HOW WOMEN GET ATTACHED - Elements of Female NATURE desire and arousal (key to seductive vibe 24/7)

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Summary

TLDRIn this presentation, the speaker addresses common misconceptions men have about what attracts women, emphasizing that women fall in love not through chemistry, wealth, or traditional 'high value' attributes but through a perceived discrepancy in sexual market value. This means a woman finds a man more attractive if she sees him as more valuable compared to herself. The speaker highlights the importance of inner confidence and staying true to oneself over collecting material accomplishments or following societal checklists. Instead of focusing on external markers like wealth or physique, which often lead to superficial relationships, the speaker encourages men to foster internal growth and genuine confidence. He argues against using these insights for manipulative purposes and emphasizes the significance of emotional connection, honesty, and being comfortable with one's identity, stating that these are key to forming meaningful relationships with women. The presentation concludes by urging men to reflect on their true desires and the motivations behind self-improvement, advocating for self-discovery and authenticity in personal growth and relationships.

Takeaways

  • 💡 Women are attracted by perceived higher sexual market value, not just chemistry or appearance.
  • 🚫 Don't use new understanding of attraction manipulatively.
  • 🔑 Inner confidence is more crucial than external achievements.
  • 🧠 Self-improvement should be personal, not for validation.
  • 🎭 Genuine personality and confidence create true attraction.
  • 📊 Sexual market value discrepancies are key in attraction.
  • 💪 Confidence can't be built through material gains alone.
  • 🛑 Avoid the trap of seeking external validation.
  • 🤔 Examine personal reasons for self-improvement.
  • 🌳 Connection and authenticity are the foundation of relationships.

Timeline

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    The video introduces the concept of how women fall in love, challenging common beliefs about men's approach to attracting women. It emphasizes that conventional ideas like chemistry, high value, and specific tactics are misleading. The speaker warns against using these insights manipulatively and suggests that the webinar on Masculine Behavioral Techniques (MBT) can provide deeper understanding and faster results in dating.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    The speaker argues that societal norms mistakenly teach men that success and material attributes are necessary for women to love them. He highlights that a woman falls in love when there is a perceived higher sexual market value in the man compared to herself. Value is determined by societal perception, not just material success. Women find attraction in men who display confidence and individuality, distinguishing them from others.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    The speaker further challenges the notion that material success equals high value, emphasizing the importance of internal confidence over external achievements. He criticizes the superficial approach of gaining validation through wealth, fitness, or fame rather than developing genuine self-confidence. True alpha male qualities come from internal assurance and not from superficial attributes.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:22:35

    He concludes by stressing that real attraction and love from women stem from a man's internal confidence, presence, and authenticity rather than external status or wealth. Women desire emotional connection and authenticity, qualities that make a man truly charismatic. The focus should be on internal peace and comfort with oneself, leading to genuine connections and deeper attachments.

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  • What does the speaker claim about women's attraction?

    Women are attracted when they perceive a man has higher sexual market value than themselves.

  • Are material accomplishments necessary for attracting women?

    No, material accomplishments aren't necessary; women look for confidence and internal traits.

  • How does the speaker suggest men often misunderstand female attraction?

    Men believe they need to have wealth, physique, and high status, but it's more about how women perceive them compared to their own self-image.

  • Why does the speaker discourage using knowledge for manipulation?

    The speaker believes that using such understanding manipulatively can lead to negative outcomes and doesn’t encourage genuine connection.

  • What is the speaker's advice regarding self-improvement?

    The speaker suggests focusing on self-improvement for oneself rather than for external validation.

  • Why is confidence emphasized over material achievements?

    Confidence demonstrates internal strength, which is more appealing to women than superficial attributes.

  • What does the speaker say about men chasing external validation?

    Men often chase superficial goals for validation from others rather than true satisfaction or self-improvement.

  • How does the speaker view modern dating dynamics?

