How To Approach ANY GIRL in Public And Hold A Conversation!!(INFIELD)
摘要
TLDRIn this video, the presenter teaches men how to confidently approach women in various situations, focusing on overcoming anxiety and maintaining a natural conversation. He breaks down the approach into three phases: introduction (where you make a casual introduction without compliments), conversation (emphasizing listening and engaging meaningfully), and conclusion (asking for a date rather than a number). The key takeaway is to maintain confidence, have standards, and ensure there is mutual interest before moving forward, helping viewers to avoid common pitfalls in dating interactions.
心得
- 👋 Start conversations with a casual introduction.
- 🎧 Listen more than you talk to show confidence.
- 🚫 Avoid starting with compliments to maintain power.
- 📅 Always ask for a date before gathering contact info.
- 💬 Engage in natural conversation without memorizing scripts.
- 🔄 Walk away if she's not showing interest.
- 🔍 Vet her interest during the conversation.
- 📸 Use Instagram as leverage for initial contacts.
- 🏃♂️ Don’t waste time on conversations that lack interest.
- 🔥 Prioritize your time and energies wisely in dating.
时间轴
- 00:00:00 - 00:05:00
Bismar introduces himself to Susie and expresses his desire to teach viewers how to confidently approach women and hold conversations to get their desired outcome, such as getting a date or phone number.
- 00:05:00 - 00:10:00
Bismar converses with a woman about her background in jewelry selling, her reasons for moving to Miami from New York, and her experience in the city. He encourages viewers to engage with women in a genuine way without feeling scripted or anxious.
- 00:10:00 - 00:15:00
Bismar meets another woman named Susie, who is visiting from Utah. They discuss her job at a pharmacy, her travels, and the purpose of her visit to Miami, as well as the normalcy of enjoying time alone while also suggesting they hang out.
- 00:15:00 - 00:21:50
The video moves to Bismar explaining his approach to speaking with women, emphasizing three phases: introduction, conversation, and conclusion. He stresses the importance of confidence, genuine interest, and not being overly eager to get contact information without first establishing a connection.
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视频问答
What are the three phases of approaching women?
The three phases are introduction, conversation, and conclusion.
Should I start a conversation with a compliment?
No, it's better to focus on an interesting observation instead of leading with a compliment.
How can I build confidence when approaching women?
Understand your own value and lead the conversation naturally without memorizing content.
What should I do if the woman doesn't show interest?
If she's not interested, it's fine to walk away from the conversation.
Is it better to ask for a number or a date directly?
Always ask for a date first before accepting contact information.
How important is it to listen during the conversation?
Listening is critical as it shows confidence and interest in the woman.
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- 00:00:00my name is bismar what's your name B my
- 00:00:02name is Susie Susie we should hang out
- 00:00:06yeah okay I'm G get your number this is
- 00:00:08how you approach women in this video I'm
- 00:00:12going to teach you exactly how to
- 00:00:13approach any woman in any situation and
- 00:00:16hold a conversation with her to get the
- 00:00:18outcome that you want whether that be to
- 00:00:20take on a date or to get her number the
- 00:00:22reason I'm making this video is because
- 00:00:24a lot of guys struggle with having the
- 00:00:27confidence to know what to say how to
- 00:00:29lead a conversation
- 00:00:30how to transition how to get the date
- 00:00:33you have a lot of anxiety when you talk
- 00:00:34to women you're unsure about yourself
