The 6 DANGEROUS People Carl Jung Says You Must Avoid

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Summary

TLDRCette vidéo examine les types de personnes émotionnellement dangereuses, en s'appuyant sur les concepts de Carl Jung. Elle met en lumière comment certaines personnes, souvent charmantes, peuvent manipuler les autres à travers des mécanismes inconscients tels que la projection et l'identification à un persona. Les six types identifiés incluent le manipulateur inconscient, le porteur de persona, le propriétaire de l'ombre réprimée, le contrôleur moral, le complexe et le vampire psychique. La vidéo souligne l'importance de la conscience de soi pour se protéger de ces influences et encourage les spectateurs à réfléchir sur leurs propres comportements et relations.

Takeaways

  • 🧠 La manipulation inconsciente peut être subtile et insidieuse.
  • 👥 Les personnes charmantes peuvent cacher des dynamiques toxiques.
  • 🔍 La projection est un mécanisme où l'on attribue ses propres émotions aux autres.
  • 🎭 Le porteur de persona perd contact avec son authenticité.
  • 💔 Le vampire psychique consomme l'énergie des autres.
  • ⚖️ La conscience de soi est essentielle pour se protéger.
  • 🕵️‍♂️ Reconnaître les schémas de manipulation est crucial.
  • 💡 L'ombre représente les aspects non reconnus de soi.
  • 📜 L'individuation est le chemin vers la connaissance de soi.
  • 🛡️ Se libérer des influences toxiques commence par la prise de conscience.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    Dans cette première partie, nous explorons la notion de personnes toxiques, souvent charmantes et bienveillantes, qui peuvent avoir un impact destructeur sur notre bien-être psychologique. Carl Jung souligne que la véritable menace provient de l'inconscient des autres, qui peut envahir notre propre esprit. Nous sommes souvent manipulés par des dynamiques inconscientes, ce qui nous amène à nous sentir épuisés émotionnellement sans comprendre pourquoi. Cette vidéo vise à identifier six types de personnes émotionnellement dangereuses, en commençant par l'idée que nous devons être conscients de ces dynamiques pour nous protéger.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Le manipulateur inconscient est une personne qui projette ses blessures non résolues sur autrui, créant ainsi un environnement émotionnel toxique. Jung explique que cette projection peut mener à une forme de cécité psychique, où l'autre devient un symbole de ce qui est caché en nous. Ces manipulateurs se présentent souvent comme des victimes, ce qui rend difficile la reconnaissance de leur comportement toxique. La clé pour se protéger est de développer une conscience de ces schémas et de se demander si nos émotions sont vraiment les nôtres.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Le porteur de persona est une personne qui s'identifie tellement à son masque social qu'elle perd contact avec son essence. Jung met en garde contre cette identification excessive, car elle peut mener à une superficialité fonctionnelle et à une distorsion des relations. Vivre avec un porteur de persona peut créer un manque de spontanéité et de profondeur dans les interactions, et peut également nous amener à porter nous-mêmes un masque, ce qui nuit à notre authenticité.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:20:00

    Le propriétaire de l'ombre réprimée est quelqu'un qui refuse de reconnaître ses propres ténèbres, ce qui peut mener à des explosions émotionnelles dévastatrices. Jung explique que l'ombre est tout ce que nous refusons de voir en nous-mêmes. Ces personnes peuvent sembler admirables, mais leur incapacité à tolérer la faiblesse chez les autres peut créer un environnement émotionnel instable et dangereux. La répression de leurs émotions peut également contaminer leurs relations.

  • 00:20:00 - 00:25:00

    Le contrôleur moral est une personne qui projette ses propres désirs réprimés sur les autres, les condamnant pour ce qu'ils ne peuvent pas accepter en eux-mêmes. Jung souligne que cette forme de répression est insidieuse, car elle est souvent déguisée en bonnes intentions. Vivre avec un contrôleur moral peut nous amener à nous sentir coupables et à réprimer nos propres désirs, créant ainsi une dynamique de contrôle et de soumission.

  • 00:25:00 - 00:30:57

    Le complexe est une personne dominée par des contenus inconscients qui réagissent de manière imprévisible. Ces personnes peuvent passer d'un comportement affectueux à des explosions de colère sans raison apparente. Jung explique que ces complexes sont des noyaux autonomes d'émotion et de mémoire qui peuvent prendre le contrôle de notre conscience. Vivre avec une personne complexe peut créer une instabilité émotionnelle constante, où le présent est contaminé par des fantômes du passé.

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Video Q&A

  • Qui est Carl Jung ?

    Carl Jung était un psychologue suisse qui a fondé la psychologie analytique et a étudié les dynamiques de l'inconscient.

  • Qu'est-ce que la projection selon Jung ?

