40
    beep at me feel the discomfort of
  • 00:44:44
    embarrassment and or anger because
  • 00:44:46
    people shouldn't be so you know
  • 00:44:48
    impatient I can feel the reaction come
  • 00:44:51
    up inside of me it is okay with me that
  • 00:44:54
    they beeped it is okay with me that I
  • 00:44:56
    had this secondary reaction that's all
  • 00:44:58
    okay with me I'm going to let it all
  • 00:45:00
    come and go I'm going to be so open I'm
  • 00:45:03
    not going to judge it I'm not going to
  • 00:45:05
    judge him for beeping I'm not going to
  • 00:45:06
    judge myself for getting neurotic about
  • 00:45:08
    it I'm just like whoa what an experience
  • 00:45:12
    I want the beeping and the Neurosis
  • 00:45:14
    because of it to be equivalent to seeing
  • 00:45:17
    the most beautiful sunset you've ever
  • 00:45:18
    seen it stuns you you look at it it
  • 00:45:21
    comes in it touches you to the core of
  • 00:45:22
    your being I want every single
  • 00:45:25
    experience you have to make it through
  • 00:45:27
    you but you start with the little ones
  • 00:45:29
    can you handle that he beef at you well
  • 00:45:32
    you can she can't she's going to react
  • 00:45:35
    isn't she because she's a mess right she
  • 00:45:37
    can't even a total stranger beeps at you
  • 00:45:40
    and you get all weird you feel rejected
  • 00:45:43
    you feel scared you feel embarrassed I'm
  • 00:45:45
    telling you those tiny little moments
  • 00:45:49
    are where your spiritual growth is
  • 00:45:50
    because you can handle those that
  • 00:45:52
    something that's never going to bother
  • 00:45:53
    you for the rest of your life happens
  • 00:45:55
    and you get a little weird let it go let
  • 00:45:58
    it go it's called letting go be open
  • 00:46:00
    Relax lean away from it I've taught you
  • 00:46:03
    this a million times when you see it
  • 00:46:05
    start to happen relax if you are relaxed
  • 00:46:08
    you cannot resist it requires tension to
  • 00:46:11
    resist then remember I don't want this
  • 00:46:13
    inside of me I don't want that the guy
  • 00:46:15
    beat me staying here and I get weird
  • 00:46:18
    every time I drive down that street or
  • 00:46:20
    anything like that I don't want it
  • 00:46:21
    inside of me if you don't want it inside
  • 00:46:23
    of you then don't keep it inside of you
  • 00:46:25
    learn to not and just relx relax around
  • 00:46:27
    it and then if it gets weird inside lean
  • 00:46:30
    away from where you see the weirdness
  • 00:46:32
    you are the one who's experiencing these
  • 00:46:34
    things you are fine remember that what
  • 00:46:37
    you're looking at isn't but if you
  • 00:46:39
    relaxed you'll give it room it's all
  • 00:46:41
    about giving it room inside that's what
  • 00:46:43
    I've experienced as much room as you can
  • 00:46:45
    give it you're letting it pass through
  • 00:46:48
    the least room you give it it gets
  • 00:46:50
    constricted it can't make it through
  • 00:46:52
    open up that's called being open it's
  • 00:46:54
    called giving it room it's called RNR
  • 00:46:57
    relaxing and releasing and then to make
  • 00:46:58
    a long story very very short if you
  • 00:47:01
    learn to do it with a beep you learn to
  • 00:47:03
    do with the person driving slow in front
  • 00:47:04
    of you you learn to do with the person
  • 00:47:06
    who you know didn't say hello when you
  • 00:47:08
    called to them hey Sally you up welcome
  • 00:47:10
    just keep letting go keep letting go
  • 00:47:13
    relentlessly give it all the room but
  • 00:47:16
    what if I try to let go and it doesn't
  • 00:47:17
    then let go next time I don't care it's
  • 00:47:20
    you know what happens if I'm trying to
  • 00:47:21
    play tennis I hit in the net I guess I'm
  • 00:47:23
    no good I quit no just every time you do
  • 00:47:26
    it you'll get better and you just keep
  • 00:47:28
    doing it then what will happen because
  • 00:47:30
    you can do it with the smaller stuff
  • 00:47:32
    you're going to be very surprised to
  • 00:47:34
    find out now somebody walks up to you
  • 00:47:35
    and criticizes you somebody doesn't call
  • 00:47:38
    15 minutes after they were supposed to
  • 00:47:40
    and you're getting neurotic Insight
  • 00:47:41
    something a little bit bigger than the
  • 00:47:43
    beep you follow me and you find that you
  • 00:47:45
    do the same thing I can let this go I
  • 00:47:48
    can relax you learn to relax learn to
  • 00:47:51
    release letting go relax and release
  • 00:47:53
    what did they say Let It Be let it be
  • 00:47:58
    singing words of wisdom all right just
  • 00:48:00
    keep letting go then all of a sudden
  • 00:48:02
