How To Approach ANY GIRL in Public And Hold A Conversation!!(INFIELD)

00:21:50
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEdK20WIHw8

摘要

TLDRIn this video, the presenter teaches men how to confidently approach women in various situations, focusing on overcoming anxiety and maintaining a natural conversation. He breaks down the approach into three phases: introduction (where you make a casual introduction without compliments), conversation (emphasizing listening and engaging meaningfully), and conclusion (asking for a date rather than a number). The key takeaway is to maintain confidence, have standards, and ensure there is mutual interest before moving forward, helping viewers to avoid common pitfalls in dating interactions.

心得

  • 👋 Start conversations with a casual introduction.
  • 🎧 Listen more than you talk to show confidence.
  • 🚫 Avoid starting with compliments to maintain power.
  • 📅 Always ask for a date before gathering contact info.
  • 💬 Engage in natural conversation without memorizing scripts.
  • 🔄 Walk away if she's not showing interest.
  • 🔍 Vet her interest during the conversation.
  • 📸 Use Instagram as leverage for initial contacts.
  • 🏃‍♂️ Don’t waste time on conversations that lack interest.
  • 🔥 Prioritize your time and energies wisely in dating.

时间轴

  • 00:00:00 - 00:05:00

    Bismar introduces himself to Susie and expresses his desire to teach viewers how to confidently approach women and hold conversations to get their desired outcome, such as getting a date or phone number.

  • 00:05:00 - 00:10:00

    Bismar converses with a woman about her background in jewelry selling, her reasons for moving to Miami from New York, and her experience in the city. He encourages viewers to engage with women in a genuine way without feeling scripted or anxious.

  • 00:10:00 - 00:15:00

    Bismar meets another woman named Susie, who is visiting from Utah. They discuss her job at a pharmacy, her travels, and the purpose of her visit to Miami, as well as the normalcy of enjoying time alone while also suggesting they hang out.

  • 00:15:00 - 00:21:50

    The video moves to Bismar explaining his approach to speaking with women, emphasizing three phases: introduction, conversation, and conclusion. He stresses the importance of confidence, genuine interest, and not being overly eager to get contact information without first establishing a connection.

显示更多

思维导图

视频问答

  • What are the three phases of approaching women?

    The three phases are introduction, conversation, and conclusion.

  • Should I start a conversation with a compliment?

    No, it's better to focus on an interesting observation instead of leading with a compliment.

  • How can I build confidence when approaching women?

    Understand your own value and lead the conversation naturally without memorizing content.

  • What should I do if the woman doesn't show interest?

    If she's not interested, it's fine to walk away from the conversation.

  • Is it better to ask for a number or a date directly?

    Always ask for a date first before accepting contact information.

  • How important is it to listen during the conversation?

    Listening is critical as it shows confidence and interest in the woman.