    Modern dating dynamics are seen as too focused on external attributes rather than meaningful personal connection.

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  • 00:00:00
    now we're going to be getting into a
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    little bit of a different concept today
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    but today I'm going to be teaching you
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    how women actually fall in love and the
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    elements of female desire because what
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    men are convinced of certain things in
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    today's world like it has to have uh
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    chemistry there H I have to be high
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    value I have to demonstrate value to her
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    I have to show her my worth I have to
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    learn a bunch of game I have to learn a
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    bunch of tactics these are the things
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    that's literally crushing your desire
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    with her now I'm going also say
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    this do not use this for evil and I
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    really mean that the things I'm going to
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    be teaching you on today's presentation
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    is probably a bit higher level um it
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    really it actually really is higher
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    level thinking and higher level aspects
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    of just being a human and in the wrong
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    hands this could be used for negativity
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    which means I do not want you to do to
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    use this to get you know women who you
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    have no interest in in the future um
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    attached to or obsessed with you I do
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    not want you to use this to just sleep
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    with as many as as many women as
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    possible I also do not want you to use
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    this to try to boost your own ego um but
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    this is seriously some deep stuff so
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    stay with me for the whole presentation
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    because it is actually going to be worth
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    your time and I'm not just saying that
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    after this video is over as well I want
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    you to go down below and I want you to
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    check out the MBT webinar MBT stands for
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    masculine behavioral techniques this is
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    my own proprietary system that I've used
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    with thousands of men across the globe
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    be sure to hop into that presentation
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    after because it will change your life
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    and it's going to actually help you get
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    results in your dating life at a far
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    quicker pace so let's dive in I am super
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    excited for today's video as well now
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    today we're showing exactly how women
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    deeply fall into love and get attached
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    and I'm going to tell you this this
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    video will piss some of you off because
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    you're going to realize that probably
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    the world has lied to you in quite a few
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    ways and you're going to be sitting
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    there going damn I've been chasing all
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    these things that are never going to
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    actually lead me to the Final
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    Destination that I think it will and you
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    have probably been chasing something
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    that you'll never be able to catch
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    because it doesn't exist so here's what
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    the world wants you to think this is
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    what the world wants men to think the
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    world wants men to think that you need
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    all these boxes checked to like qualify
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    to a woman or to prove your worth or to
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    prove yourself okay and you're going to
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    hear things like well you need skills
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    and you need to be high value okay then
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    she's going to have all this love and
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    this chemistry and this attraction and
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    just adore you
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    okay then you're going to hear stuff