    La projection est un mécanisme inconscient où une personne attribue ses propres émotions ou traits non reconnus à autrui.

  • Quels sont les dangers des manipulateurs inconscients ?

    Les manipulateurs inconscients projettent leurs conflits internes sur les autres, ce qui peut entraîner une perte de contact avec sa propre réalité psychique.

  • Comment reconnaître un porteur de persona ?

    Un porteur de persona est quelqu'un qui s'identifie trop à son image sociale, perdant ainsi le contact avec son authenticité.

  • Qu'est-ce qu'un vampire psychique ?

    Un vampire psychique est une personne qui consomme l'énergie émotionnelle des autres, souvent de manière subtile et insidieuse.

  • Comment se protéger des personnes émotionnellement dangereuses ?

    Il est essentiel de développer une conscience de soi et de reconnaître les schémas de manipulation pour se protéger.

  • Pourquoi est-il important de connaître ces types de personnes ?

    Comprendre ces dynamiques peut aider à éviter d'être manipulé et à préserver sa santé mentale.

  • Peut-on être un vampire psychique sans le savoir ?

    Oui, il est possible que quelqu'un agisse comme un vampire psychique sans en avoir conscience.

  • Comment Jung définit-il l'ombre ?

    L'ombre est tout ce que l'individu refuse de reconnaître en lui-même, mais qui se manifeste d'une manière ou d'une autre.

  • Qu'est-ce que l'individuation selon Jung ?

    L'individuation est le processus par lequel une personne devient consciente de son moi et intègre les différentes parties de sa psyché.