查看更多视频摘要

即时访问由人工智能支持的免费 YouTube 视频摘要!
字幕
en
自动滚动:
  • 00:00:00
    my name is bismar what's your name B my
  • 00:00:02
    name is Susie Susie we should hang out
  • 00:00:06
    yeah okay I'm G get your number this is
  • 00:00:08
    how you approach women in this video I'm
  • 00:00:12
    going to teach you exactly how to
  • 00:00:13
    approach any woman in any situation and
  • 00:00:16
    hold a conversation with her to get the
  • 00:00:18
    outcome that you want whether that be to
  • 00:00:20
    take on a date or to get her number the
  • 00:00:22
    reason I'm making this video is because
  • 00:00:24
    a lot of guys struggle with having the
  • 00:00:27
    confidence to know what to say how to
  • 00:00:29
    lead a conversation
  • 00:00:30
    how to transition how to get the date
  • 00:00:33
    you have a lot of anxiety when you talk
  • 00:00:34
    to women you're unsure about yourself
  • 00:00:36
    and you're trying to follow scripts and
  • 00:00:39
    it makes you look more unconfident and
  • 00:00:41
    more scripted so stay tuned for the
  • 00:00:43
    entire video listen to how I approach
  • 00:00:45
    women and then I'll explain why I
  • 00:00:48
    approach them that way coming up good
  • 00:00:51
    nice to meet you B well you you say
  • 00:00:53
    you're working here right yeah uhuh how
  • 00:00:55
    long you been doing this um I've been
  • 00:00:56
    doing this since August of 2020 okay so
  • 00:00:59
    we what made you get into the jewelry
  • 00:01:02
    selling business so I actually used to
  • 00:01:05
    live in New York and I had a corporate
  • 00:01:07
    job in in Manhattan there's like a lot
  • 00:01:09
    of like upand cominging designers and I
  • 00:01:11
    was always in the fashion industry I
  • 00:01:12
    interned for Versace so I would always
  • 00:01:15
    just be curious and I would be like okay
  • 00:01:16
    how like how are people doing this there
  • 00:01:18
    would be a lot of Street feds in New
  • 00:01:19
    York there's like a lot of them and I
  • 00:01:21
    finally went up to someone and I'm like
  • 00:01:22
    how are you here like what did you do to
  • 00:01:24
    be here and she's like all you have to
  • 00:01:26
    do is get your street vendor license and
  • 00:01:28
    then find vendors and you can res
  • 00:01:30
    and I looked into it and that's how I
  • 00:01:31
    did it what made you move from New York
  • 00:01:33
    to here though the weather I love the
  • 00:01:35
    weather oh okay so how long you been in
  • 00:01:37
    Miami I've been here since 2017 okay and
  • 00:01:40
    you prefer it more than New York I love
  • 00:01:42
    the weather here I love New York when it
  • 00:01:43
    comes to business New York is like
  • 00:01:45
    somewhere where you're going to grow
  • 00:01:46
    faster um but I really just love the
  • 00:01:48
    weather I'm all about the weather and
  • 00:01:49
    like work life balance and I feel like
  • 00:01:51
    Miami can have so much fun so yeah but I
  • 00:01:54
    think eventually I might have to go back
  • 00:01:56
    just because business was faster in New
  • 00:01:57
    York okay so I'm somebody new here um
  • 00:02:00
    I'm just trying to figure out what to do
  • 00:02:01
    for fun like what since you've been here
  • 00:02:03
    so so long what do you usually do for
  • 00:02:05
    fun but what do you like to do for fun
  • 00:02:07
    I'm more of the adventure type right I
  • 00:02:09
    like to do um just fun activities stuff
  • 00:02:12
    like stuff that involves me being
  • 00:02:14
    physical right yeah I mean I don't know
  • 00:02:17
    I'm so boring like I like to go to the
  • 00:02:19
    beach um I would say I don't even know I
  • 00:02:23
    you know when I first moved here I
  • 00:02:24
    joined like the app like I went on
  • 00:02:26
    Bumble for like Bumble BFF and I met a
  • 00:02:27
    whole bunch of people there and then we
  • 00:02:29
    just like different things um but I mean
  • 00:02:33
    I feel like Miami you can be like all
  • 00:02:34
    kinds of like active I'm just really
  • 00:02:37
    boring I literally just like going to my
  • 00:02:38
    pool I have my pool in my building but I
  • 00:02:40
    go to the beach a lot okay I used to
  • 00:02:41
    bike ride but then I realized Brickle is
  • 00:02:44
    not like safe to bike ride because I was
  • 00:02:45
    runan over by a car once oh wow and I
  • 00:02:48
    was like okay it's not like the same you
  • 00:02:49
    know it's not safe but um downtown has
  • 00:02:52
    like
  • 00:02:54
    the what is it like the Bayside Park and