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    like you know uh one day when you wake
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    up and you've made it and you're a
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    millionaire and all of a sudden you uh
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    have these sixpack abs you're going to
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    have this unlimited confidence and
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    you're going to just feel amazing and
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    here's the truth okay the truth is that
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    there is no end point to success or a
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    final destination that will ever make
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    you feel free okay free to walk up and
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    talk to that girl free to live life how
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    you want free to dress how you want free
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    to talk how you want no nothing's going
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    to ever do that for you nothing there's
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    no materialistic thing that will ever
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    give you that false internal confidence
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    or conviction in yourself another thing
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    that the world wants you to think is
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    that women only look at like
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    materialistic stats oh he has money so
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    oh now that means he's a man to her it's
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    not how this [ __ ] works okay or that
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    you're not good enough this is all
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    [ __ ] the way that a woman falls in
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    love has nothing to do with chemistry it
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    has nothing to do with uh compatibility
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    it has nothing to do with her liking you
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    sometimes it doesn't even have anything
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    to do with her respecting you women only
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    fall in love when there is a discrepancy
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    between you and her in sexual market
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    value meaning whatever she views herself
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    as you can use a rating on 1 to 10 she
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    views you above her now what this is is
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    this is a frame of value she has
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    categorized you okay let me give you an
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    example of what this would look like if
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    you are at a bar okay this is just
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    completely hypothetical stick with me
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    because frames of value women women
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    can't control their attraction like just
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    like you can't control what you're
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    attracted to what if you see a beautiful
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    woman whether you're a good guy whether
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    you're a bad guy whether you're a mean
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    guy whether you're a happy guy doesn't
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    matter how you were raised or what your
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    personal beliefs are when you are
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    attracted to something and you find it
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    arousing or you find a woman beautiful
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    you can't help it it's the same with
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    with women women have things they find
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    attractive in men so women only fall in
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    love when there is a discrepancy between
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    you and her in sexual market value she
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    thinks yours is above hers this is
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    called a frame of value here's an
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    example you're at a bar okay you're a
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    multi-millionaire with a private jet
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    you're sitting around a table and
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    there's 10 people total there's three
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    other men and there so that's four total
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    and there's six women there's 10 people
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    total
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    okay the one guy sitting there who's the
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    brokest let's say or he's the one who
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    let's say just doesn't give a [ __ ] or
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    lives however wants and let's say
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    someone says something and he says just
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    a good witty oneliner like it's a joke
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    all the women think it's hilarious and
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    he wasn't even trying to be funny like
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    maybe he sits there stone cold when he
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    delivers it and it's just the way he
