we GLOWED UP and then we BROKE UP .... ( so can you be friends with your ex ?? )

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Summary

TLDRIn a candid video, a couple reflects on their breakup while sharing humorous stories about their relationship. They discuss how they met through mutual friends and the decision to remain friends after realizing they were holding each other back. Despite the end of their romantic relationship, they express mutual admiration and support for each other, emphasizing the beauty of love in different forms. They also share insights on life, encouraging viewers to enjoy their routines and be kind to themselves. The video serves to clarify their relationship status and promote a positive outlook on love and friendship.

Takeaways

  • 💔 They decided to break up but remain friends.
  • 🤝 Mutual support is key even after a breakup.
  • 😂 They share humorous anecdotes about their relationship.
  • 📚 They met through mutual friends, not a bookstore.
  • ❤️ Love can exist in different forms, including friendship.
  • 🌟 They encourage viewers to enjoy life and be kind to themselves.
  • 🗣️ They value privacy in their relationship content.
  • 💬 They appreciate each other's caring nature.
  • 🌈 Life is too short; make every day count.
  • ✨ Romanticize your routine and find joy in small things.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:09:59

    The video begins with the couple discussing their breakup, revealing that they had kept their relationship a secret. They express their intention to remain friends despite the end of their romantic involvement, emphasizing the importance of supporting each other. They share humorous moments about their past and how they met, highlighting the challenges of dating within the same friend group. The couple reflects on their relationship dynamics, acknowledging their differences in communication styles and the care they have for one another. They conclude with a message about the importance of living life fully and cherishing relationships, even after they change.

Mind Map

Video Q&A

  • Why did they break up?

    They felt they were holding each other back and decided it was best to remain friends.

  • How did they meet?

    They met through mutual friends, specifically one of their exes.

  • Will they still be in each other's lives?

    Yes, they plan to support each other and remain friends.

  • What kind of content do they create?

    They create humorous and personal content, often keeping their relationship private.

  • What do they appreciate about each other?

    They admire each other's caring nature and support.

  • What advice do they give about life?

    They encourage people to enjoy life and be kind to themselves.

  • What is their perspective on relationship content?

    They believe many who create relationship content may not have healthy relationships.

  • What is their view on love?

    They believe love can exist in different forms, including friendship after a breakup.

  • What do they mean by 'romanticize your routine'?

    They suggest finding joy in everyday activities and being kind to oneself.

  • What is their overall message?

    To clear the air about their breakup and emphasize the importance of friendship.