  • 00:02:57
    stuff go to like the Muscle Beach and
  • 00:02:59
    South Beach yeah I've been there yeah
  • 00:03:01
    I've been but I don't want to just do
  • 00:03:02
    that obviously yeah I mean if you want
  • 00:03:04
    to go out at night like what do you you
  • 00:03:06
    want to do things during the day or at
  • 00:03:07
    night more during the day I'm not a club
  • 00:03:09
    person yeah there used to be like the
  • 00:03:11
    warf but the warf is not around anymore
  • 00:03:13
    I would say like Windwood maybe what
  • 00:03:15
    clubs do you go to like have you been to
  • 00:03:17
    any clubs here that you could recommend
  • 00:03:18
    yeah I mean um I like 11 obviously I
  • 00:03:22
    like space okay uh what else there's
  • 00:03:25
    Maran have you been to Maran Mar it's
  • 00:03:27
    like a dinner SL um
  • 00:03:30
    like Club so it's nice to go for dinner
  • 00:03:32
    CU it's like a like an event that they
  • 00:03:34
    do okay there's barro in South Beach
  • 00:03:37
    that I really like my favorite ones um I
  • 00:03:40
    really like Miami in the summer more
  • 00:03:42
    than in the winter and the summer I mean
  • 00:03:44
    still hot though I know but you can have
  • 00:03:46
    so much more fun in the in the summer
  • 00:03:47
    because you'll see like a lot of people
  • 00:03:49
    will invite you to their Yachts just
  • 00:03:50
    like guys and girls so guys and girls
  • 00:03:52
    get invited on Yachts I don't know about
  • 00:03:54
    that opportunity in Miami I don't know
  • 00:03:55
    about that my brother was here cuz I
  • 00:03:57
    fractured my my ankle once so my brother
  • 00:03:59
    had to like like work my business and um
  • 00:04:02
    it was just so nice because he's from
  • 00:04:04
    New York and Pennsylvania and girls and
  • 00:04:06
    just people are just not as friendly
  • 00:04:07
    they're just like a little bit more cold
  • 00:04:08
    so when he was here he grew so much
  • 00:04:11
    personally and stuff so it was cool
  • 00:04:12
    because there's e CL like in the summer
  • 00:04:14
    it's just everyone's going out
  • 00:04:15
    everyone's inviting you everyone you'll
  • 00:04:16
    meet so many people with Vats people
  • 00:04:18
    that just want to like just have a boat
  • 00:04:20
    party no one's really doing that during
  • 00:04:21
    this time so I got you so that's fun
  • 00:04:23
    there's High Beach which is a pool party
  • 00:04:25
    party and there's Strawberry Moon which
  • 00:04:28
    are pool parties those are a lot of fine
  • 00:04:30
    okay what was your name again Kesley
  • 00:04:32
    Kesley yeah I'm bismar nice to meet you
  • 00:04:34
    nice to meet you well I got to get going
  • 00:04:35
    thank you my name is bismar what's your
  • 00:04:37
    name my name is Susie
  • 00:04:39
    Susie where you from nice to meet you
  • 00:04:42
    well I'm from Utah I'm just visiting
  • 00:04:44
    Utah we're watching in Miami just
  • 00:04:46
    visiting I have some time off you know
  • 00:04:49
    my head lots of stress so lot of stress
  • 00:04:52
    so Miami is a place of distress oh yeah
  • 00:04:56
    100% how long are you here for about 4
  • 00:04:59
    days more ah you came by yourself yes to
  • 00:05:03
    Miami that's crazy did oh wow I
  • 00:05:07
    sometime okay so what do you do for like
  • 00:05:10
    a living yeah I work at a pharmacy right
  • 00:05:13
    now okay a pharmacy tech so yeah I
  • 00:05:17
    that's not where I want to stay but I
  • 00:05:19
    don't know what I want to do so been
  • 00:05:21
    thinking about that a lot
  • 00:05:23
    recently where else have you been inide
  • 00:05:25
    of
  • 00:05:26
    Miami uh let's see call Colorado Las
  • 00:05:30
    Vegas Vermont but I think that's about
  • 00:05:33
    it you're a travel girl takes a lot of
  • 00:05:36
    confidence to go to a new city yeah I in
  • 00:05:39
    Miami ah you've been here with friends
  • 00:05:41
    before or by yourself with friends okay
  • 00:05:44
    usually this is my first time goinging
  • 00:05:45
    out by myself actually okay so what have
  • 00:05:48
    you done that was exciting this
  • 00:05:50
    time well like I said I don't really
  • 00:05:53
    have any crazy plans we're just trying
  • 00:05:55
    to relax and think so ah you relax and
  • 00:05:58
    think from Utah that's
  • 00:06:00
    crazy just life I guess right you have
  • 00:06:03
    to get away from where you usually are
  • 00:06:04
    change your season is the ice cream good
  • 00:06:07