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    Do you think you know the people around
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    you? You believe you can identify when
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    someone is toxic, when an energy is
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    heavy, when a behavior crosses the line
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    of what is acceptable. But what if I
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    told you that the real dangers are not
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    obvious? That the most destructive
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    people are often charming, kind, even
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    family members. And that while you try
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    to protect yourself from the obvious
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    villains, you are opening the doors of
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    your mind to something infinitely more
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    dangerous, the unconscious of others
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    invading your own. Carl Gustavong
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    dedicated his life to studying these
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    hidden dynamics. In his work, the ego
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    and the unconscious, he reveals that
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    most of what truly governs us is not
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    under our conscious control. This
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    applies not just to you. It applies to
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    everyone. And that is precisely where
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    the danger lies. Because when someone is
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    blind to their own darkness, that shadow
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    seeks a host. And often that host is
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    you. Perhaps you have never stopped to
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    think about this. But think now. How
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    many times have you felt emotionally
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    drained after talking to someone? How
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    many times have you been blamed for
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    something you didn't do or treated as
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    the savior of a tragedy that wasn't even
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    yours? Jung called this
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    projection an unconscious mechanism
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    where the other projects onto you what
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    they refuse to see in
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    themselves. From that moment on, you
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    cease to be a person and become a
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    symbol, a mirror, an imaginary enemy, an
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    idealized hero. And all these images
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    have something in common. None of them
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    is truly
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    you. But the most frightening part is
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    that often you don't even realize you
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    are in this game. You think you are
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    helping, that you are being empathetic,
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    that you are being mature.
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    Meanwhile, you are sinking into a
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    psychological field that is not yours,
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    trying to resolve conflicts that are not
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    yours, being manipulated by dynamics
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    that were not created by you, but now
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    control you. And it's not just about
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    ill-intentioned
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    people. Jung made it clear, the greatest
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    dangers do not come from conscious
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    perverts, but from unintegrated,
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    unconscious ones. They are those who
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    live alienated from their own psyche,
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    dominated by masks, traumas, complexes,
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    and repressed desires. They are not
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    evil. They are dangerous. And this
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    danger is silent. It doesn't come in
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    through the front door. It infiltrates
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    slowly,
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    daily through small comments, veiled
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    accusations, loaded
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    silences until you start to doubt
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    yourself. And when you lose contact with
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    your own psychic
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    reality, you become part of their
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    shadow. Perhaps you are going through
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    exactly this right now in a
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    relationship, in a friendship, in a work
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    environment, even within your own
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    family. And perhaps you are blaming
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    yourself, trying to understand what is
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    wrong with you. The answer is nothing.
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    But there is something deeply wrong with
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    the way you are being used as a vessel
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    for someone else's unconscious. In this
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    video, we will expose one by one the six
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    types of people that Yung would identify
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    as emotionally dangerous types that act
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    not with deliberate malice but with
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    internal forces they themselves do not
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    understand. And that is why they are so
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    destructive. We will use Jung's words,
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    his concepts and warnings directly from
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    his works such as Ion, the ego and the
