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the less you try to force your way
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through life the more apparent your
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natural skills and gifts will become the
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more satisfying a life experience I
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imagine you will
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have this video found you on some level
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you're ready to stop pushing you're
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ready to stop trying to force life to
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turn out a certain
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way and you are ready to live in a
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fulfilling deliberate way whatever that
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means and looks like for
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you I'm Danielle
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Lynn I have conversations with creators
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Alchemists at play magicians teachers
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and just rad people such as
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yourself and in today's video
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conversation I
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perceive that you're
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complete with a way of of living that
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has felt force-based a way of living in
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which you've had to convince yourself to
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be or show up a certain way to get the
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things that you think you've wanted and
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instead today we going to tune
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in to what it is you truly want to at
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the very least the current now step the
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current place of focus that you can tune
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into to give your body mind Spirit
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energy a sense of natural ease that
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comes with being a deliberate Creator at
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play that comes with being someone who
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can truly Inspire magic in their own
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life and experience the realities they
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want to
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experience without necessarily having to
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first I have to build this much stuff or
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have this much money or do this or do
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that not from my perspect perspective
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from my
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perspective wherever we find you right
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here right
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now contains within it the seed the
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essence the resource of all it is you
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need to take the next deliberate step
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from here and then the next and the
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next with the kind of empowerment and
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satisfaction you most
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want now at this
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moment I am not going to claim to know
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everything about the specifics of your
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life
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circumstance what I will say is that if
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you found this video if you're watching
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to at least this point you have within
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you and around you everything you need
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to make a step of empowerment in your
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life the reason this is important to
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highlight is that without dismissing the
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challenges or trials or tribulations or
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experiences of your life we can
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acknowledge all of them I'm going to
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invite you if it feels good just for now
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you can always pick them up later but
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just for
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now let's breathe in if it feels
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good on the out breath imagine you're
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putting all those things in a bit of a
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package and just for right now we're
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going to set them
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aside like I said we can come back to it
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later
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for this moment you can give yourself
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the gift of
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clarity and with that gift of clarity
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whatever you choose to do with this with
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anything else that you
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have you'll be able to
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choose with more
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ease and without creating more of this
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unless you want
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to
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now every every story and experience we
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have in our
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life is something that on one form or
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another on one level of awareness or
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another we thought would be of service
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to
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ourselves even the really intense
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ones I say this as someone who has lived
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out some very intense story lines that
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at the time of living them I certainly
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had a lot of words to say on why
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and I'm certain anyone tuning in here
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has had some form or another of intense
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experience whether you're living that
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right now or you have at some point in
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your life you don't generally
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arrive at this point of awareness
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without having some real low lows and
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real high
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highs and part of that
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is whenever we give ourselves the per
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to experience something we are by the
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same token giving ourselves permission
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to experience the other side of it so
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when we give oursel permission to
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experience low lows we are also
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expanding the capacity to experience
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High
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highs the thing
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is sometimes we can get really wrapped
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up in the momentum of one swing of the
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pendulum or the other
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and so if you're watching this video
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some of the perspective that's going to
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be shared here may be of assistance for
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you if you are ready to complete a
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certain cycle or perpetuated story in
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your
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life so I'm going to
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offer this to
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you this is going to be around any
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attachment you have to a CH challenge or
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situation that might be going on in your
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life I say that because often times
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that's where our energy will congregate
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until or unless we work with our energy
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in ways in which we're applying the
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primary focus towards what excites
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us then sometimes we inevitably find it
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around attempting to resolve
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challenges we chew on them a little bit
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like Rubik's Cubes because on some level
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we believe if we give it focus and we
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resolve it then we believe that it will
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be complete and not come back in some
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ways we believe that by focusing on the
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problem or challenge we can somehow heal
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the pain within
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ourselves here is what I have
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found and this is a very simple
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formula anything you want to perpetuate
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in your life give it your focus give it
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your attention ruminate on it stew in it
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really think about it consider all the
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angles play it out in your head dress up
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like characters and act it
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out whatever we focus on is what we
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amplify in our
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world
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now if you want something to shift in
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your
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reality but you want it to truly shift
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not from from a place of ignoring it not
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from a place of running away from it not
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from a place of attempting to cover it
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up here's what I have
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done I have given it the precise amount
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of energy and focus is needed for me to
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be in awareness and me to make a new
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Choice here's how it often looks for me
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and perhaps there'll be something
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similar here for
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you so if I have a certain problem let's
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say it's a challenge with another person
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let's say I'm
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I'm having a conflict with another
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person one of the first things that I do
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is I acknowledge my feelings about it I
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don't attempt to override them I don't
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attempt to say I should be the bigger
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person this or that and this is assuming
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by the way that I am bringing myself
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into a space where I can focus so if
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you're dealing with another person this
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is presuming you have stepped away
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you're in your own space and you were
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ruminating on
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this so one of the first things I do is
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I give myself permission to feel my
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feelings about the situation without
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judging them without steamrolling them
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without attempting to apply a sense of
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you should be holier than this just
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honest
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feeling now while I am doing this I
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observe how much I am placing that
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feeling towards the other
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person if I was to think well this
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person should do this or how dare this
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person do that or this then I might
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bring myself to notice
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that in the more recent years my mind
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doesn't work this way but I am sharing
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with you how this has been in the past
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and how you might connect with
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it again without judging myself I
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observe how often I assign anger or
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blame or energy towards the other person
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because on some level when I'm doing
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that I am saying in another way in order
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for me to feel whole or good or proper
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this other person needs to behave a
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different
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way so I am not saying that
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anymore instead what I am doing is I am
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observing my feelings I am tracking them
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and once they are complete once they
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have been shared with me this is with
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me once me and myself have observed them
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I say thank you thank you for being so