- 00:00:36and you're trying to follow scripts and
- 00:00:39it makes you look more unconfident and
- 00:00:41more scripted so stay tuned for the
- 00:00:43entire video listen to how I approach
- 00:00:45women and then I'll explain why I
- 00:00:48approach them that way coming up good
- 00:00:51nice to meet you B well you you say
- 00:00:53you're working here right yeah uhuh how
- 00:00:55long you been doing this um I've been
- 00:00:56doing this since August of 2020 okay so
- 00:00:59we what made you get into the jewelry
- 00:01:02selling business so I actually used to
- 00:01:05live in New York and I had a corporate
- 00:01:07job in in Manhattan there's like a lot
- 00:01:09of like upand cominging designers and I
- 00:01:11was always in the fashion industry I
- 00:01:12interned for Versace so I would always
- 00:01:15just be curious and I would be like okay
- 00:01:16how like how are people doing this there
- 00:01:18would be a lot of Street feds in New
- 00:01:19York there's like a lot of them and I
- 00:01:21finally went up to someone and I'm like
- 00:01:22how are you here like what did you do to
- 00:01:24be here and she's like all you have to
- 00:01:26do is get your street vendor license and
- 00:01:28then find vendors and you can res
- 00:01:30and I looked into it and that's how I
- 00:01:31did it what made you move from New York
- 00:01:33to here though the weather I love the
- 00:01:35weather oh okay so how long you been in
- 00:01:37Miami I've been here since 2017 okay and
- 00:01:40you prefer it more than New York I love
- 00:01:42the weather here I love New York when it
- 00:01:43comes to business New York is like
- 00:01:45somewhere where you're going to grow
- 00:01:46faster um but I really just love the
- 00:01:48weather I'm all about the weather and
- 00:01:49like work life balance and I feel like
- 00:01:51Miami can have so much fun so yeah but I
- 00:01:54think eventually I might have to go back
- 00:01:56just because business was faster in New
- 00:01:57York okay so I'm somebody new here um
- 00:02:00I'm just trying to figure out what to do
- 00:02:01for fun like what since you've been here
- 00:02:03so so long what do you usually do for
- 00:02:05fun but what do you like to do for fun
- 00:02:07I'm more of the adventure type right I
- 00:02:09like to do um just fun activities stuff
- 00:02:12like stuff that involves me being
- 00:02:14physical right yeah I mean I don't know
- 00:02:17I'm so boring like I like to go to the
- 00:02:19beach um I would say I don't even know I
- 00:02:23you know when I first moved here I
- 00:02:24joined like the app like I went on
- 00:02:26Bumble for like Bumble BFF and I met a
- 00:02:27whole bunch of people there and then we
- 00:02:29just like different things um but I mean
- 00:02:33I feel like Miami you can be like all
- 00:02:34kinds of like active I'm just really
- 00:02:37boring I literally just like going to my
- 00:02:38pool I have my pool in my building but I
- 00:02:40go to the beach a lot okay I used to
- 00:02:41bike ride but then I realized Brickle is
- 00:02:44not like safe to bike ride because I was
- 00:02:45runan over by a car once oh wow and I
- 00:02:48was like okay it's not like the same you
- 00:02:49know it's not safe but um downtown has
- 00:02:52like
- 00:02:54the what is it like the Bayside Park and
- 00:02:57stuff go to like the Muscle Beach and
- 00:02:59South Beach yeah I've been there yeah
- 00:03:01I've been but I don't want to just do
- 00:03:02that obviously yeah I mean if you want
- 00:03:04to go out at night like what do you you
- 00:03:06want to do things during the day or at
- 00:03:07night more during the day I'm not a club
- 00:03:09person yeah there used to be like the
- 00:03:11warf but the warf is not around anymore
- 00:03:13I would say like Windwood maybe what
- 00:03:15clubs do you go to like have you been to
- 00:03:17any clubs here that you could recommend
- 00:03:18yeah I mean um I like 11 obviously I