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    unconscious and archetypes and the
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    collective unconscious to show you how
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    to recognize these profiles. But more
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    than that, we will open your eyes to the
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    possibility that perhaps, just perhaps,
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    one or more of these profiles is within
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    you as well. Are you ready? Then take a
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    deep breath and move forward. But be
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    warned, after hearing this, you will no
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    longer be able to look at people or even
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    at yourself the same
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    [Music]
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    way. Imagine living with someone who
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    blames you for everything they feel, who
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    turns your presence into a trigger, who
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    makes you feel responsible for emotions
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    you never caused. At first they seem
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    fragile, sensitive, deep, but over time
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    you realize you are being dragged into a
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    battlefield that isn't yours and where
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    you are already at a
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    disadvantage. This is the unconscious
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    manipulator. Someone who is unaware of
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    their own wounds but projects them onto
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    others as a form of psychic survival.
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    Jung said, "What we do not confront in
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    ourselves, we will encounter as
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    fate." And often this fate has a name, a
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    face, and shares the table with you. The
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    unconscious manipulator is someone
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    dominated by repressed content,
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    unintegrated traumas, unprocessed
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    emotional fragments. Instead of looking
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    inward, they aim at you and turn you
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    into a canvas for their internal
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    conflicts.
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    This type of person lives in a state of
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    chronic
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    projection. According to Yung,
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    projecting is an inevitable function of
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    the psyche, but if unrecognized, it
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    becomes
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    destructive. In the book, the ego and
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    the unconscious, he states that
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    projection causes a kind of psychic
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    blindness, a prison where the other
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    ceases to be seen as they are and
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    becomes used as a symbol of what is
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    hidden in us.
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    This is exactly what the unconscious
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    manipulator does. They do not see you.
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    They see a lost part of themselves and
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    react to it as if it were real. These
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    people often position themselves as
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    victims. Everything that happens is
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    someone else's fault, never theirs. When
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    they feel anger, it's because you
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    provoked it. When they are sad, it's
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    because you disappointed them. When they
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    feel inferior, it's because you think
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    you are
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    superior. This distortion is so subtle
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    that you start to question yourself. Was
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    I really insensitive? Did I say
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    something wrong? Am I
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    toxic? And thus, manipulation occurs
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    without a shout being heard, without a
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    direct request being made. It's all
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    emotional,
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    unconscious, and absolutely effective.
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    Worse still, often these people are
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    charming. They have charisma,
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    sensitivity, an aura of emotional
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    intensity. This creates a trap because
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    you think you can help them, heal them,
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    understand them better than others. But
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    what you are doing in practice is
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    sacrificing your psychic health, trying
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    to rescue someone who refuses to dive
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    into themselves. And the more you try,
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    the more you
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    sink. Jung warns us that these patterns
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    of projection are especially dangerous
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    because they place us in a symbolic
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    role. Savior, enemy, traitor, father,
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    mother, anything but who we really are.
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    And living in a symbolic bond is living
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    in an illusion. You cease to be seen as
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    a subject and are treated as a distorted
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    reflection of the others unconscious.