    it's that's helping you
  • 00:06:09
    relax yes it is actually that's dope
  • 00:06:12
    okay so what are you doing later today
  • 00:06:15
    uh nothing just probably going to go and
  • 00:06:17
    eat somewhere by yourself that's a
  • 00:06:20
    pretty boring life supposed to do
  • 00:06:22
    because I'm by myself I'm not supposed
  • 00:06:24
    to do anything no I'm I think you can
  • 00:06:25
    have a good time it's just it's kind of
  • 00:06:27
    lonely don't you think B can get yeah
  • 00:06:29
    yeah uh I'm I don't know I have a good
  • 00:06:31
    time with myself I guess I make myself
  • 00:06:33
    off it's a little crazy but I think I'm
  • 00:06:35
    funny you okay so okay I won't keep it
  • 00:06:38
    too long I got to get going but um Susie
  • 00:06:42
    right okay we should hang out I'm done
  • 00:06:45
    yeah I'm in town four more days don't
  • 00:06:48
    got a lot going on so okay I'm going get
  • 00:06:51
    your number okay cool yes you're going
  • 00:06:54
    to have a typ CU
  • 00:06:56
    cover 385 I'm I'm going to shoot your
  • 00:06:59
    text all right well nice meeting all
  • 00:07:02
    right by ladies how you guys doing today
  • 00:07:05
    good how are you how are you I'm great
  • 00:07:06
    what's your name Steph and Rano okay
  • 00:07:09
    where you guys from London London yeah
  • 00:07:12
    we brought you in Miami holiday holiday
  • 00:07:14
    yeah holiday free holiday to the holiday
  • 00:07:16
    yeah ah how you guys liking it it's good
  • 00:07:19
    it's fun yeah it it's really fun what
  • 00:07:21
    have you dancing for nothing nothing
  • 00:07:23
    yall at the beach now it's beautiful no
  • 00:07:25
    we've been at the beach we've been
  • 00:07:26
    eating all the food I went jet skiing we
  • 00:07:29
    went
  • 00:07:29
    skin like that how long you guys here
  • 00:07:32
    for till tomorrow yeah only 3 days what
  • 00:07:35
    it's a pre holiday yeah we're going to
  • 00:07:37
    so y'all flew like 8 hours away to spend
  • 00:07:39
    we going Miami I
  • 00:07:42
    mean Jamaica Jamaica ah so how long yall
  • 00:07:46
    on vacation for 10 days 10 days okay
  • 00:07:49
    where else yall going aside from Jamaica
  • 00:07:52
    say that you know annual leave is only a
  • 00:07:54
    time out you only got so many days off
  • 00:07:58
    okay we got to go back to F so I don't
  • 00:08:00
    know much about London girls like what
  • 00:08:01
    fill me in what what do what what don't
  • 00:08:03
    I know what do you want to know tell me
  • 00:08:05
    the best the best what what about London
  • 00:08:07
    girls is different I'm glad there's not
  • 00:08:10
    that much there's not much have you guys
  • 00:08:12
    experienced American guys you American
  • 00:08:14
    guys are l so sorry from what we've
  • 00:08:16
    experienced here I like the way that
  • 00:08:18
    American guys are more
  • 00:08:20
    forward American guys are like they're
  • 00:08:23
    down to be obsessed with their babes
  • 00:08:25
    London guys are always like oh that's b
  • 00:08:27
    g bro that's n like going to do
  • 00:08:31
    that yeah they'll be like I love that
  • 00:08:34
    girl I'm here how y experienc that that
  • 00:08:37
    quickly they y be no but they just like
  • 00:08:39
    they'll come up to you and be like oh my
  • 00:08:40
    God you're so beautiful you would never
  • 00:08:42
    hear that in London like they'll just be
  • 00:08:43
    like oh like can I shout to you
  • 00:08:46
    like they would never be like they never
  • 00:08:49
    approach you properly gotcha okay what
  • 00:08:52
    do you guys what are you doing may today
  • 00:08:53
    you're going out uh I think so yeah yeah
  • 00:08:56
    where you going exchange exchange change
  • 00:08:59
    you got I'm guessing you guys got
  • 00:09:00
    invited there
  • 00:09:03
    yeah no that's that's what they normally
  • 00:09:05
    do out here where's the place to be I
  • 00:09:08
    not really a club guy as you can see I'm
  • 00:09:10
    like into fitness so I don't really go
  • 00:09:11
    out anyway I got to get going it was
  • 00:09:14
    nice talking to Y nice talking to what
  • 00:09:15
    is y'
  • 00:09:18
    Instagrams
  • 00:09:20
    okay it was nice talking to you same to
  • 00:09:22
    you your name is what NAA okay where you
  • 00:09:26
    from from Miami really how long you wait
  • 00:09:30
    most people are not from here from here
  • 00:09:33
    you grew up in Miami yeah okay I just
  • 00:09:35
    moved out here like two months ago uh
  • 00:09:39