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    delivered it was hilarious in that exact
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    moment they are going to have more
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    attraction and arousal towards that guy
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    because he has inflated the emotional
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    state and the value of the entire
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    Collective of people sitting there so in
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    that exact moment he may have more
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    market value seually than you even if
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    you have all the boxes checked so
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    there's some hidden skills that men have
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    not actually learned about attracting
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    women or even just how to be themselves
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    for that matter so that's it a
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    discrepancy and smv sexual market value
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    she looks at you and she's like man this
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    guy's cooler than me this guy is more
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    popular than me this guy is more
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    outgoing than me this guy takes risks
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    and says things that I would never say
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    or she might look at that guy and go man
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    this guy is more interesting than me
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    okay this guy is more well-known than me
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    this is why women like popular guys this
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    is why women like guys with status but
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    the thing is is men don't necessarily
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    understand how women perceive status
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    women perceive status based off how
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    you're being judged from the collective
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    whole of the people that you're around
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    and there's ways that you can
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    demonstrate status but what you have to
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    understand is there will never be
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    anything on paper like I okay yeah I'm
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    I'm going to get to that point in a
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    second just stick with me this will make
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    sense okay not only that the discrepancy
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    in sexual market value also happens to
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    come when she sees that you are desired
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    by other women this has nothing to do
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    with chemistry okay in fact when you
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    check all these boxes then she feels
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    chemistry okay majority of men think if
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    they build rapport with her if they have
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    things in common if they spend enough
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    time with her she's going to get
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    attached no that is not how this works
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    when a woman stops looking up to you
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    okay she starts to look down on you when
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    she looks down on you she she thinks
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    she's better than you when she thinks
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    she's better than you she exits because
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    there's something about your personality
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    that demonstrated some sort of weakness
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    some sort of insecurity some sort of
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    turn off or some sort of attachment that
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    she viewed as unattractive okay so the
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    only difference with what I'm saying
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    versus majority of the content creators
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    is majority of the content creators are
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    going to tell you that a woman only
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    looks up to you when you have all of
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    these boxes checked on paper okay like
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    oh you're only uh like you're only
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    making 880k a year so like that's like
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    that has nothing to do when you when you
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    walk down the street and or you talk to
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    a woman at an event a party women don't
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    often times know how much money you make
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    women don't know where your status is
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    you start to demonstrate these things by
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    conviction confidence personality so
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    what's the key to this the key to this
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    is you got to like we're not you got to