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honest and open I celebrate that and I
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celebrate
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you and
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then as I'm sitting with that part of
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myself I then say all
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right
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so what part of this is important to me
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why do I feel these ways and this is
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where I give myself permission to be
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clear on why the situation inspired such
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feelings in me because it doesn't
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actually have to do with the other
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person any external response that is
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triggered something within me has to do
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with a system or pattern that I feel
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Within Myself now to be clear this is
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not talking about whether or not the
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other person did something proper or
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improper none of that is my
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business they stepped in as an
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experience that highlighted something
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within me and right now we're only
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focusing on what is within ourselves
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self because that gives us a clear
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pattern or mapping as to why we even had
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a contact or conflict with this person
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or situation to begin with because in my
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own experience as I have transmuted
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those patterns within myself if I ever
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came across a similar person again it's
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like oil and water there's nothing there
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for them to connect with within me
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because that patterning doesn't exist
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anymore so it would be like someone
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saying something to me and I'm like well
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that's an interesting thing to say and
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then I move on I don't need to engage or
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attack or feel or this or that because
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there's nothing within me to do that
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with and so what's interesting is a lot
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of times when we experience conflicts
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with others or situations and
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such and we over assign oh the other
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person should or should not be this way
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we may be missing the opportunity
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highlighted to say well why is this
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responded to within me anyway because
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when we do that instead of needing to
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change every single person that be
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responds this way we instead free
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ourselves from being reactive to this
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stimuli and as such it's no longer our
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response
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ability and in doing that and being that
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I have found when there is certain
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energies that want to interact in a very
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like way and you don't respond to them
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not one way or another you're not
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attempting to do anything to them they
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they often diffuse because there's
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nothing there to grasp on to and
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interestingly enough in doing so there
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becomes less and less places for this
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energy to react to and it
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itself has more and more opportunities
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to turn inward and go through a similar
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trans transformation that you just
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did interesting
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huh and
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so in this
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way when we allow ourselves to be
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present with an experience instead of
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being reactive to
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it through our own inner exploration we
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transmute patterning and start finding
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ourselves in entirely different
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different
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situations not because these don't exist
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universally anymore but because we don't
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connect and focus and engage with them
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we're no longer perpetuating them in our
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reality and
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therefore we are instead finding
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ourselves focusing in the energy
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perpetuating in ways that we so choose
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and if and when challenges emerge we can
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observe them without getting entangled
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in
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them without attempting to hide or
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ignore or avoid we can observe without
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getting entangled and observe
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observation without
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entanglement is
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empowerment it's the ability to stand
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within yourself regardless of what
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happens in the world and without needing
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the entire world to change in order for
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you to be stable within yourself you are
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able to therefore in an ironic sense be
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a transforming agent in the world you
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interact
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with because sudden
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L things meet you situations meet you
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experiences meet
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you and have an entirely new
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experience we are all really just coming
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home to ourselves and it's my
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perspective that every single one of us
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is inbuilt for this type of empowerment
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and the less that we give our energy to
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trying to fix the outer world one
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problem and one challenge at a time and
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the more we re receive that information
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from a place of oh if something is
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stirring within me I'm observing I'm
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being present with it and I'm being
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curious what's up what's up ah
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interesting
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shift the more than we have energy freed
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up to place it towards the Curiosity
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experiences and people we really really
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really want to amplify in our life and
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world so now back to our bag here of
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stuff that we breathed out
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the stories the
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experiences this is your opportunity
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whatever this
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was this is your opportunity to explore
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the stories and this experience from a
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new way yes we acknowledge you may have
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feelings about it we acknowledge this
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may have been intense painful remember
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we're not condoning or attacking any of
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the other situations or players here the
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most important part here here is you
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your feelings your responses all these
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things cuz these are the things that you
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have power
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with and in being aware of those being
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honest within yourself being curious
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being there for yourself you will
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naturally disentangle from this
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situation and a byproduct of that is
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discernment the ability to see something
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without being completely embroiled in it
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the gift is discernment what discernment
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does is it allows you to choose between
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situations experiences people's
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opportunities that are a yes and a know
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for you from a place of inner
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empowerment being the reality Creator
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you are and dreaming up this amazing
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experience that you find yourself in
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where right now we're having a fabulous
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conversation and I for one am loving it
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and
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so as you once we are complete here
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bring this story back in to
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evaluate I invite you to be both very
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honest with yourself observe any time
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you point outside of yourself just
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observe there's no shame blame or
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guilt and you ask yourself
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okay what is this triggering response in
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me and what do I need to believe in
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order to feel disempowered about this
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what belief am I holding on what do I
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believe needs to be true in order for
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this to be
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disempowering and this may give you some
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of the first steps and indications of
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where you have opportunity to reclaim
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and reconnect with the power within you
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because anytime we act from
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disempowerment in my experience we are
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just perpetuating an outdated belief
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from childhood from the subconscious
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mind from some part of ourselves that we
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can really love and we can integrate and
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as we do
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we
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remember that no matter what comes into
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our
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lives we always have the power of
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focus of
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flexibility of humor of
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curiosity and nothing is truly greater
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than our spirit and our
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being and so my
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friend with that
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at the time of making this
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video the doors for the self- Alchemy
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lab are opening it would be an honor to
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connect with you there this is a curated
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membership experience in which myself
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and other community members will join we
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will have regular calls there are some
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trainings some walkthroughs to help take
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you through a deeper process of being a
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deliberate reality Creator and I see it
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as an amplifier of
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synchronicity of empowerment and of us
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all creating and living the reality we
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most truly want so please feel inspired
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as it feels good to you to check that
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out I will have other descriptions
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Links of other resources in the
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description but also have links we have
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all the things and if you have found
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this enjoyable helpful please do like
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