    something bigger will come up either new
  • 00:48:05
    right that's the big stuff don't put new
  • 00:48:07
    stuff in there if you have an argument
  • 00:48:09
    with somebody and it bothered you your
  • 00:48:11
    First Act is not to go apologize and
  • 00:48:14
    work it out with them because I can't
  • 00:48:15
    handle that we had this argument you can
  • 00:48:18
    handle and I want you to and when you've
  • 00:48:20
    let it go inside then if it's
  • 00:48:22
    appropriate to have a discussion about
  • 00:48:24
    it usually it's not usually if you
  • 00:48:27
    that's what I found in my life if you
  • 00:48:28
    can let it go it's over in fact the
  • 00:48:30
    person you did them a favor you actually
  • 00:48:33
    let it go and next time they see you
  • 00:48:34
    you're not carrying it with you that's
  • 00:48:36
    Grace you absorb the karma but the point
  • 00:48:39
    is if it does need to be talked about at
  • 00:48:40
    least you're there to talk about it not
  • 00:48:42
    there to defend yourself and the fact
  • 00:48:45
    that you couldn't handle it understand
  • 00:48:46
    that I'm going very quickly so more and
  • 00:48:48
    more you let go and don't take new stuff
  • 00:48:51
    in and then I'm tell you all by itself
  • 00:48:53
    the old stuff will come up why because
  • 00:48:55
    you didn't put new stuff on top of it
  • 00:48:57
    and get ready because it's coming up all
  • 00:48:59
    right that stuff does not want to be in
  • 00:49:01
    there and all of a sudden your parental
  • 00:49:03
    things and your childhood things and
  • 00:49:05
    this thing and the first ex-husband and
  • 00:49:06
    the first it just starts coming up so
  • 00:49:08
    what you couldn't handle it when it
  • 00:49:10
    happened can you handle it now the
  • 00:49:12
    answer is
  • 00:49:13
    yes not only can I I will actually you
  • 00:49:15
    say I can and I will why I don't want
  • 00:49:17
    this inside of me and as you let go over
  • 00:49:20
    time as you let go you're going to start
  • 00:49:22
    to get higher why because that's what's
  • 00:49:24
    inside of you something really beautiful
  • 00:49:26
    and you'll start feeling it up lifting
  • 00:49:28
    just you have joy for no reason you feel
  • 00:49:30
    love for no reason and then all of a
  • 00:49:32
    sudden enough opens up with where you
  • 00:49:34
    took the damn down enough it'll push the
  • 00:49:36
    rest out of the way and for the rest of
  • 00:49:38
    your life there'll be this flow welling
  • 00:49:40
    up inside throngs and waves of joy and
  • 00:49:44
    ecstasy that you need to learn to handle
  • 00:49:46
    yourself while you're driving and this
  • 00:49:48
    and that and it will never stop unless
  • 00:49:50
    you stop it that's what's waiting for
  • 00:49:52
    you inside that's what Christ meant when
  • 00:49:54
    he said the kingdom is within you and it
  • 00:49:56
    is but you have to die to be reborn you
  • 00:49:59
    have to die of the personal self of this
  • 00:50:01
    garbage you built inside yourself and
  • 00:50:04
    then it will well up inside so
  • 00:50:07
    basically that is what spirituality is I
  • 00:50:10
    started by saying it's not hard and it
  • 00:50:13
    doesn't take long all you have to do is
  • 00:50:16
    stop holding this stuff inside of you
  • 00:50:18
    and if you will get in the habit of
  • 00:50:20
    doing that and work with that
  • 00:50:21
    relentlessly every moment of every day
  • 00:50:24
    you will never look for love again you
  • 00:50:25
    will never look for excitement again you
  • 00:50:27
    will never look for Joy again you will
  • 00:50:29
    be so filled with shui with this joy
  • 00:50:33
    that everything you do will be notated
  • 00:50:35
    with it you'll passionately interact
  • 00:50:37
    with every moment of your life that's
  • 00:50:39
    how you're meant to live then the real
  • 00:50:41
    stuff happens we haven't even got high
  • 00:50:44
    yet when that energy starts flowing up
  • 00:50:47
    it literally takes you with it it's so
  • 00:50:50
    beautiful that it pulls your
  • 00:50:51
    Consciousness into it you get pulled
  • 00:50:54
    inside that's where yogis live that's
  • 00:50:56
    where great beings live and it starts
  • 00:50:58
    welling up inside and eventually you
  • 00:51:00
    learn to surrender to it you let it take
  • 00:51:02
    you where it's going and return to the
  • 00:51:04
    source the source of spirit is where God
  • 00:51:06
    is the source of sunlight is the sun the
  • 00:51:09
    source of the spirit flow you will find
  • 00:51:13
    where the great ones went all right work
  • 00:51:16
    on these things in
  • 00:51:23
    G
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