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    really ask yourself why you live the way
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    you do okay because if you're if if you
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    take a look you have 24 hours in a day
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    if you chop up and divide how you're
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    living those 24 hours most people are
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    living them okay just for the
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    satisfaction or the validation that they
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    may get from others here's what I mean
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    by that you're the guy where you say you
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    know if I make all this money or I
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    hustle for the next 5 years in my
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    business then I'll have the admiration
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    of women or if you say these things like
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    you know if I just get sixpack abs then
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    I'm going to be valued and respected by
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    other people cuz I look super fit and
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    most of the time people like the women
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    that you talk to they just don't give a
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    [ __ ] because when you have to self-
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    qualify when you H when you tell
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    yourself you have to build yourself when
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    you tell yourself you have to do all of
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    these things to gain other people's
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    approval that is when you ruin the whole
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    thing okay am I against self-improvement
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    absolutely not me myself of course I've
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    been I I I try to improve every day
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    right I try to improve um the content on
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    this channel I try to improve my health
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    I try to improve let's say uh my CC
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    circumstances I try to learn new skills
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    but it's for me because as an individual
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    that's what makes up my life it's not
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    for the validation of other people so
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    how do you start to live like this where
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    you talk how you want you operate life
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    on your own terms you're willing just to
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    be how you want to be the key is to be
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    present in the moment and 100% confident
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    with yourself to actually let go and
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    just not give a [ __ ] okay the ability to
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    just not give a [ __ ] if you can adapt
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    the I don't give a [ __ ] mentality but
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    not just say it like you actually mean
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    it like you genuinely don't give a [ __ ]
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    what other people think how they view
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    you should live your life if you're at a
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    10 out of 10 in life satisfaction and
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    you have another person who looks down
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    on you for the choices that you're
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    making you got to understand that they
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    just see the world through a different
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    lens women are only looking at the man
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    from a sense of is he 100% confident
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    within his own identity within his
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    personality and this is what makes makes
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    up an alpha male okay the internal I've
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    been trying so hard for the past 3
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    months on this channel talking about
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    internal high value and it is the
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    hardest thing to discuss because it goes
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    against what all the other content
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    creators say that makes a man high value
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    because I'm talking about the internal
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    traits when women when women are present
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    in the moment with a guy they are
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    looking at who he is from the inside out
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    the guts of the man what makes him him
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    the key is to be 100%
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    self-confident okay 100% And genuinely
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    not give a [ __ ] and I'm going to explain
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    why this is so important right now you
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    could most guys if you're if you're
