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how is she sleeping
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if you're a new parent you've probably
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been asked this question again and again
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after all sleep is important and let's
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be honest if the baby's not sleeping
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the rest of the family probably isn't
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either
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I'm a mother I'm also a science
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journalist and so when I had my little
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one I decided to look a little bit more
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deeply at some of the ideas that I heard
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bandied about so much on social media in
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baby books and in conversations with
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other parents
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here are four of the most popular
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misconceptions I found one common myth
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is that babies all need the same amount
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of sleep for example 12 hours at night
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and three hours of naps
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the science doesn't back this up one
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study of four to six month olds for
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example found that the babies slept an
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average of 14 hours and 24 but that's
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the average if you compare the baby
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getting the most sleep to the baby
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getting the least sleep there is an
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eight hour difference that's part of why
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professional bodies like the American
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Academy of sleep medicine recommend
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ranges instead for example 12 to 16
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hours in 24 for a baby under one year of
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age
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and they don't recommend schedules or
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even how much sleep should come at night
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versus during the day
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infants simply vary too much for those
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kinds of guidelines myth two if babies
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are waking at night they're not getting
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the sleep they need not only is this
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false but waking actually helps protect
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babies
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first there is a caveat if your child is
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waking frequently over a long period of
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time it's worth getting a medical
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assessment to rule out any health issues
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but Healthy Babies wake too
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All Humans wake between sleep cycles
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as adults we normally fall right back to
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sleep but babies can't meet their own
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needs whether that's for feeding or
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emotional regulation so they often
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arouse more fully and more often one
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study found that three-month-olds woke
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anywhere from zero to 15 times per night
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and it doesn't always improve as quickly
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as many of us would like a different
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study found that babies woke on average
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the same number of times throughout
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their whole first year that can be tough
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on families
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but we can take some Solace from the
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fact that in babies waking is a good
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thing
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researchers are finding more and more of
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a link between a lack of arousal in
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sleep and SIDS sudden infant death
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syndrome
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prematurely pushing a baby towards
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longer deeper sleep it seems can
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increase the risk
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waking helps protect them myth three
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babies need to be on a strict schedule
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ideally including seven to seven
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nighttime sleep if you take this idea as
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gospel in the earliest days you are
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setting yourself up for real frustration
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that's because the physiological
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processes that tell us when it's time to
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sleep like melatonin excretion don't get
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going until at least 8 to 11 weeks of
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age but even in older babies a strict
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schedule may not be best
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for one thing feeding and sleeping are
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often linked and the research shows that
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for the majority of infants feeding
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responsively in accordance to a baby's
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hunger cues is far better than by the
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clock as for the seven to seven schedule
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there's no scientific evidence behind it
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many cultures around the world don't
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follow it and if you have a baby whose
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lower sleep needs you might just find
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that a 7 PM bedtime leads to a 4 AM wake
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up
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myth four this might be the biggest
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worry for parents that if babies don't
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sleep through they're being set up for
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poor development
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it's easy to see where this idea came
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from
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a lack of sleep or fragmented sleep has
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been associated with a higher risk of
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things like ADHD
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but that's in older children the same
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links have not been found in babies one
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Canadian study looked at 6 and 12 month
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olds and then saw how they were doing at
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three years of age
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it found no significant links between
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sleeping through the night and later
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development
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other research Bears this out
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so how do you know if your baby is
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getting enough sleep look at your baby
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if she's fussy maybe sleep needs
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tweaking but all else being well you
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probably don't need to worry here's what
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I took from all of this as a new parent
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if any of these ideas work for you great
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if they don't you're not alone and the
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good news is that if your baby is happy
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and your family is coping you don't have
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to change a thing