- 00:03:22like space okay uh what else there's
- 00:03:25Maran have you been to Maran Mar it's
- 00:03:27like a dinner SL um
- 00:03:30like Club so it's nice to go for dinner
- 00:03:32CU it's like a like an event that they
- 00:03:34do okay there's barro in South Beach
- 00:03:37that I really like my favorite ones um I
- 00:03:40really like Miami in the summer more
- 00:03:42than in the winter and the summer I mean
- 00:03:44still hot though I know but you can have
- 00:03:46so much more fun in the in the summer
- 00:03:47because you'll see like a lot of people
- 00:03:49will invite you to their Yachts just
- 00:03:50like guys and girls so guys and girls
- 00:03:52get invited on Yachts I don't know about
- 00:03:54that opportunity in Miami I don't know
- 00:03:55about that my brother was here cuz I
- 00:03:57fractured my my ankle once so my brother
- 00:03:59had to like like work my business and um
- 00:04:02it was just so nice because he's from
- 00:04:04New York and Pennsylvania and girls and
- 00:04:06just people are just not as friendly
- 00:04:07they're just like a little bit more cold
- 00:04:08so when he was here he grew so much
- 00:04:11personally and stuff so it was cool
- 00:04:12because there's e CL like in the summer
- 00:04:14it's just everyone's going out
- 00:04:15everyone's inviting you everyone you'll
- 00:04:16meet so many people with Vats people
- 00:04:18that just want to like just have a boat
- 00:04:20party no one's really doing that during
- 00:04:21this time so I got you so that's fun
- 00:04:23there's High Beach which is a pool party
- 00:04:25party and there's Strawberry Moon which
- 00:04:28are pool parties those are a lot of fine
- 00:04:30okay what was your name again Kesley
- 00:04:32Kesley yeah I'm bismar nice to meet you
- 00:04:34nice to meet you well I got to get going
- 00:04:35thank you my name is bismar what's your
- 00:04:37name my name is Susie
- 00:04:39Susie where you from nice to meet you
- 00:04:42well I'm from Utah I'm just visiting
- 00:04:44Utah we're watching in Miami just
- 00:04:46visiting I have some time off you know
- 00:04:49my head lots of stress so lot of stress
- 00:04:52so Miami is a place of distress oh yeah
- 00:04:56100% how long are you here for about 4
- 00:04:59days more ah you came by yourself yes to
- 00:05:03Miami that's crazy did oh wow I
- 00:05:07sometime okay so what do you do for like
- 00:05:10a living yeah I work at a pharmacy right
- 00:05:13now okay a pharmacy tech so yeah I
- 00:05:17that's not where I want to stay but I
- 00:05:19don't know what I want to do so been
- 00:05:21thinking about that a lot
- 00:05:23recently where else have you been inide
- 00:05:25of
- 00:05:26Miami uh let's see call Colorado Las
- 00:05:30Vegas Vermont but I think that's about
- 00:05:33it you're a travel girl takes a lot of
- 00:05:36confidence to go to a new city yeah I in
- 00:05:39Miami ah you've been here with friends
- 00:05:41before or by yourself with friends okay
- 00:05:44usually this is my first time goinging
- 00:05:45out by myself actually okay so what have
- 00:05:48you done that was exciting this
- 00:05:50time well like I said I don't really
- 00:05:53have any crazy plans we're just trying
- 00:05:55to relax and think so ah you relax and
- 00:05:58think from Utah that's
- 00:06:00crazy just life I guess right you have
- 00:06:03to get away from where you usually are
- 00:06:04change your season is the ice cream good
- 00:06:07it's that's helping you
- 00:06:09relax yes it is actually that's dope
- 00:06:12okay so what are you doing later today
- 00:06:15uh nothing just probably going to go and
- 00:06:17eat somewhere by yourself that's a
- 00:06:20pretty boring life supposed to do
- 00:06:22because I'm by myself I'm not supposed
- 00:06:24to do anything no I'm I think you can
- 00:06:25have a good time it's just it's kind of
- 00:06:27lonely don't you think B can get yeah
- 00:06:29yeah uh I'm I don't know I have a good