    Louisiana so what do you do I'm a LIF
  • 00:09:42
    guard you a lifu guard that's
  • 00:09:44
    interesting where do you do life God at
  • 00:09:47
    uh the hotel is right there cinam so you
  • 00:09:50
    like in school what yeah going to going
  • 00:09:53
    to college you're in college right now
  • 00:09:55
    I'm going to college okay where you
  • 00:09:57
    going to study biology biology what made
  • 00:10:00
    you pick that because only be plastic
  • 00:10:02
    surgeon so plastic surgeon yeah that
  • 00:10:06
    sounds kind of
  • 00:10:07
    complicated it is what made you pick
  • 00:10:10
    that I like making people feel beautiful
  • 00:10:14
    okay that plastic surgery I want to do I
  • 00:10:16
    want to do reconstructive plastic
  • 00:10:18
    surgery okay so like Sting into a car
  • 00:10:20
    accident and they go to the hospital and
  • 00:10:22
    they get surgery there like I would fix
  • 00:10:25
    whatever they did St plastic surgery m
  • 00:10:29
    helping them stay alive
  • 00:10:31
    but helping them stay alive yeah okay Oh
  • 00:10:35
    you mean like people who go through like
  • 00:10:36
    adverse situations oh okay that's
  • 00:10:39
    interesting so what do you do for
  • 00:10:42
    fun eat sleep explore eat sleep that's
  • 00:10:47
    what you're doing in the mall today
  • 00:10:48
    you're just walking around I'm on my
  • 00:10:50
    break right now so so what would you
  • 00:10:52
    recommend for somebody who's new here or
  • 00:10:53
    just wants to do something fun
  • 00:10:57
    um I don't know M me isn't that fun what
  • 00:11:01
    yes it is it's not it depends on what
  • 00:11:04
    you what you consider fun
  • 00:11:06
    though I feel like everything is the
  • 00:11:09
    same it's different versions of the same
  • 00:11:11
    thing really
  • 00:11:13
    so I like to like explore new things
  • 00:11:17
    restaurants and stuff like that I think
  • 00:11:18
    Miami has a lot of that and you don't
  • 00:11:19
    think so the restaurants are overrated
  • 00:11:21
    and expensive really well it's probably
  • 00:11:24
    because you're a little you on the
  • 00:11:25
    younger side so
  • 00:11:27
    it so what do you do for
  • 00:11:31
    fun outside from
  • 00:11:34
    lifeguard I just hang out with you hang
  • 00:11:37
    out with what hang out with my twin okay
  • 00:11:40
    that's what's up go out yesterday we
  • 00:11:43
    were in today before we were in Midtown
  • 00:11:48
    okay okay well that makes a lot of sense
  • 00:11:52
    it was nice getting to know you um maybe
  • 00:11:54
    we should hang out sometime another day
  • 00:11:57
    uh do you have like I'm I'm going to
  • 00:11:59
    give you what's your number I'm going to
  • 00:12:01
    get your number cool yeah nice to meet
  • 00:12:04
    nice to meet you all right I'm going let
  • 00:12:05
    you keep going have a good day you too
  • 00:12:07
    all right bye okay so you've seen the
  • 00:12:09
    approaches now I'm going to explain to
  • 00:12:11
    you exactly how you should approach
  • 00:12:13
    women and the best framework in
  • 00:12:16
    approaching women so I look at
  • 00:12:17
    approaching women in three specific
  • 00:12:19
    stages the introduction phase the
  • 00:12:21
    conversation phase and the conclusion
  • 00:12:24
    phase so what is the introduction phase
  • 00:12:26
    when you're going up to a girl the only
  • 00:12:29
    thing that you should be saying is
  • 00:12:31
    excuse me hey my name is so and so or
  • 00:12:35
    even better you go and you say Hey you
  • 00:12:38
    seem interesting I noticed you so I came
  • 00:12:41
    up and introduced myself hey Samantha
  • 00:12:44
    you seem interesting I came up and
  • 00:12:46
    introduced myself my name is so and so
  • 00:12:48
    look at the verbiage here interesting
  • 00:12:51
    not that I'm interested we ain't [ __ ]
  • 00:12:54
    leading with validation you should never
  • 00:12:56
    go up to a girl and the first thing you
  • 00:12:57
    say is I think think you're hot I came
  • 00:13:00
    up to you cuz I think you're beautiful
  • 00:13:02
    you put yourself in a weaker position
  • 00:13:05
    the woman already know you're interested
  • 00:13:08
    that's why I say you seem interesting
  • 00:13:12
    the conversation is going to let me know
  • 00:13:14
    if I am interested in you this intro is
  • 00:13:18
    going to make or break how the
  • 00:13:21
    interaction goes gar [ __ ] T you you
  • 00:13:23
    go up to these [ __ ] girls you listen
  • 00:13:25
