LINK between STRENGTH and WEAKNESS - UNDERSTANDING the BALANCE of POWER | Radio #20

00:10:43
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Af_3Y1eMmAk

摘要

TLDRHierdie episode van 'Spice and Nice' bespreek die subjektiewe aard van sterkpunte en swakpunte, waar die sprekers hul eie karaktereienskappe en hoe dit mekaar aanvul, ondersoek. Hulle praat oor hoe die een beter is in sosialisering terwyl die ander gemakliker is met struktuur en take. Hierdie dinamika help hulle in verskillende situasies, soos netwerke en werk. Die belangrikheid van selfbewustheid en aanpassingsvermoëde word beklemtoon, sowel as die potensiaal vir swakpunte om te ontstaan wanneer sterkpunte nie in die regte konteks gebruik word nie. Daar word ook stories gedeel oor hoe hulle in die verlede geveg het om aanpassings in moeilike omstandighede te maak, en hoe hulle hul selfbeeld hersien het.

心得

  • 💪 Sterkpunte is subjektief en situasioneel.
  • 🌀 Swakpunte kan ontstaan uit onvermoë om aan te pas.
  • 🤝 Ken jou eie karaktereienskappe.
  • 🧐 Vasberadenheid kan jou keer in die verkeerde situasies.
  • 🎉 Sosialisering as 'n sterk punt kan lewensgevend wees.
  • 📊 Struktuur bied 'n basis maar kan ook beperkend wees.
  • 💬 Deur mekaar se sterkpunte te aanvul, kan ons verbeter.
  • 🚀 Selfbewustheid lei tot beter interaksies.
  • ✨ Aanpassingsvermoë is kragtig maar moet met omsigtigheid gebruik word.
  • 📅 Moet nie te lank in 'n problematiese situasie bly nie.

时间轴

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    In hierdie episode van 'Spice and Nice', bespreek die twee sprekers die interaksie tussen sterkpunte en swakpunte. Hulle argumenteer dat dit subjektief is, en hoe 'n karaktereienskap onder bepaalde omstandighede 'n voordeel of nadeel kan wees. Hulle illustreer dit deur hul eie persoonlike ervarings en hoe selfbewustheid hulle help om beter saam te werk, soos in 'n netwerkevenement waar die een gesels en die ander die administratiewe take hanteer, gebasseer op hul individuele sterkpunte en voorkeurkeuses.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:43

    Die gesprek beweeg na die erkenning van hoe karaktereienskappe soos aanpassingsvermoë soms as 'n swakheid kan bekend staan. Die sprekers deel stories van hul persoonlike nog professionele lewens, insluitend hoe aanhoudende vasberadenheid in sekere situasies tot frustrasie kan lei. Hulle beklemtoon die belangrikheid van om te weet wanneer om aan te hou of te laat gaan, en hoe dit in hul vorige persoonlike verhoudings ʼn negatiewe impak gehad het. Die episode eindig met n' herinnering dat sterkte ook swakheid kan wees, afhangende van die konteks.

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视频问答

  • Wat is die tema van hierdie episode?

    Die episode fokus op sterkpunte en swakpunte as subjektiewe konsepte.

  • Hoe kan sterkpunte 'n swakpunt word?

    Sterkpunt kan 'n swakpunt word wanneer dit nie in die regte situasie toegepas word nie.

  • Wat is die invloed van selfbewustheid?

    Selfbewustheid help individue om hul eienskappe te verstaan en kompeterend in 'n span te werk.

  • Hoe hanteer die sprekers aanpassingsvermoë?

    Hulle bespreek dat aanpassingsvermoë kan lei tot beide veerkragtigheid en die neiging om maklik op te gee.

  • Wat is die verhouding tussen vasberadenheid en mislukking?

    Vasberadenheid kan soms 'n hindernis wees wanneer dit lei tot oorbly in 'n ongepaste situasie.