- 00:06:31time with myself I guess I make myself
- 00:06:33off it's a little crazy but I think I'm
- 00:06:35funny you okay so okay I won't keep it
- 00:06:38too long I got to get going but um Susie
- 00:06:42right okay we should hang out I'm done
- 00:06:45yeah I'm in town four more days don't
- 00:06:48got a lot going on so okay I'm going get
- 00:06:51your number okay cool yes you're going
- 00:06:54to have a typ CU
- 00:06:56cover 385 I'm I'm going to shoot your
- 00:06:59text all right well nice meeting all
- 00:07:02right by ladies how you guys doing today
- 00:07:05good how are you how are you I'm great
- 00:07:06what's your name Steph and Rano okay
- 00:07:09where you guys from London London yeah
- 00:07:12we brought you in Miami holiday holiday
- 00:07:14yeah holiday free holiday to the holiday
- 00:07:16yeah ah how you guys liking it it's good
- 00:07:19it's fun yeah it it's really fun what
- 00:07:21have you dancing for nothing nothing
- 00:07:23yall at the beach now it's beautiful no
- 00:07:25we've been at the beach we've been
- 00:07:26eating all the food I went jet skiing we
- 00:07:29went
- 00:07:29skin like that how long you guys here
- 00:07:32for till tomorrow yeah only 3 days what
- 00:07:35it's a pre holiday yeah we're going to
- 00:07:37so y'all flew like 8 hours away to spend
- 00:07:39we going Miami I
- 00:07:42mean Jamaica Jamaica ah so how long yall
- 00:07:46on vacation for 10 days 10 days okay
- 00:07:49where else yall going aside from Jamaica
- 00:07:52say that you know annual leave is only a
- 00:07:54time out you only got so many days off
- 00:07:58okay we got to go back to F so I don't
- 00:08:00know much about London girls like what
- 00:08:01fill me in what what do what what don't
- 00:08:03I know what do you want to know tell me
- 00:08:05the best the best what what about London
- 00:08:07girls is different I'm glad there's not
- 00:08:10that much there's not much have you guys
- 00:08:12experienced American guys you American
- 00:08:14guys are l so sorry from what we've
- 00:08:16experienced here I like the way that
- 00:08:18American guys are more
- 00:08:20forward American guys are like they're
- 00:08:23down to be obsessed with their babes
- 00:08:25London guys are always like oh that's b
- 00:08:27g bro that's n like going to do
- 00:08:31that yeah they'll be like I love that
- 00:08:34girl I'm here how y experienc that that
- 00:08:37quickly they y be no but they just like
- 00:08:39they'll come up to you and be like oh my
- 00:08:40God you're so beautiful you would never
- 00:08:42hear that in London like they'll just be
- 00:08:43like oh like can I shout to you
- 00:08:46like they would never be like they never
- 00:08:49approach you properly gotcha okay what
- 00:08:52do you guys what are you doing may today
- 00:08:53you're going out uh I think so yeah yeah
- 00:08:56where you going exchange exchange change
- 00:08:59you got I'm guessing you guys got
- 00:09:00invited there
- 00:09:03yeah no that's that's what they normally
- 00:09:05do out here where's the place to be I
- 00:09:08not really a club guy as you can see I'm
- 00:09:10like into fitness so I don't really go
- 00:09:11out anyway I got to get going it was
- 00:09:14nice talking to Y nice talking to what
- 00:09:15is y'
- 00:09:18Instagrams
- 00:09:20okay it was nice talking to you same to
- 00:09:22you your name is what NAA okay where you
- 00:09:26from from Miami really how long you wait
- 00:09:30most people are not from here from here
- 00:09:33you grew up in Miami yeah okay I just
- 00:09:35moved out here like two months ago uh
- 00:09:39Louisiana so what do you do I'm a LIF
- 00:09:42guard you a lifu guard that's
- 00:09:44interesting where do you do life God at
- 00:09:47uh the hotel is right there cinam so you
- 00:09:50like in school what yeah going to going
- 00:09:53to college you're in college right now
- 00:09:55I'm going to college okay where you
- 00:09:57going to study biology biology what made