    to these [ __ ] gurus on the internet
  • 00:13:27
    telling you go leave with a compliment
  • 00:13:29
    get the [ __ ] out of here the girl
  • 00:13:31
    already knows that you're attracted to
  • 00:13:32
    her when you go up to her you don't have
  • 00:13:33
    to you don't have to lead with that
  • 00:13:35
    because now she knows that she has the
  • 00:13:38
    upper hand I don't know if I want to
  • 00:13:40
    take you out I have to see if this
  • 00:13:43
    conversation goes the way I want before
  • 00:13:45
    I can invite you to be a part of my life
  • 00:13:47
    I know what the [ __ ] I bring to the
  • 00:13:48
    table look at me young handsome
  • 00:13:51
    successful I know what the [ __ ] I bring
  • 00:13:52
    to the table even if you don't have
  • 00:13:54
    those kind of accolades have some
  • 00:13:55
    [ __ ] self-belief I ain't juggling
  • 00:13:58
    balls in front of your damn face to get
  • 00:14:00
    you on a [ __ ] date if I don't like
  • 00:14:02
    you in this conversation we don't got
  • 00:14:03
    nothing to talk about so I need you guys
  • 00:14:06
    to have outcome Independence at any
  • 00:14:09
    moment you have the free will to walk
  • 00:14:11
    away and say this is not the girl I want
  • 00:14:12
    to go out with you should not already be
  • 00:14:14
    sold on who she is just because she got
  • 00:14:16
    a fat ass in the pretty face have more
  • 00:14:19
    [ __ ] standards man that's why I don't
  • 00:14:21
    want you to leave with compliments I
  • 00:14:23
    don't know if I like you sure you look
  • 00:14:25
    good what else I look good too I know
  • 00:14:28
    your life is going to get better by
  • 00:14:29
    [ __ ] with me I'm trying to see how my
  • 00:14:31
    life is going to improve by [ __ ] with
  • 00:14:32
    you I know I'm the man I know I got to
  • 00:14:34
    come up here and make the approach I
  • 00:14:35
    know it's my job but you got to show me
  • 00:14:38
    why I got to take you out why I should
  • 00:14:40
    take you out if you don't have that
  • 00:14:42
    mindset you're going to get crushed bro
  • 00:14:43
    you're going to always have anxiety
  • 00:14:45
    you're going to always feel unsure about
  • 00:14:47
    yourself I ain't no [ __ ] way I'm
  • 00:14:48
    unsure about myself talking to no damn
  • 00:14:50
    girl I have approached hundreds of girls
  • 00:14:52
    even when I was just starting out she's
  • 00:14:54
    just a woman humanize her she's not some
  • 00:14:56
    perfect [ __ ] being she's not a
  • 00:14:58
    unicorn
  • 00:14:59
    she shits and pools just like you and if
  • 00:15:01
    you a man you a leader you're a provider
  • 00:15:03
    this chick is she be she'll be proven to
  • 00:15:05
    you why she you should provide for her I
  • 00:15:08
    ain't letting you be a part of my I
  • 00:15:09
    ain't begging you to be a part of my
  • 00:15:10
    life so I can [ __ ] provide it's
  • 00:15:12
    insane guys so that's the introduction
  • 00:15:15
    hey I noticed you you seem interesting
  • 00:15:17
    so I came up to introduce myself my name
  • 00:15:19
    is FedEx phis now the conversation phase
  • 00:15:21
    of this is you're simply going to ask
  • 00:15:24
    her questions about who she is you can
  • 00:15:27
    pick the environment what she's doing
  • 00:15:29
    like whatever it is something simple I
  • 00:15:31
    don't want you to memorize anything and
  • 00:15:33
    then you just ask her followup questions
  • 00:15:35
    from her responses you should be doing
  • 00:15:37
    more listening than talking when you're
  • 00:15:39
    approaching girls that makes you sound
  • 00:15:42
    confident when
  • 00:15:45
    you when you're talking so much you seem
  • 00:15:48
    like you're anxious it seems scripted
  • 00:15:51
    when you're trying to say the right
  • 00:15:53
    things it seems
  • 00:15:55
    scripted scripted looks unconfident cuz
  • 00:15:58
    you can't can't just go up to her and be
  • 00:15:59
    a normal human being women would rather
  • 00:16:01
    you not memorize anything just speak to
  • 00:16:04
    her like she's a normal person she would
  • 00:16:05
    be more attracted to you that way then
  • 00:16:07
    you having a [ __ ] script in your head
  • 00:16:09
    so you should be doing more listening
  • 00:16:11
    than you are talking does she live in
  • 00:16:13
    this city access she's from around here
  • 00:16:15
    ask her what she does when the an she
  • 00:16:18
    gives you you follow up on those things
  • 00:16:20
    that makes you seem more in the moment