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    hi guys episode of spice and nice I am
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    man that's SP and
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    nice strengths and Witnesses are
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    subjective yeah it really depends on the
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    situation and how it can be a strength
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    or it can become a w weakness in a
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    certain situation and then and then
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    maybe after that we can have a bigger
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    conversation once you know what your
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    strengths and weaknesses are or rather
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    what your character traits are you need
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    to find somebody with that complimentary
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    character so like for example maybe if
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    the two of us were to go to a networking
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    session together oh I will do the the
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    talking because that's what my strengths
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    are I just sit behind she will sit
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    behind eat the pickle and I'll pass out
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    the contact she will do some Excel which
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    is what her favorite is some Excel uh
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    with the character uh character trait
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    inside there character yeah so this is
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    what she's good at if let's say like for
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    for example this YouTube
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    channel she has how many consistency so
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    in this case her
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    determination works better for us it
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    helps to pull me along as well so it's
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    really about how it's is about self-
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    awareness and then how we can come
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    together right I I cannot have the the
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    fun like this like she can create fun
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    all the time but this is an issue you
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    know okay this okay this is something
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    that okay you know my husband is a very
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    serious person oh yeah he's just like
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    you he's a prefer he just like me but in
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    the male version yeah he just he prefer
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    the Excel he doesn't do excel he does
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    coding first he prefer structure
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    everything is a step by step the process
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    right and then I'm just all around the
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    place so my my good thing is that
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    wherever I am I can make friends and I
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    can have fun even by myself you have a
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    daughter you understand yeah my God tell
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    me about that you leave her alone with
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    nothing she also can have fun sometime I
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    feel bad by myself like is she Lonely no
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    you know I really ask myself is she
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    lonely she talk to herself she having
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    fun don't disturb her yeah did she
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    really have fun by herself yeah of
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    course so but this is she like to be
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    alone like that or no if she doesn't
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    want to be alone she'll come and find
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    you sometimes she run to me and she just
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    jump on my body and say Mommy I love you
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    so much yeah that's when she needs some
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    content and then when she done just
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    touch touch a she run away again when
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    she's done she's like okay I'm done with
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    you then she go alone herself again and
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    then suddenly she jump to me again so
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    this is this is this is what happens but
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    the thing about it is that sometimes
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    when it comes to
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    how people view me like how my husband
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    view me uh in Chinese we have a we have
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    four letters saying called it means that
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    you are not a serious person you do
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    everything not seriously and to him it
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    is a major minus one because he is a
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    very serious person right now I have two
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    at home tell me about that so sometimes
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    he look at me and and he will be like
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    why are you so like like so all over the
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    place so not serious ious about what
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    you're doing and sometimes it affects
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    how he responds or reacts to me in
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    certain situations okay because he in
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    his mindset I'm already this not serious
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    child that is just bouncing around from
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    place to place so this is when it can
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    become a weakness for there's something
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    else we talk about adaptability right so
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    when something bad happens it's very
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    easy for me to just like okay you know
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    what yeah uh they adapt better yeah like
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    like like what is the point of me being
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    sad about this what is the point of me
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    uh being angry with myself does it
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    achieve anything yeah no it doesn't so
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    what can we do look at what's going on
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    where we can do better and then okay
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    let's just forget it and let's move on
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    if you need to cry cry you need to
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    scream and shout you go to Corner Scream
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    and Shout okay done with it then we move
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    on so that one's adaptability yeah right
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    but in certain areas certain situations
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    it's very easy for me to give up right
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    because sometimes suddenly I'm doing
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    something then suddenly something
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    happens
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    and then I'll be like oh maybe I should
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    change my direction yeah because that's
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    my adaptability talking also yeah so
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    that that's when it becomes a weakness
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    yeah when I should stick to it so I
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    think just now because we say the word
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    weakness it make me also think of like
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    oh I I feel like it's not a weakness
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    where I have the strength so now I think
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    it because I just look at the title
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    again actually we talk about why it fail
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    us because it talk about fail I have my
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    story of why Det amation so what is fair
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    you so I guess particular situation will
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    be last time I used to be uh uh service
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    or is a little bit like a there a little
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    bit of sales component for anybody who
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    has done sales before you know that
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    tenacity is required you need to keep on
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    hounding the clients sometimes because
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    some clients they are just so busy they
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    have no time for you right whatever you
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    are selling them is not as important as
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    their daily business or whatever it is
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    they're doing right y so you have to
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    keep on being persistent and because of