- 00:10:00you pick that because only be plastic
- 00:10:02surgeon so plastic surgeon yeah that
- 00:10:06sounds kind of
- 00:10:07complicated it is what made you pick
- 00:10:10that I like making people feel beautiful
- 00:10:14okay that plastic surgery I want to do I
- 00:10:16want to do reconstructive plastic
- 00:10:18surgery okay so like Sting into a car
- 00:10:20accident and they go to the hospital and
- 00:10:22they get surgery there like I would fix
- 00:10:25whatever they did St plastic surgery m
- 00:10:29helping them stay alive
- 00:10:31but helping them stay alive yeah okay Oh
- 00:10:35you mean like people who go through like
- 00:10:36adverse situations oh okay that's
- 00:10:39interesting so what do you do for
- 00:10:42fun eat sleep explore eat sleep that's
- 00:10:47what you're doing in the mall today
- 00:10:48you're just walking around I'm on my
- 00:10:50break right now so so what would you
- 00:10:52recommend for somebody who's new here or
- 00:10:53just wants to do something fun
- 00:10:57um I don't know M me isn't that fun what
- 00:11:01yes it is it's not it depends on what
- 00:11:04you what you consider fun
- 00:11:06though I feel like everything is the
- 00:11:09same it's different versions of the same
- 00:11:11thing really
- 00:11:13so I like to like explore new things
- 00:11:17restaurants and stuff like that I think
- 00:11:18Miami has a lot of that and you don't
- 00:11:19think so the restaurants are overrated
- 00:11:21and expensive really well it's probably
- 00:11:24because you're a little you on the
- 00:11:25younger side so
- 00:11:27it so what do you do for
- 00:11:31fun outside from
- 00:11:34lifeguard I just hang out with you hang
- 00:11:37out with what hang out with my twin okay
- 00:11:40that's what's up go out yesterday we
- 00:11:43were in today before we were in Midtown
- 00:11:48okay okay well that makes a lot of sense
- 00:11:52it was nice getting to know you um maybe
- 00:11:54we should hang out sometime another day
- 00:11:57uh do you have like I'm I'm going to
- 00:11:59give you what's your number I'm going to
- 00:12:01get your number cool yeah nice to meet
- 00:12:04nice to meet you all right I'm going let
- 00:12:05you keep going have a good day you too
- 00:12:07all right bye okay so you've seen the
- 00:12:09approaches now I'm going to explain to
- 00:12:11you exactly how you should approach
- 00:12:13women and the best framework in
- 00:12:16approaching women so I look at
- 00:12:17approaching women in three specific
- 00:12:19stages the introduction phase the
- 00:12:21conversation phase and the conclusion
- 00:12:24phase so what is the introduction phase
- 00:12:26when you're going up to a girl the only
- 00:12:29thing that you should be saying is
- 00:12:31excuse me hey my name is so and so or
- 00:12:35even better you go and you say Hey you
- 00:12:38seem interesting I noticed you so I came
- 00:12:41up and introduced myself hey Samantha
- 00:12:44you seem interesting I came up and
- 00:12:46introduced myself my name is so and so
- 00:12:48look at the verbiage here interesting
- 00:12:51not that I'm interested we ain't [ __ ]
- 00:12:54leading with validation you should never
- 00:12:56go up to a girl and the first thing you
- 00:12:57say is I think think you're hot I came
- 00:13:00up to you cuz I think you're beautiful
- 00:13:02you put yourself in a weaker position
- 00:13:05the woman already know you're interested
- 00:13:08that's why I say you seem interesting
- 00:13:12the conversation is going to let me know
- 00:13:14if I am interested in you this intro is
- 00:13:18going to make or break how the
- 00:13:21interaction goes gar [ __ ] T you you
- 00:13:23go up to these [ __ ] girls you listen
- 00:13:25to these [ __ ] gurus on the internet
- 00:13:27telling you go leave with a compliment
- 00:13:29get the [ __ ] out of here the girl
- 00:13:31already knows that you're attracted to