  • 00:16:22
    that makes you seem like a great
  • 00:16:23
    listener that makes you seem like a
  • 00:16:25
    confident man now I want to see if she's
  • 00:16:28
    asking me questions about myself is she
  • 00:16:30
    interested in me cuz it ain't it ain't
  • 00:16:32
    enough for me just to be interested in
  • 00:16:33
    her does she ask me any questions back
  • 00:16:36
    does she ask me what I do what's the
  • 00:16:38
    point of me going out with a girl that
  • 00:16:39
    doesn't ask me anything about me you
  • 00:16:42
    talking to these girls they giving you
  • 00:16:43
    onew answers they closed body language
  • 00:16:46
    they're not interested they're giving
  • 00:16:47
    you clear signs of disinterest I walk
  • 00:16:49
    away at any moment you feel like the
  • 00:16:51
    girl is not interested in you like
  • 00:16:53
    you're forcing the conversation like you
  • 00:16:55
    having a [ __ ] Soliloquy like you're
  • 00:16:57
    talking to your damn self have a nice
  • 00:17:00
    day this is how you [ __ ] approach
  • 00:17:02
    women [ __ ] all this [ __ ] you heard
  • 00:17:04
    on the [ __ ] internet anything else
  • 00:17:05
    you're doing that is that isn't this
  • 00:17:07
    you're setting yourself up to when you
  • 00:17:09
    get this girl's number when you stay in
  • 00:17:11
    the [ __ ] set when you just go
  • 00:17:13
    approach you you're practicing bad
  • 00:17:16
    habits you're practicing taking a weaker
  • 00:17:19
    position and I don't want you to do that
  • 00:17:21
    I want you to practice taking having
  • 00:17:22
    leverage I want you to practice inviting
  • 00:17:24
    women that you actually want to see
  • 00:17:26
    again on a date I'm perfectly fine with
  • 00:17:29
    you walking away from a conversation
  • 00:17:31
    because the girl is showing signs of not
  • 00:17:33
    being interested and you saving your
  • 00:17:34
    time then for you to be getting a girl's
  • 00:17:37
    number who's going to flake on you
  • 00:17:38
    regardless who's going to give you one
  • 00:17:40
    word answers who's going to not show up
  • 00:17:42
    on a date I don't want my guys to get
  • 00:17:44
    their time wased this is the [ __ ]
  • 00:17:45
    best way to approach women if she's
  • 00:17:47
    interested in you if she's asking you
  • 00:17:49
    questions back perfect now I'm going to
  • 00:17:51
    invite you to do something a part of my
  • 00:17:53
    life so the end part of this the
  • 00:17:55
    conclusion part of this we should hang
  • 00:17:56
    out we should do this not what's your
  • 00:17:59
    number first you never accept the number
  • 00:18:02
    without a date you never take her
  • 00:18:05
    Snapchat her Instagram her social media
  • 00:18:08
    without her agreeing to a date I'm
  • 00:18:10
    asking for social media cuz my Instagram
  • 00:18:12
    gives me leverage that's an interest
  • 00:18:13
    amplifier right when girls see my
  • 00:18:15
    Instagram they are more intrigued if you
  • 00:18:17
    don't have a good Instagram you take the
  • 00:18:18
    number you're still working on that but
  • 00:18:20
    you don't get the contact information
  • 00:18:22
    whatsoever unless she's agreed to hang
  • 00:18:24
    out with you this saves you so much
  • 00:18:27
    [ __ ] okay tell you all the [ __ ]
  • 00:18:29
    I see on the internet telling girl guys
  • 00:18:31
    to go yeah just get the number like
  • 00:18:33
    numbers in the [ __ ] accomplishment
  • 00:18:35
    these girls get their number to
  • 00:18:36
    everybody they don't give a [ __ ] you
  • 00:18:37
    message her she ain't going to respond
  • 00:18:39
    what the [ __ ] is a number numbers don't
  • 00:18:40
    mean [ __ ] getting her Instagram doesn't
  • 00:18:42
    mean [ __ ] unless that's what you want
  • 00:18:45
    because it makes you look better but if
  • 00:18:47
    she's if you ask her for her number and
  • 00:18:49
    she gives you her Instagram you tell her
  • 00:18:50
    have a nice day she's not interested she
  • 00:18:53
    wants you to be one of her followers if
  • 00:18:55
    you got a fire Instagram and you you
  • 00:18:57
    know that your Instagram
  • 00:18:58
    is how you communicate with women cuz I
  • 00:19:00
    don't even I barely give girls my
  • 00:19:01
    numbers because my Instagram is so fire
  • 00:19:04
    that I mean that's how that's how I talk
  • 00:19:06
    to the majority of girls I talk to 99%
  • 00:19:09
    of girls don't even get my number only
  • 00:19:11