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    The only way to protect yourself from an
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    unconscious manipulator is to develop
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    awareness. Recognize the patterns. Cut
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    the invisible threads that connect you
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    to this person's emotional narrative.
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    And most importantly, constantly ask
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    yourself if what you are feeling is
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    yours or has been induced. Because the
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    unconscious manipulator does not invade
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    your life violently. They enter through
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    the gap of your empathy. And once you
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    recognize this pattern, the next step is
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    to understand how it disguises itself
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    even more deeply with the mask of the
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    persona. The one who not only projects
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    but acts lives in order to appear as
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    something they are not. In the next
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    section, we will explore the bearer of
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    the persona and how it represents one of
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    the greatest psychological risks pointed
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    out by Yung. Because while the
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    unconscious manipulator throws their
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    conflicts onto you, the bearer of the
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    persona can drag you into a world where
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    even you forget who you really are. If
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    this content is making sense to you,
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    click the subscribe button and subscribe
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    to the channel. Thank you for your
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    support. Not all psychological danger
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    comes from extreme behaviors. Sometimes
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    it comes from what seems too perfect.
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    From the ever ready smile. From the
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    impeccable posture. From the flawless
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    image. We live in an era of appearances
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    where being is less important than
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    seeming. And this for Yung was a serious
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    problem because when someone identifies
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    too much with their own persona, the
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    social mask we use to adapt to the
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    world, they risk completely
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    disconnecting from their essence.
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    And those who live for the mask not only
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    lose themselves but also begin to
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    distort everyone around them. In the
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    book the ego and the unconscious, Jung
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    states that the persona is what someone
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    is not but what he and others think he
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    is. In other words, an artificial
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    construction shaped by social, familial,
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    and professional expectations. In
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    itself, the persona is not a mistake. We
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    all use it. It allows us to fulfill
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    social roles to be a doctor, teacher,
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    brother, friend. The problem begins when
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    someone believes they are only that.
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    When the mask sticks to the face and
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    everything that is spontaneous,
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    vulnerable and authentic is locked in
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    the basement of the psyche. The bearer
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    of the persona is the master of
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    functional
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    superficiality. They say what others
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    want to hear. They behave in the right
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    way. They avoid conflicts at all costs.
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    But behind the curtain of control, there
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    is a soul in ruins. Because the more
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    they sustain the image, the more they
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    suffocate the self. And this repression
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    sooner or later exacts its price. For
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    those who live with this type of person,
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    the impact is profound. You feel that
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    something is wrong. But you can't say
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    what. There is a lack of spontaneity, of
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    truth, of depth in the
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    interactions. Everything seems
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    rehearsed. And worse, the bearer of the
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    persona projects this demand for
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    perfection onto you as well. They expect
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    you to perform, to fit in, to
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    collaborate with the theater. If you
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    express something outside the script, an
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    intense emotion, a doubt, a pain, they
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    retreat, become uncomfortable, shut down
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    because everything that reminds them of
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    what is repressed within becomes
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    unbearable. Jung warned that this type
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    of identification with the persona is