- 00:13:32her when you go up to her you don't have
- 00:13:33to you don't have to lead with that
- 00:13:35because now she knows that she has the
- 00:13:38upper hand I don't know if I want to
- 00:13:40take you out I have to see if this
- 00:13:43conversation goes the way I want before
- 00:13:45I can invite you to be a part of my life
- 00:13:47I know what the [ __ ] I bring to the
- 00:13:48table look at me young handsome
- 00:13:51successful I know what the [ __ ] I bring
- 00:13:52to the table even if you don't have
- 00:13:54those kind of accolades have some
- 00:13:55[ __ ] self-belief I ain't juggling
- 00:13:58balls in front of your damn face to get
- 00:14:00you on a [ __ ] date if I don't like
- 00:14:02you in this conversation we don't got
- 00:14:03nothing to talk about so I need you guys
- 00:14:06to have outcome Independence at any
- 00:14:09moment you have the free will to walk
- 00:14:11away and say this is not the girl I want
- 00:14:12to go out with you should not already be
- 00:14:14sold on who she is just because she got
- 00:14:16a fat ass in the pretty face have more
- 00:14:19[ __ ] standards man that's why I don't
- 00:14:21want you to leave with compliments I
- 00:14:23don't know if I like you sure you look
- 00:14:25good what else I look good too I know
- 00:14:28your life is going to get better by
- 00:14:29[ __ ] with me I'm trying to see how my
- 00:14:31life is going to improve by [ __ ] with
- 00:14:32you I know I'm the man I know I got to
- 00:14:34come up here and make the approach I
- 00:14:35know it's my job but you got to show me
- 00:14:38why I got to take you out why I should
- 00:14:40take you out if you don't have that
- 00:14:42mindset you're going to get crushed bro
- 00:14:43you're going to always have anxiety
- 00:14:45you're going to always feel unsure about
- 00:14:47yourself I ain't no [ __ ] way I'm
- 00:14:48unsure about myself talking to no damn
- 00:14:50girl I have approached hundreds of girls
- 00:14:52even when I was just starting out she's
- 00:14:54just a woman humanize her she's not some
- 00:14:56perfect [ __ ] being she's not a
- 00:14:58unicorn
- 00:14:59she shits and pools just like you and if
- 00:15:01you a man you a leader you're a provider
- 00:15:03this chick is she be she'll be proven to
- 00:15:05you why she you should provide for her I
- 00:15:08ain't letting you be a part of my I
- 00:15:09ain't begging you to be a part of my
- 00:15:10life so I can [ __ ] provide it's
- 00:15:12insane guys so that's the introduction
- 00:15:15hey I noticed you you seem interesting
- 00:15:17so I came up to introduce myself my name
- 00:15:19is FedEx phis now the conversation phase
- 00:15:21of this is you're simply going to ask
- 00:15:24her questions about who she is you can
- 00:15:27pick the environment what she's doing
- 00:15:29like whatever it is something simple I
- 00:15:31don't want you to memorize anything and
- 00:15:33then you just ask her followup questions
- 00:15:35from her responses you should be doing
- 00:15:37more listening than talking when you're
- 00:15:39approaching girls that makes you sound
- 00:15:42confident when
- 00:15:45you when you're talking so much you seem
- 00:15:48like you're anxious it seems scripted
- 00:15:51when you're trying to say the right
- 00:15:53things it seems
- 00:15:55scripted scripted looks unconfident cuz
- 00:15:58you can't can't just go up to her and be
- 00:15:59a normal human being women would rather
- 00:16:01you not memorize anything just speak to
- 00:16:04her like she's a normal person she would
- 00:16:05be more attracted to you that way then
- 00:16:07you having a [ __ ] script in your head
- 00:16:09so you should be doing more listening
- 00:16:11than you are talking does she live in
- 00:16:13this city access she's from around here
- 00:16:15ask her what she does when the an she
- 00:16:18gives you you follow up on those things
- 00:16:20that makes you seem more in the moment