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  • 00:00:02
    So, 2 million people have watched a
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    video of of us. Enjoy for your viewing
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    pleasure. I look so hot in that video.
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    Yeah, we did kind of look.
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    But the reason that we're here is
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    because he lied. He believed he believed
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    he lied like real eyes. realize realize
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    but actually we've been keeping our
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    relationship a secret and now it's over.
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    But we've been there for each other
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    through like thick and thin, fat and
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    thin,
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    from this to this. I I guess the
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    interesting fact is we're trying to be
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    friend.
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    If you can love someone when they
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    clapped, then you can love them as
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    friends. Exactly. That's the beauty of
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    love. That's love.
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    We were holding each other back and
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    literally literally literally literally
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    lit.
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    As we are breaking up, if any editors
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    need any clips to like to mourn this
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    loss,
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    I present directly to you
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    to you.
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    To you
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    [Music]
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    [Music]
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    cry now. Cry more.
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    Now sexy crying.
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    Sexy crying.
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    I like that we're wearing black. We're
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    we're morning. We're black. We're
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    morning. Yeah, even black pants. I
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    didn't I didn't plan this. I just
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    thought this would You never wear black,
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    too. And I thought I think it's also cuz
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    like the way we met and like our history
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    like we did start off as friends and
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    everything else. That's why like it was
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    easy for us to come to this conclusion
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    that I think we can still be friends and
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    um we just want to support each other.
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    That's just like how it is for us. So
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    don't go center hate
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    goatee
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    goatee in terms of what Jen's currently
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    going through. There's a lot of support
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    that she'll need. So, if you guys follow
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    her journey on her Tik Tok, she'll be
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    updating you guys with what's going on.
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    So, even though like we're not dating,
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    we we'll still be in like each other's
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    life somewhat. Of course. Yeah, that was
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    so sweet.
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    Wait a second. Cut the video. The funny
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    thing is how we met each other. So, in
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    my comment section, I did say like I met
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    him in a bookstore, but I was supposed
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    to be like sarcastic. I don't know if
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    you guys caught on,
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    but she's just so learned. I didn't know
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    people were actually going to believe
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    it. People was like, "Oh my god, that's
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    so like that's such a cute [ __ ]
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    annoying." Yeah. They're like, "That's
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    such a cute little like, you know, um
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    situation like, you know, to meet
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    someone like actual love story." And I
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    was like, "Real love exists, guys. It'll
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    just bump into you in the middle of
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    nowhere, knock you down on the street,
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    and run you over, you know, literally,
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    but it's nowhere here." I mean, I would
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    say we still have real love. Anyways,
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    you want to explain how we met?
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    Seriously, this sounds bad. This sounds
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    like I was uh I was like one of those
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    creepy guys that was like crazy. I was
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    waiting. I was waiting. Like he's one of
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    the good guys like you know like it's
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    okay. You deserve better. You deserve
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    better. You deserve better. You deserve
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    better. Who who said that? I met her
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    through through being friends with her
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    ex
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    who is actually getting kind of canceled
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    right now. Oh, finally deserved. Uh, he
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    used to always say when we were friends,
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    uh, I love your nose. And I was like,
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    okay. And then he would say, I want to
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    get your nose. And I was like,
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    don't don't do that. His his nose was
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    fine. His nose was fine. But now he has
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    a white person's nose. Has a botched
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    nose job. And I feel bad for him.
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    Oh, should we get back together?
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    We was friends for like a while. We were
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    friends for a while. And um Nathan was
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    there for me like for many many things
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    as well. We just came to terms with like
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    I think I have feelings for you and um I
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    think that we should maybe see how it
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    goes. See how it goes. And um obviously
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    because we were friends and we're in the
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    same friend group, it was kind of like a
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    big decision like for us as well cuz
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    like you know like if we break up you
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    can mess everything up. Yeah. It can
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    mess everything up especially like
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    dating someone in the same friend group
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    and all those things. But um we were
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    like, you know what, we're both adults
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    and we've been through many things and
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    we'll like even if things end, we'll be
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    there for you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
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    So that's why um I'm a predator. He is.
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    So I was going to clip that. Yeah.
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    He's he's I think there's been a lot of
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    questions, especially on on on her Tik
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    Tok and even on my YouTube being like,
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    "Are you guys together? Are you guys
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    together? Are you guys a couple? We both
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    think like people that make couple
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    content." It's kind of crazy.
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    Like I feel like cuz like we we
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    personally we like to keep stuff very
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    private. Obviously we do share a lot of
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    our personality online but when it comes
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    to relationship and stuff like that, we
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    still wanted to keep that part of us
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    like you know it's like it's like our
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    own little secret, our own little like
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    you know privacy. I also imagine that
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    the people that do make relationship
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    content, you're probably in the worst
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    [ __ ] relationship ever. Like the
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    camera turns off and you're like
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    get the [ __ ] out of my face. I feel like
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    like so many people get locked into
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    super long-term relationships and if you
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    can break up how is it going to say
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    economically?
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    It's cuz she's good at economics. I'm an
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    economics teacher. Can you get your
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    phone up? What? What? What word are you
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    trying to find? She she still listens to
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    me and we're where I broken up. I was
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    trying to find the [ __ ] low sugar
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    BaskinRobins yesterday. Oh, it did not
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    have near my house. Do you feel
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    betrayed? Cuz the whole relationship I
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    said I hate mint chocolate and now I'm
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    actually I said eat the mint chocolate.
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    Oh no. Eat it.
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    To prove to you guys that we're on good
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    terms, we will say one one last nice
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    thing to each other which we never do.
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    We always fight.
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    You can see what's going wrong. You can
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    see what's one thing that I admire about
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    not my government name.
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    If I was going to say just one thing, it
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    would be that just one thing. Just I can
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    only name one. One, just one is look, I
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    don't think anyone would know this on
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    the internet, but like deep down in
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    there through the many layers of
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    visceral fat that we have to climb
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    through is like how sure and like caring
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    of a heart that she has for like other
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    people. And it always shows up in the
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    most like unexpected ways when you don't
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    expect it, right? Well, that's my
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    perspective.
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    No, I think like that's my perspective.
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    Okay, kid. That's my opinion. I think I
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    think it's for me as well to you, it's
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    very similar how um you come off as this
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    per you obviously care so much for like
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    not just for me but for everyone in your
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    life and like the way you care, you
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    don't say it like you show it through
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    actions. And um there were times within
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    our relationship where I really
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    contemplated like how or who I was
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    towards you cuz um I'm like I don't know
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    I like words of affirmation but you're
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    more of like an act of service type of
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    guy right but that's the thing that I
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    came to kind of accept within our
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    relationship as well that oh you know
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    what um he really does care and I don't
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    need him to like to tell me it's just
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    like through his actions and like I
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    don't know I always felt loved and
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    accepted by you and I feel like that's
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    something really hard to find when
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    you're like in this day of age like to
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    find someone that's like honestly like
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    honest you know within that realm of
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    relationship for sure. Yeah. I think
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    like for us like besides having two
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    really big personalities and because
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    we're so alike, one thing I really
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    appreciated about our relationship was
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    we were always opening like we were
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    always open to trying new things
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    together despite hating it or not loving
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    it or whatever, you know, like we go in
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    with it with like a positive mind like
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    we live once and um we should just do
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    whatever we want. Yeah. Yeah. If you
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    watch my YouTube videos, I think it's
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    important that we all remember
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    you only got one life to live. Yeah.
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    Life's too short to contemplate
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    everything. Like you got to make every
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    day I mean try to enjoy at least one
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    aspect of every day even if it's
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    something small. Romanticize your
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    routine or literally whatever like
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    whatever foods you're eating, be kind to
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    yourself, be kind to your body and same
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    with relationships. But yeah, that's
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    just what we want to tell you guys. And
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    like just to clear the air.
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