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    one of the greatest threats to the
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    process of
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    individuation, the path of self-nowledge
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    and integration of the unconscious.
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    For him, the real danger begins when the
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    individual is hypnotized by the role
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    they play, believing they are what
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    others see. And that is exactly where
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    the risk lies. When someone lives only
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    to be accepted, recognized, praised.
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    They become a hostage to their own
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    facade. And everything that is genuine
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    dies suffocated behind the veneer.
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    Living with someone like this can lead
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    you to doubt your own
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    spontaneity. You start to police
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    yourself, to measure your words, to hide
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    parts of yourself that don't fit the
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    ideal narrative. Gradually, you also
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    begin to wear a mask and don't even
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    notice. Coexisting with a bearer of the
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    persona is not just artificial. It is
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    contagious. But there is something even
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    darker than that. Because when someone
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    represses what they feel, think, and
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    desire for too long, it doesn't
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    disappear. It accumulates. It ferments
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    in the unconscious until it transforms
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    into shadow. And then we enter an even
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    more dangerous territory, that of denied
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    emotions that return with explosive
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    force. In the next section, we will dive
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    into the figure of the owner of the
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    repressed shadow. The one who refuses to
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    see their own dark side until it
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    explodes. There is a type of person who
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    lives controlled, polished, restrained,
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    always correct, always moderate, always
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    polite. But behind this veneer of
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    balance lies a force about to break
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    free. Because everything they consider
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    wrong, ugly or unacceptable is simply
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    pushed down into the basement of the
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    soul. It is not overcome nor
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    transformed. It is merely repressed.
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    This is the essence of the owner of the
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    repressed shadow. Someone who tries to
  • 00:13:53
    be light all the time until the darkness
  • 00:13:55
    takes
  • 00:13:57
    control. Carl Jung dedicated a good part
  • 00:14:00
    of his work to understanding the shadow.
  • 00:14:04
    In Ion he states, "The shadow is
  • 00:14:07
    everything that the individual refuses
  • 00:14:09
    to recognize in themselves and yet
  • 00:14:12
    insists on manifesting in some way. We
  • 00:14:15
    are not talking about something
  • 00:14:17
    external. The shadow is not the evil of
  • 00:14:19
    the world. It is not the other. It is
  • 00:14:22
    not the enemy. The shadow is internal.
  • 00:14:25
    It is the hatred you do not admit to
  • 00:14:27
    feeling. It is the envy you rationalize.
  • 00:14:30
    It is the sexuality you repress. It is
  • 00:14:33
    the ambition you disguise as humility.
  • 00:14:36
    Everything you reject in yourself does
  • 00:14:38
    not disappear. It transforms into
  • 00:14:41
    shadow. And as Yung taught, what you do
  • 00:14:44
    not make conscious directs your life,
  • 00:14:47
    and you call it
  • 00:14:49
    destiny. The owner of the repressed
  • 00:14:51
    shadow does not seem dangerous at first
  • 00:14:53
    glance. On the contrary, often they are
  • 00:14:57
    someone admired, disciplined, kind,
  • 00:15:00
    helpful. But there is something strange.
  • 00:15:03
    They do not tolerate weakness in others.
  • 00:15:06
    They react poorly to spontaneity. They
  • 00:15:09
    are bothered by intense emotions. They
  • 00:15:11
    always seem charged but never explode.
  • 00:15:14
    Until they do. And when that happens, it
  • 00:15:17
    is devastating. This person lives in
  • 00:15:19
    constant emotional vigilance. They do
  • 00:15:22
    not allow themselves to feel and for
  • 00:15:24
    that reason they condemn those who do.
  • 00:15:27
    They do not allow themselves to heir and
  • 00:15:30
    for that reason they attack those who
  • 00:15:32
    do. They become moralistic, demanding,
  • 00:15:37
    controlling. But all of this is just an
  • 00:15:39
    attempt to keep the unconscious under
  • 00:15:42
    control. Yung was clear, the stronger
  • 00:15:45
    the persona, the more repressed the
  • 00:15:48
    shadow. And the more repressed the
  • 00:15:50
    shadow, the more brutal its
  • 00:15:52
    manifestation will be. You can identify
  • 00:15:55
    this pattern in people who have
  • 00:15:57
    disproportionate reactions, who explode
  • 00:16:00
    over small things, who hold grudges for
  • 00:16:03
    years, who sabotage relationships in a
  • 00:16:06
    passive aggressive manner. They are the
  • 00:16:09
    famous difficult people whom no one
  • 00:16:11
    understands why they are so bitter, so
  • 00:16:14
    resentful, so critical. The answer lies
  • 00:16:17
    in the shadow, unintegrated,
  • 00:16:20
    unrecognized, unaccepted. And here is
  • 00:16:23
    the most important point. The shadow is
  • 00:16:26
    not just made of bad things. Yung made
  • 00:16:28
    it clear that it also contains your
  • 00:16:31
    denied potential, your repressed
  • 00:16:33
    creativity, your hidden strength. But
  • 00:16:36
    when the shadow is ignored, all of this
  • 00:16:38
    turns into poison. And this poison
  • 00:16:41
    contaminates the relationship, the
  • 00:16:43
    environment, and especially those who
  • 00:16:45
    are closest.
  • 00:16:47
    Living with the owner of the repressed
  • 00:16:49
    shadow is like living next to an
  • 00:16:51
    emotional
  • 00:16:52
    minefield. You never know where you are
  • 00:16:54
    stepping until you are hit. But this
  • 00:16:58
    repression does not arise from nowhere.
  • 00:17:02
    Often it is fed by an illusion of
  • 00:17:04