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    watching this Channel and maybe some
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    days you wake up and you're insecure you
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    don't feel good or like you are not very
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    confident or you're shy all of those
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    things if you're like man I wish I could
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    I could change myself most guys you
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    could put 5 million bucks in their bank
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    account right now you could give guys uh
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    sixpack abs whyde shoulders chest full
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    of muscle okay you could give these guys
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    fame if you snap your fingers and you
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    said here's a 2 million Instagram
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    followers you're a celebrity everyone
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    loves you you could also give that guy
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    all of a sudden um 6'5 height or height
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    however you say that you make him 6'5
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    and you could give him let's say um male
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    model quality looks most men if you gave
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    them everything on the external they are
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    still insecure as [ __ ] from the in
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    inside out they are insecure as [ __ ]
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    because internally the guts of the man
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    they have an impoverished identity who
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    they are they don't think is naturally
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    good enough the problem with adding [ __ ]
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    to the external is you never fix the
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    internal and you realize that your
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    internal is moved your internal is
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    changed because the the guts of you who
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    you are from the inside out your
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    personality has been influenced by the
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    external World okay from from the way
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    you dress the way you do your hair the
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    way you walk the way you talk the way
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    you operate what you think is socially
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    normal everything it's because of what
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    you've seen well how do you make up your
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    reality you make up your Reality by what
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    your eyes see and then what your ears um
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    hear what you hear and what you see
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    becomes your reality right now since we
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    live in such a digital world it's not
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    very common for men to approach women
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    anymore oftentimes guys are sitting
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    there on their cell phone they don't
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    ever walk up to a woman and they say
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    hello well okay how it like think about
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    this for a second if that guy would just
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    watch one other guy go approach if you
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    watch one guy go if you're sitting at a
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    sports bar or you're sitting at a club
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    or you're s you're out on the park at
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    the park and you watch a guy go approach
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    a beautiful woman and introduce himself
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    and ask her out if that's the first time
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    you've ever seen that happen since it's
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    not very normal anymore once you see
  • 00:12:47
    that you go hm maybe that is normal well
  • 00:12:49
    then if you see two guys do it then it
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    becomes more normal and three guys and
  • 00:12:53
    four guys and pretty soon that becomes
  • 00:12:54
    the reality what I'm saying is the
  • 00:12:56
    reality that you've seen from the day
  • 00:12:57
    you were born until now has been
  • 00:12:59
    constructed for you so the goals that
  • 00:13:02
    you think that you want to achieve
  • 00:13:04
    they're only important because of what
  • 00:13:05
    your ears have heard and what your eyes
  • 00:13:07
    have seen think about that for a second
  • 00:13:09
    imagine that what if you started from a
  • 00:13:12
    clean slate and you took a pen and paper
  • 00:13:13
    and you said what do I actually want how
  • 00:13:15
    do I actually want to live you're
  • 00:13:17
    probably not confident or your true
  • 00:13:19
    authentic self or what you want to be or
  • 00:13:20
    how you want to sound because you are
  • 00:13:22
    living in a mental reality that has been
  • 00:13:25
    put in front of you to get you to chase
  • 00:13:27
    certain goals that you as an individual
  • 00:13:29
    might not even find super important
  • 00:13:31
    think about that for a second most guys
  • 00:13:33
    you could give them every single
  • 00:13:34
    external materialistic status driven
  • 00:13:37
    metric to go and tell yourself to give