    girls that have my number are girls I'm
  • 00:19:12
    seeing for a while because I have the
  • 00:19:15
    upper hand I'm the one with leverage
  • 00:19:16
    here all right if you don't have that
  • 00:19:18
    kind of Instagram no problem you get the
  • 00:19:20
    number but you don't accept the number
  • 00:19:22
    without a date you know why that's that
  • 00:19:24
    makes your life easy so when you reach
  • 00:19:26
    out to her guess what y'all talking
  • 00:19:27
    about
  • 00:19:29
    the date that y'all agreed to in person
  • 00:19:31
    not chitchatting about [ __ ] nothing
  • 00:19:33
    not you playing the long game trying to
  • 00:19:36
    eventually get on the date and she's
  • 00:19:37
    wasting your [ __ ] time that's what
  • 00:19:39
    happens 99% of the time you accept the
  • 00:19:42
    number you accept the Instagram and then
  • 00:19:44
    now you got to beg her you got to damn
  • 00:19:45
    near beg the girl to go on a date you
  • 00:19:47
    like bro you gave me your contact
  • 00:19:49
    information she don't give a [ __ ] women
  • 00:19:51
    to give you their contact information
  • 00:19:52
    and don't give a [ __ ] contact
  • 00:19:54
    information doesn't mean [ __ ] if she
  • 00:19:55
    doesn't agree to a date I've had girls
  • 00:19:57
    where I have a good conversation with
  • 00:19:59
    then I go to ask them out guys and they
  • 00:20:00
    be like oh well I have a boyfriend I'm
  • 00:20:03
    like [ __ ] the beta bitching me wants to
  • 00:20:06
    still accept her number the better
  • 00:20:08
    bitching me still wants to get her
  • 00:20:10
    Instagram because I had a good
  • 00:20:11
    conversation conversation don't mean
  • 00:20:13
    [ __ ] something call fallacy states that
  • 00:20:15
    people tend to not let go of an
  • 00:20:17
    investment because they've invested so
  • 00:20:19
    you've invested in the interaction you
  • 00:20:21
    want to leave with something don't have
  • 00:20:23
    that mindset it'll it it'll lead you to
  • 00:20:25
    more frustration with women it'll lead
  • 00:20:27
    you to more heart break women cuz you be
  • 00:20:29
    getting these girls numbers that you
  • 00:20:30
    might have a good conversation with and
  • 00:20:32
    they'll waste your [ __ ] time if she
  • 00:20:34
    doesn't agree to a date I don't get her
  • 00:20:35
    contact information if I invite her to
  • 00:20:38
    come be a part of my life and she says
  • 00:20:39
    anything but yes have a nice day this is
  • 00:20:43
    how you approach women ain't no
  • 00:20:45
    [ __ ] way you can convince me
  • 00:20:47
    that there's a better framework out
  • 00:20:49
    there on how to approach them to where
  • 00:20:51
    you're not looking weak you're vetting
  • 00:20:53
    the girl in the process you you coming
  • 00:20:55
    across as confident and not scripted
  • 00:20:58
    and you're not leaving the [ __ ]
  • 00:21:00
    interaction with just the [ __ ] the
  • 00:21:04
    digits that don't mean [ __ ] and you're
  • 00:21:06
    not spending a long a long time doing
  • 00:21:07
    you're not spending 5 minutes talking to
  • 00:21:09
    the girl 30 minutes talking to the girl
  • 00:21:10
    I want to approaching to be a part of
  • 00:21:12
    your life not some [ __ ] big ass event
  • 00:21:14
    that you got to go take out time and go
  • 00:21:16
    run through the mall and go waste the
  • 00:21:18
    [ __ ] time I want my guys to have [ __ ]
  • 00:21:20
    going on the majority of my guys I know
  • 00:21:21
    you guys are hardworking you're working
  • 00:21:23
    on your business you got [ __ ] to do you
  • 00:21:24
    don't got [ __ ] time to be running
  • 00:21:26
    across town trying to approach chicks
  • 00:21:28
    you got [ __ ] to do so this is how you
  • 00:21:30
    approach women if you're a busy man that
  • 00:21:32
    got other things going on in your life
  • 00:21:34
    that don't have time to be wasting
  • 00:21:35
    running run running across town trying
  • 00:21:37
    to chase girls you make approaching a
  • 00:21:39
    part of your life and this is how you
  • 00:21:41
    approach women guys if you guys enjoyed
  • 00:21:43
    this kind of video you want to see more
  • 00:21:44
    of it let me know in the comments like
  • 00:21:46
    comment subscribe share the video get
  • 00:21:49
    back with you guys next time
标签
  • dating advice
  • confidence
  • conversation tips
  • men's self-improvement
  • relationship skills
  • communication
  • approaching women
  • social skills
  • dating strategies
  • self-belief