    superiority by a rigid moral ideal that
  • 00:17:07
    turns guilt into a tool of
  • 00:17:10
    control. This is where we enter the
  • 00:17:12
    figure of the next type, the moral
  • 00:17:15
    controller. someone who not only
  • 00:17:17
    represses their own desires but makes
  • 00:17:20
    you feel guilty for living yours. In the
  • 00:17:23
    next part, we will unmask this type that
  • 00:17:26
    Yung saw as one of the greatest
  • 00:17:29
    obstacles to psychic freedom. The
  • 00:17:31
    guardian of virtue who deep down hides
  • 00:17:34
    their own
  • 00:17:37
    demons. Not every executioner carries a
  • 00:17:40
    sword. Some use crosses, rules, dogmas,
  • 00:17:44
    and ready-made phrases. They are those
  • 00:17:47
    who claim to be driven by ethics,
  • 00:17:49
    righteousness, and morality. But deep
  • 00:17:52
    down, they are imprisoning themselves
  • 00:17:54
    and others within a cage made of guilt
  • 00:17:56
    and shame. Jung was well aware of this
  • 00:17:59
    archetype. For him, when morality is
  • 00:18:02
    used as a facade, it becomes one of the
  • 00:18:04
    most insidious forms of psychic
  • 00:18:07
    repression. This is the case of the
  • 00:18:09
    moral controller. Someone who instead of
  • 00:18:12
    integrating their shadow projects it
  • 00:18:15
    onto the behavior of others and condemns
  • 00:18:17
    them for what they do not accept in
  • 00:18:20
    themselves. You have certainly met
  • 00:18:22
    someone like this. People who frequently
  • 00:18:24
    point fingers but never look inward. Who
  • 00:18:28
    position themselves as a reference for
  • 00:18:30
    behavior not because they truly are but
  • 00:18:33
    because they desperately need to
  • 00:18:34
    maintain an image of moral superiority.
  • 00:18:37
    According to Yung, the greater the
  • 00:18:40
    repression, the more intense the need to
  • 00:18:42
    project the shadow. And that is exactly
  • 00:18:46
    what the moral controller does.
  • 00:18:48
    Transforms others into sinners,
  • 00:18:50
    deviants, immoral to avoid facing their
  • 00:18:53
    own desires, impulses, and
  • 00:18:56
    contradictions. The problem is that
  • 00:18:59
    unlike a common emotional manipulator,
  • 00:19:01
    the moral controller believes they are
  • 00:19:03
    doing good. They genuinely think they
  • 00:19:06
    are correcting, saving or educating the
  • 00:19:09
    other. And this makes their influence
  • 00:19:12
    even more toxic because it is cloaked in
  • 00:19:14
    authority, good intentions, and false
  • 00:19:18
    spirituality. The criticism comes
  • 00:19:20
    accompanied by phrases like, "It's for
  • 00:19:23
    your own good. You'll thank me later."
  • 00:19:26
    Or, "Someone needs to tell you the
  • 00:19:28
    truth." But this truth is not neutral.
  • 00:19:32
    It is laden with
  • 00:19:34
    projection. In the book Ion Jung
  • 00:19:37
    extensively discusses the figure of
  • 00:19:39
    Christ and the antichrist as archetypes
  • 00:19:42
    of wholeness and
  • 00:19:44
    dissociation. The moral controller
  • 00:19:46
    believes they are embodying the light
  • 00:19:49
    but completely ignores their own
  • 00:19:52
    darkness. They project evil onto others
  • 00:19:55
    to maintain the illusion of purity
  • 00:19:57
    within themselves. And this makes them
  • 00:20:00
    blind, dangerous, unable to see the
  • 00:20:03
    nuances of the human soul. If you live
  • 00:20:06
    close to someone like this, you may
  • 00:20:08
    start to feel constantly guilty, as if
  • 00:20:12
    you are always wrong. Even when you are
  • 00:20:14
    just living, you feel watched, judged,
  • 00:20:18
    diminished. And the most perverse thing
  • 00:20:20
    is that often you internalize this
  • 00:20:23
    judgment. You begin to repress parts of
  • 00:20:26
    yourself that are natural, human,
  • 00:20:29
    spontaneous, and mold yourself to an
  • 00:20:31
    ideal that is not yours. The morality of
  • 00:20:35
    the other becomes your prison. This
  • 00:20:38
    dynamic is common in families,
  • 00:20:40
    religions, and rigid environments where
  • 00:20:42
    obedience is confused with virtue. Jung
  • 00:20:46
    saw this pattern as a real threat to the
  • 00:20:48
    process of
  • 00:20:49
    individuation. For where there is
  • 00:20:51
    excessive moralism, there is an absence
  • 00:20:54
    of self-nowledge. The extreme moralist
  • 00:20:57
    does not want truth, they want control.
  • 00:21:00
    And when they cannot control the
  • 00:21:01
    external world, they begin to control
  • 00:21:04
    the internal world of those around them.
  • 00:21:07
    But the moral controller is not the only
  • 00:21:09
    one guided by unconscious forces. There
  • 00:21:12
    is another type that is even more
  • 00:21:14
    volatile, unstable and unpredictable,
  • 00:21:17
    the complexed. While the moralist
  • 00:21:20
    represses and projects, the complexed
  • 00:21:22
    individual is completely dominated by
  • 00:21:25
    unconscious contents and reacts from
  • 00:21:28
    them like an emotional
  • 00:21:31
    puppet. In the next part, we will dive
  • 00:21:34
    into this explosive territory where
  • 00:21:36
    consciousness loses control and traumas
  • 00:21:39
    take the wheel of the psyche. Prepare to
  • 00:21:42
    encounter the type of person who can
  • 00:21:44
    embrace you today and destroy you
  • 00:21:46
    tomorrow without even knowing why. If
  • 00:21:50
    what you're hearing resonates with you,
  • 00:21:52
    you'll find real value in my ebook,
  • 00:21:54
    Beyond the Shadow. It breaks down Yung's
  • 00:21:57
    core ideas and gives you tools to
  • 00:21:59
    understand yourself more deeply. Link is
  • 00:22:02
    in the pinned
  • 00:22:04
    comment.
  • 00:22:06
    Imagine living with someone who at one
  • 00:22:09
    moment is sweet, affectionate, generous,
  • 00:22:13
    and in the next moment explodes in
  • 00:22:15
    anger, shuts down in silence, or accuses
  • 00:22:18
    you of something that never crossed your
  • 00:22:21
    mind. A compliment turns into a demand.
  • 00:22:24
    A joke becomes aggression. A gesture of
  • 00:22:28
    affection is interpreted as a threat. No
  • 00:22:31
    matter what you do, it seems you are
  • 00:22:34
    always treading on unstable ground. This
  • 00:22:37
    is the experience of those who live
  • 00:22:38
    alongside a person dominated by
  • 00:22:41
    unconscious
  • 00:22:43
    complexes. The complex for Yung
  • 00:22:46
    complexes are autonomous nuclei of
  • 00:22:49
    emotion and memory that reside in the
  • 00:22:52
    unconscious and can take control of
  • 00:22:54
    consciousness at any moment. They are
  • 00:22:56
    like fragmented personalities within us
  • 00:22:59
    created by traumas, psychic wounds and
  • 00:23:03
    unresolved
  • 00:23:04
    experiences. In the book psychological
  • 00:23:07
    types and also in the ego and the
  • 00:23:10
    unconscious, Jung describes how these
  • 00:23:13
    complexes can directly interfere with an
  • 00:23:16
    individual's behavior, causing them to
  • 00:23:18
    react not to the present but to echoes
  • 00:23:21
    of the past.
  • 00:23:23
    A simple comment connects unconsciously
  • 00:23:26
    to an old abandonment, rejection or
  • 00:23:29
    humiliation, and those nearby pay the
  • 00:23:33
    price. The complexed person does not
  • 00:23:36
    realize they are being guided by these
  • 00:23:38
    internal forces. When they react with
  • 00:23:40
    fury, extreme sadness or exaggerated
  • 00:23:44
    resentment, they believe they are being
  • 00:23:46
    rational. But they are not. They are
  • 00:23:49
    reliving undigested emotions. And the
  • 00:23:53
    problem is that this does not happen
  • 00:23:55
    consistently. It occurs in lapses. There
  • 00:23:59
    are emotional explosions interspersed
  • 00:24:01
    with moments of lucidity, affection or