  • 00:13:38
    yourself all the proof that you made it
  • 00:13:40
    now and they're still on the inside
  • 00:13:42
    nervous or they're still on the inside
  • 00:13:44
    anxiety they still on the inside can't
  • 00:13:46
    let go if the the ability to not give a
  • 00:13:49
    [ __ ] that is how a woman views an alpha
  • 00:13:51
    male and I'm telling you you can do that
  • 00:13:53
    in a normal everyday car or you can do
  • 00:13:55
    that in a in a Maserati you can do that
  • 00:13:57
    on a private plane or you can do that
  • 00:13:58
    that flying uh normal
  • 00:14:01
    Airline there comes a point where you
  • 00:14:03
    just have to let go realize that who you
  • 00:14:06
    are you have value because God created
  • 00:14:08
    you in the first place you have value
  • 00:14:11
    because you have balls between your legs
  • 00:14:12
    and you're a man so start [ __ ] just
  • 00:14:14
    acting like it it's okay to go after
  • 00:14:16
    what you want so when you think about
  • 00:14:18
    this at a deep level when most guys are
  • 00:14:20
    like oh I want all this muscle or I want
  • 00:14:22
    abs you actually don't want abs you tell
  • 00:14:25
    yourself you do you tell yourself you're
  • 00:14:26
    in the gym for you but what you really
  • 00:14:28
    want is confidence what you really want
  • 00:14:30
    is you think oh when I get my abs and my
  • 00:14:32
    muscle what you're going to be like oh
  • 00:14:34
    now I'll have the confidence to talk to
  • 00:14:35
    Sally at um the restaurant think think
  • 00:14:38
    how stupid that is you trying to build
  • 00:14:41
    the external to fix the internal I'm not
  • 00:14:43
    saying disregard your goals I'm not
  • 00:14:44
    saying don't self-improve I'm not saying
  • 00:14:46
    don't build muscle look at me I I have a
  • 00:14:48
    I have tons of muscle anyone who's seen
  • 00:14:49
    me on my Instagram I've worked out for
  • 00:14:51
    10 years but you got to ask yourself why
  • 00:14:53
    you're doing it okay you got to ask
  • 00:14:55
    yourself why you chase these things okay
  • 00:14:58
    look look at even me with my LIF look at
  • 00:15:00
    the unconventional road that I chose to
  • 00:15:02
    sit here on this camera to talk to you
  • 00:15:04
    guys to help you guys right to build
  • 00:15:07
    kind of my mission and what I'm doing
  • 00:15:08
    and how I want to communicate to the
  • 00:15:10
    world that took some level of guts cuz
  • 00:15:12
    this isn't very common what I do so
  • 00:15:15
    right away when I started it some people
  • 00:15:17
    probably thought I was weird but then as
  • 00:15:19
    when you keep building and you keep you
  • 00:15:20
    get fixed in your identity where you're
  • 00:15:22
    like okay I am who I say am I know who I
  • 00:15:24
    am this is so needed so you don't want
  • 00:15:27
    muscle and you don't want abs you
  • 00:15:28
    actually just want confidence most of
  • 00:15:29
    you you don't want to go build a
  • 00:15:30
    business you tell yourself you want to
  • 00:15:32
    build a business but you don't you you
  • 00:15:33
    want the excuse now to act like you get
  • 00:15:35
    to feel good enough like oh now I now I
  • 00:15:38
    can allow myself to feel good enough
  • 00:15:40
    because I have a million dollars in the
  • 00:15:42
    bank I'm going to tell you
  • 00:15:44
    something you will feel the same on the
  • 00:15:46
    inside no matter where you're at in life
  • 00:15:49
    no matter where you're at doesn't
  • 00:15:52
    matter a woman wants to see you have
  • 00:15:54
    that level of confidence where no matter
  • 00:15:55
    where you're at you're still a solid
  • 00:15:57
    stable Rock You you know who you are
  • 00:16:00
    okay then you have a frame of value now
  • 00:16:03
    if the millionaire on the boat who 6'5
  • 00:16:05
    sends a text message that says baby baby
  • 00:16:07
    are you sad at me are you mad at me he
  • 00:16:10
    failed he's not high value if the guy
  • 00:16:13
    who has six-pack abs is still on the
  • 00:16:16
    inside shy and super hesitant when he
  • 00:16:18
    talks to women she's going to see this
  • 00:16:20
    was all done on the external just
  • 00:16:21
    because he doesn't feel good enough if
  • 00:16:24
    the uh let's say let's say the guy who's
  • 00:16:27
    6'5 and has a aera and abs in a business
  • 00:16:30
    he he hold he when he's holding her hand
  • 00:16:32
    he holds that hand just a little too
  • 00:16:33
    long he goes in for one too many kisses
  • 00:16:37
    interest test failed he he calls her one
  • 00:16:40
    too many times he starts initiating
  • 00:16:41
    contact he's no longer chasing his goals
  • 00:16:43
    in life or how he wants to live for
  • 00:16:45
    himself cuz you an individual human too
  • 00:16:47
    he's now attached to this other person
  • 00:16:49
    interest test failed that guy who's a
  • 00:16:51
    millionaire can go from a 10 out of 10
  • 00:16:53
    to a three out of 10 just like that
  • 00:16:55
    overnight and that's what I'm telling
  • 00:16:56
    you it's inside this this is what none
  • 00:16:58
    of the other content creators get
  • 00:17:00
    another thing too that another a lot of
  • 00:17:02
    the content creators don't understand is
  • 00:17:03
    a man's ability to um say no to evil
  • 00:17:07
    this is so big if a woman sees oh this
  • 00:17:10
    guy um this guy makes a bunch of money
  • 00:17:13
    and this guy has a bunch of muscle but
  • 00:17:14
    all he does is engage in lustful
  • 00:17:16
    Behavior bounces from Club to Club to
  • 00:17:18
    Club to prove to himself he can talk to
  • 00:17:20
    the next girl constantly in this never
  • 00:17:22
    ending Loop of alcohol or chasing the
  • 00:17:24
    next thing or caught in lust he's going
  • 00:17:26
    to look like the weakest man ever it's
  • 00:17:28
    going to like the women have so much
  • 00:17:29
    power over him like the these men who
  • 00:17:31
    call themselves high value males I'm
  • 00:17:33
    high value look at look at me with my
  • 00:17:35
    followers and my podcast and my
  • 00:17:37
    Instagram and my muscle and it's like
  • 00:17:38
    dude so what now you you you tell
  • 00:17:41
    yourself that and what you can get girls
  • 00:17:43
    now or you tell yourself you can get
  • 00:17:44
    girls the women see right through that
  • 00:17:46
    they know that they still have all the
  • 00:17:47
    power over those men that those men are
  • 00:17:49
    still living in the exact step-by-step
  • 00:17:51
    Playbook that they think that they need
  • 00:17:53
    to attract a woman and it's pathetic men
  • 00:17:55