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    this adaptability right I like oh today
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    not then I call tomorrow H you not fa
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    mind forget it you know what I mean so
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    so it has it has yeah it has affected me
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    in that way also it's just like a like a
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    very superficial and uh sometimes last
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    time when I was younger I didn't
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    understand myself as much when I wasn't
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    away I would beat myself up all the time
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    I like why especially because because I
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    grew up in a family uh where my my my
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    mom and my sister are very they Earth
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    signs right so they are very fixed and
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    they're very serious people they're like
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    stepbystep people right and I will ask
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    myself why I cannot stick to the plan
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    yeah why am I so like a child why so
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    childish why I haven't grew up yet I'm
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    an adult now shouldn't I be able to
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    stick to the plan once is the plan I
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    should stick to it why do I keep
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    changing my mind why am I so
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    inconsistent St and this was the
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    narrative that I would beat myself up
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    with because of that adaptability so you
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    see it can be adaptable it can be easy
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    to give up or easily distract okay so
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    that so that is when my strength filled
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    me I feel it filled me but also because
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    I wasn't in the right situation yeah if
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    I am in a space where my strength can be
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    used as a strength then it will become a
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    strength it's just a character train
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    yeah I think my strength is fair me
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    obvious because now I use the word fail
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    is more makes sense than weakness
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    because I don't think it's weakness for
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    me for my from from my last marriage
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    that's is called my fail it's called my
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    character because you stuck with it for
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    too long correct this is an issue with I
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    think almost every Earth sign yeah
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    because it's like it's come from it come
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    to the day that you have to make hope
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    and dream that you can make it work
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    right for you you're just leaving on
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    hopes and dreams yeah because you try
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    everything you could to fix something
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    because you you think that is your job
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    because that's like you know I I always
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    joke that I hate upside I don't want to
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    leave it upside because I'm one of them
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    right and for me up to now I tell you
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    only countless upside can survive with
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    me you know for example one of my team
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    member my my left and my right hand one
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    is earthside I think he's a rare one
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    that survived as the earth side beside
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    me and and so do I in his life I think
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    I'm the only up side he been working so
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    far you because he has learned to be
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    easy going when it is necessary correct
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    so it's very tough when you in the I I
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    call earth side people is like theer
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    Vision it's mean you only see like this
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    that's it life is like this and it like
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    this right and it can be toxic and
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    negative when you married or dat or work
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    or stay with parent or kid or children
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    or even your own self that negativity
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    and toxicity think about it when you
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    walk in the tunel and only oxygen you
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    smell is toxic you suck every day and
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    you get used to it and you think it's
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    normal but actually you die yeah I'm
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    talking I'm talking that's like visual
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    for you to understand I've been there
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    right I mean the toxic Merit and I'm
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    denying it and right now even I'm share
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    about this I don't care people throw
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    Stone on me about bad about my ex or
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    whatever I'm just bring my story to say
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    that I admit that I been married and
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    stay with a wrong
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    person okay not make me better than him
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    or not I'm just saying I'm wrong too
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    right I choose to be with him of course
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    it's my fault too you know I'm not
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    saying like oh it's just only his fault
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    I say it's my fault too because I should
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    let him go long time ago I should don't
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    try to make it work I should don't force
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    myself in that situation I should don't
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    force him in into that situation I
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    should Don't Force us into that
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    situation fix someone I can try to make
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    to be a better person so that is the
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    fail me in my strength so you see in
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    this situation your character tra is not
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    give up yeah right so in this situation
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    her not give up is not working for her
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    correct it's a y right it's bad but
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    of course certain times when it's like
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    business or like certain opportunities
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    then it's wor for you yeah because
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    you're not give up yeah it's the same
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    this is the same issue that I see a lot
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    with my husband when something is
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    very bad he he sticks it out for way far
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    too long too long yeah like sometimes
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    like maybe certain things was happening
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    and then it's been three years and I
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    told him that you need to move on you
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    cannot continue this and then he was
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    like okay I will give you another few
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    months and then another few months
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    passed then a year passed another and
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    then suddenly it's been five years in
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    that same situation and then he was like
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    oh I think I should leave I was like did
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    I not tell you this two years ago and
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    then after he was like I wasted five
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    years of my time I said yeah you change
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    now no more waiting a few months so so
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    it's so it's like that do not give up
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    it's a character trait it's a strength
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    but it's a it's a it's a fail fail yeah
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    it's a f and we will see you guys at the
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    next episode of spy and I am and the spy
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    den bye
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    [Music]
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