  • 00:24:04
    regret. This makes the bond with such a
  • 00:24:07
    person even more confusing and
  • 00:24:09
    addictive. You start to think they are
  • 00:24:12
    not always like this. Sometimes they are
  • 00:24:14
    wonderful. And that is exactly what
  • 00:24:17
    keeps you hooked because there are
  • 00:24:19
    moments of genuine connection of true
  • 00:24:22
    affection. But these moments are
  • 00:24:24
    followed by unpredictable ruptures where
  • 00:24:26
    you find yourself in the midst of an
  • 00:24:28
    emotional storm that you do not
  • 00:24:31
    understand. And in an attempt to restore
  • 00:24:34
    harmony, you mold yourself, adapt,
  • 00:24:37
    shrink. You start to avoid certain
  • 00:24:39
    topics, measure your words, walk on
  • 00:24:42
    eggshells, all to avoid waking the
  • 00:24:44
    monster that sleeps within the other
  • 00:24:46
    person. But here is the brutal truth.
  • 00:24:49
    That monster is not awakened by you. It
  • 00:24:53
    is always there, latent, hungry, waiting
  • 00:24:56
    for any trigger to emerge. And when it
  • 00:24:59
    does emerge, it consumes everything
  • 00:25:02
    around it. For yung unrecognized
  • 00:25:05
    complexes end up colonizing the psyche.
  • 00:25:09
    They speak for you, feel for you, act
  • 00:25:11
    for you. And in the case of the
  • 00:25:14
    complexed person, this takeover happens
  • 00:25:16
    frequently. They may be dominated by a
  • 00:25:19
    complex of inferiority, martyrdom,
  • 00:25:22
    abandonment, persecution, each with its
  • 00:25:24
    narratives, its emotions, its demands.
  • 00:25:28
    And the more you try to maintain peace,
  • 00:25:30
    the more you feed the illusion that it
  • 00:25:32
    is possible to control the
  • 00:25:34
    uncontrollable. Being close to someone
  • 00:25:36
    like this is to live in constant alert.
  • 00:25:40
    There is never emotional stability. The
  • 00:25:42
    present is always contaminated by
  • 00:25:45
    ghosts. And sooner or later, you begin
  • 00:25:48
    to absorb these ghosts. You start to
  • 00:25:50
    doubt yourself, your memory, your
  • 00:25:52
    feelings. And without realizing it, you
  • 00:25:55
    too are being colonized by the others
  • 00:25:58
    unconscious. But the most dangerous part
  • 00:26:00
    is yet to come. Because while the
  • 00:26:03
    complex person oscillates between
  • 00:26:05
    emotional extremes, there is another
  • 00:26:07
    type of person who does not shout, does
  • 00:26:10
    not explode, does not accuse, but
  • 00:26:13
    consumes your energy until you have
  • 00:26:16
    nothing left. In the next and final
  • 00:26:18
    section, we will talk about the psychic
  • 00:26:21
    vampire. the one who feeds on your time,
  • 00:26:24
    your attention, your empathy, and leaves
  • 00:26:28
    you exhausted, drained, empty. And with
  • 00:26:31
    them, we will close this cycle by
  • 00:26:34
    revealing what Yung truly believed to be
  • 00:26:36
    the way out of this unconscious
  • 00:26:41
    jungle. Some people don't want your
  • 00:26:43
    presence. They want your energy. And
  • 00:26:46
    they will do everything to drain it. Not
  • 00:26:49
    with violence, nor with explicit
  • 00:26:52
    aggression, but with subtle demands,
  • 00:26:54
    chronic victimhood, emotional dependency
  • 00:26:57
    camouflaged as
  • 00:26:59
    affection. This is the psychic vampire,
  • 00:27:02
    the most silent and insidious form of
  • 00:27:05
    emotional draining that Carl Jung ever
  • 00:27:07
    warned about, even if not by that name.
  • 00:27:10
    Because in Yungian language, it is the
  • 00:27:13
    symbol of the unresolved symbiotic
  • 00:27:15
    relationship, the pathological bond that
  • 00:27:18
    hinders psychic growth and dissolves the
  • 00:27:20
    contours of the self. Jung in various
  • 00:27:24
    passages of the ego and the unconscious
  • 00:27:26
    and in Ion shows us that one of the
  • 00:27:28
    greatest threats to the process of
  • 00:27:30
    individuation. The path towards
  • 00:27:32
    wholeness is symbiotic relationships
  • 00:27:35
    where two people do not recognize
  • 00:27:37
    themselves as separate individuals but
  • 00:27:39
    as psychic extensions of one another.
  • 00:27:42
    The psychic vampire lives exactly in
  • 00:27:45
    this type of connection. They need your
  • 00:27:47
    constant attention, your daily comfort,
  • 00:27:50
    your being available all the time. But
  • 00:27:52
    behind the neediness, there is a void
  • 00:27:54
    that is not yours and that you will
  • 00:27:57
    never be able to fill. You start by
  • 00:27:59
    offering support. Then you give time.
  • 00:28:03
    Then you tolerate emotional abuse in the
  • 00:28:05
    name of
  • 00:28:07
    understanding until you realize that all
  • 00:28:10
    your energy is being drained and that
  • 00:28:12
    you no longer know where the other ends
  • 00:28:14
    and where you begin.
  • 00:28:16
    The exhaustion is profound. It is not
  • 00:28:19
    just physical. It is
  • 00:28:21
    existential. It feels as if your soul is
  • 00:28:24
    being devoured drop by drop day after
  • 00:28:27
    day. Jung spoke of people who unable to
  • 00:28:30
    sustain themselves psychically attached
  • 00:28:33
    to others like emotional parasites. And
  • 00:28:35
    as cruel as it may seem, this is the
  • 00:28:38
    truth. The psychic vampire does not want
  • 00:28:40
    to grow. They want to be carried. But
  • 00:28:43
    the danger is not just in the
  • 00:28:45
    exhaustion. It is in the dissolution of
  • 00:28:48
    the self. You start to feel guilty for
  • 00:28:50
    wanting space. Selfish for wanting
  • 00:28:53
    silence. Cold for wanting distance.
  • 00:28:57
    Because the psychic vampire is a master
  • 00:28:59
    at reversing roles. From victim they
  • 00:29:02
    become accuser. From needy they become
  • 00:29:06
    manipulator. And before you realize it,
  • 00:29:08
    you are living to avoid crisis, to
  • 00:29:11
    maintain peace, to sustain a bond that
  • 00:29:14
    is killing you inside. Jung offers us a
  • 00:29:17
    path to make the unconscious conscious.
  • 00:29:20
    And this applies to both others and
  • 00:29:22
    ourselves. Because perhaps at some point
  • 00:29:25
    in life, you too have been a psychic
  • 00:29:28
    vampire or a complex person or a bearer
  • 00:29:31
    of the
  • 00:29:32
    persona. None of us is immune. We all
  • 00:29:35
    have shadow. We all have pain. The
  • 00:29:39
    difference lies in who has the courage
  • 00:29:41
    to look within and who chooses to
  • 00:29:44
    project that weight onto others. This
  • 00:29:46
    video was a mirror, a dive into the
  • 00:29:49
    dynamics that bind us, hurt us, and keep
  • 00:29:52
    us unconscious. If you've made it this
  • 00:29:54
    far, it means you are ready to see, to
  • 00:29:57
    name, to break free. And this is the
  • 00:30:01
    first and most powerful form of freedom.
  • 00:30:04
    It is not about blaming others but about
  • 00:30:07
    stepping out of the hostage position
  • 00:30:09
    about reclaiming sovereignty over your
  • 00:30:11
    own
  • 00:30:12
    psyche. Now I want you to participate.
  • 00:30:16
    Leave in the comments which of these
  • 00:30:18
    profiles have you faced and which do you
  • 00:30:21
    honestly perceive within yourself. Your
  • 00:30:24
    comment could be the beginning of
  • 00:30:25
    awareness yours and of those who read
  • 00:30:28
    it. And before you go, an important
  • 00:30:31
    notice. The next video is also
  • 00:30:34
    essential. It will take you even deeper
  • 00:30:36
    into this journey of self-nowledge. So
  • 00:30:39
    keep watching. You need to see because
  • 00:30:42
    the more light we shed on the
  • 00:30:44
    unconscious, the less it controls us.
  • 00:30:47
    See you there.
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