- 00:16:22that makes you seem like a great
- 00:16:23listener that makes you seem like a
- 00:16:25confident man now I want to see if she's
- 00:16:28asking me questions about myself is she
- 00:16:30interested in me cuz it ain't it ain't
- 00:16:32enough for me just to be interested in
- 00:16:33her does she ask me any questions back
- 00:16:36does she ask me what I do what's the
- 00:16:38point of me going out with a girl that
- 00:16:39doesn't ask me anything about me you
- 00:16:42talking to these girls they giving you
- 00:16:43onew answers they closed body language
- 00:16:46they're not interested they're giving
- 00:16:47you clear signs of disinterest I walk
- 00:16:49away at any moment you feel like the
- 00:16:51girl is not interested in you like
- 00:16:53you're forcing the conversation like you
- 00:16:55having a [ __ ] Soliloquy like you're
- 00:16:57talking to your damn self have a nice
- 00:17:00day this is how you [ __ ] approach
- 00:17:02women [ __ ] all this [ __ ] you heard
- 00:17:04on the [ __ ] internet anything else
- 00:17:05you're doing that is that isn't this
- 00:17:07you're setting yourself up to when you
- 00:17:09get this girl's number when you stay in
- 00:17:11the [ __ ] set when you just go
- 00:17:13approach you you're practicing bad
- 00:17:16habits you're practicing taking a weaker
- 00:17:19position and I don't want you to do that
- 00:17:21I want you to practice taking having
- 00:17:22leverage I want you to practice inviting
- 00:17:24women that you actually want to see
- 00:17:26again on a date I'm perfectly fine with
- 00:17:29you walking away from a conversation
- 00:17:31because the girl is showing signs of not
- 00:17:33being interested and you saving your
- 00:17:34time then for you to be getting a girl's
- 00:17:37number who's going to flake on you
- 00:17:38regardless who's going to give you one
- 00:17:40word answers who's going to not show up
- 00:17:42on a date I don't want my guys to get
- 00:17:44their time wased this is the [ __ ]
- 00:17:45best way to approach women if she's
- 00:17:47interested in you if she's asking you
- 00:17:49questions back perfect now I'm going to
- 00:17:51invite you to do something a part of my
- 00:17:53life so the end part of this the
- 00:17:55conclusion part of this we should hang
- 00:17:56out we should do this not what's your
- 00:17:59number first you never accept the number
- 00:18:02without a date you never take her
- 00:18:05Snapchat her Instagram her social media
- 00:18:08without her agreeing to a date I'm
- 00:18:10asking for social media cuz my Instagram
- 00:18:12gives me leverage that's an interest
- 00:18:13amplifier right when girls see my
- 00:18:15Instagram they are more intrigued if you
- 00:18:17don't have a good Instagram you take the
- 00:18:18number you're still working on that but
- 00:18:20you don't get the contact information
- 00:18:22whatsoever unless she's agreed to hang
- 00:18:24out with you this saves you so much
- 00:18:27[ __ ] okay tell you all the [ __ ]
- 00:18:29I see on the internet telling girl guys
- 00:18:31to go yeah just get the number like
- 00:18:33numbers in the [ __ ] accomplishment
- 00:18:35these girls get their number to
- 00:18:36everybody they don't give a [ __ ] you
- 00:18:37message her she ain't going to respond
- 00:18:39what the [ __ ] is a number numbers don't
- 00:18:40mean [ __ ] getting her Instagram doesn't
- 00:18:42mean [ __ ] unless that's what you want
- 00:18:45because it makes you look better but if
- 00:18:47she's if you ask her for her number and
- 00:18:49she gives you her Instagram you tell her
- 00:18:50have a nice day she's not interested she
- 00:18:53wants you to be one of her followers if
- 00:18:55you got a fire Instagram and you you
- 00:18:57know that your Instagram
- 00:18:58is how you communicate with women cuz I
- 00:19:00don't even I barely give girls my
- 00:19:01numbers because my Instagram is so fire
- 00:19:04that I mean that's how that's how I talk