    don't live how they want to live do you
  • 00:17:57
    understand what I'm trying trying to say
  • 00:17:59
    like I get that I'm rambling but this is
  • 00:18:00
    super [ __ ] important you don't want
  • 00:18:02
    to build a business you want the excuse
  • 00:18:04
    now to go out and act like you get to
  • 00:18:06
    feel good or you're now good enough
  • 00:18:08
    self- qualification so you could give
  • 00:18:10
    every guy most of this and they would
  • 00:18:11
    still feel like crap on the inside so
  • 00:18:14
    what's the best way to actually get her
  • 00:18:17
    hooked well not only do you have to be
  • 00:18:19
    present in the moment so you can connect
  • 00:18:21
    with the woman okay which means talk
  • 00:18:24
    slower if you guys are having a drink
  • 00:18:26
    together enjoy the drink maybe you
  • 00:18:29
    compliment what she's wearing if you
  • 00:18:30
    think it looks good maybe you are just
  • 00:18:32
    you're chill you're you you're enjoying
  • 00:18:34
    the time with her okay slow most guys
  • 00:18:37
    are thinking about 3 four five steps
  • 00:18:39
    down the road when hopefully they can
  • 00:18:41
    sleep together or hopefully they can get
  • 00:18:43
    the girl aroused enough it's like this
  • 00:18:44
    is super [ __ ] pathetic how men just
  • 00:18:46
    literally put all of their their
  • 00:18:48
    identity and goals in fixation on how
  • 00:18:50
    can we attract the girl this is stupid
  • 00:18:52
    okay the best way to actually get her
  • 00:18:54
    you got to understand this when you have
  • 00:18:57
    sex with a woman it gives her the power
  • 00:19:00
    this is what guys don't understand all
  • 00:19:02
    these guys trying to become high value
  • 00:19:04
    on paper to get more sex the women see
  • 00:19:06
    that what's between their legs has power
  • 00:19:09
    over that man do you understand that if
  • 00:19:11
    that's what you're playing for do you
  • 00:19:12
    understand how weak you've actually
  • 00:19:13
    became getting one thing is your end
  • 00:19:15
    goal and that's it and this is super
  • 00:19:18
    like this is not good so the best way
  • 00:19:20
    how do you signal to hypergamy how do
  • 00:19:21
    you show that you're high like actually
  • 00:19:24
    high value you don't have sex with her
  • 00:19:27
    or you're not even worried about that
  • 00:19:28
    and when you're not worried about that
  • 00:19:30
    and you can be present in the moment and
  • 00:19:31
    just talk she ends up wanting to have
  • 00:19:34
    sex with you she ends up wanting to
  • 00:19:36
    seduce you it's like wow I've actually
  • 00:19:39
    met a guy who isn't trying to do all
  • 00:19:40
    this weird [ __ ] and he's just completely
  • 00:19:42
    confident and uncomfortable just being
  • 00:19:44
    how he is this is what women look for
  • 00:19:47
    this is the greatest signal to hypergamy
  • 00:19:49
    is if you can say no imagine what it
  • 00:19:51
    does if you decline if you say no I
  • 00:19:54
    don't either we're not going to like no
  • 00:19:56
    what what does that do well well now
  • 00:19:58
    you're abundant you look abundant oh he
  • 00:20:00
    must get he must get women throwing
  • 00:20:02
    themselves at him all the time like this
  • 00:20:04
    it also looks super pre-selected in that
  • 00:20:06
    moment okay and you're present in that
  • 00:20:08
    moment you're with her you're not trying
  • 00:20:10
    to go to the ne you don't care about
  • 00:20:11
    going to the next step and also you now
  • 00:20:14
    come from a state of love and
  • 00:20:16
    groundedness like imagine how stoic you
  • 00:20:18
    have to be to actually not just Dive
  • 00:20:20
    Right into your lustful desires imagine
  • 00:20:23
    how grounded you have to be to just
  • 00:20:24
    enjoy the moment and where you're at in
  • 00:20:26
    life so when you wake up to this stuff
  • 00:20:27
    it's it's almost impossible to not to
  • 00:20:29
    like it's it's almost impossible to see
  • 00:20:31
    this video and have it not impact you
  • 00:20:33
    because most guys if you actually look
  • 00:20:34
    at your goals of what you're chasing
  • 00:20:35
    you're probably chasing things that have
  • 00:20:37
    no end point you're probably chasing
  • 00:20:39
    things of goals that the rest of the
  • 00:20:41
    world tells you you should be chasing
  • 00:20:43
    and it's not necessarily true so a state
  • 00:20:46
    of groundedness okay you're also stoic
  • 00:20:48
    you're not needy for sex so when you do
  • 00:20:50
    this look at this now she finally feel
  • 00:20:51
    safe with you now you're not over
  • 00:20:53
    qualifying stop over qualifying stop
  • 00:20:55
    trying to think if you build the
  • 00:20:56
    external which I do recommend but you
  • 00:20:59
    got to do it for you okay when you stop
  • 00:21:03
    focusing so much on building the
  • 00:21:05
    external okay and you find out also how
  • 00:21:07
    to bring yourself internal peace
  • 00:21:09
    internal confidence you're okay with who
  • 00:21:11
    you are and that means you're okay with
  • 00:21:12
    everything you're okay with how your
  • 00:21:14
    voice sounds you're okay with your
  • 00:21:15
    hairline you're okay with who you are
  • 00:21:17
    and you're happy cuz this is the only
  • 00:21:19
    life you have that right there that is
  • 00:21:21
    how like that's what I mean by when
  • 00:21:24
    women say oh he's charismatic oh he's so
  • 00:21:27
    like there's just something different
  • 00:21:29
    about him I I just I I like him that's
  • 00:21:33
    how women fall in love this why I tell
  • 00:21:34
    you women fall in love through words
  • 00:21:36
    women fall in love through personality
  • 00:21:38
    women fall in love through
  • 00:21:40
    expression like this is why like women
  • 00:21:43
    read fantasies and fairy tales and they
  • 00:21:45
    get aroused by those kind of things and
  • 00:21:47
    they're not they don't live in this like
  • 00:21:49
    visual world like you do they're they're
  • 00:21:51
    also up in their head but in a different
  • 00:21:52
    way it's the land of emotion so when you
  • 00:21:56
    can understand how to connect one to one
  • 00:21:58
    the masculine and The Feminine comes
  • 00:22:00
    together and you connect with her that
  • 00:22:02
    is how you get a woman
  • 00:22:04
    attached okay so I understand it's a bit
  • 00:22:07
    of an unconventional video but you guys
  • 00:22:10
    need to hear this hit the like button
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    comment and subscribe and we'll see you
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