- 00:19:06to the majority of girls I talk to 99%
- 00:19:09of girls don't even get my number only
- 00:19:11girls that have my number are girls I'm
- 00:19:12seeing for a while because I have the
- 00:19:15upper hand I'm the one with leverage
- 00:19:16here all right if you don't have that
- 00:19:18kind of Instagram no problem you get the
- 00:19:20number but you don't accept the number
- 00:19:22without a date you know why that's that
- 00:19:24makes your life easy so when you reach
- 00:19:26out to her guess what y'all talking
- 00:19:27about
- 00:19:29the date that y'all agreed to in person
- 00:19:31not chitchatting about [ __ ] nothing
- 00:19:33not you playing the long game trying to
- 00:19:36eventually get on the date and she's
- 00:19:37wasting your [ __ ] time that's what
- 00:19:39happens 99% of the time you accept the
- 00:19:42number you accept the Instagram and then
- 00:19:44now you got to beg her you got to damn
- 00:19:45near beg the girl to go on a date you
- 00:19:47like bro you gave me your contact
- 00:19:49information she don't give a [ __ ] women
- 00:19:51to give you their contact information
- 00:19:52and don't give a [ __ ] contact
- 00:19:54information doesn't mean [ __ ] if she
- 00:19:55doesn't agree to a date I've had girls
- 00:19:57where I have a good conversation with
- 00:19:59then I go to ask them out guys and they
- 00:20:00be like oh well I have a boyfriend I'm
- 00:20:03like [ __ ] the beta bitching me wants to
- 00:20:06still accept her number the better
- 00:20:08bitching me still wants to get her
- 00:20:10Instagram because I had a good
- 00:20:11conversation conversation don't mean
- 00:20:13[ __ ] something call fallacy states that
- 00:20:15people tend to not let go of an
- 00:20:17investment because they've invested so
- 00:20:19you've invested in the interaction you
- 00:20:21want to leave with something don't have
- 00:20:23that mindset it'll it it'll lead you to
- 00:20:25more frustration with women it'll lead
- 00:20:27you to more heart break women cuz you be
- 00:20:29getting these girls numbers that you
- 00:20:30might have a good conversation with and
- 00:20:32they'll waste your [ __ ] time if she
- 00:20:34doesn't agree to a date I don't get her
- 00:20:35contact information if I invite her to
- 00:20:38come be a part of my life and she says
- 00:20:39anything but yes have a nice day this is
- 00:20:43how you approach women ain't no
- 00:20:45[ __ ] way you can convince me
- 00:20:47that there's a better framework out
- 00:20:49there on how to approach them to where
- 00:20:51you're not looking weak you're vetting
- 00:20:53the girl in the process you you coming
- 00:20:55across as confident and not scripted
- 00:20:58and you're not leaving the [ __ ]
- 00:21:00interaction with just the [ __ ] the
- 00:21:04digits that don't mean [ __ ] and you're
- 00:21:06not spending a long a long time doing
- 00:21:07you're not spending 5 minutes talking to
- 00:21:09the girl 30 minutes talking to the girl
- 00:21:10I want to approaching to be a part of
- 00:21:12your life not some [ __ ] big ass event
- 00:21:14that you got to go take out time and go
- 00:21:16run through the mall and go waste the
- 00:21:18[ __ ] time I want my guys to have [ __ ]
- 00:21:20going on the majority of my guys I know
- 00:21:21you guys are hardworking you're working
- 00:21:23on your business you got [ __ ] to do you
- 00:21:24don't got [ __ ] time to be running
- 00:21:26across town trying to approach chicks
- 00:21:28you got [ __ ] to do so this is how you
- 00:21:30approach women if you're a busy man that
- 00:21:32got other things going on in your life
- 00:21:34that don't have time to be wasting
- 00:21:35running run running across town trying
- 00:21:37to chase girls you make approaching a
- 00:21:39part of your life and this is how you
- 00:21:41approach women guys if you guys enjoyed
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